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Okay /b/. I need your fucking help here bad. One of my roomates

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Okay /b/. I need your fucking help here bad.

One of my roomates contacted me tonight letting me know that she, wants to convert into a he.

She is dating one of my closest friends and other roomate (he knows, and will support her/him no matter what, he's deeply in love with her/him).

I was very supportive when she told me, but from all the research I've done over the years on the topic, I'm aware of the mental and physical risks of hormone therapy.

She has told me that she wants this because she'd like to be seen by others as a male, and I feel that's an unhealthy way to go about things. Making a transition because you'd like to change other's perspective of you doesn't come off as mentally healthy to me.

Am I overreacting? Do I have a reason to worry?

I can already see the problems that will arise within my group of closest friends once her boyfriends family is told about this transition.
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bump for hopes of clairty
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cut her off, pretend she never had this conversation with you.

nothing good will come of you getting involved, nothing
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Use her as a source for good roids.
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>>713919499
I live with her. She's dating one of my closest friends who's family is basically my own family at this point. I love her to death too.

There's no way I can avoid this in the end. I just don't know how to handle things at the moment.
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>>713919499
same poster

don't necessarily cut her off but don't be a "part" of this at all. It's her private thing to deal with and you should not be involved in it at all. Don't be supportive, don't tell her not to, don't give her any opinion. Don't talk about it. Completely ignore it.

You're a dumb faggot if you think that getting involved is in any way a good idea.

Don't pander that bullshit about "supporting her in her transition" - if she really does go this route then just be a friend but don't let her steer the conversation towards it - that's unhealthy for her to focus her entire identity on it
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>>713919204
You bored me at hello.
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Nigga don't get involved in other peoples problems. Just say w/e either way, and send the vibe that you don't give a fuck, she'll unload her problems on some other cunt
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>>713919779
this is so much more succinct than I could be. But basically, this. This is why trannies have therapists, you're not equipped to deal with this without doing herself, yourself, or the people around you harm. Real talk.
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>>713919779
The problem is I'm an integral part of her small circle of friends.

I was the last person to find out in our household. I haven't even gotten to talk about it with my other male friend (best friend) living with us. He's dating her best friend who's obviously full blind support.

I don't think he'll feel the same way of support when we talk 1 on 1 .
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>>713919204
>she, wants to convert into a he.

That's stupid women can have homo butt sex just like faggots.
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>>713919204
make her understand that the transition is just visual and should NOT be seen as an end goal. All the problem will still be there. A lot of trannies think the transition will fix shit but it doesn't so they kill themself.
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>>713919892
SO DON'T FUCKING GET INVOLVED. If there's some dude who isn't supportive you have to let her fight her own battles. Going white knight won't help her. TBH fam, if she wants to be a man she needs to learn how to stand up for herself.
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>>713919204
People who want to transition to the opposite gender are not mentally well, try to convince her to seek a medical professional that can help her with the issues causing her to think and feel the way she does. It's a serious mental illness and should be treated like one
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>>713919632
You are such a faggot
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>>713919854
Trannies have dicks too haha
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>>713919204
You're overreacting, hormones are fine
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Call her a faggot and tell her she's retarded and should seek mental help.

>all these morally superior answers
kys. wtf happened to /b/
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>>713920165
We need another Nam
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>>713920384
Also, call them he
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shes retarded, but dont tell her that.

just say you're worried about the health risks involved in this type of surgery, don't be insulting or patronising or she'll transition out of spite.
Try not to look like a dick and she'll more likely listen to you if you REALLY care about her.

And in reality you're not over reacting from wanting your friend not to transition. Because 1, it's retarded and 2, who the fuck changes cos she cares what people think.
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>>713920165
You're a faggot
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>>713919765
this

don't get involved. tell her you do you, don't tell anyone what you think, don't ask.

she is insane and if anything goes wrong she's going to blame it on the people who encouraged her at first. if she ends up killing herself because of a trans trend she will blame you.
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>>713920115
you haven't been hugged in a loooong time, right?
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>>713920750
whiteknight betafaggot detected
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OP, I think you already know in your true heart that this situation has bad news written all over it and know you shouldn't get involved, but you feel some kind of guilt about this because of jew brainwashing

go with your gut. Let her do this alone.
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>>713921311
>Let her do this alone.
that's the worst advice you can give
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>>713920750
kys anon
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>>713921436
why is it OPs responsibility to encourage someone to physically mutilate themselves and close the door on tons of opportunities in life

serious question. instead of the kneejerk "no ur bad" actually say why
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>>713919204

The whole "health risk" thing is just a thing to scare you, HE will be fine. Since HE identifies as male now you should use HIS proper pronouns, that is if he asks you to do so. You may screw up at times but please atleast correct yourself and try if you care about this person.

