[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Can't get a boner and sex feels like nothing

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

Thread replies: 6
Thread images: 2

File: 1497149448935.jpg (54KB, 600x448px) Image search: [Google]
1497149448935.jpg
54KB, 600x448px
Hey /adv/, I've had a soul-crushing problem with my sexual health for as long as I can remember.
To put it in blunt terms, I have erectile dysfunction and very low sensitivity in my penis. I am a moderate size (6” inches) however it’s very hard to get erect and even harder to keep it that way. This hasn’t been a problem until recently as I’ve been a virgin all my life and have a generally low libido all things considered. However, I have recently acquired a girlfriend and she is very interested in the physicality of our relationship. We have attempted sex 3 times now and each time it’s taken me an extended period to become erect and once inside of her I would barely feel anything and would thus go soft fairly quickly. My dick honestly has no more sensitivity than my arm or leg, it’s that bad. I have been able to make my girlfriend cum multiple times outside of penetration and I have been able to just once. While I don’t feel like this is putting a huge strain on our relationship, it’s obviously not ideal and I have an appointment with my doctor soon, I would just like /adv/’s advice to see if there’s any other methods or things I can do to improve my love life. I should also mention that my hips have an acute pain while thrusting, and I’m chalking this up to my largely sedentary life and desk job. If you have any advice regarding stretches or something to that effect I’d love to hear that too, thank you.
>>
File: circumise it.jpg (387KB, 943x1150px) Image search: [Google]
circumise it.jpg
387KB, 943x1150px
>>18671535
>sensitivity as arm
Cut?

Anyway are you fat? Do you do sport? Do you do kegel excercises? Do you fap? Have you been to doctor to get checked hormone levels? What about your testicles? Age? What do you do eat? How much porn do you see? Blood pressure? Cardio sport? Are you using ssri / happy / happy pills?
>>
Possibly weird question but do you masturbate or watch porn a lot? I'm assuming you don't since I have a friend who has extremely low libido and doesn't masturbate at all but I'm just making sure.

What i would recommend and what I think most people on here would also advise is to talk to a doctor openly about your problems and take their advice on what to do. There are a lot of myriad of different medicinal and lifestyle options at your disposal but it will basically be up to your own personal diligence and trial and error to find what's right for you.

You also mentioned that you work an office job, this kind of condition is actually fairly common for middle aged men working desk jobs for extended periods of time, but even if you're in your early 20s a sedentary lifestyle mixed with a naturally low libido can be equally as detrimental. I'm sure your doctor will tell you this too but if you star to eat healthier and work out a couple of days a week you will most likely see some positive results in terms of your natural sexuality. You don't even have to become a gym nut or anything, just try to put cleaner food in your body, drink primarily water and get some light to moderate exercise on a daily basis. I started working out a couple of days a week recently and it's helped me a lot in terms of my anxiety and general laziness, it might help in your situation as well.

Like I said through, your main goal should be to see a doctor and hear them out on what they think is best for you
>>
>>18671563
>>18671566
>Cut?
Yeah. I know there is a loss of sensitivity when being circumcised due to a lot of nerve endings being removed (or something to that effect) but I never thought it would be so drastic. I seriously cannot feel almost anything from it.

>Fat?
Also yeah. I'm 6'2 and 220 pounds, so not crazy but still.

>Kegel?
No, in fact I haven't even heard of this until just now. It's seemingly exactly what I need, though. I'm going to bring it up with my doctor and start tomorrow.

>Fap?
Basically no. While I've of course fapped before and continue to do so, I only really fap around 3-4 times a month, which from what I hear is rare. I would fap more but it's honestly just tiring and I can't feel anything so why should I bother?

>Hormones?
I haven't checked my hormone levels with my doctor however I think it's unlikely that I have high estrogen or something to that effect because I look like a fucking monster. I'll still bring it up with him though.

>Diet?
Mixed bag. I rarely eat fast food but I've been addicted to soda all my life (which recently I've actually stopped) and even though I cook my own meals a lot of the time it's usually very easy and basic stuff like eggs or burgers. I also don't eat a lot of vegetables. I also hardly ever work out.

>Porn?
Here's where I start to get weird, I actually look at porn WAY more often than I actually jerk off. I'll look at porn maybe 3 times a week, and just sort of stare. I don't really get any intense pleasure from it and it has to be really good for it to get me hard but I get a sort of dim pleasure in the back of my mind that just sort of likes thinking about sex. Weird, I know.

>Anti-Depressants?
No, however when I was a child I took Prozac and my family has a long history of depression. While recently I would describe myself as pretty happy I was downright miserable in my youth and very deeply depressed. Sometimes that comes through even today.

Thanks for replying, guys!
>>
>>18671535
YOU ARE NOT A MAN AND YOU NEVER WILL BE OP ACCEPT YOUR FATE AS A BREED PIG FOR STRONG BLACK MEN SUCH AS MYSELF
>>
>>18672658
>>>/fit/ sticky and dont stop until you hit 23 or less bmi
http://www.calculator.net/bmi-calculator.html

And if you are depressed, it is no wonder your dick doesnt work.

And promise me you wont allow your future sons to be butchered as you were.
Thread posts: 6
Thread images: 2


[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.