ITT: Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

Girls,

When should I approach you?

I'm 21 yo and there is no way girls at my age don't know I want a relationship/sex when I approach them.

>>17682933
Whenever you want. (Barring extreme cases like them obviously being in a hurry, or buried deep in study books.) Just be polite about it.

In my opinion guys often make the mistake of approaching too little (because it's terrifying to put yourself out there to maybe even a stranger), so when they do they get really hung up on that specific girl, even if she gives off clear signs of disinterest. Kind of sunk cost fallacy.

An example I gave before is when a girl is reading - you can ask her what she's reading/whether it's good, people definitely do that even in my country where small talk with strangers is fairly rare. If she holds up the book for you to read, mumbles the name, says it without moving her eyes from the page etc; she doesn't feel like talking. Maybe she thinks you're ugly/weird. Maybe she's about to shit herself and is trying to play it cool... and everything in between. You don't know why she isn't receptive and there's no point in trying to analyze it, she just isn't.
Now if she smiles, turns to you, starts telling about it, asking what you like to read/if you know the author... feel free to continue. People don't like to openly reject others. Unless you've stumbled upon someone exceptionally curt/mean, an explicit "fuck off" typically means you already crossed some implied boundaries.

Also gives you more experience for a healthy perspective for those times that you feel like you made a fool out of yourself. Good luck!

>>17682950
>Also gives you more experience for a healthy perspective for those times that you feel like you made a fool out of yourself. Good luck!

Thank you for the answer.

But then I remembered I live in a really small town and always see the same people and when I take a trip to the bigger one's I feel confused, lost and less worthy.

Can any girls tell me what the fuck is going on?

I've been meaning to talk to a girl in a couple of my classes for a good amount of time. I've been talking it up and pussying out for weeks. I ended up missing lab last week and had to make it up later that week. When I got there, there was an attractive girl who had to make up the lab too. We ended up being partners for the lab. I talked to her a tiny bit throughout the lab, but at the end, I got her number for a study group (The same exact premise for the first girl) without trouble. I wasn't really nervous or anything, and just said fuck it. What is keeping me from doing that with the first girl? Why could I even do that in the first place?

Tomorow my first FWB visits me in the early morning. I witheld my masterbation, and now I habe blue balls. Bu Tomorow I want all my hornyness. Should I cum now? Or wait till she sucks it out me tomorow?

>>17683022
I've never felt blue balls in my entire life.

>>17683025
You don't know what hell feels like.

Guys

Would you date a girl with 10/10 body and 5/10 face or 5/10 body and 10/10 face?

>>17683031
10/10 face definitly always no matter what.
Even tho I reallu care about natural selection in benifit of body-genes.

For anyone really:

Over the last year, I have had this curse where I go on a date or two with a girl then everything goes the shit/they don't bother with me anymore. I always think the dates went well, as most of the time they would end with some kind of "sexual" encounter (usually just making out). I'll even have girls on the date be extremely flirty with me and tell me how good looking I am.

I don't get it, am I doing something wrong? Am I just going for the wrong people? Or we probably just don't click and it's all just physical?

>>17683031
10/10 face. It's amazing how much the face can compensate for the rest of the body. If she's hot as fuck but has an alright face, I'd be more interested sexually than romantically. I'm going to be spending more time looking at her face while we're dating, anyway.

>>17683031
Are you asking if I'd date either of those or which would I'd rather date given a choice?

If the latter then definitely 10/10 face. A girl's face is the most important physical attraction factor for me.

Girls or Guys, would you date someone who had never drank in their life, and wasn't ever going to?

>>17683056
Girl here, sure. I don't drink much anyway, and when I do, I don't drink to get drunk.

>>17683040
This really isn't something we can answer over the internet

>>17682985
Maybe because you had a reason to talk to the second girl? I don't know, and I'm not sure how you expect us to know

>>17683056

Probably not unless there's a pretty convincing medical reason not to.

It's the universal social lubricant.

Specifically in my personal experience people who have abstained from drinking turn out to be struggling alcoholics, or very immature people with superiority complexes ("I don't NEED drugs or alcohol to have a good time!").

I've been with partners whom never drink enough to get drunk, and that's cool too - so depending on your reasoning maybe consider that. Just two or three throughout the night, and on very special occasions maybe they have a few more but not enough to lose control. Two of my past partners were like that and I enjoyed their companionship a lot.

>>17683073
Not the OP, but I've known people who abstain from drinking because they've had bad experience in the past, whether it's something that they did when they drank, or if they had an alcoholic parent or something. OP might be one of those people

>>17683077

>>17683073 here.

Yeah you're definitely right. I should have said the two examples I listed aren't the only two kinds of people that don't drink in the world.

I can appreciate their perspective in that situation (alcoholic parent, bad experience etc), but at the same time if I was trying to be with them I would encourage (not force) them to drink socially, even super lightly at home together on the odd occasion. I'd be disappointed if they couldn't get past a previous experience like that I guess - it would reflect negatively for me on their character.

Probably coming off like a massive controlling dick at the moment.

>>17683031
what is a 5/10 body? If it's fat then honestly no, if it's on the skinny side yes.

>Should I wait this out?

Went on date with girl (R), who is best friends with one of my best friends (B).
Date goes really well, I ask for a second date in a really cheesy way and it works. (We were by a fountain waiting for our Uber, debating what to want and how to wish for it. Idea pops into my head, Uber arrives, she throws her coin in, I get up to leave and she asks why I'm not throwing my coin in, I say, "I mean, the fountain doesn't have a say in this: I want to see you again" and give her the penny back).

She gushed to her housemates and to B about our date, told B she definitely likes me, texted me later that night saying it was really fun. Later the next day, I comfortably and casually ask to exchange snapchats because I want to show her the Halloween costume I'm working on.

Radio silence for 24+ hours now, and she bailed on plans to hang out with B with little explanation.


I figure maybe things went too well? Like neither of us expected to get along as well as we did, her body language expressed desire as well as vulnerability, and she's never had a serious relationship before. I'm hypothesizing she needs a bit of time and space to herself before coming to terms with the level of vulnerability that comes with the chemistry we have.

Is this wishful thinking on my part? I'm going to wait a day or two, then maybe knock on her door and invite her in person to the surprise party I'm throwing for B this weekend.

>>17683073
Do you not think it's sad though that the human race has to rely on a fabricated, artificial, commercialised stimulant to have a good time? (not the OP, just playing devil's advocate)

>>17683085
OP here. I've never had a bad experience with alcohol - no events or occurrences have put me off it. I've just naturally never been inclined to try it, I've never been curious. I don't think it has held me back in life thus far, so I dont know why I need to give it a go.

>>17683091
People have been drinking alcohol, taking drugs and the like for centuries though. I get where you're coming from, and I do think that if the only way someone can have a good time is to be drunk then there's a problem, but it IS a regular part of society

>>17683096

>>17683085

That's cool I guess. I seriously doubt it has held you back as well. If you went your whole life without it obviously there would be missed opportunities socially speaking but no one could call you an idiot for never having a drink.

I guess I just wouldn't date you is all. I feel like there's probably a few people out there who would feel the same even if they wouldn't admit it to themselves; it doesn't feel exactly adult to admit to oneself that alcohol is a necessary component of building ones relationship with another, but this is the truth for a lot of people especially in the early parts of their relationship. We rely on it as an icebreaker, past time, confidence booster, aphrodisiac and so many other things (not all of them good).

In saying all of that, there of course will be plenty of potential partners out there that share or are completely tolerant of your choice. I'm just not one of them to again answer your original question.

Best of luck.

>>17683031
>5/10 body and 10/10 face
Definitely this. With a bit work, one could turn almost any body into an 8 and better, while fixing a face needs plastic surgery.

