ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

How do I discretely ask a girl if she has a boyfriend?

>>17661970
Talk to her

Girls, does a guy wearing cologne make you not want to talk to him? I wear cologne to this one class that this hot sorority girl is in and we sit somewhat next to each other. I do so with the intentions of asking her out, but I've pussied out each time. Do I just go with no cologne tomorrow or is there no harm in wearing it? It's in the morning, so I literally shower and head to class.

Also, I don't have a whole lot of time to talk to her, depending on three options. How do I not make it awkward? Here are my options
>Before first class, she may or may not be there at the same time as me. Recently her seat has been taken and she hasn't sat next to me, so starting conversation would be awkward since she has a friend she talks to
>Between class 1 and 2, but I can't think of a convincing way to talk to her instead of her friend. Seems extremely awkward and hard since there are a lot of students
>After 2nd class, very small window since she sits in the front row and I have to make up a reason to wait for her (my friend and I are in the middle row). Her next class is literally a 1 minute walk away, while I typically head back to the dorm
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

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>>17661979
I guess what I meant to ask, rather, was how I ask it without being too blunt about it. I just don't want her to get upset if I ask directly, as I've heard girls do not like it when guys ask them those kind of things.

>>17661961
What do women think when they see a guy has a huge hentai folder. My gf found mine and shes really upset. And I feel a lot of it is about the fact that its hentai. Ill make a thread about it tomorrow because its late now, but just what kind of response am I in for.

>>17662029
Is she into anime at all? If she is she might think your a loser but she wouldn't be as off put as someone who isn't into anime at all, in which she'll think you're a fucking weirdo

>>17662013
The cologne alone? No, that doesn't make me want to talk to him. Don't think there's any harm in wearing it though.

As for your second question, it's less about when and more about how the two of you interact.

>>17662029
"My god, what a loser"

I am a very straight-forward gal who makes no apologies for liking sex.
However, this seems to attract a lot of men who equate liking sex to being dtf anyone.
How do I attract men who also enjoy sex, but do not assume they're entitled to it just because I'm blunt about it?

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>>17662068
This board is for people with actual problems

>>17662014
Well, you could invite her and her 'Significant other' out for coffee and pokemon-hunting. That lets her know that you see her as more than 'prey' and also gets you the intel on whether or not she's got a main-squeeze.

>>17662068
Stop telling everyone you like having sex. You can be open about it but it shouldn't be a topic of conversation outside of friends or people you would be willing to fuck.

>>17662070

>Real Problems:
>Should I wear cologne or not?

top kek

>>17662065
I'm not worried about the cologne attracting her, but more like pushing her away. Thanks.

Are there any signs I should look for? I'm asking her to join a study group with myself and my roommate (and probably a couple other people), but I don't know if bringing him into the conversation would be awkward or not. I can imagine it will be, but odds are he'll be right there. Also, do I have to worry about her friend entering the conversation or should I just focus on the girl?

What does the average girl think about feminism?

Every girl that I know, including my girlfriend don't really think anything that much of it. Except when I was in Uni there was a bunch of women who were rabid feminsts.

Do girls think of feminists the same way as men look at mens rights activists?

>>17662041
>>17662065
rip. Would it be better if it were regular porn. What would you think then.

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>>17662081
Still a better topic than

"How do I vacuum these particular dicks in to my mouth given my current disposition for sex"

Girls

If a guy who you knew casually, all of a sudden asked you out on a date,
And you rejected.

Would it be too akward to try again?

>>17662086
Radical feminism, like any radical school of thought, can often cause more harm than good. I think men and women should be treated as equally as possible, and where one gender is stronger in one area, it should be utilised and not resisted just for the sake of equality. However, there shouldn't be the assumption that just because you're male you're ___ or just because you're female you're ___, people should be appraised by their own individual merits, not stereotypes.

>>17662091
More normal, but I don't know why you'd have it saved it you can just look at it on the internet.

>>17662082
If you ask her to a study group, that's not really asking her on a date. If you want to get to know her better, then that's fine, but don't act like it's asking her out. And if her friend is there, you'd have to ask her too, it'd just be rude if you didn't.

>>17662095
Awkward? Not really. Would I think he's annoying and a tad stupid for asking again? Yes

>>17662076
That's just it though. I don't go to bars or shit to 'pick up' guys.
I meet people -through- my friends, and they're all giant geeks.
Example: We could be having a conversation about the Avengers. I'll make an off-hand comment about how I think Chris Helmsworth and Scarlet Johansen are both in the 'fuckable' category, and suddenly every conversation after that becomes about sex. As if displaying my comfort on the subject suddenly opens up a flood-gate that can't be stopped. And someone who I was getting to know as a possible contender for mate, suddenly becomes Autist McDouche-canoe.

>>17662086
I still think of myself as a feminist, partially because where I live it's not as bad as what I read online about feminism in the US.
It's more a battle about inequity and injustice, to me, than about women - there are some things that I don't like in society and I wish they disappeared, and some of them affect women more than others.
I dislike those feminists who treat men poorly and blame them for everything wrong on earth. I dislike the idea of women as a protected class. I dislike the whole "society is bad against women!!!" shit.
I don't think it's a urgent issue, or the biggest problem of our society, but definitely something I wish we addressed at some point.

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>>17662124
>giant geek
>avengers
>bi

May a pack of wild niggers rape you at your soonest inconvenience

>>17662082
You're really over thinking it, if anything you have the perfect excuse to ask her out. You can start off with something like how you feel about the class or an upcoming test, and after you do some small talk mention how you and your room mate are planning on making a study group and that it'll be cool if she could come. She'll probably agree and you can ask for her number so that you can hit her up when they meet. I wouldn't start texting her right away, but now you broke the ice and when you sit next to each other you can start talking during and between classes and get to know her that way which DESU is better than texting anyway. Then when you do text her about the study group you can keep texting her and by the time the actual thing comes around you'll be the only one she's familiar with so she'll probably end up talking to you most of the time anyway

>>17662013

Just make sure you're not wearing too much. Less is more. Apply it to your skin only, not your clothes.

>>17662107
faster browsing. No load times. particular fetish. No load times.

What if I told you I watch hentai because I feel like it doesnt effect me as much. Like Im able to immediate distinguish it between reality and made up land. When I watch porn I get regret faps.

>>17662029

Women think varied things. This woman in particular thinks something bad.

You guys are going to have to have a chat about why she's upset.

>>17662068

What's a situation where this has been a problem?

I'm pretty similar to you, I'm the pro-sex person. I'd just say to be straightforward about turning someone down. There's really no trick to avoiding certain kinds of people or controlling what they assume about you. All you can do is set your own boundaries and reinforce them with people you meet.

>>17662093

>>>/r9k/

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>>17662151
Make me

Oh wait

You can't

Girls, what are some easy things to look at for "reading" a girl?

Not just in terms of interest, like anything. Comfortable, relaxed etc.

I'm asking because I see my friend on breaks in classes most of the time, and I like to believe she's more comfortable with just me, one on one. She seems more laid back or something. And she's began saying stuff more specific to me. Like, I have a specific sense of humor that seems to make her laugh anytime, and she's now like, "This is why I love you" and shit, and I'd take that as being really comfortable with me, no? As when before I'd joke, she'd just laugh and move on.

I doubt she likes me which is why I'm just asking to see if there's any concrete sign that does confirm my suspicion that she really does enjoy being with me alone or not.

I'm just confused with her, I can read her behavior and actions for the most part, but aside from that I have no clue how to read her reactions with boys. I have a gut feelings that she likes me in a different way than most other guys, as if I'm safe and she enjoys being around me a lot, but that's not enough for her to say she likes me more than just friends. She's told me in the past I'm a "special friend" to her or some shit, but I really can't tell.

Basically, what are some things I should look out for? I can't really think of any and was wondering if any girls here could help me out in figuring out things to keep an eye out for.

How do I disclose my cold sores (oral herpes) to my gf? I've had it since I was a kid

Sorry to post again but I got no love last time

HALP ME PLZ

>>17662124

Not trying to bust your chops, but it sounds like you want them to be okay with you being open about sexual subjects but you expect otherwise from them. Maybe you don't realize you're doing this.

Or maybe it's because you gravitate toward people who have a tendency toward being socially awkward and they don't know when to quit. I'd say just be straightforward, but still cordial. "Okay, Greg, that's enough, matey. Don't get all worked up hahahahachangesthesubject"

I got a girlfriend and decided to introduce her to my friends, they all really like her
I feel like she's about to break up with me though because she just isn't really talking to me anymore

so I know my friends are going to ask and I'm going to have to tell them.
I just feel so embarrassed about this whole thing and don't know what to do

>>17662157

You cats are pretty weird.

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>>17662173

I'm the dagger in the dark waiting for those who would trespass on hallowed ground

you have kissed already I presume? give her a card with a small mirror taped to the inside and a message that says GUESS WHO HAS HERPES!?

>>17662170
Just smile and say it didn't work out.
You're not the first couple who broke up, ever.
They are going to talk shit about her and joke, and then you'll talk about something else.

>>17662124
I think the problem you're talking about is going to happen a lot, no matter who you talk to.
Most guys don't know how to handle a woman who isn't 'demure' about sex, and they think that your openness gives them a free pass to suddenly say everything they've always wanted to and you'll be cool about it.

I'd even say that most of them might not even realize than what they're dong is bad manners and awkward af, because they don't have much experience talking about sex-stuff with women.
tl;dr
it's still new territory and most guys haven't figured it out yet.

>>17662165

Tell her you need to talk about something. Tell her about it, explain the ins and outs of what that means in case she doesn't know enough to know she's not going to automatically get it. Answer any other questions she has.

