melancholy.

This too shall pass.

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>Up on melancholy hill
>There's a plastic tree
>Are you here with me?

I feel ya bro

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Hang in there bro

>>6771499
Think of it this way.
You're no longer in a relationship with someone who does not care about you.
You got rid of the thing that drains your life.

The hardest part isn't this I know, it's the fact that someone you trusted has betrayed you. But hey, that's what happens to loyal people (if you were loyal that is).
You take a risk, put in time and effort and money and love in the hopes that it won't end that way, and you've got nothing else to do.

[blogpost] It happened to me as well, dozens of times but this one girl, did it so I wouldn't find out and did not tell me either, that's the worst. But I found out at the end. Smashed myself with some friends in a bar and went home on foot, took me like an hour and a half of walking home at 5 AM or something, crying constantly, not being able to contain myself from crying on my way home, lack of breath. Found out during a winter, I remember it was snowing, did not feel any warmth or cold.[/blogpost]

It's over.

There's no longer someone that betrays you right now.
Best you can do is fight it off, it sucks, but your life ain't over, it never is.
There are always ways around to deal with life, go find them.

Best of luck!

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hey i couldnt contribute to melancholic papes but i just wanted to say, someday youll look past this and feel ok :/ fuck i dont know what else to say but i swear you will be okay

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>>6771499
My four year relationship is in its terminal phase.

I feel you man.

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>>6773621
not OP but you gave me strength dealing with similar shit. thanks

>>6771499
My girlfriend and i are very much in love right now, but im so scared that one day all of my hard work will be a waste. Is there any signs that its coming? is it inevitable? help me out Anon. also will post pics


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>>6773936
not sure if this counts

>>6773934
I just came off from a 7 year relationship. She was the one who broke it. I was told by her that her love for me started to die a year ago. I was too busy to see the signs. I gave her too much freedom in the relationship. While I was in med school, she was in college exploring with new friends. She found people that she found more fun to hang out with than me. I was happy for her at first to find new friends since we were both loners. 3 months after we broke up, she started dating one of her new friends.

My advice for you anon is to make sure you don't give her too much freedom. Don't be a control freak either. If you try to plan something with her and something always conflicts with it, that's also a sign.

>>6774793
You are basically me. Story is almist identical. My two main lessons from this trainwteck are: 1) never again think of a woman as a 'soulmate'. We are alone in thisvworld and the best thing we can find are some friendly/similar individuals, but no such thing as 'the one'. Love but don't even for a minute think about this as destiny, the universe is random. 2)limited control and healthy oversight over the whole relationship. The moment we sit back and let things go their course is the moment we lose. This is coming from a 32-year old who after several girlfiends/flames thought he fought 'the one' and stuck to her for 6 years.

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I feel ya OP. Will dump some of my papes that i consider melancholy in your honor.

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I hope you'll learn to trust again anon, but it's gonna be difficult

>>6771499
just kill her. its not hard if you do it right

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>>6773763

>>6774793
man I feel you, me and my girlfriend were together for 3 years then I went away to study computer science and she found new friends too, and I was happy for her, but then she stopped texting me and talking to me. She cheated too, glad we broke up but man it still hurts

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>>6771940
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>>6775146
when no one was there.. anons always looked my way.
thank you so much anons.. your words mean a lot at a time like this.. i hope you all have nice lives.

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>>6775263
Time will heal your pain, OP. Not because it loses meaning, but because the further you distance yourself from the pain, the more you realize there is outside of your suffering.

I'm still in the process of healing. Was cheated on for a 3rd time in my life, but this time was a real nasty one. She did it multiple times with a mutual friend behind my back, and I only found out accidentally about half a year into the cheating. We were thinking about getting married.

But while time does heal the pain, don't be hard on yourself for feeling it. Putting yourself in a position of vulnerability like that isn't stupid like you may be feeling, it's brave, and it's a necessary part of forming a bond with someone. Don't kick yourself for being strong enough to make yourself necessarily vulnerable, and don't kick yourself for the pain you feel from it now. Assuming this just happened, let yourself go through the pain. Don't fight it, don't analyze it, don't let it influence your actions, just feel it and let it work itself out of your body.

