cozy end of weekend edition
Did you have a good weekend mtfg? Do anything fun or interesting?
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>>You need to try on a style that women your age wear
>like what? My face looks like shit regardless, I am fucked
Woo, got a moped today, anyonre know how easy it is to go to school, and live full time off loans?
>Wear panties underneath when outside.
>Switch to boxers at home because im scared i'll stain them, worn it down.... or something.
Am I the only one with this disgusting habit?
>How can you have a guy mode?
because i am 40 pounds heavier than when I started hrt
once I starve myself and shed this weight, then my face and upper arms wont be so fat and I might pass then
I don't know if you can tell in the pic but I am sucking in my newly formed double chin
Haha, wow, she could totally pull off that look. Do it Kayla!
mado and another friend stayed over for the weekend and I tried shrooms with yume and my roommate
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if anyone has suggestions for beginner makeup stuff pls post it!!
my weekended sucked here have some pics of me pulling ugly funny faces
tfw the girl you are interested in is miles and miles away in america
im making a little package for her, im filling it with girly stuff like nail polish and perfume, it also has a mannequin's hand inside it and a watch, alongside a portrait of her
are you here valerie? please whack your head off the table and forget what you read
>get bored and decide to spill tea to this guy who msgs me all the time
tf else would i mean
does he think i'm secretly a bond girl????
>tfw a Niqab would accentuate my eyes which are up there in my top 3 worst features
he could be thinking you're in a committed relationship, trans, a member of isis, radfem, anything. remember most men will have no clue what you mean and keep their answer subtle till you make it obvious or they have to flip a coin on the answer
S C R E A M
IDEK WHAT TO SAY TO THIS GUY RN
you could have reused this one. seriously though that's a little lame but I guess this is something we just have to live with :(
Does it look like an orc eye then?
>Whatever you say
That's not entirely true, I'm a known liar
>Tfw hooded eyes
>Tfw bad brow
>Tfw boring ass blonde with blue eyes
I kind of GET Kayla.
For that, anything she says, I kind of understand where she's coming from. With that in mind, I'm kind of sympathetic about what she goes through and how she comes off.
I guess you can say I just feel empathy towards her.
>Trying out a tripcode thing because reasons.
I caught it at the lights on saturday so I had to scramble to take a picture before the green, the local kfc owner has these plates I laughed
im stuggleing to put on weight as well, but im not too bad, i just have a mental block about how i used to be 200 pounds muscle when i was a guy... then depression and a mental facility came... and 60 pounds went
>tfw nothing can be done about your giant male skeleton
pic related, my skeleton on the right
Im 6.1... and obvoiusly not a whale
Looking at my face right now, I think I have a reasonable potential to not be a hideous manfreak
I'll probably never be beautiful or traditionally attractive, and my chin is longer than I would like, but overall not terrible
Does anyone else here remember what hope feels like?
>tfw people say I can pass but ugly as fuck
Not like I ever wanted a partner anyways.
>tfw I visibly need to lose weight from my midsection
Is there somewhere I could swim in private without having to hide my tits?
My abdomen is disgusting
A picture of Kayla.
She's actually kind of attractive.
>Playing with tripcodes
Anyone in the lake Tahoe area? I am pretty sure I will be there around the second or third weekend of February to go shoot off some guns and see if it is a good place to set up my bug out center. My dad's friend has a house up there for his bug out house when shit hits the fan. My dad and I will be investigating it, but I suppose if anyone is up there we can meet up.
Oh, I might go to New Orleans in a few weeks. It will come down if I can get my parents to pay for a flight. The room and shit is already paid for, but I have to sleep with my cousin. If I can get the trip to work I might stay a few days in Alabama to meet a friend too.
Oh, I might go back to Phoenix for another gun show and to hang out with another cousin in mid March if I don't move to Portland or Seattle before then.
>She's actually kind of attractive.
don't say that, I look like shit and posting here now has only reinforced how I will never pass ever, I know I am ugly and not even the most angled shot ever could make me pass as female
Fail. I've settled on my new super sekkrit trip code.
Ya damn pollack
>ever going on a date
>tfw literally too ugly to date
>tfw so ugly i'm barely human
Wow yeah that does sound chasery doesn't it? I'll accept that as a penance for giving a little encouragement.
Remember that discussion we had? Yeeaaaahhhh....
On a side note, den mother kind of dispenses both praise and criticism. Just wait for Kayla to tick me off if me being nice is too weird.
It's possible to age that fast.
I'm 22 but I look like 35 and i'm disgusting.