>>17683056
Sure. I'd never say no to a decent drink but if somebody doesn't want to drink, it's up to them and none of my fucking business. Assuming they won't bitch to me about my drinking of course.

>>17683073
You seriously overestimating the social significance of drinking. (Coming from a slav who had his first vodka shot at 4 and got exclusively friends who drink a lot)

>Is it strange to not use any social media in 2016?

>>17683162
Yes. So much so that it can be a little suspicious

>>17683167
Suspicious? How?

I am working towards getting away from modern society and living off the land. I want to escape the cities and modern "entertainment". Are there ladies that find this an attractive idea?

>>17683174
Because everyone and their dog has a social media presence these days. There's got to be something off if you meet someone who doesn't.

>>17683185
I Don't have one. Life is so much better without it.

>>17683187
If you say so, but that's not going to stop people thinking it's odd that you don't

>>17683185
I don't have social media as I don't need it. I've got a mobile phone to contact friends and family, and store photos. Why would I need it?

>>17683193
But of course. They can go fuck themselves, honestly. 4chan is pretty much what I do on the internet, otherwise I'm offline unless I'm looking to get something.

girls tell me things you consider a universal turnoff to you and other girls. anything from physical appearances and habits to fashion faux pa's etc.

>>17683198
Precisely. Even a mobile phone is a little much for me but alas.

>>17683198
>>17683200
>If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.

>>17683201
>a universal turnoff to you and other girls.
>other girls.
That's quite an interesting question, which is so rare for these threads. Should be unisex version yo.

My current girl told me about her last relationship she had. It was kind of brutal in a way. She was beaten and had visual proof of it, she was also cheated on and was not allowed to meet her friends.
When confronted, she said that it was hard to actually leave the relationship, as they not only lives pretty close, shared the same friends but also went to the same school.
She did confess to cheating on her bf because of this and have also told me that she's had a few more boyfriends, even tho most of them pretty short lived.
Anyhow, now she tells me that even after all that, she is ready to throw herself into a new relationship with me, and she is for some reason madly in love with me.
I know that in such cases it can be hard to actually assess the situation logically, but eitherway my main question follows:
Is this actually a girl I should spend time with?

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>>17683185
You can't honestly believe that shit. I have a facebook and post on it maybe once every two months so I wouldn't exactly say I have a presence. It's never been an issue and I'd make fun of a gal who tried to make it one.

>>17683066
>Maybe because you had a reason to talk to the second girl? I don't know, and I'm not sure how you expect us to know
I guess that's it. We didn't really talk a whole lot, but we were partners so we would have to communicate. Initiating conversation isn't as daunting when you're forced to be around that person.

>>17683255
It's plenty common for people to have a page but never post anything. Not having one at all is weird though.

>>17683179
Unlikely on 4chan

>>17683089
>her body language expressed desire as well as vulnerability

what is this a romance novel for 60 yr olds?

wait for a response and if she doesn't text you back in meantime you can try to double text with the party invite. but don't just show up on her porch bro

>>17683291
I mean she was nervous, if fidgeting with her fingers means anything, and she was interested, since she played with her hair and applied lip gloss at the table, straight eye contact.

we live close to each other, like 2 minute walk, so i wouldnt particularly be going out of my way to ask in person.

girls

i need to tell my gf that im breaking up with her as soon as i stop taking a shit. shes in the bedroom waiting for me right now. i cant have sex with her knowing that i want to break up with her. this isnt the important part.

shes a year older than me, working part time at two different jobs. when i started dating her she was living with her brother but was kicked out after she got in an argument with her brothers wife, and i agreed to let her stay here for a while as she looked for a job and saved up for an apartment. the one stipulation i had for us dating was that she be able to hold her own apartment way in advance of us moving in together, but after she was kicked out she had nowhere to go.

while shes been living here ive become completely miserable as i get to know her more, but i still care about her wellbeing and want her to succeed. since shes started living here shes aquired a car , got started on a job and started to improve her life.

how the fuck do i break up with her without derailing her progress? is there even a rigut way to do this?

>>17683326
it sounds to me like she's just preoccupied. i'd still text her before going to her house though

Shit, posted in the other thread and didn't notice it was in autosage.

For anyone:
>Went to have a coffee with mom after going with her for her medical exams
>Waitress comes
>Holy shit she's cute
>Try to look to her in the least obvious way
>Hours later
>"Ya know? She was cute"
>"I know. Next time you should be less obvious!"

Did I do something wrong here??

>>17683357
no that's just moms

Unironically: What does sex feel like? The first time? Your latest time?

Ok girls, so if you were interested in someone, and a friend admitted to being interested in you, how would you feel?

>>17683365
Wait- you're right. Mothers usually pick on those cues far more easily than anybody else.

Still, it made me feel slightly uncomfortable, especially because I'm awkward as fuck.

>>17683347
Why do you want to break up with her? Have you talked to her about these feelings?

I know it's hard, but breaking up with someone cold turkey, especially when they live with you, is reaaaallly shitty dude. At least put some effort into making the relationship work.

>>17683357
My mom never talked with me or asked about girls or sex or whatever like this, is this odd?

>>17683381
So I'm interested in A, and B admits they're interested in me, despite knowing I want to date A? I'd feel like awkward and put on the spot, and I'd probably also distance myself from B

>>17683372
lol great man. like super great, especially when both parties are equally excited about it. there is no better feeling than making a girl orgasm and i'm sure it feels good for a girl to get a guy off too.

but if you're asking what it literally feels like than it's probably exactly liek you think it does

>>17683387
It's not like she actually did that when I was a teenager. I'm far older than that and that's probably why she's talking to me about it, and not out of her own initiative either. Besides, neither her nor my dad taught me to be confident around girls.

>>17683347
tell her you're unhappy and why you're unhappy clearly and with a level head. no break ups are actually easy. but let her know you arn't trying to derail her it's just not working for you

>>17683381
Reaally depends on how the friend approaches the situation. I've had this happen where it made the friendship unbearably awkward, but in another case I married the dude.

I think the more casually the women is approached the better, it lessens the pressure and the awkwardness afterward.

>>17683352
Yeah I've changed my mind about going over this week.

I did think she was just busy, but she's texting B here and there, about to meet up with him for dinner, so intentionally not replying to me. Ah well. All I can do is wait.

>>17683386

>>17683386
ive been trying to make it work but she doesnt seem to be making the same effort.a lot of her life choices after i said she could stay here (temporarily) have strained the relationship.

im housing her for free and shes eating my food, and she gets upset when ill ask her to pay me back for stuff like chinese food or groceries (strictly for her) that she asks me to pick up.

shes also started working at 4am -8am so she goes to bed at 9-10pm then complains if i wake her up. when i go to bed at 1am i almost always have to wake her because shes wrapped the blankets totally around herself, and demands that a fan be kept on so she doesnt sweat.

more serious stuff like getting very defensive if i try to ask her how the job search is going, or explain that she cant decorate my house have been eating at me lately.

one of my best friends is convinved shes just taking advantage of me for rent and luxuries, so i cant really bounce ideas of how to approach this off of him. i cant say for sure that shes not though.

im not going to kick her out just because im breaking up with her, but it feels wrong to pretend that i can deal with this.

>>17683420
yeah ask B what he thinks. And maybe since she's friends with B she feels more comfortable texting him and she's just nervous/not trying to move fast or something with you. idk man but either way if she likes you it'll pan out and if not oh well at least you had a fun date

Girls:

There's a girl I know from work. We work in different areas of the company (but on the same floor), so we never really end up talking together for work. Whenever we do talk though, she always compliments me (usually on looks), always makes eye contact and devotes her full attention. She even smiles at me every time she sees me, like when we're both working.

Is she into me? And if so, how do I make a move?

