How many

Forming hobbies that don't involve me sitting on my ass shitposting here all day.

>>39432417
how do i meet women as a 27 year old ?

>>39432453
The hobby thread is getting to you eh

>>39432457
pretend your 17

how do i get gf, never had one and im 24

>>39432494
beat the living shit out of niggers until a woman loves you...

>>39432417
Discipline outside the gym

Cant study in uni for shit

>>39432453
start lifting faggot

Trying to get over an ex but I still love her, currently in a relationship with someone I find fantastic but these old feelings keep coming up and idk what to do

>>39432528
ah the dreaded cant study anomaly

>>39432536
just go wit da flizow mah brah

>>39432470
Nah, need to actually like what I do.
>>39432530
Already done boy, now I need to fill my day with other shit. Not that I don't just love it here.

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I'm in the US and a dedicated engineer..

First thing in the morning, my time zone I have a meeting with office in england, after that i have meeting with tokyo office, after that i take a break and than i get asked to do a training session for a remote office in our chicago dept, lol im over worked, underpaid and fucking tired of this job but i love it and thiings are going well

i need to keep track of a couple of time zones for my job, kind of interesting when i think about it, its nearly 8pm in my time zone and in the countries which i work with it is 2-3 am and what are the anons on /int/ doing at 2am? don't you have a job, the people i work with only reason they would be awake this time is because something is wrong and we need to be on a meeting, hell sometimes i dont even get to sleep because they want to get a meeting going 8-9 am their time and its like 12-2am here...


they need to pay me more...

>>39432417
>can't stop smoking weed
I've hitting the devil's lettuce less often, but desu I can't remember my last completely sober day. I think Friday's gonna be it tho

How do I tell my girlfriend she's getting fat and that I may leave her?

>>39432588
Friday it is...
desu

>>39432598
>hey heffer, put down the fucking food or else i'll take my deluxe sausage elsewhere

>>39432598
work out you fat whore
MISSION ACCOMPLISHED

>>39432625
DELUXE lol

>>39432585
we get it bro you make $ congratulations

>>39432582
you can start sucking dick that's always an option...

I probably just need to vent. My lifes not bad but it could be better it's in better shape than last year, there's i girl i go to the gym with, we spot and run together. I like her really badly but i know im not her type and im trying really hard to detach those feelings from her.

>>39432483
i am bald with a beard

>>39432663
>...
>>>/reddit/

>>39432672
pretend your a rapist then rape...

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>>39432648
money isn't everything, i make nothing at all in this field and i am lonely as fuck

frankly, i get high and think of quitting my job and living on the street, living like a bum and living as a /neet/ i dont really mean this but i really need a long extended vacation...

>>39432666
666 satans spawn detected

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>>39432417
I can't stop fucking jacking off to traps and its interfering with my workouts

>>39432694
i would like to find a girl/women to cuddle with.

i dont think i can just go to a bar for that, not that i ever went to a bar in my life but whatever.

I'm 22 and balding badly. It's killing me inside.

>>39432702
do what you need to do to preserve yourself...

>>39432709
embrace it
https://danbooru.donmai.us/posts/2504591

53 years old and my body is falling apart

I am losing muscle to the point I tore my shoulder rotator IN MY FUCKING SLEEP

Just grabbed a bag of Leucine and Citruline Malate 2:1 to try and build some muscle and save my body from decaying

oh and I lost a bunch of work when a customer of a company with which i contract as a courier dropped them and am almost out of home equity.

also haven't had sex in 26 years

>>39432709
bro either transition or don't man stop wasting your semen and start knocking out nigz

>>39432718
get over it. i spend 4 years in depression because of it. just think about being a better guy then most and shave it.

>>39432719
tfw. it doesn't work that way


literally becoming lonely every weekend and loosing it, tried to date some qt but it just didn't work out i work a lot and most of my life revolves around my job now, i just cn't be the old person i used to be, i cant have a talk about regular people shit anymore...

>>39432711
go to church

>>39432718
culd b worse>>39432739
>>39432739
this is what guns a

>>39432736
I wish it was that easy. I shaved my head 6 months ago and it turns out that I've got a fucked up head shape with birthmarks all over it. It looks horrible.

>>39432546
Do I tell the girl I'm with I'm still having feelings? Do I tell my ex? what do

>>39432729
steroids brah

>>39432757
do neither of those fucking things

>>39432729
Can you afford TRT?

>>39432753
so the f what bro your not autistic or crippled stop being a fucking bitch

>>39432711
Talk to women at your gym. Just say something like, hey noticed you here a few times wanna get something to eat after you're done working out? Or since you just wanna cuddle ride public transit and pretend to be asleep. Then fall on women and nuzzle. You won't go to jail for that long.

>>39432753
no shit its not easy. why do you think i wasted my mid twenty's because of it.

>>39432770
have not looked into it I take pregneolone from time to time but never thought of doing a course of T

>>39432757
Don't be a little bitch make the best decision you can and live with it its called being a man

>>39432776
you sound creepy as fuck.

>>39432776
or just rape her like our ancestors did

>no money
>credit card maxed out
>car falling apart and needs at least $2500 worth of repairs
>need car to get to new job so I can make money

>>39432776
not all women are lonely and looking for some dudes attention in the gym, thats bullshit advice senpai

>>39432787
lol desu kek
what a fag

>>39432796
apply for more CC's?

>>39432796
rob nigger drug dealers
problem solved

>>39432417
Crippling depression, see myself as an ugly landwhale, and no gf.
In about less than a week I started banging this qt from work, we spend time together now, the best part one could say is that another girl is flirting with me, and seems I could handle have a sort of open relationship with the two girls since none of them want a relation by the time.
> I am still depressed as fuck

>>39432807
stop sucking dick fag

>>39432819
start drinking
problem solved

>>39432822
>>39432822
is that what worked for you?

>>39432846
jess but of course senpai

Struggling with my pain in my left leg and lower back

>>39432417
you know what would kill my insecurities. if I was given a stats of how much woman find me attractive from a scale of 1 to 10. I can be a fucking 3 so I can give up on woman and leave humanity

I'm trying to come to terms with my depression. I thought I had the typical r9k meme depression but I think it might actually be a chemical imbalance in my brain. My doc thinks I should go on pills.

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>>39432880
>my brain


>becomes a zombie
>no sex drive
>no feels

>quits cold turkey to get the feels back
>has a psychotic breakdown and goes on a spree killing people and eating faces

yah that's a plan.

>>39432880
Tell your doctor to duck then knock him/her out that'll fix things

>>39432880
don't go on pills I am a psychology major it's a scam. the sides are fucking terrible. try your best to make goals to being happy, write on a paper what makes you happy and try to achieve this.

only get on pills if you have severe depression where you may consider killing yourself for reals

>>39432914
A nugget posted this shit no validation just hogwash

I hurt my back and then a lot of bad shit happened in life. I got so depressed and it's been about four months since I got in the gym. My back feels better, but it's like I'm scared to go back to the gym. I feel like I have to start all over because I've not been keeping myself healthy. I feel like I've gained thirty pounds.

>>39432914
Yeah I'm worried about that
>>39432916
I told her I didn't want to go on pills but she really thinks I should
>>39432934
Thanks for the advice, anon

>>39432729
Pls be bait. 26 years without sex? How do you live? How ugly are you?

>>39433025
I am a 10/10 Ivy league wasp with a pinch of irish and Scott six feet and 235 lbs..

had women throwing themselves at me in my 20's and 30's and then just got sick of 'em..

>>39432800
You'll probably lose your virginity one day bro. You can approach women anywhere. Just learn to take a hint and leave if she's not feeling it. Or should the gym be a safe space?

>>39432729
>>39433050
Are you completely apathetic to sex now? Were you ever in love? What were your stats in your prime?

I just started getting into a decent workout schedule and now half my tendons are fucked and I cant do shit for 2 weeks.

>>39433107
my body , energy levels, joint health cramping muscles combined with what happens to your body no matter how good you are to it..

I don't have what the kind of women I would want desire in a man physically any longer.. so I don't put myself out there only to be turned down .. I have just given it up

"Mellow is the Mind that knows what he's been missing"

>>39432457
Real answer is to make more friends male/female doesn't matter just try and expand your social circle

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How do I fix ED brahs?

