Get that gf yet, /fit/?

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dont want to talk about it

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2017 is gonna be our year..r-right guys

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>>39662888
I did.

Somehow less happy after dating for almost a year.

>>39662888
>not realizing the woman knows she is way below your league

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>>39662888
Yes actually, thanks for asking.

You need a huge cock to even get them to remember you as anything but another faceless cuckold.

How does it feel that women remember being screwed by Chad's massive Monster can dong just as much as they remember the birth of their children, graduating college, and unwrapping their puppy on Christmas?

They remember Chad's cock when they're in the nursing home even if they forget the name of their own kids

>>39662888
at first I didn't get it, but then I realized... he has cancer :(

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>>39662888

>>39662888
No. I haven't actively been trying: I'm getting my money straight, and I'm still not totally over the last couple women I was with.

>why can't I just be a fuckboy like what everyone wants?

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>>39662888
Is there a worse feeling?
A man without a true woman, without a qt3.14 gf that only exists in his dreams...
The type of girl that hugs you and whispers to your ear that you are precious to her.
A girl that would never betray you and always support you and cheer you up with a smile and a kiss.
>tfw no gf
We are (not) gonna make it bros...

>>39662888
a girl that ive only seen at uni and never talked to, said hi to me before looking down and turning red and then walked away really fast, im autismo so how do i exploit this

>>39663011
im afraid not.
but one can hope :c
i just want a soft qtpie i can snuggle and cuddle with

>>39662888
I'm sleeping with a girl who goes down my boxing club.

I don't like myself enough to have confidence that she'll get with me though; I don't drink alcohol or do drugs anymore and i view myself as a boring person. I'm literally cocoon mode boxing 5 nights a week which is how I met her.

Wat do /fit/? I'm really enjoying getting laid and spending time with her.

>>39662998

I've unironically done this with qt's. Didn't feel confident enough to sit next to them so I sit behind so I have eye candy to look at.

Wonder if this has ever happened to me or if it's 1st pic every time.

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>>39662958

It only gets worse. The first year is the best. She will slowly let her guard down and reveal all the insecurities and drama. She will always compare you to "how you were in the beginning." You will have arguments over asinine things whenever she wants attention. Having sex will start to be mundane, almost chore-like. Eventually your only excuse for being with her will be the sunken time fallacy and the dread of going through all the bullshit again with someone else.

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>>39663058
>Having sex will start to be mundane, almost chore-like.

stopped reading there

>>39663040
I found that people who don't respect your lift decisions are generally not interested and with nitpick anything. Girls (and brehs) who have respect for you, frame your decisions within that respect.

So if you say drugs aren't for you, the good ones will respect you for making that decisions to abstain and the stuck up ones will judge you for not partaking.

Also as you get older people stop caring about whether you do or don't do something.

>>39663011
Not with that attitude, champ.

>>39663081

You're either very lucky or you've never been with someone for more than a year. The initial excitement always wears off, if only for a few months. Relationships always work in cycles. Most of the time you respark the attraction, but the more that time goes on it gets harder and harder to spark that animalistic attraction.

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>Have a date next week
>We were FWB about a year ago until circumstances forced us to end it
>We like all the same shit, and get along super well.
>Have feels
>Doubt she has feels, not because I have any evidence, but because 90% of girls I date just use me for sex
>Am really hoping that she wants to be gf'ed, though I know that she probably just wants to get laid

Wish me luck bros.

>>39663183
You deserve better anon, dont lose yourself in amidst of sluts and girls who do not see who you are beyond your charm/looks.

>>39662888
/fit/ I've got a big problem here. As I see things, the final barricade between me and a CUTE Japanese girlfriend is that I have some trouble telling Asians apart, for example if I look at a picture of several Japanese girls together and then another picture of them in different places, it would take me a minute to figure out who is who, and there is almost no chance I would recognize one of them if I saw them again more than fifteen minutes later. I am confident I could recognize someone that I was dating, but I am afraid I would come off as racist if she saw me being unable to identify someone else. Can I improve my ability to tell them apart by practicing with pictures? Are Asians understanding when dumb burgerlanders have trouble telling them apart?

>>39663205
Thanks breh. If she just wants sex, I'm gonna reject it. Its not worth it anymore.

She might actually want more; she's been acting more affectionate than when we were just fucking. But I've heard "I like you, but I just don't want a relationship right now" from so many people, I've become a bit cynical.

>>39662942
2017 will hopefully be the year I finally kill myself.

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>>39662888
Nice digits.
Havent found a gf yet, but i find that picking up hobbies makes me feel less bad about, and im starting to really red pill myself to not give a fuck anymore.
And id rather play vidya anyways than pick up girls.

>>39663183
you better repress your clinginess and desire for feels until at least the 3rd date or you will repel her immediately

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>>39663040
Tf you going on about

Here's what you do; works for me every time.

Keep fucking her. But the next time you bed her, get really sensual. Stroke deep and long. Make and maintain alil eye contact. Kiss her neck and hold her like you may never have another opportunity.

Then when the moment is right progressively speed the Hell up until you've got a hot rhythm going. Really grip her tight. For holds I always go for a hand and some hair cause intertwined fingers mean something. Bonus points if you can give it to her prone bone style and have the back of her hand in your palm.

To seal the deal you have to finish exactly when she does. Srsly. If the two of you haven't caught deep feels for one another yet then finishing in unison will bait you into tfw you do.

Don't cuddle up to her afterwards. Lay back like a boss with your arm around her shoulders and pull her close to cuddle up to you. Stroke that bitches hair and enjoy the silence.

Then break the silence as calm and as cool as you can with, "Let's make this a thing"

They'll know exactly what you mean, and the chemistry firing off between you should be firing off so hard she'll practically blurt out "Okay!"

Hasn't failed me yet. Currently in a six year long relationship with 0 breakups and 0 breaks.

>>39663246
Mate they say we all look the same so dont feel guilty or anything.

>>39663250
Yeah, it can be hard, but its harder when you get attached to someone and that feeling isnt reciprocated.
If you want to have someone to care of and be taken care of in return you should search for someone in the same wave-lenght as you.
Trust me, its shitty when you love someone who doesnt think about you the same way and takes advantage of your situation, but if she did develop genuine feelings for you, who knows, wait for the day and see how things go.

>>39663283
Of course all this works. It's easier said than done though.

>>39663269
I agree with this advice, but this is date #2, and we were sleeping together for a solid 4 months 1.5 years ago. I'm not gonna ask her to be my gf or anything either (god knows I don't wanna jump into a relationship.)

Still, I don't want to waste my time, so I'm just gonna ask her what she wants from this.

