ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Would you fuck a guy out of stress? like, exam stress? It has been a thing with me and this girl since last semester. Firstly, I don't know much about her beside her name and her major, not even the same major as me. One afternoon last November, we sat near each other in the library and I saw her struggling against a discrete math problem, so I sat down next to her and doodled my solution on her note, she thanked me and we started having review sessions together. She was under a lot of stress and even broke down crying thinking she will fail, and said she will drop out if she fails, then something about having kids and becoming a housewife, and that she hates being a housewife. I can't recall what I said but the next thing I remember, she was giving me a hand job in the bathroom. And after that, many more, whenever a major test was coming. Then one day we studied from 5 PM to 4 AM, she fell asleep next to me, and when we woke up it became full blown sex, yes she bought condoms to our study session. We never communicated much outside of our time studying together, whenever she texts me it would be about some problem from her class.
I really like her now, at first I thought she's the typical dumb pretty girl, but the effort she spent in preparing for classes is admirable. I would like to keep having sex with her, but I have no idea if I should initiate sex or ask her out since if she has to turn me down during our study it'd be really awkward, and she probably won't want to study with me again.

A girl texted me after our first date, she said "I like you so much it's stupid" and when agreeing to a second said that she'd "really like to see (me)". I really like this person so I immediatly interpreted this meaning that the person has feelings for me, but my pessimism and experiences with "lol I just meant as a friend" have made me a lot more cautious.
To the women in this thread, if you sent that to a guy, what would it mean?

>>17987398
The most you're going to get from her is FWB, and even that's not guaranteed in the long run

>>17987398
>the effort she spent in preparing for classes is admirable
Using vagina to get you to do her job is called "great effort" now? Ok, buddy.
Anyway, if this doesn't affect you in any way (i.e. you aren't sacrificing anything just to help her out), then just keep on banging her: it's probably the most honest relationship you will get in uni.

Question for any males here, especially if you're the introverted type. It's a long story, but I'm just going to summarize it as short as I can. There's a guy I had a crush on back when I was in highschool. Really shy, hardly spoke a word, and barely had any friends. One day I was sent by my teacher to tell him something, and ever since then he started showing up everywhere and would always try to casually get near me, but still wouldn't speak. Fast forward 3 years, he graduated before me so I didn't see him for that entire time. Started giving up hope, when all of a sudden I run into him again. Kept running into him in the same place, and again, he'd come near me to the point he's standing right behind me and again, won't talk. Then I went entirely somewhere else and guess who showed up again there? Him. Is him trying to get near me an attempt for me to notice/talk to him? Does it sound as though I should give it a chance and make the first move when it comes to speaking? I would've done that long ago already, but I'm kind of hesitant on whether it sounds like he's interested in me or not.

>>17987451
It sounds creepy as fuck honestly. Introverts don't do what he's doing.

>>17987446
>Using vagina to get you to do her job
what are you on about, I don't do her homework assignments, there are likely too many of them. It's the opposite, I explain one problem for her and pointed her to chapters of books/wiki with more problems she needs to solve that would give her a better idea of the topic. Did you go to university? No one passes exams by having other people solve everything for them. Most of our session is just two of us sitting next to each other solving our own problems, with occasional questions from her.

>most honest relationship you will get in uni
oh no lol

>>17987451
>crush on
>scared to do first move
>he is probably /b/ full autismo clinging to only female who ever spoke to him
>scared to even talk to her

This is why we cant have nice things. I can see your fear of rejection. Grow some balls woman if your man has none.

>>17987451
Why don't you say hi to an old school mate, does not have to suck his dick right after, that's just optional.

>>17987465
>No one passes exams by having other people solve everything for them
Oh, you naive child. I know a couple of people who did. I personally had a period where I didn't study at all, yet scored B on a set theory course during my 2nd year.

In any case, my point still stands: you are helping her, she's saying "thanks" by giving you sex. There.

>be me
>average looks
>extravert
>good at conversations
>nice
>life on track
>still not getting girls

Is the whole 'just be confident' thing a meme? Isn't it all just about being hot?

>>17987475
Yes, it is. Might want to check previous thread.

>>17987454
Now that I read it over I guess the way I worded it makes it sound like the plot of some shitty stalker horror film kek. Him showing up everywhere other than back when we were in school together has usually been mostly coincidence I guess, there's no way he could've known I would be showing up there. As for him getting near me and stuff, I think he's just awkward with girls, maybe? I always saw him act normal with his friends, but then whenever I came by or looked his way he'd just immediately glance down and act introverted like I described. Dunno.

>>17987468
I've got the balls anon, maybe they're just a bit shriveled up though when it comes to this because am scare of turning out to be wrong with my assumptions.

>>17987470
T-that's lewd, are you going to suggest I hold his hand after too? But really, I guess I'll give it a shot (talking to him, not sucking his dick). At least with how shy he is he probably won't look me in the eyes if he rejects me.

>>17987474
>I know a couple of people who did. I personally had a period where I didn't study at all, yet scored B on a set theory

Lol you're full of shit. Or you went to a really shit college where exams are a joke. Otherwise it's just contradictory.

>a set theory course
right

@girls
Tinder
Would you be less likely to swipe right on me if i was together with other females in my pics

>>17987484
>not sucking his dick
trust me, doing this helps your chance immensely. Guys love having their peepees sucked

>>17987490
I'd need to at least buy him dinner first, anon.

>you will never have a fanclub
;_;

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I was really bitter and angry after the break-up but now that I figured the whole thing out, there's a ton of weight off my shoulders, and I actually feel really sorry for her even though she is the one who cheated, lied and manipulated me. I found out she is a psychopath.

It just all made sense all of the sudden.

I really feel sorry for her, and although I would never engage in anything personal with her again, I want her to know she is a psychopath so she can get help.

It is beyond any doubt that her family made her this way at a very young age. She had a childhood that a murderer on a life sentence would get chills from all while she had to protect her little sister from the same happening, so there is no wonder psychopathy kicked in as a means to survive. None of us would end up fine after being in such a family.

I think it's really sad, but I want her to know so she can assess her life better knowing this, but if I told her she'd just brush it off as me being bitter and jealous. I don't want any relations to her either, I just want her to know this so the remaining part of her life is easier, because her psychopathy causes her and everyone close to her great turmoil.

What do I say or do? I really want to help this person, but not get involved in their life ever again.

Sidequestion: I attract these kinds of people much more than anyone I know. I know what to look for now, but what's my problem if I attract psychopaths and how do I fix it?

Many questions here, but really need advice on everything.

>>17987498
I released a few singles that got some radio play and have fans. It's not that hard, just create something that people will care about.

>>17987481
Do you mean the post about the guy that is short and states he cannot get girls because of it?

>>17987403
it would not mean as a friend. ever. don't worry about it, 95% sure it can't be the case
>>17987475
it is not about being hot. that is what is a meme. you're probably not as good at conversations as you think you are or are trying with the wrong chicks.

>>17987487
of fucking course kek

>>17987503
1. don't. leave her alone. she thinks her behavior is fine and it will stay that way.
2. there is no problem with you specifically only because of that. perhaps you don't know what a psychopath is or perhaps it's some other trait you appeal to.

>>17987475
There must be something, or a lack thereof which you haven't discovered. It's not about appearance so don't look too much into that.

>>17987516
>It's not about appearance so don't look too much into that
Kek, fuck off with this shit. It is and always will be about appearance and money.

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>>17987521

>>17987521
I bet being bitter gets you tonnes of pussy.

>>17987528
Thanks, but I prefer twinks. It's fun to see how you guys project so hard all the time, though.

>>17987530
>gay dude that hates women
You really hated women so bad that you became gay? So the militant lesbian does have a male equivalent after all.

need an opinion brehs
>be a week ago chatting to a girl in my course
>getting on really well and we haven't reallh spoke much before when suddenly she starts talking about how her ex started texting her and how he was a weirdo
>I asked her if she had a boyfriend who could tell the guy to piss off and she was like "who me no no I'm single"

she then was like "oh I just told you my life story sorry lol" . It seemed to me that she just was opening up to me like a friend but it felt like maybe more.


was she trying to make a point of being single and should I have done/said anything?