Me and my girlfriend went to a vape shop today (that's an absurd sentence) but the guy was flirting w/ me the entire time, then we got back in the car and my gf was like omg hes so cute, and apperently asked for my # but my gf shut him down... great feeling tho
Just because I look like a human doesn't mean I act like one, you're probably better off than me
My ex was the one to ask me out, and I barely made it through eating Chinese food without making an ass of myself
>ywn dry Kayla's tears before staring longingly into her big eyes before kissing deeply before stripping her down slowly and taking her right there until she moans your name
> because the trans community is filled with fulltime drag queens, playing the role of a woman rather than actually being one.
Dollface stop appropriating trans struggles and lives
We will see who is laughing when a solar flare hits, an earth quake happens, civil war happens or sanders/ Clinton is elected
yeah I want to go check out denver, but I don't know anyone I can see up there.
because shit can happen
I am not insane, I just like having back up plans.
I don't pass and everyone is nice to me.
Maybe just accept being trans and ugly.
Places I have been to in the last three months.
>Seattle, I stayed at my cousins
>Phoenix, stayed at my cousins
>San Francisco, stayed at a friends
>Portland Oregon, I stayed at a friends
>Vegas, I stayed in my parents room while they gambled.
>San Diego, stayed with an aunt
All the flights cost about 450 in total including baggage. If I go to New Orleans i only need to pay for a flight and what I will spend since my other cousins already paid for the room.
So I'm pretty sure I'm just a giant lesbian and I have no idea how to end it with my boyfriend.. Any advice mtfg?
i am. i came out to work in july, friends and family in september, started HRT in september, went full time end of october, started passing reasonably well a few weeks ago at 4 months mones
but im a 27 y o hon so dont mind me
I have been since August.
I know I'm going to come off as an asshole if I do that...
2x the magical powers
No. We have never even had sex.. I was never comfortable about it. I'm going to retain my virginal maiden status forever :(
:( I tried to like boys, I suck at it though
Funny enough, it is an old JC higgins 30:06, but it is really an old fn bold action 22inch. It was made in Belgium too. I kind of want to call it funko after the FN gun from Upotte, but my dad will kill me lol.
It depends, if you are an sjw then go live in Portland, but if you want to be employed and have shit to do, then Seattle. SF isn't that lgbt any more desu. Only old people are in the Castro and most lgbt people have been pushed to Oakland. Portland and seattle felt more queer friendly than SF did. Hell, even weho felt more queer friendly.
Go to Phoenix if you just want to live in hell on earth though.Funny enough I might move to Phoenix for a job ;_:
Also I need new conditioner ;_:
"is this enough?"
I have been full time for over a year and when I mean full time I mean I have had a female ID for over a year. I was kind of full time before that too, but you know having a female ID basically means you live as a woman 100% of the time lol....
show ass or put a pencil between tits.
No, Phoenix is fine for being trans, it is just I can't take the sprawl and the strip malls.
I come from California and have been to Washington and Oregon, I have had my share of weed lol. I can't smoke it until i get a job though sadly. Even then I am not too into smoking it because it makes my anxiety even worse.
I hate going to Phoenix, it always makes my skin break out. The air down there is gross.
Now I have to ask myself if furries count.
A full-time hon is more a woman than the prettiest non-fulltime.
Good, good. It really irks me out when people are complaining on here about not passing but then drop that they boymode at its like wtf you aren't even trying.
I started presenting when I got this job, bc everyone calls me by my girlname and stuff (I put it as my preferred name on my application) and I passed somewhat well so....
I was clocked a shitton of times bc I was only at like 6 months when I started but its worth it
>tfw you ask your family to use female pronouns and they say they will but they dont
im a 556 girl myself... waiting for my new handguard
He wants sex.
Also, he seems to accept you for who you are.
I call that a win.
Doing pretty well! Just here for some weekly /mtfg/ bullying. I got my head together enough to update my resume kinda perusing job openings that are going on. Sorry to hear about your headache, drink some water if its hot don't wanna be dehydrated!
You sure don't look like a girl...
Legally I don't own any guns and they are all my dad's, but the day I gain official residency in another state that isn't so anti fun I will own like two or three guns.
But here is a picture of me with a ruger m77
ouch, we can meet up next time I am there though.
I have like 172 dollars in my wallet.
yeah I don't want to buy anything of my own until I move out of state. I kind of want to get a nice AR-15 to start for a gun to rifle when shit hits the fan. I think my dad will give me a Remington 700 and a shot gun when I move out of state. From there I will most likely buy a Glock 19 and a small gun like a Ruger lc380 for a concealed carry.
If you are still looking for work and I move to Phoenix I think I can get you a job where I will be working. The only problem is it is in Scottsdale. The company is trans friendly too and my mom has been trying to convince me to go, but I want to see what my school situation will be and if I can move to Portland.
>mum says supports me
>doesn't want to know anything
>pretends I never said anything
Maybe, a move is a bit awkward for me though, what kind of job though? I'm definitely down to meet up next time you're around here though should be fun, and we can plan a bit and have an idea of something to do XD.
