Im a white gay dude, and im super attracted to asian guys. The chances of me finding, say, a white guy attractive are probably ~5%, whereas for asians its more like 50%.
1) Does this make me racist?
And perhaps more importantly:
2) Will other people perceive me as a racist?
I understand that many people dont like being 'fetishized' because of their race, and while I dont think thats what im doing, im not 100% sure. i dont want to offend anyone, but i cant help who im attracted to. Asians are just my "type" i think.
>>17763639
>I understand that many people dont like being 'fetishized' because of their race
How do you know it won't be you that will be fetishized by the asian guy?
>>17763648
I dont really care. As long as I like the guy mentally and physically, that stuff doesnt matter to me.
But i know not everyone feels the same way.
>>17763651
As long as you don't hurt the other person intentionally, fetishes are OK.
That's not racist at all. Racism is when you think your race is superior to another. It's just a preference.
Some people have a thing for redheads
>>17763668
But what if I intentionally hurt somebody that wants to be hurt.
>>17763707
You have consent, which is different.
As long as your not one of "those guys" who says shit like dirty little chink in bed you're fine.
Nobody is going to care what type of people you like to stick your dick into. I can sort porn online by race, do you really think anybody IRL cares about your interracial fantasies?
>>17763847
>Sadism in bed is a-ok
>Racial slurs or any form of raceplay fetishism is not
What? I swear to god, I have no idea when liberals made it a worse crime to hurt people's feelings than to physically hurt them.
>>17763866
Yeah. What if a qt asian i like gets offended and thinks im a creep?
>>17763873
Dont u just hate it when someone calls on a nice point but then instantly ruins it with some one dimensional labeling quip approach.
I wanna love you, but you're either old and useless by now or just a no-style dumby.
>>17763693
Ya but deep down you must realize that you know the race you lust IS in fact better for your lusting than other races, so there's no reason not to prefer it.
Have a favorite ice cream flavor?
Have a favorite pair of jeans?
Have a favorite way to shake dat ass whenever your jam comes on?
Same thing.
No crimes here, officer.
I'm not racist but... I don't like seeing black cocks in my porn.
>>17764871
Asshurt Shillary supporter detected. Your candidate lost, deal with it.
>>17763866
>>17763693
Like this man who just wants to "keep it white or Latin." Or this guy who is "not into Black or Asian." One user kindly requests that Asians "don't make contact" while another lumps black men, Asians, old men and fat, hairy men together into a group of untouchables. Finally, there's this man, who says he's only into white men and if you're anything "less than" that, he's not interested. All those examples are from one site. From this year. From this month.
Calling these preferences racist isn't just conjecture: It's science.
https://mic.com/articles/144985/here-s-one-brutal-truth-every-white-gay-man-needs-to-hear
‘No blacks, no Asians’ on Grindr shows how racist gay men actually are
http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/no-blacks-no-asians-on-grindr-shows-how-racist-gay-men-actually-are/
Some of the stories were common: many recalled being ignored on the scene or being blocked or called racist names on apps. For some the racial abuse went much deeper. Of all the racial groups, it was only among the Latin guys that a minority (35%) had not personally experienced racism.
About 63% of Black and South Asian men said that racism is a bigger issue for them than homophobia.
https://www.fsmag.org.uk/fs148-racism-and-the-gay-scene
A Twitter campaign hoping to highlight racism in the gay community has led to debate online, with many accusing white, gay men of ignoring – and often adding to – the struggles of other minorities.
Users of the hashtag accused certain members of the gay community of condemning prejudice, whilst simultaneously discriminating against other minorities, especially on hook-up apps.
http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2016/02/01/tweetlikeawhitegay-highlights-racism-in-gay-community/
>>17765740
>>>/tumblr/
>>>/lgbt/
Pick one and stay out. You're the reason why Trump is in the White House, and you'll get another R. in, in 2024 too.
>>17763639
No am asian bi male and am flattered
I feel like that about white girls and boys(like everyone else) and open about it
If u at believeland hit me up
>>17763639
Having a type isn't racist, besides you can't be racist against whites since they hold the institutional power in most places.
>>17765740
While for some it's clearly motivated not only by preference alone, from the sound of it OP just digs the look.
I am a straight white dude and liked black chicks when I was younger, now I like the pale skinned ones a lot more. Does it mean I turned into a racist?
>About 63% of Black and South Asian men said that racism is a bigger issue for them than homophobia.
That's given how it affects most of them while homophobia only the faggy ones.
>>17763639
If your primary attraction to them is them being Asian, yes, you have a fetish. And yes, it is a form of racism.