Your friend did not mean it like that by the way. They want to transition to feel more comfortable in their body yes but they also want you to see them as who they really are and transitioning can help others see that easier. That's what they meant.

> I am a trans FTM.ask me anything
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>>713921821
Fellow trans reporting in, at least someone here can gender right
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And some of the transphobic comments on here are disgusting. If they're serious comments, you people need to do some more research before you open your damned mouths.

I'm open to educating people about trans people if they're reasonable but come on. Grow up people.
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>>713922130
muh transphobia

explain how feeling like you have a physically different body is *not* mental illness
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>>713920963
nah, just not an emotionless fascist, that's all
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>>713922235
A normal human being doesn't harass people with depression for their mental illness so why be a faggot about this one?
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>>713922235
Also you fucktard it's about identity, not believing something is there that isnt
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She is a woman.

Soon she will be a woman with a horrible disfigured body.

Btw. does your friend, who dates her, claims he is gay/bi? Either this, or he is denying it too.

Well but from what I can read here, you and your friends sound like some really lonely und fucked up social outsiders, so I guess the community around you already has the opinion that you are freaks and it can´t get any worse (or better) from that perspective.
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>>713922285
yes, because I think that people should go about their transition without involving every single person in their life to fight their battles I'm also a vulcan that believes in a one party corporate state.

words, they have meanings
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>>713922235
people aren't like me and I don't understand how complicate the world has become. why doesn't my sister just stay home and raise my 5 inbred children? I want to go bach to the good old times.

GET A LIFE FAGGOT
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>>713922235

It's not a mental illness. And transgenderism is a scientifically proven thing that has been going on even before the 1800's. People just learned about it because of Caitlyn Jenner (who is a terrible trans role model.)

Trans people feel their sex (penis/vagina/boobs) does not align with their gender (male/female) so they feel they must transition to (male/female) in order to feel like they are finally in the right body. People often confuse sexuality with gender or sex with gender but I assure you these are all different things. A trans woman can be 'gay' before transitioning and be considered 'straight' after transition. It's not a mental illness at all.

It's unfortunate though that most trans people we meet or see are the kinds that only do it for attention and whine about dysphoria every 5 seconds.
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>>713919204
OP, where do you live?
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>>713922454
>>713922530
still not even trying to refute that it's a severe mental illness

try harder jews

>>713922566
schizophrenia is scientifically proven to be real too. But it's a fucking mental illness
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>>713921821
Lol faggot I thought you were being sarcastic at first
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>>713922624

Being transgender is not the same as schizophrenia. I don't get delusions or see hallucinations or anything that a schizophrenic person gets. Please try harder, your ignorance isn't working.
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>>713922708

Well I know /b/ is full of toxicity and trolls but I like to douse the ignorance every now and then with a reality check. You people don't have to like trans people but atleast don't spread bullshit about them.
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>>713921821
>>713921881
>>713922130

So you must'a turned out real good since you're coming straight off tumblr to 4chan, huh?
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>>713922624
Who cares if it is, why does it matter to you, you're just arbitrarily being a total faggot
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>>713922901

I'm a /b/fag I don't even use tumblr. But keep going mate, if it helps you sleep at night.
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>>713922901
We're humans, not special snowflakes
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>>713922738
yeah, you just want to lop your cock off or strap on a fake piece of meat instead, or think that your body is physically incorrect

theyre both under the umbrella of mental illness. Try again.
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She will probably become a SJW
>BUHH HUHH HUHH TRANSGENDER RIGHTS I WANT MY OWN PUBLIC BATHROOM

Like this SJWfag
>>713922832
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>>713922566
>>713922235
>>713922130
>>713921821
>>713921881