But yeah that traffic was horrible. At least I left the casino 20$ up on the way back!
>Do u think i would have more natural looking and feeling breasts than having moderate plus or high profile for a flat-chested transexuals like me? i am 22, 5'8" and 140lbs
>At 5'8" tall, you would be considered a tall female, but your present chest and breast base anatomy is masculine (relatively wide, with taut skin and youthful robust musculature).
wow that's really rude :/
Good for you. The only way to truly be a grill is to live as one. Its nice you have an accepting workspace.
You sound like you wanna complain about that but I cant register it as a negative thing.
Pretty awesome, I was just playing Diablo with him earlier. I get all lonely when I sleep alone now.
Yeeeeesssssssssssss, my favorite earrings.
Has anyone here had electrolysis on their upper lip?
I am going to find somewhere to get my moustache gone very soon and I need advice.
I'll be getting a 1.5cm advancement on my hairline when i get my brow done in a couple of years time... upper face ffs from facial team. maybe mones will have worked on my hairline a bit more then. i'm only 4 months and i have spent the last 10 years filling myself with butt injected man poison.
it feels good not to be hugboxed and have my physical flaws i see in myself pointed out. i'm not BDD. thanks senpai. hey at least i have my personality.
I really wish this didn't take so long..hrt is great for me honestly. I've wanted to transition since I was in grade 6. I just never realised it was actually an option. Thanks for existing everyone.
I might go to a /k/ cali meet up so yeah ....
Well I will be on the tech side of things, but the place in General is tech support for some gizmo. The problem is there is nothing really do to in Phoenix other than going shooting, giving the indians money at their 'casino' and eating at a sonic. idk maybe we can find something to do lol.
I told you I don't pass.
yeah I will have the explore what I want to get, but i think I want an AR-15 first. I want to get a nice lower and build one from there. After I get a standard 9mm gun and my cc gun, I might get another rifle. idk, it will depend if my dad gives me a rifle on what I will get next. If I get the rem 700 like I want, I think I will get an sks or some slavic gun with a wood stock.
yeah my dad has that gun. It was my grand father and I will most likely end up with it when he dies. I love it desu.
yeah I went full spic on that picture. Maybe I should have saved my eye brows and sharpied in my eye brows.
Picture is how hon I look.
I dunno, I've heard contradicting things about electrolysis. They say that if you are unlucky enough and the person doing it ends up a hack you can get some serious scarring.
i mean, it made me cry because i identified with some of it, like the anxiety of girlmoding for the first time or when she is looking at herself in the full length mirror, but it also made me feel weird and uncomfortable because it was like appropriating my experiences and presenting them in this weird removed, fetishy way. the link above i think sums up my feelings pretty well, i agree with the author a lot
Reminder that suzuya a qt
>a few days after letting mom know I'm trans
>asks if I would prefer to be called something else
>asks if I'd like to act differently and if she could help with that
>asks if I'd like to dress differently and if she could help with that
>asks if I'd like help coming out to other family members
>I tell her no to everything, I'm still too uncomfortable with myself for anything like that
I'm such a cowardly piece of shit, I don't deserve to have such an accepting family.
idk what this is supposed to mean. i was just posting my personal thoughts on the movie. it made me feel weird and uncomfortable. although, desu, the fact that it bills itself as based largely on the real life of the main character kind of does imply that it will be somewhat close to reality??
Holy shit that is a dream scenario. Get over yourself and take her help.
I would have killed for my mom to have acted that way. Instead she has been the biggest opponent to me being trans...
Did you get good results?
I have very sparse black facial hair and I don't know how well it's going to work out for me.
Oh and I don't have thousands upon thousands of dollars to maintain treatment for years. I'm looking for the fastest, most effective method. I wish they could just zap your hair once or twice and then you'd be free of it for life...
>For context: I had only recently discovered I was a trans woman since March of this year. In June, I started going out and presenting as a woman.
excuse me but how old is this author?
>come out to my parents
>"we don't have to call you something else right?"
i already told you months ago that it wasn't alright to call my ex by his girl name
>"you're not going to act differently are you?"
>"are you going to start crossdressing?"
i'm going to do what i damn well please
>"who else have you told?"
literally the only two people i trust with the information
I was referring to the review you posted, not your opinion. But anyway, I'm a huge fan of film and I can understand what "Based on a True Story" can do to the average viewers mentality. If you want an example, check out the movie Fargo.
In regards to The Danish Girl, it is a movie, not reality. Lili Elbe was a real person with a real story. Focus films pictures adapted this character basis to evoke emotions to a predominantly white artistic and female audience. And they did an okay job at that.
You don't look too bad. Not entirely passable but not unattractive.