I'd be trying to fuck my GF but my dick will go limp sometimes after she blows me. And when she blows me my cock is hard but when I'm trying to back her my dick cant maintain an erection.

What do? Any exercises? No fap? Diet?

Pls help /fit/

>>39433107
>What were your stats in your prime?
I never bulked or lifted regularly but was very active outdoors.. swimming , hiking bicycling etc.. so say at 30 i was 6' 180.. brown hair blue eyes..

I'm trapped in a relationship with an abusive fucking harpy and I don't have enough money to escape. I moved across country to live with her (yeah I know, I fucked up) and my family can't afford to take me back in at home. She just screams at me all day for being poor as I scramble to get enough to pay rent in our expensive ass city. Meanwhile she takes home enough money to piss it away constantly on her hobbies and still complains because I'm not making enough to buy her a house.

The only thing I really have is lifting. I spend 3 hours in the gym because it's the only place I can be away from her for any reasonable amount of time without incurring suspicion. I come home and she molests me while I have a pump on but I can't get it up because as soon as we start to have sex I just remember her publicly humiliating me or calling me names or guilt tripping me for being too poor and it ruins the mood. So I just go down on her and tell her I have an oral fixation.

I'm doing my best to self educate and get a decent job in software engineering but it's taking a long time. Turns out teaching yourself a skill and becoming good enough at it to get paid is time consuming.

I'll be okay, this isn't the worst thing. I just wish I'd listened to my gut when I saw the red flags years ago. I wish I hadn't moved here.

>>39433138
I'm having a similar problem. Read the overview on www.yourbrainonporn.com If you fapped a lot to porn this might be the cause, not joking here.

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Will they ever forgive me?

>>39433128
>I don't have what the kind of women I would want desire in a man physically any longer
holy shit that was intense...

This sounds rough for you man, hope things get better soon!
Any kids? Were you ever in love?

>>39433209
a 31 yo son.. he's healthy , handsome and has many friends but he has been poisoned to me by his mother and so doesn't include me in his life.

>>39432753
don't waste your life worrying about shit like that

I wasted 20-22 just worrying about balding
at 23 I just said fuck it and tried again with girls and it worked they really don't care as long as you're not a sperg and have a decent body

I'm not even that built and I'm 5'8 just act confident I know it sounds like bullshit but really that's all there is

>>39433218
Rawest of raw deals...
What gets you through each day?

>>39433209
>Were you ever in love?
I think I thought I was.. i was devoted to a lady who wanted a child.. we were together on and off for seven years before splitting .. I recently saw a pic of her getting married to the guy she left me to be with ..basically she wanted a child and i wanted to just be better situated financially which she took as a rejection

The look on her face while she's making her wedding vows is priceless... its like she has a lemon wedge in her mouth she has two kids with him but her face betrays that she doesn't not consider him to be her true love .. I laughed.

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>>39432417
squats

ive had 3 people at the gym correct me on my squats, countless hours spent watching vids and making sure my form is right, and I still cant do a proper squat

just fuck my shit up senpai

>>39433242
financial obligations.. I just focus on work and when i am not working I go hiking or to the beach when weather permits..

I've spent thousands of hours playing videogames over my life time. It was always my escape when I had nothing else to do. It has been my favorite hobby since I picked up a gameboy.

Now, as a 22 year old, I still want to play games but I can't get behind spending so much time completing tasks in a virtual world when I'd rather spend it doing real shit and actually progressing. Whenever I sit down to play a game I know I can enjoy, I drive myself away because I know I'll waste so much time. This is only a bad thing because the 'real' shit I decide to do is sit and watch videos of stupid shit or movies, and browse imgur, reddit, and 4chan.

wat do

I just want a gf so I can have regular sex. Every time I meet a qt she always has a bf AND isn't local. At least live nearby bitch, long distance is total shit

I just watched that episode of the simpsons where homer could have easily cheated on marge with a hot coworker and he didn't do it. Fucking cuck. It just made me reflect on my own missed chances

>>39433192
what did you do

>>39433172
Look for any kind of job in another city close by, find a cheap as shit apartment there, and move there until you can build up some money. She's using you as her rent-slut.

>>39433248
Your life story is intense. Did you think it would ever turn our like this when you were younger?

>>39433253
Do you have any companionship at all, or are you a true lone wolf?

>>39433251
brah. goblet squats. I spent half a year "bulking" only to get weaker with my shit form. Started doing goblet squats to help my squat and diddly and it helped me immensely. Would recommend 10/10

>>39432585
Find a better paying job and then ask for a raise. Make sure to say that you're getting a job offer for more money.

>>39433188
>>39433138
Your estrogen is too high. I had same issue Adex fixes it right up

>>39433266
Treated everyone I ever knew like shit and when they all left I ended up alone

I'm not a /neet/ BTW, just a guy who's reaching a lonely point in life

>>39433209
>Were you ever in love?
I felt like saying one more thing... while I felt strongly for every woman I was ever with intimately I have to accept the fact I can make such a statement is why I am single and will die alone


I was wild .. I am lucky I didn't end up with any diseases but for instance while my son's mother was five months pregnant I met a young hottie ,maybe a run-a-way being she was lugging a big suitcase with a grayhound Bus ticket on the handle

I offered to let her stash the thing up in the hotel room I amd my pregnant gf and others had for this run of shows .. so she and I head there and as soon as I shut the door we were tearing our clothes off and spent the next half hour screwing until...

the pregnant gf and the other come bouncing in .. she plops down on the bed laughing ... and proceeds to freak the girl out ... ;" Hi who are you? ?"

Rubbing her fat belly:"This is Anon's baby." I'm his girlfriend..

poor girl took off.. so there were a few other times I hooked up while pregnant gf was there.. was that wrong? lol

>>39433298
:/ don't really want to leave right now....

I'm stuck in a shitty min wage job because I fell for the college meme! All that work for nothing. I wish I had friends

>>39433282
No I came from a fairly conservative family white collar etc very high IQ high test scores but my father was older and developed Alzheimers when I was in High School and I ended up quitting and getting a job as a Stereo salesman and eventually took off on Grateful Dead tour for a couple of years

Dead bedroom bros.

Not really, technically speaking, the wife will let things happen if I make it happen. But it's like pushing a stalled car when you want to take a drive. She puts in zero effort, zero reciprocating, zero flirting. It's an insult to my dignity every time I want to have sex. I'm to the point that I'd rather not have sex than have to do all the work from initiating to climax. 100% done with feeling no heat from her.

>>39433313
I did the same shit but didn't realize how much of an asshole I was to people until I became an adult. A lot of burned bridges.

Just make sure you're minimally pleasant to new people you meet so they don't fucking hate you right away. The rest comes over time if you're a regular person. If you're just a fucknugget all the time and aren't willing to change you're going to be alone for the rest of your life, anon.

>>39433282
I don't shun companionship but I guess I like my creature comforts and have a way of doing things which leaves me occupied to a degree I have no real opprtunity for regular socialization

I have find bantz with co workers but shit if getting harder to keep up with and I am stretched pretty tightly. I am trying to sell my condo and relocate to a sunnier place like so cal or the southwest us

>>39433322
Ehh, then deal with it until it pisses you off enough for you to want to do something about it

>>39433333
At least you got quints. What did you study in college?

>>39432757
both of those ideas are horrid. Mention nothing to either girl and reflect with yourself. The one relationship is over and another begins, learn and enjoy what you have. Soon you will not exist

>>39433138

This happened to me with my first gf. I thought it was psychosomatic, performance anxiety and all, but honestly, it was her. After an absolute shitload of reflection on it, and dating my current gf for going on 5 years, I realized that my dick was telling me something. No joke. Our relationship wasn't working, I felt like she was just fucking me because she felt like I wanted it, and I actually didn't love her anymore.

That's just my situation. Sometimes ED does effect young dudes, but I'm betting its your relationship. Consider it.