Once the initial hurt has passed, then you can start analyzing and picking up the pieces. But when analyzing, don't bring her to mind at all. You're analyzing your own feelings, your own emotions. You will never be able to understand her intentions or feelings, and you'll only be torturing yourself trying to understand them. Don't just accept 'I hurt because I got cheated on'. Ask yourself exactly which part of the incident hurt the most, and why. This is a very critical time for understanding your own psychological problems, and by going through this careful analysis, you can transform this unexpected destructive event into something productive. You have the power to transform it into something that makes you grow stronger, that helps you mature emotionally. It is, in this sense, a blessing. Be thankful for your ability to come out of this a stronger and better human being than you were before. We'll all be alright my friend.

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I was with mine for a year and a half. She told me she was bi, and I thought nothing of it, I loved her. Soon I started to realize that not only was I going to have to compete with guys trying to hit on her, but I also needed to compete with girls, too. I always felt afraid she was cheating on me, but I just acted like I didn't care, because I wasn't using my brain. She started cheating on me a month before I told her it was over. I was furious, and I was extremely sad. I never thought the pain would go away, even if my relationship wasn't super long, I liked her too much to just leave her. A few weeks after the breakup I was told that she had cheated on me multiple times during the relationship, this just made me even more depressed. I always felt like I wasn't enough, that I was useless, and no girl liked me. Then one day I made a vow. I made a vow to be someone better than her, I wanted to show her (and other people that never believed in me) that I can find better people, and I can achieve greater things without her. Each and every day, I remind myself of my vow, and go on with my life, making it better than it ever was.

Never give up hope OP, I believe there is always someone out there, and if there really isn't, then you always have yourself.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtLT_swO3wY
Hang in there bro, this song always makes me feel a little better

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one day you will understand the strength behind pain. No matter how much pain you feel life will continue and the only thing you can do is keep living.

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>>6773934
Just be prepared, be sure it will happen. If it never happens, so... Great! But if it finally happens, nothing new, you are ready.

Don't worry OP it could be worse.
You could be dead.
Even if that's all you want right now.

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>>6771499

Going through the same OP.. Gf of two years got some new friends and started haning out alot withthis one guy..

Now she's let me for him and im living in the living room trying to find a new place to stay..

I know the pain you feel as I feel it too. Sure time will heal and one day all this will pass, untill then it will suck..

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>>6771499
Long-Distance anon here
3 years, 10 months and she dropped the bombshell that about a year and a half ago she started flirting around and needing more attention. Just a few days ago she fessed up to it (even if only because I confronted her about it). She's already with someone else. Don't lose hope Anon, we love you.

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>>6774562
If you're still here, mind dropping some more iron giant papes? I love them :D

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trust and love are funny things

how we hurt ourselves so much trying to make ourselves and others happy

but life goes on and everything you feel now will one day be a distant memory

keep going and find something better, its out there you just gotta look

>>6773771
>>6773772
These are both beautiful. Reverse image search says it's from Daniel Danger for anyone wondering. Some expensive stuff, but kinda wanna buy one. And most of them are sold out, unfortunately

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Have a request, will post a few papes in the hope someone sees.

I lost an image I had that was of Dr. Manhattan, much like
>>6773936

But it had the quote "I am tired of Earth. These people. I am tired of being caught in the tangle of their lives."

And it was over a massive field of stars, to make it a background and not just a picture of the comic book. Would be eternally grateful if some gentlemanly anon had a version.

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things get better

>>6771499
after 6 and a half year, I wanted to make more money, to buy us a flat, so we decided that until she finishes university masters, I go ahed to England and make 4x money.
She and her uncle's family and some of his friends go on a holiday to greece, which i couldnt join, because I had my plane ticket to england already. I'm in england, she is in greece, longest distance ever.
Friend of her uncle starts hitting on her, flirting and stuff, she just didn't care, didn't want anything from him. After one week they get home, all normal.
Skype and chat nearly every day. Decide that she comes to england for halloween, as it is her favorite holiday
1 week or 2, she breaks up with me on skype
and says she will not come to me.
Devistated me trying to go home and speak with her about this in person.
Got plane ticket 1-2 weeks after break up.
Talking, she says that the dude from the greek holiday continued to flirt with her, and they: went ice skateing, kissed, and later they went on a trip, went to ciema, oh, and they already had sex quite a few time (after 2 weeks of break up)

fly back to england, crying during the whole flight, whishing upon plane crash

Right now I feel like never truly trusting anything or anyone. You are alone, and the universe is indifferent to your suffering, so you might as well enjoy as much as you can, because in the end, nothing matters, and you have only this life to make something out of it.

