Baby daddy's ain't shit 2017

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>>18490482
Just had a baby with my boyfriend of a year and a half. Our relationship has always been rocky because of his ex/"platonic friend" At some point in our relationship things got really bad (he was still flirting w her via text, taking her out to eat but never taking me out because he'd complain about being a broke ass all the time, crying to me about how he felt bad about hurting her and wished he could've done more) you could figure at this point I felt stupid and didn't want to be with him anymore. In my mind there were only two options.
A. He stops talking to her completely and moves forward with me.
Or
B. We break up.
He chooses option A. I find out he still continued to talk to her and hang out. I leave him. Come back cause pregnant. We have a baby who is sick and gonna be in and out of the hospital for a year. He starts bringing up his ex/"platonic friend" again. I now don't want to move in with him like planned. Am I being stupid or is he never going to get over the past and I SHOULD continue to move forward focusing on our sick child alone because he's not there mentally? I've taken out a lot of detail to the situation but this is the gist of it. I can't even talk to anyone about my postpartum emotions cause of him wanting to waste all our time crying about his ex 2 years later. I feel like shit. I basically want to run away man.