>>17987532
>claiming that looks and money is what matters somehow implies I'm bitter
Ok, my dude.

>>17987533
nah don't pay too much attention to it, she was just poking fun at the fact that she doesn't get much dick

>>17987535
>has shit personality
>"surely its not my personality, its because women are trophy husband money leeches"
Ok, my man.

>>17987538
i agree

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>>17987538
>see through bullshit, peek into the essence of why women find men attractive
>NAH, LOL, YOU JUST HAVE SHIT PERSONALITY

thanks for the reply

she's a real qt though like I'd rate her at least 7/10 I can't imagine her having too much of an issue

>>17987538
#Rekt

>>17987542
you've sure had some bad luck m80

>>17987512
I missed the last thread, what happened with the short guy? It sounds like something I'd want to know.

t. guy who is short

>>17987551
>what happened with the short guy

He hanged himself and finally found happiness.

>>17987487
Yes

>>17987451
He is attracted to you, in the most literal sense of the word. Wherever you are, he is physically drawn to you. He wants to be around you. He obviously has a thing for you. He's just afraid to make a move. He's afraid of rejection.

If you talk to him or make a move on him, I guarantee he's respond positively. The question is if you really should. This guy is exhibiting some real creeper behavior. And the fact that you've both graduated high school and he still doesn't even know how to say high to a girl could mean he's really lacking in social intelligence. He will be bad at relationships and communication. He probably has unrealistic expectations or messed up views on how a relationship with a girl should work. And if he cannot communicate his problems effectively with words, he may resort to venting through other means when he is frustrated, such as through physical violence. To put it in the words of another anon in this thread, he sounds like the kind of person people on 4chan call and "autismo."

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>>17987579
>UGH, WHAT A CREEP
>HE MUST BE HAVING PROBLEMS
Loving every laugh.

>>17987474
>Oh, you naive child. I know a couple of people who did.
Were you going for a communications degree or something trite? Finals alone are something like 30% of my grade, there's a reason why the girls who try to pull what you're describing dropped out after sophomore year.

>>17987583
...yeah. He is a creep. I do think he has problems. He's constantly stalking this woman in different places and just standing behind/near her all the time. Most people find that creepy.

>>17987588
Has it ever occurred to you that the stalking takes place in her fucking head? There's such thing as coincidence, but she chose to interpret it as stalking.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOCyzG4BktQ

This is her. Now fuck off with this "introverts have problems" shit.

>>17987515
Psychopath survivor guy here. I have no choice cause she found someone else right away. It all started crumbling when I found out about her lies and cheating so she found a new target after she understood the game is up and that I don't bow down to her manipulations.

I don't use the term lightly at all, everything I read and come across points straight in that direction.

>>17987551
Basically he realized he had a hard time getting girls because he is short. He found out confidence is not key if you don't have an appealing appearance.

>>17987636
Oh. I've never had much of a problem. Although, I tend to only pursue women that are my height or shorter.

>>17987642
I think that's a fine solution. Women just don't want to be taller than their man.

I had an impulse to text a friend in class while we were sitting in break "You are so pretty." I didn't becauae I don't know for sure if she's into me and we haven't dated.

Girls(and guys I suppose), would this had been a mistake? Should I do it next class?

>>17987654
Don't do it. by elevating this 'friend' you will lower your own position.

>>17987690
How/when exactly do I flirt then?

>>17987515
>>17987568
why though? whats the reason behind it? can guys not have female friends?

>>17987487
Yup. Will assume shes your gf or someone you dated in the past, or she's one of your current bangs. If she's hotter than me, then I will reject immediately.

Other instant rejects are pics with kids. Will immediately assume its yours and nope out real fast. Also group pics as your main. Not gonna bother to try and guess which one is you, and I find 99% of the time, one of your buddies is hotter than you.

How can people/you have low standards?

>>17987877
Rejection, loneliness, isolation, not watching porn/TV shows with ridiculously good looking people.

Coworker i like just lightly beat on my shoulder because she was happy about something

This type of casual body contact has been going on for a while now and she even asked me if i has a boyfriend when we were out on lunch one time.

I dont want to fuck this up. Do i still need to play it safe at this point or am i still reading too much into this

>>17987900
Ohfuck. I mean if i had a girlfriend

If friends (both male and female) ask you "Hey wouldn't 'femanon' be a good girl for you?", does it mean they consider you to be on her level of attractiveness?

>>17987880
I am rejected, lonely, isolated and I still can't have low standards. How can normal people do it?

>>17987530
I haven't even been a part of this convo, but I doubt a man who dates men has any level of expertise on the subject of what attracts women.

>>17987642
Why can't more guys figure this out

>>17987654
How did she respond?

The two women I'm currently 'talking' to are married, how big of a piece of shit am I?

I've slept with one before her marriage, and she came on to me during her marriage, but I was in a relationship so I turned her down. But now I'm single, so we're flirting again.

The other one I slept with while she was married, and I plan on doing it again now that I'm single.

>>17987960
Like I said, I decided not to since we aren't dating or anything.

>>17987833
there isn't really a reason, desu, it's pretty instinctual

>>17987877
it's subjective. people say i have low standards yet obviously the guys i date, i think are super nice

>>17987911
either that or lower or just that your personalities match in their opinion.

>>17987979
it's honestly them who are pieces of shit kek

>>17987911
Probably means you're in her league and vice versa at the least, they might mean you two seem like you'd be a compatible couple, personality wise.

Why do you ask, is she ugly?

Why do girls find me attractive if Im 5'6?

Im in college and Im about to finish but this shit started senior year of HS. Girls would come on to me, call me hot, and hit on me. Which I was oblivious to since I just thought oh well Im short, don't bother. I've been looked at and kissed by girls and they openly try to hit on me if Im out at a bar or concert. I don't hit on girls or really initiate conversations with them, Im fairly anti-social.

Im white and live in America, so it's mostly white girls doing this.

>>17987986
what the fuck even is your question
obviously it doesn't matter as much as you thought it did, move on how can you not be happy about it

>>17987989
the question is the sentence that ends with the question mark, it's at the top of the post mate.

>>17987986
Baby cute.

Whether theyl really consider u as serious datinh material ia another matter lol

>>17987996
>obviously it doesn't matter as much as you thought it did

>>17987986
>Girls would come on to me, call me hot, and hit on me. Which I was oblivious

yeeeah this sounds very familiar.

>>17987999
I've never heard the phrase before,what does it mean. Like cute like a kitten? Because these girls wanted to fuck me, that was very clear even though I have a hard time catching on.

>>17987979
You're a big piece of shit but not as big as they are. Still a big piece of shit though.

Question, this girl who works at a place I play football behind the mini bar has started talking to me quite a bit, she made free food for me and when I went up to get a drink she said the food was made with love and to enjoy my first love. Was she flirting or showing signs of interest? Only person (at a table with a friend) to receive free food at this centre

>>17988026
either she was joking around or it's a weird way to flirt

>>17987983
No she's hot, and I'm average. She has a boyfriend though...

So my girlfriend and I have very different social circles, she likes to party and I like to stay at home. She brought it up before and I dont know what to do, should we break up although Im kind of indifferent about it I think I really love her but then shes kind of guilt tripping me to break out of my comfort zone and I dont know what to do

>>17988056
just tell her to stop, that you have a problem with her trying to get you to be into what she's into and that it bothers you. done

>>17988060
I have but then she's kind of persistent about it especially when she goes out. She told me that her friends boyfriends go out with them and if I really loved her Id accompany her. She guilt trips me really hard, she doesn't take what I say into consideration and she keeps saying I got her into false pretenses because I wasnt such a shut in when we met

>>17988065
anyone who starts any sentence with 'if you really loved me' WILL end up emotionally blackmailing you.
>if you really loved me
>all my friends do tho
>guilt trips
>you're basically a liar because you didn't seem like this
break the fuck up, she's such a bitch

>>17988066
I mean shouldn't relationships be give and take ? or am I really being a giant retard and not seeing the signs.