Lol, I'm white as fuck but I love em. I don't think Ill ever do the sharpie brows though haha. You're too hard on yourself, not being beautiful perfect passing can be depressing but you could be so much worse.
Ive been there, give it time. Tell them you appreciate the offer and will take her up on it in the future. Develop a strong relationship with your mother because your mother is amazing.
You get used to laser the more sessions of it you get. I need to get more laser done. I get it for dirt cheap because Ive given the place I go to a ton of referrals.
I am just so manly looking and no one would ever take me seriously as a girl. Sure I know a bunch of nice people who treat me like a girl, but I know I don't really pass. And yeah despite my talks about guns and coding I am otherwise pretty fem. I don't wear make up much though to protect my skin. Maybe when I go out and want to look nice, but other than that my face is bear. I do need to get more laser though. I get my eye brows done at least every month. I prefer threading to anything else.
well it's good honestly. i know my imperfections. i know i'm insecure. i know it probably pisses people off that i call myself a hon when i got a lot of good going for me. and i know it upsets my friends and partner when im down on myself. but im realistic, i'm a work in progress. it doesn't stop me from being full time. it doesn't stop me from working a job, living, being happy, being happy for others, wanting to help people, and doesn't stop me from being in love. having someone who makes me feel like the most beautiful woman ever helps so much. having family and friends who love and support helps so much too. but it doesn't stop me from wanting to fix things either. gotta put in the work and effort. i'll get there, senpai. encouragement takes many forms.
ps i'm sceening the danish girl on my forehead at 8 if anyone wants to come see, bring ur 3D specs cus that floppy tuck scene is coming at you
>tfw mom is getting almost too enthusiastic about the idea of me as a girl
I'm glad she's supportive, but it's weird for her to be so positive about something that's so awful it makes me want to kill myself. Also I don't think she realized I'm ugly and have no hope of passing.
She's hoping that if she is positive, then it will help you feel positive about the matter as well.
it hurts like hell so bring pain killers. its like being stabbed in the face, first session. after a couple, its like being flicked in the face. with painkillers and after 4 sessions its a relaxing joke. first session stinks tho you smell your skin scorching and it smells delicious
as for me I'm being seth rogan
If BlinQ calls me how trust me you don't want it to think you're hot
>angies results are mostly asian
that's great to hear oryx, why couldn't he before ;-;
I am part japanese, but everyone always assumed I was asian especially when I dyed my hair black.
These apps are bullshit anyways
>tfw pic related on blinq
you look qt there even if you don't think so Angie
This website is full of shit
i think this site is kinda dumb...what counts as a masculine or feminine feature?
I still tabletop game, vidya, also into guns. Don't let anyone tell you your interests determine your gender. I'm the same way, most days Im lazy and wear no makeup at all. I got depressed a while back and just stopped trying most of the time, never really went away. I only wear makeup for events, and like you said it ways better on the skin.
I have my brows waxed and plucked by a professional because I'm a white bitch.
According to pictriev I am 14 years old.
I wish I could be an eva pilot too, pictriev, I really do.
Yes and no, there's some doctors that will help push for an easy approval and work with you, but there's a bill trying to change how the medical card system works soon to basically shut down those shops. Luckily I got mine from my General Practitioner, so I don't care much.
eh not really, I am happy for what I am in terms of race. I just think some parts of black culture are pretty neat. Not to into most of it though.
yeah I know. I think I might be some what gender queer honestly. Or more like I don't give a fuck about gender norms. I still act fem enough to be gendered female though.
Well I am pretty ugly and it even got my age right.
I really would love to see the algorithm for the blinq app
>mfw pictriev ages you 35 when you're 22 and get aged 18-19 constantly
Ty, ty. Anything above hmmm would have satisfied me. Its nice to be pretty but its more important to not be ugly.
I don't believe in any of that third gender/genderfluid shit. In my eyes we're all bisexual and there are two genders. If you don't adhere to gender norms it doesn't mean you arent a grill, atleast in my eyes.
Yeah, Im master of bullshit! Princess of /mtfg/!
>tfw it ages you at 14
Yeah I'm glad on that, and it was putting me as female a couple years younger than where I am which is nice. I'm just nervous cause I feel like there are a few small things I can work on before jumping to something major like surgery but can't put my finger on it idk.
yeah pretty much this. I am bi as fuck and just don't care. The one 'good' thing about being trans means that since you already a freak nothing can really make you more of a freak besides being a pedo, furry or something so we get to experiment with stuff that people stuck being hetro don't. I am a girl and bi so that is about it. I don't care about gender norms that much though. I will say that I feel safer dressing as a girl though rather than a guy. I think it just lets people know I am a fag and they don't have to guess.
idk I am going to go code now.
I think a transgirl added me on facebook but I've never met her before
>one dude pic
>rest are of her as a girl