This is a question for the men

I don't know why they'd suggest that. Everyone's body is a wreck after pregnancy

That advice sounds retarded to me.

Find a good man, have children with him, whatever happens to your body afterwards is not that big of a deal.

When a man marries you and has children with you, family should become the priority, not you having a perfectly shaped body.

So.. just find a family oriented man and you should be fine. Of course that doesn't mean getting on 200 kg. There's a difference between things you can't help and not giving a shit about your looks.

find a former fatty male

>>18179153
lol what a conundrum

how bad is your body?
post a pic

>>18179153
Male here. I lost ~35 kg over 8 months when i was 24. Now i am 25 years old 20bmi with no streches or loose skin. I still have huge body dysmorphia. All i had to do was start before I reached point of no return and read
>>>/fit/ sticky and be patient.

If anything you show that you have something most females dont: dedication. With a bit of luck, you wont be all flappy. If you are young and lose weight in reccomended speed it wont be that bad.

Tldr: start worring about things when you encounter them. No use to think about future when it is uncertain.

If you want surgery to feel good about yourself then go for it, but be aware of the risks. That said, a man if worth, who truly wants you for who and what you are won't care if you have bodily imperfections. We all do as we get older. The woman I'm in love with is aging, has bags under her eyes, a bit of a loose belly from children and small breasts. I don't care I still love and want her (and her body) badly because I love who she is and I'd choose her any day over some tight 18-year-old with a "perfect" body. Beauty is short lived. Focus on the things that really matter (like the salvation of your soul and spiritual growth in Jesus Christ and your life in general).

Just lose the weight slow and you won't have to worry about. The reason people get stretchy skin is because they get super determined to lose it all in a year.

If you lose it at a slow rate, the skin will tighten up.

>>18179153
Just refuse to fuck with the lights on.
Or find a beta who can't do better.

>>18179153

Losing the weight is good; from my perspective, having the skin removed makes no difference.

As a man, I really only find genuine obesity unattractive--having some fat isn't a turn-off, and, even then, the presence of fat isn't really the primary concern: the thing I dislike is the idea of the attitude it takes to become and stay obese.

>female can't attract a male
Impossible

>>18179153
Just give up. No one will ever love you

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>wanting to have children