>>17662165
>>17662183
guess I typed over the post numbers :/

>>17662197
I'm certain I haven't spread it to anyone, my last outbreak was a few years ago. But sometimes if I get a really bad fever I get it.

>>17662186
I don't even want to break up, but she has really been ignoring me. I haven't seen her in over a week, she doesn't really respond to my texts and when she does it's one word answers.

I asked her today if she would like to go somewhere the next day she is free and she didn't respond.
Tomorrow I'm thinking about texting her again and saying "I can take a hint, I just wish you would be more up front with me and not blow me off"

maybe that's unwise, I don't know

>>17662194
Thanks anon, if she freaks out do you think its justifiable?

>>17662124
Wait so these are people that you're dating? Like I said before, don't talk about sex if you aren't friends (as in people who are not looking to get into a relationship with) or you aren't willing to fuck them. If you're dating, hold off on talk of sexual nature until you would be willing to fuck that person.
When I was on a second date with this guy he said how he had to hold himself back from kissing me on two different occasions when we were talking, and how usually he kisses, if not has sex with girls by the first date. When I asked him why he felt he needed to hold back he said something like I was wholesome and he felt that he needed to respect that.
I'm Not saying I'm a prude either. I have sex and I like it too; you aren't exactly special in that regard. But if you want a respectable guy who doesn't see u as an easy lay who's dtf, then don't be so open about it. Ive gone out with guys who talk about girls they've fucked and sexual history while we were still getting to know each other, and to me that tells me he's just looking to fuck. For all I know he's just "open" about how much he likes sex, but it made it seem like he was dtf.

>>17662209

Justifiable.... I mean, I can't blame someone for not knowing the facts about oral herpes offhand and misassuming that it's putting her at risk is what's likely to freak her out, right? So yes and no.

Maybe you can have a short-hand information printed out for her to confirm the truth of the matter.

>>17662167
I don't THINK I have a double-standard. I could be wrong, but my female friends and I have conversations that involve sex without them being constant or creepy.
If it were just sprinkled into the conversation, I'd have no problem. But after the 4th time in an evening someone tells me that I must have a lot of experience with tit-fucking, I cut my losses and try to avoid the guy.

I try to meet people who share similar interests, but it might just be that people who like the same things I do fall into that 'no social skills' category.

Which leads back around to my first question: how do I meet guys I can relate to, who won't go full on neck-beard? Am I stuck slogging through the socially defunct masses or suppressing any conversation about sex?

>>17662209
tell her the truth. That the medical community wants her to get it and that in about 20 years it will be uncommon not to have it.
People are uniformed about oral herpes because the cdc wants them to be. Did you know that doctors arent obligated to tell you if you have genital herpes. Its a ploy to make herpes widespread like the other form of it. Chicken pox.
Also tell her because of this no matter who she kisses theres an 80% chance they have oral herpes. Also tell her that the safe period when you dont have cold sores isnt safe at all and that shes still at risk from kissing people who dont show it. Its just dont to 20% contraction rate. But that basically means every 5 times she kisses someone, she probably contracted oral herpes. This is important so that she doesnt think the cold sores are different from anyone else or that you are less safe than anyone else.

>>17662241

Pretty much. I run with the weirdo crowd myself. What you're already doing, cutting your losses and avoiding people whose personalities you can't stand, is pretty much what I do generally. Learning to be straightforward without being nasty was a valuable skill I acquired too. It's awkward at first but you'll get used to it and really come to appreciate how effective it is.

"I know we get saucy with the talk sometimes, but you tend to take it too far and that puts me off." Just really simple like that.

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>>17661961
>/adv/ - Advice
Let's settle this once and for all.. Up or down?

>>17662223
>hang out with friends
>friends introduce cute, new guy
>hang out as a group several times
>joke with new guy
>start getting to know each other in group setting as friends
>topic amongst older friends swings toward sex
>mention something non-prudish

>cute new guy: OMG SEXSEXSEX TITS ASS UR HOT
>Self: Damn it, not again.
>Hey dude, can ya maybe talk about something different?
>Nah, you're cool with sex-stuff right?


It's like there's no distinguishing in the dude's head between general commentary ABOUT sex, and directing sexual advances TOWARDS someone.

>>17662137
I know women dont all think the same thing. But a womans perspective is better than no perspective. If I know what a lot of women think I can get a better read on which group she fits in with. Right now Im in the dark.

>>17662261
both the seat and the cover down, for both male users and female users. anybody who says otherwise is playing a double-standard and placing themselves in a lower position than others in the household.

>>17662261
Down
Because everyone sits to shit.

>>17662261

Down, it's the normal state of rest for the seat, like a closed cabinet door.

>>17662261
Up because fuck bitches

>>17662170
talk to her IRL and nudge the idea that you think something might be off with her. if you know for sure she doesn't have interest in you anymore, break up with her right then and there.

this is the most mature way you could do this. you will gain more from your choices and experiences here.

>>17662263

Some women know and watch anime and understand that the girls in the images aren't meant to be children. Some women know and watch anime and still find that shit offputting. Some women don't know anime and think they're looking at child pornography. Or some kind of weird depravity because they didn't know that shit even existed. So one perspective isn't going to help you if it doesn't sync with your girlfriend's.

Talk to her. Ask her what upsets her about it. Work from there.

>>17662068
create a clear path between guys you want in your intimate life, and guys who are just acquaintances.

i'm a guy here and i don't have friends who are girls. i choose not to have them. every place i work at i choose not to be friends with girls there and they sometimes see this negatively, basically because i don't want to fuck them. well i do have friend girls... fwb... but none of them know one another. and i do not go out of my way just to make friend girls.

for the average guy, he wants to hug up on every co-worker, school mate, girl in their friend's circle, female friend of a friend, etc.... why? because it is socially beneficial. it opens up new windows of opportunity to meet more peers and other people so that life feels like it is progressing and entertaining.

now if i apply this to my own life, i now have a ton of friend girls from every place i am a part of, who constantly want me to be part of their cliques, little groups of friends, outings, etc. and i now have more problems because they assume things about me for basically not talking to them anymore, or choosing to not go out for drinks with them one weekend.

point: it's ridiculous and doesn't benefit me at all. so what i'm saying is... maybe don't be friends with guys whom you don't want to fuck. just don't talk to them and try to build security relationships with these guys. it changes nothing except how much more content your ego feels around their masculine energy. it works for me with girls, so this is my advice for you.

>>17662278
Im not asking for one. Im asking for many. Yours included. Itd be easier if you stopped saying women arent the same person so I can get some meaningful data.

>>17662133
lol? apply it to clothing- always. 1 spritz is enough. 2 if you are feeling bold. anymore than that and you either need to buy higher quality cologne/perfume or you are just fucking yourself. but on your skin? what are you an ignorant girl?

>>17662068
>i like to have lots of sex
>i attract men who like to have lots of sex
???

>>17662309

Applying it to clothing is a bad idea. Cologne is made to be applied to skin. The oils in it adhere to your skin and your body heat helps atomize the scent. Plus the scent becomes unique when it mixes with your own musk, so to speak.

>>17662309

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2015/10/14/guide-to-fragrance/

What are signs that a guy is a virgin?
He makes immature sex jokes and is really awkward with physical advances so I'm not sure if he's just awkward or a virgin.

>>17662314
As OP made clear in her posts, there's a difference between liking sex, and being an obnoxious twat who thinks they were just offered it when they weren't.
OP's trying to avoid the latter group.

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Skipping all the other bullshit surrounding my random question - Women, would you date seriously someone 10 years your senior? Would your family find that super creepy, especially at 18 and 28?

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>>17662068
>Im a whore but dont want to be treated like a whore
Whores these days. My fucking sides when.
Its people like you which make women look bad. But man am I having a laugh.

>>17662334

I wouldn't, but I have admittedly a prejudiced opinion of someone who specifically goes after people significantly younger than them. Plus I just get on better with men my own age (19).

>mfw boys think they know how to wear perfume
It should be worn on your skin, specifically in places like the neck, wrists, behind the ears, etc. It should also not be rubbed in after applying as that degrades the scent faster.

>>17662340

>>>/r9k/

>>17662342
Shut your fupa fag nobody with a dick bigger than 6 inches cares

>>17662340
Nah, whores get paid.
Nobody can afford me.

Besides, I like sharing art with people who appreciate it.

>>17662343

>>>/whore/
This shit is funny as fuck though. You are welcome to stay. I like laughing at people.

>>17662341
Not specifically looking for women that much younger, just happened to have one hanging around our group a lot now and was curious.

Even on my side, I try to look for women 21+ simply because every woman I've known changed after her 21st. Some became sloppy drunks I didn't want to be around. Others became village bicycles. Some completely reformed their lives into a positive, but the negative ones stand out more.

>>17662257
>period when you dont have cold sores isnt safe at all

is this really true? I've read that about 20 - 30% of americans have it, but if it spreads that easily wouldnt that number be much higher?

>>17662354
>I do it for free
God fucking dammit this is comedy. I wasnt falling asleep but now I cant stop laughing.

>>17662334
I'm dating a guy who is 33 as a 20 yr old and I have a 19 yr old friend dating a 29 yr old. The age difference isn't a huge deal the older you get, like a 40 and 50 year old, but it looks bad when there's such a big gap and the younger person is in our age group. Especially to family since their first instinct is that you're being taking advantage by someone older than you. Everyone else will think that there's either some emotional issue with that guy that keeps him from getting a girl his own age, or that you're in it for money or something.
Honestly the judgement is somewhat valid, since as an 18 yr old you'll be doing a lot of growing and changing and maturing in the next couple of years, but in the end you are legally an adult. it isn't illegal, and as long as you aren't being pressured into anything you're free to make your own life choices. You'll get judged no matter what you do so might as well make choices that you want

>>17662342
This. Spray on wrists, dab those 'wet spots' on the skin behind your ears. And if the scent is subtle enough, spray a cloud behind you and walk backwards through it.
That way, when you hug someone, they smell it, but it isn't wafting off of you in a cloud.