My situation is that I dont know what to do about my current relationship. She's caring, understanding, good enough in bed. She's gotten fucking fat though, and its really hard to want to be around her lately. I'm starting to resent her lack of discipline and her half-assing it in the gym. I've spoken to her twice about it, and given her warning that I'll end it if things dont improve. She's barely making an effort, but I know she's crazy about me and would have my kids. I dont know what to do. I could get much more attractive women, but if she just lost 70 lbs she'd be the ten that I started dating 5 years ago. Her pregnancy weight gain scares the shit out of me. I'm almost certain she won't lose the weight.

Fuckin' A

>>39433321
>maybe a run-a-way
lol, sounds like you lived life on your own terms. is the pregnant gf the same woman who married the other guy, or a different woman? if so a different woman, what happened there?

if you feel like it was wrong then most likely, if not it probably was alright.

>>39433335
Are you Jerry Garcia??? lol were there a lot of groupies on the tour? do you play an instrument, or were you a sound guy?

What advice can you throw out there in regards to happiness and quality of life?

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>have an inability to connect with people
>want a girl to love even though I've given up hope completely since I don't want a used up whore and college has ruined my dream of that ever happening
>want to accomplish something great in the history of humanity but fail to see myself ever amounting to anything because of my crushing nihillism

I'm 20 but I think angst will stay with me forever

>>39433353
Trying to deal with it but depression can be a bitch. Here's the full story.

>>39433361
Poly sci. I figured out it was a joke when it was too late. Top of the class and thought I was going straight to city hall, but nope. Unpaid internships are reserved for phds. I guess it's my fault for not doing stem

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>>39433367
You seem to already know the answer dude, you're just hamstering around it.

4 years since last serious relationship and im longing for that feeling of being loved and having someone to love.

>>39433402
Fuck it, I need to let this shit out for once, My family and close friends really don't give a shit at all about this, so here it goes senpai, give me a few minutes..

I'm an engineer at a pretty big company and this year from the beginning to now has been kind of hell and I have been stressed out for the last couple of months due to the way certain things happened. We have multiple clients, projects, and general work to do and which has been ongoing since the beginning of this year. I have worked my ass of since day one, and in July I learned I wasn't going to be the lead engineer for one client who I worked directly with and led multiple training sessions, multiple projects, and have done a lot of work for this one big fucking client. Now, when I learned they gave the position to someone else who I trained just a month before they gave it to him, I was fucking pissed off and the months from July-August where fucking hell for me, after all the work I did they gave him this position which I worked my ass off for. Well, ever since I failed at that and felt like a piece of shit, I moved on and found other work, projects and clients whom I work with. I currently am an engineer for over six clients and I have been working my ass off for the last couple of months and I have been having nearly a 100% success rate on everything I work on.

>>39433254
I did a similar thing more than a few times, fire up a game, then as im playing it be like "fuck i could be doing this" and i end up not enjoying the game as much before just stopping.

The "this" to me is working on my game, im trying to see if i cant one-man-army a masterpiece, unlikely, but its worth my effort to try.

So with that being said id say find another hobby to break up the games, youre on /fit/ so i assume you workout. Whenever you get that feeling workout (if you can schedule it that easily), or read, or learn about something you find interesting, literally anything except browsing for shit on the internet will have more "worth" to you.

Ive had some days where i get that feeling and know im going to end up just fucking around on the internet, so instead of doing that i just chill at my computer, turn on some good music, grab a drink and/or some weed then just vibe out, because in all three ways i could be spending my time, its technically wasting time. time you enjoy wasting isnt wasted time.

>>39433374
>the pregnant gf the same woman
different woman.. and becasue the pregnant gf ended up leaving with my son I was reluctant to just go ahead when the marrying gf asked me to get her pregnant

we had been living rent free managing a self storage facility .

I didn't think this was a reliable situation.

I was right.. one day a few weeks after she asked me to impregnante her a guy walked in to the office , said he was thee new owner and we had two weeks to get ourselves another place

I told her I didn't want to be stressed over money with a child and I was right . We'd have been pregnant and looking for a new situation.. jobs place to live.. so she ended up moving in with some divorced woman she knew who had two teenage sons and hated me cuz she was a bitter spurned woman ..

I tried to stay in touch but one day she was gone

I called her father and he told me she was with this other dude..

I loved her intensely but at age 20 so I figure I had her at her best ..

>>39433426
Now, here's the kicker, another engineer whom I don't work with directly has mentioned today that he is "feeling sad" pretty much because he isn't getting a lot of work and he's pretty much going through what I went through, and I told him to call me and have a talk about this. He actually was a little nervous and tried to play it off as he is not angry or sad about his current position at the company, but I can tell he feels he isn't getting enough work. Truth is though, It all about how much you put into your career and how much you put in the time. He's worked here longer than I have, but I climbed the ranks fairly quickly and at a much higher success rate than anyone at the company. Well, I finally bitched about the position I wasn't given in a few months ago, and he just laughed when I said after all the work I have put in and they didn't give me that position, I was pissed, angry, and disappointed with myself. Well, from his words his whole staff/dept are actually impressed with what I have done and achieved over the past couple of months rather than that other client, yea it went to someone else but so what I have a much better position now and am in a much better place.

But I a getting worried, the guy who was given that role, he is trying to look at my current projects, he wants to know what i am currently working on, he wants to know more about what I do currently, well truth be told fuck him and he can go fuck off, what I have today stays in my hands and my control.

>>39433435

He can go fuck himself, not my problem if what he was given he is getting bored with and not looked as highly as I am, I ended up disrespecting this coworker to the other guy who said I shouldn't worry about the other position etc.. I feel like I made myself look like a bitch today for complaining. That question has never been answered why I wasn't given that one position, instead I moved on and gained far more knowledge and power with other things I work on.

Still pissed off though, I should just learn to move on and forget..

Good/bad news is now he knows I was pissed off about what happened, good news is I do have some additional work/projects I want to present and work on, however, I feel i trust him enough and I should give this work to him, so for once he will be happy he has something "cool" to work on...

tldr. work stress. i wasn't promoted months ago, but after picking up myself and working on other things, now the rats are crawling back and wanting what i have built today..

>>39433374
>Jerry Garcia
I did meet and speak with him once after a show at Stanford U's Frost Amphitheater.. he was a real nice guy.. no kidding.

Why is fit full of all these sad kunt threads today? Yall are never going to make it, >>>/r9k/

>>39433432
talesbythefireplace.jpg

Do you have any regrets? Any pets? Do you still have the capacity to love? Or is your heart cold? That's a really good way to look at the whole situation.

This is really interesting stuff. Any near death-encounters?

>>39433254
>22
huh that's when I stopped playing so much vidya too

looked at my 1000 hours clocked in tf2 and thought, "what did this actually get me?"

26 now and I'm full normie, job, car, gf

>>39433374
>advice
take the best care of yourself you can.. study optimal wellness and be on guard against bad habits..

get plenty of sleep, get up early and get out into the sun and be in nature as often as possible

find some hobbies which enrich you ..like me I l have a high end stereo and enjoy classical music and I own a 20 year old 8 cylinder BMW which take a lot of attention to keep in working order..


worry about nothing.. you can only do your best and believe you are loved by an eternal creator who has a destiny for you beyond this life

>>39433459
I made many poor choices but regret to me implies the inability to release failures ... I am making the most of what I have.

I find my loving in being kind and considerate of others as I make my way along.. I am not cold or bitter but I have endured a great deal of hurt and so am kind of wounded and alone.. I was given a strong constitution as far as that goes..

I'm not going to be going postal any time soon.

I had an ego death experience with Liberty cap mushrooms once.. but aside from being rear ended by an SUV going 45 mph while I was stopped I've been lukcy

>>39433439
This is a trippy conversation.

>>39433467
Sounds solid, I'll apply it best as I can. Have you ever killed a man?

I used to have a Supra I worked on, it was very relaxing, eventually sold it. Been thinking about getting another one...

How important is sleep in the long run? I get a lot of rest, but not that much sleep. What time do you get up every day?

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18 yo college freshman
no friends no gf and all i do is study and lift
wish I had friends but I have no interests except anime and shitposting so cant make any

>>39433501
>ever killed a man
not that I know

I may have broken a few hearts and once an aluminum wheel cover came off my bimmer without knowing it.. I suppose it could have split someone's head open..

