>Have a friend >Been best friends with the guy for nearly

>>385287361

Nice blog. Play Drakengard.

>>385287570
Sorry about the blog post friend. But thank you for the contribution.

Friends come and go. Play Siege.

>>385287361
kirby

It sucks man, similar shit has happened to me too. I say find a game that you can really get lost into but is also not too stressful.

>>385287361
>Basically let this guy live at my house one summer
>Finally messages me today and tells me that he doesn't like me anymore, and doesn't want to talk or hang out again
Sounds like someone didn't appreciate the anal exploration during the night, anon.

>>385287361
Warhammer 40,000: Space Marine

>>385287836
Maybe I'll boot up Superstar again. It's been a long time.

>>385287361
Make your friend kill himself this time, that'll cheer you up.

>>385287361

You know, something very similar happened to me. I'm male, my friend is a steven universe loving homosexual male. He said because I support Trump that him and I cannot be friends.

Grew up with this guy, we saved each other from niggers back in middle school and high school and he doesn't want to talk anymore because I support our president. Feels pretty bad man.

>>385287361
Was it because you stopped playing nightcrawlers with him?

>>385288410
That's fucking retarded. Anyone who would stop talking to you because of some bullshit like that isn't a real friend.

>>385287361
Just get better at letting people go. Maybe it's because my mom split when I was three, and my dad remarried a psycho, and we eventually stopped talking for almost a decade because of her, but I've gotten pretty comfortable with cutting people out of my life.

Just move on with your life. Maybe he'll eventually come back around once he grows up a bit, and maybe he never will, but don't try to contact this dude until he contacts you. Have some self-respect, and never beg anyone to validate your existence.

tl;dr Stop being a pussy.

>>385288410
>got rid of a literal faggot that was never a real friend to begin with

Should feel good man

>>385288603

That is what I keep telling myself but that won't get me my friend back. I tried opening a dialogue with him but he blocked me on everything.

desu I blame shit like Steven Universe and trannies for this, I noticed he is associating with alot of fat tumblr tier women for the passed year or so. I should have seen this coming.

The only thing I can do is continue to self improve.

>>385288756
Try to make better friends, your "ex-friend" sounds like he needs to grow up.

>>385288756
Fair enough. It's difficult to be mad at someone who you've been friends with for so long. Get better friend.

>>385288410
>>385288603
You can have controversial views and still earn respect and even support if you can explain yourself clearly with facts to back you up. This isn't the case with a Trump supporter.

You can have mainstream views and be dumb and irritating as shit but still earn respect, because that's what people like. If you can't keep your controversial dumb shit to yourself you often become That Guy, the one everyone shittalks about both in his company and in all those parties he doesn't get invited to.

It's a better fate to be cut out entirely. You can try your luck in a different group instead of suffering in the one you already goofed.

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Crap I worry about this shit everday and now you put in the possibility of this happening to me.


FUCK
FUCKFUCKFUCK

I, too, lost a friend of nearly 10 years the other week because I kept neglecting him. Granted he was very needy and annoyed me a lot, but I feel it was ultimately my fault.

Play Paper Mario.

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>>385287361
It's alright anon, it happens to everybody at some point. Part of growing up is learning that your only real friend in life is found in a bottle.

>>385289153
I've been drinking all night and feel no better. Alcohol and nicotine only help so much.

>>385289372
You aren't drinking strong enough, get that fucking whiskey bottle open.

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>randomly delete steam friend of 5 years

>known a dude for 10 years, met playing wow
>talk every single day for 10 years straight barring when we were doing other shit away from the computer of course
>both autistic losers
>meet up once
>recently friend has learned he is actually incredibly attractive, to the point where girls will literally come up to him in public and talk to him
>turned into a hardcore indie/hipster dude, went to thailand by himself to find himself tier
>constantly goes to festivals or any social gathering and meets chicks
>any time i try to discuss any aspect of my life with him it's the same "dude just do what you want who cares about consequences the only you is the you right now, have you tried meditating?" which he always seems to write in a way i infer to be incredibly condescending and arrogant
>have to listen to all this shit about how great and and free he feels
>im still an ugly autistic manlet

Sure things are fucking easy when you're attractive and desirable. It's easy to be confident and open to new situations when you have no assets and nothing to be insecure about. Piece of shit.

Anyway, play F.E.A.R.

>>385289372
One day you'll find a nice girl, get married and maybe even pump a few pups into her and you'll quickly realize how little "friends" matter once you have an actual family to worry about. At our core, we only give a fuck about ourselves, and people are constantly changing. You will rarely, if ever, find a person that will truly be a life-long friend, that's just a sad reality of life. Drink past it, accept it and move on.

>>385289153
>>385289372
>hurr i need a crutch.

shit sucks, weve all been through it. dont be the typical 'drown my sorrows' in bullshit

>>385288756
Don't worry anon. Sooner or later he's realize his mistake. And when he does, and he tries to re-connect with you, tell him to fuck off. As you just said, improve yourself, so when this happens he can see how you've continued to grow while he kept "fighting" for the sake of crazy tumblrinas or whatever LGBTQASLDAHDLS letter they added to it and realizes how he wasted his life for nothing when he compares his with yours. Godspeed anon.

>>385289785

>being bitter
>not lowering your hand to help him after he has realized and reconciled the error of his past

cmon anon

>>385289749
>shit sucks, weve all been through it. dont be the typical 'drown my sorrows' in bullshit
Nah, fuck that. If I have a problem, I drink until I forget about it and then get back to normal. Alcohol is the divine elixir, embrace it.

>>385288410
was his name Travis

>ignore all my friends for years
>even the most high-maintenance cunts slowly cease pestering me
>feel bad but i just can't be bothered keeping in contact
>slowly gain confidence and start enjoying socialising more
>plan on talking to everyone and telling them why i used to be so asocial
>everything's going to change, i'm going to actually like my friends

>they're overjoyed to have me back
>understanding about my situation and thrilled to spend time with me
>three days pass
>realise i still hate this shit
>start ignoring them again

I guess it just isn't for me. I absolutely crave and enjoy social interaction but only with one person at a time. A best friend or a gf fulfills that need and anyone extra just drains me. I wish I had casual friends who are fine with radio silence most of the time.

I don't have any friends anymore aside from you faggots

Zombie Army Trilogy is my cooldown game of choice

Or Space Marine

>>385287361
You seem like you at least tried to be a good friend. Don't think about it too much -- if you really don't understand why he's acting that way, then the dude has something going on on his end. Losing a friend feels bad, but it's not your fault, and there's nothing you can do.

You should play Final Fantasy Tactics, it's a good game.

>>385288650
>Have some self-respect, and never beg anyone to validate your existence.
This is also good. I didn't read OP as particularly needing this advice, but he should take it anyway.

>>385289858
If he dumped his "friend" once what makes you say he won't do it again in the future? He already proved himself to be easily influenced by modern trends and fads and to push someone away just for disagreeing with his views. It's like when you girlfriend cheats on you, one strike and you are out, because someone who cheats even once is willing to do it again.

>>385289153
read bottle as battle first.

>>385289993

He's obviously and insecure and immature baby. It can hardly be compared to a cheating bitch.

>>385289924
>Feel lonely
>Desperately crave companionship
>Get some
>Want to go back to being alone again
Every fucking time.

It's like when you want to go out and are bored at home and when you finally are outside you wonder why the fuck you did it and how much you want to go home.