>>17683372
fingering a girl is probably the best experience while ur making out with her better than the sex for me

Alright question for both sexes:
I'm definitely straight and there is this guy who is 100% gay at work, most people know he has a thing for me. He often insinuates flirty things like going to the movies, lunch, talking etc. I need him to stop trying to date me without making things extremely weird because I plan to stay at my job for a while.

>>17683031
5/10 body, 10/10 face since 99% of the time I would be staring at her face, might as well have something pretty to look at.

>>17683447
If she gets out of her way to interact with you, she definitely has something going on. Protip: smiling means nothing, it can be a reflex of nervousness or a cultural thing.

>>17683447
make jokes when ur around her and see if she laughs like its the funniest thing shes heard, or joke around with her appearance and she if she pushes u or lighlty hits u

>>17683456
say "hey man i don't have a problem with you personally or anything but (insert exactly what he's doing) is making me uncomfortable.

Do guys feel friend zoned when a girl calls them dude?

I call everyone that, even my crushes, it's just a habit.

>>17683381
It depends, you want to date a friend to be honest, because a woman's heart is a fragile thing that's very guarded. I need to know someone for a very long time before I could consider dating them, but some people can't date friends because things can turn weird. I always use Jim and Pam from The Office as an example, you want that best friend status, but if you really like girl A I wouldn't distance yourself from B, that's just cruel and she probably won't know why.

It's kind of a superficial question but well, a lot of guys, for whatever reason, wouldn't date a woman they know slept with black guys before; would some girls feel the same with a guy who had a relationship with a black girl?

>>17683476
i was gunna say no but i think i would feel a little like that. but that's only if there was no other indication that you like me. also if you do it all the time then you're crushed probably jus think it's just a part of your personality

>>17683430
Ah, I see! Sorry dude, sounds like shes used to being spoiled and taken care of. She might not realise (or care) that she's causing you stress.

I support breaking up with her, or at the very least immediately stop spending money on her. she has a job. she can pay for her own shit. If she's not going to appreciate the effort you're putting in you should take away your support.

Maybe she'll see shes being a shit and will stop once she has to sleep on the couch.

Also look into your local eviction laws. It may be fucking difficult to get her out from a legal standpoint, depending on where you are.

>>17683490
it depends on if they don't like black people

>>17683461
>>17683456
I should also add that she doesn't know I'm single. I somewhat recently broke up with my ex and it hasn't come up.

>>17683498
Thank god. I'm glad you are being honest that you may feel a little like that, under certain circumstances. I kinda greet him every once in a while when we pass by and offer him help with stuff so hopefully he doesn't see the dude thing as a "I love you like a friend"

>>17683456
Well...

A: Avoid him and decline the offers
B: Talk to him about it, if he is really hitting on you, just tell that you like him as friend but aren't into penis.
C: Let your/his friends do B

>>17683476
>friendzone
Kek.

>>17683490
> a lot of guys
Citization needed. The amount of insecure faggots is rather low, despite what /pol/ is trying to tell you.

Girls, after getting your number, how long should a guy wait to text you? How short should the conversations be kept? What are good starter topics for someone in college besides class?

Also, how best is it to feel for if someone has a boyfriend?

>>17683490
>a lot of guys, for whatever reason, wouldn't date a woman they know slept with black guys before
Where the fuck are you getting that from? I certainly hope 4chan isn't your primary reference.

Girls:

What is the appeal of fucking your boss at your waitress job?

>>17683568
some girls are attracted to power

>>17683582
A middle age man slightly higher up on the ladder in that he drives the underpaid line cooks is "power"?

>>17683590
He's certainly more powerful than her fellow waiters.

You don't need to be the best man ever, just the best one around.

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Am I attractive in any way whatsoever?

>>17683615
>>>/soc/ is this way

>>17683622
how about you answer the question or shut your cunt mouth

kthx

women never say the truth
so , what's the point of these threads?

>>17683625
How about you go to a fucking place where your shitty picture will be actually rated by people who are asking for exactly the same? This is the advice board not the "rate me plz kthx" board you dumbass.

>>17683615
You have a nice... phone

>>17683615
only tryingi it out is gonna say,
do you have
a) money
b) smarts

else prepare to lower your standarsds

>>17683625
how about you man the fuck up and lose some weight, fatass? why dont you get some clothes that fit? why dont you go hang out with the other whiny, attention seeking faggots? heres the directions for how to get there:
>>>/soc/

stop shitting up this board, we have more than enough garbage here already.

>>17683636
>>17683634
Good enough. I don't really give a fuck anyways

suicide is painless thanks for the honesty

>>17683638
how about you kys you emotional bitch

seriously pms somewhere else

i know this is a femcunt thread but still

get rekt

When a femanon says their not like other girls, do they believe their own words?

Girls,

There's this girl I like but I do not have much day-to-day contact with her. But she has a lot more contact with a (female) friend of mine. Could I ask the friend to set me up or is that crossing a line?

>>17683615
You aren't super fat, but you are chubby. Honestly just go to >>>/fit/ and ask for advice (be prepared for shit-talking, get a thick skin). You'd be surprised how much improvement you'd get simply from getting in better shape.
Also I'm not a woman so I can't say but the slanted/backwards cap is hit-or-miss I think

Oh and the Raptors suck so you're basically telling her upfront that you're a failure

>tfw qt girl who i met in class
>she was flirting like those yandere girls in animes (she's an anime weeb)
>hasn't attended class for over 2 weeks after that

so i added her on facebook, and she accepted.

would it be weird if i message her? asking her why she's not coming to class

If a female classmate asks me if I've had sex/how many partners I've had/what my longest relationship was when I'm a pitifully honest KHV what am I supposed to respond with?

I was asked the relationship thing and just let out a long "uhhhhhh".

>>17683744
Definitely do ask her, she accepted for a reason, she's open to talking with you.

>>17683554
I always text right away with "hey, it's ur name here" and they always text me back

>>17683759
okay things are going crazier than expected

she's telling me crazy things
>got sick
>the only guy she knew in class deleted her
>feels behind
>"omg i need to see psychologist!!!"

maybe i regret getting to know her now

>>17683783
>she's an anime weeb
>being surprised about the rest

>>17683792
geez i really wasn't ready for this

her yandere moves IRL were huge red flags... she literally had anime pics for her profile pics and wallpapers

no wonder that other guy deleted her lol

I'm frequently go to parties and sometimes end up heavily petting with girls (most recent example: she's lying on top of me and stroking my belly down towards my crotch and I'm taking her dress up and stroking her thighs). However, I never seem to be able to transition from that stage to kissing, mainly because I'm just too nervous. There's been a few times now where it was obvious the girl wanted to make out but I've been too much of a sperg to go any further and I've awkwardly got up and left to talk to mates / have another drink instead and the moment's been ruined. How do I overcome my nervousness and bridge the gap cleanly? Even alcohol isn't helping me overcome this problem. I've had girls kiss me and attempt to take it further and I still haven't really been able to reciprocate for some reason. Do I just have to go for it and learn from experience? Could there be an underlying mental issue? It's getting very frustrating.

>>17683672

You like or think is cute or something?

I'm not a girl but honestly just ask your friend about the girl you're interested in. I don't think setting you guys up would be a good idea, maybe just tell your friend you think the girl is cute and ask her to introduce you two?

Guys,
Other than ass and tits, what causes you to be attracted to a female?

>>17684087
Hair, and a nice face

>>17684087
Do you mean strictly appearance wise? Face would come first and then obviously hair and style. Demeanor is important too aka. confidence, which affects stature and the way she walks, etc etc
Also small bits like mannerism.

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>>17684087

Face, hair and legs.

Ass and tits don't top any of these either, but if she has nice legs she most likely has a nice ass too.

Face and legs have to be my most important, though, a really beautiful face can't be beat.

Kinda like pic related

>>17684037
Sounds damn weird ... you're doing pretty much everything right to even get into the situation, so while the obvious solution would be "Just go for it", you should consider talking to a therapist or at least try to re-analyze your mental block for the "some reason" yourself.