>>39662961
That's how I feel when a woman chooses to sit next to some cuck rather than me. I intimidate

>>39663246
You may want to try and watch asian movies/series. It will be good practice.

>>39663246
A new (asian) girl started at my work the other day, managed to offend her during our first conversation:
>so where are you from?
>can't you tell? Well, guess!
>*panic* uhh China?
>Seriously? Well, it's close to there at least
>Oh.. South Korea then?
>*literal LOL* oh my God
>Well I gave up then
>Vietnam!
>Oh right, cool. Which city?
>The capital. *walks off*

Guess I'm just an ignorant racist asshole.

>>39663246
Its normal to not be able to tell asians apart if your a different race. In my experience asians dont give a fuck as long as you arent trying to be racist. the only people who would accuse you of being racist are the ultra "progressive" white

>>39663318
No, you're just uneducated.

>>39663318
What the fuck. I'm from burgerland, and I've been asked where I'm from when visiting foreign countries. How the fuck would a Jap (or really any foreign country) know that I was from America as opposed to Canada, Europe, or fucking South Africa?

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>>39663304
JUST DO IT

I'm 29, been seeing this fat/chubby cute chick i've had a fling with before a couple months ago for a few weeks now. she's sweet, she's 22, and in school, and she acts really fucking stupid young sometime. that's not the worst problem. she's mega catholic. purity ring and everything. takes it off anytime she comes around my place. she would be decent gf material, but i haven't had sex with her yet because she says she'll refuse to have an abortion if one happens, and i'd rather not deal with that shit. i have dates on monday and tuesday with a couple really fine chicks, so I'm not sure what to do with her.

>>39662888
For an entire week...

;;

>>39663058
>Eventually your only excuse for being with her will be the sunken time fallacy and the dread of going through all the bullshit again with someone else.

iktf

>>39663318
If this is a true story and she was actually offended, she is just a bitch. I wouldn't go to an Asian country and say
>guess what country I'm from!
>france?
>wrong continent you stupid fuck
>america
>ok but guess which state!
>new york?
>wrong missouri you asshole

>>39663311
you can always just tell her it's what you want without asking her what she wants.

convo between me and my gf:
"You know I want you to be my gf right?"
"Yeah I'm not ready for relationship"
"Ok."

2 weeks later she calls me up "Please be my boyfriend"


they don't even really know what they want, so direct them.

>>39663283

Please tell me she isn't a man

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>act like an alpha around everyone you know
>deep down you will ALWAYS be a beta

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>>39663363
Thats a bit quick. I'm not head over heels for her. We get along, like all the same shit, and I have feelings for her (which is rare for me.) That being said, we have only seen each other in passing the last year or so, so I'd like a/l 2 more dates under my belt with her before we actually make it official. Make sure I don't notice any red flags.

That being said, I'd like to make sure we are on the same page before wasting my time on all that.

>>39663046
I used to do this as well. If my options were sitting next to two different girls, I would absolutely take the less attractive because girls made me nervous.

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>>39663058
this is me right now. gf for 5.5 years. Hasn't cheated on me, but between all the other bullshit we fight about I feel it would be easier to just end it. I'm too beta to do it though because of your points

Managed to get a girl interested but I'm pretty sure she's losing interest in my bitch ass quickly because I find it hard to escalate

Maybe next year will be my year fellas

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I DONT EVEN WANT A GF

>>39663318

Next time try knowing her last name first.

Nguyen - Probably Vietnam
Kim/Park/Jung/Lee/Choi - Probably Korea
Cheung - Probably China
Is 2D - Probably Japanese

Just call her agent orange from now on.

>>39663400
i know the feel.
but you know what.
it doesnt matter how you feel inside.
what matters is how people perceives you

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>>39662888

I'm working on it m8.

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Yes. We actually broke up today, a couple of hours ago. Her reasoning was that I wasn't giving her enough attention. Such is life. At least I got rid of the KHH from my wizard apprentice status.

>>39663040
She goes down on your boxing club? Jesus have some self respect you cuck

If you want emotional support go to >>>/r9k/ or >>>/adv/ fucking faggots.
This is not your hugbox.

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Is that much to ask for a gf that's not under a 5/10?

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>>39663573
Fuck off newfag

>>39663573

(You)

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>2.5 years with gf
>realize I've put her over all my values and goals.
>nowonderifeellikeshit.png
>recalibrate, get serious in the gym again, read a lot, accomplish goals, get back together with old friends, start feeling good again
>gf gets really confrontational, irritable, angry.
>sleeps with some other dude to hurt me.
>kick her ass out, feel no pain.
>tfw anything could happen
>tfw no limits
>tfw no gf

>>39662888
>bus crowded as fuck
>the only free place in a bus is next to me
>a qt is looking for a place to sit
>her friends are sitting pretty close to me and yell to her that she can sit here
>she comes closer and looks at me
>says "nah, it's ok" and stands for half an hour

I guess fixing my hair, getting fit, dressing better and improving hygiene didn't help, heh. All the work I've put into getting more confident and feeling better about myself went to shit in just 15 seconds.

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>>39662888
she broke with me 2 motnh ago.
she found a new bf yesterday
i had a first date with a chick but i cant tell if she like me or not even if she say she do.
still have a 18yo chick on the side that i could potentialy get, but the chances get thiners by the day.

i'm feeling a bit sad tonight because of all this.

>>39663621
No. U.
>we've always done this so it's not cancer

>>39663720
Happens all the time to me and I still sleep with different girls weekly. Why give up after 1 fail?

>>39663621
Except he's right. Definitely filling out that janitor application next time.

>Going to do group project in a group with a qt in it
>talk to her all the time in class
>she seems to laugh a lot with me
>haven't heard her talk of a boyfriend in months, but she made a joke about a boyfriend like 2 months ago

Fuck, it makes me nervous. Also, I am pretty lean(calisthenics, young, genetics), gains don't show through clothes, although in some loose shirts you can see my pecs and abs. If only I had a chance to take my shirt off around a at. Once I had to change into a really tight old white basically see through t shirt for a photo, and a at who sat in front of me in a calc class who hadn't talked to me all year started giggling at my shitty non-jokes and making eye contact with me.

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I already gave up. Now I'm just striving for a physical perfection in order to kill myself once I will be at my peak to show everyone how absurd the human condition in XXI century became.

>>39663450
you should because it's clearly making you feel shit and you of all people should be the one the most happy

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>>39663046
>>39663422
How did you bros get over this?

>>39663799
"There he goes. One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die."

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>>39662888
yes but i still cant hit 1/2/3/4

>>39662984
How can people this toxic? Where it did it go wrong for you man?