>>385290082
C-can friendship bloom in the battlefield?

>>385289713
Do you know what kind of people are attractive and desirable to both men and women? Not those with pretty faces but those with confidence.

I'm an ugly manlet with shit personality yet I managed to gain a girlfriend by just treating her like I do my few male friends. Living with another person, showing them everything and having them accept or even love you really does something to your confidence.

I used to be shy, bitter and insecure for a good reason. Looking at my face out of context anyone would agree. But with some confidence and openness I've found everyone actually likes me. I've had to turn girls down because I'm already dating.

>>385287361

IDK op if you want to have an advice on how to avoid such situations or just a pat. Heres an anecdote instead. i have that bud, we know each other for like 6+ years now. We played a bunch of games but nowdays hes studying and never plays anything so we rarely talk about games anymore and just som real life shit. Maybe, you have limited your topics to videogames exclusively and a dissonance occured since he doesnt want to talk about them.

>>385290183
no

>>385290134
Doing this shit was the biggest mistake I've ever made. I used to have an online friend who respected me, but I've since turned him away when I found him clingy.
Now I'm just alone again, for years now, and he's probably having fun with his own friends.

>>385290282
>Living with another person, showing them everything and having them accept or even love you really does something to your confidence.
You say it like if you can pick those at the store.
What you are saying is akin to just be urself in terms of how helpful you are. People like confident people? No shit. But when someone has spent nearly their whole life with negative reinforcement it gets a bit tad hard to even attempt to become confident because of how deeply entrenched in your psyche rejection is, which makes you simply not want to even try because "why bother if it's gonna fail anyway? Might as well save myself from the pain".

>>385289924
You just have to have confidence my friend. I think of myself as being a 6/10 (which probably means im like a 4/10), I'm half black, messy hair, and not the nicest person in the world. But I still manage to make friends and get girls. Just find a way to present yourself to others that works.

>>385290372
Fuck you, Snake.

>>385290472
>just be yourself

Dark Cloud is the game for this situation, you'll understand when you play it.

>>385287361
Why did you stop seeing him for a year?

>>385287361
lol I recently told a friend of mine of 10 years to fuck off. Hope he is as sad as you.

>>385287361
>having a friend
I don't understand this feel.

>>385290282

I don't think I'll get a girlfriend by being an autistic meme-spewing mongoloid. I'm trying a lot of things to try to boost my confidence and get out and do new things, but I pretty much consider myself too far gone, to be honest. It also doesn't help that my overly confident and attractive friend constantly serves to belittle my mindset and make me feel insecure. He doesn't realize he's doing it, of course, but it still feels like shit. He constantly wants me to just dive off the deep end into entirely new and unknown situations, but I'm literally not built like that.

I've dated before, but it was 4 years ago. It doesn't even seem real anymore. Like it was a fluke.

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>TFW I'm the one who severed ties with friends
If they didn't turn in to fucking weebs and MMO players things might've been different. I guess it might be because we were a bit older than when anime went hog wild because when we were teenagers everything was fine, but it was when we were in our late 20s they fell off the deep end. Last time I saw one of them was when I went over to his house for some gaming and instead he slowly and laboriously showed me him, his wife, and his son cosplaying at some anime convention.

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>Know my best and mostly only friend since middle school
>Moves downtown for his new job while I'm still in the same town we grew up in
>Rarely goes online and plays anything anymore, offline anywhere from a week to a month
>Most of the time when I text him it takes him a full day or two to respond
>Spends most of his time busy with work and drinking with his roommates or other old friends from high school I knew but weren't friends with

I feel like i'm being outgrown even though he's still largely the same guy I know when we actually do talk and do stuff

>>385290602
College. We normally meet up in the summer and winter.

>>385287361
It'll be okay, anon. Friends come and go, and some are just fickle shitters. It's not your fault.

I suggest giving Harvest Moon a go.

>>385287361
If that actually happened your friend is planning to kill himself. He's deliberately pushing you away to try to save you the pain of seeing him die.

>>385290282

how do you build confidence as an ugly unattractive manlet

like you can have all the confidence in the god damn fucking working but at the end of the day you still have to realize from a purely statistical point of view that the large majority of women wont even give you the time of day

how are you supposed to remain strong and confident in yourself amidst years upon years of constant rejection

>>385290579
Been hearing good things about this game.
>it's exclusive to PS2/4
Fuck

>>385288994
Retard alert. Political views should be the least important in terms of friendship.

>>385290803
A Wonderful Life is in my top 10. Maybe I'll give it a play again.

>>385290814
What hurts more? Being betrayed suddenly, without reason, with all contact cut?
Or to know he killed himself, leaving you behind?

>Best friend became a tranny
>He's the biggest right-wing person I've known my whole life
Mistakes into miracles

>>385288267
Seconded. Holy shit, that game will make you forget your woes for a while.

>>385290780
Why not call him or videochat instead?

I know normies love to make up the bullshit "I'm busy" excuse all the time, but there is always time for a small 10-15 minute call.

>>385288410
It's so fucking stupid and immature to do that to someone you've known for so long.

I've almost seen it happen between two friends of mine, but some others and I intervened before it was too late for them.

>>385287361
Fuck that guy. Tell him you shouldn't have talked him out of killing himself. It's not on you that he's a piece of shit.

>>385290865
This. Holy fuck. If your so called friend cuts you off because he cannot stand you having different political views then you were better off without such an immature person in your life.

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>tfw all your friends became sjw extremists

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>tfw prefers to see people face to face in real life
>also is a boring ass mother fucker
>online i just play vidya and do my own shit
>play games with people
>get bored eventually because i like playing alone and were running out of games to play
>can't bring myself to remove any of my buddies
>some of my steam buddies shits on some of my other buddies
>two steam buddies drop my ass because they didn't get enough attention from me and berates me for it

go play cave story, anon

>>385288994
>this is a person who would sever all contact with family for political views when all sides are still shit and elitest
Pathetic.

>>385290854
PS2 emulators exist, Dark Cloud works perfectly with them. Don't let the oblivious fools tell you otherwise.

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>>385290567

>>385287361
Protip: he was probably gay for you and preferred to go ahead and cut all ties with you himself rather than open up about his feelings and risk being turned down, ridiculed, or have you being the one to cut all ties.
With that in mind, you should play a gay VN. I recommend Morenatsu and Extracurricular Activities

>>385287361
Sunless sea is pretty gud a bit melancholy but overall pretty comfy and enjoyable.
VA-11 Hall-A cybermeme bartender action is pretty great too I really like the atmosphere and characters Id say its worth checking out.
Stardew valley its like harvest moon on cocaine
SS13 if you're looking for a more social thing a bit of a learning curve

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>>385289713
you know hes right you fucking faggot

you never even tried all you do is cry and say WOE IS ME SOMEBODY HANDSOME SAVE ME!

what are you a girl waiting for prince charming?

your a man

>>385290674
Lift, eat right, get your career in order (start school or a non-dead end job), read Nicomachean Ethics and ascend to Chadhood.

