why aren't you with the girl/boy you love?

>love
What the fuck is it? I've never seen it..

the hiccup is gonna KILL ME

Had kid with other woman, stuck around to raise

>>714710222
it's long distance and im a poor neetfag

>>714710765

she's retarded

>>714710856

does she love you?

>>714710222
I'm not in love with anyone

>>714710222
31 and never been on a date
it's friday night and i'm on /b/
i have no hope

>>714710964
He's a poor neetfag. Why would she love him?

>>714710964
yeah but shes poor and in uni and she said she'll pay for me to come when she has a job but the job market is so bad i don't have much faith in that but maybe we can live together in the future, im saving my money to meet here soon though which will be fun

>>714711104

You were. Why aren't you with him/her

Because she doesn't feel the same way, but she's all I'm interested in.

Sure there's is. All you have to do is find the right one. And believe me, as a former neckbeard that had sex being a neckbeard, there is someone for you outside.

because she moved to colorado to get a master's degree. maybe i should've told her i loved her before she left, but if i had, she may not have gone and i'd have felt guilty for the rest of my life for making her turn down that scholarship.

Haven't even talked to her in two years, Don't know if I ever will again. I hope she's OK. Maybe I'll see her again someday.

>>714711150

who cares? the future is long

>>714711123
I'm 32 and haven't touched a woman in 3 years. Its Friday night and I'm hanging out with my son. I'm glad I'm not you though.
Anywho, to answer OPs question I don't know any women that I have any interest in(I don't get out much these days)

>>714711267

well. I'm sorry to say this, but you're kind of fucked. If she's not interested, all you can do is search the next objetive. Even if you end fucking that girl, she won't be for you.

She lives on the east coast in Virginia near DC. I live in Ireland.

>>714711341

Do it now. Do fucking it. You're gonna die. She's gonna die too. Do it.

>>714711341
Don't see her again. Move on and forget. Trust me

>>714711404

that does not matter. Internet is vast. Internet provides. believe me. No hookers intended .

>>714710222
because I'm a loser, a lot of time waiting with fear and an asshole got her.

>>714710222
I am and it's fantastic

>>714710222
I asked her out 2 years ago, and she didn't talk to me for 3 weeks after that. Since the beginning of this year I became more social, less autistic, and have lost over 100lbs. I've also gotten to have a few good conversations with her.

The reason I'm not with her now, is I'm not sure that I'm good enough. I don't know if I can take her saying no, but I also can't take not telling her how I feel. Have I done enough /b/? Am I ready?

>>714711473

it doesn't matter. Years will give if you are persistant.

Because she best friend zoned me

I fell in love with her but I don't wanna tell her
I have told her I caught feelings though.

I guess I just didn't make a great first impression when I first met her....it kills me every day anon.

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>>714710222
>checkd
but I have sexual anxiety and can't satisfy her
girl of my dreams, fuckin sucks man

>>714710222
Because i'm autistic (literally) and small talk is fucking hard. She was into me, but I always end up saying something stupid.

>>714711581

Then just do it. You have her lost anyway.

>>714710222
she left, didn't say why

c'est la vie

>>714711593

i'm glad anon. don't lose it.

>>714711360
we're soulmates

>>714711595

If she didn't answer you for three weeks, maybe she's not the righ one.

Bc i cant deal with emotions or emotional intimacy

Because she cheated on me....

>>714711164
She cheated on me at least 5 times in 5 years, then the 6th time cheated with a guy who was gay, she said he's like a brother to her but then they got together and she crushed my heart.

I am unable to feel anything anymore.

>>714711607
She turns 30 next year and I am several years younger than her...

We barely even talk because she isnt into vidya as much anymore.

>>714711595

You're close. Save up some money, use it to impress her. Get good at conversation, and know some cool places to take her. Once you've got that down, you're ready.

I just hope she actually lives up to the fantasy you've probably built up around her.

>>714711640

Same happened to me. Suddenly she changed her oppinion when she saw me as a man, not as a friend. If you like her, GO FOR HER. demonstrate her you're a man.

>>714711809
>she said he's like a brother
Whenever a woman says this it should be a red flag larger then the size of Rhode Island.

>>714711656

Why? You have a tonge. You have fingers. Posibilities are endless.

