How do you deal with a shitty past?

>How do you deal with a shitty past?

You look towards a bright future

>>17121638
Some author wrote "We all spend our lives planning revenge on the high school bully"

The point is that it's common, it's normal and, while it's a waste of time, it's not something to beat yourself up over.

Someone else wrote "Living well is the best revenge"

>>17122150
It's really not.

>>17121638
anyone that says they don't wish they could go back and fix some stuff is full of shit, we all wish we could but that's part of the process and it's how we learn

who you were then has nothing to do with who you are now

>>17122166
Who i am now is a shitty person

>>17122174
so fix it dammit. i'm assuming you're an early to mid 20 something that's already wishing you could go back to high school to change yourself but thats never going to happen. your goal right now is to not be a 30 or 40 something looking back and going shit... now i regret high school and my 20's

>>17122186
Im not OP

Im a shitty person and it wont change normie

>>17122150

Success is indeed the best form of revenge. I was part of a tight knit group in elementary and middle school and some of them turned on me out of nowhere. It sucked. I never found out what the problem was.

I saw a psychologist and struggle for years. I overcame it, and now I'm a college grad while that guy is in and out of prison and no longer talking to his family.

>>17121638
>Do any of you have feelings lingering from the past that affect you to this day and make you doubt yourself.
Of course, almost all of us do (others are sociopaths, but they suffer in other ways).
This is usually called "regret" and it's a universal part of the human experience.

>>17122208
Cancer.
Why are you on a board that's semi related to self improvement if you don't even believe you can change? People like you are leaches. You don't deserve success because you haven't earned it faggot.

Go back to your containment board >>>/r9k/