>>17662361
Yeah, and its spreading faster in the younger generation because they have no conservative values.

>>17662334
I am dating someone 9 years older.
My family thought he was a bit creepy at first, now they love him.

I was 21 when we started dating tho.

>>17662363
Huh, very well put.

If you don't mind me asking, how did y'all meet your current beaus?

I met up with this guy a couple of times, and this week he was supposed to let me know when he was free to hang out.

Instead, he texted me today, and we had a short convo that he ended abruptly. He didn't ask about when I was free or hanging out or anything.

Isn't that a little strange? If he wanted to hang out with me he'd ask wouldn't he?

>>17662362
Hey, if you think that there's something wrong with a woman who enjoys sex for her own sake, that's your problem. None of them would want you anyway.

With that attitude, good luck finding a woman who isn't a meek robot or a christ-fag.

>>17662324
informative. much better reply than the other. considered.

>>17662380
>Im a whore for my own sake
Its too late to feel pity. Its just hilarious to me.

>>17662332
everyone has immature moments, but it doesn't necessarily mean we aren't experienced in the subject matter we talk about... but we are inexperienced with conducting ourselves as a... matured version of ourselves when it comes to talking about the subject matter.

the best way would be to ask if they have a gf, or when the last time they had one was.

that redhead with the glasses who kinda drools, i'd say he's a virgin. that guy who says immature jokes and anti-gay stuff among his buddies, i wouldn't necessarily say he is one. but it is kinda implied. idk if these examples make sense.

thing is experience can be judged but all we see is the results (current version of the person) and not the work or time applied to the activity or subject itself.

>>17662333
this happens to both males and females. there is a double-standard where males are more predatory by nature than females are. in modern society they are still seen this way unless you apply age-play such as cougars.

>>17662388
I'm confused. Who else would I 'be a whore' for? Who is anyone a whore 'For' if not themself?

I'm not doing it for my country or my family, so that leaves -me-.

>>17662334
my father's 10 years older than my mother
if both people are mature adults there's no problem.
Note: 18 year old girls are generally not mature adults

>>17662332
if you're the type of girl who cares, you're the type of girl who can just ask him how he feels about sex before marriage

>>17662380
>None of them would want you anyway.
I have a question: what do people get out of insulting random trolls on a cherokee basket-weaving forum?

>>17662342
false. screw the top off and leave the bottle open in your jacket pocket (the one with the little towel in it) and the scent never leaves your nostrils. win win.

>>17662365
this. also don't spray your damn hair. with that being said don't spray your damn furniture.

>>17662373
I was working at a restaurant and my guy ate there one day. He asked for my number and I turned him down at first since I don't like to give my number out at work, but he came back and I was quitting that place the next week anyway so I figured why not haha.
My friend met her guy through an online game. Apparently he was a part of some group that played together and they ended up talking alone and feelings eventually developed.
To be honest I don't think I plan on telling my family about my guy any time soon because of the creep factor, which is a shame because I actually do enjoy being with him. I wish the gap wasn't so big...

>>17662377
maybe he thought that he was meant to let you know he was available only if he was available. if he wasn't then he wouldn't mention he was or wasn't.

if not this maybe he was expecting you to initiate the idea again. it won't hurt to ask him again because he is a guy and we don't perch among one another and gossip the same ways females do. you really won't have any loss asking him again.

>>17662377
anyone?

>>17662418
ah, sorry just saw this.

the 2 things with that is 1) he mentioned he was just "hanging out"

and 2) i always propose hanging out. i think he knows this too, and is playing the game of having me be the more interested person maybe.

>>17662357

I've been asked out by dudes in their early 30s before. I always ask them if they date women in their 30s and why they inevitably don't. Again, I'm fully admitting it's a prejudice on my part.

>>17662411
Not the best idea. As another anon pointed out earlier, it's intended to mix with a person's skin oils and pheromones to create a unique and flattering odor, It's intended to cement an impression of you in the mind of whoever you're meeting. Smell bypasses the prefrontal cortex and goes straight to your amygdala, the more primitive part of the brain, where the olfactory memories are quickly filed and shuffled into long-term memory.

>>17662377

Sounds like he's drying to game you. Pick a week. Ask him if he's free to do something, if so what day. Maybe tell him what days work for you. If he doesn't make a plan or even reply, give that one a pass and move on.

>>17662380

This

>>17662162

No help?

Even with just the situation by itself?

I really like being with her but I also feel like I'll probably feel terrible if she ever does get a boyfriend.

I'm just so confused, I feel like she likes me but I think its only because she's the only real girl friend I ever really had.

>>17662430
>drying to game you
what does that mean?

>>17662434

*trying

woop

game you, as in play pick up artist/the game/red pill shit. keep you in tenderhooks so he can control the situation. run the fuck away from that shit.

>>17662422
ah, he mentioned it.
maybe his relationship with him is more distant because you have less in common.
but it could also be some game. if it is that's some bs and he's probably a teen... but remember both guys and girls play these kinds of politics games.
but if he is a friend i'd be more inclined to think he just doesn't want to chill with you that weekend.

i just have to mention this last thing: please don't try and gossip about this with your girl friends, your emotions could get heated or built up and the next time he walks past you or sees you, he will see something is wrong and will understand that you have been talking about him negatively, which would potentially push him further away.

leave this as it is, don't overthink it, understand he might have intimate interest in you, but might not be ready to reveal that to you in ways, yet. maybe you need to express yourself directly and maturely for him to understand you better.

>>17662436

i see. i mean honestly, you're probably right. i think it just pisses me off cause i like him a lot, and i'm frankly kind of out of his league?

he stopped texting me today but i'll text him tomorrow and see if he's free. if not i think i'll give up.

>>17662433
Here's the thing Anon. She either
A) Likes you as a potential mate, and is afraid you'll be disappointed with her once you learn she's not virginal/is screwed up like everyone else.
B) Likes you as a person with whom she doesn't have to worry about those pesky sex-hormones getting in the way of having a friendly relationship.
Here's the tricky part; if it's B, then admitting you like her could shatter that 'safe' bubble if you're not careful. If it's A, then she might let things go until you say something or move to someone in whom she's actually LESS invested so as to avoid REAL heart-ache.
cont...

>>17662440

well look at it this way. you like him only as much as you now him. but as you learn more, particularly through this behavior, you find he isn't what you thought. so the person you like doesn't exist.

that is assuming what i said was right. here's hoping for your sake he makes that date with you.

>>17662437
nah, the reason i'm interested in him so much is because we weirdly have a lot in common. moreso than i think i've had with any other guy. our convos in person are pretty great, and we had sex too which has been good.

so with all this, i'm like wtf. i'm here, i want to hang more, have sex more, what are you doing??

>>17662442
My best advise is to relay to her that you suspect exactly what I just said. If it's A, the she'll admit it and feel relieved that you're not threatened by her insecurities. If it's B, she sees that you are more concerned for her mental health and well-being than in your own wish-fulfillment.
Hope that advise helps, Anon,

>>17662446
well shit how that i know this maybe he is also hooking up with other girl friends. i mean it's not like he is in your face about it.
if this is the case at least he isn't making up a story, "umm i have to do my hair" type of thing.
if this is not the case, he could have also just informed you that he has other plans already, or that he is just busy but would like to again.
but even then... girl tend to take this as an excuse to begin with. so it makes him look like he is using excuses or lying just to avoid being with you again.
however... there is the chance that he might think you are catching feelings for you. so he doesn't want to continue being intimate with you in order to avoid himself looking like he is playing you. a lot i mean a lot of girls catch feelings for guys who were honest about being fwb and once the guy tells them they don't want them, they see the guy as being a player or deceptive in some way.
...but the intent of being in a committed or LTR was never stated to begin with.

so what i'm saying here, with all these possibilities- and then some, it is ultimately a big miscommunication between the two of you, and you are both at fault on some level.

again, try to not overthink it; be clear with your intents with him, but let him be himself as well.

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>>17662377 >>17662419
maybe he just forgot, maybe he's busy, who knows
remind him about it
>If he wanted to hang out with me he'd ask wouldn't he?
If you wanted to hang out with him, you'd ask him wouldn't you?

>>17662422
>playing the game of having me be the more interested person maybe.
no, fuck that, fuck that very much. Only women and sociopaths actually enjoy that game
this kind of bullshit makes dating much harder than it has to be
instead of just telling the guy a few simple words out loud you spend all this time working on rube goldberg explanations for his behavior with other neurotic strangers on the internet like >>17662461

>>17662393
The first thing you wrote is exactly why I'm questioning it. He makes 'that's what she said' jokes, tiny penis jokes and once called some food we were eating "better than sex". So while his sense of humor is kinda immature, he doesn't shy away from the topic. Actually, thinking about it, the only time it's really brought up is when he makes those kind of jokes.
But then on the other hand, when it comes to being physical without joking around, I can tell he's unsure of himself. He has to work up the courage to hold my hand, which only lasts maybe a minute before he lets go and opts to wrap his arm around my shoulder. He kinda tries to get comfortable and will keep drawing his arm back to himself or around my waist, but it always ends in him just poking me and making a fart noise or something stupid, or asking if I'm ticklish and playing it off. I mean, we've been talking for four months now and we finally kissed each other today, and even then it was just a quick peck.
He's been going so slow that I actually thought he lost interest in me at one point. The kicker is that we met on tinder lmao

>>17662461
>>17662464
yeah but i always ask him and i get the sense he realizes that, and wants me to keep being the one.

he has this like, apathetic affront he puts on via text but in real life he's not that like that at all.

also im certain he isnt fucking any other girls, so the fact that im readily available for sex makes me just think he aint that interested.