>>39662958
YOU FELL FOR THE VAGINAL JEW

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>>39663058
It sounds like you have gone through what I will be going through? How has life been afterwards?

>>39663754
You would do it for no charge?

>>39663058
>>39663839
No relationship is the same anons

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>>39663799
somehow reminds me of this quote

>>39663839

It all works in cycles. When things get bad, you'll usually have a big fight, make up and then put more effort into the relationship. Then things will be great for a few months and slowly get boring again. Rinse and repeat.

Eventually most people just get to the point where they don't care enough to bother fighting and resign themselves to a loveless relationship.

>>39663846

Sure, every car is different too, but they fundamentally follow the same design pattern.

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>22 years old
>never had a gf
>spend all my time working, working out or sitting at my computer
>only meet the few friends I have to go on drug binges

Though it seems impossible to find a girl I'll get along with, I try to stay positive.

>>39663855

It's a good quote. I love Bukowski, but that is a fake.

http://www.houstonpress.com/arts/did-charles-bukowski-really-say-find-what-you-love-and-let-it-kill-you-6376127

>>39663879
>the same design pattern.
Not really a car is a car and a relationship between two people is something that needs work from both parties and if the girl starts talking smack about you how you're not like in the beginning phase then honestly fuck her and not literally

It's just how it works

>>39663901
ahh i see. Ive never really read Bukowski just like the quote lol

>tfw no chubby filipina GF

>>39663903

>if a girl talks smack about you like you're not in the beginning phase then honestly fuck her and not literally

You've obviously never been in a relationship.

>>39663547
(you)

She goes down my club you faggot; as in "she goes training there". She isn't a fighter though; she is just into fitness and she also does gymnastics and cool shit like that. I don't know if I'm capable of loving anybody; but I like her as a person and I think she'd be good to keep around me because shes just as motivated as I am to keep fit and train.

Plus shes /fit/. I always used to check her out.

>>39663938
I have but that's not the point

The point is that if the girl keeps whining about how it's no honeymoon phase it's her own fault for taking that phase for granted is all i'm saying

>>39663753
Not a fail really. I didn't yell to her, her friends did. I didn't do anythings. It was just like the world decided to tell me that I'm never going to make it.

>>39663931

Here are a few great Bukowski poems.

https://youtu.be/v6bBcKdQR2g
https://youtu.be/0o4GZuig-10

The laughing heart is my favorite.

https://youtu.be/FQNmu1Q9NzA

>>39663128
as someone who's longest relationship thus far has been 4 years, i spent the like maybe 1-2 years in the relationship dealing with all the bullshit just for the sex. i feel like if you legitimately don't enjoy at least fucking the person you're dating your relationship is garbage at all levels. and that's ok. you're not compatible with everyone. just move on.

>>39663984
i'd add that a good sex life is key to a good relationship

>>39663318
whenever you come across uppity asians just replace the word asia with china. ie what type of chinese are you? japanese or? oh vietnam what part of china is that in?

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>>39662888
Yeah and I have /fit/ to thank.
>thought I'd never recover after my ex fiance cheated on me while I was overseas
>then I met the light of my life after cocoon mode.

>>39663938
thank you /fit/

>>39663975
Thanks mate, i'll check them out

>>39663964
the world told president elect donald j trump he would fail and now here we are 3 weeks from inauguration and it's a shitty time to be a mexican living in america.

>>39663711
this kinda cheered me up, thx anon

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>>39664027
>light of my life
>fat ugly gook

>>39664027
I think there is a correlation between cocoon mode and getting a grill.

Maybe you've got cut yourself off from the world until you're ready; and then when you're ready the world will come and find you.

>>39664083
seems overly overcomplicated

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Just broke up with my gf of two years. Sometimes I wonder if I made the right choice.

>>39664102
wouldn't have had the thought of breaking up if there wasn't something wrong anon

>>39662888
Had my first one and lost my first one within a month

My parents thought it was unbecoming for me as a new attorney at 26 to have a 30 year old girlfriend who just joined the military as a private that I had to visit and sleep with in the barracks.

: /

>>39662998
I take the subway to work every day. On the way to work, I stand the entire way, sometimes next to/near cute girls, yet I don't talk to anyone, just headphones in looking out the window. On the way home, I get the same window seat and occasionally have cute girls sit next to me and neither of us speak a word or even look at each other

I would have no idea what to even say to these girls, esepcially when they have headphones in

Kill me guys

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>tfw on train of loosing all my friends because i was hitting on the oneitis of one of them while knowing that the said friend had interest in her

Now they don't even talk to me and since i live in a small town i'll be marked for the rest of my life. The era of the true friendless shunned outcast begins...

>>39664180
good. you deserve it.

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>>39664102
Yes. There's more to life than capitulating to the needs of someone else for affection. Go make something of your life until someone else comes along that loves you for you.

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>>39662888
>Meet literal 9/10. Amazing tits, amazing body, cute af, amazing personality
>We get on really well, she's on holiday with her family
>We call each other every day etc.
>We get super close with each other.
>Eventually we meet up and I get super clingy, try to kiss her, she rejects me.
>She tells me she doesn't see us together, doesn't want a relationship (aka you don't interest me)
>We have a ton of mutual friends so I see her around all the time
>23 years old, I've never felt such a strong connection with anyone before
>Never been in a relationship and this was probably my best chance to get one, with a girl that was amazing no less.
>Fucked it up
>It's been months and I still think about it/her
>Feel like I don't care about women anymore, I see girls in clubs/parties, but they don't look as attractive as her, so I don't feel that interested in them

This is honestly the worst type of feel. I feel old, unwanted and generally lost in life, I'm still in college, I still don't have a gf, I have few friends and life in general seems to just be pretty shit.

I feel so sad about my life sometimes that I genuinely don't know what to do.

I see her around a lot, but I never say anything besides "Hey" and I never get anything besides a reluctant "Hey" back. Whenever I see her somewhere in a club or when we all go out with my group of buddies/"friends" there's always like 15 of us so I never talk to her, I never bring it up etc.

>>39664197
this

i did. then i lost her. circumstances are a bit odd so I have this feeling she's going to come back, but I don't know what i'll do then.

until then it's just me and the iron brehs.

>>39664206
it's ok, bro. most of us have done exactly what you describe at some point in our lives. learn from it, grow and find another girl. there are tons of them.

>>39664231
same

>>39664206
I've been where you are now. Do your best in your college, cut all unnecessary contacts with her (find new friends), find some passion and concentrate on it. Otherwise you will become the same miserable self loathing piece of shit I am. Seriously dude, you are 23, no time to waste, there will be plenty of other girls in your life, just don't fuck up your mindset.