>>17683031
strongly depends on the personality but I'm going with the 10/10 face
>>17683056
absolutely not
>>17683476
no
>>17683752
telling a lie will only come back to hurt you
>>17684087
face, body shape, overall aesthetic

>>17684087
If we're talking purely physical attraction then a pretty face outshines everything to me. Nothing about a girl captures my eye immediately like a pretty face with a nice smile does.

Nice hair and legs are big ones too.

I finally was able to talk to a cute girl in one of my classes, but I kinda fucked up and didn't get her name/number, and I might've came off as awkward.

I notice her sometimes sitting alone for 5-10 mins waiting for class to start, would it be weird if I went to sit next to her and said, "Hey, mind if I sit here? I wanted to say thanks for the help the other day after the exam, you understood this stuff 10x better than I could've. My name's anon" or something similar?

I don't wanna come off as creepy, I really think she's cute as fuck and from the little bit we talked, she had a really good personality and seemed pretty smart. Plus, she seemed like she was responsive/attentive when talking, so is this a good idea girls, or would I just freak you out if you were this girl?

>>17683752
1-2 is usually the best answer and isn't even that hard to deliver unless you're a complete sperg. The truth is an option too, specially if you can emphasize that it's due religion/being picky.

Also every answer is better than "uhhhh."

Women whats a good penis size. Im afraid Im too small. I heard average penis size without counting micro penises is 6.5 inches. I might actually kill myself if Im not big enough.

>female friend seems to like me
>I've acted a bit hot and cold with her
>she's becoming a bit distant with me, still trying to get close to be but also dodging physical contact as well
Am I fucked or is there still hope for me?

>>17684330
7.5 inches is the 'just right' sweet spot

>>17684333
>doesn't reciprocate girls' signs of interest
>girl starts to lose interest
>wonders why
Are you some kind of idiot?

>>17684338
More if the situation can be turned into a positive again.

>>17684343
That depends on what 'positive' entails

>>17684338
I heard women can't even feel the difference between a 3 inch penis and an 8 inch penis.

>>17684349
You wish

>>17684352
The clitoris only goes 3 inches deep. Theres no way a woman could feel anything else.

>>17684383
Why are you stabbing the clit with your dick? Do you not know how to sex?

>>17684385
So you dont know what a clitoris actually is

>>17684390
Sounds like you're not all that great with female anatomy, buddy.

>>17684393
nah just you arent aware of what it actually is.

>>17684403
Okay, Mr 3 Inch Dick

>>17684412
Good thing thats the length of the clitoris.

>>17684415
If you say so

>>17684422
Science says so. I just dont have a reason to disagree.

>>17683481
>women's heart is a fragile thing
oh m8 i am laffin

There's this one girl who I really want to cuddle but I can not cuddle her for probably a year.

What can I cuddle in the mean time?
I really want to cuddle her.

>>17684087
Hips and thighs if we're just talking physically.

>>17683211
I never asked the question, made a comment, bruh.

>>17684087
Them being trustworthy and not a total cunt that cares about their health and is not afraid to let their hair down. I like mellow chicks but they're impossible to find unless they're taken. I'm way turned off by a superficial and shallow nature and I can't stand rudeness.

>>17684529
Physically it's hips and a cute face.

>>17684349
You heard wrong.

I want to cuddle a cute girl soooooo baddddd

>>17684583
Then do it. Stop posting on /adv/ and go get yourself a good cuddle.

Girls.

"Your dick is to pleasure you. Your hands and fingers are to pleasure her."

Can someone elaborate on this?

not really a gender question but i like to ask for small advices here.

my grandparents gave me a necklace with a cross pendant before they died. i really loved my grandparents, so i want to wear the necklace for moral reasons. thing is, i'm not christian anymore. i wore this necklace for at least 7 years now without taking it off even once. but it has always annoyed me when people asked me if i was a christian, and i'm not.

also, i'm buddhist, some people know about that, and sometimes i wear buddhism symbolic stuff, even other necklaces, that look really weird together with that cross.

Should i really take the cross of? i don't think my grandparents would be happy about that.

>>17684651
>but it has always annoyed me when people asked me if i was a christian, and i'm not.
Well, what the fuck do you expect if you wear a christian symbol?

>that look really weird together with that cross
So? Do YOU like it or not?

>Should i really take the cross of?
Well, if the questions annoy you so much ... otherwise, wear whatever the fuck you want to wear.

>>17684636
Some people believe that girls can't feel pleasure from PiV sex.
Which is false.

>>17684636
Long story short, use every tool you have to pleasure a woman. Love her whole body, not just one part of it. Ladies are waaaaay more mental about sex (It's so much fun.) so just let go and enjoy yourself. That's literally all it takes. No games, no fancy maneuvers, just enthusiasm and enjoying yourself. I have literally left myself panting and sweating after doing as such and been told, repeatedly, that I am the best lay they have had because of this.
TL;DR: women know when you're faking it. Stop giving a FUCK and actually fuck.

>>17684659
I bookmarked this post and will try to drill it in my head for life. Thanks for the advice.

>>17684658
How does it feel? If you were to make a parallel to male sexual stimulation, what would it be closest to? Stroking the shaft?

>>17684666
Pretty much the same without the penetration part (Unless you're into that sort of thing.) A skilled lover loves all of you, not just one part. The key to good sex is a good mindset about sex.

>>17684666
My pleasure. It applies to pretty much everything to do with romance and such. Don't be a tool, be confident, and do you. Don't sweat the small things because everything has its time and place.

To both. I didn't really know where to ask.
>i'm introverted, silent and generally not very social
>I am nice, talkative and open when people come to me though
>in class (with whom I haven't socialized much these past months)
>time to make groups
>everyone around me ask each other who they want to be with
>no one asks me or seem to care
>I end up working alone

Happened to me all throughout my life in classes where I didn't make any friends. Serves me right for not pushing myself to socialize more, but I really hate small talk and forcing myself to chat with strangers I feel no connection to. Most of my friends I simply got by chance and starting an actual genuine conversation on an interesting topic at hand, or simply because the feeling was good.

Anyway, was wondering if anyone else was like that and how you feel about it. As far as this particular instance goes, I like working alone and generally get better, faster result that way, but still, not even being asked is kinda painful for a second.

>>17684679
Don't worry so much, just be you and be confident about it. Friends and others will come in time. I'm assuming you're in HS, yes?

>>17684681
Last year of college actually.

This stuff used to bother me in HS, but through college I came to understand that I have value, I have my faults too, but I can make genuine friends and have a social life that suits me without having to do what everyone around me does (talk all the time and party every week end). I tried forcing myself for a year, but it led to pain, and very little result. It's ironically when I stopped that I met real friends who I still see today.

I'm just curious how other people feel about it now. Any form of self deprecation resulting from events like this kinda stopped. I stopped being resentful when this happens when I was around 17. (Also I had a situation where I had to wrok alone on a group project and I got the best grade in all that year's promotion so it does have it's nice elements.)

Thanks btw

>>17684673
This is a little confusing. I've heard that clitoral stimulation is vastly superior to PIV for females.

>>17684691
Depends on the lady, honestly. The closest thing a man can experience to that would be prostate stimulation but that's not everybody's cup of tea.

>>17684688
Ahhhh. Honestly most people don't care, in my experience at least. The only people who look down on it aren't important. The way you like to spend your life is your decision and my view on it is just that. Live and let live, yo.

>>17684314
>Also every answer is better than "uhhhh."
Fug, I was going to say 0 because I was home schooled but I'm afraid of giving theae people too much info, they talk.a lot.

>>17684739
>because I was home schooled
Sounds like a perfectly decent reason.