Holy shit, please go back to jerking off to chuck porn on your containment board

>>>/lgbt/

Don't got a dick, you're a chick. Don't got a tube, you're a dude. Besides the people who were actually born with male sex organs and female body or vice versa, you can fuck right off
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>>713923051
Right, because you typed all this shit that's redundant to say anyway, since 99.9% of what's posted on here is bullshit, yet you felt the need to take the absolute moral high ground on /b/ of all places, no? :^)
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>>713923079
Okay so seeing as a surgically crafted vagina can have the exact same functionality as a naturally born one what is the big deal, it's not mutilation, its modification
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>>713922982

This too, honestly why does it bother you people so much? Let a trans person just be, let them live. They don't do anything to you. Why be so scared? Cause you don't understand? Why not try to? Honestly people these days smh

>>713923051

Yeah a real trans person knows they're not a special snowflake and being trans doesn't make them any more or less good of a person.

>>713923079

I've watched the surgery for both FTM and MTF. They use your own body parts and genitals to make the penis/vagina. I can assure you it is very much real.

>>713923109
I actually don't get the bathroom debate. I just go in the mens and piss and leave like every other man does.
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>>713922566
Post a link to these peer reviewed results proving this, then.
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>>713923190
You guys were being retarded, I did what people on the internet do and corrected you, are you enjoying trying to feel like you're winning?
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>>713923337

I'm not even going to dignify this with a real response.

Trolling 1/10 try harder
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>>713923356

So if each sex is equal and the same to the next, why do you feel the need to switch sexes?
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>>713923502
>has no genuine response
>trolling
>1/46 chromosomes, birth again
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>>713923337

You should be like, a professional retard when you grow up
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>>713923443

Do you not know how to use google? Do you need other people to do everything for you?

>>713923502

This is what someone says when they realize they're completely autistic and can't come back with a logical comment.

>>713923568

Because trans people experience a phenomina known as "dysphoria". You feel a literal disgust with yourself and your body. You get depressed, anxious, and if its really bad it can drive you to suicide especially the more unaccepting the people around you are. It's not a pleasant feeling. I think I'm lucky cause I get it on a mild level but that's probably due to the fact I have other things to worry about. I may be trans but thats not everything and good trans people realize that.
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>>713923796
>I-I'm not going to post the proof to my own statement! YOU DO IT I DON'T WANNA
Nigger, if you're gonna say something, back it up, that's the standard.
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>>713923767
https://m.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/up542/comment/c4xb5g7
how can you stand being this retarded on the internet
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>>713923694
>>713923796
can a fake vagina give birth

also burden of proof idiot. you can't claim something and make someone else find the source. If you were out of high school you might have learned that.
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>>713923934

I knew you'd come back with this lol, so original mate. Idk I just think you'd want to be less ignorant and a better person but EYY guess I got too optimistic in the human race.
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I think the best thing you could do is make sure that s/he can at least get a legitimate diagnosis for gender dysphiria. That means s/he has to see a psychiatrist that evaluates her mental state, reasoning for why she wants this and makes sure s/he understands what this could mean for her life and health. There are some who will breeze through it which is why it's important for her to speak to one who is thorough. This is not something that should be taken lightly and is best if she can have professional help throughout to make sure it's done correctly, safely and properly. This is all take from experience as a male to female faggot.
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>>713924031

>>713923796
>Even this anon can post some form of evidence from other sites
>even if it is reddit
You get a half fuck you, anon.
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>>713924091
Yes you retard, it's happened
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>>713919204
>>713920083
Seconded. If you really care about her/him have a heart to heart about the risks. Say you're supportive, but want to make sure they know what could happen.
But in the end, remember you're a friend, not a therapist. You can't make them do or not do anything. Don't get caught up thinking you have to do anything to be a good friend other than just be there and giving a shoulder to cry on. That way lies madness (for any given issue, not just trans stuff.)

Also, if the rest of the thread hasn't already convinced you of this, /b/ is a terrible place for advice, try /adv/ or even /lgbt/ next time.
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>>713924107
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philosophical_burden_of_proof

>>713924156
show me an article about an artificial vaginal birth and I'll kill myself on stream for you
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>>713924091

I'm not sure but it could be possible. They're trying to make it so males can give birth as well as women. I believe science can make anything possible if we try.

There's been brain scans on people who are trans and it shows even if their sex is for ex female, their brain is more wired like a male. That's what I meant by scientifically proven.
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>>713924091

This

I don't care if it makes me intolerant of something, but I wouldn't date any other woman besides a natural female.