Gf of four years broke up and it's my fault because I didn't do anything. I miss her. I dont know what to do with the rest of my life now

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>>6771499
So sorry OP

>tfw can't even maintain a relationship longer than a year

What's the secret bros?

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>>6779802
"In the early morning hours on a bench outside a hotel in Anaheim this summer, Ze Frank told me something I am going to paraphrase. I love this metaphor. Stuff in your past is like a carving on the bark of a sapling. Over time, the scar, the carving, won’t go away. Because of the way trees grow, it won’t go up or down much either it will just stay right where it began. It might even get darker. But it won’t get bigger. You, however, can. You can keep growing doing more things, more branches, being more things.The wound won’t get smaller but you can make it a smaller part of who you are. Maybe regrets are like that they stick around forever like arborglyphs or maybe they make like a tree and leaf, a red or purple leaf in the autumn." Michael Stevens (Vsauce)

I guess I will dump my whatever papes. I have a story too if someone is bored.

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>>6780198

>>6780218
>>6780225
Lame as fuck, Ahmed.

>>6780177
Thank you for that paraphrase, I will take it with me.

>>6771499
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9gMPHUzIEl4

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>>6775287
>>6771499

I Lurk. I rarely come out of the shadows. Especially for worlds smallest violin playing contests like these.
But the amount of yes in this post here OP...
Read and understand it well. This is a blessing and you may not understand it well now, but this pain will subside and leave behind a smoldering desire for growth in all directions.
I was weak and emotionally immature at the time when I was humiliated by my ex (was with her for 4 years). She dumped me and quickly started dating another more attractive guy.
I was devastated. I walked across her campus from her dorm where she had broken up with me. It was freezing out and I had been locked out of my buddy's apartment where I had been staying ( I was visiting her ). Left to nothing but my own devices and the freezing cold weather, high and drunk, I walked all across town until sunrise. It changed me. At first I was a wreck for months. I my whole perception of life changed. But as this other anon put it.
You grow.
You become stronger and more resilient. You improve in all other aspects of your life as well. I put 30lb (180 to 210) of muscle and I'm now pursuing a degree in Aerospace engineering. She wanted me back for a time because of these changes, and I even baited her so I could shut her the fuck down.
With an amazing dime piece now.


Grow from this.

>>6771499
Congrats man. Did she send you photos? Did you eat the other guys cum out of her?

>>6780218
I remember

>>6780198
share with us, please!

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>>6773934
You can't live your life in fear of things that "might happen".

If it happens it happens. If it doesn't, great.

Also, whatever happens will most likely be for the best.

>>6779206
antispiral?

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>>6779116
i have other version

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>>6780298
I'm glad someone does.

>>6780387
Well, I hope I won't give the /adv/ feel, anyway.

I'm not the most special for having this break up or whatever, but I can't stop feeling like "the worst".

2 year relationship, a reserved girl who weren't on the start. I accidentally peeked her phone and found some pics we usually used to share. I didn't really mind since I know she's very insecure to share them, and I know it sounds like a cuck, but whatever. Then I managed it wrong, since I should had go "Hey, sorry, I peeked" but instead I just said "hey, did you take some pics lately"? And she said "No".

That's what made me mind it. The previous day we talked about openning the relationship and stuff, so I was wondering what in the damn hell was so important to lie me about a few pics.

We had a big argument, since it went "so-you're-just-not-trusting-me" and I couldn't fix it. So we finish up like "we overcome this situation" but in the inside I had the knowing of her lie. I waited a month with everything inside and I could feel like everything I feel for her, or almost everything was breaking slowly.

After a month, I saw her, asked her, and she said she lied because we usually had that kind of "argument" about pics so she didn't want another one. I choose to believe this since it sounds logical, but whatever. But nothing is the same, something broke inside me.

2 years and a little, long distant (200km). She's in college, she proved her love, I mean, I know love shouldn't be proved but she did anyway, and she insists on that she loves me, but is that kind of love when you just can't be stopping being something special to her. So, college + independient girl + 200km idk, maybe I should had see it coming.

