Hi /adv/,
my significant other is wanting to become trans. They want to change their name and become some gender other than male or female.
We've been dating for 3 years now and I don't know what to do. All our hobbies are the same, our friendsgroup is completely intertwined, and we live together.
My biggest concern is that I won't find them attractive anymore and will be embarrassed to be around them because I also disagree with the gender politics thing. I fear that every time I see them I will be repulsed. It doesn't help that We haven't fucked in months either and I'm becoming more and more sexually frustrated.
Has anyone been through anything similar? Should I just tell them flat out and disintegrate my relationship? I feel that that would backfire because some of my friends would decide that I'm transphobic or someshit.
>>18644926
Break up and be glad they decided to ruin their bodies and reveal their mental disorder before marriage and children happened.
Sorry, no other way around.
>>>/lgbt/ and search for nasty pics from gender reassigment surgeries and how "average" trans looks like.
Time to break up.
Are they getting an operation? If not then you may want to invest in strapons. For both of you. Seriously tho it will only matter as much as you or them make it matter.
Also since anons are anonymous we are all technically internet trans
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>>18645036
This anon said it all.
>>18644926
Inform yourself about the subject, talk with them about it and then decide.