>>39664134


What are you, Indian?

>>39664206
>claims to have few friends
>goes to clubs and parties
>has a group of 15+ friends

wow fuck off

>>39664260
>eriously dude, you are 23, no time to waste,

This is what hits me most. I'm so old and I've lost the best years of my life already. There's nothing I can really do now. What passions? what can I do? All I do is lift and program, I'm not good at anything else. I hate my life so much that sometimes I don't even know what the point is anymore.

>>39663711
thats a sweet feels pic, hiking is the best

Lost her because of her depression and my anger issues

Kill me

>>39664273
>I'm so old and I've lost the best years of my life already.
are you retarded? you're 23. holy shit, get some perspective.

>>39664270
I'd actually call one or two of those people my actual friends. The other people are just people I sorta know.

>>39662888
I think he has cancer

>>39662888

No, but I made out with my 13 year old fem cousin. It was nice feeling loved.

>>39664273
had the same kind of mindset anon i'm turning 26 and at 23 i was thinking like you were

it'll go away

>>39663335
uneducated for not guessing a fucking asians nationality? they all fucking look the same, and mongoloids are in half of the fucking contintent
so gtfo

>>39663246

Hey I lived in Asia for 8 years, have a Japanese girlfriend and they still look very similar to me.

>>39663318

God, she sounds insufferable.

>>39664206
I share your pain, brother.
>met an amazing girl at a party sometime ago
>introduced by my best bro
>she is smart, funny, charming, caring and all-round amazing
>talk, laugh and go hiking and skiing together
>she just told me she hates the idea of dating someone
>sees us as just close friends

Why does this hurt so bad?

>>39664334
>>she just told me she hates the idea of dating someone
sure that's why she's telling YOU that it's a shit test anon

>>39664273
>I'm so old and I've lost the best years of my life already
Don't make me laugh. You are not a girl to hit the wall in your twenties. There's a whole life waiting for you if you won't just fuck your mindset eventually. Read a lot, travel a lot. If I understand you correctly you are a programmer, right? If so, then put a lot of effort into your degree and change the city immediately after the graduation. You will easily get job in other state/abroad, since that's basically the best job one can get these times. It'll help you to not think about her, and you'll have some evident new starting point to move on. I keep my fingers crossed.

>>39664334
since she doesn't want to date you, for whatever reason (there could be a million), the right thing to do is cut contact and find someone else. just trust me on this. keeping her in your life will just bring you excruciating pain.

>>39662888
>tfw, you are that greasy freak

>>39664177
Dude don't worry about it. Randomly talking to strangers on the subway/buss is fucking creepy anyway

>>39664400
why is that creepy to talk to people?

>>39662888
Yeah actually third date this friday.

>>39664092
let me simplify it.

To be wanted; you've gotta become someone worth wanting.

I went cocoon mode and met a grill after transforming myself; both physically and mentally. I hit rock bottom and I rebuilt myself and it was through training in cocoon mode that I met a girl at a fitness class.

>>39662888
Yea but zoloft has killed my sex drive. Fate is a cruel mistress.

>>39664456
most people are anti social, and you're a stranger, you don't actually know the person and it can be hard to meet new people, at a party talking to some people, sharing stories, you can see in their face they don't actually care and are only there because someone dragged them in, kind of sucks but i dont take it personally, the things i usually talk about most people will find boring anyway

>>39664489
what works for you doesn't have to work for everybody

>>39664522
Stop being so negative. You can do it.

>>39663058
go on plz

>>39664370
You are probably rigt, but I still love spending time with her. It`s just so relaxing and comforting, even though I know it will lead me nowhere...

>>39664529
not negative in any way

>>39663313
>I intimidate
me too hehee...a-alpha!

But what good is it when they are too intimidated to fugg?

>>39663481
Fucking lol. Here's your (you)

>>39664505
Depends on culture, really.

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>>39662888
Nope. Had a thing going with a qt from my gym, whom I had a crush on but, of course, after a month of non-stop texting, flirting, and sexting (she was in Europe for awhile) she dumped my ass for someone else. So thanks for reminding me.

This made me think about my life and I realized I hate everything about myself. I have a meh job, I have shit genetics and despite a near-1500 total I look like shit, I have mediocre facial aesthetics, I have barely any free time because of work and going to the gym, I'm too old and autistic now to meet high school or college girls, and I rarely get together with my friends anymore.

I think it's time to end it, lads. What would be a good method to killy myself without leaving a body, or making it unidentifiable?

>>39663058
THIS, exactly this

I'm fucking sick of obsessing over one girl for a year then moving on

If only I had like 5 or so girls I could talk to whenever.

I'd probably still feel lonely.

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>>39662984
>I'm the biggest she's ever been with
>thinks I'm huge
>only 6.5"
>not much girth
>she's just tight as hell
>tfw

>>39663128
15 years with my wife. Maybe I just got the right one for me, but it's still great.

The relationship changes over time, but so do you and she, so that should be expected.

The sex is getting better, not worse. Even now

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I only had one gf but I hated the person I became when I was in it

I don't think I'm made for relationships. Whenever I know anyone for more than a few years I go through a period of hating every last thing they do. I want to get a dog too but I know that part of my personality will probably make me hate the dog after a while too.


Why can't I just be a normie? ;-;

>>39663318
It was kind of a stupid question desu. What's the point of knowing the city she comes from if you don't know shit about that whole half of the world?

It's a deadend, bad conversation skills anon.

>>39663260
Same anon

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>>39663897
oh fug this is EXACTLY my situation

>my friends are all giving up and going into harder and harder drugs

this isn't going to end well

>>39663058
I was in a relationship for 10 years. We ended recently, two months ago. Well, I ended it, not her, she wanted to continue. Like most people I was scared of being alone and sometimes, now, I still feel very uncertain about my future (will I ever find another girlfriend, for example). About the sunk cost fallacy, my only advice is to not worry about it, because if a relationship gets to a point where it's actually a thing and you stick with it, you're both wasting time.

>>39663318
It's a stupid conversation, I think it's more likely she was just annoyed at some weird 4channer with an obvious Asian fetish talking to her.

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>>39664829
>About the sunk cost fallacy, my only advice is to not worry about it, because if a relationship gets to a point where it's actually a thing and you stick with it, you're both wasting time.

explain please

>>39664816
>mfw I once almost got addicted to heroin but decided that gym is more important for me

gym is the real killer, not drugs

>>39663058
Fuuuck me so I wasn't the only one. Ended a 9 year relationship a few months ago, struggled a bit with socializing since we did everything together just the two of us, but now I'm back to being a hermit PC dweller and quite happy with singlehood

I'm not gonna say it's not great to have someone care for you and have sex with you, but some relationships are so fucking tiring.