Now we're, friends, she says "I want this to keep being special" and I told her "It will do if you make it that way, but I'm not moving untill you start moving again"

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>>6780702
So that's the point where I am at the moment. I can assure she stills see me in a special way, since she dump friends and other important people for less shit than I brought between us and she stills sticks to me. And that are words she said it. But I don't really know how to feel, if she says she wants it special but don't push it, or don't have time, or I don't know.

Really I only wonder fucking things right now, since it happened a few things more.

I'm a guy who doesn't want things. Not in a edgy-teen way. It is just I already have what I want (not in a my-dad-is-rich way, I wish) so I can't just "focus on improving" and even happy, I have a feeling for sad, bitter or melachonlic things, so when I hit sadness, I have no will to overcome it, and then "enjoy" the fact of being sad.

If this isn't the cuckest story you will ready today, I don't know what it is. . .

>>6774793
this happened to me but only a year in lol was broken up but now its alllll good cause i got trees know what im sayin

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>>6771499
I don't have any solutions for you or great pieces of wisdom. But I have been cheated on before, and nothing feels worse than betrayal. It gets better though. Stay positive

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>>6771524
>>6773771
>>6774564
>>6775100

just letting you guys know I saved your papes.

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damn ya'll some real fuckin niggas for this shit

i needed this boys

thanks

>>6780298
>>6780702
Same, I'm pleasently surprised someone made this into a wp.

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Here's some OC

>>6772647

This reminds me of Valjevo.

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>>6780203
This one hits very close to home

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Lurker here, I rarely post

That being said, I hope you're holding up okay anon. Heres my all time favorite wallpaper, I dont know what it is but something about it calms me down and makes me feel okay when I see it

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Same for me OP, i found out like 6 months ago that my boyfriend cheated on me with "a girl you don't have to worry about, just a friend". We were together for 6 fucking years, so I feel you /b/ro.
Be brave, someday it will get a little better, or not I don't know I'm still stalking that bitch on facebook, but now you can do everything she didn't want you to do (like having a meth lab in your garage)

Kusjes from Belgium OP, you deserve a lot better!

>>6773515
Dat Composition

>>6779108
Laika?

>>6773934
New computer, I usually come by every few months to stock up on papes and contribute since this is the only board I go on anymore, so I can't contribute this time, but I do have this to say. Women can not lead, that is our job as men, it always has been, and a good woman is almost always in the neutral position because it's easier to get along with everybody than it is to head her own way.

The best I can say is that you have to be the man in her life, she has to know that even if you think 2+2=5 and everybody says it's 4, she will say 5 because you are worth that 5, and you are stronger than all opposition.

I have some pretty strong moral views and my girlfriend (soon to be fiance) used to not agree with them 100% in the very beginning, but as time passed and I started becoming worthy of the title "man", she grew to truly love me.

I know you probably don't want to hear all of this right now but like an anon previously said, this too shall pass. Give it time, make yourself someone worth your while and you will find someone truly worth yours.

She cheated, and a person who cheats is not worth anything, it hurts, but you WILL get better. Hang in there anon, I believe in you.

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Picture I took

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>>6775460

This last part over there anon, about wanting to be better, that was and still is my driving force and it's working out pretty well. No cheating was involved but it was a 5yo relationship and it was going nowhere even though we loved each other and we had do end it or end up being two miserable people.

Sadness came and stayed for a long time BUT since this thought sat on my head, wanting to be someone better than me, than her than everyone, I am able to move forward with great things in my life.

It might sound selfish or "believe in yourself" cheesy tumblr stupidity but it works. Yes it is a competition and cheating your way through won't get anywhere. Be a better person of you.

Also bootin.

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>>6780218
>615 days offline
that was a really feely story
>>6771499
Not sure if this is what you are asking for OP. Using other papes in the thread for reference.

Also, I have never been in your position, or a serious relationship. But I wish the best of luck to your recovery.
God Speed

>>6780225
Sadly, few people give a fuck about others, let alone future generations

>>6773934
distance, defensiveness, lying (by omission sometimes, tiny things)

it's better to find and discern someones integrity than it is to keep someone with none around, pay a lot of attention to how they treat other people

your best choice is just make sure you have your own life and friends and extra date options so it doesn't hit as hard, (shouldn't rebound either) you don't want to isolate yourself or be dependent because I see people do that out of 'devotion' or 'loyalty' and it hits them like a truck

just don't stop improving, you have nothing to lose if you've got a better you

>>6771499
feel it man, 3yr ended with her screwing her boss for the last two months : honestly thought it couldn't happen, like it was only a movie thing

but hey, bad things are the best things that happen to you, people grow a lot out of stuff like this

>>6780249
fuck off newfag

>>6780200
king is gone the pond already lost he is just going to die with his hopes up

>>6773621
This helped me too, anon. Thank you for posting.