If I find out she was a he, me is no longer staying
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>>713924107
I'm only following basic argument structure, I don't see proof. It's not my job to go hunting for crap you claim.

>>713924145
This.
And that's if you choose to involve yourself in it. I'd really rather not, directly. Might at least drop a business card to a psych in her purse or something. Something to not get directly involved.
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>>713924327
"brain scans" christ. This shit is basically pseudoscience. Show me the paper. Protip: you can't.
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ask if she wants to be normal or look like a freak that everyone will talk shit about every chance they get

simple
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>>713924302
https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.mic.com/articles/amp/128972/uterus-transplant-surgery-could-let-trans-women-have-children?client=ms-android-hms-tmobile-us
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>>713924091

>>713924302
>Even this anon can provide valid links and half-valid sources
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>>713919204
Mind your business like literally any normal person and all will be well.
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>>713924355

So even if they completely transitioned and looked and acted nothing like a male you'd dump them? Well good news mate, no trans woman would date you either.
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>>713924456
COULD. as in, hasn't happened.

I could find any number of "could" articles about whatever fucking topic in the world.
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>>713924145
Same anon here just wanted to add that I also work in a couple. Pounding get Pharmacy that specializes in hrt, not just for menopausal women and andropausal men but also trans individuals so this is both from personal and professional perspective. I forgot to mention that because I had been drinking with some friends tonight a little before I got home.
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OP better fuck this thing while it's a girl
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Here's a bunch of links since a lot of you are too lazy. You're welcome. https://www.google.ca/search?q=transgender+scientifically+proven+brain+scans&oq=transgender+scientifically+proven+brain+scans&aqs=chrome..69i57.12746j0j1&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
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>>713919204
let em know you'll probably treat them the same either way, the hardest part is with the pronouns but if you care enough it's not that hard
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>>713919204

You better fuck her before it's too late faggot
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I don't get how 4chan has became so moral and antifaggot. You guys remind me of the old people in churches. Just let people have their own deviations, let them do drugs if they want, if someone likes smelling feet let them do it, if someone likes BDSM let them do it, if someone likes pegging let them do it, if someone likes fucking other guy in the ass just let them do it.

Don't be a fucking normie.

>muh it's a mental illness
So what? Why do you even care? You're not gonna get infected you know. Why do you need to be such a communist and dictate other people what they can and can't do or think?

>>713922566
You're a retard too. People fucking know here what trans is. Why are you even posting that, holy shit.
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>>713919204
Sometimes being supportive is not the right thing to do, road to hell, paved with good intentions.

She has some psychological issues going on.
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>>713924711

THIS

One of the most reasonable comments on here. Thank you anon.

>>713924776

No people clearly don't know. So instead of telling me to stfu and put my head under a rug, I'll gladly speak up for ignorance. Stop going on about the 'good ol days' and start living in the fucking present.
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you need to tell her no matter how hard she tries she'll never look like this

make sure to show her the pic
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>>713924496

I actually like a guyish personality, seller sufficient and dominant. I'm just not into dating guys.
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Not all mental illnesses are schizophrenia.
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>>713924964
still not even trying to dispute transphobia is a mental illness
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>>713924945

WRONG.

>>713924949

But they're not a guy if they transitioned... infact they never were one really.
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You can tell trannies are not actual women when you look at their hobbies and interests. They are very atypical for women.
They are realy into electronics, electric music devices, computers, coding, etc.
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just tell them they'll never attain this
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>>713919204
>>713924711
also from a health/mental health standpoint they're kind of at an advantage, at least concerning FtM Vs. MtF you can put on structure but and be passable with-out looking too "trade" but it's neigh impossible to go in the other direction without really flagging as trade, or being "obvious"
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>>713925023
Phobia implies fear. There is no fear just concern and pity.
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>>713924776
Its the typical contrarian bullshit. "Hurg durg, SJWs like the gays so I hate them." It's a cop out from trying to form their own opinion, and an excuse to get into stupid arguments online.
What else would you expect from a board where half the threads are about fapping to bikini Facebook selfies?
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>>713925132

Being male means you had been born with a penis, being female means you after born with a vagina.