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>>385287361
>tfw i had a group of online friends for 3 years that i felt happy to be around
>gradually they start inviting people they know
>those people say can you not post "4 chan videos" of people running into a truck on a motorcycle head on among other things
>huge bernie supporters, and dude weed people
>they corrupt the young teenagers to influence to do drugs
>they gradually drift away from us, and one of them starts doing hardcore drugs and getting addicted
>the new people keep adding more people and the old people keep becoming less and less active
>the group gets into a huge arguement
>all of the old fags go there seperate ways
>my offline friends are shit and i'm fucking broken down to the core as a human filled with only misery and rage
>mfw i used to be a good person believing in equal rights and stuff
>mfw they turned me into a monster who wants to revenge on those who wronged me and turned me off on the reasonable non extreme left values

>decade old offline friends group is shit because people i really enjoy talking to start to leave
>i let my disdain for most of the group slip up to one guy i thought i trusted and he back stabs me by forwarding what i said to him to every single person in that group and their parents

I'l never be the fucking same


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b71ASaXl53A

>>385289721
It's so sad to me that some people don't have life-long friends. I have a friend who is basically my brother. We're both in our 30s and we've been best friends since like 1st grade. Hell, I moved away at the end of 7th grade, and despite being several hours away we still managed to stay friends throughout highschool. We were totally different people at the time, he was kind of a jock and I was a weird proto-emo goth kinda thing, I don't know what you'd call it but I shopped exclusively at Hot Topic and listened to tons of heavy metal, but I'd make the 2 hour drive to go visit every few weeks and we'd go to parties and shit, and the fact that we were so different didn't even matter.

I wish everyone knew what it's like to have a friend like that.

>>385291135
This kind of picture is incomplete without that pink dinosaur plushie.

>>385287361
not vidya

>>385289785
>being mad at someone only because they're mad at you
This is dumb
>being so mad at some for being mad at you that, when they try to make amends, you decide to stay mad at them forever because they were once mad at you
This is full-blown retarded child tier. This person reaching out would be tantamount to admitting they were being dumb in the first place, and that they value your friendship more than the moral stand they were making. Why would you want to punish them for finding that within themselves? The only possible answer is that you're a wounded brainlet.

>>385289993
That's not even equivalent. This guy just stopped being someone's friend, which is the friendship equivalent of a breakup.

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>>385291135
>happybunny

whoever made this is a good meta memer

anon the same thing happened to me and my friend and then 6 months later he killed him self in the woods after disappearing for a week and driving off into the mountains. we found a note saying he cut everyone off so we wouldn't miss him and he's sorry. go do something about it. don't look back and regret being afraid of him hating you. call the suicide crisis line or the police or something.

>>385291262
Thanks anon, Now I feel like crap for now knowing that feel. At least you were kind enough to say you wished everyone would know such a feeling instead of just rubbing it on people's faces.

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>>385291263
Felt like posting the Pepe since I hadn't before, though it's definitely one of the weaker princesses.

>>385289713
>fuck my friend for not being a miserable cunt unlike me, I'll go back playing shitty games now

>>385291195

What am I supposed to do? Just take a trip half way across the world like some hippie degenerate?

>>385290374
Protip: no I'm not the reason I was clinged online to you is because I literally have no one else IRL

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>>385291203
you sound like you are going to shoot up a school

how about you take a deep breath and realize you are a faggot and work on improving yourself

>>385291421
You won't get to experience new things holed up at home shitposting at /v/
Sometimes you just gotta do something, don't think so much, just do

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>Invested 10 years into some faggot
>Drops me for flavor of the month moba


Fuck him.
Play The Sims 3 with mods.

>>385291358
>>385291358
>>385291358
this, OP.
They do it cause they think it make it easier on them and everyone else.

>>385291203
>and their parents
Are you guys 16 or something?

But in the end it'll be for the better since you already hated most of those persons so much.

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>>385291421
that's not even what he was trying to say

which is quiet telling thats what you got out of it

you won't get chicks with a high paying job and by being a "good" disney prince like you paint yourself in your head

why not try some self improvement like lifting weights?

or read a good book?

everyone should heed this next piece of advice :

ONLY DO THINGS YOU LIKE

>>385290674
Don't focus on getting a gf man I know it sounds great and all but once your in it its pretty lackluster. Sex is pretty much a meme because most people who are virgins into their later life build it up to be so amazing from all the porn then you do it and its just good. Not amazing. Not life changing. Just good. Pretty groundshaking. Instead focus on understand and getting control of yourself. Read up on philosophy shit understand existence and thinking and all that jazz. Know who you are and pursue your hobbies become self sufficient (in the way that you dont NEED something to make you happy you can do it by yourself) I hope you can find something usefull in my rant man.

>>385291415

>all of a sudden realize through virtue of existing that girls just flock to you and you literally don't need to do shit other than go outside and sit on a bench by yourself to find yourself fucking a girl 4 hours later

Wow, gee, he did something to achieve that. Really tried hard there.

>>385291421
Do you actually think that hippies are the only people who travel?

>>385291503
Fucking this. LoL destroyed my one and only friendship.

>>385291615

Rich people, woman on their husbands checkbooks and people who are bored also travel.

What's your point? Should I just go to South Korea and aimlessly wander around Seoul or something?

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also one step to building confidence is not calling yourself a manlet

you stupid fucking manlet

you aren't even worth replying too

your all low on the dominance hierarchy

what will you do about it?

>>385291737
Sure, why not?

>>385291737
>Rich people, woman on their husbands checkbooks and people who are bored also travel.
You are a retard if you truly believe this.

>Should I just go to South Korea and aimlessly wander around Seoul or something?
What's preventing you? Why are you so scared of doing new things?

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>>385291739
>When the alt-right memes themselves into inferiority
MEME
A
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I
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>>385288410
>>>/pol/

>>385291893
nice projecting

i was framing a question for everyone else to ponder

the way you reply to this is very funny

you will crossdress in the future

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>>385288410
Same shit happened with two of my close friends who knew each other since they were elementary. One of them has really hardcore bought into the kool-aid of his forum's administrator whose at plenty of times called the first one an ignorant privileged cishet male because he dared not be upset at a middle schooler feeling uncomfortable about a transexual entering in the bathroom.

>>385291203
grow up faggot

>>385291448
Bringing old wounds hurts
I have improving myself, i'm tired of being of being a fucking pussy ass nerd that won't stand up for himself
I'm going to improve myself, while the most them sit around during the best years of their lives playing video games all day i'm going to make a name for myself and make those losers live under my shadow


>>385291591
no most of them are high functioning autisimos in their 20's

>>385287361
The hardest part of being human is learning to let go. Play some DMC or Bayonetta. Slash some shit it will make you feel better

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>>385291693
Worst part is that he would invite me to play his favorite shooter game EVERYDAY. And i would always go play that shit game.
Then he found a new game that didn't run on my toaster and now it's like i don't exist. Funny thing is, i don't care anymore, like if he messaged me i would make up an excuse to not play with him.

>>385288410
I had someone delete me because I said I refused to delete people based on their political beliefs. I'm liberal as fuck, but they still deleted me after 10+ years of friendship.

People have been going crazy and it feels horrible, man.

>>385291769
>>385291819

What could I possibly gain as a person from doing something like that? People who go on trips to where ever with the whimsical belief that "oh im going to come back and be a magically changed person, all of my problems will be solved teehee" are fucking delusional.

At the end of the day I'll still come back to where I live my life, except I'll have less money, be no where actually further in my life and some neat stories to tell some people I guess.

>>385288994
I'm assuming this is a bait post, but if it isn't:

Unironically supporting Trump is legitimately retarded for most of the American populace. He is good for people who profit from his business and people who directly profit his business. He has not, and will never, run the country in the best interests of the Constitution in any interpretation of the document. He has not, and will never, run the country in the best interests of the World. And he has not, and will never, run the country with the respect it deserves as a superpower.