>>714711567
Yeah, but I don't want some desperate easy lay with daddy issues. I want to find a girl I really like and fuck the shit out of her on the daily. Problem is I'm just not lonely enough to go out there and find her. Also I really need to get my shit together. If I find her now she wont think much of me.

>>714711679

Tell her waht you are. Tell her what are your problems. Tell her she could help you be a better person.

>>714711687

Well... That happened to me too. Maybe she was not the one. You'll discover over time.

>>714711898
How did you escape anon?

Help me.

>>714710222
Love doesn't exist, only infatuation.

>>714711950
I would have thought so too if it wasn't for the fact he was gay. I guess "Gay" now days means they'll fuck anything.

>>714711786

Then she will be with you. Just don't stop trying

>>714711684
Just do what? she will not let him for me. I already know the answer;
>Oh, you are so nice but I'm with him now, I don't like you the same way you like me.
Well, you said just do it, please help me, what should I do?

>>714710856
I did long distance for 8 years. It's been over for 2 years now but I'm not over it.
Since she was a girl it was easy for another guy to give her actual attention instead of me living states away. Unless you plan on moving out there you need to end that long distance faggotry.

>>714710222
Because I'm afraid of love.

>>714711497

I don't have her number anymore. She doesn't respond to emails. She deleted her FB and her IG is friends only now. (We cut off all contact when we broke up, because we both wanted a clean break.)

>>714711550

I think this is the way to go, I've had a few dates here and there since she left, but it's never been the same. Some were good, but it was never instant understanding and affection, like it was with her. I'll keep looking for someone, though. There's like 4 billion girls in the world, she can't be the only one who's a perfect fit for me.

>>714711809

Who cares about physical cheating? Girls are genetically made to fuck every guy possible, but to love only one.

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>>714712084
it's been a few years now

>>714711898
>you're a fag

because I hurt everyone I love and don't want to put her through it

>>714712098
Wow. So profound. Thank you wise anon for showing us the way.

>>714712094

"You're the prettiest thing i've seen"
"God, i'd love to kiss you right now"

go to the fucking cinema and KISS HER.

tell her she makes you hard as fuck

>>714711717
Thanks anon. We've been dating since high school, 9 years and still going strong. I don't see us ever ending.

>>714712128
A lot of people will say gay when in reality they are bi.
A lot of players will use the "I am gay so its ok if we get close" line with women.

>>714712000
Just saying that stuff is so not cool. I hate talking about myself and I hate pity and extra attention for the same stuff everybody else does.

>>714712141
i've saved $3000 to visit her

>>714712242

Hows your wife's son doing?

>>714712160

if she has a couple, that changes a lot of things. Just wait. If she are with him, then she was not the right one, just someone you wanted to fuck a lot

>>714710856
know that feel bro.

>>714710222
Fear of rejection

>>714712374
are you an english teacher

>>714712213

well. If she's like that, maybe you have to move. Believe when i say that "there's just one person to everyone" is bullshit. The next chick will arrive. And you'll think "why the shit was I so stupid?"

Because I'm going hunting tomorrow morning.

My four year relationship is going great thanks guys.

>>714712372
I did tell her that basically when she want to the Ball with me.

Big downside is I won't be able to see her till January cause she works all the time and she lives an hour away..

>>714710222
>why aren't you with the girl/boy you love?

My wife won't let me ;(

>>714712242
I've tried to contact her over the years only to make peace, she has refused to talk to me.

Got a bf. Waiting for her to ditch him cause she says he acts like a girl.

>>714711679
i`m a little bit autistic and that girl too, and it was nice to share that, once you find someone that can understand it and take it good you have found heaven.

>>714712665

Again, don't lose it. Anything can make it. I was stupid enough to think she would love me enough even if I was an asshole.

Protip: they can actually get tired of you.

>>714712423
$3000 is more than enough. why haven't you gone?

>>714712692

All the problems in the world are solved with a word: selfconfidence.

I were for a while. And it was amazing. Then i fell again in my bullshit, and the hole is big. don't let yourself go in that shit again

>>714712865
because the plane ticket will be about $2000 then hotels etc. i think about 5-6000 will be better

>>714712496
you might be right, but it's a so confusing feeling that I spent 2 years just thinking in her, no one never did that to me. Thank you Anon, I'll think better in what you said.

cause she turned me down

>>714711797
I didn't know her very well back then, and I didn't really ask her out so to say. I went to a play she was in, and left her a few flowers a notecard with my name and phonenumber on it. Needless to say, I wasn't called.

