How can I get back with him long term??

>>17576408
Depends on quality of nudes, post here for peer review

Young lady you need to realize that men like view young women like you as very disposable. Sure, living the high life is nice but find yourself a man your age and you'll be much happier.

Back in Texas we have a saying, when a bee pollinates a flower it doesn't stick around for the flowers sake

>>17576411
Dubs confirm.

>>17576408
Forget about him. Find a more productive way of validation, like a hobby.

>>17576417
my main concern is him basically blocking my number or telling me to fuck off or something.

>>17576416
What kind of bees do you fuck, dr Phil?

>>17576408
>>17576416
take this advice OP

I'm 20 and will gladly rp as a well-off 37 year old

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Roastie btfo

Always good to hear stories like this. Makes my day

>>17576408
not to sound harsh but you wont. he got what he wanted from you: a roll in the sheets.
you cant have his heart, it belongs to someone else...
>old texas saying : you cant ride two horses with only one ass

>>17576419
This is why you do this
>>17576411

You have potentially only one good shot to get him back with nice nudes

>>17576419
Let me tell you. I've been in the man's position you describe. He doesn't care about you. I've also been in your position. Move on. If you desperately crave a man's attention that you're willing to send nudes 1 month later, you've got some issues to work out.

>>17576423
You can ride two dicks with one ass though

>>17576408
You can send nudes to me instead (561) 290-2880

>>17576428
Well it's just like what do I have to lose.

Either he'll ignore me/block me/tell me to fuck off or he'll ask for more and maybe even wanna meet up.

>>17576422
virgin?

>>17576438
Self respect for one. Find someone who loves you. Hell, just someone who at least likes you. Everyone deserves that much, and you're holding yourself back by pining for someone who doesn't care. You can't force someone to love you; it's something organic.

I can imagine how you must feel. The only solace I can offer is that this stranger behind a keyboard and screen genuinely cares, and hopes that you'll figure things out with minimal pain.

>>17576497
>Women
>Self respect
Pick one

>>17576497
>"Genuinely cares"
>Isn't throwing money at said roastie
Why are you even trying?

She specifically noted that she's a vapid whore, hoping dick for net worth. There's no advice to be given here except how to be a more cunning, conniving waste of space.

>>17576542
Because I refuse to let myself become entirely jaded and cynical. Pain is terrible, and if I can help alleviate a bit of it by typing something reassuring to a stranger then I'm going to.

>>17576408
Since you can't offer anything besides your body (not even genuine affection) you automatically lose your game whenever you're not the hottest chick in a 200 km radius.
Just go look for a Sugar daddy or sth - there's nothing worse than a hooker who won't admit even to herself that she is one.

>>17576408
Look, what do YOU offer to improve your further husbands standing? Rich people tend to be at least reasonably smart if they're not trust fund babies - he can get something nice for his arm (and Dick) virtually everywhere, from High-End Escort services to other Golddiggers.
A successfull hooker needs to be smart, caüable , and business-savy. What you are aiming for is essentially the highest success for a prostitute - permanently hooking a single customer who'll give you everything you want. And for that, you need to offer a lot more than a wet hole.
I think you just don't have what it takes, honey.
Maybe you should just consider making like all the plebejan girls around you and rely on something elese but your cunt to bring you forward in life.
Other wise , I hope you treat your cats well once you start to sag and realise that you wasted your youth on a hopeless endevor.

you're a shitty sugar baby. probably was a bad fuck for him, and he didn't like your personality

nudes won't do shit for him

>>17577472
>>17576542
>>17577516
It's not like he gave me money or anything after we messed around so idk how that makes me a hooker.

Tbh I thought me not asking about his wealth would make him think of me differently than other girls.

>>17576497
Damn, thank you.

>>17576408
>gold digger
>>17577628
That's what makes you a hooker.

I think you should send him nudes. Then he can show all his friends and they will all laugh at this desperate whore. It's what rich men do to people like you. At least by sending nudes, you can provide them entertainment for a few minutes.

>>17576408
Sup Melissa

>>17577813
I think I'll do it, lol.

I don't care if people I'll probably never meet laugh at me, because there's still a slight chance my plan will work.

Rich man here

Your nudes will only add to the collection of nudes from women seeking the same thing. If you would like to be treated as conquered ass like a trophy on a long line of accomplishments, then by all means go right ahead.