>>17988071
give and take? she's just taking. seriously, fuck her, these are huge red flags that shouldn't be ignored, i had a boyfriend who acted the same and it ended with my pride being 0 and him constantly making me feel bad for everything we did differently.

>>17988078
I mean I'm not a saint either, so just break it off and no compromise? I mean we have good times but then she's usually off in a club every weekend and Im playing vidya and browsing 4chan but is that really reason enough to break it off? I do think about breaking up but does it not get better or is this all we're ever gonna amount to? Thanks for the advice so far btw

>>17988097
the fact that she is 'pushy with your introvert things' isn't enough to break it off, no, but the shit she says to you definitely is if you want to dodge a massive bitchbullet. nobody should say that shit to someone they supposedly care about.

Guys,

let's say you met a girl on a Friday and you seem to like her a lot and said you would call her

How many days pass until you call her?

>>17988104
1 day?
why wait?
Unless I have other pussies.

>>17988102
I forgot to mention she gave up her scholarship so we wont do long distance, I mean she doesn't make me feel like I'm obligated because she did that and she's pretty well off so she ddidnt really need it but I dont know, a few weeks ago I had to pick her up since she was too drunk and I said this has to stop and she blurted out I gave up gradschool for you and I havent said anything about it since she was drunk and maybe she didnt mean it? I dont know what to do, I want to stay but I feel like staying isnt the right thing to do for both of us, and I dont want to feel like I ruined her life.

>>17988111
you didn't ruin her anything, but she is most likely going to. she's obviously a guilt tripper and you really don't want to be with someone like that because it will ruin you to hear this sort of shit from someone you care about.

>>17988104
Assuming you're the girl in this situation, he could well be waiting so he doesn't seem too keen.

>>17988113
Idk this is my first time going to /adv/ since I really needed advice and I know you shouldnt take advice from some internet stranger but thanks, you've given me some clarity. I mean I still dont know what to do but I dont feel so lost anymore. Thanks

>>17988127
you're welcome man and don't forget we're all people. i told you, i've been there before and it will not end well in my opinion.

Girls and guys

How do I quit fapping completely? I don't think it's healthy anymore..

I fap once every 6-7 days. But after I cum I feel sick. Every time. I feel sick after I cum. I fapped when I woke up this morning, and I just ate breakfast and feel like I might throw up. I know that if I didn't fap, I wouldn't be feeling this way.

Girls, do you get realy horny on your period? W
How do you feel about period sex?

>>17988142
Don't touch your willy.

>>17988142
>I fap once every 6-7 days
Fuck off

>>17988122
I hope so... I was thinking of calling him instead but maybe that would be desperate plus he did say he'd call for sure

>>17988148
>I was thinking of calling him instead but maybe that would be desperate
And just like that, you understand why he hasn't called you yet.

Don't make the mistake he's making. If you want to call him, call him.

>>17988148
>I was thinking of calling him
Do this if you really like him. Even if I have other pussies I'd reconsider if a girl show initiative. At least you won't be constantly thinking whether you have a chance.

>>17988144

It's hard sometimes. Pun intended.

>>17988146

What? I'm seriously asking. I really feel like shit right now

>>17988132
So I decided I should break things off, how do I do this? We have classes so we usually only meet like 3-4 times a week, do I do it face to face, text, email? I haven't really broken up with anyone and I dont know. Im friends with her friends and Idk will I be singled out. How do I deal with crying? fuck I feel my stomach tying into knots

>>17988155
I could rub one out 3x a day and feel like Jesus himself after saving humanity.

>>17988152
He wouldn't mind if I gathered up the courage before he did? Sorry for the dumb question

Just the last time I texted another guy he never replied, so it felt hurtful, but then I realised there were signs he didn't want to talk to me before. I don't see the signs this time so it should be okay, r-right?

>>17988162
You reckon the juice might be worth the squeeze? Then squeeze away.

>>17988154
We just met that night so I don't know him well enough to be able to judge if I like him, but I am intrigued and I do feel it would be a shame if we never talk again

>>17988159

Not for me. I feel sick. It makes me feel weak, and I get sort of anxious. My stomach is churning right now, and my head feels dizzy. I fapped an hour ago and still feel shittt

>>17988159
>feel like Jesus himself after saving humanity

disappointed and depressed?

>>17988159
Forsaken?

girls,
if you were laying with your boyfriend in the same bed going to sleep, what would you typically wear going to sleep?
(for example just nude or something like t-shirt and underwear)

>>17988142
Do you watch porn?
You sound like a pussy, btw. You really need to man up.
I cum 1 gallon and only get slightly tired, not sick in any way.

>>17988237

>do you watch porn

No.

Man, I used to fap 2-3 times a day for at least 6-7 years. I stopped all of that shit back in September. And worked my way down to once every 6 days. Now, the orgasm itself is very weak. There is no intense shot of pleasure. My cum just kind of squirts out. And what follows is a feeling of guilt, anxiety and dizziness

>>17988237
Tshirt and strapon

>>17988143
it's really fucking subjective, both of those depend on the person entirely, entirely. you just need ask the woman particularly, mate.
me specifically i wouldn't have period sex ever and sometimes i get horny on my period but it's not really unusually horny or unusually often, so nah

>>17988158
face to face always and don't let her crying pussy you out if you decided to do something. remember if her crying makes you change your mind the relationship will only turn shittier after she finds out you're obviously capable of breaking up with her. she'll think about it afterwards even if you two stick together. try to focus on the shit things she says to you and before you actually decide, consider if you can see any way this might work in the future despite the shit things she says to you or if it might get worse. consider carefully
now on to how to do it:
>meet up, do the 'we gotta talk' thing
>"hey, look, you know how i asked you to stop making me feel guilty about not going out to clubs with you and things and you didn't? i really actually mind that and i don't think this is gonna go in any good direction. given this, i think we'd be better off not having to deal with each other's shit anymore. what do you think?"
don't forget consider both good and bad sides of the relationship before deciding

>>17988190
kek pajamas idfk, what i normally wear to sleep. regular around-the-house clothes or sleep clothes idk

>>17988190
What I wear every night, panties and a tshirt.
Most likely his tshirt because that's the whole point of having a boyfriend.

If a girl who I believe was dropping obvious hints at me (YOU ARE VERY ATTRACTIVE, I LIKED YOU FOR SO LONG X PERIOD OF TIME AGO ETC) has invited me over (ENTICED WITH ANIME) what should I expect?

I am not a smart man

>>17988391
pussy, generally

but if it's not pussy, don't pressure her or anything that's not cool

We met about six months ago at school. We both had other people we were interested in, though I thought he was attractive. We had a casual friendship and got along well. He had an interest in another classmate, which persisted until she moved away roughly two months ago.

We were both hired at the same location and started to come in close contact with eachother. After a bit (a couple weeks) of awkward flirting he asked me to dinner not specifying it was a date. We went and had fun and did it again a week later. This time I asked him if it was a date and he said yes. Which somehow led to us fucking.

Since then weve been going on dates and hanging out frequently for a while. Im happy, but there are a few issues. Namely he is depressed and having a rough time of it. I try to be there for him in a meaningful nonplacating way, as I know that depression cant be "fixed".

Perhaps its a me issue but sometimes I get the impression he feels as though he has settled for me. Especially his words from last night, "Everyone who wants to stay around me is broken worse than I am." Oh, forgot to mention he has pretty bad trust issues.

I have a dysfunctional home life right now; my mother is likely bipolar and we fight a lot. I still live at home on account of being 18 and not making enough to move out yet. Additionally, he seems disappointed in my body. When he first saw my tits he said, "they arent really pornstar boobs but I like them." The woman he was attracted to was objectively considerably more attractive than I. He seems grossed out by eating me out when he had previously told me it was one of his things.

I just feel as though my confidence is failing. I dont want to get naked in front of him anymore. I didnt expect an emotional dumping ground but he seems annoyed when I am distraught because of my mother, whom I intentionally do not talk about. Ive never cried in front of him, or anyone really, and I am worried that I might ruin his image of me if I do.
1/2

Girls

Do you have or have you had rape fantasies? If yes, why?