>>6780218
ugh that fucking story, feels bad man

>>6779802
Guess the bright side is that you now make more money that you won't even have to spend on that bitch.

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>>6784105
Have some feels, you cunts.

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>>6771499
Left mine after realizing I was in "pussy land" I was constantly spending money on her, and manipulated me into prioritizing her first. It was my fault for letting her do that to me, but I had to let go. Been almost 3 months since and I've met and found a much more genuine person in my life than my previous relationship. Things will get better anon.

>>6775110
Im 99% certain this is a Delta 737 wing

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>>6771499
Don't worry, life keeps sucking forever, no matter what you do. Might as well have fun on the internet while you're not getting fucked by various spouses, friends, and bosses.

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>>6785198
2/?

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3/?

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3/?

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>>6785201
4/?

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5/?
Mars sure is lonely.

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6/?

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>>6785204
7/?
I should really study for finals.

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>>6785206
8/?

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>>6785207
9/10
Kinda fits with the new Last of Us.

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>>6785210
10/10

>>6774562
This is making me feel bad feels. My ex love that movie and watched a lot when she was a kid. Fuck I miss her

>>6772658
I'm in school. I did not need these feels...

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I feel for ya OP
I'm about to break it off with my girl when I see her in a few weeks.

Some anon posted this in a thread a long while ago, Think he said something about maybe editing it. I edited it (very lazily, but I like it). I'll post the original in a second.

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>>6785324

I could use some cheering up too. Just had my ass handed to me but my Mat 1050 exam. That class really does make me feel like an idiot.

>>6775117
Ayeeee there's my room getting posted again, thats what's up.

>>6780218
nike
just do it

>>6771499
Why even get into a relationship? Just fuck woman with no strings attached. Beta

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I feel you OP. Just try not to hang onto hate. Let your anger pass like it's naturally supposed to. You have a right to be angry, just don't let it eat you up and stop you from doing things with your life.

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here ya go op 1/?

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4/4 little edit i did of fallen star

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for anyone looking for the more detailed version

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My heart goes out to all of you.

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sorry i dont have any after a 6 year relationship, she did it anons.. she cheated on me with another man.. melancholic papes

>>6773621
anon, i love you

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i love this thread

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I have never been cheated on. But man have i felt depressed before.

Chin up soldier, you'll get by.

Life is a cunt, so laugh at it.

You're welcome OP

https://www.youtube.com/user/JasonCapitalDating

if someone cheats on you, don't blame yourself. they wanted to do it and they did it because they wanted to. they did not do it with the intention to hurt you and there was no way you could have stopped it.

I've been on every side of cheating. I've been the one doing it, the one cheated on, and the one sleeping with someone already in a relationship.

Unfortunately, statistically speaking, you'll likely experience cheating at some point. I don't believe it's something that can't be worked through, however. It's highly situational imo. It's possible to love someone and cheat on them. Ime the common denominator is unhappiness in the relationship and needs not being met.

The first time I cheated on someone I was young and it was long distance and we were rarely able to communicate. I got angry thinking it was on purpose and that they didn't care. We worked through it but the relationship ultimately failed for other reasons. The second time was again long distance and I was going through some majorly heavy shit (my mom dying being the biggest thing) and my unemployed disabled partner was demanding more and more from me. I was working two jobs to support us both and when I went home to see my sisters and get my mom's ashes they decided to start a fight with me because I hadn't spoken to them enough. I lost it. I couldn't handle the weight of it all and I cracked and fell into the arms of someone who took way better care of me.

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>>6786580
The first time I got cheated on they were basically a selfish prick with unrealistic relationship expectations. They didn't treat me the way I treated them nor needed to be treated. When I got depressed they'd get angry and neglectful. When I wanted sex they'd say they weren't interested and then they'd go jack off to porn in the other room. What they wanted was a submissive partner they didn't have to do anything for. The second time I got cheated on I was again going through a lot but so were they. I got so wrapped up in myself that I didn't pay enough attention to them. They also didn't communicate their needs to me. My grandmother has stage 4 lung cancer and lives on the other side of the country. I wanted to see her but it was right after the one year anniversary of my mom's death and I'd just taken a trip with my family. My partner was also dealing with loss and so I offered to not go see my grandmother and instead take them on vacation somewhere. They said no but in reality that was exactly what they wanted/needed.