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>>39433501

>lotus looks like this NATTY not sleeping 8+ hours a day

What the fuck is going on with your genetics lotus

>>39433501
>How important is sleep
I think sleep is a non negotiable essential\


but being I have been a night owl my whole life maybe I feel the effect of a solar deficit.

I have a varying sleep schedule been a second shift worker for ten years so staying up into the AM.. been trying to turn that around for a year or so now.. with varying success

I don't feel loved anymore and no matter how much weight I lost, and how much muscle I've gains, I still can't stop feeling fat. I have size 32 pants and everybody tells me I'm skinny, but for the life of me, I still think I look disgustingly fat. And people are tired of hearing about my problems so I just stay quiet about them and I feel like I'm not wanted or loved, only used by other people.

>>39433523
weak traps throwing me off

>>39433536
I heard somewhere once that when we are in need if we begin to give the thing we think we lack it will begin to come to us... so maybe try being a loving person..open up more to others and share your gifts for bringing cheer and encouragement to other without looking for this absent love you feel you lack and maybe it will come when you have stopped expecting it

>>39433514
I wonder if my life is going to turn out similar to yours, there are a lot of parallels...

>>39433523
I've never gotten much sleep PTSD from an abusive childhood.

>>39433524
I'll try and get more sleep then, maybe go seek some remedy for the source of my sleep problems. I usually sleep until 6:30am, going to bed around 2:00am, then start the day. I 'rest' by reading recreationally a lot since I don't get much sleep.

>>39433548
I've been trying for the past half year, all I get back is disappointment. People are so inconsiderate it makes my heart heavy. There's no love left out there, only cold harsh reality.

>>39433557
>I've never gotten much sleep PTSD from an abusive childhood.

:(

thinkin' about you hurting bby

If it makes you feel better lotus, you're helping anons here. Your body + natty is a huge inspiration to natty BBs here like myself

>>39433557
Honestly if I could go back and say anything to my high shcool self I;d say don't walk out of the SAT and think becasue nobody stopped you your future didn't matter.

Don't ignore the possibility you will live to old age . Prepare for it... if you live long enough you'll find it very hard getting along without enough money to remain established..

>>39433564
>all I get back
This is the problem.. Love seeks not its own..

When you are genuinely loving you are not in it for the returns..

>>39432709
Same. Tinder is putting more genders in so hopefully there will be a MtF option so I can find some boipussy around here.

>>39433579
I used to love, and all that got me was getting taken advantage of.

>>39433564
>There's no love left out there,
There is a point where you move on but over-generalization is not valid..

>>39433588
How do you remain so vulnerable all the time. I feel like I need to be a fortress to get ahead in life.

>>39433570
Good to know!

>>39433574
Oh man, did it feel like your future didn't matter when you walked out? Do you have any close friends that have passed away?

>Don't ignore the possibility you will live to old age
This is a problem I have, I keep thinking I won't make it the next five years, then when I do it's tough to plan.

How much money should I aim to save?

Brehs...so me and my gf of about 1.5 years recently got into a fight. We were pretty high from an edible. I was sort of trolling her by playing some song that goes "bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks". After playing it for awhile and singing along to it a bit, she got really pissed when i told her i wasnt going to turn it off and she said "little dicks aint shit" to my surprise(im pretty average and the only other dicks shes seen have been in porn). She said she didnt mean it afterward and just said it to get me to stop the song. Ive been thinking about breaking up with her for it. What do?

Approaching/fucking women, finding a job i'm proud of.

Broke up with gf after 11 years together, she was a cheating cumdumpster.

>>39433506
this is gonna sound dumb as fuck but check out an anime club. The people in there tend to be as or even more autistic than you but are really friendly once you get them going about anime. From there you can hang out with the ones that are more chill and they will have friends that are normalfags and shit. Also some of them like to drink and party hard. Trust me.

Just be careful. I once told a guy his waifu was a shit and lost the opportunity to make friends. Whatever you do, don't spout 4chan memes unless you know them really well.

>>39433613
unless you're filthy rich, she's cheating on you, or a combination of both, girls will not stay with a guy that doesn't satisfy them sexually for 1.5 years.

>>39433557
As long as you stay faithful to your lady and your daughter you will do well, and remember to sometimes sit your ass down to chill and drink some fizzy pop after working hard all day.

>>39433596
in my 20's I was living pretty high.. then i saw some homless people ... people sitting alone on benches.. forgotten, alone.. maybe meantal health problems of other issues... i fel bad for them and wanted to try and help.. I found being a vessel for love to help restore as much as possible people who were broken and hurting terribly was the most fulfilling thing I could possibly do and enriched me infinitely more than chasing money and having the best of everything..

>>39433612
Not him, but save whenever you can. You have to make it a lifestyle. Be frugal with your daily routine/habits/necessities so that you can spend money on more meaningful things. Those couple extra dollars everyday stack up big time.

>>39433643
I dont think thats the case. She basically begs me to fuck her daily. I think she is satisfied, im just pissed at her that she said it. I'm concerned that im just being too sensitive

>>39433612
Like I said at that time my dad was suffering with Alzheimer's . I derived my identity from childhood through adolescence from him.

I saw myself as my father's son and now he was disapearing.. he was a couple of decades older than the parents of my age group but I loved him.. even though I was an adopted child I was fully bonded with my parents and seeing this horror unfold like a slow motion bomb going off was more than i could handle as a 16 /17 year old so I guess i acted out in desparation and turned to self medicating which combined with my massive macho-man ego didn't serve me well and i eventually just stopped going to school

i did exceptionally well with my first job as an Audio Consultant while my class was still in school .
I made it to the eighth ranked by sales in the whole nation wide corporation..

but I never got over what was happening to my dad and I held its against God... that never works out

so lots of partying and I ended up just goofing off for a decade while my peers were building careers..

>>39433667
So you were a colossal dick, then she took a shot back and now you want to end it? Champion.

>>39433631
I tried going there
everyone is older and has an established friend group many neckbeards too
I dont fit in because I look better than them (7/10) so you wouldnt tell I am an autist when you look at me

>>39433706
Damn fasho. I'll be honest, what I actually did was join a beginner Japanese class. There are other freshman there looking to make friends and most are weebs, early on anyway. Most weebs die off at higher level Japanese class. There are more normalfags in those classes by a huge margin if you manage to stick with it, plus it's fun tbqh. Most of my really close friends now I made through that, like me (and perhaps you) they don't look like otaku fat ugly shits and they hide their power level. However, because it's Japanese class you can hint at or mention offhandedly something about anime and gauge how they react to it. If they react positively you have something in common and can proceed from there.

>>39433699
Yes, that's sort of the idea.

>>39433706
I also want to add on that Japanese class if fucking hilarious even if you don't make friends. Some people cannot hide their power level for the life of them and watching them sperg has given me some of the greatest laughs I've had in my life.

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>>39433631
Ayy tried joining the anime club in my college and it sucked.

The first time I visited the club, there were some panchos, two niggas ( one of them with black lipstick on), a fat neckbeard with cat ears in his computer in one fucking corner. And an asian grill ( 6/10) who would just stand up, say something like "kawaii, desu ne, :3" and go back to her cellphone with this look of disgusting in her face.
I thought it would be much better than this. I wanted to cosplay and eat pizza on Halloween and then cosplay as a half naked Santa for Christmas, was that too much to ask?

>>39433826
Mine sucked too desu check my above post about Japanese class. It's much better. Remember you don't want full weebs, they can be incorrigible, you want closet weebs that can function and go to cons and cosplay and shit

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My entire life I've wanted to become a real super Saroyan (or the human equivalent) but I don't think it can happen. How do I become a real super sayian? Pic is me

>>39432528
Just like anything else breh. Set a time to focus, make it short at first. Don let your focus waver. Then work your way up to longer times.

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>>39433873
I know, I know. Should have thought of that before. But I've been making progress with lifting ( already lost 40lbs, and need other 10lbs before bulk). I knoe it's a bit late, but hopefully, I'll be a half naked santa next year.

>>39433887
tyler? da fuck are you doing here?

>>39433693
You are a solid bro. This conversation was very helpful :)

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I've been 1 month shoulder free pain. It took me 2 months. So I lost all my gains in 3 months except for legs and forearms. Time to go back in December. Just making sure my shoulders are 110%. I also have another health problem I want gone before the end of the year, fucking hate random diseases

Building relationships with people and staying in contact.

