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/ATOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything. Just because I like

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/ATOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything.

Just because I like watching how these things play out.


One for the women to start us off:

What is an Ann Summers' Party actually like?
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It's alright, depends on the company as with any party. Get some discounted lingerie/toys, chat about what vibrators *really* work but nothing too graphic... Try out different flavours of lubes and body paints and that... Doesn't tend to get that wild or anything :l sorry to disappoint.

Question to guys - do you all instantly look at porn the second your GF goes to work or even just the other room...
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>>25618606

No. We do have lives outside of pornography, y'know.

Personally, I do the nofap thing, but even before that, we do have other things we enjoy.

If you've left us with an important decision to make, then yes, jacking off is the first we do after you're gone.

The greatest advice I've ever received is "Whenever a woman asks you to make a big decision; decide on your answer, jerk off and see if it's the same answer".
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>>25618606
It's called hentai & it's art.
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If you're one of those guys who sends dick pic for a first message, or instantly reply with your kik to anyone female posting theirs

why?
Dont you realise its weird, unwelcome and just makes you look stupid to the majority? Do you even have any success with doing it from females who arent guys pretending?
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>>25618673
im a guy who has been on here for years and i have never done either of those. mainly because the dick pic thing is just straight up autistic.

seriously only someone totally lacking any sort of social ability would do that.

the other one about the contact, i mean i usually try to talk to the other person a bit before giving it out. occasionally i may have jumped the gun but i have never straight up left a kik with no other info.

aside from myself i cant give you the answers you were looking for.
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Why does it seem like women only care about sex nowadays and nothing else?

Followup for the same question, why does it seem like most women will break up with a long term boyfriend "To experience dating around and hooking up"?

I've had more than one girlfriend I dated for over a year say the same thing.
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>>25618730
The second bit I meant more when females don't leave any contact info, or don't want to be contacted by people.
I posted in a thread a few days ago, stated specifically I had no intention to add anyone and I still had 5 guys posting their kiks in response.
I don't get how people can be so dense.

>>25618756
Can be applied to both genders, and my best guess is because most of them are young and not ready to be tied down. Demographic of 4chan is mainly what... about 14-25?
The way we all have access to the internet and a phone as well doesn't exactly make it hard to find other people nearby who just want sex, so it's pretty much easier than it's ever been before within the last decade
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>>25618780
I don't understand the mentality of "I don't want to be tied down so I"m gonna go fuck as many people as I can until I turn 26".

Who wants to marry somebody that spent 10 years of their lives just trying to fuck as many different people as possible?
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>>25618787
>I don't understand the mentality
"I wonder what it'd be like to to x/y/z"
"I'd love to do all those wild things before I turn 2x"
Just because it's not something you'd want to do doesn't mean others feel the same.

In regards to not wanting to marry someone who's been sleeping around a lot, everyone's different. Personally I wouldn't want a guy who's slept with everyone he could find, but I'd also be wondering if that'd make him more likely to cheat in the future
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>>25618803
I'd think the opposite, somebody that's fucked around a lot would be more likely to continue that behavior in the future.

There's a reason that the "Settling down" thing is a joke, it's because it just gets harder for them to find people to hook up with so they find a guy with money/stability, and don't care about the sex.
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>>25618780
its not like anyone is forcing you to contact them. just say no who cares you have no intentions anyway right?

on the same note i personally feel more comfortable with online relationships. i cant deal with the stress and anxiety of having a relationship in real life so this is a place i like to meet people.

aside from here ive used other online communities without having ant sort of intent and have ended up meeting some really great girls.

i get that girls get harassed around here but for me, i only ever wanted to get to know someone for companionship.

but as it turns out most girls cant stand me anyway hehe i dont really know why i guess im just too much for most to handle.
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To the women:

What are your thoughts on guys with long hair? Mine is really well taken care of, wavy as all hell and just sits on my shoulders. Is it more of a niche thing among you though?
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For females:

Facial hair, y/n? Explain and elaborate.

Do you have preferences for males with tattoo's or no tattoo's? Does either matter? Expand on your reasoning.
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>>25618912
yeah buddy i have long hair too. who cares if they like it long hair is sick asf.
would i cut my hair to be with some girl? hell no
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>>25618592
I wouldn't know sorry OP
>>25618756
That's a bit more complicated, its not like there's not other things she wants to do, but being sexual as a female "these days" isn't seen as "distasteful" as it used to be. And to the "experience dating around thing" isn't just a woman thing, I've also has ex boyfriends doing that to me. So i'd assume it's human nature to be afraid of commitment and want to know what kind of guy works best for her.
>>25618912
shoulder length is fine in my opinion, but long to the point of lower back weirds me out, on both men and women. Don't really know why, probably because even if you take care of it once it goes past your lower back the ends are just so dead and gross (even if it looks good its the fact that its 5-10 year old hair)
>>25618925
For both it really depends, facial hair looks good when groomed correctly, and the guy can pull it off (witch most can) but when it's patchy/ when the guy doesn't shave the neck area it just looks more like lack of hygiene. I'm a little anal about tattoos, if they don't mean anything to you and/or you payed 20 bucks for a 100 dollar piece then it's trash. my exception for low price is the little tattoos that have a good story behind them/mean a lot. Don't get a tattoo as a fashion choice because you'll eventually hate it.
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For ladies: What 1 to 3 appendages (human, animal, mythical, alien, whatever) would you add to your body? A pair counts as 1.
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>>25618925
I prefer no facial hair and tattoos.
Neither is really a big deal, but kissing guys with facial hair feels weird.
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>>25618756
Do they? I'm more interested in a relationship. Most of my friends are the same. Maybe it's the type of girls you surround yourself with

>>25618912
It depends on the girl. I don't like it, but one of my friends (who's really into metal-heads) loves it. So does another one of my girlfriends

>>25619526
That's a weird question... Maybe cat ears? But only if it's normal and I'm not going to be a freak
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>>25618925
Oh yes, facial hair feels so good. My boyfriend has a short beard so when we kiss it scratches my face and when he kisses my neck it's verrrrry pleasant too. Also I think it looks good, it's basically men makeup.