People will talk no matter how you answer. 0 might lead to "oh cute" or "lol virgin", a higher number might lead to "yeah okay" or "he probably had to drug them" or downright disbelief.

>>17684745
>Sounds like a perfectly decent reason.
I thought it'd make me weird but now that I think of it I look weirder with the "uh". How my parents decided to school me from 13+ might explain a lot of the other shit those classmates have been badgering me about and why I'm reserved I guess. Maybe I'll "come out", they seem to want to be friends.

Girls & Guys

So i got rejected after dating for maybe 1 month, she doesnt want a relationship and im not her type. We never had sex but made out a lot, lots of foreplay stuff between us and was pretty close to actually hapen, but she always backed out last minute for whatever reason.

So my question is actually, what can i learn from this for future dating? Can i expect to date girls that are in a league with her (because she was very hot & smart, had issues but you cant be perfect)
Girls, when rejecting someone you got physical with, do you reject him because of his personality? Is this a sign i should work on my personality way more?

>gf left me two weeks ago
>her feelings changed
>feel pretty shitty

will hooking up with other girls actually help me move on?

because at the moment i feel sick even speaking to other girls since shes always on my mind

HOW DO I GET Q GF????????

>>17684982
Same way that you get any GF. Be you, be confident, don't worry too much.

How to start a conversation with a girl who is just walking near me on the street?
Any good books to read about it?

You \adv\guys said 'just ask him and it will solve everything' and I texted him 'do you like me' and he said yes but he can't make any move because 'it's complicated' so it didn't solve anything.

SOMEONE PLS HELP

a pair of twins both like me, i started flirting with them thinking they were the same person, found out last week they were twins and now theyre giving me the ultimatum. One has to me the prettier face but she always straightens her hair and i prefer it her natural hair ( kind of curly). The other is a little taller and keeps her hair natural how i think is more pretty and she has more of a physique but again her sister i think has the prettier face. I need some help with this

>>17685103
lol. What's the background on this? Did he elaborate on what's "complicated?" Does he have a gf or something?

>>17685136
it's up to you. Personally I care about fitness more than face so I'd probably go with the body over the face. Any notable differences in personality?
Pick one. If you need to just flip a coin. But probably make a choice ASAP otherwise you'll lose both

I know she's a little bummed out after getting her hopes up and being let down.

Should I not text for a while? She's been very quiet and I don't know whether I should speak to her to comfort her or if the right thing to do is let her be.

>>17685162

Is this a new question or you forgot to link to the other post?

If it's a new question, more data would be helpful.

>>17684987
how do I stop worrying about everything?

>>17685169
She is upset and went a bit cold when texting. Should I be there for her or leave her alone and give her peace?

I have anxiety problems. A few days ago, I told my GF. She never noticed, she thought it was just a part of my personality. Now she's acting all cold and distant (she does that when she feels under pressure) and says that "she needs some time to process the whole situation". I talked with her, told her that it's not as bad as it seems, that I'm going to see an expert and will try my best to get out of it. I also told her that she doesn't need to do anything: she doesn't have to save me, treat me in a different way or anything else. I just want her to be understanding. Still, I can't figure out what she needs to "process" about this. She told me that it's not about wanting to be with me or not, she still loves me and she wants to go on with the relationship.

>>17685185

Is she your girlfriend? Do you want her to be your girlfriend?

Girls, have ever changed your mind about a person? Not being romantically interested in him at one point in his life, but "giving him a chance" in another?

I wonder if it's true that women make up their mind about dating a person as soon as they see him.

I met this girl 4 years ago, and we see each other at least once a week. I probed her interest when we met, but I stopped and kept my distance after I got turned down. I've never chased her or acted out of desperation etc. I wouldn't say we're friends as I was "cold" on purpose (because "I have enough friends, I don't need another one" etc.) and she noticed. We changed a lot, and as I learn about her new self, I become more and more attracted to her. Worth a shot, or should I focus on other girls?

>inb4 just try and see if it ends well

We have mutual acquaintances who I'm interested in. If she's a no-go I'll try my luck with them. If I make a move on her and I fail, word spreads and I'll be known as the thirsty dude to those acquaintances. I prefer this girl to said acquaintances, still.

>>17685143
Like I know, he also hinted that I'm in rush. 2 months of flirting with him and doing things together is a rush? He is literally holding me back for some reason.
Personally I think he might be in love with someone, though he likes me a lot too.

>>17685193
We are just close friends who talk about our life's and stuff.

>>17685203
Our life's what
OUR LIFE'S WHAT

>>17685203

But you wanna bed her, right?

>>17685219
No

>>17685251

Then don't worry. Offer your shoulder to cry on, and if she doesn't give her space.

It won't be weird, because you are friends are you are not interested in her, so it'll be fine.

>>17685256
Kk I did

>>17685201
Push him again to see if you can get him to date you. If he says no then just move the fuck on and go find another guy

>>17685103
So?

Looks like it's time to move on.

>>17685263
What is 'push him'? Do I have to go to his place and fuck him violently lol?
It's the first time when a guy don't do anything to me when seeing my interest so I don't know how to push guys. Especially when I fell for him so so much.

Girls do you think that millenials are becoming pussies?
Do you want them to take more initiative, be more cocky, have more confidence?
Or is it ok for you how it is?
Or do you want them to be more passive?

>>17685272
I don't want to, he's my ideal partner and I guess, a soulmate too.

>>17685284
>Do I have to go to his place and fuck him violently lol
God damnit bitch are you trying to encourage rape as a double standard? Just press him with questions and shit. Jesus fucking Christ.

>>17685287
What a stupid questions.

What's the most intimate thing you can do with a woman?
How can I make cuddling more enjoyable?

>>17685290
Blinded by the light.
Wrapped up like a douchebag in the middle of the night.
Move on.

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Need advice from either sexes on what a girl means when she says she cares about you but doesn't feel like keeping up "this relationship thing" according to her words. Apparently it's repetitive for her to show affection by telling me that she loves me, or asking about my day. I asked if she just lost interest in me, and she denied it, said everything was okay, but it clearly wasn't.

Females are hard to understand, maybe you could help?

anything I can do to salvage what I've accidentally allowed to become a FWB situation?

Basically I had sex with this guy on our first real date, and now we basically just meet up to have dinner/sex. He was really open and talkative the first date, but now it's clearly just all about sex.

I don't know how to like, fix this?

>>17685392
Have you tried like... Uh... Talking to him about it???

Women sMh tBh fAm

I made a mistake. I was stalking( saddly xD) on facebook a girl i ve seen in my uni department quite attractive. and i accidentaly clicked add friend.

I havent ever talked to her, we ve just exchanged a couple of looks. She accepted me but, how do I really go talk to her now that i ve made this mistake and already added her?

Im out of ideas.

>>17685394
I do, but the thing is he is so distant now. I do most of the talking during dinner. Then after sex and the next morning he doesn't talk to me at all?

I'll ask him like what he's up to for the day and he'll answer curtly, and won't ask me anything about me.

>>17685395
>hey
>you alright?
>yeah, you?
>yeah thanks, wanna go out for coffee some times
>uhhh no?
>oh sorry XD my friend sent that!!!

>>17685398
Then why have sex with him? Why do you keep coming back for more?

>>17683252
Anon listen to me well, broken girls are tough and have much more issues than the average person. I would say if you do think you can work things out and you like her for who she is sharing things together it will work.

But one piece of advice from experience is never let these broken ladies manipulate you. The second they try to make you feel bad ignore it unless you know logically you did something wrong to deserve it.

>>17685402
Because I'm super attracted to him and the sex is good and I'm thinking about that really nice first date we had :(

I have a very hard time being attracted to most guys, but when I am it's very intense.


I know he's probably using me for sex at this point but that's why I'm asking if it's salvageable.

>>17685421
I'm a polar opposite to you so its hard for me to give you advice.
Your only option is talking to him, asking him what's up, why he is so cold, and that you want to date.