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>>39432417
I no longer miss my ex girlfriend; I realize that it wasn't meant to be. However, I don't know if I can ever love again the way I did with her. I can't imagine myself opening up completely with someone else, or trusting and believing that they will love me back when they say they do.

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It's been a year, but I'm still waiting patiently for them to acknowledge me.

>>39433997
Don't worry. One of these days he'll sneak up to you and whisper: "Senpai has noticed you."

>Fell for the college meme
>Fell for the economics meme
>Can't find a job
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>39433299
what is Adex?

>>39433467
fuck man, so many feels.

Best of luck, dude. Hope you'll find your internal peace

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>>39432934
>Write down everything that makes me happy
>end up with blank piece of paper

>>39433626
i feel you man

Living life without her

Don't know if we will ever reunite in the future but I'm trying to move forward. Maybe I won't be with her again, maybe I will but its better than moping around. The uncertainty kinda keeps me optimistic.

Anyway, trying get some sort of fling/relationship with another chick to see if my ex was "the one".

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>>39432739
Sounds like me atm. When I'm not at my job/working out, it gets to the weekend then I get rather lonely/bored. Maybe it's our own fault for not finding other hobbies and worrying about finding someone.

>>39432729
Trt is a hell of a drug i hear

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Money problems, I'm poor as fuck and struggle to even eat proper food after paying rent

>tfw used to make fun of prostitutes
>tfw actually have considered sucking dick for.food mney

>>39434302
That's a problem the majority of people have man, my rent is 975 and I only make 1350 a month and I highly doubt I'll ever make anymore than that or work anywhere else because I can't afford to drive or move.

>>39433050
Lol nope, post pics

>>39433134
best advice i've seen on this north korean animated movie web space.

>>39433387
Oh god... I have those feels but... I had a girl who came from boarding school and lost her virginity to me in college, and I became overprotective which pushed her away... have been terribly depressed for 3 months already, ill never find a girl like her again.... I dont know whats worse, never having had it at all or having had it and living with the regret of fucking it up

>>39434331

I have no male friends and I do well with women.

Online dating, talking to people outside.

I occasionally you know, LEAVE my HOUSE (take notes anons...) and outside in the world there are SINGLE WOMEN that are glad to go on dates with /fit/ men...

>tfw no gf
>tfw 5' 8" manlet
>tfw struggling with classes
>tfw getting chem BA not BS due to poor grades in 2 classes early in school career, time and budget constraints
>tfw told the only girl i've ever loved I don't love her
>if I say it enough maybe i'll believe it too

I've been chasing her for 8 years now. Sort of feels like a waste now. At least the iron loves me. and my rifles love me. I've only got 1 2 and a bit quarters of classes left (assuming i don't flunk out). I've got an idea of what I want to do afterwords, but i'm anxious as to if it'll actually be a fulfilling career. Every day I spend a little more time thinking about packing up and going to Alaska or Montana and doing... something else?

>>39433336
Talk to her

>>39432417
>struggling with something really difficult
Crushing lonliness

>>39433613
Stop being an insecure pussy, you were both high and you were having banter you fucking retard

>>39433631
What fucking awful advice

>stop being a loser by signing up to the local loser club!

getting a gf. girls just want to hook up.

I don't really have any problems hooking up with girls. I have two female roommates who are close friends and they tell me girls are hitting on me at parties pretty often and I don't notice it. I have a pretty good amount of friends, go out to bars/parties every other day (I'm in uni). But for some reason whenever I try going on dates or try to get closer to girls, they tell me they aren't interested or just stop talking to me.

It's not so bad since I still hook up with girls relatively often but I'm getting so bored and I want to just have a qt to take on dates.

>>39432417

After juggling long hours of work, lifting and taking my dog for a walk each day, I have hardly any time for video games :(

>>39433428
Yeah I guess I need to overcome the urge to sit around and do stupid mindless shit. It's so hard though since I've been doing this my entire life :(

My binge eating is destroying my life and I have a party to go to this weekend. Mad men is changing my views and the way i act irl. I dont have as much time as i want to. My girlfriend might be a setup. Shes 17, i want to hit but for legal reasons im nervous.

Fml senpai

>>39434165
thats funny as hell. you should write down healthy cynicall.

>>39434594
>a binge eating pedo with no self control

you fit right in here

>>39432598
"Hey you're getting kind of fat, come lift with me" in whatever manner you feel necessary

>>39432417
Psychological instability.

I was recently diagnosed with a heart arrythmia. It's not clear yet what type of arrythmia I have, though they think it is probably one that is not dangerous. Nonetheless, the thought of having a heart issue has made me extremely anxious.

Over the past few months I have also begun to get panic attacks out of the blue. I'm scared that my anxiety and frequency of panic attacks is going to get worse.

I'm scared brahs.

>>39433613
Lmao chill the fuck out that is a total non issue

>>39432417
i'm a closeted alcoholic and it's eating me alive.

literally

>>39433965
I'm in the same boat anon

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>>39432417

Guys, most of these problems aren't a big deal...just try not being so anxious and neurotic and your life will get better.

>>39432417
I have nasty rashes all over my body, appointment to the doc is in 3 fucking weeks and I have no idea where it's coming from.

Clothes feel like sandpaper, showering like acid, I am legit going insane, couldn't sleep well im the last 2 months

>>39432417
I'm struggling with deciding which exhaust to put on my Mustang.

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>>39432417

I work 6 days a week, sometimes up to 70 hours a week just to support myself and my parents who are in bad health. My dad just turned 60 and has dementia. 1/2 of all the money I earn goes to them and my body is falling apart from all the phyiscal labor I do. I make about 70k a year and I can't even enjoy it, senpai.

I have no time for friends or women anymore.
Sometimes I get the urge to tell my mom to stop leeching off me...and I feel like a bad person for it

>>39432417
I'm 34 years old and i've been dating the same girl for 11 years. She has gradually gone from a very sexually adventurous person to someone who is borderline asexual. She now struggles with severe anxiety and has a host of other undefined health problems. She has also gone from a tight 5'5" body with a large B-cup to someone with a gut who weighs 140lbs.

At this point I am literally repulsed by her personality and her body. Yet i can't yet bring myself to leave. We have discussed the sexual hell that i'm in and she has promised to change but she does not change. It honestly feels like we are roommates at this point more than anything else. I realize the answer is "leave her," it's easier said than done but i'm gradually getting there.

On top of all that, i think i'm in love with her best friend who she has known her whole life. She has a kid but a way tighter body than my gf, and a way more relaxed personality.

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>>39434786

You sound like a piece of shit...

>>39432672
shave beard, tape hairs on head

>>39434793
Ok

>>39434793
Fuck off kid

>>39434786

Relationships are a two way street. You deserve to be happy, and if you're not happy with your gf there's nothing wrong with breaking it off.

>>39433693
Had a similar thing but with my mom. She got parkinsons disease. It got bad when I was around 13. She couldn't accept it, but couldn't fight it either. She cried all the time, could move well for half an hour, shook like crazy and couldn't move or speek well for the next two hours, had crazy convulsing movements after the medication kicked in, it was a mess. The whole family was constantly in a quarrel, I got bullied in shool and I felt all alone in the world. Man I remember coming home from a shit day at school, father is yelling, mom is crawling on the floor, crying because she couldn't walk, it was just too much for me. Her medication got a lot better and the family calmed down and stood together though.

Life got a lot better, lifting and martial arts played a big role in that process. But man, this feeling of loneliness and helplessnes are something that I can't forget

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>>39433693
>>39434826

sometimes I forget that there are real people on here with real problems (being a 30 year old virgin doesn't count)

thanks /fit/, I'm not alone, I guess

>>39432417
I got a gf but now I'm betaing out massively

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>>39434853

how?