About tattoos, I have a lot of them so I enjoy guys with tattoos but my bf doesn't have any so it definitely doesn't matter to me unless they start giving me shit because of them.
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>>25618925
It depends on the man. It sometimes looks good, and it sometimes doesn't. I don't mind tattoos. I wouldn't date or reject a guy based on that
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>>25618756
For me I was so innocent and pure for so long and when I finally had this chance of freedom the excitement of meeting different people and exploration of my sexuality became insatiable for a short time. But soon I realized how much I hated dating around and how much more amazing and meaningful it is to be with one person. I also realized that I was sleeping around to deal with a heartbreak (which was really unhealthy and not me at all). I basically became celibate until I met someone really special. Still with him years later.
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>>25618925
F here. I enjoy tattoos and I appreciate a good beard. But I've dated guys with both, one, or the other so I can't say I have any hard preferences. Current bf has no tattoos but loves metal and has a beard. I have the tattoos lol
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Why do women like tasting their own pussy juice? Do you like it or are you trying to act sexy?
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My glasses recently broke and I've been trying to find a decent pair. Course when I go out, I can't see them actually on me. And online the generators look so unrealistic that I can't get a good feel for what they'd actually look like.

Can I just get some blanket recommendations on a shape or style that could possibly look good on me? Limit is 380USD and I'm using eyebuydirect and zenni. But again, any general recommendation would be great too.
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M here.
Would you date a stammerer?
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>>25619708
>That's a weird question... Maybe cat ears? But only if it's normal and I'm not going to be a freak
I reckon even now you could get away with them in cities like SF.
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bump for interest
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>>25621063
Im From sf...male.....you can get away with most things here that are a lot more than that haha
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>>25618756
None of my friends ever did that. None of my friends fucked more than 3 people, most of them just with one. None of them broke up with a long term partner over such things.
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>>25619930
I've done it out of curiosity. I keep wondering if it'll taste different by altering my diet as strange as that might sound.

Why are men so weird about tasting their own cum? How are they not curious? I've heard some guys won't even kiss a girl if she's given him a blowjob.
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>>25619945
Why don't you try them on, take a selfie and then look at the selfie?
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>>25621326
>Why are men so weird about tasting their own cum? How are they not curious? I've heard some guys won't even kiss a girl if she's given him a blowjob.
I've never had the thought of cumming in my hand just to taste it but I've got no problem at all kissing my girlfriend after a blowjob/eating her out after I've came inside. It's not really a big deal.
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>>25618665
My nigga
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>>25618756
>Why does it seem like women only care about sex nowadays and nothing else?
We learned from men.
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>31/f here to answer questions if anyone has em.
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Women of /soc/:

Are you more likely to out-and-out ask for somebody's contact here or lurk and add said inidividual if it's already provided?
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>>25622033
I would ask directly
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>>25622061
how many times have you done that?
and just you personally, what is your preferred medium?
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>>25622072
Just one time. I'm not interested most of the time. I guess Kik is alright. Otherwise, I would ask for their Instagram
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>>25622130
yeah we know, girls are never interested. but besides that, in your opinion isnt kik a much more neutral medium? like isnt instagram a more personal thing?

i never used instagram so im not exactly sure what type of content people post.
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>>25622138
Yes, Instagram is a little more personal. But I, for one, don't have my real name on it and don't post anything overly personal

For all effects and purposes, Kik is usually the way to go if you want to chat with strangers you met on 4chan. It's like an unwritten rule now. People also ask for Snapchat, but I rarely use it
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>>25622175
ok interesting feedback like i said no instagram here and i used to have a snapchat but i stopped using it because i have no friends anyway so i figured why bother. so kik is really the only thing i use.

but im just trying to get a feeling because recently it seems like alot of people are down on kik. like its obsolete or something.
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>>25622033
I've asked before a few times. If I see someone interesting to me I ask.
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>>25618606
For me, if I'm in a relationship I'll try and stay away from porn.
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>>25618616
>Whenever a woman asks you to make a big decision; decide on your answer, jerk off and see if it's the same answer
Words to live by.
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Why do women get all faggy with me once they realize I'm gay. Like fuck lady, 20 minutes ago you thought I was creepy and now you want to go shoe shopping with me. We can talk about make-up and boys if you want, but immediately asking about my sex life after finding out I'm gay is weird. Do you really need to know if I pitch or catch as a conversation starter?
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>>25618592
do women play hard to get? and how do we know when they are trying to make us work for it?
>if they say no or act uninterested I just leave them well alone
>dont wanna be a creep
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For girls:

I've noticed a girl at uni draws me in her notebook during class. Does she want me to see it or would it be embarrassing if I brought it up? I thought it was kind of weird but endearing. Also do yu think asking to hang out at uni is creepy? Thanks in advance.

Follow up, why do you go to the toilet at the same time? If its "to chat" what the fuck do you talk about and does the conversation continue when you're in the stalls?
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Ladies, you met your prince charming but during your first intimate night you see he has a 4 inch dick
What do?
ps: This is not about me, I'm 4.1
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>>25620036
Yes. Dont worry anon, just look at how many girls like drew lynch
>>25622033
Most of the time i just post my contact and friend whoever friends me first. Mostly on discord, but i think i should stop because its really hard to keep up with messages
>>25624742
It seems like a lot of girls want that gay bestfriend and like with her other bestfriends she'll want to know everything about you. I dont think i change the way i talk to friends online who tell me theyre gay, but ill ship your relationship so hard if you have one/have a crush
>>25624744
I dont but maybe some do, its the best thing youre doing by leaving, because even if she was playing hard to get why would you want someone like that. Personally i just think its rude
>>25624756
Awe thats actually kinda cute, i think the cutest way to go about it would be the draw her something back even if youre not the best (if you like her that is). I guess if you dont really like her just bring it up and ask questions that dont sounds mean, like "i noticed this, are you an art major/is it for a project? Be creative

Also going to the bathroom together is weird af, i dont like having other people hear me pee. But i guess its kind of a vulnrability thing, bever know whos in the bathroom
>>25624858
Hope he knows what hes doing sexually, if you can please me i really dont care, but if youre that worried youre not performing well never underestimate toy play.
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For women:

Should I bother trusting my girl friends opinions on women? Because honestly, they're fucking full of insights that seem to go horribly contrary to everything ever posted on the internet. aka: "She says she's not interested in relationships now but ignore that, she's putting out all the signs, she just won't say what she wants." or "shes looking for your attention without seeming desperate" etc. Basically, every friend I have who's a woman believes they have the inside track on how women act, and often contradict each other.
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>>25618592
Dude here and all, but, honestly, dude, ann summers stuff is shit. The majority of sex toy party stuff is shit. Absolutely fucking shit.