Being born with both? Well, that just sounds more like a good time then anything
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>>713925132
fucking gross, reduction scars and huge hips. a fucking freak of nature.

whatever bizarre fleshy abomination is in their pants just completes the mutant package.
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>>713925132
s/he still has a cunt and will never have a functional penis
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>>713925324
*transgenderism

transphobia isn't a mental illness
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>>713925240

This is the stupidest comment I've ever read in my life. Trans women can like anything from cars to makeup to "girly" things to "boyish" things. Every transgender person is different and has a different life and story. Not one is exactly the same. so what if a trans woman is into cars it doesnt make her any less of a woman. Honestly wtf is your logic I can't even.

>>713925309

They can attain that that's what surgery is for wtf.

>>713925391

If you want to think that way, but thats pretty flawed of you.

>>713925407

Lol okay sure. The scars can be removed or disappear with time by the way. You'd know that if you knew a trans person.

>>713925412
How do you know? Have you seen them naked? They have a functional dick btw.
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>>713925577
NO THEY FUCKING DONT. A trans cock basically looks like a hotdog lacking any texture, veins or aesthetics of a real dick. Having bloodflow doesn't mean it's anywhere near functional. Quadriplegics have bloodflow to all their limbs but they sure as fuck can't use them. Trannies cannot attain a natural erection. Often they have a literal metal rod inserted into their meatstick so they can have some deranged approximation of penetrative sex.
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>>713925577
In what way, besides from a possible moral perspective, is this flawed? I believe if you're born male or female, that's how it's gonna stay, and nothing will change the fact that you WERE AT SOME POINT one or the other.

No amount of surgery will change your history. But hey, if you want to be intolerant of my views because of your own, then to each their own
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>>713919773
Underrated comment
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>>713924905
Yes, everybody heard that gender and sex thing. And you haven't even explained it, just mentioned. Look, I'm telling you to stfu not because you
>gladly speak up for ignorance
but because you talk like a bitch.

>>713925339
Yeah, anon. I filter out all the porn, ylyl, cringe, furry and policital threads from /b/. There really isn't a lot of other things left.
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>>713926069

There's another surgery but the dick is smaller and can get erect. Then there's another method which is getting a dick transplant (ie. getting a dick/balls from another guy) which also works but you'd have to take pills the rest of your life for it.

Perhaps it isn't the best right now but it's better than nothing. Shit is advancing fast anyways. It might be cheesy but never say never. I agree it doesn't look like a real dick but it still is one and its better than nothing.

>>713926085

How am I being the one intolerant when you're the one who's literally going out of your way to spew your hatred and ignorance of trans people?

>>713926267

I know I'm talking like a bitch, I'm sorry it offends you anon but you see after a while of looking at the comments below anything trans related you tend to want to respond with things that aren't so friendly. .
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>>713920411

underrated
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>>713921821
>>713921881

fuck your pronoun bullshit. your gender is what sex organ you were born with. god i hate trump, but i really hope he puts an end to you faggots and your pc bullshit
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>>713920411

/b/ is just fine, it's just as toxic as ever.
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>>713922130

this is /b/ you fucking faggot. we dont give advice. kys newfag.

take me back to 2007 4chan. still shitty but not filled with your whiteknight beta cucks.

you trans? well you sure transitioned into one hell of a faggot
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>>713926462

I did not post one thing against trans people

You yourself are intolerant, because you lack the ability to do much as consider someone elses views, regardless of ether they are backed by sources and scientific research.

A trans female is not a female, because an natural female was never male.

This is basically along the lines of wanting to be black or white so bad, you start acting like them.

What was the name of that crazy chick that wanted to be black or shit?

She's a pretty good example of this stuff
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>>713926859

So wanting to be respected and treated like a human being is just "PC bullshit" okay. Please go on about how we're just special snowflakes, newsflash we aren't. We just ask nicely to be treated as the gender we present and get raped/murdered more than any minority for it. Oh and we kill ourselves more too. I guess it is too much to ask for some sort of compassion and understanding these days.
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>>713919204
>Making a transition because you'd like to change other's perspective of you doesn't come off as mentally healthy to me.
>Implying it's not a mental illness at it's root
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>>713927118
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_mentality
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>>713919204
I doubt you'll see this beneath the shit of comments, but I hope you do.

