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Currently in a relationship with a girl who's got terrible anger and emotional issues. Every time we argue and I try to help her with the anger she just lashes out at me and we wont speak well for about a week.
(yes shes a huge red flag)
What's the best way to mitigate the tension after a fight? I'm new to relationships with this type of shit.
Should I bring it up and apologize at the things that she felt hurt her?
Should I just not bring it up and move on like nothing happened? what's the most logical way to do this?
I was thinking of just surprising her with a gift or something, but that might be too corny?
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>>17866931
>Should I just not bring it up and move on like nothing happened?
jfc don't do this. my boyfriend does this and it pisses me off.
it's so dismissive, solves nothing.
>Should I bring it up and apologize at the things that she felt hurt her?
YES, DO THIS.
do NOT give half-assed apologies like
>"I'm sorry you're upset"
>"I'm sorry your feelings are hurt"
that's dismissive too and takes 0 responsibility.
say *I* am sorry that *I* did _____
and a gift isn't corny.
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you're a clueless nigger
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>>17866943
Don't listen to this stupid cunt. She probably has borderline personality disorder herself.
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>>17866947
I believe you're on the wrong board
here you go: >>>/r9k/
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>>17866943
Why should he apologise? You don't even know if she has reasonable reasons to be upset and if OP has done something wrong or not
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>>17866973
jfc
I meant if OP genuinely thinks he was in the wrong and she deserves an apology
he should give her an actual apology.
if he doesn't think he's in the wrong, he should talk out what happened and resolve their issues
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