>>25618606
No? I'm not just waiting for someone to leave the space. If I'm horny, I'm more likely to initiate something with a partner than I am to wait around for her to leave so I can jack it. That being said, there's times that people will leave in the morning and I'll absolutely feel like having a morning wank or what not.

>>25618673
Not one of those dudes, but people are thirsty as fuck. The majority of people may respect the request, but you're throwing it out to a mass of folk. People will just decide to do it anyways, just like Brandon will continue to ask for rates and tips despite everyone telling him to fuck off. (And hey, I've not been on lately, hopefully he fucked off.)

>>25618756
How old are you anon? If you're younger, a lot of people care about sex. Now its becoming socially acceptable - and in some circles even celebrated - for women to actually be open about it. Some people are worse than others; if you're having an issue with it being a reoccurring problem you might need to reassess the people that you're dating since you're the common denominator there.

>>25618787
Lot of people don't give a shit - or the assumption is that like will find like. If you as a dude are sleeping around but freak out about finding out a girl has been sleeping around, that's fucking silly. If you're not into promiscuity and you find someone else is into it - whatever the fuck, obviously you're not compatible people. Sex doesn't change any innate part of people - it just speaks to your personal perspectives and value sets.

>>25618856
You should probably address that shit, dude.

>>25618925
Dude here, but as a tip from one dude to another, take care of your facial hair. I got really tired of forcefully exfoliating the shit out of anyone I was with, and started conditioning and such my beard.
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>>25625344
i didnt need your input on it "dude"
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>>25619930
Probably because its fetishized and a lot of dudes expect it.

>>25621326
Call it overactive hyper-masculinity or some bullshit. Basically its: "Cum comes from dudes, ergo, if you interact with cum in any way, even your own cum, you're into dudes cum, and therefore, you're gay. And nothing is worse than being gay." It's stupid shit. Absolutely stupid shit.

>>25624744
Some women do. Some men do. People do that kind of shit. If someone is making you play games, get the fuck out of there - that's just immature and annoying as fuck. Outside of that, it's all a matter of how people react. If you drop a teasing/flirty comment and they respond in similar ways, that's good. If they shut it the fuck down, don't keep continuing with that.

>>25624756
Dude here and all, but just ask her to get some coffee or tea with you dude. It's low cost, low involvement, probably somewhere super close, high public, and still allows you to actually talk. At that point I would be tempted to tease her about getting a portrait or something, but you do you.

>>25624858
Most women I've known haven't really given that much of a shit outside of if the dude is literally a micro dick, aka, 3 inches or less. You will absolutely come across people that will give a shit, but that's going to be more or less true no matter what your size is dude. You do you. Also: Get the oral and digital skills up hard.

>>25625142
Basically what you're saying:
>Should I trust the opinion of women on THIS SPECIFIC WOMAN WHO THEY KNOW versus going to the internet and getting things that are meant to be broadstrokes that supposedly apply to ALL WOMEN.
Specific beats general, really fucking hard.
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>>25625345
Too fucking bad. "Oh no I guess I'm just too much to handle" is the same kind of stupid bullshit that gets parroted by girls going "If you cant handle me at my best you don't deserve me at my worst"; people shouldn't have to fucking 'handle' you - and if there's a reoccurring issue where this is driving people out of your life, that sounds like a pretty serious you problem that you need to work on.
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>>25618912
If it's actually well taken care of, then it's fine, but most men don't seem to realise that once it gets past a certain length, you have to add product and style it to make it look good.

>>25618925
Yes. Either full beard or nothing, though. Goatees, moustaches, soul patches, etc all just look like you accidentally shaved part of it off.

I don't care about having tattoos, but if someone goes to a shitty place to get them, that gives me a bad impression.

>>25619526
I'd like a dick, not to replace my pussy, but to have along with it. I'd also like gills so I could breathe underwater (again, keeping my lungs), and I think having a small set of antlers would be cute (though probably counterintuitive to being good at swimming).

>>25619930
I'm lazy and would rather lick my fingers clean than go wash them off. Also my pussy tastes good, so it's fine.

>>25620036
Yep. I had a pretty bad stutter until I was about 16/17, so I understand how frustrating it can be.

>>25622033
I've asked a few times, but sometimes I'll just lurk threads and add people who seem neat.

>>25624744
I don't really do this shit because I like being direct and up front, so I can't really say what people might be doing to play hard to get because I think it's dumb.

>>25624756
Where do you sit in relation to each other? Does she draw anyone else? Is she constantly drawing you? Is she any good at it?

We go to the bathroom together for a few reasons. It could be that we want to talk about how whatever activity we're doing is going, one of us might have started their period and needs supplies that another one has, going with someone at a bar means not being stopped by a random dude on your way to/from the bathroom, or sometimes you just want company. Yes, the conversation continues when we're in the stalls.

>>25624858
4 inches is fine. If we're getting along and I'm excited to see him naked, the last thing on my mind is going to be mentally measuring his dick.
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>>25625364
what a faggot this is an ask the opposite gender thread. i dont need some self righteous asshole telling me what i should and shouldnt do.

try and pay attention next time cause im a guy and your a guy so i really dont give a shit about your opinion or your input.

man the retardation here never ceases to amaze me.
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>>25625394
>Oh no, I cannot possibly cope with any deviance from expectations. I don't give a shit about your opinion or input, but I'm going to keep responding while trying to throw in insults! That will sure show him, how dare he deviate!
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>>25625415
look deviation in the thread is to be expected, however dont start throwing claims that you understand my position or that you know what i need to do.

responding with fix that shit isnt really helping anyone.

also if you recall you got way too hostile for what i posted. all i said was i didnt need input on it, since it wasnt a question and it was the end of a conversation on here.
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Would you suck my holdy flappy folds?
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>>25618606
>Question to guys - do you all instantly look at porn the second your GF goes to work or even just the other room...
No, that's a sterotype. I look at porn when she is with me too.
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Male here.