>>17578037
Also, let's say you get your life together and are eligible for a position and some guy that's friends with hadji is the one holding the doors... imagine what he'll all and think of you before letting you in.
I wouldn't want a daughter because girls like you make me question if mine would do such a thing...

>>17578037
>Rich man here
What are you doing on 4chan?

>>17578067
The same thing you are

lol these dumb whores don't even know that their only sole purpose in life is to get fucked and chucked.

>>17576438
>Well it's just like what do I have to lose.

Your reputation. You behave like a stalker at this point. Just reverse the genders in the OP.

>>17578285
We don't have any mutual friends or associates.

>>17577628
>Tbh I thought me not asking about his wealth would make him think of me differently than other girls.


Made him think you're a slut AND stupid

This is why I never want a daughter.
You invest so much time and money into raising a whore for other men to pump, treat kike a fucktoy and discard.
Fuck that shit, daugthers are fucking useless.

>>17578769
A thousand dollars says OP has father issues up the fucking ass. If you're a good, and attentive father, she won't go otu seeking unhealthy validation from fatherly men.

>>17578769
That's why you fuck her first. Claim your territory and other men will back down.

>>17578769
OP wouldn't do and post shit like this if she had a healthy relationship with her father..

>>17578807
Exactly.

>>17576408
You won't and can't.
He's rich, powerful and probably good looking. What does he have to gain by committing to you? Don't say sex, because literally that's all woman have to offer.

>>17576408
>middle eastern

Why would you bother?

>>17578799
fucking nasty

Move on. You weren't hot enough for him. Unless you find a way to look like Hollywood 10/10 overnight it won't happen.

>>17579456
hot enough for him to approach me and take me to his place, lmao.

>>17579466
Yes, but not hot enough for anything more. The sensible thing would be to move on and learn from this experience, but I think we all know that isn't the direction you have decided for yourself.

>>17578795
>>17578807
Twelve years ago, this guy in my unit died in Afghanistan. We were the same age and same rank. I think about him often (survivor's guilt?). He had a young daughter back home. I hope she doesn't turn out to be like that...

>>17576408

I'm 26 and hook up with 18 and 19 year olds regularly.

This is common for me. Does this train ever end?

tell him how pre med and piano lessons are going to show him you have worth

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>>17577628
>him think of me differently than other girls.
you slept with a guy you don't know within the first few days you knew him. you're a slut, sorry, get over yourself.

>>17579466
ooh shit, really proved his point.

you think he'll have emotional attachments to you if he has multiple partners? all you have done is solidify his idea that he can get a girl (any girl) to sleep with him if he plays his cards right. besides sex what else do you offer him.

>>17578037
I gotta agree with this guy. I'm 45 and own a large company, so it's fair to say I'm fairly well off financially. I've been picking up, fucking and dumping 20 something girls for at least 15 years. They're fun to seduce and their bodies are delicious but once I'm done, I'm done. When I want another there's always plenty to choose from and the last thing I want is an ex cramping my moves on the next hottie I want to bang.

To OP, he wants nothing from you other than what he's already had. Take the hint and look for someone else.

This thread is a fascinating study of female psychology, gotta say. Not that I get off on pump-and-dumps, but I can see the appeal.

Good lord OP have some self-respect. Don't do it, it just looks pitiful and desperate, he's thinking about her NOT you. Do yourself a favor and move on. He was direct with you, it sucks he wasn't open about seeing someone else before you guys screwed around but you were just a one night stand. Let it go

>>17579887
>fascinating study of female psychology
While I don't like to bash my own gender, but honestly.. A very small percent of women thinks like OP.

>>17579303
When I was younger and more attractive I'd get hit on by Arab men constantly at clubs/bars. They're pretty fucking gross, all aggressive and entitled. One time a man and his translator(?) straight up propositioned me and my friend to have a threesome with him.

>>17580159
Kill yourself whore.

>>17576408
>How can I get back with him
You can't. Life is not a rom-com. Let him go.

>>17576422
>>>/r9k/
Then
>>>/considersuicide/

>>17580319
Roastie getting toasty

>>17576408
>20
>going after a 37 y/o
>expecting him to stick around

You should probably end it to help out the human race

your plan is stupid. you're better off going to his house, breaking in and hiding somewhere until he's alone and asleep. then, when you're ready, give him a sleep blowjob until he wakes up. he might freak out for a second but just keep giving him a bj. then tell him to shhhhhh and climb on his dick. if you do this i guarantee that he will probably instantly cum in you. hopefully you'll be ovulating by that point.

now you just gotta hide the pregnancy so he doesn't force you to abort. after that, you'll be golddugged

OP is the reason women are fucking garbage.