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>At work
>Trying to stay positive
>Meeting invite came through for
>England, and looks like I'll be up at 3am in a few days leading another meeting....
>tfw. sleep cycle destroyed again

Im still madly in love with my ex who I dated for a year, who took my virginity. I texted her I love her and that if we date again things would be better than last time and that I'd make her even happier. She didn't know how to feel and i cant blame her. I want her back but at the same time i dont cuz Im afraid to feel these awful feels again. I wake up in the mornings feeling so alone knowing she isnt mine anymore and I hate it and I hate me

>>39432757
tell the ex what u got to lose

>>39433254
Later you discover most things are pointless and might as well enjoy yourself, but everything in moderation.

As long as you allocate time to keep fit and some time for reading, and it doesnt interfere with your job, then fucking play vidya if you feel like it and its truly something you enjoy, and enjoy it while you actually can and have the time for it.

99% of normies watch netflix and browse social media instead. You're not missing out.

>>39436305
Delete her number, cut off contact, go out and start meeting other people. Once you fuck another person or two you will feel very different about it.

Friend of mine died this monday. Very hard to see any worth in anything right now. Workout yesterday went pretty good still but, ye, I'll never hear her voice again I guess.

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>>39436735
Idk why but i dont want to let go. I feel like a pathetic piece of shit being hung up on her

>>39433172
Move out you fucking retard

I was a fatty (chubby) who was in a LTR with a girl who cheated on me. I finally got the courage to break up with her, 'cause I've been so depressed and unhappy, and now I want to change everything about myself that was ugly back then.

Down over 30 pounds, diet completely under control, and I've been doing body weight workouts from home every day.

struggling with stuttering and public speaking in a highly competitive field (medical)
hold me brehs

>>39434862
I don't know how to build a better connection and I feel nervous around her. I guess it takes time but I have known her for 5.5 months and dated for 2.

Not to mention I am pretty new at this. When does the nervousness go away?

>>39432729
GET
ON
TEST

>>39432417
I struggle with overeating and being lazy. Constant female rejection and self hatred ruin my motivation.

>>39437104
you mean inject-able or analog precursor prosupps?

also why so emphatic?

>>39432663
I seriously hope you are not implying that I'm not a 5'10" Alpha male ubermench, because you would be dead wrong

>got builtfat
>big and bulky
>now i want to be a twink again

cutting back

>>39432457
tinder.

I starting dating at my 30. It's full of twentysomethin girls with a thing for older guys. Now I have my second gf (pretty serious) she's 22. My last one was 21. I dated girls from that to 27.

Good luck

Alright I'll try my luck here

>New girl at work
>Instantly connect really well, flirt with each other but we're too awkward to do anything about it
>She asks me out
>We go on a date, went well etc
>Week later I get a text saying she and her ex boyfriend are gonna try and fix things and that she has feelings for me but she doesn't want to lead me on

What's my best course of action /fit/? Ive spent this last week emotionally dead, I really like this girl.

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23 with a shitty dead end job and failed side business venture (too lazy to mow lawns). Minimal career prospects and under 5k to my name.
Balding
Tobacco Addiction (although it's been a week now without)
Shitty abbrasive personality. Only nice people like me, the rest tolerate me on a professional level.
Kind of drug fucked and cooked from all the LSD, weed and other hallucinogens over the last 5 years.
Can't tell if I have a really great or really poor perception of reality. Sometimes I hear my thoughts or random things and it's really beautiful how the mind works and I have no way to share what I experience without coming accross as crazy.

Atleast I'm relatively attractive, bold as fuck and cope well.

The good thing is, I'm made a lot of changes lately

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It's unbelievable how much I miss my ex.

>>39436763
That sucks man. Lost two friends before the age of 22. Bad feels :(

>>39434618
Fuck it
It doesn't matter

does the threat of nuclear war fuck with anybody else's gains? I'm a burger and I've been losing sleep over if Putin decodes to launch a nuke our way. I know it probably will never happen but there's still a chance you know

>>39437830

you should be happy if it happens so everyone can die in a blink

>>39437788

>break up 6 years ago.
>get fit.
>still miss her.
>move for job.
>get laid off.
>move back in with parents.
>her sister gets married 4 years ago.
>ex gets married last week.

At least I'm getting close to a 600lb diddly senpai.

>>39437838
I actually enjoy living though

How do I hide from the girls that I only really have about three friend, one of which is my gym partner.

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>>39432457
Met mine at work at the time. Im a firm believer that the very few places youll find love is somewhere you spend 40+ hours a week at,. If youre not working, get a fucking job you weeabo.

>>39432417
I read that in Joe's voice.

>Does it make you like, really aggressive
https://youtu.be/HQp3qJlxkcU?t=28m40s

>>39432598
be up front about it.

you're not going to find a graceful way to say it that won't make her mad so you need to get it out of the way fast before it becomes something she can't control in a reasonable amount of time. at least if you break it to her soon you have a chance to stay together

>>39432729
start taking creatine and whey.

get fish oil and b12 supplements.

work out on SS but don't eat as much or progress as fast.

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>be me
>BMR is 2100
>TDEE is supposed to be 3200
>cut at 20% at 2800
>lift and work is factored in
>but why don't i just work. Is the magical lift and cardio suppose to burn more calories or something?

I struggle with that concept.

>Been cutting for going on 2 years lost about 60lbs 54" to 44" waist
>stagnated as soon as school started.

Dated a girl for 2 years in college. We were both pretty immature so the relationship was rocky, but it always felt like she was the one, even after we broke up. I've dated better looking girls, worse looking too, but it always felt like i'd end up with her even when she moved to LA with her new boyfriend.

When they got married i nearly booked a ticket to try to convince her not to go through with it, and sometimes i feel like she wanted me to.

Then last week out of nowhere she posts a photo on normiebook of their newborn baby. That, to me, is the end. I sat around on it too long, so here i am stuck in a dead-end relationship with a girl i don't love anymore while the truly proper companion for me is starting a family with someone else.

I'm still processing this feel but i'm fairly certain it's devastating.

>>39433138
A lot of the time I have to stand when getting a blowy. I've got a decent sized donger but it'll fall to half mast if I'm laying down. My guess its better for blood flow to be standing up.
If your problem is more common, look into no porn. No fap is a meme, but porn really fucks you up. If the issues persists, see a doctor. Could be anything from low test to prostate issues to psychological issues. No reason to take that on without professional help.

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>>39432417

Little brother the killed himself 5 years ago

I was the one that found him, all alone. Tried to bring him back, but couldn't.

He was a robot. Normalfags all showed up at his funeral like they cared, when days before he was being made fun of by them.

I'm a 24 year old virgin that takes all of my anger and hatred towards the world out in the gym and in my sport.

>>39438572
>I'm still processing this feel but i'm fairly certain it's devastating.
Im a terrible person who knows not a single thing about women, dating or how things work despite spending 11 years in relations so my advice might not be the best but i think you might be dealing with something beyond just loosing her

I think you might be missing the you of those times and you associate it with being with her, seeing her with someone else(also why havent you deleted her on FB...) is a reminder that the happiness you had and the wonderful feeling wont return

I honestly suggest you see someone and talk about this, it might help you deal with the issue instead of just repressing it because thats clearly not working for you

>>39437404
injectable

emphatic cause its important. theres no reason to not hop on, especially when you are having issues like fucking up your rotator in your sleep.

https://fresnostate.co1.qualtrics.com/SE/?SID=SV_82HPz6a5GsVl04B

>>39437788
Text your ex if you miss him that much

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I don't trust girls and have eliot rodgers-tier levels of resentment towards them. I have a few friends who are girls who are nice so I'm juat one big conflicted mess. I've never even been on a date before.

>>39437856
Did you talk to her over the 6 years?

>>39439077
I have. She didn't reply.

>>39432528
Like me, you probably don't like what you're studying.
I stopped trying to study at home. It's a waste of time. The library is the only place to study for me. I tell myself to study for 25 minutes and then take a break. Usually the 25 mins becomes 50 mins. Repeat.

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>Lost touch with all my friends for about 2 years now
>can't seem to make any new ones
>I should be enjoying my time at college but I just can not
>parents are about to divorce
>tfw no gf to share love with
>weed is becoming the only things that makes me feel happy
Atleast I'm putting on some gains

>>39438716
Nobody should have to go through that. Hope you're doing well

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I experienced mad paranoia whilst being high. On several ocassions I heard the whole world talking to and about me. It was so real and frightening.