>>17988406
i have only rarely had fantasies about raping guys, so no. rape doesn't sound hot to me in any way.

>>17988399
him saying that shit to you makes him a piece of shit. he might be the type that will also use his depression as excuse and try to seem edgy by saying shit like 'i'm jaded, can't feel much anymore' etc. my opinion so far.

2/2
And the way thinas are going, either work, home, or uni are going to make me emotional.

Im just so uncomfortable rn; Ive never been in a relationship or had sex before this, and im not sure that I am enjoying this at all. I know a lot of this uncertainty and discomfort arises from my lack of confidence but... I dont know. I was going to talk to him about this last night but then he mentioned the broken people thing and now I am reticent to mention any of this. Should I? Or will I run him off?

Fuck I wrote a lot. Oops

>>17988411
how about guys raping you?

>>17988416
i already said no retard

>>17988412
>i'm not sure that i am enjoying this at all
not gonna work. break up

>>17988406
Yes and no. Real rape is obviously scary, not a thing I want to have happen to me, and super traumatizing. I think when most girls have rape fantasies it's someone that you're (secretly?) attracted to taking total control and forcing pleasure on you and there is nothing you can do about it.

Danny DeVito drugging you and making you suck is nasty dick in the back of a broke down van - gross

Tom Hiddleston tying you up and seducing/forcing you to cum a bajillion times on silk sheets - ys pls

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>>17988425
>Danny DeVito drugging you and making you suck is nasty dick in the back of a broke down van - gross
>gross
>gross
get off this board

Girls

Could insecurities over a physical aspect of your body (Loose skin, Stretch marks etc) be a potential reason for you to not commit to a date?

>>17988421
>i already said no retard

whoa slow down you're making me nervous

>>17988439
nah man he's already asked me out and he knew what he was getting soo i might as well go even if i'm having a day where i feel like i look like shit

>>17988441
zozzle

>>17988406
Noncon has been one of my main kinks since I can remember

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>>17988437
It was just an example I swear

>>17988439
Yes

>>17988448
>nah man he's already asked me out and he knew what he was getting soo i might as well go even if i'm having a day where i feel like i look like shit

As far as I know, in my case, she does not that I know that she has loose skin. I only strongly suspect it due to what she had said in the past with loosing alot of weight and some of her clothing choices

>>17988476
Now, I wonder, how can I do something the shows that I don't care about that. Without obviously saying that I don't care about that.

>>17988485
i doubt she'd quit a date because of it.
tell her she looks nice but in honest ways, like point out things you like about her. 'i like this shirt' / 'your smile is so pretty' etc, i personally suggest not complimenting those parts in a way that might seem like you're really trying, she'll overthink it.

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Question to girls:

What is the degree of ugliness which a man must have at which you would not be interested in him? Regardless of how interesting or confident he is bla bla. What features do you dislike in particular?

>>17988491
I guess she might not break a commitment for it, but she is not committing to one at all. I don't know if maybe she's just insecure about that whole thing (In general she seems interested)

And yea, I get what you are saying otherwise

>>17987388
I don't care which gender answers this one, I just didn't want to start a new thread.

I had a somewhat sexual dream about my girlfriend's sister (we didn't have sex, she was just in her underwear in my house for some reason), and now I can't stop thinking about her.

Did this happen to anyone else? Will this go away?

It's a feeling I haven't felt in years, like a crush back when I was in high school. I've known her for years and didn't think of her like that, she's with a man and they have kids together.

This is fucking weird, and I don't like this feeling.

Would a friend text me so much for no reason in particular?

I asked her out, she said no, she said she didnt see me that way. I didnt talk to or see her much after, that was months ago.

Recently we started talking again, hung out only a few times, but since then weve been texting a lot, like almost daily. In person we're pretty flirty, she laughs a lot when shes with me. She did this before though, and I was friendzoned.

The texting thing is new. We texted before, but they were never for very long and it wasnt as frequent. Now its almost daily and we can text throughout an entire day with no effort and weve both been initiators. I guess I'm not sure how to take this? I kinda dont want to ask her out again since I already did and got rejected.

I really really like a girl,she was my junior in highschool. Shes 21 now and I'm 22. We haven't talked in years but I was always interested in her. I finally decided to talk to her stared a convo over messenger. She seemed fine while talking. I asked her jokingly if she has a bf to which she said no. I then asked her if she has WhatsApp (really popular here,also that's how I wanted to get her number) but I haven't gotten a reply since.

I feel like I am nothing. Advice me.

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>>17988495
my p e r s o n a l dislikes in men:
i dislike shaved eyebrows, teeth abnormally yellow, modern hitler soccer player fag haircut, overly muscly, huge lips and people who look old and gross. also, your picrelated is very very ugly. oh and the gap in the chin thing bleh.
i'm told i have pretty low physical standards, picrelated is a man i dated whom i found very very attractive. he had a tooth gap and shit. i really can't see why but other people have told me he's really repulsive and ugly so i just put him here kind of also for opinion of other chicks i guess.
i also have dated very fat men, very typical d&d nerd looking men full of acne, braces and everything, skeletal guys with ugly faces.. asian looking obese greasy.. you name it, social outcast i've done it
it's because i don't really pay much attention to appearance but also just tend to find people who aren't objectively attractive pretty for various traits others don't consider much. my standards are just odd and broad.

>>17988505
i want to know what you feel like towards your girlfriend. also yeah it will go away don't worry.

>>17988516
she said she didn't like you that way. that's what she wanted you to know, that's what you should take it as until she specifies otherwise.

>>17988519
message her again and talk more and then ask about why she didn't reply?

>>17988531
shit i meant plucked eyebrows wtf
also don't shave bodyhair anywhere other than pubes.

>>17988531
Almost whatever I say she just goes offline. It kills me. I just said her sorry and bye and she went offline again.

Please kill me.

>>17988538
this has been going on for only one chat? like, a day? if so, give it time maybe she's literally just doing something. if not, just fuck it lol tough luck why be into someone who isn't into you

>>17988542
It's almost night here also the chat time for most of us. I sent first hi on 10th Jan. Wasn't seen or idk what was it but I got a reply on third hi and she said hi and apologized. Just asked whereabouts and she said she's been studying law. I said alright and asked about bf thing. What do now?

Also pic related is me. Do I look bad?

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>>17988562
Fuck forgot pic

How to convince gorl to anal sex?

>>17988566
sorta unattractive but might look better irl, possibly has cute smile i guess
just keep chatting her up about things, asking things about her and take notice that if she doesn't ask back, she is not interested in you in any way.

>>17988578
if she doesn't like it, you don't convince her.

>>17988566
You could probably pull white girls if you're confident

>>17988562
>>17988566
Well whoopsy whoops what the fuck I just got a reply and she says yes she is on WhatsApp also she's busy because exams.

Why are women so complicated?

>>17988583
>if she doesn't like it
He never tried it yet

>>17988516
She seems like shes using your interest to bolster her ego. Dont read into it past that.

>>17988587
>Why are women so complicated?
Women don't think rationally. All women's actions are controlled by emotion and hormones, not rational thought processes

Men: Is it normal to not feel any sensation when fucking a girl?

No condom and I can feel that she's tight with my fingers. I don't even know I'm inside her unless I look.

>>17988583
>Sorta unattractive

Thanks for confirming my doubts.

>>17988596
sounds like she's just dodging a beta to me kek, she knows exactly what she's doing, op's the delusional one

>>17988587
>busy cause exams
>complicated

>>17988589
so you've never sucked a dick but you can assume you would be turned off to do it?

>>17988596
go back to r9k

>>17988602
let me rephrase. you aren't ugly.

>>17987654
So if doing this elevates my classmates and lowers me, what should I do?

>>17987654
do it aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

>>17988607
>go back to r9k
Typical emotional response lacking a clear counter argument.

>>17988602
dude you should've stopped sooner, anon was trying to let you down gently

>>17988669
i mean it, he's not ugly

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Girl I sit next to for my stats class.

