My girlfriend who has had cancer for the past two years just

wow. how did you find out?

>>17343241
I am sorry for your loss.
You try to separate emotions.
You allow yourself to be angry for her cheating, to feel hurt because of it. And you allow yourself to grief and to feel like shit for the death of a loved one. It won't be easy, it will be painful.
Go to therapy. Take some time to figure stuff out. Talk about this as much as you can.

>>17343246
>>17343246
I was logging onto her laptop to try and figure out how to do the Facebook memorialize page thing

And I read her messages

And there were so many guys

I feel ill

Well, she's dead and you are not. So, that's a plus, right? Focus on that. I'm sure your head will be fucked for a bit so just engage in copious amounts of meaningless sex with multiple women for years while remaining emotionally unattached. Don't take it personally either. Her actions are a reflection of her. Also... if you believe in Karma... she got it hard.

>>17343241
You can't stop this feeling,
Deep inside of you,
Girl you just don't realize, what you do to him.

>>17343251
I'm so sorry buddy
Try to calm down, destroy some bottles if you have to
Know that we are here for you and that we are people who care
Take some time off if you can to grieve and rest and when you are ready you can begin to heal

>>17343241
Just put yourself in her shoes. She had cancer, I presume at a young age? So life took a huge steaming dump on her face. It's unfair as fuck. And in those situations, people's ability to feel empathy can be greatly reduced. They don't feel bad about taking advantage of people because compared to their impossibly hopeless situation it's really nbd.

You're not obligated to mourn her in the same way that you would have otherwise. An AMAZING person wouldn't have done that, sure. But don't think about it in terms of her as an individual. Think about it as a reality of the human race overall. People are shitty. Human nature is shitty. Accept it, and enjoy people for what they are regardless. Good luck OP I wish you the best.

>>17343241
Well think about it this way, she got what was coming to her.

She was going to die anyway, mate. Don't think too much about it. It was her way to do the most she could before dying. I am not saying you should approve, but since she is dead, there is nothing to do about it. You'll forget her, don't worry. Memories fade away, especially when people die, no matter how strongly you felt about them.

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>>17343241
She's six feet under and you're not. That's it. I know it's easy for me to say behind a keyboard, but you have to just move on. Use this as an opportunity for growth and self-develop, whether it be lifting weights, reading books, picking up an instrument, or try and find someone better. Don't let this bog you down.

Karma's a bitch, remember that.

>>17343241
get tested

Well karma got her

>>17343241
I am sorry for your losses. Both of them. I can't even imagine what it must be like to have to handle both of these things at once.

The best advice I can give you is to play them against one another. Both kinds of losses require time and distance to heal: time is easy, distance is hard, but you can't skip either of them. Each, however, should help you establish the distance you need for the other.

>>17343241
Literally you got the best revenge, she cheated and died for it BUT it wasnt your fault. Therefor you can rest at peace, she did it upon herself. Be happy you're gone of a deserving cancer patient. She died knowingly cheating, she didnt even tell you before she passed. Vile being.

>>17343241
she was a selfish cunt, hate that you had to find out and she had to know you would. My question though is what you would have done had you known she was fucking everybody. Would you have stayed because she was ill or dumped her.

>>17343349
>>17343311
>things cheaters say
>>17343396
Best advice ITT

Sorry, but her death changes nothing. She cheated and obviously didn`t respect you for the entire relationship. I don`t think she deserves your mourning just because she died.

Oh fuck, I wish this happened to all cheating cunts.

Every broad I've dated has cheated on me. I never felt the need to discover how much, but I'm willing to bet the numbers are comparable to your dead counterpart. So, what's the number, op?

>>17343241
urinate on her grave
publicize this information to forever brand her as a slut in the memories of others

thats fucking awesome that you found that shit, OP.

now you don't even have to feel sad she's dead!

another slut bites the dust

>>17343646
every woman cheats. either you know one day or you don't

Was her cancer HPV related?

>>17343673
Every man cheats.

>>17343241
did you think she loved you the whole time?

>>17343694
Yes

Piss on her grave and be happy you dont have cancer?

Fortunately enough shes rotting in the dirt and you're not! So get that cock in gear and go fuck something

>>17343697
if you consider masturbating to trap porn cheating then I guess you have a point

>>17343701
>HPV
what a shocker

OP please get tested bro, she may have wanted to take some folks with her

>>17343701
Then you can console yourself knowing she died from her cheating.
Hope you don't get cancer as well bro.

>>17343241
Sometimes when I feel like the world is too much, I imagine slowly sinking into the deep blue of the ocean. Right before I drown, I open my eyes to see the reality that I and everyone face.

Sorry, I'm sure she was special to you. I'm sure you were special to her too. You can't kick a dead man and expect a response, so don't. Take a deep breath and mourn for her life.

This thread is making me so hard. My justice boner is fucking massive.

Awesome, now if only all sluts got cancer and died quickly.

>>17343777
Divine trips, God smote the slut.

Keep going, God, you're doing your own work.

>>17343241
>cheater dies of cancer
This must make so many anons on /adv/ happy.

>>17343981
>This must make so many anons on /adv/ happy.
Not for most of the regulars, I think. The redpillers, yes, but that's more because she was female, as opposed to because she cheated.

>>17343697
I've never cheated and neither has my girlfriend.

Why so cynical?