The last joint I had left me fucked up. Now I'm stuck with unreasonable fear of the whole word knowing me, my neighbors spying on me and hear voices calling me dumb.

Being a NEET doesn't help, but lifting and cardio gets me distracted for a short while.

>>39439091
what happened for you to not trust them?

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Feelings are gay

>>39432417
Struggling to go to the gym 3 days a weak. Been swamped between work and family stuff. I need to get re-motivated and start breaking PRs again. Just not the same being my average self.

Been having trouble motivating myself to eat enough too, which has always been a main issue for me.

>>39432588
Satan's cabbage is my fave stuff but you NEED to take at least a month off every so often

>>39432417
Well, getting girls of course
>tfw 25 year old virgin
the funny thing is that this can actually by no means be described as "something really difficult" if I look at people who get laid (read:fucking everyone but me)
I traveled the world, made myself reasonably /fit/ (haven't made it yet) , gained tons of confidence , went from sperg to charismatic and outgoing, got a degree, good side job, active lifestyle.
And still, nothing.
Due to a fucked up youth and absent father ignored girls completely unti about three years ago, and after that couldn't comprehend the fact that a solid amount of them were actually interested combined with the fact that I don't know how to act on it without instantly becomig Beta again.
What do Bros?
How do I get a girl who likes me to actually fuck?
My life is far from lonely or boring, so I don't care about getting a gf, but I want to finally get laid and get to know a few girls.

>>39433437
After reading that blog bro I think you're going crazy

>>39437830
Threat was avoided because Hillary lost. If she had won you would be justified sweating bullets.

>lel no-fly zone guys

>>39440117
>What do Bros?
Nothing you already embraced the life of Tombovian Wolf, just life you life and dont worry about it, if by some miracle some girls falls on your dick then good for you mate, if not, its not your fault you missed out on learning crucial courtship skills, just dont worry about it, most of us here missed out on our teenage athletic foundation window and are trying to catch it, its not going to happen, but it doesnt hurt to try

>>39437777
> internet dating meme

>>39440425
>This defeatist shit

What are you even talking about?
What do you do on a Board centered around self-improvement?
"Crucial courtship skills", holy fuck.
Go back to /r9k/

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>>39440471
go away reddit

>>39432417
Diet. I'm 5"9 and 200lbs, body fat most likely over 30%. I know its simple maths but I cant help myself, I am weak.

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>>39432417
My job start date got delayed untill next year and now I have to start looking for work all over again.
I've got a fucking cold too so I won't me maxing out anytime soon.
Pray for me.

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I'm waiting for results to find out why I'm getting blockage when I pee.

I should be correcting my students work but I simply can't get myself to do it, weird, I can go to the gym without a problem but doing university tasks gets a lot of mental strength to do them

>>39439435
Can confirm that this is really effective

>>39432417
Derealization, 14 years now.

>>39432417
Trying to get a lot better at programming and deploying really smooth, rock solid web apps. It's hard as fuck to do that + work + work out + keep up with extra curriculars.

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Need to stop smoking and drinking energy drinks. Also videogames

I can't gain muscle mass. No matter how much I lift and do incline press, and can't get ripped. My arms are practically sticks

Balding and fat.

Decided not to be fat.

>>39440839
You aren't eating enough and are lifting too light.

>>39432417
In school for animation/illustration. Going towards 3d modeling. The workload is fucking crushing.

The workload this semester is actually so much I'm having difficulty finding the motivation to do anything else - gym included.

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>>39432417
>codeine/xanax withrawal day 2

>>39438448
keep it up anon, school is always gonna be an obstacle towards eating clean and lifting, learn to budget you're time and you'll be fine

>>39440909
You brought this upon yourself when you decided to act like a degenerate.

>>39436775
I'm in the same boat bruh. It's been 7 months since the girl I loved basically cut me out. I tried dating afterwards, even got another gf (that didn't last, but we're fuck buddies now).

Just work on *you*. Ya gotta meet new people.

>>39440916
ok

I fucked a girl while working abroad for 2 months but never told my gf. I thought I'd be enough of an asshole to just not tell her but I feel guilty af now. Wat do (this happened last summer)

>>39434339
hahaha i know these feels all too well friend! except my girl was a whore to begin with and i should of known it, senior in highschool (18) and she fucked me within a week hahahaha, im glad i lost my virginity but i couldnt get it up the first time, 3 times after i did tho. She is a top whore man, and she is absolutely insane! she fucked me over 2 times now and i ignored her for 1 fucking day and she called me 35 times in 2 hours and left me walllllls and wallls of text, then today after i finally talked to her she chillin with some other dude and lied straight to my face about it, i know from past experiences she is even tho she said she wasnt.

stupid crazy cunts man never trust a whore and NEVER ever girl a girl a second chance. The shitty thing is if she wasnt such a hoe we would of been great, but whatever man u get some and u lose some, she wasnt even that good of a fuck and sex is highly over rated imho.

i like blowjobs more lol made her choke on my dick multiple times, tears comin from her eyes hahahaha. she was a crazy one in bed tho, load moaner screaming had to tell her to shut the fuck up and she startin buckin like crazy.

actually missin it but whatever lol

I honestly can't tell if I'm still in love with my first girlfriend or if all the girls I've dated/been with since have just been shit people.

>>39440976
same person that posted this^

i should mention i saw so many red flags and still do even tho im honestly considering getting back with her, not very serious but its on my mind. i wanna bang her more desu but i should mention a longterm relationship is probably impossible because shes so unstable its scary, goes to therapy, on anxiety or despression meds, constantly has mental breakdowns, shes a crazy one.

but when shes not being unstable its so fun to be with her man it really sucks that shes so fucked up. i could get her back any time i want to be honest, i might just use her as a quick fuck in the near future, since she is a whore. if anyones interested ill post a pic of her body

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THIS IS YOUR DAILY REMINDER

THIS IS YOUR DAILY REMINDER TO PLUG IN YOUR BLENDERS, HEAT UP YOUR FLOTATION TANKS TO SKIN TEMP (35.5*C)

THE WEED HAS BEEN LIT AND IT'S TIME TO SLAM YOUR KALE SHAKES, TAKE A TOKE & MARK OFF YOUR CHECKLIST

TO POP YOUR:

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>YOUR FEAR FACTOR THEME SONG ALARM BLASTS THROUGH YOUR HOUSE

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>AFTER YOUR INTENSE WORKOUT YOU CALL OVER BRIAN REDBAN USING TING BEFORE GETTING INTO YOUR ISOLATION SENSORY DEPRIVATION FLOTATION TANK AND PACKING YOUR MOUTH TO THE BRIM WITH POT BROWNIES FOLLOWED SHORTLY AFTERWARDS BY COCONUT WATER ENEMAS JUST AS THE DMT KICKS IN AS YOU LISTEN TO DUNCAN TRUSSEL AND GRAHAM HANCOCK HYPOTHESIZE THAT THE PYRAMIDS = ALIENS AND THE ARK OF THE COVENANT IS HIDDEN IN UGANDA

DUDE BOOOOM LMAO

DUDE KETTLEBELLS LITERALLY ENCRUSTED WITH WEED AND DUNKED IN MCT OIL AND THROWN OFF BUILDINGS FEAR FACTOR STYLE

>"BRENDAN SCHAUB JUST END IT ALL, I THINK YOU ARE A WORTHLESS FIGHTER AND I HATE YOU, BUT COME BACK ON THE PODCAST SO I CAN BLOW YOU THE FUCK OUT OF THE WATER AGAIN AND REDUCE YOU TO TEARS"

>"BRENDAN "FRASER" "FUCK MY SHIT UP" SCHAUB, JUST TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT. YOUR CAREER IS OVER. IT'S TIME FOR THE SMITH AND WESSON RETIREMENT PLAN"

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cue the hempforce mustard

>>39441029
lol same poster as here^ shes calling me again, jesus man never stick your dick in crazy bros!!! body pics incoming hold on

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>>39441060

>>39441140
the hickies on her titties are from yours truly!!

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>>39441170
fuck off dumb faggot get a tripcode already

>>39440976
>>39441029
>>39441140
Are you on coke or really this enthusiastic that some crazy Ho finally touched your peepee?
Other than that , you sound completely insane, so it's probably a good old case of Like attracts Like.