>laughing at whatever I say
>reaching over me to my notebook to explain a stats problem, getting into the intimate distance/close proximity
>started twirling her hair when we were talking

this is like textbook female interest, right?

I didn't try to force anything with this girl, I just randomly sat down at a table two weeks ago for the first class and started casually talking with her, it felt just really natural. Did I do it right? It's been years since I've had this kind of attention from a random girl.

>>17988685
twirling hair is a meme unless she's doing on purpose to show interest because of said meme
ask her to go somewhere and get to know each other better, i guess. why not

>>17988651
>implying hurr durr women can't think logically is an argument worth responding to seriously in the first place

>>17988687
>twirling hair is a meme unless she's doing on purpose to show interest because of said meme

It's nonverbal communication to display attraction man, at least according to this CMST class I took last year. I'm pretty sure it's not just a meme, but hell what the fuck isn't a meme at this point.

My girlfriend is guilt tripping me and giving me the silent treatment because she texted me and I didn't get back to her for a couple of hours–I wasn't even awake since I was working late last night and got to sleep late. She's pissed at me for that and won't reply to any of my texts. How do I get her to reply and actually communicate with me and talk about these things? What could I send her?

>>17988705
why would you even date someone like that in the first place. why would she be so mad about that? kek.

>>17988701
she's doing it TO express that. it doesn't actually naturally happen. yes it is nonverbal communication, i'm just saying it's not impulsive.

>>17988705
lol she's stupid

>>17988705

If she's acting immature, you should treat her accordingly and let her throw her tantrum without rewarding her with attention.

>>17988624
Are you surrre

>>17988725
yesssssssss world needs more direct people do it do it do it

>>17988725
Yikes, no. The girl responding to you is some stupid tumblr girl who thinks life is like fanfiction.

Act like a normal human being and ask her out.

>>17988735
tumblr is fucking cancer and all of us here know it just as you boyo
i don't think life to be like anything, i'm just saying my personal opinion is that it would be very impressive to be texted that, but it can't be for everyone, as is with any matter. guy if you think she'd respond alright since you know her best, give it a shot. is she the type that would see you as a creep if you said it? would it be completely sudden? she know you dig her?

>>17988709
Sometimes she gets like that. Not really that often, but I love her.

>>17988713
So I shouldn't respond? I want to work through this though and talk to her to get her to see things clearly and pull her out of this mood.

>>17988740
I'm actually unsure how she would respond, she asked me out before and got pretty flirty but that was all before the break.
>is she the type that would see you as a creep if you said it?
No clue
>would it be completely sudden?
I'm pretty stoic around her so probably, I did say yes when she asked me out but it's a long story and I couldn't show up.
>she know you dig her?
Not to the extent that I do.

>>17988779
then maybe don't, but you could mention that you wanted to after you two get closer, if you will make a move on her.

>>17988790
Yeah I was thinking about waiting too, I see her tomorrow so we'll see what happens, just hoping not to fuck up if I ask her out.

>>17988828
good luck m80

>>17988439
>>17988485
>>17988502
Any more ideas?

>>17988835
i say don't worry about it, just be honest with her when you notice something you like and try to never mention the skin thing.

>>17988835
maybe assure her once or twice that you don't care about it but don't insist

>>17988831
Thanks anon.

That said, what's the best color fedora to wear to impress you, ladies?

>>17988906
kek

So I broke up with her. She said she intentionally distancing herself from me to avoid getting in too deep and making it harder to leave once school was over. I feel so used.

What's better /adv/?

Losing yourself in each other with full knowledge that it has to end some day, or not bothering at all and forcing it to fizzle out?

>>17988705

>What could I send her?

How about meeting her instead? Or just wait a day and then try again with something simple.

Does being jobless and penniless make me any less appealing?

>>17988932

Some girls date penniless leeches, so you might have a shot. Keep in mind they usually aren't the best prospect to date, either.

If you are 15-18 then don't worry, but any older and it will begin to be a problem.

>>17988932
to me, it's not an issue but i will fully support the person i am with regarding getting a job asap just because it's better for them.

Is it okay to dump any mutual friends of my ex because they still think there's two sides of the story, while there is just one and that is that she is lying about everything and is manipulating everyone?

I have been longer friends with them than I've known her, but they still think I'm being salty and therefore telling them the truth about her.

>>17988932
I'm successful and make $95k/yr
And I feel making that much money or having a career actually makes me less appealing.

>>17988973

I'm not the same guy, but can I ask why you say that?

>>17988844
>>17988850
I guess I could always ask if something is bothering her, if she is seeming to act strange. And if she mentions whatever she's insecure about I could just say that I don't care.

>>17988973
Feels like people can't relate, and eg: when they ask for my job and I tell them about my career they feel I'm being pompous.
Specially girls, I used to think the opposite when I was broke af. But I get the feeling that that's kinda demonized right now

>>17988988
>when they ask for my job and I tell them about my career

If they ask you for a JOB and you insist it's a CAREER then you are like the guys that say "Don't call me Mister, I'm a Doctor". In other words, you are pompous.

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Girls

would you be jealous if ýou found out your bfs laptop is filled with maps of nude glamour models?

>>17988587
Okay dude, if you asked if she has a boyfriend, no matter how "jokingly" you think it was, she knows you're interested in her. If she doesn't answer positively to that she's not interested. Nothing complicated about that

>>17988982
that sounds like a plan :)
>>17988993
nice
>>17988973
it does if you're younger than 25 and already doing so much with your life seemingly

>>17988941
>>17988949
Not the OP, but this kinda triggers me
I'm a moderately talented grad student in pure math facing the prospect of having to sell out and work as data analyst for some dipshit's firm and any girl who has a well paid enough job that would financially support me to pursue my theoretical interest would impress me very much and earn my eternal gratitude.
I'm seriously considering looking for sugar mommies at this point because my look is probably more profitable than my math.

>>17988997
yes. it would make me feel ugly and i'd probably overthink it all to the point where i'd never be able to get it out of my head whenever he compliments me or we're naked.
>>17989009
how does it trigger you that i said i'd be fine with that? i'd support you anyday, especially because maths.

>>17988965
please respond

>>17989009

What is it that triggers you? You want a rich woman, she wants a rich man. It's only fair.

>>17989013
thing is I just use it to jerk off when I just wanna jerk off myself or when shes not avalible (or dont want to), I dont like hardcore porn, its a turnoff for me.

But im still horrified of her finding out about them.

>>17988997
Not really, because chances are the guy I'm with doesn't have a shot with them. It'd be more worrisome if he had pictures of people we actually knew or pictures of average people. Models and celebs are fantasies.

However, yeah, I might feel a tad insecure about my own hotness. Am I not living up to his desires? Is there anything I can do to more closely match this idealization?
But I totally understand that's my own issue and insecurity and probably would never mention it or blame him for it. I just tend to go a little wacky trying to be the absolute best girlfriend I can be whenever I'm actually seeing someone. If I can change something to better please him, I will in a heartbeat. I typically do whatever I can to make him the happiest he'll ever be, because that's what makes me happy.
That's just me personally though.

>just be yourself and put yourself out there
What if this "myself" that you're referring to is shit? It's like most normalfags lack any foresight.

>>17989023
while she as any girlfriend in her right mind should be able to understand the discordance between what guys jerk off to vs real life and also that it's just fapping and not a big deal, i suppose i can understand why it would seem more alright to her if it weren't just you fapping to pictures of women. what i mean to say is the reason i would feel shitty after thinking of it for a bit might be that it's pictures of women instead of actually porn that gives me a hope that you might be thinking of me while fapping and not of totally different women specifically, which you are. ya get me?

>>17989035
if you think you're shit then make yourself into something you like, not that you think others would like, then present that and bam! you're not putting up a persona anymore and will be satisfied. win-win! work on yourself not on who you present to people.

>>17989029
>am i not living up to his desires
>i wouldn't blame him for it
these, also.