>>714710222
Because she insisted that I get rid of my dog, and Angron has been with me for a lot longer than she has.

I am

>>714712710
I get your feelings...husband does the same to me

>>714713014
$2000 for first class maybe. take economy, plan like 3 months ahead and find tickets for $700-800

>>714710222
Because she's my sister and it's not practical for us to be in a long term relationship.

>>714712764

she's asamed. that's HER problem. maybe you don't want to be with a girl that can't accept who she is. keep seraching

>>714712794
Glad you actually found her then man. I just want someone to be real with so I can actually say what I want.

>>714710222
because she's only 12 and her parents won't let me near the house :'(

>>714713119
fuck yuo, get out of here. let the rest of us be miserable in peace

>>714713119
Lies...

>>714710222
She cheated on me.

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>>714710222
Because I'm genuinely a high functioning autistic who can't keep a girlfriend for more than a month.

>>714713088

she's a fucking bitch and doesn't matter what you feel, it was a lie.

>>714711877
I've saved $4k and was planning on using it to trade in my car for an S2k. Any other ideas?

>>714713193
Join the club friendo

>>714710222
>>>/r9k/ cuck

>>714713131
cheapest is 2000, maybe get it for 1800. i live in australia

>>714713011
Maybe I'll message her tomorrow and ask her what she's doing after work. Then if she's not doing shit I'll tell her we're doing something in like an assertive-ish tone.
She did say that a reason she's not with me is that I "don't take charge"

>>714710222
I'm shy and ugly?

>>714713193

you will, if you find the right one. ffs, you live in the internet era. USE IT. the world is vast.

>>714710222
I've never had one
really want one though
but i bit i would be dissapointed
i havent meet a reflected woman yet
but then my ideas of a reflected person probably is way off
so in the end i guess i have to tolerate pretending to like someone to actually like them
or just go on like I am now
drugs makes option two seem less feasible

I loved her with all my being, and she betrayed me by cheating. I give up on women, they are heartless damned creatures.

>>714713190

And? Physical cheating is not love cheating.

>>714713350
australia to where

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>>714713273
He's a proud male you annoying fucker, but even if he was a bitch I'd still have dumped my girlfriend! Fuck you and your dog hating sensibilities!

>>714713300

nothing, anon. Just be sure of her feelings. Please, don't waste your life and money. be fucking FUCKING sure.

>>714713386
tell me about the girl you love, anon

>>714710222
i am, have been for awhile

sex is fun

I don't love anyone

>>714713434
amsterdam

Cause she is in North Carolina and I'm in New Mexico.

>>714712630
Nope. We were both students

>>714710222
Cuz she's a fat cheating cunt waiting to age herself into obscurity while sharing far better cock than mine. When she realizes that she isn't even worth my time and no one else will have her, I will turn her down, fuck her sister and her friends and then tell her she will die alone and unhappy.

Then I will hook up with a younger version of her and cheat on that cunt. All women need to be cheated on, beaten, treated like human garbage. They love it. They crave it. Just do it.

>>714713384

uglyness can be solved with selfconfidence. 4/10 fat fucker here and i've got a german girl after my shit just by the way i am. Take adventage of that.

>>714710222
I was stupid and mentally ill when I was younger. Fucked it up on so many occasions it's hard to count. But it's okay because I'll find love one day. XHopeX

>>714713424
Normally I'd avoid this word like the plague, but I'm not going to be a cuck. If a girl and I are going exclusive and she starts sleeping around, we're done. Loyalty is important. If I can turn down girls for her, she should turn down guys for me.

>>714713392

you don't need "one", you need "THE ONE".

>>714710222
i don't have a car yet and am dependent on rides

>>714713652
Easy to say, I have literally no self-confidence nor self estemm

>>714713683

mind loyalty is important. physical loyalty doesn't exist, is just repression. for men and women.

>>714713088
I told my 10 year long friend to fuck off because he kept abandonning his pets people who just give up on their animals are subhumans

>>714710222
I broke up with her. I... don't know why.

>>714713786

then thats YOUR problem. work on that, believe in what you have to provide, and shit will hapen. Maybe not tomorrow but it will.