A new girl transferred to the shift I work recently. She seems very interested in me, but I'm such a paranoid wreck from the only time I dated a coworker that I second-guess every interaction.

I promised Kek I'd ask out the cashier I've never talked to before at my local supermarket if Trump won, now I'm avoiding buying things because I'm unprepared.

>>39434377
that's too logical

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>>39439703
I was taunted by girls throughout primary school and when I was in highschool I discovered redpill shit. I think I might have simeultaneous Adonis complex and body dismorphia if that makes any sense. I never felt inclined to approach girls either, and so I felt mad because it is expected of me to do everything to attract a girl while the girl does jack shot in contrast, and could receive far more attention. Sexual disparity.

>28
> haven't dated in a few years
> negative net worth
> stuck at job I hate
> stuck in career i hate
> have never done any work outside of my trade
> virtually zero free time
> trying to lift again, keep losing schedule cause I'm getting sick all the time
> manlet lyfe
> zero social interaction. No family within hundreds of miles, no friends, fucking hate coworkers.
> can't keep living as an employee, too stupid to be self employed or entrepreneur
> gonna be alone for all holidays

>>39441812
Damn dude, that's rough

>>39441812
>stuck in
Nope, no such thing. You are never stuck anywhere, you are just a pussy.

>25
>about 50k in bank, no student loans
>making 70k at an easy programming job
>only 5'8 so literally nothing I have control over matters in the eyes of women

considering suicide desu

>>39436305
>I texted her I love her and that if we date again things would be better than last time and that I'd make her even happier. She didn't know how to feel and i cant blame her. I want her back but at the same time i dont cuz Im afraid to feel these awful feels again. I wake up in the mornings feeling so alone knowing she isnt mine anymore and I hate it and I hate me

lol you feel that way because she's the first person to touch your dick. even though you're probably thinking "i'm not that type of cold person to just hook up with another girl while still in love!", the moment you bust a nut on another girl's tits, you'll forget she ever existed. or don't and be a broken-hearted pathetic romantic who won't move on or get the girl. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

>>39436775
its because she took your virginity. youre thinking with your dick. weve all been there

>>39437783
move on. she'll remember why she broke up with your ex. ball is in your court at that point to either wrap her around your finger or become her bitch

>>39441861
>you are just a pussy
This

>>39432417

My fucking room mate BITCH is just that. I took care of her FUCKING dog all day, and then she comes home and takes what I said COMPLETELY out of context. Screaming and yelling match.. now won't talk to me...

Sitting in room pissed off.

Did shoulders today tho; so bods good.

I'm struggling with the fact that I'm almost 25 years old and, given that I am a kissless virgin and haven't really had friends since I was like, 13, I obviously have absolutely zero social skills, and being so alone I'm depressed and miserable.

Because I have no friends and no sexual experience, I am afraid to try even try meeting people because obviously everyone has hated me my whole life and I will be embarrassed at my complete lack of social experience.

And then the fact that I have no friends/experience, I have no motivation to live for to want to improve.

>>39441234
for real

>>39441861
sure, I'll break my lease, tell the landlord, sheriff, courts, and banks to go fuck themselves while I go spelunking around to find a new job to start over in while being homeless.

Fuck your feel good " anything can happen if you try" bullshit. Choices have consequences, mine are grating my nerves. Thanks for the input.

>>39441925

why the fuck would anybody want to be friends with somebody so self-absorbed and mopey. you're draining my energy and i don't even know you man. if you want people to be attracted to you then be attractive, jesus.

>>39441861
With all due respect, you cannot know that for a fact.

>>39441937
i mean yeah to spontaneously quit isn't ideal but you can plan to take the plunge with sufficient anticipation so that your finances are in order. you gotta have the balls to take the plunge though

I'm struggling with crippling depression and self loathing, but that's probably not appropriate to thet hread.

How about somebody suggest some huge impressive weights that weight just as much as the smaller weights but are comically large so you can look like you're lifting a lot?

I've made it to the point I can just barely do 1plate OHP after only a few months of lifting, and I was pretty excited about it, but I use some old 10lb and 5lb weights that are small, and my friend said I "Looked like I was only lifting 5lbs", because women don't understand exercise.

So yeah, killed a lot of my confidence, so I'm looking to get a set of those retarded fucking crossfit weights that weigh like 10lbs but are massive as fuck.

Or I could stop lifting for aesthetics, I guess.

>>39441949
>don't have friends
>makes me depressed and miserable
>be mopey because of this
>mopiness makes people not want to be friends with me
>cycle continues

feels bad man

Graduated university and now I don't know what I'm going to do with my life. I hate the area of my degree I just chose it because I was smart enough to do it.

My heart tells me to follow my dreams and try and be an actor, but my head tells me to get a steady 9-5 and make money. I fucking hate this it all seems so pointless

>>39441972
fake it till you make it. or at least invest your free time getting involved in some kind of hobby to the point that other people get interested too, or at least you share that in common with other people. people don't talk about hobbies on /fit/ to blow smoke up your ass, you should try it out.

>>39441975
What's stopping you from doing both?

>>39441975
fucking Dolph Lundgren did it. Be Dolph Lundgren

>>39442000
>>39441992
i like the way you bros think

guess i just need to find my Rocky IV

>>39433613
i n s e c u r e

>>39441988
Since I'm so weird and awkward, "faking it" basically just makes me even look more autistic, unfortunately

>>39442059

if you have no friends then who is there to judge you for appearing "more autistic". seriously if you want to perpetuate this lifestyle then you deserve all the unhappiness that you think you have. ain't nobody gonna help you if you don't want any help. i'm bored of you

>>39441956

Been planning to take that plunge for years. Women and debt have fucked up any chance of it happening soon, and beyond that I have no idea where to plunge to. The prolonged wait just to start over on a career path that at its best is still likely to end in complete failure is driving me mad.

I missing having friends and time for friends. I talk to myself out of boredom. This is the closest thing to a " conversation" I've had in about a month.

>>39442101

shit i'd reach out to you but i don't know how without being doxxed or having trolls hitting me up

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Girls don't like me. I don't act autistic or creepy and am not ugly. In pretty good shape. Guys are always like "bro... are you a playboy? I bet you get mad pussy!" Etc. girls just don't "like" me? Or maybe I'm not really "going for it". Idk I see ugly dudes with chicks and complete loser idiots with no reason to live except be "cool" with chicks. Makes me ponder and just want to give up on women..

>>39442168

lol nice guy alert

>>39442207
I was posting my defense, then realized I AM a nice guy. Please help. I am a lover of philosophy so it's very hard to let me dick do the thinking...ever

>>39442246
what do you do that makes you think that youre a "nice guy"

>>39442256
Like to talk to girls about their interests and hobbies. Don't stare at them like if there weren't federal laws they would be raped within an instant. Discuss ideas and theories of the world. Generally try to make "friends" prior to any sort of relationship. How do I break this cycle?

>>39442268
>inb4 'dont change anon your kind is rare we need more ppl like u desu'

I'm like you. Women don't see our kind as potential mates. They see us as the neutral type like family.

>>39442268
I don't understand your post. So you're saying you talk to girls about their hobbies, and... state at them and talk theories about the world?

>>39442335
I don't stare at them like I want to rape them.

>be complete loser
>only places centered for losers to talk about their problems are cesspool echo chambers like r9k or foreveralone
>if i try to talk about it anywhere else online, like here, i get called a pathetic worthless loser, to just be myself, go back to r9k
>cant talk about it with anyone IRL because of how humiliating it is and if people IRL know you're a loser, they will avoid you like the plague, so i cant ask people what is wrong with me that makes everyone not like me
>when i try to be social with people to meet people, the tendencies that make me a loser obviously come out and then turn people away from me

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>>39438975
I'll look into it.. thanks.

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>>39438193
>get fish oil and b12 supplements.

like I said I started taking like 15 grams Leucine with 3 grams citruline malate 2:1 a few days ago... its shown to aid muscle building in older people.. I eat moderate protons like a few hard boiled eggs a can of sardines some chicken or turkey and some nuts and cheese usually every day..