>>17580505
That's really clever and I should have let him cum in me the first time.

>>17576408
>He's middle eastern

ABORT MISSION OP! You're better off alone, trust me.

>>17579303
>>17580548
>>17580159
He's Jordanian and looks really light I thought he was Italian or French or something, lol.

Fucking whore

>>17576408
At least now you know what a trophy on a mantle feels like

>>17579841
Holy shit rich men have this much power.

>>17580528
idon'twanttoliveonthisplanetanymore.jpg

>>17581430
you're only just realizing that?

>>17576408

He played you like a fiddle, and you aren't worth another booty call.

>>17581933
it sucks because I already went through all his social media and at first I viewed him as scum who only wants a "pump and dump" kinda thing he's actually really funny, has lots of friends, is good with kids, etc.

I'm attached to someone I only ever was with once.

>>17576408
hahahaha

You weren't hot enough for him.

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>>17576411

Or send his wife proof he's a cheating bastard?
Blackmail first tho

>>17583311
I tried to send the woman I believe he is with a message on Facebook but it never delivered because we have no mutual friends.

>>17583370
Just stop, please. you've got played for your body and that's it. Welcome to the real world honey, romance is dead and everyone is out in it for themselves. Growing up is facing up to this fact.

>>17583379
She only keeps posting because you idiots keep giving her attention. If it wasn't plainly obvious already she thrives off attention, negative or positive. Stems from daddy issues.

>>17581430
Yes, but it needs to be qualified. I'm the 45yo guy from above.

It's not just about money it's about making opportunities for girls to want to do stuff with you, sort of seducing them with their own ideals and vanity. I can afford to do that.

If some smoking hot 23 year old pictures herself in a bikini, on a yacht, off the south of France, snapping selfies while sippijng cocktails then she'll be blinded by her own desire it and all I have to do is stroke her ego and make it achievable.

Picking the right girl, one who isn't so up herself she thinks it's 'her' that's got herself into that position is part of the skill. I target girls who are a little shallow, a little insecure and who often feel like she's second-best. This is if I want someone around for a while, so when I hit the yacht or the Bahamas all I have to do is send her there in advance or pick up the phone and she's ready to go.

If I just want to smash some new pussy then I make sure the girls there know who I am and what some other girl, a friend of a friend of a friend, got to experience (travel, A list and so on) when we hooked up. There's always one who is interested in trying to get the same treatment.

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OP, give me his number, I want to learn his ways

>>17576411
only sensible advice. Most likely OP is full of shit

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>>17580528

You got pumped and dumped, just deal with it already.

fuck it, move on
you have five more years before this thing even becomes worth a minute of your time
keep yourself in ship shape, another dumb monkey with a wallet will swing down from the trees i guarantee it

>>17583610
>a successful 45 year old male is trawling 4chan's /adv/

And here we see leddit's trp board roleplaying on 4chan. Again.

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>>17580528
You didn't let him cum in you? No wonder he moved on.

Ya blew it. Next time, at least swallow.

>>17576411
gold kek prize

>when one-night stands catches feelings

Kek, when will they ever learn?

>>17578276
this is why girls dump guys

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>>17576408
Sounds like you're just a basic bitch, sending nudes won't change anything because if I'm reading this right he's already forgotten about you. The only advice I can give you is if you don't want to be a booty call is to learn to be a better bitch. I.E getting up after fucking to make him a snack, being genuinely interested in what he has to say, having a personality, et al. There's nothing wrong with liking sex but from what I've read it seems you were purely reactionary character in this relationship that didn't contribute anything meaningful to his life. Considering he can find and fuck girls that look like you without a problem. In short be a better bitch and show up to play.

>>17584654
>he's already forgotten about you
this

>>17584463
>not intentionally trapping him

>>17578285
>Reverse the genders
>I hooked up with a woman and I really like her but she doesn't like me. Then I saw her with another guy on Facebook and I lost it. When I asked her who he was she deleted me from Facebook. Should I send her a dick pic?
Jesus Christ no wonder women never take initiative they are fucking terrible at handling rejection.

>>17576408
You got shot down OP. Yeah, it sucks, I imagine every guy ITT has been rejected more times than we can remember. Grow up and get the fuck over it, at least as a woman you can find a rebound with almost no effort

>>17578769
Is it morally wrong to abort a baby for being a girl?