>>17989003
>that sounds like a plan :)

Really, theres not much more to do here other than that

>>17988965
Its ok to dump friends for any reason whatsoever, but you should also pick your battles.
Me personally, I had a super rough break up with an ex and I had mutual friends stay friends with both of us. I always stood firmly that it's super immature to ever ask someone to pick sides in something that doesn't really concern them anyway.
Think of it from your friends perspective. There's probably not definite proof to anything, it's likely just he said she said. You both probably have equal weight and "evidence" against one another. Think if it were you, and you didn't know what to believe, but hey, the issue doesn't really concern you anyways. There's no real reason to get your feet that muddy between two friends problems that are unrelated to you. They probably just don't care enough.

If they don't believe you and that bothers you enough to quit the friendship, that's completely valid. You have all the right to do that.
But imo, that's kind of a wasted friendship right there. I would probably just move on with my life instead of dwelling over the past. So she was a cunt to you, you'll get over it eventually, find a new girl, live a wonderful life, and she'll do whatever it is shes gonna do too.

>>17988932
Slightly so, because I'm the type that is a 50/50 partnership. I don't mooch and I don't want to be mooched off of. I pay for myself on dates, and expect him to pay for himself. I'm going on the date to spend time with the person, not get free shit or give free shit.
Now, if you were just in a period where you were down on your luck, and I saw serious drive and ambition to fix your situation, I'd be more inclined to give you a shot. You'll pay me back when you're in a better spot, take me out on your dime then to call it even.

However, if you truly are in that state of financial crisis, my advice to you is dating should be the absolute last thing on your mind. You should be more concerned with how you're going to survive, period.

Why has a girl never approached guys? Are we too overwhelmly hot?

>>17989053
i approach guys all the time and they're always impressed and flustered kek it's funny.
>>17989052
this is true

>>17989013
>>17989020
I don't want to blame anyone but myself, still the idea leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I am pretty sure that I am going to leave academia soon after my PhD next year. I do enjoy research, but the massive egos and pressure to publish are really unappealing to me, and I have never felt that I had the mathematical power to prove interesting results, I'm mediocre amongst my peers. Reality is starting to hit, and I'm starting to think about "selling out." I would still love to work in algebra, but I'm not as in love with the Ivory Tower as I was a few years ago, and I don't want to give up my entire life for it. However, I am really having trouble thinking of anything else to do. Most people seem to think that the main careers open to mathematicians are in banking and finance. I really want to work in some field where I can use mathematics, but it is also important to me to feel like I am contributing something positive or at least not actively doing harm. For this reason, financial speculation is very unappealing to me, although I do find the underlying mathematics quite fascinating. Plus, I might have to work under a guy (a few years older) who was an ass to me and looked down on me in undergrad.
And very likely that would be my path, unless I have a sugar mommy or a rich gf.

>>17989053

I know this is about the other sex and whatever, but I'm a guy and I can say girls approach us. Stay alert and you'll see.

>>17988918
Idk, not that I can find a single dude willing to commit at all, but I'm in the same boat. I'm planning on leaving the country all together after college, and I don't do long distance, so if I were to start dating someone it would be with the understanding that it'll probably have a shelf life of a year.
I think as long as that is understood from the beginning, it can work in theory. You can get close, but with that knowledge you won't cross that line and go too far.
Even if you did though, you can then make that decision of which is more important to me, this job/dream/goal I had that was going to take me away from this person, or this person? It wouldn't be easy, sure, but it's expected.

And lets be real here
>Losing yourself in each other with full knowledge that it has to end some day
this is true of 100% of relationships. It is going to end one day.
These days, most of the time it's ending in divorce, granted, but even if not, it's gonna end with one of you dying. Most couples don't end up croaking at the same time, if you're gonna life a full natural life at least.
So this is something you're choosing to accept in any relationship. Now, I also get where you're coming from though, you're meaning specifically these short lived little flings, which end while you're still in the midst of the honeymoon phase. It hurts, but that's life. All good things must end, some end sooner than others, but I value the experience and memory in the long run over just sitting around and rejecting life's opportunities.

>>17989053
Women like confidence, some like things handed to them, some are nervous, some are worried it'll be coming on too strong etc. Many variables as to why.

>>17988993
This is pretty much the response I get.

>>17989082

Can you see why it makes you look pompous, though?

>>17989053
The remnants of traditional gender roles mostly. Theres still a number of people who hold onto the idea that men must be the dominant ones, and women should be submissive. Men go in for the attack, and women giggle and let it happen.
Shit like that.
This mindset is very rapidly changing, be it good or bad, so I'd personally give it a couple more generations for the playing field to be more equal. More and more women are making the approach.
Hell, even though I still am much more attracted to the type of confident dominant guy that will seek me out, this is not a common typeset anymore. Ergo, my options are sit around and wait, or make the move myself. Since I'd rather something than nothing, I'm starting to find myself doing all the chasing more and more lately.
Thing is though, shit has gotta start equaling out eventually. I don't mind taking that scary first step if I really want it, and making the initial contact, but if I'm ALWAYS the one having to contact him first, ALWAYS the one having to set up a meeting, practically begging him to hang out with me, I'm going to assume he's not that interested in me.
Case and point, I've initiated contact with this dude twice now, and was blown off for a second meeting. He's friendly with me when he does talk to me, but he never initiates. He never shows any interest in seeing me, it's always me showing interest in seeing him. I've sent him my last message. He's going to have to contact me if he wants to go any further, because as I see it, he's just not as into me as I am him. If he reaches out to me, I'll respond. But I'm not initiating any more.

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Can any translate this?

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>>17989096
Make your own thread dude.

>>17989096

Might want to try >>>/int/

>>17989058
>sugar mommy or a rich gf
you'd probably find the former on /adv/ kek
gl dude

>>17988701
Honestly, I twirl and pick at my hair 24/7 regardless of the situation. It can mean that, but not exclusively.
Hell, I actually play with my hair more when I'm bored out of my mind in conversation than I am when I'm attracted.

Girls:

I am a submissive/passive guy that prefers the woman to do the hitting on and and the initiation of intimate moments

am I just SOL? where can I meet stronk, independent women who may or may not be bisexual

>>17989112
thanks for adding to my point :)
>>17989117
oh theyq/we exist but you need to participate in initiation too sometime yknow, passive all the time is shit for anyone really, will eventually come off to her as her being unwanted by you.

>>17989117

How passive do you think women usually are? Do you think men do all the work? Because that cam be skewing your perception of a relationship. From the point of flirting, both people are involved and participating. It's never a one-sided thing.

>>17989120
hah yeah I wasn't trying to prove you wrong or anything, just being an example.

Seriously I had an ex once that did catch onto that. He'd jab me for it from time to time
"Sorry, my story is that boring huh? I can tell because you're playing with your hair"

>>17989122

ugh, I don't know. I guess I'm just a little frustrated because I wish women in general behaved a lot like men.

sounds gay but I'm all about the tits and ass I swear

>>17989148
>I guess I'm just a little frustrated because I wish women in general behaved a lot like men.

Behaved like men how?

>>17989152
Google "tomboy" and you'll get the idea.

>tfw gf is a tomboy and i get a bj when playing vidya then we play some multiplayer and shit

>>17989152

more aggression in general... general cunti-ness, crude language.


and I realize some women Are like that but I wish all were Im a faggot I know

>>17989162

I know plenty of girls that play video games and shit. They clearly exist. Go to anime conventions, some gaming forums and some online games. LOL works for my friends.

That doesn't mean they are sluts with no standards, though. They are as hard to pick up as any other girl.

>>17989167

Go to the gym. Plenty of aggressive and strong girls there. Look up athletic events.

And about crude language, I'm not sure how old you are or what kind of girls you regularly see, but where I'm from they speak just like a dude. As far as swearing goes.

>>17989180
>They are as hard to pick up as any other girl
but look worse ._.

>>17989189
>but look worse ._.

Hahaha! Look out the window, mate. Most girls aren't actresses or pornstars. There are ugly girls everywhere, there are cute girls everywhere.

But I guess it's easier to prejudge and not even try. Good luck with that plan.

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>>17989180
>That doesn't mean they are sluts with no standards, though.
Nobody said anything about any of that being slutty.

>>17989233

Just saying. They have standards just like any other girl. It helps to have some common ground, but you still have to flirt, be interesting, and at least not fugly.