I'm Indian, but born in the US. Dating women is difficult because they generally have poor experiences with Indian males-- anything I can do or that you'd recommend to help set me apart?
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>>25618606
I gave it up completely. But back in when I did have a gf and did look at porn, yes the pattern you just described was accurate
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>>25625021
Alright, now why is it women want a gay best friend? And how come when they think I'm straight, I mean nothing. Then they find out I'm gay and are all over me about everything. It's not all women, but enough that I'm concerned it might be contagious. We don't need a faghag pandemic.
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>>25625819
Its not so much that theyre gay specifically, but girls want guy friends who they wont have to ever worry about it "getting serious". A lot of women just genuinely want to be friends with guys because they offer outside opinions. So them finding out you wont ever want them theyll open up to you a lot more. Of course not all women, and not all women are the way i described, but thats what i see most of the time personally.
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Ive thought of a question for guys. If a girl has a non-normal kink, do you kind of feel like she has the over memed "daddy issues" or is kind of messed up in another way?
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>>25626013
Define "non-normal"
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>>25625819
Women like the idea of having a male friend they can spend time with without the guy getting feelings or wanting sex.
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>>25626013
well i guess the same could be said for guys. any guy or girl with odd kinks could be indicative of some sort of psychological aliment.

daddy issues is just the common one found, where girls are like "choke me daddy" or "i wanna be a cum slut" those are often attributed to daddy issues.

does it mean anything? not really you could be fine and still like that stuff.
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>>25626013
You need to give some description on that. "Normal" kinks are a pretty fucking big range of things. I assume daddy issues when someone has a DD/LG fetish, or something similar
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>>25625386
Same table, not that I've seen, not really I've counted three times, she puts in some degree of effort, the face is fairly detailed.
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>>25626013
Not necessarily, but even if she does I don't care. Hell I might very well be into it.
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>>25626013
I'd assume kinky; unless something gave away you had some mental ailment or daddy issues.
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>>25625972
Yeah, I guess. I just think it's fucking weird. It throws me off. Especially when right after finding out I'm gay they try to set me up with someone, or want to hang out with me. LADY, I DON'T KNOW YOU! STRANGER DANGER! For real though, I think it's normal to talk more than 5 minutes before wanting to know how I fuck, or go on a "girls' day" with me. Shit, just because we both take dick doesn't mean we're friends, or even have anything else in common. I dunno, maybe I'm the weird one.
>tfw faghags scare me a bit
>tfw no female bestie to help me with makeup

>>25626024
>implying women don't try to turn me straight
Really though, I don't get it. I have male friends that don't automatically assume I wanna fuck them. Women need to harden the fuck up. If someone wants to fuck, just tell them no. If you can't be friends anymore, you'll just both have to deal with that. Goddamn. I'm not no "Crossdressing Gay Bestie Barbie Doll" to play with.
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>>25618606
> Question to guys - do you all instantly look at porn the second your GF goes to work or even just the other room...
For me, yes, pretty much. But my sex drive is several magnitudes more intense than my partner's, god knows why. Not all guys are like this. However, it doesn't mean anything, it's just porn.
>>25625502
Also this

>>25618787
> Who wants to marry somebody that spent 10 years of their lives just trying to fuck as many different people as possible?
I wouldn't give two shits. Then again, I grew up in a very sex positive environment.

>>25626013
I'd just assume she knows what she likes.

Question for the gals: would you fuck someone in an open relationship? If not why not?
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>>25625386
>I'd like a dick, not to replace my pussy, but to have along with it. I'd also like gills so I could breathe underwater (again, keeping my lungs), and I think having a small set of antlers would be cute (though probably counterintuitive to being good at swimming)
I bet /d/ or /aco/ draw thread would love to draw you an avatar character (just not based on a photo because no real people drawings).
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>>25626106
If you think she's cute/interesting, draw a picture of her in return and write something on it about how it's not as good as hers, but you tried. Or if you can actually draw, just draw her in return. And I don't think it's creepy to ask out someone from uni, for what it's worth.

>>25627573
I've had a few artist friends draw versions of myself with weird features before. Nothing too lewd, but that's partially on me because I'd want it to be accurate, and I don't really send nudes.

>>25626992
It would depend on the people and the relationship. If they were two people who had never had open/poly relationships before and this was the beginning for them, I'd be wary. I don't want someone to feel like being with me was a mistake. If it was an established open relationship, then that's cool, though I'm not one for hooking up much anyway.
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Girls:
I'm rich but I'm very introverted and my penis is only 5.5 inches. How should i go about finding love? Where could i find the type of girl who wants a quiet simple peaceful private life?
Do i just go on a dating site? To a bar? Somewhere else?

Thank you in advance.
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>>25626013

Entirely dependent on what the kink actually is, but if the shoe fits...
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>>25624756
Just ask her out. She's hardly gonna think you're weird when she's the one drawing you.
And because we can? I dunno. It's nice to have a friend there to hold your shit or to just have someone there with you so you aren't wandering around alone.

>>25624858
Wouldn't care, I don't really care about sex

>>25625142
Unless they're mind readers, just ask the women out. You'll never know for sure unless you take the plunge. They'll want the best for you i'm sure and try to help you but at the end of the day they don't know anything.

>>25625556
Just be yourself, people will either like you or the won't. Obviously being well kept, having a job, being independent and having a car is going to look good to a partner though

>>25627723
Same as previous guy. Just because you're rich doesn't mean you're gonna just find someone, and why you even though to write out your dick size is beyond me.
You'll find a girl anywhere, dating sites, out shopping, at rehab, who knows. There's no specific place to find "girl who wants a quiet simple peaceful private life"
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>>25618592
To a female. Anyone looking to settle down and want to get married? No smokers or druggies, prefer you to at least have some college, community college fine of course.
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Femanons: is there a way for a passing guy to ask you out?

i.e.
>"hey you're really pretty, would you want to go out some time?"
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>>25630435
No. It means you're only interested in my looks, and I don't have anything at all to go on to gauge whether or not I'd want to date you.
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>>25630435
probably not to go out just behind i have no idea who you are but if i'm mutally attracted then i'd probs give number
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>>25631049
>No. It means you're only interested in my looks

Well, what on Earth else drives us to start a conversation with you?