Cultural currents say transitioning is normal. Nothing wrong w it, some people are just born that way.

that's mostly true, but lots of folks are miserable post transition. youre 100% right recognizing this bullshit motivation for transition. props for saying what you actually thought.
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>>713920411
>>713926702
you are the only
>morally superior
retard with all that
>it's wrong to do that

saying whatever, do what you want with your life and let me do what I want with mine isn't moralfagging. raging about someones decisions because they are wrong and unnatural is.
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>>713927093

I am a faggot, thanks for the compliment mate. I happen to like giving advice and being helpful, deal with it.

>>713927107

Since we're all anonymous the comments blend together and its impossible to tell who is who. I can't tell if someone is the same guy as the last. Still I can tell from your comment and comparisions you don't entirely understand how trans things work.

>>713927308

I'm not a victim because I'm trans, I was just saying trans people ARE PROVEN to be murdered/rape/suicde more than anyone else.
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>>713927118

Yes, it is.

Because if you were really as into equality as you thought you were, you would never want to change sexes in the first place.

The only reason anyone wants to be a woman or a man, is because each gender is treated differently.
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>>713923079
kek'd
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>>713927517

Each gender IS treated differently, and you can see that. Womens bodies are worshipped more than men, women are praised more than men. (inb4 meninist) that was a feminist parody pls. Your argument makes no sense because if thats how I really felt, why would I transition to a man when women nowadays benefit more from pretty much everything?
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>>713927427

There's nothing to understand

No matter how hard you "feel" you're not something, it will never change that you were something. There are things in my past that I wish I wasn't, and that's changed, but it doesn't change that I was just that.
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>>713919204
>whining onto 4chan.org/b
>posts thumbnail
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I'm disappointed by the lack of facts and citation in this thread. Who gives a fuck about your feelings/thoughts? Grow up, you have the minds of children.

This seems to be a topic that is not well understood/studied by the scientific field. Anybody got any good links?

Webmd has nothing...
http://www.webmd.com/mental-health/gender-dysphoria
http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/tc/gender-identity-and-transgender-issues-topic-overview#1
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>>713927739

Maybe a trans person 'was' physically male/female at one point, but once that changes they are the current person you know them as, they are not that old non-existent person anymore. You can't change your past yes, but you can change your present and future.
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>>713927777
Those QUADS

Good point too.
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>>713927724
Because youre not really a believer of equality.

In a world where the only difference between men and women was sexual organs, trans mentality would not exist, because man and woman personality traits would not exist.
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>>713923337

lol you are retarded.

it is not a working vagina. you cannot reproduce with it so its nothing like the real deal.

what you have instead is a fleshlight. nothing more, and potentially a lot less.
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>>713919204
As someone who is the other aspect of being trans, MTF, In absolute honesty, Anon, yes, this can potentially be more dangerous than it has to be.
I have been lucky in that, since beginning my transition, I've had nothing but support. However, I've also set (what I feel) are realistic expectations of my results, and asked myself serious, honest, and self persecuting questions as to WHY I am doing it. Entirely, I'm doing it for me, and my own comfort with my own body, and if that were the only thing I would gain from it, I would still do it, without a doubt. Even if I were still treated as male, called my old name, the full lot.

Advice to your room mate. She should ask herself what she expects from it. She should do AS MUCH RESEARCH as she can, on hormones, side effects, and what can and cannot be achieved. She should plan for a potential future if she wants kids. She should figure out how to stay safe if she gets abuse, or assaulted.
She should be realistic.
If, after looking at all the shit involved with something like this, all the irreversible stuff, all the potential negative stuff, and she STILL wants to go through with it, then more power to her, and if you're cool with it, be a good friend to her.
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>>713928028

Equality is a nice concept but people would be ignorant to believe every single thing is fair or equal. And there's many examples to prove this every day. Why does a good guy get killed whilst a bad guy lives and gets to kill more? Life isn't fair.
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>>713926859
As a MTF individual, I can and will inform you to suck my massive dong, you tiny dicked, closet bottom bitch.
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>>713927926

But it doesn't change that they were a man. Thus, I wouldn't ever date a trans man, or woman, or whatever.