You can meme racism, sexism, and all the other hot buttons you want to say that supporting Trump is insane, but they're wrong. It is insane because he has never been a leader for the people. He has never done anything for anyone but himself, never even considered it. But he has become the leader of the largest representation of Freedom in Modern society.

Every other President before him legitimately looks like an honest-to-God civil servant in comparison.

>>385291972

>>>/reddit

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>>385291996
it's MEANT TO HURT.

type it all out on this anonymous board

it's not good for this stuff to eat up on you

>>385291996
That's even worse.
Some guy says mean things to them, and he goes to tell everyone's moms about it. Really?

You're probably (and rightfully) mad, but the way I see it, you have been set free from a group you were trapped with.

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>>385292129
you can't even do the joke right you fucking faggot

>>385287361
>Finally messages me today and tells me that he doesn't like me anymore, and doesn't want to talk or hang out again

This is a distancing tactic. He, by pushing you away, is actually asking for your help. He's trying to be horrible in order to be nice and not have you worry about him, yet at the same time he needs you.

How do I talk to girls?

Like sure I can talk to girls, I'm not autistic. I can have a 1 on 1 convo with someone.

I mean like how do you even go up to a girl with the pretense of having a conversation literally anywhere? Everyone is just doing their own shit all the time.

>>385292064
What is money, my friend? It seems to be a common focus in your head. But what is it, really?
Perhaps, by focussing so much on this concept, you are falling into place? You're a domino, amongst a line of many other dominoes... and who set them up?
Abandon this fascination with 'money'. It is meaningless, my friend. You must live your live the way you see fit.

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>>385287361
Friends are temporary, vidya is eternal**ly going to fall ever so slightly short of filling the massive void in your heart caused by existing in a horrible and deranged current year world**

Here's a few NES games because retro vidya is the tits and I'm on a retro kick

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>tfw still best friends with my best friend of 18 years
>have political and potentially offensive discussions all the time and still good friends
>have several more very good friends
>one is pretty much an apolitical social recluse but he's cool to play games with
>another is a memelord and gets all of my references
>another guy is super gay but not in your face about it and really chill
>random people drop in and out peripherally, some I put up with because they're good friends of the other guys, others are chill or cool to talk to.
Feels good man.

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>>385292251
talk to them like they are ugly

it works

IT WORKS

when you treat women like another one of the dudes it takes away their only power (looks)

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The best feel good game is Animal Crossing.

Friend breakups can be worse than relationship breakups. I recently stopped bothering to ask an old pal out for beers because he never has time. I work out of town a lot, I hadn't seen him in like 8 months, but, nah timingjust never worked out. I finally took the hint. I am more salty about that than any girl whose ever dumped me lol.

I've had very few friends, real friends, and I considered him one. No mystery why though, I'm crazy. I used to be total spaz, now I'm just eccentric bc I make money. Sucks to get the judgement from him though, it was like shelter for me to know not everyone detested my presence :(

>>385292259

i mean, that's well and good until you have no money lol

simply choosing to ignore the system doesn't mean you arent inherently a part of it

>have friend of 9 years
>we go through a lot together and he confesses to me
>I confess back, despite always saying that I'm completely straight
>draw a single line in the sand; cheating of any kind is an immediate breakup - no questions asked
>after a long time of being happy together, he tells me that he got a involved with another guy
>break up with him on the spot
>he takes it poorly and I'm utterly heartbroken, but I'm not going to let him cross the line that was made and show him that he can tread all over me
>we go our separate ways, but still remain friends
>he eventually transitions
>casually talk to him about my romantic experiences with real women as they happen because I know it hurts him but he has to act like he's glad for me in an attempt to look like a good friend
Why am I such a shitty person? Am I a sociopath? Is this my fault?
Also OP, play a really complicated and immersive game. Learning how to play it will get your mind off of your friend.

>>385292064
You gain having been to a new place, having met new people, and having an interesting story to tell.

>>385291693
>made good friends in high school playing LoL
>eventually get bored and quit
>try to get friends into other games
>they never play anything but LoL
>fall out of touch
>have no good friends to play fun vidya with
fuck LoL. those faggots have been playing the same shitty game since season 1.

>>385287361
He's a cunt.

>>385292251
You have to be very dumb to talk to a girl actually. According to my personal experienceб you can't really have a conversation with a girl unless she likes you

>>385292315

>mfw i have no problem talking to or even flirting with ugly girls

holy shit anon I think you're on to something here

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>>385292307
>you will never be this guy

>>385292251
Watch this.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Sehh-yD-c

It's long, I know, but it's worth it, even if it's just to see how other guys drop their spaguetti when they start a convo, and slowly build-up confidence to the point they make the women drop the spaguetti instead.

>>385292430
Do you just go up to random girls and try to talk about /v/ and video games or something?

>>385287361
>Feels fucking horrible guys. I know I sound like a massive faggot, but what are some feel good games to make me feel better?

You should have told him choosing life was a mistake

Also if you did everything right in this green text story why feel horrible? It's about performance. Results aren't under your control.

Negative man on the other hand, had low performance. That's why he feels so bad.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9McGKrxOnB8

>>385292352
i can't wait until I am financially backset so I can just plug in my wii into the TV i will buy and just lose myself to this music like I did with my DS in middleschool

>>385292315
If you cant imagine they're ugly, imagine the STD that's prob inside them crawling up your peehole like a David Cronenberg monster

>>385292251
Read r/theredpill, and some classic Roosh V. Read Bang, and then read Day Bang. Follow advice to lift, eat well, dress nice, be masculine, reflect, keep a confident frame. Actually work on the things they tell you, and practice shooting the shit with girls. If you're a virgin, get an escort if at all possible so that sex won't be so alien to you and you won't put bitches on a pedestal. Make sure you don't have low testosterone (get it checked). Work on yourself first before you work bitches, if you have a shit bod and and a shitty personality nothing else can help you, change comes from within.

Don't ignore my advice, man. You may be skeptical, but so was I at first. This is life-changing stuff.

>>385292530
But anon everyone says just b urslef

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>>385292352
>recommending to play AC to get over a friend breakup
>your fav villager leaves your town

I miss you so much Kevin.
Pls come back ;_;

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>be mixed
>not black enough for black kids
>not white enough for white kids
>always have stick to myself
>9/11 happens
>get called terrorist every day
>was the literal only one who said the pledge
>because being american is the only identity i have
>end up on 4chan with all the other derelicts and misfits
>finally a video game character from my country
>go ninja go ninja go

>>385292682
man I don't wanna read some PUA redpill chadshit, I'll just jerk off alone in the dark as per usual

>>385292748
It's your life.

>>385292690
You can only wait for the day he comes back, anon. Unlike real life friends, villagers can come back. Eventually.

>>385291262
>emo and jock being true bros
Cool as fuck anon, I'm glad for you

>>385292689
b urself but not the real urself but the fake urself

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>>385292748
that's pretty sad that you just give up like that

single mother ?

absent father?

no pet dog to love?

>>385292682
Or you can just talk to girls normally and act normal and relaxed
That works
Also don't be ugly
That worked for me

>>385292530
I don't talk about vidya with girls. Even if they start talking about vidya I just pretend I don't know anything about it because they are fucking stupid and play shit like LoL and Dota to attract attention. Usually girls have a fucking BLOG in the chat ("I WENT TO A CAFE, I'M BORED etc etc"), can also discuss some life problems occasionally

>>385292361
You're still mad and this is the way you have revenge on him.