What kind of man sees a fat bitch, for example, and thinks "Well, she's not particularly attractive, her personality must be pretty great!"?
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>>25631299
Something about the person. There's a reason that good compliments are focused on something that the person *chose*, as opposed to a genetic feature or somesuch like that. You see a chick wearing a band shirt, and you love the band? There's something to talk about. You see someone with a book you love? Its something to talk about it, and shows an interest in who *they are*, not just an interest in whether or not you can get your dick in them. The "you approaching and talking to them in the first place" implicitly says you're attracted to them. Don't double down on it.

>>25630435
See above. Dude here, and going to state that outright, but cold calls are a fucking BASTARD to do because of that. You're BEST off in situations where you have a shared narrative - for example, I hit up a conversation with a cute chick while I was walking to work the other day, because we both had to skirt around a dude acting sketchy on the street. Threw in a random kind of "man the world is weird isn't it" kind of comment, she told me about how she was from out of town, we chatted during the walk, invited her to grab a drink at my work, and she came in later and we hit it off pretty well. Same thing can be done in damned near any circumstance - whether that's standing in line at the grocery store, or at a bus stop, or whatever have you.

But it can be also really, really, really, REALLY fucking dicey. You don't want to put people in situations where they feel cornered / that they cannot get away from you / where they feel like this could create an on-going issue (if its a grocery store they frequent, or a bus stop they use all the time) / interrupt people as they go about their day, because they are doing their own shit.
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>>25631446

This is why the go-to for people to meet is still, vastly, social occasions. You're best off meeting someone at a social event. You're best-best off meeting someone at a social event where you and the other person have some friends in common, since it allows you *both* to feel out the other person through the perspective of friends.

tl;dr:
You can approach people out of the blue, absolutely, but it generally requires some better social skills since you have to be able to read the person / read the environment, and realize that sometimes the result of reading both is that you *CAN NOT* talk to the person, because some people really do not fucking want to talk to strangers, or they are busy, or the optics of the situation are going to look like shit for you. Alright optics: Meet people where you have a shared narrative. Better optics: Meet people at a social event. Best optics: Meet people who you have friends in common with.
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Women, how much do you know about jews?
Do you think what goes said around is just a whole bunch of bullshit or do you think there's some truth after all?
Do you think what jews supposedly did improved or harmed your life?
If i told you that jews control you and they control as well your choices, how would you react? Do you even mind it or just don't care?

Thank you if you take your time to answer seriously to my questions.
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>>25618592
To be fair, you guys should realize that any girl on 4chan probably isn't super representative of the average irl girl.
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>>25631590

OP here,

I never thought that. I just find these entertaining.
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>>25631299


Isn't that what attraction is based on fundamentally?

What if there is mutual visual attraction?
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Well... if it's anything...

For women, how much pubic hair is too much on a guy? Since I have a bush and... well, it's kind of big, keep or no?
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>>25631649

In the aforementioned scenario of approaching somebody during the day, etc., yes.

You don't fall in love with somebody's personality at first sight.

Even taking this guy's approach >>25631446
>>25631450
(which is pretty solid, tbf), Do you approach the fat bitch in the Metallica t-shirt or the qt in the metallica t-shirt? If fat chicks are your thing, then fair enough, however if you were to take a broad generalising sweep of heterosexual men, we like tits, we like ass, we like pretty women of a slim-average proportion. On a brass tacks level, men are pretty simply creatures.
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>>25631656
I dig it. Maybe trim once in a while

>>25631571
Hahahaha the Jews. I think there is not a person alive today who has a full grasp on the Jewish situation. Judaism is ancient and the Jews have been controlling things for a very long time. However, I would say I live my life relatively free from Jewish influence. But I do spend a lot of time online so I see many sides
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>>25630435
A passing guy? Like someone passing by on the street? Your example was adequate, I don't understand what you're asking.

>>25630097
Holy fuck are you asking if anyone here wants to marry you specifically? Top lol m8


>>25625556
Aw is that true? There is not a large Indian population where I live. I love Indian food tho, I always imagined Indian guys would be polite.

>>25625142
Wow, each human is an individual and will react to situations differently from one another. Surprising. Can you believe women are human beings capable of forming their own opinions and ideas in response to posed stimuli? Wow!
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>>25631881
>capable of forming their own opinions and ideas
That's a grand trait we assume everyone just have if they want it. But actually being that independent is something very few people can or want, let alone a cute little girl.

And a related question: feelings about the inferiority of females? do you feel like people expect more of you to prove yourself or easier forgive mistakes because you're female?
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Do women like quiet guys who don't like sex much?
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>>25631299
Seeing me as a whole person and not just how I look is important. Obviously physical attraction is part of things, but I don't want it to be the sole reason someone talks to me. I don't think it's asking a lot for someone to have a talking point other than "you're cute."

>>25631571
I don't really know a lot about Judaism other than what I learnt in a World Religions class. If you mean if I believe negative stereotypes about them, then no. If you tried to tell me that Jewish folks controlled me, I'd roll my eyes at you.

>>25631656
Just don't let it run too wild because the worst thing on earth is getting pubic hair stuck to the back of your throat. I generally suggest trimming here and there.
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>>25632061
If you mean that your sex drive isn't particularly high, then that's fine. If it means that you don't like sex and doing it is a chore, then I don't know if we'd be compatible. I don't mind sex being infrequent, but I want my partner to enjoy it with me, otherwise I'd feel like there would be some sort of imbalance, like he would feel obligated to do it for me or I'd be unaware of where his real boundaries are. It just would seem too fuzzy for me.

Quiet is fine.
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>>25632076
It's the former, I mean sex is fine I just don't feel the compulsion to have it like it seems every other male does. Thanks, I'll just have to keep looking then
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>>25632050
>the inferiority of females
I don't understand the question. I don't find females inferior. Nor do I find them superior. We're all just humans. Every culture in every society is different.

I don't feel like people expect more of me at all. I've always found people to find me competent.
>easier forgive mistakes
Again, what?
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>>25632128
Strength, motor skills and spacial awareness are some attributes that are related to testosterone.