>>17662465
but how slow have you been going with him? slower than him?

>>17662468
>apathetic affront he puts on via text
it's probably not a front, just an inevitable drawback of text-based communication
we can't type out our emotions very well
right now you can't see the look on my face
or my body language
or anything else
guys are already bad at expressing emotions and through text it's even worse

>>17662449

Well, I have asked her out previously, like twice?

She said yes, but I knew by the way she said it she wasn't committed, and told me before the date that she wasn't expecting anything out of it and didn't want to hurt me or something. I just canceled to avoid any awkwardness on it, and I texted her a bit more about it and she told me that her ex boyfriend of like 3 months cheated on her like 2 months prior to me asking her out. She told me this cause she said she was on emotional tilt and couldn't reciprocate feelings for anyone, even if she wanted to, and said she only saw me as a friend at that moment. She said she needed to figure herself out first and continually talked about the ex who cheated, blaming it on him. I can attest she really was crazy about him, but IDK if I bought her entire thing about it.

It's a rejection through and through, and I didn't really talk much beyond that for the entire summer till she messaged me a couple times before the current semester started. A good 4 months of me not contacting her I think? Then we saw each other on breaks in classes and now I'm at the point where I posted here.

I doubt she'd be scared I would be disappointed lmao

>>17662468
how are you certain he isn't fucking other girls?

through text we all seem different. look for direct communication to confirm things.

maybe he sees your friendship as having too many things attached to it. like small talk and social gossip all aside from you two hooking up. for me, this is the kind of thing that pushes me away from female fwb. because it makes it seem like the girl is about something else than what we agreed upon to begin with.

my parents owe me money for reproducing

>>17662476

Actually, re-reading the convo, I didn't notice this before - she said she doesn't feel like she can like me more than friends. Like straight up says, "I don't feel like I can like you more than a friend. I'm in a state where I really can't return feelings, even if I wanted to. I'm really sorry."

I'm just gonna stop being an idiot and let it pass, I'm okay just seeing her occasionally. If she ever does like me as more than a friend, ball is in her court.

>>17662479
i'd be pretty fucking shocked if he was. i'm not 100% sure but still pretty certain.

also we never established anything. which yeah is for sure why things sucks now but i just figured the fwb was kind of implied. i never text him to just chat, and we don't have the same social circle so i don't gossip with him either.

>>17662476
Well, then, Anon, you've answered your own question. She is able to act relaxed and joke with you and call you 'special' because you're non-threatening. She turned you down, and trusts you to respect that boundary.
If you're encountering some second-hand angst from her undeveloped relationship status and think you'd be uncomfortable around whomever she decides to eventually date, that isn't just exclusive to people with romantic feelings.
I get a sinking feeling in my stomach when I think about my brother's or my bestie's new SOs.
And if it gets too painful to be around her, just tell her that you have some personal things to sort out, and give yourself a bit of distance.

>>17662486
Good for you Anon. Very mature take on the situation.

>>17662493

I know what's making me feel like this - she's pretty, she's the only girl who's a legitimate friend, and I really just don't have experience here.

Even so, I still have this stupid gut feelings she likes me moreso than most other guys because of how comfortable she seems, but you did help me realize it's probably because our feelings are out in the open with each other.

Just part of me I guess still wants there to be a possibility, and I just don't know how big that part still is, but it must be kinda big if I'm posting on 4chan looking for anonymous advice.

God, I just really wish it didn't turn out like this, most stuff in my life usually goes like this though so I probably shouldn't have expected something to actually work out smoothly.

>>17662470
At first I tried to initiate at least physical contact. We met on tinder, and although I didn't want to hook up or anything, it was pretty clear that there was a mutual attraction and the idea that something more could happen was there. On our first date, which I ended up initiating, we went to an art museum. I would lean into him and tried to wrap my arm around his, but he paid no attention to it. It almost felt like there was a wall between us. He wasn't even going to hug goodbye, that was something else I initiated. But he had no problem pointing out the tiny penises on the statues.
So I thought he ended up not liking me and was going to cut my losses, but he would keep texting me. He ended up going away for the summer and we talked the whole time and I ended up liking him more. He said how he wanted to meet up when he came back, and we did. This was when he started with the whole hand thing. During that date he kissed my hand, so I kissed his cheek and told him I was happy he was back in the states. Maybe that scared him or something because after that we would hang out a lot but there was no progress at all until tonight.
It really feels like I'm with a friend when in with him in person, but there's no issues when it comes to texting. Were both 20 and it almost feels like I'm trying to start something with a 16 year old

>>17662487
girls i know assume i fuck every girl i meet and am ultra-promiscuous. but the thing is i am very picky, but only somewhat promiscuous. there is really no way i can tell them otherwise. i have a certain look. and the gossip.

now that i know you don't just text to chat, nor hang in the same social circle, it sounds more like he simply doesn't have much interest in you.

sorry but i have to ask you to describe your sex with him in detail.

>>17662507
haha, well i think it's pretty good. he complimented my oral, and said he loves my body.

it was good sex from my perspective. he seemed to enjoy himself too.

i think i'm good at sex?

>>17662504
it sounds like his style is just more laid back. he might be more shy and self-conscious around you because he understands investing too much too soon can cause girls to push away. maybe your advances only showed to him that you were only comfortable with that amount of intimacy.
on the flip: if i treat a shy girl i know the way you are treating this guy, i'd also have no idea whether or not i should advance more or just back off. because the girl hasn't given me much to work with. i've advanced with girls who have given me ALL of the signals, too, and sure enough my advances have pushed them away further. know what i mean?

i'd say just go for it and keep going. even if he says he isn't ready for it yet, it's really not a big loss at all for you. for now you will understand him better. and again, us guys don't gossip about girls and act like they are all weird and creepy and unsafe to be around because we didn't expect them to act a certain way with us. you really won't have much of any loss just going for it. right now we are both just convo-masturbating one another.

>>17662512
he definitely enjoyed it too, then.
he could be seeing other girls or is entering a more ltr with one.
again, don't sweat it.

This question can be answered by either gender but I don't think it needs its own thread.

its one of my friends birthdays today and a mutual friend posted a photo on my friends fb because its his bday. I'm in the photo too but he only tagged himself and the friend (I wasn't tagged). Was it a snub? I'm quite good friends with both so not sure why I wasn't tagged in the photo too. Should I message my friend to ask him to tag me in it as well or would that be petty/weird?

>>17662540

Not a snub. Sole purpose of the pic was a birthday wish.

>>17662517
I usually don't have to initiate anything when it comes to guys, which I guess is why I interpreted it as a lack of experience oh his part.
After he's come back I haven't really initiated any advances since Im kind of discouraged by the lack of response that I got when I was trying, but I kinda encourage the steps I see him take? Like, if he tried to hold my hand or wrap his arm around me I'll try to mirror his movements and I don't linger on any awkward moments.

I think I'll keep with it for a while more, and since he made the move to actually kiss me today I think I might start matching his advances too. I don't see sex in the near future at all but I don't mind that too much. It's fun to spend time with him so if he wants to move at his own pace that's cool, I don't think I'll bring the topic up any time soon. Thanks

>>17662545
I don't think it was either. I did notice other peoples photos that included other people, they were tagged too. Friend probably thought of it only as a bday wish for specific friend. I shouldn't worry about it

>ask friend to check out something with me
>she gives a nonreply at first
>this is probably because she's asked me to stuff and I've either said no or didn't reply
>eventually does agree and says "let's see how this goes"
>doesn't mind getting touchy

Did I still do good?

What does an ugly guy do?

I'm so tired of being lonely but girls write me off the moment I meet them.

(No, not just hot girls or whatever other cop-outs you come up with)

When I meet new girls (through friends or whatever) they just look straight through me like I'm some insignificant little roach. Sometimes I even see the hate in their eyes for me polluting their presence

>>17662615
>What does an ugly guy do?
Accept it.
Maybe one day you'll find a nice girl who likes your personality enough to get past it.
Or maybe not.
That's life as an ugly dude. Not much you can do but hope.

>>17662615
I know the feel bro. I've hung out with women before and they always put me down and insult my eyes/smile/skin or some shit. Just try to ignore it.

One thing I've noticed is how they treat me like I'm a huge asshole, even if they've only just arrived and I haven't said anything to anyone. If I ask them to pass me a bottle to fill my drink or whatever it's like I asked them to get their tits out

If you're ugly you're just automatically assumed to be a rapist

Girls, how much is intelligence a turn off?
I'm failing A level chemistry and physics. Might get a C if I'm lucky.
Feel like a failure though.

>>17662642
Second this question. I have an "high IQ" and get things a little faster.
Last time I went to a party a guy called me " a smart dude". He was super chill and I befriended him, but I was really suprised that I let off this vibe. Should I work on it?

Met a girl on a internship a year ago, She had a boyfriend then, but we still hung out just the two of us as friends first and colleagues second.

We caught up recently, and well now, i guess i kinda fancy her. She asked me for dinner as an open question, but I reached out to her when i had the time. Again, just the two of us. She showed me her favourite desert spot and wanted to catch a film with me, but it was squeeze for me getting back home in time, so we didn't. I ended the evening on an awkward hug. She was open to us meeting again for dinner or checking out a few areas together. She seemed really happy to see me, more so that I did at the start (I was still happy to see her of course) .Shes a bubbly person and likes to keep busy though.