Çöçk

>>17685424

I think asking him why he's cold probably won't make him very happy.

Also I don't want to start "drama" so early in our relationship?

>>17685433
It's not a relationship if you can't communicate with him??
You're not in a relationship at all. You're his fuck Buddy.

Accept it or get out of it.

>>17683447

I am a guy but I know how to read this situation really well.


Try talking to her or ask to talk to her after work and make small talk. The number one thing is if you can hold a conversation with her. Ask questions see if she keeps talking she if she has something she is interested in and you like as well.

Do not interrupt wait until she is done talking and then ask questions about it and show some knowledge. One thing that she might do at the end is tap you on the shoulder or have some sort of physical contact when she leaves the conversation that is a sign she is really interested in you.

>>17685436
Alright alright, I get you.

I guess if he hit's me up next time I'll try to talk about it even though we're both shy as fuck.

I'm guessing from the sounds of things/his coldness that it's gonna end which sucks.

>>17685446
We if it does end and you're in the UK............

>>17683447
girl here

pick her up :)))))

>>17685171
I find meditation helps.

>>17683615
As someone that is a poster on fit. Lose weight, stop eating at fast food places, do not drink soda,avoid high fructose corn syrup in ingredients, make your own food and be sure to grow your hair back it does not suit your look.

>>17685448

nah i'm hideous anyways

>>17685457
You're not in the UK?

>>17685456
Tbqh mate fuck off. Im the only cute London boy from /fit/ here.

What's your squat, bench and deadlift? I bet I'm stronger too.

Fuck off

>>17684087
Honestly it's personality and style for me. I usually am really attracted to ladies that are into art and design not the latest trends stuff but just creating patterns or is interested in effects on photos. On personality I think it has to be balanced not judgmental and not all the way happy either. It helps sooner someone like me open up in conversations. Of course looks matter to me but that is the huge underlying factor for what I like in ladies.

>>17684261
It's normal. Do not worry much about it. The only time is if she was not interested and does not give any answers.

girls, on average, do guys typically make enough cum, too much, or not enough? if not enough, how much is desirable

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>>17685463
Have you been doing your squats, after the booty pic I asked for?

>>17684651
>Grandparents were religious
>Wanted to give you something religious
>Hoping you would convert to their side
>Your Buddhist

Just wear the Buddhist necklace or have a heart shaped one. Giving you a cross necklace instead of a heart shaped one is a shitty thing to do and they tried to force their religion on you.

>>17685492
I did this week but I won't lie I benched every day but only squatted once.

I really really like bench

>>17685497
>"HOW COULD YA DO YA BENCHIN' IF YA DONT DO YA SQUATS?"

Guys, what's your ideal relationship? And would you like if the girl took care of you rather than you take care of her?

>>17685499
The day I put 180kg on my back and sat down and stood back up squats stopped being fun for me. I've been doing them out of hate since.

They suck :c

Girls, if you start dating a guy only to find out he is attracted to you solely because of some physical characteristic you have that he fetishizes, what would you do?

>>17685376
Think of it like this. You talk to a person you become friends then you become comfortable and it feels safe the longer your in the relationship. I think she needs a bit of excitement and she could be bored.

>>17685485
Thanks.

Her friend didnt seem too interested, but the girl honestly was talkative and all smiles.

Fuck it, Ill sit next to her, worst that happens is she tells me to move, best I make a new friend/study partner

>>17685505
Maybe you tried that too early

>>17685521
Huh?

>>17685503
Me taking care of her. Not that would not accept if we end up in a situation where she ended up taking caring of me more than the other way around, but I wouldn't be too comfortable with that either. I hope I'm being clear.

>>17685503
>Guys, what's your ideal relationship?
Two people following their own crazy goals while making fun of each other and the challenges life throws at them with some fucking in-between.

>And would you like if the girl took care of you rather than you take care of her?
How about neither? Taking care should apply to children and old people. I want to date a self-sufficient adult and be one myself.

>>17685524
I thought you meant you were like lifting and doing squats or something. I don't know how /fit/ shit works desu

>>17685528
You're clear
>>17685531
I really like your ideal relationship

>>17685503
Great question, I've always wanted to answer this.
My ideal relationship would involve
>daily cuddling
>spooning
>kissing
>laying besides each other in bed or on the sofa together while doing our own thing
>talking all the time
>going out together often
>go to the gym together
>be able to talk about anything with her
>not want to keep things bottled up
>give each other peace and time alone when we want it
>lots of cuddling

I want a dream teen romance like the faggot I am

>>17685542
That's a top tier relationship, I don't think it's faggy, I want to cuddle the guy I like

>>17685544
51.5074° N, 0.1278° W?

>>17685550
No, sorry

I made a mistake. I was stalking( saddly xD) on facebook a girl i ve seen in my uni department quite attractive. and i accidentaly clicked add friend.

I havent ever talked to her, we ve just exchanged a couple of looks. She accepted me but, how do I really go talk to her now that i ve made this mistake and already added her?

Im out of ideas.

What the hell is a bad boy and why do girls like them so much?

>>17685557
Send her this:
>Hey, I've been stalking you for a couple months now and I think it's time I introduce myself to you :D

>>17685503
For me I would not mind a girl taking care of me or at least doing so when I am not having the best of days or I feel down.

>>17685560
A boy who is a genetic failure, fails education and fails at maintaining meaningful relationships

Girls like these guys because they usually have big cocks and all girls care about is the size of a mans cock.

>>17685542

Thats bullshiet tier relationship spending os much time with someone in this age will make u get bored of him at this age.
You need personal space and time away from the other to realise he is the one, or at least someone you ll have good time with for years.

Also if u ve never had a gf its obvious u want that stuff. You just want what u see in the movies.

>>17685560
I don't like bad boys. I like guys with offensive and dark humor, and the type that also are probably pretty innocent when it comes to "dirty" things. Girls who go for bad boys are asking for damaged feelings

>>17685568
t. Psuedo intellectual

>>17682886
>What the hell is a bad boy and why do girls like them so much?
I think it's because females often confuse being a bad boy with confidence and females like a Man who is able to be honest about their feelings. Sometimes though they think they can change these guys and it does not work out.

>>17685572
t. a guy who thought this is correct and he had met his love of his life because he was doing exactly this for 2 years, only to realise at some points he got bored because he was exposed too much to her.

>>17685569
This is me.
>always make offensive satirical jokes
>sexually inexperienced
I neber make those jokes around women though because they never realise it's satirical.

>>17685569
> I like guys with offensive and dark humor, and the type that also are probably pretty innocent when it comes to "dirty" things
You've just described me.

>>17685577
no :c

>>17685560
Well, depends on the interpretation, the most valid is probably close to byronic hero ... so it's not surprising people are into that.

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>>17685579
That's H O T

>>17685591
Dropped.

>>17685579
>that also are probably pretty innocent when it comes to "dirty" things

Is this a meme? I lived my whole live surrounded by women in the family (sisters, mom, aunts &c) and I frequently heard from their conversations that they hate this.

Previously I asked if girls get post-shlick depression (they don't).

Now I'm asking WHY girls don't get post-shlick depression considering it does happen to guys?

What is the essential nature of post-masturbation depression?

>>17685503
I like girls who can support themselves. I'm not against helping each other out, but one partner being dependent on the other just seems wrong to me.
anyway,
Ideal:
>shares all the same interests
>not too outgoing, not too shy
>doesnt need constant validation
>steady source of income, around the same wealth as me
>doesnt have a bad relationship with her parents
>capable of existing without looking at her phone every 10 seconds
>wants 1 or 2 kids
>has goals
>likes alone time

>>17685603
Guilt?

Perfect girl:
-------(O)
C==(.Y.)==D
........)..(
.......()-()
.......()-()
.......°°.°°

Any girls like this in London?