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>>714713545

>>714713692
I cant make THE ONE fall in love with me when im a virgin who has been desperately lonely for several years when I meet her.
If I ever meet THE ONE, she won't even consider me.
Drugs it is

>>714713876

sometimes we're are retarded. Realizing that is a big step.

>>714713796
I disagree. I don't believe that every relationship should immediately be exclusive right away, but if you get serious with someone and they aren't cool with you sleeping around, you either acquiesce to their wishes or you break up.

>>714713497
Well I was already planning on getting it, but I was just wondering if you can think of something better to do. I'm in high school if that bears any importance.

>>714713919
where did you find that?? is it in AUD?

>>714713954

Maybe you can't. But dude, wtf, being lonely for serveral years can be the perfect weapon. I used the "i'm virgin and i want to experience things" for years after being virgin.

Some girls DIE to be teachers.

>>714714096
ah no good point in AUD it's abou $1000

I just used google's flight tool

>>714713904
Tbh there's one fault in me that keeps me low self-esteemed, I may get surgery some time

>>714710222
I left her /b/
Why? I dunno, why don't you go back and ask me? Because I'm not even sure anymore

>>714714096
https://www.google.com/flights

>>714714061

that's only a pact. But i've been letting my gf fuck other men, so i'm fucking any other women. And we both agree it's healthy.

>>714714164
...
neat

>>714714072

not really. Just don't bet everything you have if you're not sure is a safe one. Please.

>>714714281
>>714714185
it also needs to be a return ticket

>>714714385
that is the price for a round-trip package

>>714714264

why?

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>>714714289
>What works for me will work well for everyone

>>714714385
but also there will be insurance, visa etc. so yeah not cheap I agree.

I hope you two can meet soon, maybe you can both try finding a cheaper flight somewhere, both pay a smaller price

keep doing research and saving up.

>>714714416
im looking now it's about 200$ cheaper than i've seen previously but i think aiming for about 5000 or 6000 will still be a good idea

She's in a shaky long distance relationship. I've been sending signals but getting mixed responses.

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>>714710222
long distance
>'You would probably be happier with an actual human being...'
>mfw she does and fucks him within a month after i've tried for months to get shitty teenager rp shit
>mfw he plays WoW and she joins him after i've been trying even longer to get her to play
Feels bad man

>mfw next crush decides she's a lesbian and dates my other girl best friend (hamplanet because unfortunate genetics), and then suddenly isn't but is with a guy almost twice her age

>mfw next crush was raped as a kid and likes fucking too much
>mfw i was scared it meant she would never love me and/or i would have to measure up to the 10 guys before me
still a chance but hamplanet also liked me, and i at least trust and like her, i still don't know what to do, being lonely is almost easier, hold me anon

because I keep the hope alive that ill die in my sleep.
>every night

>>714710222
Because in the scenario I'm in the girl is actually going for the nice guy and I'm the asshole with crippling anxiety/self-hatred with no chance of becoming a better person

Because he wants to make his ex girlfriend and everyone else happy before asking me out.

>>714710222
I was. I though i didn't love her anymore and cheated on her, she found out and broke up with me. I thought I wanted to fuck other girls but now I don't feel like being with anyone other than her.
TLDR because I'm stupid

>>714710222
she works 40+ hours a week and i dont have friends cus i stopped talking to the ones i had

>>714710222
To expensive

>>714710222
Because shes 2d animu
>mfw

>>714714445
Like I said, I don't know, you'd have to have asked me that 2 years ago or so.
All I know now is that I still love her dammit, and it's constantly haunting me.
Especially the god damn reindeer.

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>>714714650
forgot to mention she's best friends with hamplanet, don't want to choose between friends and a relationship i would spend forever questioning the fidelity, not enough of a cuck to settle for an open relationship

>>714710222
if dubs she loves me

>>714714693
I'm quite th opposite. Literally one of her reasons for not going for me was that I'm too nice she said.

>>714710222
She's with her husband.

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>>714715037
okay dubs if she likes me

>>714715037
if singles you a nigger kys

>>714714715
Name?

Don't die

>>714715046
No matter how hard I try i alienate every qt I meet with my memes and 4chan slang and self-deprecating jokes and all my friends who are girls are either hamplanets, in relationships, or are too old

Same as >>714710856

Except she ended it because she's a commitment-phobe, doesn't think she loves me as much as I love her, and because she wants to focus on her career - which pisses me off because those sound like reasons I would use. And it leaves me no real way to resent her. I'm almost hoping to find out she was cheating just so I can forget her and come away as the bigger person. Fucking bitch.