No, I don't hate trans people. I just think the fact that this has gone this far is ridiculous
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>>713919204
Most of the FtM people I met are total bro's. The MtF are generally a whole pile of crazy. But if your friend was your friend before I doubt her hormone treatment will suddenly change that. Tell them you don't understand it but you are still their friend so you'll call them whatever they want.
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>>713928293

Well you don't have to date them. Like I said if you think like that I'm sure no ones going to want to date you. I've dated people who were out of my comfort zone before and yes it can be hard and scary but if you really love the person you'll see past it and be with them anyways.
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>>713928282

This doesn't have anything to do with the point. The point is, you would never have wanted to be male unless someone defined male as different to female (personality and mental side).

You would've always been a woman is a woman were the equal or man.
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>>713928468

I'm in a relationship dude.

And it goes well, because I can actually defend my point of view with actual logic and actual statistics. If someone came handle facts, then chances are I, and whoever else, is better off without them
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>>713928594

>You would've always been a woman if a woman were the equal of man.

FTFY
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>>713924680
>https://www.google.ca/search?q=transgender+scientifically+proven+brain+scans&oq=transgender+scientifically+proven+brain+scans&aqs=chrome..69i57.12746j0j1&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

lol. first the article is saying there MAY be a correlation. this is very different then a link.

secondly the statement anon made is that it is a mental illness. idk, but to me, being born in a delusional state with you brain wired like as a sex other than your physical body sounds like the definition of a mental illness. a delusion.

schizo's brains look different under brain scan too. as does Alzheimer's and dementia. the list goes on.

if aanything this article proves it is a mental illness. a defect in the persons development
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>>713928594

Even before I knew what trans whats or had things 'defined' as you put it, there was signs in my childhood and growing up. I always felt different than the other kids. I felt weird like a creepy pervert whenever I was around the girls when they changed in school. I prefered more 'boyish' things and liked 'male' clothes better. I also felt disgusted with my body and the parts once I started to hit puberty. I didn't know what was wrong with me, it just took a long time to learn what trans was. It's like this for most trans people.

>>713928787

I feel bad for them.
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>>713928945

Are you a psychologist? No? Then don't act like you are. Saying "it sounds like it" without facts. It's not a mental illness. http://time.com/4424589/being-transgender-is-not-a-mental-disorder-study/
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>>713927308

lol roasted. +1
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http://www.apa.org/topics/lgbt/transgender.aspx

http://www.livescience.com/55554-transgender-identity-classification.html
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>>713927118

its not. on /b/ however it is. if you do not understand this and cant take getting roasted without becoming a huge buthurt faggot this is not the the place for you

make like ya friends in the statistics faggot
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>>713919204

She want get close to a prescription without being fully reviewed by a therapist who specializes in gender nonsense.

Been there, done it. It's a long long process and if someone isn't truly trans, they'll know at some point in it and or the therapist will know.

So don't worry about it.
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>>713919204
tell her teh truth.

1. their is currently no medical way to make one's gender changed to teh opposite gender.
2. she WILL remove herself from the gene pool if she attempts it.
3. tell her, her identity is her own, her IDENTITY has no gender, she can be a woman, adn still be seen as mascaline, HER plumbing will not change OTHERS perspective of herself.
4. final card, changing her plumbing, pumping testoserone will NOT change who shee is..she is still herself and NOTHING can change truly change that, and it would be better to be herself, than to try adn FAKE being a male.
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>>713927777

/thread
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>>713928953

You should feel bad for yourself for making the mistake you did.

If men and woman dressed, acted, and did everything the same, you would never know what "boyish" clothes were. You're unnecessary surgery to "change" who you were had nothing to do with who you still are; a person void of a formed personality.

Instead of leading life as a "boyish" woman, you now live a life of self delusion and perdition, bedside m because you know deep down that being a boy or a girl shouldnt contribute to the person you don't even know who you are yet.

You are not a man, or a woman. You're just somebody you'll never get to know.
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>>713928953

>them

Way to maintain your pronouns, shill

Can't wait for trumps rein to crack down on your smarmy bullshit
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>>713927118
so.. i wodner.

are you human because you SAY you are human, or are you human because YOUR DNA says you are human.

because if the former, i know chimpanzees, and dolphins who can identify themselves as human, and if teh latter...well your dna also says what gender you are...and gene therapy is not yet to teh point where your XY or XX decides to suddenly be different...
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>>713929599

I can assure you anon I'm very much calm right now. Nothing you say is hurting me. I just can't help but respond to stupid. Thanks for your concern though.