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Well, at least now you can tell that in other circumstances you might have wished her to get cancer.

My ex, love of my life, had mother dying on cancer, also her dog had cancer too, she had panic attacks, bipolar and overall unstable life and personality. I wanted to be her island on stormy sea, you know, that thing. I was patient, understanding, I was her idol and reason to live. Once she made me swear that I'll never leave her, at least not in this time when her mother dies, when she has no one else to turn to and she won't survive being left in such situation. We started planning wedding.

2 months before wedding I've discovered she was fucking other guy (maybe guys), once I confronted her she broke down crying. From her Facebook conversations I've discovered that I was only a plan B and safe landing in case he rejects her and it was all about the other guy all this time.

Before I left her she started insinuating that she has cancer herself or some shit.

Fuck it all.
I left her.
No contact till now.

Tell me how I should feel.

>>17344009
Dodged a bullet

>>17343994
I would personally be just as happy if a male cheater died. I just generally hate pieces of shit like that and wish the absolute worst on them, no matter who they are. In this case, it happened to be OP's girlfriend, and I'm celebrating the degenerate's slow and painful death, just as I would that of a male degenerate cheater.

It seems you have some skewed notions here.

>>17344009

I remember the thread you started some time ago.

Any updates?

>>17344009
You should be very happy that you have that whore out of your life before you signed papers. Maybe God will give that skank cancer too.

>>17344024
Nah, and I hope for no more. Though I'm still processing it.

Just a story with a moral for the others. Though I'm still quite not sure what the moral is.

>>17344009
Well, I can't fault your taste in video games.

But I think I remember you. It was about a week ago that when you first posted about this. Life is simply unfair. Don't you think?

>>17343251
Well do the facebook memoralize thing regardless for her family and such.

>>17344036
I think so. And I was always ready for much. Maybe that's why it did not hit me that heavily, just one sleepless night before I confronted her.

I'm still conflicted though if I should blame her, because she is obviously insane and menatlly immature + going through difficult shit. I didn't even feel that much hurt because of all this cheating because I had known I was the closest person to her and the best she could ever get. But on the other hand she has been treating me like shit and no matter the circumstances, she had known what she had been doing. I even told herself to not blame herself too much, that's all jut some childish stupid stuff, before leaving because I still want her to get well. Fuck, let her get well with this other guy, I'll be happy to know that. But on the other hand I think I should give her worse of me, because she deserves that and she never considered my feelings and I should stop worry about her.

Holly shit, I've written an essay. TL;DR - to be mad or not to be mad at all

>>17343251
It's always the Facebook, huh?

Fascinating how many things were probably left unrevealed before social media were discovered.

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>>17343241
I wish I could say "sorry for your loss". Sorry, can't. At least you're alive and that cheating cunt is out for the count.

>>17344009

Holy shit. I really feel sorry for ya bro.

>>17344066
Also, get tested op.

Majority of things in life are undeserved.

But sometimes, accidentally, some deserved things happen.

>>17343241
Couldn't have happened to a nicer girl.

Incidentally, I haven't laughed that hard in a long time. Were you a serial rapist in a past life or something?

>>17343592
>things cheaters say
Comparing a cancer victim with a known time limit to a perfectly healthy person.
Tell me, what would you do if you were told you had exactly 365 days from this moment to live. If an asteroid was on a collision course and nothing would survive. Would you be good? Would you follow all the rules and do as you told?
I wouldnt. I would do what i want and fuck consequences. Because life is all we have. It sucks that OP is the dude holding his heart in his had but i doubt his is the only heart she broke.
No one ever considers that maybe the guys she "fucked" had fallen in love with her too. But they didnt get nearly as much time and are probably depressed she's gone.
But we're selfish creatures in the end. All that matters is our own happyness and self value.

Move on.

>>17344097
I think you are using your own measure for others.
Dying good before turning bad is an option for some people too, not better, but a matter of preference.

Expect from others what you expect from yourself though, that's truth.

>>17344065
That's why I keep all this social networks bs very secretly. Also, it's better if you don't have friends and family like me, so no one can see what you doing.

>>17344009
Women are crazy insecure. They always have multiple plans.
If you wanna figure out why you gotta see shit from their point of view.
They live in a different world with different priorities.

>>17344097
Take your wife's son and fuck off back to tumblr

>>17344127
>non argument
Im sure you are an absolute selfless angel
Into the trash you go
>>>/r9k/

>>17344097
uh, no. I wouldn't spend my last year cheating on the person who loves me. I'm sorry I don't share your opinion but I do hope you get happily cucked by the sociopath of your dreams in the future.

>>17344097
You should read more carefully.

She started cheating before she got cancer, and the cancer was caused by her HPV. Essentially, she whored herself to death and kept whoring.

By the way, some of us would actually like to die with some dignity and honor intact. Not all of us are degenerate pieces of shit like you.

>>17344097
If I knew I had a limited time to live, I would most definitely attempt to reinforce and forge the greatest relationship with the people already in my life. I mean, I'm fucking dying! Going to the next stage, life, whatever is better knowing you had a powerful bond with a few select people to live about your memory.

>>17344058
You're giving her more thought than she deserves. Her approach to you was cold and logical: "keep him around to provide resources in case I can't get this other guy". I suggest you treat her the same: "forget that cunt, she operates under no moral guidelines, and will hurt anyone to get what she wants."