>>714715392

Name of ex girlfriend or of the guy I like?

Because I'm incredibly toxic and couldn't stop cheating on him.

Hi James <3

>>714710222
She's a drug addict, and the pain is literally too much.

>>714715599
Why are women such whores?
I'm pretty sure men cheat more often, but still, why are you personally a scumbag?

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>>714710222
she hates me now aylmao

Because I'm a dickhead to everyone and push them way when they get close

she recently got married.

odd thing is she has admitted to me that she is not physically attracted to him but assures me that she 'loves him'.

this man she married was "obviously" better me. i sincerely hope she is happy.

>>714715553
Last letter of your first name?

>>714715741
i don't know why I'm broken. I warn guys I'm toxic now

>>714715928

Y, why?

She died in my arms 11 years ago.

>>714710222
>Implying I love anyone.

She never messaged me back. So I assume she doesn't want anything to do with me.

I am with the girl I love. We put our kids to bed, then got head and got to titty fuck her and cum on her face. Ha!

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The girl I lost my virginity to cheated on me when I was 13, and almost caused me and my best friend to hate each other (I'm 18 now). Ever since then, I've broke up with significant others because I was scared they would break up with me first, and I don't want to go through that shit again.

Gay as fuck, girl I loved doesn't want anything to do with me now because she decided I was "just a phase"

>>714710222
because that whore got big into drugs and now has a kid with some dude whos been in jail more times than both their parents.

>>714710222


She broke up with me, never quite told me why. That was a year ago. Now she's back with the guy she was with before me and I just want to die.

Because she probably thinks I don't like her, but next week I'll try to make it more obvious.

>>714715599
Hope you get raped <3

>>714715599
You are everything that is wrong with women.

>girl starts to flirt with me in class
>too autistic to notice
>girl starts flirting more
>kind of play along but don't push things any further
>girl starts being really upfront (jokes about getting married, fucking, etc)
>legitimately happy for the first time in months
>finally get courage to ask her out
>"sorry, I kind of already have somebody right now"
soul crushed. that was monday.

>>714714378
Don't worry, I won't. Should I text her, or wait till monday to ask her in person?

>>714710222
Because she is my cousin

>>714718421
I feel for you man that's rough

because i realized my adoration for her was misguided and more based on the idea I had of her in my head than who she really was and what we'd be like together. still tried and made an ass of myself plenty of times. grew up a lot and realized relationships are a lot more compromise and hard work and that you should try to pick someone who you see the same about the big picture of your life because other things will fall in line if you work at it. im so high lol

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>>714710222
I tried but she stopped talking to me out of no where and i thought i finally had a shot at happiness. I now am starting to slowly accept my loneljness

I can't have feelings for woman since my ex fucked my heart good. Feelskindasweetman

>>714710222
She's with me in spirit,
But man is she too leet to hold yet,
The Dirt on me still needs a wash,
The money I need is extensive,
I will fight forever to have her.

>>714710856
Pretty much this

>>714710765
Exact same situation

>>714710222
Coincidentally, the girl I love actually looks uncannily similar to this one.
Anyway, not with her because negative confidence.

>sister's friend
>plays too much
>too loud
>kinda stupid
>looks up to me
>she's eight

I am, thank goodness

>>714720447
why do you love her?

I broke up with her for fucking a neanderthal looking dude

>>714721083
>>she's eight
I think I found why, LMAO

>>714710222
we broke up due to distance, i was going to college 8 hours away.
we fucked on and off for another 2 years
we still text every two months or so,just pleasantries
she told me she still thinks of me alot, i told her the same
but i work in television, i live in baltimore, will be moving to atlanta soon,she'll stay in nj
its not meant to be

>>714710222
because she's already with another man.

>>714721083
>i get paid to watch her
>not that im a pedo
>im 16
>she tries to kiss me alot
>i told her maybe when she is in highschool
>she has super chill parents

>>714721338
I love eight year olds as much as the next pedo, but I wouldn't say I love just any eight year old

UuGh he's too pretty and prestigious for me.