Most people would say it's horrible, but I consider it as something natural that you do to cope with your feels.

So... keep going, I guess?
Get it out of your system.

>>385292361
Fags acting mentally ill?
No way

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>>385292361
Wait so you dated a guy but you claim to be straight?

>>385287361
Sounds like a fucking asshole to me.

Guy saves your life and you tell him that you don't like him anymore? Fucking stupid.

>>385291737
>already has a destination in mind
Proof you should just do it.
Wanna put it off and potentially never see Korea?

>>385292251
don't do it unless it's a good opportunity. best places are school and work, where you have to get to know each other. clubs and bars are not as good, but usually people go there to hook up, so it's fine. but randomly in public? don't do it, it's creepy.

>>385292973
This was my first thought desu

>>385292361
>having sympathy for insane man whores
You're fine but good luck finding someone who hasn't taken at least five dicks up his neghole.

>>385287361
I FUCKING BET A WOMAN ASKING HIM "Your frind or me" and you can guess what was the answer.

>>385292682
>men putting in all this effort for literally nothing
Anyone in the dating scene is a complete cuck.

If you're attractive, get on tinder and smash after investing a whole text or two. If you're unattractive, the amount of effort or money you have to put forth to get laid, or worse, get a GF is absurd when you consider the "rewards". The societal climate for men these days is pure ass cancer.

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>>385293029
awful advice

you are a (girl)

or a really really beta male

talk to bitches whenever you want

anytimes a good time for pepper jack

>>385293013
He's just distancing himself so he can commit suicide, without a friend to talk him out of it, or to hurt.

>>385293029
I've grown to such a stage of confidence that I just exist as I do and people like me
Feels good to be at this point

>>385292361
He deserves it. Fuck him.

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>>385292185
for 10 fuckings years i was trapped with these people i used to have everything before i had this group, i had a nice small circle of friends who loved video games but also loved outdoor activities, fishing, golf and fate dealt me a bad hand and i lost that group and for a fucking decade i was trapped in a group with autists none of us matured beyond 14 years old i lost any friends to do with fun outdoor stuff and I couldn't be who i was for 10 years, surrounded by autists who don't love being outside and are only focused on video games, AND NOW I'M FUCKING FREE I CAN SPREAD MY WINGS AND FLY, I'M GOING TO FIGHT FOR MY LIFE BACK TO THE WAY I WAS BEFORE, AND I'M GOING TO SHOW THEM HOW WRONG THEY ARE TELLING ME I'M WRONG TO LIVE MY LIFE LIKE THIS, I'M GOING TO FUCKING MAKE THEIR MOMS FEEL JEALOUS AND FUCKING SORRY FOR INSULTING MY MOTHER BECAUSE HER SON IS GOING TO BE BETTER THAN ANY OF THEIRS, I STILL HAVE 8 YEARS TO TURN MY LIFE AROUND UNTIL I HIT 30
I'L SUCCEED OR DIE FUCKING TRYING

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUM966oVGbo

>>385292361
You're still in love but you feel betrayed. I feel sorry for the both of you. I hope you can forgive him and i hope he learned his lesson.

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>>385293146
that's the spirit

>have friend for 16+ years
>moved away when in 2nd grade
>but talked on phone and sleep overs as kids
>eventually moved onto instant messaging
>barely see each other for years but still talk
>know nothing real meaningful about each others family
Seems like a missed opportunity but his family is kinda fucked.

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>>385293146
Go for it anon. 22 is still stupid young. You can be what you want and more. Good luck. Make yourself proud.

>>385292251
Go to the bar and sit next to a girl. Casually ask her for something, like to stop you from using your phone. If she's already tipsy, she'll probably ask why. Then you have a story to begin a conversation with. Have a drink or two beforehand if you aren't very confident. As long as you have a sense of humor and decently quick wit, you'll be able to talk to her fluidly.

Drinking REALLY helps. You don't need to be full on drunk, not even close. Just get to the point where your mental filter doesn't work as well. Went from being the "quiet and awkward cousin" at family reunions to being able to literally slap one of my cousins on the ass and have her still think that I'm a great guy.

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>>385293284
quit worrying about others and focus on yourself

>>385288410
This sucks anon.
I have a gay friend with very different opinion on politics but right now he consider me one of his best friend.

>>385292361
>>casually talk to him about my romantic experiences with real women as they happen because I know it hurts him
Haha, you are still mad. How many years has it been? Deep down inside you still want to be with him and hope to restore your relationship and start from scratch

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>>385293095
This.

I TALK WITH A STUTTER
MY FACE? LET'S JUST CALL IT BUTTER
THIS LONELINESS DRIVES ME NUTTER
WHAT'S IT ALL WORTH, I SAY WITH A MUTTER
FEELS FUCKING BAD LAYING IN THIS GUTTER

>>385293343
Just because I'm cheering on anon who just set himself on a new path of life doesn't mean I don't care about my own life you silly.

>>385293332
> As long as you have a sense of humor and decently quick wit, you'll be able to talk to her fluidly.
Just be yourself lmao

It's because he is depressed. I have clinical depression and dropped all my friends too.

>>385292307
Pretty much the same situation except the gay guy. You can get lot of friends and acquaintances for example if you just go to parties at school because there will always be some people that are like you or at least feel sorry for your awkward personality and starts to hang out with you. Worked for me

>>385292307
>another guy is super gay but not in your face about it and really chill
Oh shit, dat me
How're you doing, Cam?

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>>385288410
>tfw my sister's godfather cut off all communication to my mom after 30 years of friendship because she doesn't hate Trump
>Doesn't particularly like him, didn't even vote for him, just doesn't hate him

>>385292983
Originally, yes. I thought I was straight. Spending time with him made me realize that I wasn't correct in that assumption. I'm really masculine and it would really hurt my pride if I ever took a dick, so I only go for feminine guys, as far as males go.

>>385292845
>Also don't be ugly
>That worked for me
be funny and rich helps too

>>385287361
>have no friends
>take no steps to connect with people
>rarely someone will try reaching out to me, ask to hang out, etc.
>end up severing ties with them almost immediately out of anxiety (not blatantly but I give off enough signs that they take the hint and stop contacting me)

I simultaneously desire and despise social contact, it's a fucking curse. I'm a gay virgin too. Can't maintain even a single male friend, god help me try to find one that I'm interested in, is gay himself, and isn't immediately repulsed by me.

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>>385293146
You are on your way to become an alpha.
Be free and pursue all your interests.

Also fuck their moms if you can.

>>385292385
>meet new people
>"I play video games too! I like lol. Haha"
It's only ever lol

>>385293593
I'm funny but not rich
But handsome and funny are more than enough, and not poor

"The worst loneliness is to be uncomfortable with yourself." - Mozart

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Question lads why are girls/female friends so interested in other peoples sex lives? The moment I've made a passing comment about a moment of intimacy eyes were on me and expecting, I'm sure they'd make a damn campfire to complete story time if they could.