Recently I slept with two different people who were already in relationships. Both of them told me their sexual needs weren't being met. It wasn't frequent enough and the things they wanted to do weren't being done. One of them deeply loves their partner. The other only stays for the kids. The one who loves their partner is only capable of cheating when they're drunk, but they're an alcoholic. So.

Basically, cheating is never the fault of the person who got cheated on, but that doesn't mean there aren't things you can do to try and make sure it never becomes an issue. People always say communication is the key to relationships and it really, really is. If open, honest communication and problem solving had been employed in literally any of these situations then the cheating would have never occurred. Honesty and communication is a lot easier said than done though, and you can only ensure that its happening on your end.

OP at least you're not 15 years into a marriage with kids. Just think she's a whore, thank her on her facebook page, make sure her parents and friends know, post her info on craigslist as 'looking for someone to pee and poop on me'. sign her up to every spam site you can think of, get one of those 'Your aids test results' envelopes and mail it to her parents house. Go to the park and get some dog poo, put it in a box and mail it to her. plenty of things you can do to feel better.
Don't kys!!

>>6773903
good album

>>6771499
kill the heretic

>>6774793
>don't give her too much freedom
jesus christ dude

>>6771499
Stop putting time into a relationship from now on. Work primarily on yourself and your own personal fulfillment.

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>>6786680
/Thread

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>>6771499
Everything will get better OP. This gives you an opportunity to do all the things that make you happy. You're free to do be yourself and don't have to answer to anybody.

Dealing with similar circumstances I've found that walks alone help clear my mind, might help you as well with the process of moving on.

Always look up and forward Anon, life keeps moving and its too short to dwell in the past.

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>>6771499
Hey OP, I can sympathize with you on the being cheated on front....like most anons here, I get it

2 year relationship, after a year we went long distance and maybe ~3 months into it she calls me crying and confessing to having cheated on me....she was a damaged person, so I said to her

>it's okay it's alright we can move past this

Because if I didn't say that, she would have hanged herself on the spot.

But the damage was done, and I stuck around playing the part. And that was by far the worst, I faked still loving her for 6 months until I saw her again and ended it. Blocked her, haven't had any contact since that day, but I'm okay with it. She can be burning in hell for all I care.

I thought it would be awful, but it did get better. I'm with a new girl now, she's lovely and we've been together 6 months.

At first I thought it would never get better but talking to all you anons really helped me realize that it was just another opportunity to get better.
thanks guys

will dump a few melancholy papes

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>>6788390

Girl I love loves my best friend. Not sure what to do.

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>>6775117
Here's an update

>>6780705
I know that feeling brah....just means you've been in it for too long and the darkness feels like normalcy. It "feels good" but....it isn't good.

>>6786216
beksinski is a good choice

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it seems like everything that can be said, has been said. i wish you the best, op. btw, great thread guys and gals, text and pics alike.

>>6789174
Looks comfy af

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>>6773763
Never always knows best.

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>>6771499
Feel for you OP

>>6788393
how abstract

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>>6775287
>>6775460
>>6780268

You guys are great and offer absolute best advice. It works out in time OP. Trust us. We've all been there.

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>>6773621
heh

rofl he fell for the girlfriend meme
honestly, you deserve it you retard

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>>6771499

sorry mate. Just know as long as you take it in stride and analyze the situation and any possible role that you played. Focus on bettering yourself both physically and mentally. set goals in both. Achieve them. Your better self will attract someone just as good and by definition better than your ex.

Thank me later

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>>6791494
come on man. this isn't /b/.

>>6771812
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Going through the same shit. Broke up a 3.5 year relationship last month. Ended up costing me a stupid amount too. I saw the end coming, though, just didn't expect it going that way. For the last year she was really unstable keeping jobs. Then 6 months ago she just walks out of another job and doesn't do shit to get another over the course of the coming months. I'm covering all the bills, buying the food and necessities, and start working at least 60 hours a week.