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>>39664893
>tfw hardest "drug" i've ever done is caffeine from 3 cups of green tea
never even taken aspirin

>>39664909
to be honest, you are missing on much

on the other hand, you arent really missing that much

proceed how you wish

>>39662888
>not realizing he has cancer

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>>39662888
>yfw you realize she didn't sit next to the greasy creep because YOU are the greasy creep and having muscles doesn't change that.

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>>39663799
Here anon, I got you

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>>39663545
He doesn't knows girl code

>>39664881
Where you stay with something because you already have spent so much effort even though its still costing you everytime you open the door home

>>39664909
After going on a few oxy/hydro/ and ritz binges I can tell you that it's pretty ok, not really anything amazing... drugs are pretty overrated

>>39664881
I mean that by worrying that you'll never find someone else and that you sunk so much time, effort and love in this relationship, it would be a shame to lose it now, you're wasting your time, because you'll never get past those feelings and, most likely, the other person is thinking the same.

>>39663400
>always feel alpha and confident with myself
>like my body an face in the mirror
>have huge standards for my own self
>in social situation I'm a fucking beta

I'm the opposite lol

>>39663283
gave me a boner t b h

>>39663128
Dude you must have some boring sex then.

>>39664334
>>39664370
wow you guys are pussys. If she doesn't want to date, just fuck her

>>39664627
Light yourself on fire and throw yourself into a woodchipper

>>39664627
Hey buddy, it's not all about other people, it's about you.
Go find a passion and figure it out.

Actually I lost her

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After six years of ups and downs, I broke up with my girlfriend last month, /fit/. I can't say I didn't wish it ended sooner, that I didn't pass up on many opportunities with attractive women to stay loyal to a woman who, while I love incredibly deeply and have an intense connection with, is dragging me down as a person and has slowly become more and more degenerate and short sighted over the years.

The sex was incredible, she was sweet, loving, motherly, nurturing and traditional. But as our relationship started to unravel, it became more and more apparent to me how mentally ill of a person she was, and the awful, abusive environment she was raised in. I don't know if she has changed, or I was just too blindly in love to see the warning signs the first few years, but I would have married this girl two to three years ago. That terrifies me.

The scariest part isn't the feeling of being alone. It is the thought that I may never connect to another female on the same level I did with her ever again. I've never advanced beyond superficial visual crushes on girls before her. I asked this gorgeous Dominican girl out on a date next week. I'm hoping that as I get to know her, she doesn't just end up being just like most girls and leave me feeling completely apathetic.

I just need someone who isn't damaged, /fit/. But I'm starting to wonder if that's part of what made women like my ex so compelling to me. And that's fucking scary.

>>39663720
>>39662998
They are just nervous to sit next to you because you are now so attractive anons.

I get this all the time unless the girls are confident, then the sit beside me and chat me up.

You just need to find more confident girls anon.

>>39663844
To cleanse /fit/ of the shitposting? Absolutely.

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>>39662888
I decided to drop an idea to have a gf and my current goal is to find a friend a two before I reach 30

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>>39665218

>>39663058
I didn't sign the permission slip for this feel trip

>>39662888
I got so far I actually stopped caring.

>>39664206
>amazing tits

Seriously? Die in a car fire

>>39664665
You are fucking stupid and deserve everything you get with that attitude.

>>39662888
I've been dating for 3 years and almost 9 months

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>just turned 20
>eternal no gf
>haven't logged in to faceberg in weeks
>don't use snapchat/instagram etc.
>every time I see a qt I wonder if all the socializing time I'd have to suffer through in order to give her enough attention is worth getting a gf
>being an indecisive fuck I just let one opportunity after another pass me by
I'm on a holiday with no job with most of my time going towards various household maintenance, lifting, shootan and playing vidya in the evening.
What do?

>>39664134
>just joined the military
>at 30
>entry level enlisted pay at 30
How do you fuck up your.life that bad

>>39663339
>How the fuck would a Jap (or really any foreign country) know that I was from America as opposed to Canada, Europe, or fucking South Africa?
From the smell.

Daily reminder that if you're under 5'9" lifting is literally a waste of time

Nobody likes jacked manlets

When will you learn

>>39663283
What the heck is going on? this is the worst how to get a gf advice i've ever read.

>>39665361
Lololololol.

>>39665361
Is 100% right. That shits okay for someone just out of Highschool (what I did), but joining at 30, AS A FEMALE. aka not joining because you always dreamt about being infantry and corpse fucking foreign niggers in a different land, is actually pretty bad. I already think 99% of females in the military are whores anyways.

>>39663058
Absolutely this.

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>>39664816
best girl

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>mfw

>>39663260
Goals

>>39665162

>muh feelings

Don't be such a faggot, emotions are weakness. Find a healthy bitch to breed and dominate her.

Don

>>39665339

You should get a job and make some dosh. The women will come.

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imo i think most of you will find someone

this isnt blue pilled cope

u'll probably find some girl u somehow find attractive and she returns the feelings. U'll forget all the red pillery etc..settle down, do couple things like playing mini golf and having sex. You'll end up married and having kids. Until one day you come home from work and see her in bed with a prime chad and you go ER

>>39663058

See, us gays realised years ago that monogamy and happiness were memes and ya'll called us degenerates.

>>39663400
For me it's dress and look like a scene kid, get mired but ignore girls and they only get more attracted, keep ignoring them and they eventually go away

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>wanting a relationship

>>39663246
>As I see things, the final barricade between me and a CUTE Japanese girlfriend is that I have some trouble telling Asians apart
Kek

>>39663318
When someone asks you to guess you always, ALWAYS make a joke of it

Never try to guess, if you get it wrong you're either perceived as an idiot or racist

You should have said Cuba, or Jamaica. Literally any country she couldn't possibly be from and laugh it off.

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>My parents look at me with pity and disappointment.
>I see the sadness in their eyes when they talk to me.
>mfw 21 and never had a close relationship with a girl.
>mfw no friends either.
And im still not going to kill myself, fuck that. I have to wait for Amy Schumer to die.

>>39664273
>I'm so old and I've lost the best years of my life already
Ahahhahahah. No.

>>39664334
>>she just told me she hates the idea of dating someone
Thats girl talk for 'I like you lets fuck im just not sure if I want a relationship with you'

Well done, you fucked yourself instead of the girl.

>>39665642
>one random person represents every single woman on earth

>>39665664
literally me

>>39665642
>One idiot slut = the whole human population
Jesus anon stop being so fucking jaded

You know who doesn't spend all time shitposting on reddit or 4chan? People who made it. You spend enough time in these shitholes and you'll become so jaded you'll get sold to the Chinese as a commodity.