>>385287361
Like most people here, I suggest you to inquire a bit because if nothing happened between you two then the most likely reason for him acting like this is distancing.
Somebody who really likes you and is even grateful to you wouldn't never just stop liking you

>online friend
>talk to him for 2years
>he is funny and good
>he meet another dude online
>this dude is a douchebag and hate me
>I can't play with good friend whitout meet douchebag
>after 1 year the douchebag meet other douchebag and they hate me
>5 asshole, 1 friend and me
>I'm tired of this situation
>delete and block good friend and never tell him why

>>385288410
he's in a mental cult. He values his own beliefs more than he does other people. Sorry bro. Either he'll snap out of it in a few years or just become nuttier. Either way, it's best to move on.

>>385287361
Dude sounds like a douchebag. Maybe even a narcissist. I get the pain, but you can do better man. Find a friend that's mentally together and values his own fucking friends

>>385293434
You won't get anywhere with that attitude. Just make jokes and tell stories that normalfriends will understand. Life experiences that you can look back on and laugh at. And as far as wit goes, just make quick remarks. Don't overcomplicate things and think them over. Just say it.

>tfw never had any friends

>>385293767
>online friend
there's your problem

>>385293675
trust me funny will get you in to more panties than rich and handsome
just look up the gf and wife's of comedians
also learn the guitar just a couple of cords
guitars are pussy magnets

>>385293810
>Just make jokes and tell stories that normalfriends will understand. Life experiences that you can look back on and laugh at.
I don't have any of those. I am a person whose hobbies are videogames and anime.

>>385287361
>feel good games

pokemon is a good choice. There are also plenty of good hacks I'm a huge fan of touhoumon and TPDP

paper mario also comes to mind. In general the nintendo first party games are often good, innocent fun that takes place in a better world

>>385293871
Yea I know
I find threads like this funny about girls as well, since I used to make them and ask a ton of questions when in reality, these things come down to being comfortable with yourself and having a sense of humor

>>385293927
>So I was fapping to my waifu...
>Hahaha great story fellow normalfag

>>385292691
I know that feel. That's been my experience in life too.

>>385289924
Same thing happened to me recently, realize most people are shit and you're happier alone.

>>385293989
waifus are becoming mainstream now though, seeing with the ironic weebs

>>385293625
You're pretty much literally me. I think I just hate myself too much to love anybody else, but not enough to kill myself.

>>385289860
except you only drink so you have something you can tell somebody later in life because you are the most boring piece of shit to have ever walked this earth and all you can say about yourself is "i drink look at me"

>>385293553
My boss is a dude named Cam and some dude who used to work here was super gay.

I don't know if they were friends or not, but the gay dude definitely seemed like he could've posted on 4chan....Nick....

>>385293983
simple really just be you but better, girls love a guy thats comfortable with himself, i use to pick girls up on public transport, had no care got lots of dates

>>385294126
Make yourself someone worth not hating. Shit, I hate you after only reading your post.

>>385294160
This is weird because I'm the Cam that he's talking about and I talked to my friend Nick about everything last night

>>385294160
>>another is a memelord and gets all of my references
OH FUCK I MEANT TO QUOTE THIS ONE

>>385294215
how would you open the conversation

>>385293927
How about school or a job? Hell, steal stories and jokes your dad told you if you need to. I bet they're pretty good. Speaking of dads, mine taught me a very good life lesson; never let the truth get in the way of a good story. Don't make things overblown, but if the story is funnier with a slight change, go for it.
Do you have any friends/family you could drink with? Just talking about things after a few drinks with people that you're close with is an excellent general confidence booster, even if you aren't drunk.

>>385293146
Calm down fag

>>385294281
Ask if they go to 4chan

>>385294221
Nah, I'd much rather keep on living in this weird limbo equilibrium of anti-social apathy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ptg6CBTheo8
We'll get there some day, bros.

>>385294254
Not really doin' good, to be honest. I wish I got a chance to explain things better but at this point I don't think it'd help much, or that anyone would believe me.

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I don't think I'll have the confidence to ask someone out until I actually get my proper driver's license (I've been avoiding it) and work out to a point where my arms are slightly more muscular than toothpicks

>>385294327
Well atleast your self-hatred is justified faggot. Go to /fit/, /ck/, and /pol/ when you're ready to start actually living

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>Have good friend in High School
>We both go to the other side of the country so not a lot of chance to meet
>Talk online and see each other every few years
>Don't talk to him for about 2 years
>Contact me recently and we shoot the shit
>Casually lays down that he had a super painful degenerative nerve disease but he's not dying now so it's ok

>>385290865
>friend with a super liberal mexican
>very much the polar opposite of him
>we both insult each other all the time
Good friendships, those.

>>385294371
haha what

>>385287361
>Finally messages me today and tells me that he doesn't like me anymore, and doesn't want to talk or hang out again

Let me guess: He actually grew up and you stayed an autistic and embarassing manchild.

> I noticed he is associating with alot of fat tumblr tier women for the passed year or so.

So you just got lucky then, eh?

>>385294390
>/pol/
>actually living

that's a good one, are you trying to drive him further towards suicide?

>>385294281
>>385294281
"whats the time" real simple go from there, feel out the rest, comment on what she is wearing
>>385294313
maybe after the second date bring that up

>>385294419
I'm saying there was more going on then I got a chance to say
I was kind of in a frantic rush as people were blocking me left and right, but it's whatever man

>>385294485
what country u live in?

>>385294390
>and /pol/
Nah, I'd much sooner go to /lit/ than that cancer shithole Mr. r/theredpill self-help books for alt-rights marketer

>>385294524
brazil

>>385294485
yo what's the time, baby

>>385294539
Nigger, go to /lit/ too. Go read some books.

>>385291203
Similar, but friends just keep inviting people they find in Overwatch. So now the disco is filled with random 15 year olds, who are annoying/emotionally fragile. And of course, anything you do that may make any of them sad is a huge issue. Fuck that noise.

Also why do they keep inviting these kids, feels like the disco is becoming Neverland Ranch.

>>385294380
be funny and not act like an autist and you'll be fine. I'm ugly as fuck and have had a "bunch" of girls.

>>385294524
australia

>>385294390
>/pol/
Easy way to make people dislike being around you. It doesn't matter if what you're reading there is right or wrong, real or false. Spouting politics to other people that aren't big into politics is generally unwelcoming, especially if it's controversial things like the holocaust. It MIGHT help during a presidential election and talking to people that agree with you, but that's about it.

>>385289924
Are you me? Everyone absolutely seems to love me. I'm a good talker and enjoy making others laugh. I'm also kind and fair to everyone I meet. This leads to lots and lots of people making contanct me and wanting to hang out and stuff all the time.

It's just that deep down I'm introverted. When some people gain energy from hanging out with other people I NEED to have some time where I can just stay alone WITHOUT ANYONE. What makes the constant barrage of friends more tiring is the fact that I already have a gf (I absolutely adore her, getting married next month) who is totally addicted to my attention and whenever we are home at the same time never gives me alone time, unless I politely ask.

2 day weekend all alone is my heaven (have those like few times a year).

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>>385287361
>best friends with a man for almost 8 years, find him his first job, shelter him for 3 months, have a great time together playing games and drinking
>he finds a girlfriend and go back to his mother's house
>doesn't work for 3 years and see him occasionally, maybe once or twice a year
>comes back where I live, help him moving in and find him a job, train him and he becomes my coworker
>great times together again
>I get fired from my job because of some stupid production manager slut, he takes my place while I must restart from zero in another studio
>barely see him anymore, doesn't give a shit about how I feel, doesn't even celebrate my 30th birthday

People are shit, anons.

