Is there any beating the Madonna-whore complex? I have a bad

>>18548619
I'm odd then. Like I won't look down on a non pure woman cause I'm not pure myself but if you were raped or something then I see you as damaged goods.

>>18548619
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>>18548619
How do peoples bodies become like this? Do they use intense mind control technique?

>>18548619
You have created a trap for yourself, your reticular activating system has developed a "belief", so to speek. Now all the things you see in the world that back up this belief are salient, and the things that DO NOT back up your beliefs go under the radar.The only way you can change this is to regularly put yourself in situations where this belief is challenged. I can't tell you how you are going to do it, that's something you are going to have to find out on your own.

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>>18548619
T H I C C

>>18548628

This.

For the record OP, not sure if this is what you actually meant but Madonna-whore complex is not just an obsession with purity. It describes only being able to respect and love a woman you see as pure (whether that's because she's virginal or conservative and modest in terms of appearance and personality), but being unable to be (in the most extreme case) turned on or (less extreme) sexually fulfilled by such a woman. Basically you either see women as pure beings you don't want to defile with gross sexual stuff that demeans them, or as semen demons you look down upon but want to desperately plow.

What you describe is simply being obsessed with virginity. There is definitely no magical cure but from what you said I can only offer you two tips. The first being to learn to not speak your mind when it will do no good and will hurt the other person. Aka you should've come up with whatever excuse to not make that poor girl feel more broken than she no doubt already did. Secondly, there is no person more likely to discover what your underlying assumptions or whatever are causing you to feel this way, than you. Self-reflection is key. Only if you can understand why you feel this way, you can try to change it.