>>714710222
Because I fucked up big time and now she will live life as if I was never there. Just the thought of being a stranger to her makes me hate myself for what I did and who I am.

>>714721645
that age difference isn't even that bad
you're a lucky dude
inb4 underage b&

>>714721915
>ty man my friends fuck with me alot about it

Love doesn't exist, it's just a biological Imparative based on indicators of health and status that creates a desire to mate, people just assess attractiveness in relation to their own self perseption and fuck in relation, the answer to the op is simply that any person either hasn't tried or is insufficient from their ideal partners point of view

because she dumped me because I'm worthless

>>714722077
someone needs to stop jacking off and get laid

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He fucking ditched me to go to Young Thug's concert in SF like the nigger he is

>>714722077
>love doesn't exist
>defines love as biological imperative

>>714716140
Omg Rick Astley?? dude, i love your music please cut off that bitch and come to me

>>714722077
Reality is made up of what you believe in, if you don't believe in love then it doesn't exist. If you believe in love you're destined for both the happiness and the pain that it brings.

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I am, his name is GOD.

>>714722464
>reality is made up what you believe in
are you fucking stupid? I bet my ass you're a liberal

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because she doesnt know i exist and she's famous and i'm not.

>>714722612
Kek

>>714722612
check out the naive realism on this guy

>>714722682
what a shitty waifu

>>714722202
The idea is experienced by many but it's a neuro chemical illusion

shss my daughter and shes married to a lesbian

>"I love who you are as a person but I'm not in love with you and I don't think I ever will be"

>>714722765
why can't the illusion be the thing itself?

>>714722612
I just have weird philosophies is all, lately it's all I have.

>>714722822
kind and honest, you have good taste in girls

She deserves better

>>714710222
Because i'm a fat fuck broke ass loser. Women don't like fat fuck broke losers.

>>714722803
So you're saying there's a chance

>>714722803
ftw dadzoned

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>>714710222

Because she cheated on me 7 years ago.

Principal over emotion.
never let them get away with it.

>>714723016
*tfw
fuck

I fucked up, bad.

Because I'm gay

>>714723068
Bitch

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>>714722755

>>714710222
What is love?

She got booked today.

>>714710222

All I feel is lust

>>714722867
don't apologize for that shit nigger
a person's beliefs are obviously a massive part of their reality
fuck

>>714710222
Because I can't stand people. Yet I do feel the loneliness. I'm screwed either way.

>>714722712
>naive realism guy here
First off you're stupid
Second off it's okay to believe in fiction i sure do just keep it to yourself and mind your business and dont try to push your false view on other people eveb if they too have a false view

>>714723016
>>714723013
ibf thread,,,i hate gookmoot

>>714723226
Thanks anon.

long distance bullshit. I hate it.

She's 16 and I'm 19.

>>714711786
You're a fuckin delusional faggot, that's all you are

>>714710222
She left me on the first after 4 years together. We were gonna get married. I loved this woman with all my heart and when she left it wasn't even for a good reason. We're not right for each other. She hasn't been able to give me what I deserve and I haven't been able to give her what she deserves. She wants me to know though that she'll always love me. I don't understand.

>>714722867
>i watch too much anime too but i know when i die i just stop existing
see? Not hard

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>>714710222
Because life is cruel and time makes fools of us all, so now all there is in life is annoying autists and shitposting on b

>>714723275
do you even cogito ergo sum?

She's always on facebook all damn day

>>714723384
hey man this anon >>714721645
is still going for it and his age difference is larger than yours
don't be a pussy

>>714710222

Because she lives in Iowa, and is engaged. But it's not so bad, we've been fucking behind her boyfriend's back and he has absolutely no idea. I almost feel bad for him, but the little bastard has had such an easy life that it's impossible.

>>714723638
I guess...

>>714723708
99% of the people you meet in person are boring as shit
a thousand years ago that didn't matter, but in the current year why not expand your dating pool with the wonders of the internet

>>714723904
Not even remotely true you shallow, self-indulgent twat

>>714723871
seriously though, if a three year age difference is the only reason you're not together, just fucking go for it

cause i got a gf and im fat and if i break up with her 2 be with the one i want, ill prolly end up alone, masturbating forever

>>714723638
>16 year old anon here
>tbh this girl is pretty
>but at the same time she is like a sister
>you may think you're lolicon until you have the chance
>idk i also watch too much anime lol
>i would go for it only if she was mature enough in mind
>stupid ones make you feel bad all round imma right?