>I've always found people to find me competent.
i've found that a lot of men tend to completely avoid criticizing women.

not trying to be mean or anything, just think it would be better if we could accept our differences and not put so much value in performance and success.
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>>25632359
Oh anon. I've studied biological anthropology. I'm well aware of the vast array of differences between males and females. You just seem to be an ignorant shithead with no real purpose in this thread.
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>>25631649
There's nothing wrong with that what so ever.

>>25631833
That dude there - my general view is that I approach someone based on attraction to them, and then find out whether or not I like them based on the interaction I have with them. *People* in general are simple creatures, it's not just a 'male' thing - women want a dude that they find attractive as well ... And I'm not precluding that in either case. It just goes back to the "the underlying reason why you're approaching someone is that you find them attractive", that's the subtext already given to whatever you do. Doubling down on it by just making statements about how attractive the person is physically (triply so when you're just talking about genetic traits) is the same as a movie hamfistedly beating you in the head with its message. It *can* be done, but most of the time it's going to be received in a really 'fucking really that's nice why should I care'. Showing interest in *who* a person is, is going to separate you from all the dudes who are approaching in a (sometimes literally) 'hey you're hot lets fuck' way. Basically, look at: >>25632069 - it can be really fucking small things, but its showing that you're looking at the *person*, and not just looking at a life support system for tits and vagoo.

>>25632061
I know you're probably reaching out for some validation, but remember dude, there's no catch all. There's always going to be someone that digs [whatever-your-business-is], but the further the deviation from the viewed norm the bit smaller the pool might be and the more you might need to make an active effort to reach out and connect with people.
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>>25632539
women are so proud and filled with emotion. makes it hard to talk about these things. sorry for being an autist.
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>>25625386
>I'd like a dick, not to replace my pussy, but to have along with it.
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>>25632601
>Men are so proud and filled with emotions
Congratulations, you describe people in general, dude.
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>>25625386
>Either full beard or nothing, though.

>tfw just enough native blood to keep me from growing a decent beard.

I still let my clusterfuck of facial hair grow, though. I'd rather look ugly than have people ask me what grade I'm in.
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>>25632620
All or none is bullshit. Nothing is wrong with stubble.
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how many girls pee standing up? how often/where/how?

yes, i'm seriously curious. i'm aware it's a weird thing to ask.
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>>25630435
I think it would be best if you had something specific in mind, like asking for directions or something like that. Then if you can keep talking a little, maybe ask for her number and then text her. Something like that. But if you're handsome and/or confident enough, just going with what you said might be enough

>>25631571
I don't know much about jews, but I do know that they control the world and are obsessed with money. I don't think they have affected me on a personal level beyond what they've done to society (which does affect me in the end).

If you told me that they control me and my choices, I would ask you to elaborate because I'm not sure what you mean.

>>25631656
I don't mind pubic hair, but if it's too much, it's kind of gross. Maybe trim it a little

>>25632061
There must be girls out there who do. I like quiet guys, but I like sex, so it would be nice if they did too.

>>25632636
I sometimes pee in the shower while standing up
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>>25632687
How does that work in the shower? Like do you aim the stream or something?
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>>25632725
No, I just pee, it falls down and gets washed away by the water
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>>25632755
Makes sense but I've seen where some girls can pee like a guy
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>>25632794
Good for you buddy
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>>25632687
cool thank for answering.

i'd like more input if any other girls come in the thread.

>>25632872
odd comment
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I am 25 years old, male rich, single and depressed.

Ask away.
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for women:
>what's the silliest pickup line you've ever bought in to?
>where do all of your non-crazy friends hang out?
>best first date location that's not a helicopter.
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>>25618592
For women:

What pick-up lines/conversation starters actually work on you? I'm sick of hearing "just approach her and talk to her" when I have no clue what to talk about. How would you like a guy to approach you?
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>>25633323
+interest

>are there times/places when it's a no-go across the board?
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When way the first time you came with a tampon inside?
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>>25618592
just a doubt in general, male or female (just state it if u answer it)
>is the idea of dating a emotionally/mentally broken/damaged person appealing?If so, why?
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>>25632919
Why depressed? How did you make your money?
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>>25632963
>silliest pick up line
"Girl, if you were ice cream I'd scoop you up and put you on my cone"
And "You're finer than a #2 pencil"
>non crazy friends
Either at work or at home
>best first date
We went to an art studio and destroyed a wall, tagging the shit out of it.
It was really fun
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>>25633930
No, unless their condition makes them love me and worship me more. Otherwise, I don't want to fix anyone, I just want to be happy
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>>25634596
>"You're finer than a #2 pencil"

Fuck, I like that one.


>>25635206
>unless their condition makes them love me and worship me more.

I like you.


Women:
I'm not a particularly bad looking bloke. About a 6.5 if I say so myself. However equally, I'm not particularly photogenic either. Hypothetically, on a dating site or on a post here, for immediate instance, what would be the best.. work-around, for want of a better phrase?
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Femanons,
what's the thinnest a dick can be and still feel pleasurable? I've got a long one but it's not super thick so I'm afraid of it being too much of a pencil
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>>25635229
Pictures with groups show you have friends
Pics with women show you must be normal
Pics with dogs are good too
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Could you be with someone with an injured penis and had problems or couldn't even perform an intercourse but was good at other stuff
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>>25632628
>>25632628
I'm not talking about stubble. I'm talking about the huge bald spot on the side of my chin.
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>>25634189
Wealthy family. Lots of successful businesses and other property.

>Why depressed?
Socially awkward nerd, friendless, with no one to talk to about my hobbies(private schools can eat shit), obese up until a year ago when i decided to man up and pick up boxing(lost 5.7 stone/36.5kg since and still going and pretty good atm) and never been in a relationship and i got issues with my parents.
Minor shit compared to other folks but they're still there.
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Why all guys act so strong and says how they will break the pussy they fuck, but when it comes to fucking they can't even put it in properly? Or spit a bit, make a bit of foreplay? Like, they know completely nothing, even after fucking 100 girls before.
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>>25625386
>>25627573
>>25627650
>I'd like a dick, not to replace my pussy, but to have along with it.
>I bet /d/ or /aco/ draw thread would love to draw you an avatar character
>I've had a few artist friends draw versions of myself with weird features before
Marry me. A femanon who's open to my >>>/d/ fetishes? Sign me up! I know it's more common than most would think, but still.