Rule of Rose, fantastic game.

>>385294578
yer whats wrong with that. you dont have to be a creeper, just be nice and yourself, unsless you are a creeper then get of the bus...of life
i dont do it now cause i have a long term gf soon to fiance

>>385292529

Is it really that easy?

>Be me in middle school don't talk to people be all around good boy go to library during lunch
>one day getting bullied in hall my stuff is on the floor try to pick it up bullies step on my hand everytime
>big Mexican comes out of nowhere tells them to fuck off they run he helps me pick my stuff up
>fast forward a couple day's during lunch he invites me to sit at a table with his buds
>immediately they start talking about all the things I like vidya games and weeb stuff never had I been happier
>at the end of middle school we get together and have a moment where we realize we might never see each other again small tears
>high school comes around look around the halls for anyone I know not a single one
My first time greentexting should I continue?

>>385294717
your blouse looks great on you, by the way

>>385294717
nice digs honey

>>385294703
Why do people like this fucking exist? Does it hurt a lot man?

>>385294782
sounds like she might take that as you staring at her boobs, but maybe that's just me
>>385294737
I think it's easier if you make up an excuse depending on the context. unsolicited conversations are weird and awkward, but if you ask a question or directions or something then you can slip in a conversation if they're interested. you can usually tell if someone doesn't want a conversation with you

>>385288410
fuck, i cant imagine what its like to have friends that shitty.

>>385294782
yer but its 2017 and no one says blouse any more , dress or jeans
i also work in retail and girls will flirt with me i dont have to even try...because i have a amazing gf yes amazing

>>385295020
amazing

>>385293554
Fucks who allow politics to rule their lives like that are the cancer that is killing America.

>>385294778
only if theres more bullying involved or you can fuck right off

>>385288410
he probably changed pronouns and didn't tell you and got offended because you deadpronouned him

>>385294883
I stopped caring. He's not the first one to back stab me after I helped him but he became such a shitty "friend" I'll never do anything anymore if he's in trouble again.

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If I ever could get married I have no idea who is make my groomsmen

>>385295124
Guess I'll fuck off then

>>385287361
Start playing poe you can go super autismo and get lost in it and grind the pain away

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>>385294703
>taught someone something
>it comes around and bites me in the ass

sometimes sharing knowledge is a curse

>>385295172
Maybe you should ask yourself what attracts these people to you, why you can't tell that they're like that, or why you settle for such a shitty friend when you can tell that they're shit.

>>385295180
I don't even know who I would even be married with xd

>>385293554
Don't even know what to say to this. These people are legit crazy. There had to have been some underlying issue that was gnawing at him and this just was a convenient excuse.

>>385294962
i had a friend he was a creeper, help him out a lot bought food for him, help him with his love life, gave him stuff like movies,
he would meet girls and then get really obsessive about them, go to their houses stuff like that .even after we told him that really wrong
i decided to stop being friends because he got into drugs and treated every one like shit

saw him a week a go hasn't change a bit

>be me in high school
>lost all my buds from middle school
>social anxiety kicking back in now that I'm not familiar with anyone
>just meander alone at lunch
>eventually get put into a group project
>my incredible shyness is apparent to everybody
>one girl tells me she and her friends thought I was the 'school shooter' type
And that was the day my confidence died, forever.
I dropped out, went to post-education night school to get my shit done a year later, and have been a loner since.

>>385295301
should have proved them right

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>>385295301
KIDS CAN BE CRUEL, JACK!

>>385292682
That's advice for being a perma-virgin in fancy packaging.

>if you have a shit body and and a shitty personality nothing else can help you, change comes from within.

That's true, though.

>>385295301
Fellow loner drop out here. How is your life now? I'm still a loner but I'm studying at university so things are better than when I was a NEET.

>>385295180
Of my friends, there's only maybe two I'd even want to be groomsmen.

After that, I'd probably just match her bridesmaids with brothers.

>>385295180
ever watched I Love You, Man?

>>385295180

My friend got married recently and I was his only friend. His wife just stuffed his side of the wedding with her own friends.

>>385294778
Only if it ends in gay sex

>>385295301
This exact same thing happened to me nobody in middle school would ever talk to me because they thought I was just gonna go mental one day

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>stare at qtpie blonde shortstack in class every day
>she doesn't notice me
>towards the end of the year
>she sits in my table of friends magically
>the one acutal bro friend tries to wingman
>lol i would never date him
>my insides

>>385295513
It got kinda close

>>385295423
Life's pretty good. My job is menial shit and I've been putting off further education, though. So you're better off than I.

>>385295552
bitchs be crazy, plenty of sex in the stream

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>>385295583
then go on

>>385295552
mein bruder

>>385295552
owned

>>385295257
I'm someone who's nice when you know me and would do anything for my friends or family, because loyalty and bullshits like that.
It's actually really hard to befriend me because I don't open easily but when I do, it often ends up coming back right in my face because people think about them first and foremost.

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>>385293832
>pretty much always been alone, with only a core of 2-3 solid bros i rarely see
>have to learn everything on my own, and I dont like telling people about my personal issues
>mfw all this waaawaahhh about bitches and lame friends leaving like its not a good thing

Kids just stfu and get money

Tip for being funny - if you want to describe something entertaining you saw online, make sure that there's a way to explain it PURELY VERBALLY. If you need to show a picture to someone or go off topic to explain something in a conversation or story, don't bother. Send it to them in a text or something if you're able to get a contact from them. Make sure it's something they can relate to as well.

>>385287361
He's probably going to kill himself. Pushing you away so you don't notice when he is gone

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>Start highschool
>Think that its all going to change
>Spend lots of time with my classmates and have a good time
>HS ends
>Never hear from any of them again
H-haha i was merely pretending to be your friend aswell

>>385288756
Lefties are in such a massive echo-chamber it's frightening

>>385294737
Like >>385294937 implies, it isn't always that easy.
People have places to go, not everyone has time to chitchat, maybe they had a really bad day and just wanna go home or wherever they were heading, or they already have a bf or husband.

But the video gives legit good advices, and examples of how not to be awkward:
Don't have a weak posture or speak nervously.
Be honest about your intentions while still being a gentleman.
Butter girls up with smooth talk, but don't let the conversation stall or drag on. Go for the number or ask her out at before losing momentum.

It's all legit advice, and doing something like this gives you experience for when you really wanna succeed in talking to some qt to get to know her and ask her out. In my opinion earning such experience is miles better than not trying anything at all and never improving. If that means having an awkward convo every now and then, so be it.
In the end everything boils down to what makes you happy, and if you want to talk to some qt to try your luck and go on a date, then by all means, go for it.