My question is: will I ever be able to find someone as good (physically AND mentally) as my favorite prostitute? I am NOT ABLE to settle for anything less.

Guys,
Say theres a girl you've been friends with for a few months now. And I mean, genuinely, you've been friends for a little while, you do actually care about her to some degree.
You aren't interested in a relationship, but you two mess around every now and then. She doesn't let you go all the way because she's a virgin.

If she were to ask you one night to take her v card from her, because she's incredibly nervous and scared about sex, shes asking as a friend because she trusts you, she just wants to get it over with so she can stop being scared about it and go join the rest of the casual sex world.
Again, you want nothing to do with her romantically, and you know shes a tad fragile. But she's your friend.
Would you do it? What would be your thoughts? Would that ruin everything you currently had, and kill the friendship?

>>17989293

I'd be worried about the "mentally" part. Guys that can't get that a prostitute doesn't really like you are not the kind of guys that get the mentally stable girls.

>>17989299
>stop being scared about it and go join the rest of the casual sex world.

If her ultimate intention was to just use me for a one time thing to get it over with, just to go out for regular casual sex with others, I wouldn't. I'd probably lose some respect.

>>17989299

I personally wouldn't do it, but I can see plenty of guys doing it.

It really depends on his personality. But rest assured, the relationship won't be the same afterwards.

>>17989309
Well, keep in mind he's doing the exact same thing. therefore he clearly doesn't think less or have negative feelings towards people who are into casual sex.
Hell, I'm one of at least 4, maybe more, of the girls he hangs around.

I was posting about this situation in the last thread. I don't want a complete stranger who doesn't give a single fuck about me, my feelings, or my body/pleasure because I'm scared.
He's the only guy friend I have this kind of relationship with though. I'd trust him to at least care if I even got off, unlike a stranger at a bar who's only going to care if he cums. I suppose I'm looking to him as a teacher of sorts.

>>17989329
I figure. I feel like he'd assume that I'll end up being one of those types to catch feelings if I asked him this, and I know he doesn't think of me that way.

I used to be friends with this girl but her insecure boyfriend drove us apart.

I've moved on over it, but her boyfriend constantly tries to attack me and he believes I'm romantically interested in this girl, and that "he took her away from me".

It's incredibly frustrating at this as I can't say much in response without insulting my friend. (He's insecure about her sexual history)

How do I deal with this nigga

>>17989335
>I figure. I feel like he'd assume that I'll end up being one of those types to catch feelings if I asked him this, and I know he doesn't think of me that way.

Maybe. Maybe he just doesn't want to have sex with you. I'm trying to be mean, I'm just saying we guys don't fuck everything that moves. It's be really uncomfortable for me if a friend suddenly wanted sex, and not even because she likes me, but because she just wants to lose her virginity.

>>17989335
>Well, keep in mind he's doing the exact same thing.

Wrong. Yes he's fucking around with women but he didn't fuck them to lose his virginity just so he can go fuck around some more.

Don't just do it because he's the only guy you know. Date a guy, get a relationship maybe and fuck him like a normal person.

>>17989053
I always approach guys I like

>>17989299
I'd do it, yes. It'd only ruin it if she fell in love or something like that.

>>17989306
I am not talking about liking me. She is nice, sweet, studies, reads books, isn't snobby/feminazi...

>>17989387

She also fucks you, that's why you like her. There are plenty of girls like what you are describing. They just won't fuck you for money.

>>17989352
I don't think it's that, it's not that he's never tried. Basically every time we fool around, he phrases it the same way.
"Tell me when to stop". Tell /me/ when to stop. Implying he's willing to go further than me. He's even kinda poked at my entrance in the past when I was slow on the draw to stop him. Granted we were both a little drunk, but I wasn't that drunk and pulled away. He quit there of course, as he always does when I stop him. He's a good dude. Its why I trust him.

I actually do kind of like him, I mean if he showed a shred of mutuality I'd probably get more emotionally invested in him, but hes the one that's just about the hook ups without commitment, so I cap the emotional aspect off.
>>17989355
I would love to date, but that's not something that's possible. People just don't really do it anymore. I've met literal dozens of dudes in the past 4 years. Never a single one interested in anything more than casual sex. Hell, majority of them only want a one night stand. This guy has been the only one I've met to ever ask me to hang out more than once. And he even asks /me/ out, for once I'm not the one desperately trying to get him to even acknowledge my existence.
Its just something about the type of person I am and the type of people I'm interested in and am capable of pulling. It's not gonna happen. I will never be in a relationship, it's a fairy tale. All I'll ever get are casual encounters, and I'm ok with that. I just want to get past this first hurdle and stop being afraid of the awkwardness that is first time sex.
It's not like I'd fuck him once and just say "thanks, see ya." I'd be more than happy to be his friend still, lord knows I have a whopping total of 3 in the first place. As long as he still wants me around, I'll stay around. I don't really see it as using him. As I said, it's more a favor from one friend to another. No different than asking a friend to give me a ride to work because my car broke down.

>>17989405
>I actually do kind of like him,

We could tell that. I just hope you don't expect to "trap" him with this. That after having sex once, he'll become more interested in you. Because then you are lying to us and to him.

>>17989299
If you value his friendship, you won't do it. If you don't give a fuck, do it.

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How do I find a dominant gf?

>>17989293
No. Your best bet is to date her.

>>17989429

What's a "dominant girlfriend" to you?

Girls,

How do you get over crushes/oneitis? The guy is clearly not interested, but I see him almost every day and can't help but hold onto some hope.

>>17989415
Oh fuck no. I know the type of person he is, he's blunt, says exactly what he means and doesn't really give a fuck if that hurts you. He's made it clear he will not have feelings for me, and I fully understand that.
And I've always been pretty good about shutting things down internally. While I could in theory date him if he wanted that, I'm not going to allow myself to ever get to that point emotionally unless he did indeed want that. Since it is the way it is, my feelings for him do not go any further than that. I wouldn't turn him down if he wanted to ask me out, but I'm otherwise not invested.
We have 2 modes. Strictly buddy buddy, and strictly physical. No emotional or romantic interaction whatsoever.
This would solely be "do me a solid and teach me how to fuck so I'm not afraid of it anymore and so I don't have to let this irrational fear hold me back from my own happiness anymore."

>>17989425
I shouldnt so much as ask? I'd be totally chill if he shot me down.

>>17989444
>While I could in theory date him if he wanted that, I'm not going to allow myself to ever get to that point emotionally unless he did indeed want that. Since it is the way it is, my feelings for him do not go any further than that. I wouldn't turn him down if he wanted to ask me out, but I'm otherwise not invested.

Watch out, this is pretty swingy and wishy-washy. You repeat several times that "if he were up to it" you'd do it. Careful.

>>17989167
Try meeting someone who grew up on a farm

desu I feel like anyone dreaming of 'tomboys' should seriously consider small agricultural towns

But in places like Wyoming or some shit, not the midwest. The midwest is like a galaxy of ham planets.

>>17989401
>plenty of girls
In what world? Because most people are mean, dumb, selfish, lazy...

>>17989432
Aggressive and dominant in both the relationship and the bedroom in general

Kind of like switched around gender roles but she is still feminine, not exactly tomboyish

>>17989430
Your job here is to convince me otherwise.

>>17989467

>Kind of like switched around gender roles but she is still feminine, not exactly tomboyish

What does this mean? What do you want her to do?

>Aggressive and dominant in both the relationship and the bedroom in general

Does this mean she has to do all the work for the both of you?

>>17989464
>In what world? Because most people are mean, dumb, selfish, lazy...

Well, think of it this way: If everywhere you go it smells like shit, then maybe you are the one stinking up the place. Do you offer anything interesting for people to relate to? Or are you just a lazy, misanthropic asshole that treats people like shit?