She continued working at the place we did the internship. And I wouldn't mind rejoining the same company for a different set of career reasons. Don't really have a lot of experience with dating and i'm not the best looking guy.

So questions, How do I find out if she has a Bf?

I'm really bad at reading signs, but how do girls act interested in a guy?

Would I scare her off if i asked her out? I moved to this city permanently recently and don't know much people, so it'd be nice to still have her as a friend. Girls here ever blank a guy that might be interested in you romantically?

And lets say the above happened. I'd lose one on my contacts on the inside of the company i may want to rejoin someday.

Not really sure what to do /adv/, wish i could dispense some advice, but as i said before, i'm too inexperienced. But I'll still give it a go:

>>17662377
Perhaps try asking him?

>>17662013
Depends on the scent surely? I'd buy a decent one and wear it only occasionally, not all the time.

>>17662642
... why should intelligence be a turn off at all?

>>17662642
Comment on some things, not arrogantly as a know it all but based on what you read/experienced, you don't have to know the answer,r just be thoughtful, reflective and have well rounded opinions.

Perhaps you know about a type of old building in your area and it's history, How a bumble bee is able to fly, how different foods from different cultures are prepared etc.

Those subjects are tough for most people, I mean most people wouldn't take those ones in favour for something 'easier'. Just make sure you have opinions and your own thoughts about things.

Having graduated university and getting a new job in the city, I've realised that A levels are important, but there are other options if you feel that they don't suit you. You've got a year to turn it around as well, so buckle down and put it in the effort.

>>17662663
I mean I'm stupid, proof by my wording :k

>>17662664
Thank you for the advice. I really want to earn a decent living and be able to support a family. I'm just feeling like a failure right now.
Probably won't go university. I'm lacking ambition and its very difficult to pick myself up right now.

I've been talking with this girl online on a regular basis for 4 months now. Almost every day we would send each other big long messages about all sorts of subjects from the intellectual to the artistic to the casual and humourous. In these 4 months I felt like we seemed to agree on many things and shared a lot of viewpoints with one another that we both admitted we hadn't shared with anyone else. Eventually we agreed to meet up and while I was nervous about it, we spent 9 hours straight talking to each other, laughing, eating food beside the water in a very "date like" setting even though it wasn't a date, just a friendly "let's meet up and get to know each other" thing. When it got late enough that we had to leave (which was a surprise to both of us), we walked to the bus station and I asked her if she had a good time to which she replied something along the lines of "I think if it's this late that's a pretty good sign I had a good time". After we departed I messaged her a couple days later and we seemed to hit it off like usual, until suddenly she told me she would be really busy for the next "couple" of weeks and so she wouldn't have much energy to reply to me. Since then she's posted stuff online but has taken weeks at a time to reply to my messages (even though they weren't very long in comparison to our usual ones). What I'd like to know is why is she flat out avoiding me all of a sudden? Even when we met up we talked about all sorts of stuff we could do together (mostly at her suggestion) and how she wanted to hang out with me soon. I feel like I fucked up somehow but I don't know what I did wrong. Does she really think I'm that obnoxious of a person in person that she doesn't even want to keep me around as a friend anymore? I'm not so much romantically invested in her (even though I was open to the possibility) so much as I feel rejected that she seems to not want anything to do with me, which sucks because I really valued talking to her.

>>17662739
Not a girl, but i reckon girls do this because they don't want to lead guys on. Maybe shes seeing someone else as well.

Sorry to hear anyway dude.

>>17662642
note that almost every average person believe they are intelligent, so I'd say it doesn't matter what they claim, only what they have achieved. Don't worry about it.

>>17662664
>Comment on some things, not arrogantly as a know it all but based on what you read/experienced, you don't have to know the answer,r just be thoughtful, reflective and have well rounded opinions
true because knowing things like
>type of old building in your area and it's history, How a bumble bee is able to fly, how different foods from different cultures are prepared etc.
doesn't say anything about your intelligence.

Girl here. For years I've been friends with a guy who's a lot younger than me (he was a minor when we got to know eachother). He's a very smart and sweet guy, but he was dealt a shit hand at life. I'm one of the few friends he has, and I've always felt very protective of him, and I've done my best to be a good person to him because damn it he deserves to have someone who's nice to him. Well, the problem now is that he has very obviously fallen for me, and I'm in a very happy relationship. He doesn't hit on me or try to get me to break up with my bf, he seems to respect my relationship. I don't know if I hurt him more than I help him if I stick around but can't return his feelings. I don't want to hurt him, I just want him to be happy. How should I handle this?

>>17662813

Damn, that could be me.

Honestly, seems like he knows he can't have you, however it doesn't mean you don't make him smile.
Chances are, he probably wants to move on but doesn't want to lose you either. Even without the love you mean alot to him.

Try to set him up with someone.

In my situation, I've tried meeting new girls and getting over her, but as shitty luck would have it the girls that get close to me either get fired/injured/switch shifts/move away before anything can happen (my job is my social life, unfortunately, so that's where I meet people).

Which sucks because the person I was trying to get over, seems to be the only constant.

>>17662813
have you had sex with him ? let him touch you ?let him jerk off on you ? be honest

>>17662813
how old is he ? how old are you ?

>>17662851
I'm 52, he's 18.
>>17662848
No.

>>17662829
thanks. I will try setting him up with one of my friends.

>>17662855
That gap. What the fuck.

No question, I'm gonna text her again today /adv/. It's been 10 days. Thanks for your help and wish me luck.

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Hey ladies what is your favorite part of a man to check out when he's wearing clothes?

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I use to weigh 220 pounds. Over the last year I have lost 60 pounds, but my girlfriend says I look sick. Is she right?

>>17662925
his hot friends

>>17662935
You should gain some muscles.
You look good tho, nothing to complain about.

Congrats on the weight loss!

>>17662935
you don't look sick, you look like an average skinny fat person

>>17662935

You look perfectly normal. Is you gf overweight? People who are fat generally have distorted view of what normal looks like.

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>>17662936
and what do they look at on the hot friends?

>>17662907
I'm waiting to hear from you.

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Girls, how gross is sweat? I was talking to a cute girl at uni yesterday, and the conversation went pretty well IMO(made her laugh, found things in common), but on my way to my next class, I looked and saw that I was sweating like a pig, with obvious wet spots around my pits. I usually never sweat this much so I don't know exactly what happened since I didn't really feel super nervous.

>>17663016
Pretty gross, but shit happens.
First time I talked to my boyfriend he had some shit stuck between his teeth. I still make fun of him for it.
Didn't make me like him any less, tho.

>>17663022
That's cute. I think I'll just try talking more to her and see what she thinks.

I also saw that she likes Skittles, so I thought about leaving a bag with my number on it where she usually sits, or would that be to childish.

>>17663016
>with obvious wet spots around my pits
boi

>>17663025
*?

>>17663025
Talk to her a couple times more.
I actually think this kind of stuff is cute as fuck, but you risk of coming off as childish or too cheesy.

>>17663026
I don't know dude. The building was ACed, I was wearing a light t shirt, was wearing antiperspirant, but I was going off like a sprinkler. Is it all over?

>>17663029
We both like vidya and weird internet stuff, so I just assume she'd like that type of approach, unless she was entirely grossed out by the sweat.

>>17663036
>Is it all over?
It's just a temporary setback, and there's a chance she hasn't noticed it, right ?

>>17663036
Talk to her again before making a move.
I like when guys don't just go and make it super obvious they want to fuck, and spend some time making an actual effort to talk to me.
Anyway the skittles is a cute idea, I'd like it.

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>>17663043
She eventually went back to her phone and I went to my book after a while, so it's possible most of the sweat came after that so who knows. I guess I'll just try talking to her more and see how she responds.

>>17663049
> make it super obvious they want to fuck

I want to do this, how would I do this ?

>>17663058
Not original asker. She's cute and I liked talking to her.

>>17661961
Is it common for all women, to at least have once, "experiments" with alphas/chads, and then later settle to more average guys.
Or is it just a small percentage of women?

>>17663068
nah every woman wants chads and alpha males, but they settle for normal guys to have a family with. They still fuck chad on the side and have his babies, but the normal guys raise and feed them. It's literally every woman's game plan.

>>17663068
All, I repeat, every single woman wants to fuck alphas. The goal of life is to be that alpha.

>>17663071
>>17663073
/r9k/, sarcasm or is it the truth?

>>17663078
Look at the fucking world man. It's the truth.

>>17663068
What's you're asking is, basically - "is it common for girls to like attractive dudes and want to fuck them?". Well, shit, of course it is.
Some of them might fuck them if given the chance, yes. Some others might be too ugly to fuck attractive dudes. Some others might have moral standards that block them from fucking around. Some others might just never have a chance.
Does this mean that they cannot be attracted by anyone but super attractive dudes and they settle for average guys just because they want a family? Definitely not. I think that most guys like victoria secret models, but they settle with non-victoria secret models too. Looks aren't all that matter in a relationship.

>>17663068
I think that if this happens sometimes, it's not even an actually conscious choice on the woman's part to 'settle', there's a point in life that they simply can't attract and fuck 'Chads' anymore, either because their looks fade away or because a 30 or 35+ woman sleeping around is kinda immature and they grow out of it, then 'normal' guys are their logical choice.

>>17663068
men also try to fuck the most attractive women they could, only difference is they don't even settle for someone in their league, but with someone above their league who settles.

>>17663001
Yo don't fuck with me like this, she's the one who dropped off of the conversation

>>17663084
>>17663087
>>17663081
sigh,then my only choice is to become chad. Wish me luck guys

>>17663097
Theyre waiting to hear about what happens you fucking mong. They're not fucking with you.