>>385295650
I'll skip details but near the end of high school he confessed that he actually liked me we tried some stuff but I just wasn't into it we were still Bros after that one day I dropped my phone in the sink and lost his number ever since I've hoped he never moved out of town so that I might see him again I've never had a brother like that and I feel like I will never again

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>Lonefag in middle-school
>Got bullied a lot
>One of the cool kids starts getting close to me
>We became friends
>I still ate alone at the table but it's okay he's my friend
>Sometimes he would leave me and go hang out with the other guys
>It's okay, i shouldn't be greedy or needy
>He would come over and we would play vidya for hours
>His other friends, my bullies would come over and play with us too
>When they got bored they would leave and ask him to come along
>He would go
>It's okay, i suck at sports anyway
>High School
>Girl i found cute starts talking to us, mostly him
>She starts dating him
>Oh well, i guess she just liked him better
>His other friends come to my desk and keep telling lies on how he thinks i'm pathetic and that i stink
>She breaks up with him
>I'm the shoulder he cries on
>His parents kick him out for some time
>We start sharing a room
>We have lots of fun playing vidya when he's home
>Eventually he goes back home
>Gets another gf and stops coming all together
>His friends still keep bothering me but i just ignore them
>Parents badmouth him
>I go berserk on them
>One day he comes up to me at school and just starts insulting me
>I break down on the spot
>Everybody starts taking pictures and laughing at me
>I get on the floor and everybody walks the dinossaur

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>This entire thread when you're a mid-30s wizard

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>>385288410
Lost good friends because I want to defend free speech and my fiscal conservative views. Oh well, if they can't handle the rigors of an opposing view then they can never grow up and develop themselves into free thinking human beans.

Anon and OP, I am there for you. we should play games

>>385295892
How accurately this describes the current generation lmao

>>385295892
i have had this same though before

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>>385295981
3 more years!

>>385295892
i was glad i was in bed with my gf when i heard my dad died,

>>385295990
No thanks, i don't want some obnoxious faggot to ridicule me over stuff i don't really care about.

>>385287361
Friendships are temporary, play any mainline SMT.

Something similar happened to me recently. <part 1>

>Meet (current to this day) girlfriend 4 years ago and visit her house every week or so.
>Introduced to her sister.
>I don't really talk to her all that much, I mean I went over here to hang out with someone else, but she's basically friend-of-friend tier.
>About a year in, she (girlfriend's sister) begins cheating on her boyfriend (who's away in the military) with someone else.
>Apparently she's the overbearing digging-through-your-shit type to find your dirt and found this out.
>She cheats on her boyfriend with (get this) her 38 year old asian manager (she's 23 at the time) at the sushi bar she got a part-time job at.
>I didn't know this at the time, so she comes to me asking for job advice when she's getting harassment from one girl in particular at the job.
>Tell her talk to the manager, if they don't do anything, quit that place, but don't retaliate. You don't have to take anyone's shit at any job.
>Turns out she lied about the situation and withheld information about the cheating and the prior engagement the other coworker had.
>Apparently the girl harassing her is the OTHER 25 year old employee that the manager stopped romancing with, but this coworker is now jealous of her.
>(YES, SOMEHOW THIS DUDE DID IT TWICE WITH EMPLOYEES WHICH ARE MUCH YOUNGER THAN HIM.)
>Hear about the cheating from my girlfriend.
>Basically lose faith in this garbage human, and cease having any desire to talk to her, really.
>My girlfriend is asking me to hang out with her when I get off work and am waiting for her to arrive, she tells me her sister's pretty lonely and thinks that I can help.
>Begrudingly try to hang out with her.
>She calls up a random female friend because somehow that makes it "not cheating" to go with her sister's boyfriend to get bubble tea or whatever.
>Don't like getting treated as a third wheel. She's _not_ lonely if she can call up a friend to hang out. I had no ulterior motives.

>>385295990
You sound autistic buddy

>>385287361
One Question - did he get a new girlfriend recently?

>>385295940
I had the feels but that last part fucking got me

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>>385295180
>Couple of my friends get married
>I end up best man at both weddings
>I hadn't seen or talked to them for years before the weddings and now years after the weddings
>Somehow despite this I end up best man
>Also am now a wizard while my friends got married and were seemingly so low on friends they hauled my ass out of the cooler to be best man
I just don't get it.

>>385296060
>wah wah ridicule me need safe space

CLEAN YOUR ROOM BUCKO

>>385296081
business owners get LOADS of tail bro

>>385295803
I'm not gonna psychoanalyze you at 3 AM, but you seriously need to be more honest with yourself about the deficiencies that led you to your current situation. For one you seem very desperate and clingy.

Hey though, no reason to feel bad about it. Learning about your own flaws are the first step to actually becoming someone of value. Honestly, good luck.

>>385296093
th-thanks, not the first time I have been called that

>>385288410
Seems like you two never really knew each other, probably a good thing he cut ties, it wouldve only been more depressing had it happened later. I feel like alot of people found out who their friends and family really are this past election

>>385296081
<part2>
>Never speak to girlfriend's sister for 4 years.
>Girlfriend feels like she's in custody, I refuse to hang out with her, and her sister's upset at me for leaving her out. She has to make separate plans for things like birthdays for friends and me and her personal family.
>Girlfriend's sister apparently wants to make amends with me now.
>She's STILL dating this 40+ year old dude.
>Implying anything has significantly changed between 4 years ago and her selfish, inconsiderate, irresponsible, and bitchy attitude.
>Apparently she's starting to go through some changes though and is going through counseling, but honestly, if she's still clinging onto a 40+ year old mistake there's not enough change.

I really want to tell her to fuck off. I don't feel like I need to be "friends" with shitty people, and already been through similar shit with similar "shitty" friends. It was never ultimately worth any effort I put into these friendships and they ended up souring anyways.

If a man has 200 dollars to his name how far can he get while traveling the US (I'm also black, important detail these days)

Bascially if I'm still living with my folks at 25 I might kill myself

>>385296139
the best man in the wrong place can make all the difference in the world

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>>385296242
Thank you friend. That made me feel better.

>>385289713
Have you tried meditating?

>>385288410
>we saved each other from niggers back in middle school and high school
Apparently really good bait

>>385296235
You should save up more money

https://www.reddit.com/r/IWantOut/

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>>385296227
hahahahaha your gf is the real one whos an asshole

shes pawning her shitty sister off on you

well guess what? shes not YOUR SISTER WTF LOL

plow your gf more and wait for the break up because your GF must HATE YOU

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>>385296108
Everything is actually true though.
I don't like thinking about the past, makes me uncomfortable. A lot of stuff happened later and even though we still talk to each other i have other friends. And looking back i deserved all the abuse i got.

>>385296316
I have 1000+ in cryptos but im not touching that for a long time

>really want to experience being a dad and husband at a decently young age
>but also really want to be a mariner and spend my days on the sea travelling the world, just as my ancestors have for generations
>being a sailor will almost always lead to a life of loneliness and polygamy for both parties of a relationship
What should I do?

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>>385287361
>Have a friend
You see that's the first mistake.

>>385296235
Look for long trip bus passes, a $50 ticket could get you from D.C. to New York if you find the right bus line

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>>385287361 (OP)
>Never had a great video game childhood hangout
>Only went to other kid's houses less than ten times
>mostly because I'm a huge omega with legit autism
You're in a better scenario, anon. It's better to have a friend and having it ended instead of having very little close friends.

>>385296376
Don't be a family man. You'll regret it.

>>385296291
That is some optical illusion shit.

>long time friend
>remember that he had some weird email account
>google that shit
>easily find out he posted his email and pictures of his dick in a forum
>I wonder for weeks whether I should warn him or not, because he's the kind of guy that would use that e-mail in a job interview
>finally I tell him
That was a mistake.

>>385296376
being a sailor sounds like fun, follow your dreams anon, the best scenario you will fall in love with someone while sailing

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>>385296427
dont listen to this fag

be the family man and take responsibility


answer me this : how can you honor your ancestors if you don't continue their bloodline?

>>385296235
hitch-hike, i here that is really safe now. also give blow jobs for money, now thats a growth industry