>>17586483
Yes

>>17585724
Nah. This isn't a matter of a creepy guy being stalking a girl he has never been with or who isn't even attracted to him.

He went after me first. He approached me first. He asked for my social media first. He took my clothes off first.

>>17587042

You are bad at math.

You are interested in this guy because he is rich.

He is interested in you because you are young.

There are very few rich men. He will only get richer with time.

There are very many young women. You will only get older with time.

You have already given this man the only thing you had to offer him. It wasn't even challenging for him.

What can you offer him now? You're already one month older. Your value has gone down. His value has gone up.

Men will only stay with you long term if they want to have children. They will only want to have children with YOU if you demonstrate that you have the values and temperament to be a competent spouse and mother. If he is interested in children at all, he is shopping for the best genetics, best attitude, most loyalty, etc. He may not even want children yet. Did you bother to ask?

You had sex with a middle eastern sultan on your first date. You are his latest young white trophy. He is laughing about how he has turned you into an oil-burner. Not only is he done with you, but now you are also stained forever.

Here's what you should do.
1) go to church. Find Jesus. Repent for being promiscuous
2) find women who are in their 50s (or older) and are still married. Ask them what it takes to be a proper wife and mother. Read books about it.
3) Stop having sex with guys. Immediately.
4) Work on finding a white man, closer to your age, to marry and lovingly serve. You should want to get married before you hit 25; by 28 you will have hit the wall and your prospects decrease dramatically.
5) when you meet your man, you will need to tell him about your past mistakes. It will be up to you to convince him that you have seen the foolishness of your youth, and have repented, and have been purified and saved via the power of Christ.

Sending the Sultan nudes of yourself is basically the dumbest idea I've ever heard. When you're in a hole, the first step is to STOP DIGGING.

>>17576408
>I asked him who she was and he deleted me off Facebook and snapchat.

Now this is a guy who knows his actual self-worth.

>>17587230

>oil-burner

Lol you KKK whiteknights crack me up

>>17587243
>whiteknights

do you even know what words mean?

A white Knight is someone who defends the reptutation/behavior of a woman, no matter how little she deserves it.

I don't see any way to interpret what I've written in that way. But in case it is somehow unclear, let me be clearer: Your behavior is garbage, and if you don't radically change it, you will die miserable and alone.

>>17578799

kys please

>>17587230
>>>/pol/

>>17587251

I'm not OP Cletus, I don't know if you were being ironic with all the "Go to church and marry a white man" stuff but you probably were, which makes your whole post a KKK whiteknight manifesto.

>>17587255

Not an argument.

>>17587258

I was not being ironic. OP asked for advice. I am offering advice that has the highest odds of working out well for OP.

There are of course statistical outliers. Very occasionally I suppose some 20 year old somewhere manages to land a happy life with a rich older man.

Just like some kids from the ghetto do grow up to be NBA stars.

But the odds are not in your favor - either way.

And why bring race into it? Again, the odds. If you look at relationship outcomes between white women and non-white men, you see

- higher rates of spousal abuse
- higher rates of absentee parenting
- higher rates of child abuse
- higher rates of infidelity
- higher rates of abandonment

Again, there are outliers. And as far as these stats go, in the USA, black men are much worse to white women than are middle eastern men. So, she's not making the worst possible choice. Just a bad one, unlikely to work out in her favor, even if it does seem to "work out".

>>17587261
You are a lunatic and need to return to your containment board

tl;dr >>>/pol/

>>17587281

That guy who told you to go back to /pol/ had the right idea.

>>17587289

Does "lunatic", in your dictionary, mean "someone who makes lucid arguments that i don't happen to like?"

Anyway, it's not about me. OP has asked for advice. I have provided some. If you think it's bad advice, you're welcome to explain why, or to suggest something better.

>>17587305
No, actually. I know you're too scared of any form of objective media but you can look up "lunatic" for yourself

There's no argument. You're a terrible troll and need to stop, or if god forbid you believe the filth you type out then you really are a lunatic

>>17587319

I've made a number of claims of a statistical nature about outcomes for women in different relationship situations.

They are all testable claims. They are either true or false. Finding them filthy is a value judgement you are making. But what is true doesn't cease to be true merely because you do not like it.

I believe the statements I have made are reflective of the available evidence.

Do you think the evidence is wrong, my interpretation is wrong, or that your feelings are simply more important than evidence?

>>17587042
And then he told you he wasn't interested. And then he deleted you from social media. And now you think sending nudes will fix things