>>17685616
literally no ass

>>17685618
Draw her one

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>meet girl on tinder
>she qt, we get along well, first date goes great
>have a few more dates over the next two weeks, by the end of the second week we fugg
>after the fugg I ask her if she thinks "we" are going somewhere, she smiles and says "Yeah, I do, eventually."
>she spends the night in my bed with me
>we spend most of the next day together
>continue to see her a few more times over the following week and a half
>middle of the week we're netflixing, cuddling, she's kidding me and shit, generally a nice time
>we text a bit of fun bants back and forth for the rest of the week
>really like her, but pretty confident I was doing a good job of not completely revealing my power level
>end of that same week I take her out and for the most part things are still good
>nice conversation, laughs had, good vibes
>comes back to my place, we're chatting, everything's, again, seemingly still good
>move to my bedroom to netflix again
>she makes no effort to make physical contact, sits a few inches away from me
>walk her out to her car and she gives me one quick kiss and dips
>text a bit more that night until I fall asleep
>she doesn't hit me up at all the next day
>I text her the day after that and she gives me a curt, cold response
>been like 3 days and she hasn't reached out, we currently have no plans to hang

It's another guy, isn't it? We hadn't decided yet to be exclusive, but she was sending out vibes that really made me think it was heading in that direction.

SEX. I WANT IT.

>>17685626

Maybe it is another guy, maybe she is trying to not appear clingy, maybe there's no other guy but she doesn't feel like involving in a relationship right now, who knows.

VAGINA. I want it.

A question for both genders

>At the supermarket with my mother
>Girl wants to pass in the bread section and so do we
>She says to us you go first
>We pass her later in the store again
>I smile at her
>Looks pretty pissed at me and looks away
>See her again at check out again
>Tries to avoid eye contact with me

I dont understand what i did wrong, i just tried to be friendly, did i do something wrong according to any of you?

>>17685634
Yeah, those are the main things I was considering, and they're basically the same things my friends have been telling me. How should I approach this? My plan has been to give her until Friday to text me, and if she hasn't by then I'll text first and ask when I'm seeing her again. Throughout the month I've known her, I've basically always been the one to text organizing our dates, so I feel like it wouldn't be too weird. What's also throwing me is that she left something at my apartment (something she really likes and uses everyday) and she's yet to come get it despite us talking about how she left it that night.

>>17685655
There are a few things I can think of:
1. She's got resting bitch face
2. She's a bitch
3. She thought it was odd to see an adult grocery shopping with his mother and kinda didn't want to flirt with you because of it

I wouldn't dwell on it; either way nothing you described yourself doing in that post was inherently wrong imo.

>>17685655
Did you say thanks when she let you go first?

Girls
What are some things you'd love to do?

>>17685661
My mom asked me to go with her and i see no problem with that, i admit i was a bit taken back by her reaction.

>>17685664
Of course i did, would be rude otherwise.

>go to plenty of fish
>search up girls in my area
>reminded just how awful British girls are

I wish I had a gf to sit and laugh at these girls with me...

>>17685690
Clearly you're not any better than these girls you want to laugh at.

>>17685696
That's the impression I was going for, glad you found the joke.

Anyway, I'm actually a 10/10 chad so idc what you think

>do you do drugs
>socially
>do you smoke
>socially
>do you drink
>socially

Why do women do drugs ffs. I meet so many straight edge men but never meet women who are straight edge.

Why are men and women so different?

Don't get me wrong, I can look past it, but it just sucks to see somebody you love damage their health.

>>17685716
If you don't like it, don't date them?

>>17685723
What if I like them as a person? Like I said, I can get past it but it BLOWS big time.

How do i convince gf to put my dick in her mouth? And convince her to let me eat her out?
She said its too nasty and only fingers, genitals should touch.

>>17685716
Because women are stupid.

>>17685793
I hope you really, really love her anon.

There is a rich THICC ebony goddess with giant tits on plenty of fish in my area

And its really difficult working up the self control to not make an account

Hold me

>>17685793
1. Trim your pubes
2. Make sure you don't have stank dick
3. Ask her real nice like, tell her you just wanna try it once and if she really doesn't like it you don't have to do it again
4. Try your best to be good at eating poosee so that she has a good time and wants to keep doing oral

>>17685566
Not true but I'll let you entertain your niavete.

Example, you see this girl that you find really attractive so you approach her, you say hi and she says fuck off loser, how do you respond?

Girls,
I'm really shredded, lowest body fat of my life (fluctuates around 8%), vascularity out of control. How do I show this off on social media without looking like a douche?

>>17685850
All girls care about:
>face
>frame
>height
>wallet
>cock size

This is scientific fact. I took physics in high school.

>>17685831
FUCK online dating. It is literally the most obscene, stupid, and pointless way to meet women. Go out there in person, not with a pathetic website.

>>17685855
By thinking 'I guess my fears were true then'.

>>17685857
Spooky

>>17685860
I agree with you. Its cold and dead and attracts desperate girls.

But she has rich parents, giant tits and is a thicc ebony
Hold me ;-;

>>17685857
Pic? You're likely like %11 mayte

>>17685857
You don't. You either accept being seen as a douche or you remain humble and try to impress people in real life instead.

>>17685862
>holds you
Be strong, my son. Perhaps you can go out and find her. Wow her with your devilish charm and roguish good looks.

>>17685855
"wow really ?" and laugh as I leave.
I'm confident in my ability to approach people so she must be pretty crazy, and the situation makes *her* sound retarded.

>>17685857
Girls aren't that dense, it's painfully obvious when a guy is trying to show off his gains by "casually" dropping pool party pictures (let's not even get into shirtless no-face mirror selfies).

For girls

A bit of context: ldr for about a year and a half. We broke up in April. It wasn't messy but we kinda agreed it'd be better if we just didn't talk to each other. I had an idea to write a letter to just tell her how she makes me feel (good shit). I had the idea for the letter like 2 weeks after the breakup. However, the writing + delivering took well over 3 weeks and the letter arrived the weekend before her birthday. I had a mutual friend ask her if she got it and she exploded at him because I had paid for tracking and I was an idiot for asking her.

We've started talking recently and she told me she still had the letter. Does this mean anything? Or is it just something people do when they get stuff? Keep in mind it's been like 6 months and she still hasn't thrown it out.

is her keeping the letter significant from a rekindling romantic interest perspective?

>>17685865
Caliper measured senpai. I was 12% before my cut.
>>17685866
>>17685875
Fug
When I was around 12% BF I would take off my shirt to fan bbqs and girls would be like "ooh daddy" I wasn't sure if it was sarcastic or not but now I feel like a douche.

>>17685875
How long did it take you from your very first approach to feeling comfortable about being rejected?

>>17685821
Is it that bad? First gf and she has no experience with oral

>>17685835
I think i keep it pretty clean but thanks
Will try to ease her into it

>>17685883
You can't be 8% mate. Calipers aren't that accurate.
8% is unhealthy, it requires drugs like DNP.

>>17685883
I mean, that's not as bad. At least there's appropriate context there. It's just going out of your way to post obvious vanity photos to social media that looks douchey.

>>17685887
How old are you two? At a certain age maybe it's fine but you're adults, she shouldn't be ashamed of such a vanilla activity, maybe talk to her girl friends.

>>17685895
if you're*

>>17685862
God, this is my weakness as well, it's a shame I'm a pasty white guy and they are way out of my league.

>>17685889
Yeah I'm not planning on stay in single digits that long hence the want for pics lol. I lost a lot of face fat and have some new insertions though and it's a noticeable drop from my year round BF.
>>17685893
I guess ill just keep the douche antics to real life then and keep my social media lowkey.