Anxiety, depression, asperger's, lack of social skills.
Take your pick.

Because I only love what I cannot have

>>714711150
aha now I remember I'm on 4chan

the long distance thing is a TRUE sign of faggotry. These fags meet girls online or through xbox, and think they're soulmates. Literally. They'll talk to someone on the phone for 4 years without ever having met them, the only thing keeping them together is their little fairytale narrative of being helplessly "kept" apart. You realize that roleplaying is the onyl thing that's keeping her with you, right? While she's fucking guys in her country... Anybody I've ever come across in life that does this is a faggot. What's truly amazing is when you're a grown man and still doing this shit. I would say kill yourself, but that's harsh. Then again you wont change, because if you're stupid enough to be one of these idiots, you wont be able to uplift yourself to a higher place either. Yeah...don't kill yourself...but you do deserve to die

>>714713011
This anon knows. Don't be afraid. Or rather don't show it. Fake that shit till you make it.

I don't know her

>>714724127
>They'll talk to someone on the phone for 4 years without ever having met them, the only thing keeping them together is their little fairytale narrative of being helplessly "kept" apart. You realize that roleplaying is the onyl thing that's keeping her with you, right? While she's fucking guys in her country
caring enough to delete and repost to add this lol

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>mfw my ex just got engaged to the guy she cheated with and left me for

I do have her.

Because I fucked it all up. I decided to break up with her but soon after realize what a total fuck up that was. But she wanted to go through with it. Now she is living her life fine without me, and I'm just here, on /b/.

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>>714710222
she is 2D and I can't get a dakimakura while I still live with my parents.

We grew apart.
Everything she does goes against everything I stand for. So why the fuck do I still love her?

>>714724127
It's the same reason this guy is making up these stupid excuses for why he can't see her, even when another anon found a lower price in 30 seconds for him. Talking about hotels and shit when he could use hostels, etc. the list goes on.

Because again, he knows deep down the reason she's with him is because of the "mystique" of being of the other side of the phone, and as soon as she spent a few hours in front of him she'd get tired of him real quick. Watch him make excuses forever.

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One of em moved away. The other just isn't interested.

And now I stay up late at night because every day feels wasted.

>>714724234
Her name Katie?

>>714724230
aha there goes your pleb defense

I've never fallen in love

>>714722202

He's saying that what "love" is to most people is just a "biological imperative". It makes sense. He's just calling "love" a different name.

>>714710222
But I am

>>714711123

Life is about competition. What are you doing to be attractive? Being attractive doesn't just happen, it takes a lot of work. Gotta look good, have money, be funny and be interesting. If you can't look good, you have to be extra everything else.

>>714724088
enjoy what you have
don't fuck it up or hurt her
ezpz

>>714722836

Not the guy, but I think he's saying that there is no "magic" in love. It's all mechanical. Just neurotransmitters doing their job.

Most of the woman I have met are stupid, however the ones who aren't generally are manipulative cucks or I find them unattractive. Anybody else relate to this?

>>714710222
She's like the wind,
She can fan the flame,
bend to the ocean,
and shape the earth.
I would be with her at all costs,
except the cost of her love.

>>714722803
how old are you?

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>>714724739
>copy that

Because I'm ugly af, and I mean, ugly af.

>>714724863
it's true. Pretty much every one. Must be something in the environment these days. Just no character whatsoever

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>>714710222
I only exist when she is in trouble and needs help

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>>714722077
I'll tell ya what real love is. It's mainly two things:

#1) You want what's best for them even if it's not what's best for you. They want to move to Portland? You support their move to Portland, even if it's far away and you can't go. They want to move to Mars? You support their move to Mars. You would prefer if what's best for them is YOU but if it's not, you still want what's best for them, wherever that takes them.

2) You trust them to know what's best for them. Saying "What's best for you is me" is not love -- it's possessiveness and jealousy.

You will know you love someone when you want what's best for them and when you trust their judgement on what that is.

Everything else is just lust and greed.

>>714724683
You're right, I was just being belligerent with my phrasing.

But I don't think love is any less of a real thing because it's reducible to biology.

So him saying "love doesn't exist" is needlessly melodramatic.

