Let's say you know a guy who's straight and is going to throw in the towel when it comes to women.
Maybe he just isn't handsome or charasmatic enough to keep the girls he's talking to interested.
Let's say he's giving up, because not even the ugliest, fattest, most revolting women don't like to talk to him and rarely give him the time of day.
Wat would you say to such a guy?
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>>18344755
I would tell him to frame his questions to /adv/ more specifically, because I don't know if he wants to have his philosophy challenged or wants advice on how to get women or just wants to make a vague post and leave it be.
>>18344755
Are you a guy who has had girlfriends or a girl that won't date him. If so don't bother. I am in the same boat and basically it just ends up sounding like you don't really understand what they're going through.
>>18344755
I would say "Welcome to the realm of true enlightenment."
I'd say "why are you telling me this, this affects no one but yourself"
>>18344755
that isn't a good squats ass
>>18344851
LOL
>>18344755
just say to him there is a song for you: aint no second prize by jimmy barnes
You're on the right track. Practice nofap, learn to meditate, transmute sexual energy and go full MGTOW monk
>>18344755
Sort yourself out.
I'd say I'm in the same boat as him.
I'm on the verge of a panic attack talking to girls as I sweat a lot in awkward situations. I'm also not very interesting and don't have much to say, and honestly I don't mind. I'm too lazy to care about all the crap of life. The only thing I love doing in life is nothing. I love having nothing to do. I'm completely boring.
I guess I'd tell him to just wait it out. We'll die someday, so for now let's just try not to disappoint our parents too much and try to keep out of thoughts of suicide. Just wait it out. Wait for sweet death. Remember: we are only keeping busy until death. Maybe pursue something else in life in the mean time.
>>18345077
digits don't lie. OP is a faggot.
>>18344755
You're better off not trying.
Women are pretty shitty. They demand everything and take more, yet give nothing in return. They think just letting you be in their presence and serve them is a good enough reward for all the time money and effort you have to give them. You'd probably get cheated on anyways.
Pursue your own goals and happiness and learn that females are just a meme.
I did that and my girlfriend did all the work and we've been living together for 7 years. just be patient, it might work out
>>18344755
Good idea.
>>18345149
I... I am similar to you but there are a few differences that I would like to discuss.
>I'm also not very interesting and don't have much to say
I've come to the realization that it's actually the rest of the world who's boring, back in college I would speak with my friends about everything from pokemon to philosophy, socialism, science, vidya, you name it, but people at my work only talk about work or gossip, disgusting.
>I'm too lazy to care about all the crap of life. The only thing I love doing in life is nothing. I love having nothing to do.
I also enjoy having free time that I usually spend playing DotA (back in the day I used to write, listen to music, watch anime, play other vidya, etc.) I've realized that everyone complains about how little time for themselves they have so the knowledge that I have so much time for myself makes me feel good, at least I'm not wasting time doing something I hate.
>I guess I'd tell him to just wait it out.
Maybe you are truly boring, just come up with some retarded dream, no matter how impossible, chasing after a dream, no matter how slowly, keeps you busy enough to last for a lifetime.
As for OP I'm not so sure about giving up on women, I also am unnatractive to females but I've come to accept it and just surf from rejection to rejection, nobody is keeping track of my record but myself and let me tell you something, the one time I got laid it was amazing, keep chasing vaginas until the day you die, you probably have nothing better to do anyway.
>>18344764
He wants advice on how to get women.
Every woman he finds attractive and unattractive don't show any form of interest when he's talking to them.
He simply doesn't know what to say to these girls.
I'll give you a few examples:
What should this guy say beautiful women who he meets when walking down a street or at a mall every day ?
Should he say:
>Hey/hi, how was your day ?
>Hi, my names Anon, what's yours ?
>Hey, those sunglasses look cool, where did you buy them ?
>Hi, I'm looking for a nice food stand/restaurant, which would you recommend ?
>Hi/hey, I just had to walk up to you, because you look cute.
>>18344755
What about common interests?
Have a female friend (one that you see as a sister and not a sexually-romantically way) to loose your tongue to females
Disregard 3DPD whores
Acquire perfect 2D waifu instead
dont make sweeping generalizations about the rest of your life, but sure, go enjoy being single for awhile
I'd say you're in your early 20s and not in a high status position yet, IE, fraternity, or musician in a band.
Once you get a job and a foothold in the world women will start materializing.
>>18346522
I'm not here to complain, but what exactly is there to enjoy about being single ?
Is it the amount of extra freedom ?
Maybe it's the fact you can date any girl you want ?
I don't really see what's so fun about being single, because I think getting intimate, watching movies with someone and having sex looks and sounds like a lot of fun.
>>18347002
In a word, not having to compromise.
Do exactly what you want when you want to for whatever why you want.
the current sexual market only works on the premise that there will be a huge portion of failure men.
The only reason we don't see a beta uprising is because porn is so availible right now
>>18344762
I second this, they're not faggy pick up artists
>>18344755
Nothing. I try not to talk to myself.
Except I'm not "going" to throw in the towel. That towel got thrown out a while ago. It's probably at the dump now, either being gnawed on by raccoons or being used as a jizz rag by hobos.
>>18345477
Literal unicorn status if you aren't lying.
>>18344755
Women are alot like dogs, you can spend all your time trying to break and tame a pitbull but at the end of the day, when that dog mauls you or your kids you're gonna wish you had gone with a golden retriever.
Women need to be dominated and trained (some to more or lesser extents), continue looking for a woman who seems malleable and then do your sculpting.
Been doing this for many years and that is the only sustainable way I have come across.
Good luck mate
>>18345514
Try all of them... and see what gets results... it's not that hard...
>>18344755
Wat would you say to such a guy?
>>>/fit/
>>18347002
the act of being single its self doesn't sound appealing but the problem is most people don't do shit when they're single. people are under the impression they're only allowed to be happy if they're dating.
its kinda like a diet. you'd enjoy your self more if you were eating your favorite foods, but you CAN still be happy if you are only eating fresh veg, you just find happiness outside of food.
apply that to dating. you can still do all the fun stuff in the world, just do it alone or with a friend. i dont mean take the time to enjoy the act of being a single person, cuz thats not a thing. just go enjoy life instead of focusing on relationships.