Im currently a 22 year old Virgin for a few reasons. 1: I'm a bit shy and lack self esteem especially about my social skills. 2: men have tried to sleep with me a few times but I either ended it out of insecurity or they did (most likely because I didn't put out)
It's not as if I'm asexual however. I've been watching porn (mostly kinky and amature) since I was 15.
I think I'd know what I'm doing as long as they were on the same wave length. I'm into dom/sub stuff to some degree so I THINK I'd know what do from what I've watched and read. Does anyone have any experiance fucking a sexually aware Virgin submissive?
Everyone is bad their first time.
If you don't know what to do, ask your partner what they think you should be doing more of, or less of.
>>17879630
>Everyone is bad their first time.
Oh that's certainly something someone who is a virgin at 22 wants to hear
>>17879641
It's the truth though. Quit being a bitch and face reality. Whether you're 15 or 22, you're gonna suck.
>>17879641
I'm doomed
They won't really care about how good you are. It would help if you didn't lie still with zero movement, but aside from that it doesn't really matter.
Wait till you truly fall in love with a guy. You should feel no such fear with a man you truly love.
>>17879615
>women
>being virgin
Choose one, lmao. Literally all you have to do is either nothing or pretending to get laid. Also
>muh don't know what to do when having sex
Not overthinking it and guiding your partner.
Normies make me sick.
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>>17879641
22 isn't even close to the range where it's weird, you're still a kid basically.
You'll figure it out within like a week or two, but the first time is gonna suck. If you're doing it for the pleasure alone it's going to be stupid and unfulfilling, and if you do it for the emotional aspect your partner is going to be fine with you being awkward for the first go.
>>17879689
"All you have to do is either nothing or pretending to get laid"< this sentence made no sense.
I over think things it's what I do.
>>17879700
I just want him to have a good time. I can give myself an orgasm. no sex needed. (I intend it to be with a boyfriend)
>Ive watched porn for 8 years
>I'd know what I'm doing
kek
But you really shouldn't worry about it. Sex is in your fucking genes, you don't need a course on it to be able to do it. You think animals (or your ancestors, for that matter) need porn or lessons in order to be able to have sex? You will know what to do, what feels good, what excites you.
The reason why sex sucks so often for inexperienced people is because they're too self-conscious, insecure and anxious. They treat it like it's a fucking exam, instead of enjoying themselves. It's definitely not because experienced people have some sort of secret techniques passed down through generations to please the other gender, they just enjoy it without overthinking anything.
>>17879703
I wanted to say that as a woman you don't have to do much (if anything at all) to get casual sex. It's only the quality of guys you'll attract that will be a problem.
>>17879728
>inb4 some faggot will say >>>/r9k/ but deep down they know I say the truth
>>17879728
I'm I'm not concerned about finding someone to sleep with. I just think men have a lot of expectations.