>>39662888
It took me a while to get this picture but then I figured out he has cancer :(

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>had over 10 perfect gfs
>27 now
>fucked it all up every time the same ways
>didn't work out my body
>too low of self confidence to fulfill relationship dreams

>>39665274
Cuck you.

>>39664134
How did she just join the military at 30 as a private? How do you even find that kind of a person as an attorney. You could have just tied one down from college. Or fuck everything with a pulse at your bar convention.

>>39662888

>yet

implying everyone wants a financial anchor and gains goblin holding them back

keep putting that pussy on a pedestal you fucking pathetic losers, i'm sure it will work out for you!

>>39662958
They are succubi you should never date them

>>39665630
Well, same here, I've been asked on a date by a girl I knew for a few months and had a great time with once. I told her I was busy to see her reaction, she was like oh alright, never spoke to me again. Another girl, the actual queen, the one I still keep in touch with after getting to know her in the last year of high school. She would put her head on my knees, put her legs over mine, smile when I rubbed her back, arms, legs, 'accidently' her perfect ass, wherever really
But after 6 years it's still no I love you but not like that, I don't want to lose you but it just doesn't feel right. You're really a perfect guy, but I don't think we'd make a great couple, we're too different, followed by a hug. We spend so much time together, everyone is basically convinced we're secretly fucking, I fucking wish. My mom once asked her when we were going to get married, her mom asked me when I'd ask her to marry me, I fucking did, twice, holy shit, it doesn't work with her, I seriously don't know what to do, she's the only reason I don't have a girlfriend yet, but she's never had a boyfriend either. I have fucked 3 other girls, not even close to the feeling of hugging her. Wake me up inside plz anons, how do I get over her, or how do I figure out the password to her panties? I seriously want to marry her, and fuck the shit out of her, and make little humans with her.

>>39665585
That's cool, man.

>>39664982
wtf does that mean

>>39665609
This. Monogamy is a meme. Being cucked is a bad thing is a meme.

>>39665609
Yeah faggot, that's why old gay men with no legacy to leave behind, with no life partner to hold and relate to in an ever changing and alienating world, no children, modelled in their image to forever spread their genes until the end of the time, they are just LIVING THE DREAM, am I right?

>>39663058
>i have terrible relationships
>clearly this means all women are the same and every relationship is doomed to be sexless and passionless
If it smells like shit everywhere you go, check under your shoe.

>>39662888
Asking all the posters in this thread.
Exactly WHAT do you like about your current gf ? Because a lot of you sound more like you only like them because it is better than being alone.

>>39666032
>what is IVF
>what are open relationships

>>39666043
>what is IVF

>what is only one partner will be the blood parent
>what is non-monogamous parenting does not lead to the raising of healthy, stable people

>what are open relationships

>what are empty, hedonistic pursuits that never work out and will leave you burned and lonely

>crush takes my phone and adds her number
>too beta to text her
F E E L S B A D M A N

>>39666082
[Citation needed]

>>39662888
>tfw all the girls that are interested in me are thousands of miles away
>tfw the only girl near me that I actually really liked and thought liked me stood me up
>tfw I don't feel like trying anymore
I'm just focusing on improving myself rn.

>>39666037
I love my gf and the sex is better than ever. If y'all aren't happy you could always work on it or break up.

>>39662888
lol no I can't get into dating apps, it's so foreign to me
nice trips

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>>39665694
Yeah, at least it helps me knowing that even though my life is shit. There will always be another anon to share my gay life stories with.

>>39663349
Kill her you will feel so much better

I made the mistake of getting not just a gf, but a long distance gf. 7 month anniversary is coming up next week but I'm not gonna lie, I think I've had my fill. But she's super emotional and she "fell in love with me" during a dark time in her life so I'm afraid she might try to kill herself or some shit if I leave her because she's tried to before. I'm the reason she stopped all that. I genuinely believe she loves me but man this is such a drag. I care about her a lot and I don't want her to get hurt, by me or by herself, but I don't know how much more of this I can take. She's a NEET to top it off, and her parents don't know about her online life so I can't visit her unless I got a hotel room, and even then I couldn't pick her up because, again, her parents have no idea who I am and she never leaves home without them so I can't be some dude who asked her out or whatever, because either of her parents should have seen me. Sex is just us masturbating together during Skype but I obviously don't enjoy it because she's into the sub/dom thing so to get her off I basically have to waste all my energy on degrading her which I'm not really into anyways. I don't get to see her either, as she doesn't have a computer or webcam. Skype is just me looking at her ceiling 9 times out of 10 because she has to use both hands to get off. I've seen her tits but that's it. She tells me she shaves her pussy and I always ask her to prove it and she just brushes it off even though she sees me completely naked quite a lot. I'm not saying she owes it to me but damn.

I should have listened when they said LDR is a bad idea. I'm sorry, /fit/. LDR is basically all the downsides of having a gf, but none of the benefits.

>>39665609
We'll at least I'll have my kids to carry on my legacy.

>>39664290
wel meme'd

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>>39666172
>LDR
drop her, move on to the next chick. think of her as practice

any action she takes after you dump her is entirely her responsibility

or you could be a pussy and start fucking local women without telling her

>>39664083
I can vouch for this. It's how I got my gf.

>>39666213
>>39664083
how do I into cocoon mode?

>>39666207
I don't want to cheat but the temptation is so fucking real. Especially because I work right beside the college campus in my city. See qts day in and day out. It really hurts when I see other couples out and about having fun, and then think about how for me, that's just talking on Facebook messenger, hoping her parents don't ask her to help them with something and then she go afk for an hour to do so, which happens frequently. It's infuriating but so disheartening at the same time.

>>39665686
>>39665698
Not all women are like that!!!!!!

>>39662888
50+ matches on tinder. I just fuck with them.

>>39664930
how do you realize that

>>39666172
Your gf is a shit person sorry. You should leave her.

>>39663318

Nah they all look the same. They all think the same aswell. They're the aliens in Enders Game.

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tfw your husbando will never be real

Yes.

I lost interest in her after about 2 weeks, and I started feeling repulsed by how much she liked me. We broke up 2 months in because I flat stopped talking to her and replying to her
messages.

In hindsight I think the problem was that she was much more experienced than me and it mad me feel weak, even though she was completely submissive to me out of the bed.

She was /fit, beautiful ass, but I'm lining up an average 17 year old Asian qt right now and it feels so much better just because I get to be in total control.

>>39664000
If by good sex life you mean like 80% of the relationship consists of sex then no it isn't at all what makes a good relationship.

