Not really scary but it spooks me. So my grandmother died before I was born and she was kinda young like 60 ish and my mom was like 20 something. Anyway she had this cane with a cardinal on top of it that she always used. It was like her signature thing. She loved cardinals. When I was born my mom took me and my brother farther south because her sister had moved also. Anyway, whenever something important or new or happy happens, a cardinal is nearby. When we were visiting my brothers college it flew by. When grandpa died it flew by when we were grieving. When I visited a new school it flew by. It only happens when something important happens. Are me and my mom crazy for thinking it means something or is there a reason?