>>713929745

What mistake? coming out as trans and being able to present as my real self and be accepted was the best thing I ever did. I only seem to run into transphobic people on the internet.
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>>713929866

> when anon assumes you're amercian
Whether trump does or doesn't it doesn't matter.

>>713929885

The way you type informs me you're very immature and young.
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>>713929889

There is no "real" self. You destroyed any chance you could've found your real self when you thought for a second that your sex/gender dictates what you do with your life. You're now no different than any other confused child, not knowing what purpose you will serve.
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>>713930148

My sex and gender does not dictate my life actually. I have enough self-realization to know I have more things to worry about that are more important yes, I just so happen to be trans at the same time. Like I've said before, all because I'm trans doesnt mean its the only thing in my life or the only thing I ever think about. You seem to not understand that. I rarely ever talk about it honestly or bring it up, unless it relates to what's being said.
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>>713929885
>>713930049

lol daayyymmn. you just got destroyed, as evident in your complete dodge of the question

>hurr durr youre a child
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>>713929606
Won't* fuck me I'm tired
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>>713919204
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pA8DdkM2Wqo
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>>713930413

How was i destroyed? I was simply ignoring a stupid question and saving myself 5 minutes of not replying to a 10 year old who so happens to love furries. .
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>>713930364

Then why as did you change in the first place, when there is no reason to?
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>>713930533

>makes fun of furries for being odd
>greatest aspiration is to be castrated and have dick turned inside out

i hope the irony is not lost on you
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>>713930049
no, just a horrible typist who is not particularly interested in proper punctuation, grammar, and vocabulary on a 4chan (which by the way IS A IMAGE BOARD, not a discussion or comment board or comment forum)
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>>713928059
It doesn't matter to people who don't want to reproduce. I don't want to mestruate but I want to be fucked in my tight wet pussy so I will
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>>713930708

This is a nice post
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>>713921821
do your friends still try to tell you how fucking retarded you are, or have they all given up at this point and all you have is tumblr fag trannies who make up pronouns?
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>>713919204
I would probably encourage her to first try it out by dressing, walking, talking like a man, wearing fake beards and whatnot.

this way she can get a feel for what she get by converting to a man.
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>>713930787

im a hater, but i lold.

have a good night anon
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>>713930708
to be fair, i'm not a furry, i have no more sexual inclination in anthropomorphize animals, as human girls are just fine by me, I saved that image for no other reason than that it intrigues me.

to put it in perspective, this image is in the SAME location folder, it's just random shit that has intrigued me at one point or another.
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>>713930593

Have you read any of my previous comments at all?

> Mentioned my dysphoria several times
> Mentioned wanting to transition
> Mentioned me researching it (watching the surgeries)
> Said how I felt in childhood
> ?????
> Still no reason to? okay

>>713930708

How long have you been here? Not long enough to know shit clearly. I'm not MTF but go on anon.

>>713930818

My friends are LGBT but no I don't know anyone who is trans, usually because I tend to dislike the trans people I've met and the ones I tried to reach out to only annoyed me. The support groups are usually full of people complaining so that also turned me off. They are open minded and accepting people, and they all use /b/. Thanks for asking.
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>>713930818

HOW DARE YOU TALK TO ZÜR THAT WAY YOU CIS PIG

ZE IS A PROUD, TRANS, DISABLED, ABLEST, TRANS AFRICAN, POLY AMOROUS PLANT WOLF KIN WOMYN

APOLOGIZE FOR THE TRIGGERING AT ONCE
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>>713929866
Them is neutral faggot sack, you use it to not misgender a persom
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>>713931039

Who, besides rednecks and sjws, gives a fucking shit

Why is all of a sudden a fucking felony nowadays?
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>>713931039

Someone with a brain has joined us, thank god.

>>713931017

This is /b/ not tumblr.
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Your friends are degenerate faggots and so are you for supporting this. Do whats right and kill all of them and then yourself.
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>>713931163

It's not a felony, but you do look like a complete D-bag if you do it on purpose to hurt them. If you didn't know better that's a different thing entirely.

>>713931173

Thanks I'll be sure to let them know that, you're very sweet anon. I'm sorry your father beat you as a child and your mom watched.
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