>>39663058
this

ive been with my wife for a total of ten years this month. i only have sex with her because i feel bad for her.

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Trying..


>go on a date with a brunette anime qt
>have a good time
>bring her back to my place
>get her naked on my bed
>kissing passionately
>bring her near orgasm with hands
>try to fuck
>can't get it up
>she tries to blow me
>doesn't work
>keep messing around for a while
>feel too ashamed to continue
>"Anon I think I need to go"
>She leaves

She probably thinks I'm a pathetic hhlklv-card now. What do /fit/? I like this girl a lot

>>39662888
YeS acTUaLly

>>39666487
taking pre workouts ? Might cause stim dik bruh, lay them off for a while

>>39663318
Do you think asians can tell the difference between English, Irish, Scottish, and Welsh?

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>tfw even if you got a gf it wouldn't even be a Sabina gf

why even

>>39663011
>is there a worse feeling
>a man without a true woman
>we're not gonna make it

not with that fucking attitude you won't

the strong are strongest alone, bitch

>>39666487
>can't get it up
Fucking hell, this is seemingly more common than I'm comfortable with. How often do you fap/fuck? Do you watch porn every day? Take pre-workout shakes and get enough vitamin D?

It's been a while for me (years) but I'm starting to get nervous because I can't get it up on command unless I switch on some porn or in the morning when I wake up to the pyramid of giza in my fucking pants.

>>39666172
>>39666316
I don't think you're doing her any favors by delaying the inevitable. Just dump her.

>>39666172

Dump her. LDRs are not worth it unless you're both emotionally stable and have an end point planned.

She sounds like she needs to climb out of this hole herself.

>>39666555
Nice double trips mate

>>39666555

Checked

I hadn't beaten off for like five days in anticipation of this. Are they putting something in the water?

>>39666506
Nope just like 50mg of caffeine, often nothing

>>39666184
>>39666032
Not that guy but why are you guys so autistic about "carrying on my legacy"? First of all, why do you think you're so important that you have a "legacy" that needs to be carried on? Second, why would you impose the responsibility on your child to carry it on?
Are you so insecure that you can't just accomplish things for yourself and be happy that you did it?

>>39662888
For the same reason I sit next to weirdos rather than smoking hot babes, I assume women who sit next to weirdos rather than smoking hot me are similarly intimidated by smoking hotness.

>>39666577
>First of all, why do you think you're so important that you have a "legacy" that needs to be carried on?

Are you dense? Are you so much of a cucked faggot that you've somehow lost all biological impulse to spread your genes? That is literally your only biological purpose on this planet. You are designed to grow, plant your seed in a few wombs, raise them up and protect them from those outside your tribe, then keel over and die. If you do not feel a significant desire to want to engage in the natural impulse of any sexually reproducing species, there is either something fundamentally wrong with you, or your nature's way of weeding out weak, dead ends.

>>39666485
D I V O R C E
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>>39666607
I wanna fuck but I dont care about having kids carry on my genes.

Sounds like you've been cucked by human instincts and biological desires. Be better than cavemen and wild animals. There's more to live for than "spreading your seed".

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>>39666607
>That is literally your only biological purpose on this planet
Sounds like you had a very poignant life anon. Accomplished a lot no doubt.
>>39666485
Please tell me you didn't have kids

>>39666575

Estrogen in the water and food supply and fluoride causing calcification of the pineal gland

>>39666487
Happened to me twice in the last 3 months with two different girls.

I just blame alcohol, usually happens when drunk.

>>39666684

If you don't want kids just kill yourself now

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>>39666763
I'd rather accomplish something then contribute to this feminized bullshit society. I don't want anyone to endure the way the World is now. Give it 20 years and we will see.

>>39663786
Got back from her house. I saw a picture of her with a boy on her homescreen. I need to embrace my wizardry, but I want to feel like my nofap has been for something.

had a girl basically begging for me to come fuck her over tinder

couldnt do it because im a virgin and am still too insecure about my fat fucking thighs that look ridiculous

i hate myself so much

>>39666947
>had a girl basically begging for me to come fuck her over tinder
If the grill is average or above you have zero excuse for not doing it unless your a latent gay.

Just wanna say that image in the OP is just a dude that doesn't get it.

I remember back when I was like 14 I was super shy around cute girls and I'd rather the landwhale or a dude sit next to me because it meant I didn't have to get nervous and look stupid and shit.

That's why some girls would rather sit next to ugly dudes that will likely know better than to hit on them. She knows you might and she doesn't want to deal with it, whether she's shy, has a bf or for some other reason.

>>39663720
Do Nofap bud
Get that magnetism

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>21 perma virgin
>Absolutely no ambition for a girl friend anymore.
>have no tfw no gf feels, it only slightly comes on when I see a pretty girl at the gym
>my only shame is that I will have no son to carry my name.

Whats wrong with me

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>>39663058

>>39666970
>says that he is a virgin, nervous about performance
>DOOD IF U DONT FUCK DAT GIRL UR A GAY DERES NO EXCUSE

>>39667135
Nothing, i felt the same at your age. 24 now and I feel the need for one, i think it's the test from lifting.

>>39662888
Have had for 8 years

>>39665642
as an anon who's been cheated on, this shatters my heart

>>39662888

two nights ago I had a qt who wanted to have the intrcourse.

I am a beta virgin and when I saw she was into it I spooked.

maybe next decade

>>39663040
Exactly this: >>39663283 Both of my loving long-term relationships started with that.

>>39665411
Pic related.

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>>39667537
>>>39665411
Oops, here's the pic related.

Maybe in a year after my next bulk/cut cycle.

Is there anyone here with legit aspergers who has a gf?
I have no female friends at all because they get weirded out by me

>>39667588
So you've been diagnosed? How does it affect your behavior? Have you tried any kinds of therapy or self-improvement techniques?

>>39663283

>thinking "let's make this a thing" after sex is a smooth line

>25 year old kissless virgin
>never had a girlfriend
>never had to deal with the bullshit people in relationships deal with like cheating/accusations of cheating, fights, stress, breakups and being mentally distraught after them, etc

hehe i am so much better than all of you

hehe

right

hehe

:(

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>>39662888
>gf

>>39665162

There is no such thing as "someone who isn't damaged." It sounds like you have unrealistic expectations for what it means to be in a relationship. The things you value in a woman--motherly, nurturing--reflect your inability to love a person beyond what they can do for YOU. Meanwhile you are incapable of providing the same "nurturing" of a person who, by your own admission, was raised in an abusive environment. What kind of shithead can accept nurturing, supportive love from someone who was abused and then turn around and call that same person damaged? You are selfish and small, and deserve to be alone. They're not just "females," they're people.