>>17663093
wut this doesnt make any sense.
Why would it be like that.
Only if you mean an rich/succesful guy with an attractive girl.
But even then it wouldnt make sense, cause wealth plays a big role in attractiveness for women. So they definitely would be in the same league

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>>17662663
Because girls themselves aren't smart to begin with thus they only go for the big dicked Chads since they can relate to them more.

I'm in trouble because I met my neighbors and they are all attractive men that I get along with really well and I would go for. I think they've all hit on me at this point. I've been invited to their parties and movie nights(where i'm usually the only single girl there) a lot. I guess it doesnt help that I haven't had sex in about a year. Obviously it would be a bad idea to try and seduce all of them because they are friends with each other. I just need to control my raging libido and not destroy neighbor relations. Like..i can pick one right? But how do you pick the right one when they're all kind of hot and funny?

>>17663117
tell me why it would be like that.
But if you say the guys are ugly but are super charismatic/rich/fun... I wouldnt agree.
Because these traits are part of attractivness for women. And these guys therefore are attractive and in the league of these girls.
The league of girls on the other hand is just about their rating/10. Sad but true.

>>17663120
Make an 80s song and music video out of it.

>>17663119
Girls graduate more from college than guys, do better in school than guys, and have the same IQ on average than guys.
Guys on the other hand have worse social skills, tend to suffer more from autism, dyslexia and ADHD.
It seems like that's not really the case.

>>17663119
Kinda true. Average IQ of men and women is the same, but there are FAR more male in the high IQ-Spectrum(and low) then women. Therefore it will be hard for a "smart" guy to find a girl with his intelligence

>>17663120
I am sure they wouldn't oppose the idea of a gangbang

>>17663124
>Girls graduate more from college than guys
Because they pick useless degrees, you fucking dumb cunt.
There's a reason why there are more male scientists.

>>17663127

I just don't think they all want to be eskimo brothers and anyway my eventual goal is a bf with a weird fucking sense of humor

I was 5 minutes away from hauling one of them off into a dark corner because of his cologne. This is a special sort of torture

>>17663132
Not really true.
I think that pretty much the same amount of males and females graduates from med and law school, more girls than guys graduate in economy bachelors for example.
Sure, there are far more guys than girls in STEM, but it's not like it's STEM or nothing.

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>>17663143
Still, what I(not the mysogonist you answere to) >>17663125
holds true.
Average IQ is the same, but females with high IQ are pretty rare, in comparison to male.
Males need more activeness(sport),have more ADHD and are less obedient, that´s why they perform worse in school. Doesnt mean they are dumber, it just means the school system favors women.
In the end a lot of these women take bullshit degrees and get kids(after not finding any job) so it doesnt even make a difference.

Is it okay to flirt with another girl even if I have a girlfriend? She'll never know and it's kinda the innocent kind of flirting.

>>17663155
I've read about it. It's not something widely accepted, and surely not exaggerated as it is in that graph. But, yeah, it makes sense - it's something I've definitely noticed from an anecdotal point of view.
I didn't want to imply that men are dumber, really. I don't even care, it's not a competition.

I broke up with my ex boyfriend a year ago. We made a short contact break for a few months but have been friends ever since and we both did not have a problem with that.
A month ago he found a new girlfriend and I was really happy for him but he didn't told her that he still had contact with me. Now she found out and is super jealous. she told him to stop talking to me but he's not sure what to do.

What should I do in this situation? For now i just stopped talking to him but we're actually pretty good friends and he also told me he's not sure if this is going to be a healthy relationship.

>>17663168
Depends on where you set your boundaries. Also - it might escalate in something more serious, you're taking a risk.

>>17663177
I dunno, if the situation was reversed I wouldn't want my current gf to talk to an ex. I am a firm believer that members of the opposite sex can't be "only friends." There is always some sort of uneven attraction between the two parties.

If the roles were reversed would you be ok with a guy remaining good friends with an ex while you were dating him and not feel jealous?

>>17663103
Sorry I'm fragile :^(

These threads go quick, I'll probably update in the next one.

>>17663177
It doesn't really matter you do not talk to your ex's. There's just too much history, intimacy, and yes, love.

If you're in a relationship where your partner expects to have your (romantic) love 100% to themselves you cannot still be "good friends" with an ex.

She is not being unreasonable. There is a lot of baggage to deal with and only takes away from their relationship. She will always wonder WHY you broke up if you still want one another in your lives. Did you just get bored of fucking one another? Are you going to hold onto all the promises you've made to one another? Will he find comfort in you in ways that friends wouldn't because of your history?

just.. don't.

Don't. It's over.

Stop lying to yourselves.

>>17663124
I'm comfortable with the idea that girls and guys are equal in term of how well they do in school, the main reason is that it's hard to find a person in the science community who is credible and is dumb enough to carry out and publish experiments like "GPA in college, males vs females", "personality disorder, males vs females" and the likes.

The most intelligent person I've known happened to be a girl, she's an art major who is also extremely gifted in pure math, almost to the point of intimidating, speaking as a math major who took a Putnam preparation course with her. She told me the most intelligent person she ever met is a guy. We all ended up in grad school, I'm in applied analysis, she's in combinatorics and he's in optimization.


>>17663155
>Males need more activeness(sport),have more ADHD and are less obedient, that´s why they perform worse in school
this is about high school and lower level of education right ? because in university I don't think I've heard of any guy blaming ADHD, sports and less obedience for their poor grades, college students have a lot of freedom, as long as they do the assignments and sit for exams, they are usually not even required to go to class to get A, much less following their professor's teaching. The subjects, for example proximal mapping, conjugate gradient, asymptotic analysis, are well known for decades, or centuries, and it's way too easy to obtain excellent exposition on these topics from the internet.

>>17663177
I honestly have no problems with my boyfriend being friends with another girl, but an ex is another business.
He was attracted to her, and has been intimate with her. I wouldn't want him to spend a lot of time and keep an emotional bond with someone under those premises.
I'd suggest you move on and let him be.

I love tits
Do girls mind me staring at their boobs, especially in low crop tops?
They love the attention right?

Or is it only attractive guys are allowed to look?

Man I love tits...

.(0)
(.Y.)
..).(
()y()

>>17663210
When I went to the grocery store yesterday I was seriously starting to sweat just from the sheer physical effort I had to make to not stare at the cashier's tits. Damn, she was gorgeous.

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girls:

any woman insight anon available?

so there's this girl, who after a year still longs for me
we had something going on for half a year
yet decided at the beginning of that year she needs to go back to her ex

why?
because she, and that we both established
>fears to be alone
>knows what she's getting out of him
>thinks he is immature (she is his first), childish at times and inexperienced
>she sees me as her mature, experienced guy
>she's clinging on to that teenage relationship because every other failed around them and she wants to show everyone that it can exist

over a month ago
>can we get some more distance between us? aka not write with each other?
>need to make myself clear what i want
>writing with you is making me sorta just look into one way

texted her on her birthday, a week ago
she thanked me and told me she appreciated that
wanted to start some smalltalk
but got shut off with "i don't wanna ignore you, that's why i'm answering you. you know i don't want any contact at the moment"

>talked to her two days ago
>asked her how long we shall remain on each others contact list, not texting while we both want that
>she tells me she just doesn't want contact with me for an indefinitely amount of time
>actually declares me her "ex-bf", although we never established a real relationship
uhm what?

is that her way of trying to cope with it, labeling me as some ex-bf?

>>17663101
Basically, what's more alpha than cucking guys and having them raise your kids while their own genes fade from the the gene pool.

For anyone.
How do I be funny?
I have no problem holding conversations or having interesting things to talk about.
I have no ability to make people laugh. My sense of humor is shit. I know because I laugh at the stupidest shit.
How do I become funny or find out what makes people laugh?

If I complement a girl and she reads it but doesn't respond, is it safe to say that she isn't interested?

>>17663271
>How do I become funny or find out what makes people laugh?
Don't try to be funny. Not everyone needs to be the "funny guy." You can't fix a sense of humor, you either have it or you don't. Why does being funny have such importance to you?

question for girls that use this specific terminology

>my man

wtf is that shit? explain your mentality for using that instead of my bf, partner, husband, fwb, fb. you sound like either a nigger or some daddy issue white trash

>>17663285
>If I complement a girl and she reads it but doesn't respond, is it safe to say that she isn't interested?

Probably about a 80% chance she's not interested. What setting is this? Online dating? Text? Tinder? Different meanings for different scenarios.

>>17663285
Itkb
>she use to add hearts to her texts
>I added one
>she no longer adds hearts

>>17663298

Social media. She posted a video with her sister doing her hair and I complemented it after. It's probably nothing to go on.

>>17663299
Damn. Thanks. I was considering adding a heart to a reply too, but I guess I shouldn't lel.

I asked this probably 4 threads ago
I like this girl but she has a boyfriend and she said she can give me a pity kiss. Im kissless.

In that thread i haven't told her i like her, but since that thread, i have told her my feelings. I told her she still owes me a kiss and she said it will never happen.

A couple days ago we had a friendly talk over coffee and i somehow made her feel special and she said we could kiss. She said i should try to kiss her when shes drunk, not sober.

Should i go full cuck and go ahead?

>>17663312
you're both shitty people, so go for it

Girls would u say continuous eye contact is a sign ur interested in a guy?

>>17663318
Rude

>>17663311
Do it. Its just texting. I'm sure she doesn't even think anything of it.

Girls that take texting seriously aren't worth your time
((I'm a big hyporcrite I will admit))

>>17663319
Yes, it usually means I want him to finger me on the spot.

Being a virgin is really hard. I'm saving myself for >her
But its so friggin HARD and its difficult too

>>17663332
sarcasm?

Girls and guys

I've had sex one time when I was 19, I'm 26 now... is it ok if I go my entire 20s without having sex or doing anything with girls? Is that acceptable?

