There was this book i read ages a go that was something like this:
There was this spaceship, one of many, escaping a dying earth, and an already populated planet (although unknown to them) they were headed for because it was habitable.
The story switched between focussing on this one guy on the space ship and this other lady on the planet who was being trained to create dreams (maybe?) and astral project. At one point these two started communicating through telepathy somehow, this guy was the only one she could do that with on the ship and it was unnatural to be able to do it at such a long distance for her species. She could also see into people's hearts/souls or w/e and talked about how tainted humans were despite this guy seeming fine. The book ended with everyone meeting up mostly peacefully but with work ahead I think was implied, I've been pointed to dreamweavers dilemma before but didn't find quite what i remember, any suggestions?
I've read a similar story about a girl who grew up on the moon with a small moon colony post apocalypse earth. A boy from Earth goes to the moon and they somehow meet up. I remember the girl's proportions were messed up due to the low gravity.
Chaos walking - The Knife of Never Letting Go ??
It sounds pretty similar.