>>39663246
similar problem but for a different reason

>met these twins from South Africa
>talked to one of them for a decent amount of time, the other one left basically after I arrived
>can't tell them apart
>see them together and I'll say hi and the one that I actually know will react
>never tried approaching or even greeting when I only see one because I'm not sure if it's her or her twin

I guess I can just address the elephant in the room and ask but I'm not sure how to go about it.

>>39665162
Just want to agree with the other guy. You are with her for years, but can't love her because she was raised in an awful environment? You obviously gave a brief & one-sided view of why you broke up, and yet you still come off like a selfish man-child.

>>39667686
>They're not just "females," they're people.

t. cuck

>>39667686
Nobody is completely undamaged, but some are more damaged than others and some are damaged in ways that don't give them intimacy problems. Many guys with intimacy problems do best with warm, emotional, cuddly girls.

(I'm not the guy you responded to.)

>>39667612
Yes my psych said she cant give me a perfect diagnosis because its not scientific - I am on the spectrum is all she can say.
I miss basic social cues and dont know if someone likes me or not. I cant make small talk at all
I am a freshman in college so my psych is putting me up in a workshop in spring
I went to the psych because I had depression which was because I was lonely (always lived with my family before)
Well

>>39662888
ya 6/10 tho
shes awesome other than that

>>39667730

Nice edgy opinion I'm sure you're in a healthy relationship

>>39667731

Fair enough, I mean yeah everyone is damaged in different ways. Even if this guy with intimacy problems does find the warm, cuddly girl who is damaged in exactly the way he finds acceptable, he'll still eventually run into the brick wall that is his own damage. Work on yourself before trying to find this magic person.

>>39663720
you ever consider she just wanted to stand?
no offense, but not everything is about you

>>39666449
How old are you anon? I'm 19 and I would feel very uncomfortable dating a 17 year old. She must still be in high school, right?

>>39662888
>>39662998
>>39663711
>>39665716

I just got it, that guy has cancer.

I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend.

>Meet chick off of internet for rebound with ex
> Pretty hot, gymnast from the former soviet union
> She breaks up with me last Christmas claiming I don't give a shit about her
>Was upset for like 20 minutes
>Go and fuck another girl several days later
>Keep fucking and being social
>Ex and I start dating after fucking her for 2 months as well

She's retained her figure well,but I get the impression she does not respect me. I have two potential girls, one long term and one short,
Should I do it?

>>39662888
Working on it. I found a qt latina freshman at my uni who I've been texting for a few weeks. Arranged a date for after finals, on the 16th, taking her to the Rainforest cafe in downtown disney. :)

have a gf that i dont really care for any more.
she spent the summer over seas working and i just lost attraction towards her, have cheated on her multiple times since the summer just waiting for a reason to end it.
I wish i could fall back in love with her but there's too many flaws for me to stay.
also my fuck buddy left me for some other guy who wants something serious with her today but i just acquired a new one who's even hotter.
>dropping out of university and dont know what to do
>22 years old and i need another 2 years to finish my degree
>cant find the motivation to do it
>want to persue a career that will lead me to an active life style

>>39667762
My relationship ended about 6 months ago. I was "the guy with intimacy problems" and was dating a great girl who was warm, cuddly, loving etc. In the end the relationship ended precisely because of my intimacy issues, and not being able to get on that deep level with her
It exposed my own weaknesses and im working on them as I move forward

>>39667706
bump

23 years old and a khhv, I can talk to women fine, but I just lack the drive to pursue them it seems, having self esteem issues doesn't help either, since I figure how can I love or care for anyone when I don't even like myself.

>>39663283
>>39667537

>get a gf with a girl by sleeping with her first!
what MOTHERFUCKING world did I wake the FUCK up in? Seriously WHAT THE FUCK

WHY the FUCK am I spending MONEY on DATES when you fuckers just FUCK them until you decide its time to SPEND money on THEM

WHAT THE FUCK

>>39664080
kys not the guy you replied to

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>>39663897
A-are you me?

>>39667874
because this is fit where everyone is an alpha

>>39665642
Jesus fucking christ, how can you have everything and still want more? So selfish and entitled, shit like this makes me glad I'm gay goddamn.

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>>39663711
new wallpaper to remind myself that I matter as an individual

thanks bro (no homo)

>>39667836

If you have to ask then you probably should.

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>>39667135
Nothing is wrong with you bro, girl friends and shit aren't for everybody and the people who act like it's the only thing that matters are delusional.

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>get a monogamous friends with benefits thing going, which is great due to my schedule
>shes attractive and our dates go well, have sex a couple times
>periodically she just media blackouts, doesn't respond to anything be it texts, calls, whatever.
>currently in the middle of one as we speak
Annoying as fuck and causing much more grief than our situation should have warranted.
Why do women do this?

>>39668068
Hey brother, I'm touched. One day at a time is all it takes!

The first date is tomorrow, s-so hopefully

>>39668606
come back and tell us how it went
good luck

>>39668606
wishing you godspeed anon

>>39663318
She's being socially retarded. Imagine if she was a male saying this shit to a girl who approached him, sounds retarded right? That's because she is.

Disregard her.

>>39662888
I'm trying to date the hot chick who works on the same level as me in a clothes department store.

I asked her last Sunday if she wanted to go for drinks that day and she says she has to have dinner with a friend who's been pushing her to do it for weeks.

I said something like 'we'll do it next time then' and she said 'ok'. Should I pop in this week when I have no shifts and ask her out and make plans early or would that seem too clingy and it'd be a better idea to wait to ask her out next week on Monday when I'm working?

She's the quiet introverted type, responds when I talk to her but doesn't laugh, joke around and smile at me often like my hotter female friend.

She does smile sometimes when I try to be funny though.

I'm going through a period of having a shit ton of balls to approach women but extreme autism.

I was better with the ladies when I was a left wing liberal ;_; visiting /pol/ was a mistake bois.

>>39668606
I hope she doesn't rock up late and acts socially retarded.

Good luck bro.

>>39663799
that webm

>>39668738
>she has to have dinner with a friend who's been pushing her to do it for weeks.
shouldve told her something along the lines of
>"he waited for weeks, he can wait a day or two so how about it?"

but I don't blame you, I wouldn't have realised this at the time either

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>>39662984

>Tfw gf
>Tfw 7 inch by 5 inch (circumference) dick
>Just the right size to stretch her out a little and remind her where the good shit at

And I don't even lift.

>>39664273
kys

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>>39668129
Dude...

Not even trolling, you re the only monogamous thing in that shit.