>>17663286
>why does it have so much importance?
I make people laugh on rare and far between occasions. It feels good to make people laugh.
I've been told I'm too serious or come off as too serious a lot. I don't take my self seriously too often.
Girls always say they want a guy who can make them laugh.
I don't want to be an obnoxious class clown. I just want to make people smile/laugh/giggle more.

Describe to me what a vagina feels like in as much detail as possible.

>>17663358
Salty coins and milk.

>>17663351
>Girls always say they want a guy who can make them laugh.
You should not try to change your sense of humor or try to be more funny. Gonna sound cliche but honestly just be yourself. Your true friends will find you hilarious. When I'm with my best friend we just laugh over nothing sometimes but I would say he's not that funny at all. What age?

Women:
What's your opinion on webcam modeling for cash? I recently found out that a few of my female friends do it on the side because it's free money for minimal effort to them.

Is this the norm these days?

>>17663369
>just bee ur self.
Thanks.
I'm 22. I'm fine with my friends and what they think of my sence of humor. But coming off as Mr. Serious doesn't help with meeting new people.

>>17663378
Internet version of being a stripper.
I have the same opinion of that and people who do lap dances for a living.

>>17663285
>she reads it

wtf are you doing complimenting women when you're not actually there with her

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>>17663312
>I told her she still owes me a kiss

damn you an entitled shit, I would post a picture of elliot rogers, but I don't have any.

You're the type of guy that makes women think men are creepy, which you are.

>>17663341
same boat, like almost exactly the same, only I'm 25. I'll would just say that you've only been with one other girl or that it's been a while. Don't bring it up unless they ask and if they do ask, say the above^.

It's fine, but this is basically your sexual prime, you may regret not having sex more often.

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Women: Do you like big butts on guys? Like if a fit guy had a noticeable butt. Is there any type of pants or shorts that you like to see nice butts in?

Pic related of course.

>>17663441

I complement them in person as well.

>>17663463
Im a guy and I like looking at that, no homo though.

>>17663463
Me personally not really. I don't like muscular guys in general tho.
>>17663378
>Modeling
lol just call it what it is, it's the new age stripping. I don't really care for it myself, I would never do it because I'm going into a career where if any pictures of me nude or sexually suggestive were to surface I would never be able to keep a job ever again. Basically if anyone ever knew it would mean I had wasted thousands of dollars on college and would have to kill myself.
But I really don't see anything wrong with it on a moral standpoint. Hell, if it weren't for the stigma and nobody would think less of me for it I would probably do it myself. Sounds like easy money, if there's a market for it then by all means do it. Especially with stripping, its not even like you're at risk of catching diseases or anything.
I even actually have considered doing the whole panty thing in the past, since it would be lower risk, however the markets flooded and theres no money in it anymore anyway.

I wouldn't say its the norm these days to sell nudes/cam shows, however it is the norm to just take and send nudes in general for free. Almost every single girl I've ever met has sent a nude at some point in her life up until now, whether it be to a bf or just a stranger for the thrill, but I can't say I've ever met someone who did shows. Or at least, nobody who would admit it to me.

But I have met many like me, who would do it if it weren't for the fear of being ostracized and damaging their future. Basically if the stigma left, then it might be the norm. But if the stigma left, the market would probably crash too, since there'd be more competition, it'd lose some of it's "taboo thrill" and therefore lose some customers, and it'd probably cease to be "free money" and become actual hard work.

Asking both genders here, i am only initially attracted to chubby women, where do you spot them alot? Since i only come across slim women where i live.

>>17663457

>it's your sexual prime and you'll regret not having sex

Oh.. :(

Hey Girls,

Say a guy talks to you about whatever and at the ends mentions that you've got a cute smile/nice beautiful eyes/ any compliment, would this be weird if you haven't talked to the guy before?

>>17663510
Its pretty desperate.

girls, how weird is it to add someone on FB and talk them up if it's a break and you want to get to know them while you have time off? this girl and I have been making eye contact a lot in class and at this poetry reading the other week but when I've tried to approach somethings come up like me needing to cram for a test or her leaving faster than me

>>17662907
>>17663001
SHE RESPONDED

Thanks for your advice in other opposite gender threads friends... telling me to send another was the right advice to give.

>>17663513
Howso

>>17663522
Its boring and unspecific to you. Its a general compliment in the holes you'll find it cute and maybe touch their dick.

t. Dick owner

>>17663358
Stick your finger up your ass, it's about the same really.
>>17663319
Possibly, especially if you're in a culture where staring is considered rude (Like America and most of the world). Most of the time, if I'm only accidentally making eye contact, I look away real fast because again, the social upbringing of I shouldn't stare at anyone and should only be making eye contact with people I'm conversing with it some way.
Therefore, extended eye contact is usually a good sign. Keep in mind that "interest" is not always romantic/sexual though. I could be "interested" in just talking to you. Maybe you have a band tshirt on and I'm like "Shit, I didn't know anyone else liked that band". Something like that.
>>17663293
Honestly I can't say I've ever used that term unironically or not as a joke. Also can't say I've ever actually heard someone use it legit either.
>>17663210
You gotta be subtle about it, nobody wants a dude drooling out the mouth with a raging boner targeted on their tits.
But women know if you're wearing a low cut top, you're accepting that its going to draw attention. Even if they don't want to admit it, you want people to sneak a peek. Otherwise you'd cover up more.
>>17663168
Why don't you ask your girlfriend? I'm guessing you wouldn't because you know she'd get mad. That's your answer. If it truly is just "innocent" flirting (no such thing), why keep it from your gf? If you feel you have to hide, that's an obvious sign you know you're doing something wrong.

>>17663525
Say I compliment her on the colour of her lipstick, that's specific, right?
Or should I avoid the compliment altogether.

>>17663516
If you've never actually spoken to her irl, creepy.
Frankly I do not add people on my fb that I haven't had a decent conversation with irl before anyway.
If you have spoken to her before, then shoot a friend request.
>>17663510
I would assume he's just feeding me lines to try to get in my pants. If I barely even know the dude, I would assume its disingenuous, you don't mean it you're just trying to say the right thing to progress.
The only exception to this is if it was a vaguer compliment that had nothing to do with looks. Like if you talked to me for a bit and were like "Hah, wow you're really funny/interesting."

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>>17663503
America

Women: I don't have any experience in talking to girls and I want to start. I'm going to a bar soon with friends and they're going to pick out a girl (or group of girls) for me to talk to. I'm thinking my intro line would be "Hello, sorry for the interruption, but my friends dared me to talk to you. It's only for like a couple of minutes." and then just carry the conversation from there. I'm not trying to pick up girls, just to practice. I don't really know if this is the best way to gain experience though.

>>17663540
So say I compliment her on the way she dresses, would that be a good thing to do?

>>17663502
Honestly I don't know why anyone even makes a big deal about it anymore. It's not like strippers aren't just regular people doing a job that there is high demand for.

>however it is the norm to just take and send nudes in general for free
This alone highlights the potential that the taboo is on its way out.

I guess my only hesitation with open support of it is the (probably irrational) fear that it will create a financial incentive for women to conspire to vilify men having sex/relationships to drive up the market for stripping/porn.

Am I ugly if guys approach me very little, don't look at me, and never give me attention? How do you know how attractive you are?

>>17663556
No way to tell from that context. Most people get ignored these days anyway.

>>17663556
Depends on where you're from, your age, what location you go to in public etc.

Remember that millenials are the most autistic generation, so talking to the opposite sex is a skill that a lot of guys lack these days. I know I do.

>>17663538
Compliment her personality, not appearance until you're a little closer.

>>17663543
I am not asking about girls with morbid obesity.

>>17663540
It's just been like in class discussion and friendly waving. My gut instinct is to not bother and that it's not a perfect idea but I also feel like she's interested and wouldn't mind the slight faux pas

>>17663549
If you're only looking to pump and dump, then compliment her body/look all you want. You'd be doing her a favor because then she'll know what you're after.
If not though, if you're going to compliment at all then make it meaningful stuff. Personally though, I find a lot of dudes fall into the trap of over complimenting. Some do it on purpose, some just don't realize theres more ways to be nice than to just vomit compliment after compliment all over someone. Compliments should be treats. If you get them every day, they lose their meaning and cease to be special. You should only be peppering in compliments at maximum once a week if you see her that often. If not, maybe once every 4-5 meetings. As your relationship grows and you get to know her more, you can start giving more personal compliments. Because how do you know this thing about her you're complimenting if you havent hung out enough to actually observe it?

I've run out of things to talk about with her
We are just repeating ourselves

Its obvious she wants to chat but expects me to lead the conversation most times but I'm all out of ideas

We've honestly texted each other something like 4 thousand times.

>>17663556
Yes most likely I know pretty girls and they get hit on 24/7. Also men will throw resources at them for free like crazy.

>>17663552
Its true, I see the stigma lessen a little bit, but I can't tell the cause of it. It could be a generational thing, or it could just be an age thing. Most of the old farts agree you shouldn't sell your body for cash, young kids think its ok. The question is, when these young kids grow up, will they change their mind, or will they still think it's ok.

Is it okay if i just go on a walk on my first date with a girl ? I dont really know much about her and im not very creative either.

since this is basically just a general at this point.
>work with girl
>always flirty with me
>switch departments
>figuire yolo might as well grab her number.
>text brief convo night, ends somewhat organically.
>text her up 3 days later
>no response
.
I get that means I have pretty much 0 shot now, but
2 things.
1) Might as well throw a single hail mary follow up text anyone got something creative to play off being ignored?
2) when i go visit my homies in my old dpt, should I say hi, and ignore the texte, say hi, mention the texts, or just ignore her entirely?