>>17685895
Im 24, shes 25.
I was thinking whipped cream or something to make her take it. She said shes bothered by the 'secretions' and thinks its disgusting

>>17685923
Jesus fuck, you deserve a medal for managing to put it inside her.

>>17685923
Are you sure she's really into you? I'm sorry for asking this but this is too weird.

There's a girl I used to hang out with and do stuff with last year, it was always together with our moms because of reasons. We still talk a bit on facebook from time to time. She's very slow to respond in general, even if she's online quite a bit. Yesterday at 13:00 I sent her a message asking her out. It's the next day 23:00 now, and she still hasn't even read my message. Is she trying to tell me something by ignoring me? Should I send her a 'reminder'?

>>17685503
>Guys, what's your ideal relationship?
Pretty much living with a girl that cooks for me.

>And would you like if the girl took care of you rather than you take care of her?
It sounds nice, but everyone lets you down sooner or later. I would appreciate it, but not let myself become reliant on it.

>>17685884
It was less about approaching and more about growing up and maturing emotionally.
I don't give a fuck because I know I'm a pleasant person and fun to be around. They say 90% of the game is confidence and it's true. That being said, try to always have multiple plans to go out (and do go out regularly), so you can be "hey I wanted to do X, want to come?". You won't be as stressed if you don't feel like you have to make shit up on the spot to justify you have a life.

>>17685947
By "do stuff" do you mean hooking up or just like hanging out platonically?

>We still talk a bit on facebook from time to time. She's very slow to respond in general, even if she's online quite a bit.
Not a good sign. I mean, not a fatal one, but between this and the fact that you were basically only hanging out when your moms were around, you're not making it sound like she likes you that much.

>Yesterday at 13:00 I sent her a message asking her out. It's the next day 23:00 now, and she still hasn't even read my message. Is she trying to tell me something by ignoring me?
Quite possibly. She might have seen the preview of the message and felt awkward and not known how to respond.

>Should I send her a 'reminder'?
Absolutely not. Women do not like this kind of thing.

I'm sorry if this seems harsh, but the way you're describing this makes me feel like your moms are friends and that was the only reason you two interacted. Maybe it's because I'm missing some key details, but it just does not seem like you should have asked her out.

>>17685968
Usually it just meant us inviting them over for dinner or just a chat. Or the four of us going out for dinner or going to a movie. We also did a city trip once. There was this one time when I had dinner at their place without my mom. The girl took the day off of work and insisted she cook for me.

Yes, I fear it's a bad sign. But I've been told there are people who are just very careless with messages on facebook. I used to think she liked me, but she sent contradicting signals. I don't know what to make of them.

>Absolutely not. Women do not like this kind of thing.
But what if she ends up not replying at all? Maybe she did honestly forget or looked past my message.

Thanks for replying.

>>17684087
Napes

>>17683476
Nah, but you're in danger of friendzoning yourself.

>>17685993
Again, a little bit of harsh reality here: if she valued talking to you, she wouldn't take so long to get back to you. Especially in a situation like this. I'm not saying she doesn't value your conversation at all, but this kind of thing makes me think that she sees you as a friend at most.

Basically, I think you should wait. If she ever wants to talk to you again, she'll have to open the message, and you'll have your answer then. The only way she wouldn't directly give you an answer would be if she never went to talk to you again.

>>17686019
In June I returned from a vacation to Peru. It's a country she'd also like to visit. I speak Spanish and she doesn't. A few weeks ago she said we should go to Peru together someday with me as her guide. That doesn't sound like something someone who's not interested in keeping contact would say. There was no reason for her to say it.
Shit, this whole situation is quite complex and there are many things I could mention that would shed a new light on all of this. I could write a book about this. Maybe 4chan isn't the place to ask for advice on a serious matter like this one. My best friend has been ignoring me for a while now because I can't stop talking about her. And I don't want to bother other people too much about this. I can't ask my mom, can I? How embarrassing that would be.

Thanks again for your feedback

>Should I send her a 'reminder'?
>Absolutely not. Women do not like this kind of thing.
A-are you sure?

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>>17685876
help

Fellow guys, does it hurt like all hell when you pull your penis skin down to clean it? And is your penis head uber mega painfully sensitive?

>>17682886
Girls, if you're interested in a guy and he doesn't make a move for a long time, even though you both have chemistry and like each other, do you put him in the friendzone? Is the friendzone real?

I fucked up by not making a move on this girl for quite a while and I now fret that I missed the "critical window". Is the friendzone an actual thing? By that I mean, do girls reject guys they'd be interested in because they're already friends? Or is it just a euphemism for being rejected?

Thx and take care <3

Why do women participate in those make-up and skin care multi level marketing schemes instead of getting real jobs? Do they really buy into that "self-empowering, become a mogul" bullshit?

>>17686142
Do you have a tight, long foreskin? I had exactly that (my father did, too) and I went to a urologist to get partially circumsized (cut the tight top off). Best decision of my life. It will be very sensitive and uncomfortable in your underwear for a while but it'll go away.

>>17686162
What, you mean like Younique and Jamberry? Same reason other girls think being 'beauty gurus' and some guys think being 'game streamers' on Youtube are real jobs. They're lazy, lack an education or think that combining their hobby and work is a good thing.

I'd probably say that the women who sell that stuff are better than 'beauty gurus' or 'game streamers' though. All the women I know who sell those things have a real job, and just do it on the side.

>>17686142
Look up how to do foreskin stretching exercises and it will get better over time, the sensitivity wil get better over time by letting your glans get used to touching things , try water at first and then move up slowly from there, whatever you do DONT get a circumsision.

>>17686187
Don't do what this guy says. If you really have a tight foreskin it'll take years to stretch. Partial circumcision solves the problem but doesn't cripple you sexually like a normal one.

>>17686142
Do stretching.

>>17686146
>>17686146
Pls halp <3

>>17686193
If he wants to make a mistake he will regret that's fine by me but the fact that you are trying to convince him to go for a last resort without suggesting any alternatives first is sad.

>>17686193
It doesn't take years if you do it every day, consistently, 6 months tops in his case.

>>17686211
I soeak from experience because I had the same problem. Stretching took a looooong ass time and basically went nowhere. The partial circumcision was a god damn godsend and I don't regret anything. I still have a protecting foreskin, just without the tight tip.

>>17686057
Your best friend sounds kinda shitty. Yeah it can get annoying hearing someone talk about the same shit a lot, but part of being a best friend is putting up with that and helping your bro out.

I think you could tell your mom. In fact that sounds like a pretty good idea, since she can give you a female perspective and she knows the girl involved. There's a chance she could blab to this girl's mom, but you already asked her out, so I don't really think much bad would come of that.

I mean, hey, if you really wanna send her another message, it's on you, bro. I'm just speaking from the experience I have with women. You know this particular girl better than anyone in this thread does, though.

>>17686146
WAKE ME UP INSIDE (I CAN'T WAKE UP)

>>17686146
The friendzone is not real. I either like you or I don't. if I used to like you and nothing happened for a long time and my feelings change, it's not because I made the conscious decision to make you off limits, it's because feelings change and that's perfectly normal.

>>17682886
>Wait for subway
>Loook around while spping my Beer , lock eyes with 8/10 qt sitting on a bench on the other end of the platform
>Suddenly have to think how nice it must be to fuck her, keep eye contact until she looks down
>Imagine I may have creeped her out for a second
>one minute later, she's suddenly standing right next to me and keeps glancing over
>Get gripped by nameless fear of actually approaching her, stare straight ahead and sip beer until subway arrives

Femanons: I could've said ANYTHING to start a conversation at that point, r..right?

>>17686535
ask in the other thread.

>>17684651
isn't being free from attachment a core concept in buddhism?

>>17685603
my guess is that if your some faggot reveling in an afterglow for an hour or whatever like some bitch important shit wouldnt get done. if you get that regret you just get up and leave and move on to something else