I try pushing her to get a job, so that we are both contributing to the relationship, but conversations like that completely turned her off and would spin into some weird 'you just don't respect or understand me' horseshit.

Two months ago I start noticing funnier behavior. Snoop through her phone and notice that she has an app lock installed, keeps an image safe, and the tinder app. I install keyloggers on both my computers, and snoop over her shoulder here and there to catch all her swipe codes. Through facebook messages I find out that she sneaks off when I'm off to work, or a couple hours after I fall asleep after work only to come back before I wake back up. I get into the rest of her shit too. She's been whoring around with 10+ guys.

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>>6791650
The day I have all my evidence, I confront her, take her straight to the office, and have us both sign to break the lease. I cough up the almost 1800usd. We have 30 days to get our shit out of our apartment. She doesn't give a fuck and just goes out and parties whenever I'm home to minimize the time she has to be there too. She believes it was all my fault.

I start getting everything ready to get out of the place. I collect boxes, get cleaning supplies, start packing the majority of my stuff, call up utilities and the cable company to make sure everything is under my name alone and closed within 30 days. I start moving everything I don't need (,and my guns) out. I try make sure she stays half-assed in contact to figure out what her plans are and what we need to do with her shit. (Both our names are on the lease. If she doesn't get out, we get fined for it. But we translates to me, since she didn't have a dime to her name.) I don't hear from her days at a time.

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>>6791662
With about a week left until the 30-day deadline, I find out she contacted her dad and that he coughed up the dough for a new apartment with the same complex. I manage to talk with her, and everything is already in place for her to move. She just needs the keys.

Meanwhile, I have pretty much fully moved out. She has a new boyfriend and she takes the dickwad over to our place. Catch them there on two occasions as the deadline comes closer, since I'm still swinging by to pick up random things and to make sure the place is being cleaned out.

I lay in on her and explain that she needs to get this shit done with her new boy toy sitting there. They swear up and down they'll have it done, no worries.

She gets out an our before the deadline, with the help of a moving company. Leaves the place a shit hole. I'm stuck with the bill. I now have herpes. She has sucked up a good 6k on top of my regular expenses over the last half year. She tells our friends that I abused her. Attacked her with a knife (did it herself while drunk and honestly believes I did it when I confronted her about spreading that lie.)

But all this shit is almost over with. Just one more bill to settle.

Crazy last couple of months, though. Stress has slowly been dissipating.

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>>6780249
b8 m8

>>6780225
Melancholy, not delusions. I know its hard, but stay on subject or start a new thread.

>>6791770
bit pixelated there aint it

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>>6776153
Fuck bitches, bros before hoes

Thank you guys for one of the best thread's I have ever read on 4chan.

>>6792705
<3

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Thank you anons
This is the first time I cried from a thread
I finally feel

Honestly I come here for new wallpapers and I tend to ignore most of the comments and crap that 4Chan provides.

This thread gives me hope for humanity...

>>6775146
Are you me?

Went out with a girl for 3.5 years and it ended up being long distance. Though she might actually be 'the one' but then one night she 'had too much to drink' and slept with a random guy. Then after that she was too 'busy with friends' and eventually the relationship died.

>>6793400
how did you find out she cheated? Did she tell you?

>>6791675
Dude, you do know that if your partner has given you herpes through having sex with you and not telling you about it, that she's legally raped you at that point?

Well, at least I'm fairly sure she has. She could owe you a LOT of money if so.

>>6771499
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>>6784904
I guess it's true, but still lonely af :/

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>>6771499
The relation wasn't worth it if she couldn't keep her end.

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I've never been in a relationship, but what do you guys think is worse, is it better to have loved and lost or to have never loved at all?

>>6784978
That would have been July 13th, 2011

>>6793606
ive only been in one "relationship" for only a few weeks and i'd still say it is. generally worth it for the experience

>>6793606
it a waste of time in my opinion. You only lose time in a relationship; so why not just lose it alone and not have a name to blame for the sadness.

>tfw I know this feel
;_;

>>6771524
even matches this feel
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_owMR67km6Y&t=74s

>>6774066
good pape
thanks friend

>>6771499
i could only imagine how that feels anon
i just got out of a 7 month relationship almost a month ago now... it still feels like it was just yesterday

I can't tell you that I KNOW what you're going through. I don't.

But I do know loss. And I understand how you're feeling.