>>17663610
Kinda lame desu.
Just pick a restaurant that's comfy. You must know of one.

>>17663622
MCDonalds good?

>>17663642
Funny guy.
Maybe you can walk her there on your wheelies.

>>17663653
Funny gal

>>17663622
I dont know restaurant seems kinda too formal, i mean we have already made out few times on the collage filed trip thing whatever where we met and now i called her to go out with me but im clueles since i suck at dating.

>>17663587
Is this a person you want to be in a relationship with?
Because it won't work. Leave.

>>17663690
>inb4 the person I'm texting is you
I'm not interested in a -romantic- relationship

>>17663687
It's not to formal.
I mean don't take her to like an expensive steak house or anything.
Just a casual restaurant. I usually do hole in the walls/hidden gems.

>>17663540
>Like if you talked to me for a bit and were like "Hah, wow you're really funny/interesting."
But that would be lying because girls aren't funny nor interesting.

>>17663704
Yeah cool, i might do that thanks.

Im attracted to sluts even though I'm extremely sexually conservative
Where did it go so wrong for me

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>>17663716
>If you're only looking to pump and dump, then compliment her body/look all you want. You'd be doing her a favor because then she'll know what you're after.
There you go sport. You just want a warm hole to fuck, then by all means treat her like a warm hole to fuck.
Idk why else you'd want to hang around with women if you think they're boring.
but 8/8 b8 m8

Why would a girl want to take the time out of their finite day to date me whenever they have a smartphone with internet access that allows them to have access to a massive amount of information and attention whoring, and I am not part of the top 20% of men?

Wouldn't they rather be flirting with Chad Thundercock or Tyrone?

I'm so tired of this "hurr durr just talk to her and be yourself" shit

Girl here. Why do I think that guys who like me have something wrong with them for them to like me in the first place? A lot of the men who like me are old men, guys who are only after sex, one was a convicted rapist, insane or a bit slow in the head.

>>17663796
Chances are you're young or fat or both, thus easy to get into bed.
As simple as that.

>>17663799
I'm a literal virgin.

>>17663806
So am I... Thanks for the reminder
Doesn't matter. If you're young or fat and have a vagina people will try to take advantage of you.
Are you by London btw?

Ladies, have you ever been broken up with because you used to date/sleep with black men? My bf just dumped me and I'm so heartbroken. He found out through the grapevine that I had a few "run ins" with a couple of black dudes and said he couldn't stomach to look at me or be with me anymore. I dont know what to do. I mean yeah, the sex was great and the black dicks were huge, but most black dicks are. Any input or advice to cope?

>>17663787
Straight outta /pol/ and /fit/?
Real world doesn't work like this.

>>17663787

Because chads and tyrones, while nice for fucking, have very little else going for them. I'm a reformed slut, so take it from me, it get really dull when in the long run a guy has nothing else than looks and/or his dick going for him. It was nice having fun with them in the past, but I settled for a smart beta, because at least I can have a decent convo with him.

>>17663817
Maybe just date black dudes from now on.

>>17663821
How many men have you slept with?

I'm so fucking triggered by the last 5 posts

>>17663821
Poor guy.

>>17663825
I'm done with them. It was nice to indulge in and experience but im ready for a real relationship.

>>17663817
Why do you even sleep with blacks, are there not enough men of your race? Because it feels like a trait to us white men, that's why.

>>17663834
Protip.
I know it's not politicaly correct or whatever. But don't admit to guys you are a coalburner. Most guys find it kinda meh. For reasons other than just blind racism.

>>17663834
Doesn't work that way for men

Most men want to meet one girl they call in love with, lose their virginity to and live the rest of their life with.

Most - not all obviously

But most men who take good care of themselves want that.

You're gonna have a hard time unless your personality is great

>>17663826

8 men (two of these actual bfs, the rest one night stands) and 2 women.

>>17663838
No that's not why.
>>>/pol/
>>17663840
Jesus why are you projecting your own /r9k/ tier fantasies on "most men" most men don't give a shit if a chick is a virgin. This isn't 1800

>>17663843
Dad issues?

>>17663846
Thanks for the input Regan, go back to your cuck shed now.

>>17663852
Is there a single board here left, that isn't full of neo/pol/ faggots?

>>17663849

Absolutely none, I'm just indecisive. Had to try all the flavours to see which one I preferred. Paid off in the end.

>>17663858
They're all the same tho...

>>17663839
>>17663840
I'm not a coal burner. I just went through a phase for a couple of years that all I wanted was BBC. So that's all I accepted. Call me a slut or whatever, but I'm over it now and dont deserve to be punished for things I did in the past.

>>17663855
Go to reddit if you enjoy reading stories of how some cuck cleaned up his wife's pussy from niggercum.

>>17663817
>He found out through the grapevine that I had a few "run ins" with a couple of black dudes

Oh God, that's my worst fear.

>>17663866
I'm the last person to judge you, believe me, I'm in love with a woman who's had 30 previous partners.
I can look past it, but it takes a toll on your mental health.

>>17663866
Yeah,i get it. Just don't admit it is all i am saying anon. You can say you had previous partners, just don't need to be like "and they were black, i filled every orifice in my body with nigger dick" i doubt many guys are going to demand the ethnicity of previous partners, even then you don't have to give a number really. And you can always lie.
>>17663867
>>>/cripplechan/
Seriously, I know r/TheDonald told you this was the coolest place to perpetuate a hivemind about your insecurities, but they are mislead. Go back to your contaminant board or to ledit/ Infinitychan

>>17663865

Spoken like a man who has been eating vanilla all his life.

>>17663890
Tell me the differences please

>>17663885
>m-muh neo/pol/ boogeyman :(
Kill yourself.

>>17663556
>Am I ugly if guys approach me very little, don't look at me, and never give me attention?

very few guys actually approach, "Eye-rape", attention-whores turning men into orbiters.

Alot of men just straight up don't do that shit anymore anyway.
Seriously, what's in it for us?
Love? Better of getting a dog.
Sex? Porn and jerking off.

Honestly, your best bet is to either make a move yourself, or hope that proximity to someone + time = love.

Why should a man do anything these days?
To be a real man? Bragging rights amongst douchebags?

It doesn't mean you're ugly. You could be, but you might not be. Men just have little incentive these days. I aint wasting my time just to be called "creepy".
Labelled a predator just because of my gender.
Fuck that shit.

You also could have resting bitch face. That doesn't mean you're ugly. Some bitch-faced people are actually very beautiful. Some are also ugly, but not all.
They just look like they'll scream rape if they enter your peripheral vision or end up in the same room as you so you don't even look anywhere near them and then your neck starts to hurt because you trying to hard not to look over in her direction. Basically, you could look avoidance-tier bitchy but it doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly.

>>17663619
Anyone? or should i just make my own thread...

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How to stop being scared of girls?

Do girls like good night texts or is that gay af

>>17663944
Gay.

>>17663913
I take a deep breath and realize I have nothing to lose since I'll never seem them again.

>>17663955
Mistakes were made

>>17663944
Good night texts? Like long love letters or just good night?

I always say good night and keep those long love texts for like once a month or it loses its flavor.

>>17663962
w-whats a love text

>>17663969
Gay shit you should never be reduced to sending in your life.

>>17663969
Gay shit. Women really dont like them. They laugh about it with their friends.

>>17663976
>>17663977
Give me an example and I'll send it

>>17663969
Sometimes when I feel really lovey dovey I send my girlfriend a long ass message telling her I love her and blah blah. Its gay as fuck but it melts their hearts. Like I said, don't do it often or it gets stale.

>>17663977
>They laugh about it with their friends

Which begs the question: is there anything a man does that a group of girl friends don't laugh about it? Not even in a malicious way.

>>17663977
I don't know about the women you've been with but my gfs have loved them. Guess I just have a way with words

>>17663477
me too senpai, me too

Women, how does a guy not be boring in person and over text?

>>17664017
Idk, just be interesting and funny.

>>17664022
I can be funny, but interesting how?

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I CAUGHT SOMEONE CHEATING, HELP!

>Be friends with 2 people
>They're dating
>I caught one of them cheating on the other
>Don't know if I should tell them
>Or stay out of it
>Good friends with both

Thoughts?

>>17664035
I have the opposite problem
I'm pretty unfunny over texts

>>17664041
does the person who got cheated on trust you more than their SO?
If there is a chance that telling them could cause you to lose the friendship, then don't go for it.
However, if you are good friends and they trust you, it might be okay to mention it.

>>17661961
how do i text in the long run with girls of my area.
I'm terribly shit at it and now im stuck on only being able to text ¨how r u?¨ and nothing else.
i don't know, what can i do to make my text convos more interesting?

>>17664049
Its hard being funny over texts, I'm a lot better in person

>>17663885
>>17663885
> i doubt many guys are going to demand the ethnicity of previous partners

Wrong. I've asked every girl I've been in a relationship with, and have opted out of two relationships becsuse of it.

>>17663540
What about that ? Some girl I know really has beautiful eyes, I don't know there is something special, something deep in the way she looks at you (everyone not only me) would it seem trying too hard to tell her that ?

>>17664112
Okay besides this autist.

>>17664175
>Implying I'm the only man in the whole world who doesnt want a disease ridden, subhuman, coalburner.

>>17663872
Look her straight in the eye and ask
>Have you ever done anything sexual with a black man?

If her reaction is anything other than a quick "no"with a slight tinge of disgust, she has fucked or sucked a nigger.

B/G

What are the logistics of a guy kissing a girl slightly taller than him?

>>17664352
Not likely

Then again, I've seen girls date twinks, but it seems like that is what girls are into nowadays

How do I become a less jealous person?