>>17989449
Well sure, but I've also repeated that I'm not going to get emotionally invested.
Idk as well, since I don't exactly have many friends, and never get any guy to stick around after I'm done sucking him off, it could solely be my fucked brain telling me "I'd take him if he asked because I'm never going to get asked again"
Shitty thought, I know. I'm just genuinely not sure which it is. Taking what I can get, or if I could genuinely love him. It's been feeling like the same thing lately.
Hence why I'm probably better off just getting my feet wet within the casual sex scene. I don't have to worry about that shit there. I just can't get into fucking strangers until I've fucked someone I can trust.
If I can prove that I'm not all that emotionally invested in this dude, he actually wasn't my first candidate to consider asking this favor of. There was another friend, I've known basically since middle school, I was considering asking. He's been my friend for much longer, and frankly I probably trust him more than this newer friend, thing is I'm just not physically attracted to him. We don't even have a physical relationship at all. But he is a good friend, and since I'm looking at this solely in the light of a friend doing me a favor, I figured he could be someone I asked.
I rarely see him though, and I felt worse about asking that since we didn't have a sexual relationship to begin with. I'd be asking to change our friendship in a much more drastic way. So when I met new guy, who I do have sexual chemistry with, I figured he was a better choice.

>>17989487
You can come to my conclusion just by observing people. Are you blind, SJW or have rose tinted glasses?

>>17989520
>You can come to my conclusion just by observing people

I didn't say you only observed them. Just that I'm not a nice person when I'm talking with an asshole. So if everyone is angry, on edge, etc. towards you, then you should know they aren't always like that. Maybe you bring it out of people.

>>17989524
I somehow bring it out by being nice and respectful. lol
>they aren't always like that
Just most of the time. Hahaha

>>17989547
>I somehow bring it out by being nice and respectful.

Sure.

> Are you blind, SJW or have rose tinted glasses?

This is being nice.

> I am NOT ABLE to settle for anything less.

This too, specially when you say most people aren't good enough for you.

You are the nicest guy here on 4Chan.

Is having a "boyish" teenage body unattractive if I'm healthy?

t. 18 year old

>>17989562
I only replied on the same tone as you: >>17989487

If you want to go back to that point, tell me how most people aren't shit.

>>17989577
Are you male or female?

>>17989598
Male

>>17989593
>tell me how most people aren't shit.

You tell me how they are.

If this: "She is nice, sweet, studies, reads books, isn't snobby/feminazi..." is all it takes to be the best woman, look out the window. Plenty of women like that out there.

What are some ideas for a 1 year anniversary present?

>>17989482
You asked a question, I answered honestly

>>17989600
Do you really think a girl like that would dare OP though? Unless she was also a current/former hooker?

>>17989634

That's the problem. He doesn't bring forth what's good on people. Unless he pays them to do it.

I've caught feelings for a close friend of mine. We haven't met up for a few months, though we're texting daily.
Over that period I wanted to see her. She did not. Lately I want to see her. She does not, she's tired and on the bad side of introversion.

Even over text she ignores my messages occasionally, only to re-initiate contact about something else by herself that day or the next.

How can I convince her to meet up? I've got a feeling it's nothing personal, just that she might feel pressured to go full social butterfly as she usually is in public, even though I want to see that quiet person inside that I've grown to like.

>>17989600
Most people are dumb, irresponsible, disrespectful, annoying, egocentric, lazy, forgetful, the list goes on...

Where I live, girls who aren't snobby/feminazi are rare as fuck.

>>17989627
Were you really honest?

>>17989639
Shouldn't people bring forth what's good on them without I doing anything? If I'm a total stranger, why aren't you nice to me first? Your logic is pretty weird.

>>17989662
Yes

>>17989662

You are not a total atreanger. Your personality always shines throught your actions. It's pretty easy to spot an asshole.

>Most people are dumb, irresponsible, disrespectful, annoying, egocentric, lazy, forgetful, the list goes on...

This sounds like and edgy 15 year-old that just read "The Killing Joke" for the first time. Are you "dumb, irresponsible, disrespectful, annoying, egocentric, lazy" etc. too?

>>17987532
underrated post

>>17988009
Fuck off with your humblebragging bullshit, you conceited fuckwit.

>>17988104
A week (absolute) maximum.

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>>17988350

>>17989669
He uses whores anon what do you think

>>17988104
Probably a day, two at the most.

>>17989669
I open the door for disabled and injured people, just to name one of the nice things I do. If this is not nice, I don't know what is.

I'm intelligent, quite responsible, respectful, not annoying, not egocentric (my brother is, so I know exactly what egocentrism is), slightly lazy (I admit).

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>>17989617
>>17989617
>>17989617
>>17989617

>>17988425
Would you undergo the former if immediately afterwards you got to do the latter? That's the true question. (also: Hiddleston is still into domming you BUT occasionally his face wrinkles up because of the DeVito dick cheese stink and you can tell that's why)

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>>17989698
So you're a "nice guy" then.

>>17989707
I have a 4chan persona. I'm not like this (mean, asshole). Is this difficult to understand?

>>17989707

He won't get the insult right now. Let's hope someday he does.

>>17989698
>I open the door for disabled and injured people, just to name one of the nice things I do
jiminy jillikers look at this saint over here

>>17989707
kek at image and the post

>>17988406
Yeah, its my main kink.
I suspect it's probably because I was molested as a kid, therefore my first experience with sex was forced. Think I normalized it in my brain to cope as I grew. I've worked it all out for the most part into adulthood, but I still get the most turned on by being forced to do things.
Now, of course it's only in a roleplay/fantasy setting. I don't think I'd like to be actually raped again.

However on the same coin, I also don't think it would be life ending if I were. Like yeah, I'd take the ass to court no matter what, but I've always thought when people warn me about "don't go out at night you might get raped!" like, ok so I get raped. Yeah that sucks and fuck rapists, but it's not that big a damn deal to me. It'd be like someone stealing my car. I'd be pissed, but whatever.

>>17988997
It's a little immature, anon. That's the worst of it.

>>17989698
>I'm intelligent, quite responsible, respectful, not annoying, not egocentric

Oh boy...

>>17989728
He opens the door for disabled people!

>>17988997
Yep

>>17989733
You should try observing how many people ACTUALLY do this.

>>17989738
Many. It's a common courtesy.

>>17989704
>>17989617
Nigger you've been together for a year and you think /adv/ knows your partner better than you?

>>17987388
22 year old guy. There's this one girl I know. We worked at the same job a summer ago and now we happen to live in the same city. Before,most of our communication was pretty basic (liking each other's tweets and tweeting at each other). Recently she messaged me and we had a nice friendly conversation (longer than the usual), and we both agreed we should hang out at some point. She seems really cool and I'd like to hang out with her and get to know her better. I asked her this weekend if she wanted to hang out at a museum, but she said she had to catch up on school work. She said that she would like to hang out next time though. There's a thing this weekend I could invite her to, but I don't want to feel like I'm bothering her to hang out every weekend. I also don't know if I should wait and see if she wants to hang out and do something, like if she has an idea of wanting to do something.

In general, what's probably the best thing to do? Wait a little while? Ask her if she wants to come to the event this upcoming weekend?

>>17989013
>>17989736
Are you really that insecure? Do you go mental every time he says he thinks an actress is attractive?

>>17989745
I think your instincts are pretty on the ball and you should just wait another week, anon.

>>17989741
"Many" still doesn't mean all or most.

>>17989748
Yep. Nope.

>>17989758
For those many, it's not a showcase of "look at me i'm nice!" like it is for you.

>>17988997
Would you be jealous if she had a collection of BBC pics that she used to get off to?

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>>17989769
Nah her wallpaper is embarrassing for different reasons. Pic fucking related.

>>17989742
No, I'm not looking for THE present, but I don't know what the general expectations are so I'm trying to get an idea

>>17989769
Not the same thing. That's a racial thing which you know will get a negative rise out of people here.

A real comparison would be if he got jealous of images of super fit guys or ridiculously attractive guys like models.

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>>17989775
Oh wow.

>>17989767
I wasn't bragging. I was giving an example.
Why can't you debate properly?

I, prostituteanon, will create a new thread.

>>17989796
Holding the door for someone is like saying bless you after someone sneezes or remembering to say please and thank you. It's more of a reflection of how well you respond to social mores than how nice you are.