>>714713667
I love you shree

She lives two hours away. . . I had my license revoked for "Running away" trying to see her last time. I think she said she's moving even further.

2 hours never felt so long.

>>714710222
What am I missing out on by never having been in love?

Because shwshes asleep in bed and I'm surfing /b/ while taking a shit. I just wanted to see some boobs... instead I've watched some butthole fingering, a cake being made, and a puppy tripping over its own feet. I love this place.

>>714724836
So you're saying it's no more magical than consciousness itself?

I agree that it's all chemicals and stuff. But love is as accurate a label for it as any.

Because they all leave me. Not a single one has told me why, i treat them like theyre the best thing to ever happen on this planet, i have a good paying job, my own place, nice things, friends are good people, great with sex and have great equipment under the belt. I honestly havnt been able to figure it out.

>>714710222
>why aren't you with the girl/boy you love?
I do not dream with open eyes.

>>714725161
Holy shit anon, the idea of her being so close, yet, so far really hurts.

It's like almost being to the top of a tree, but someone kicks you down.

>>714725041
I have had a theory that the pretty ones, generally get attention regardless of they're appearance - mostly due to the desperate fuck boys out there -, consequentially resulting in a lack of development in personality. The work necessary to be somewhat intelligent, henceforth becomes tenuous.

>>714724127
this but to a lesser degree. it's all a fantasy, try to find someone more local my guy.

>>714710222
because she is a lying bitch :(

>>714724863
I don't think cucks is the right word here

>>714724969
pics

>>714725113

Idk, it takes little of the magic out of love when you realize it's just your brain emitting the right chemicals. But you're right, saying love doesn't exist isn't true.

>>714725161
>2 hours never felt so long.

Damn.

>>714724863
see now this >>714725083 is a cuck

Because Im too fat, ugly, and awkward to tell her.

>>714710222
she broke up with me

>>714725477
Hehe you have opened my eyes

>>714725287
>The work necessary to be somewhat intelligent, henceforth becomes tenuous.
most pretentious sentence I've read in a long time my good gentlesir and redditor

>>714725239

I mean I guess that's a good way of putting it. But being conscious is a pretty magical thing in and of itself.

Isn't that what words are for? Describing a particular event or experience among other things? I think love is a perfect description of what your brain is doing.

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>>714710222
i can't fall in live with someone until i get to know them, so nobody

if the question was about someone i really find attractive, then it'd be pic related but she's still underage for 2.5 more years (im almost 19), plus im pretty sure she wouldn't be interested in me

Because Im 18, 5'12, 270 lbs, mediocre looking, and semi muscular, im literally a trailmix of traits that make or break attractiveness.

>>714710222
she overdosed and died

>>714725729
>5'12
god damn how lacking in confidence do you have to be to be 6' tall and describe yourself as 5'12

>>714725477
Sorry you're a sociopath. Must be rough not having a soul. Enjoy your hamburgers and others physical pleasures, since that's all you'll ever have.

>>714725667
I have read a bit too many texts in the passive voice.

>>714725686
literall who

>>714725287
well we've been living in a time for a while now where even the mediocre girls get put on a way high pedestal. Just put a medium appearance girl on Tinder and see how much she gets versus a good looking guy.

Is it the fuckboys who wreck it for the rest of us? Who knows

But girls are at an all time high for the way they're valued just for being a girl. Compare that to the 40's and 50's where the WOMAN would often be the one chasing the man! I think a lot of times, adoration is enough for a girl. Think about it, if you were adored all day and had sex constantly as a possibility for yourself, would you need it so much anymore? A lot of sex is the validation of "wow, this person actually would sleep with me!"

Im crying anons, comfort me.

Im >>714725161

We live in California now, but she told me she's moving to Oregon. . .

Love hurts so much, especially when it leaves you just as you get to it.

>>714725838
Kill yourself

>>714724589
no.

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>>714710222
I dont know who it is just yet
23/m/Ontario Canada

>>714710222
i think i'm with her, but you never know. we're all just trying to figure this gay shit out

>>714725686

Are you good with keeping the conversationg going? If not, I understand your apprehension quite too well. But if you can keep a conversation going then quit being a pussy and just talk to them. If they're not interested you'll know and you can move on to the next one.

Her name was Sarah. We were together for a very short amount of time. I've never grown to love somebody like that before, and now she's gone because I'm some genetically fucked basket case.