There are things in life that matter. There are things that don't matter. And there are things that matter and don't matter at the same time. A seemingly insignificant thing can mean the world to us if we become attached to it. And losing it can hurt us like no physical pain can.

And it is the root cause of suffering. Attachment. You have to realize one thing.

You are the source.

You are the source of your own happiness. You don't NEED anything or anyone. That good feeling you feel when everything is really good and your life is lit, you can feel it by yourself just by sitting in a cave and meditating.

Of course, this is not what you should do, you should live life and be engaged in this world. But do it and share. Give, don't take. Why would you need anything if you're fulfilled from inside?

||

You are enough.

I know this girl cheated on you. I know it can feel like you're worthless. But you're not. It's not your fault that it happened. It is not like the core person that you are got rejected. Really. It is just human nature. For guys the attraction we feel towards girls depends mostly on their appearance. Sure, we may develop an emotional attachment later on so personality is also something we are attracted to. Well, for women, it has more to do with behaviors rather than looks. For a woman, when a guy "catches feelings" for her and starts to have this need of her approval, her validation. When his happiness starts to depend on her, it's the equivalent for the turn off that we feel when our girl suddenly gets very very fat.

So, you have 2 choices. Get better or get bitter. But at the same time, you are enough as a person. Every man is created equal.

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>>6779116
How's this? It's still subtle, not like a strong effect, but much less cartoony

>>6775068
Love this

>>6793619
Which is right around the time the arab spring started.

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>>6775098
cool photo thanks, used it for this

>>6781525
sucks

>>6786590
Stop trying to justify. You're a whore. Own that shit. It's cringy getting poetic over it

>>6773621
thanks anon. godspeed.

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Get well soon, bud.

>>6793130
>4Chan
i hope you choke on water

>>6793606
the answer isn't so simple, it is better to be in a relationship than to be alone, but a relationship often finishes with a painfull break, up to you to calculate the risk (tfw your post)

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>>6771499
can't say i know what you feel, fucked my homie's gf once, felt horribly bad after, dunno if it can help but this man feels probably like a piece of shit

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>>6793606
For me, it is better to never loved. You CAN'T miss what you don't know. You can want it, or aspire to it, but you CAN'T miss it if you didn't get it.

Everhthing said, as some anon told you, it is up to each one, since although my reply is very pragmatic, love is not reasonable.

>>6771499
Well anon my wife of 5 years cheated on me in our first year of dating, that's the only one I know of... high school romance n all that bull.. Iv known her since I was 15 and fell in love.... It might not be the easiest thing... But you can accept what happend and make sure the same mistakes aren't made again... Life's a bitch and we all want love... But that shit is truly a double edged sword it always cuts deep and as long as you hold on to love it digs deeper... But hey some people bite the bullet of it means they feel loved

>>6775068
thats horrible. I'm two years deep in what I think is a worthwhile endeavor. and we started dating after I spent 7 years with a flower child turned feminist. try to think positive. it will get better.

what a thread..

I know how you feel anon. Ive only ever posted on this site a few times, but right now as i'm listening to loud music and drowning my sorrows on a tuesday night - I know what you are going though.

I know it doesnt comparre but my first relationship ended today, after a year and a half - the love of my life, cheated, sexted, and basically fucked up my life.

After a year and a half (I know it doesnt sound like long) but shes went into town and fucked a stranger raw, then after telling me; 3 days later fucked him again after going out for dinner with him. Then 2 days later had sex with someone else. After that i was still too much in love with this beautiful woman that i let her move in with me. Then she had sex with another guy the first weekend we moved in. we used to tell eachother how much we loved eachother and how this was the right step which made it worse. So after three guys, after having sex and talking all night last night she decided to get tinder and send tits and vagina photos to a stanger.

It was the last straw for me and i abused her. I took everything I had against her and crushed her. Im writing to everyone now not just to tell the story but knowing what it feels like to lose and be hurt by the one person in this world that you care about.

Its been grim; and I cant have any advice on how to make you feel better, but just know that someone in the world is feeling the exact same why that you are anon. You are never alone. And this thread is truely remarkable; helping me through things as well.

Peace everyone. x

>>6796054
holly shit.

Maybe only men have souls.
The greeks and every other civilization, including ours up until half a century ago, knew that no bitch can self-determine as much and as great as a man.
It sucks, because I'm not homosexual.