Here's a question for you, and all the other femanons who'd like to chime in: If you could have a dick to go along with your pussy, would you rather have it forever, or would you rather it grew whenever you got horny so that you could hide it? Pic related is Tilt Mode. Spoiler: Main character grows dick, learns that it will shrink back to normal after ejaculating, shows best friend, fucks said friend.
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>>25635887
Because you're not the focus of the event. You're the masturbatory aid they want to fuck.
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>>25633323
Dude here, but this is why I mentioned earlier that shared narratives are really fucking useful. You meet someone in class? You can talk about that class. You meet someone at a concert? You can talk about that concert / music. You meet someone at ... yadda yadda - it can be pretty basic shit like how I chatted up someone just because we both took a wide edge around a crazy guy on the street, but its something more than just "Hey so you look attractive and I wanted to tell you you look attractive and so hey you look attractive."

Pickup lines only work if you embrace the fact that pickup lines do not fucking seriously work. They are things you can say, at best, in a SUPER glib manner and roll right off of; most recently I used "Hey I think you dropped something .. its your standards! I'm X", and if delivered to the right folk with the right pacing/intonation/gestures, usually gets a few laughs, and that's all your going for really. Seriously using pickup lines is generally going to be a stupid fucking mistake.

But yes.

I really do discourage people cold approach. Go to social events and use those as an opportunity to be social with folk. That's always going to be better.

>>25633355
Generally, don't approach someone if:
>They look obviously busy/in the middle of something
>You have to interrupt what they are doing in order to chat with them

Be CAREFUL if you chat up someone in a situation where you're both stuck, so e.x.: if you're waiting at a bus stop. If you creep someone out, that can get multiplied by them feeling like they are stuck in the middle of potentially no where with a strange dude.

An extension of that is "someone may not be actually stuck, but FEEL stuck" if you approaching them locks them into a corner or such. So if their back is to a wall and you come up suddenly, it might not be appreciated.
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>>25636052

Furthermore:
>Don't have any fucking expectations. At all. Seriously. Zero.
>If they shut it down or don't seem engaged, just continue on with your life. Don't force the situation, don't get bitchy about it.
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>>25636052
THIS. Pickup lines are fucking stupid. Don't use them
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>>25632061
The 'don't like sex much' part would be fine with me, but the quiet part depends on how quiet. I like guys I can talk with and tell me their feelings.

>>25635297
I'm not sure how thin since I don't have experience, but I feel good with a 4-inch vibrator.

>>25635670
While I would have liked to have children, I'd get over it if I loved him since I'd still have someone to dote on.

>>25635857
>lost 5.7 stone/36.5kg
Nice job, anon! It's great hearing about other people who've turned their life around after being overweight their whole lives. I was in the same boat and lost a lot myself.
I think the social awkwardness will always stick with me, but I've improved a bit by voice chatting with people online. You should give it a go if you haven't before!
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>>25632610
I own plenty of strap-ons. I'd just like to be able to feel inside someone else.

>>25632636
I pee in the shower standing up, but that's pretty much it. Sitting down is so much less effort.

>>25633323
Pick-up lines don't work. Like I said before, unless I can tell someone is interested in me, there's no point. I'd only want someone to approach me if we clearly have something in common, and you can talk to me about that.

>>25635229
Look up tips on how to take better selfies. Ask some friends (or the internet) for their honest opinions about which ones look best.

>>25635297
I don't think you have anything to worry about.

>>25635670
Yes.

>>25636020
I would want to have it forever. I think soft dicks are really cute, especially when you can just see the hint of a bulge in underwear or tight pants. And it would also be fun to be the big spoon and be able to rub against him to get myself hard.
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>>25635887
>they can't even put it in properly?
Then maybe you should reach down there and guide him in. Use your hands, dammit.
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>>25637839
>I own plenty of strap-ons.
Please be in eastern Canada.
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>>25637939
Spooky. I actually am.
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>>25637939
>>25638040
These anons must meet in 3D.
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>>25634596
thanks anon
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Do we have any further questions or this done?
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>>25638040
>>25638173
>morganfreemanhesrightyouknow.jpg

[email protected]
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Femanons: how can I test the waters with a friend I met who has a bf? She texts me monthly and we have common interests but she has a long term bf.how could I test if she wants to hook up? Do girls keep friends as a backup in case thing don't work out with bf?
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Femanons: what percentage of women have tasted heir own pussys? Is this something most girls do? Also, is it common for girls show each other their pussy? I think most men see other dicks ( friends taking a piss or in the change room) but it seems like most girls wouldn't know what a different pussys look like u less they hooked up with a girl..
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>>25640221
I think a great deal of girls have taste their own pussy. At least I have.

And I've shown and been shown my friends' boobs, but not their pussies. We don't usually show each other that
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>>25640209
Dude here, but don't. You're asking to bring a shit storm down on yourself, and "texts you monthly" doesn't really mean shit.

And yes, some girls keep dudes around as backup boyfriends. Not all girls do this, but they aren't necessarily just 'friends'. Most of the chicks I know who do the 'backup boyfriend' stuff tend to have REALLY fucking weird boundaries (damned near non existent) with said dudes, so that they can slide into that situation if their own falls apart.
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Femanons:

Have you ever made a male character in a game just to fit in? Did it work?
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>>25640338
how old were u when u tasted yours? ever taste someone else's out of curiosity?
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>>25640906
Yes, I didn't want people to think I was a girl. It didn't work out too well because of the way I typed back then.
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>get a haircut
>Look like a 12 year old
>Grow my hair out
>Look like a nerd
At this point I've just decided to grow it out because I hate how I look with shorter hair
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I'm a guy, and I have this friend who's a girl who seems to be like a "Jekyll and Hyde" so to speak. We usually interact in a group setting, and some days she engages with me like a normal person and talks with me and just generally interacts, and other days I pretty much get a cold shoulder and a look as if she wants nothing to do with me at all. However, in my perception this happens from her to almost nobody else, just me. Also, if we are ever alone together, it's almost always a normal and pleasant conversation. Why? What's the deal? If more context is needed then I can give it.
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>>25641861
Have you talked to her about it?
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>>25641891
No. I don't want to seem like the whiny annoying friend.
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>>25641737
I had a haircut recently where I went from looking like Shaggy to Hitler-lite
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Question to men - Do you actually like the smell of your own balls?
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>>25641947
She's supposedly a friend. Talk to her: "Sometimes it seems like you get super cold sometimes. Everything all good?" Super easy to do, and will address the situation infinitely better than asking for complete strangers to you *AND* the person to weigh in on what your situation is, when only given your own biased perspective of it. Just avoid being accusatory, and frame it more as "Am I reading this right?" There's a LOT of potential reasons for her behavior, and only she knows exactly why.
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>>25641972
I don't think most guys actually actively smell their own balls, at least I don't.
I don't blame anyone that hates the smell though, I know it can pretty nasty after the day.
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Ask me anything... Male 19 in a relationship and white.
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Here comes the ugly thread killer ready to ruin another thread.
My question is, am I ugly? And if so how bad is it from a scale from 1 being horrid and 10 being Chad . Question for girls but Chads can roast me aswell.
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>>25641972
Can't say I'm flexible enough to try it, but I doubt I would. Certainly, if things down their were ripe enough for me to be able to smell them I wouldn't, and given that I do know what my armpits can smell like after a work out or day at work.... Yeah I'm gonna go with a massive no.
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>>25641972

Well, "like" is a strong word, but after a shower with proper application of goldbond is definitely more likeable than post-workout swamp crotch.
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Do girls really have any "deviant" or "uncommon" sexual fetishes or are you mostly vanilla?
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>>25645355
...Most people are mostly vanilla. Its why its called vanilla. There will always be people outside of that. There are absolutely girls with deviant or uncommon sexual fetishes. By definition, they are not the majority.
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>>25646182
Maybe i've just spent too much time on 4chan and the rest of the internet and assumed only guys had certain interests.
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>>25645355
Girls do have deviant and uncommon sexual fetishes, but maybe you don't hear too much about it because girls are usually shy about that kind of stuff
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>>25635670

>>25636637
"he" could make you children, it's only "half"functional, not fully unfunctional

>>25637839
<3 <3
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>>25647646
A lot of kinks are more common in men, yes, but it doesn't mean that only men have them. That's a weird assumption to make.
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>>25638178
You're welcome ^^
>>25635229
Hahaha it's hilarious BUT IT WORKED
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>>25618606
if i have regular sex i wont even look at porn.

>>25626013
i don't really try to find out WHY she have a non-normal kink, maybe i'll ask myself a little bit but i wont bother with that.

>>25641972
hahaha wtf is that question ? :D Nah, not really.
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>>25648210

>BUT IT WORKED

I now have serious questions about your decision making skills.
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Women of the thread, if your boyfriend/partner asked you to take complete control of the relationship, from day-to-day decisions all the way up to sex, would you lose respect for and/or leave him?
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for females:
How does your behavior change when you get horny? Do other people find it noticeable?
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for women:

>where to find women that want to be approached that isn't bars and doesn't involve football?
>why do people have the "middle nose rings" a much larger rate than usual? if you have one, could you be talked out of it easy?
>tattoos on hands of anyone is: (a) extremely good (b) desirable when found (c) ok as long as it does have swear words (d) better if it has swear words (e) objectionable and should be avoided
>#1 turnoff you've seen "in the wild"
>top 3 ways to tell femanon wants to hang out with you more or less
>ford, bmw, chevy, audi, toyota, or any pickup truck?

pic semi-related, it's constanza at the video store
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Bumo
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>>25649457
There are people that are into that, it's lifestyle dom/sub relationships. Some people take it to the extreme that someone is not able to use the bathroom unless given explicit permission by their master in order to do so. The vast vast vast vast vast vast vast vast majority of people are not into this, and in 'common society' that kind of relationship manifests as 'abusive and controlling' more than anything else. You need to find someone into lifestyle dom/sub stuff, and work from there.

>>25650012
Septum piercings are fairly in now. It's a mainstream appropriate artsy/alternative thing, since fashion has taken some cues from military/metal/punk stuff over the last while. No one really bats an eye at it anymore, and there's lot of 'cute' jewelry associated with it these days - and its also been super appropriated by the 'hippie'/bohemian community, which is SUPER in right now. Trying to talk someone 'out' of their body mods can be really, really, really poorly received.

Literally go to any sort of social situation to meet people. Parties/get togethers. Concerts. Events. What ever the fuck. Social situations exist to meet people. That doesn't necessarily mean everyone wants to be approached, but it lets you feel people out and get to know them. You're not going to find an 'everyone wants to get approached' thing outside of something SPECIFICALLY meant for singles, and even then not everyone is going to want to get approached by YOU.

>>25650040
Don't we explicitly have rate threads for this shit. Come on people.
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>>25650303
>assuming femanon

Thanks for being so candid and providing context. I appreciate it.
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>>25650312
Not femanon. Shit is just really god damned basic. I'm just going to avoid stuff like "#1 turn off" because that's a super subjective thing that benefits from individual answers. I can give aggregate answers from friends/partners/whatever experiences/bitching to me, but that's kind of side stepping it.
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>>25649457
Why would he want to do this? I wouldn't like it very much. I prefer we go 50/50. But that's my personal opinion

>>25649873
I don't know if other people find it noticeable. But I'm usually more chatty and outgoing, I feel more confident and beautiful, I walk upright, I smile more, and if there's someone I like, then I'll get closer to him (physically or otherwise, it depends on the relationship I have with him)

>>25650012
>where to find women that want to be approached that isn't bars and doesn't involve football?
Other bars? I don't mind being approached by a guy anywhere if I like the way he looks. But that's just me

>why do people have the "middle nose rings" a much larger rate than usual? if you have one, could you be talked out of it easy?
You mean the septum ring? I used to have it, but I grew out of it. I was 17 when I got it. Back then I was immature (I was a teenager). If you tried to talk me out of it I would have ignored you

>tattoos on hands of anyone is...
They're ok. I don't care. If they have swearwords I would think the person is immature. Tattoos in general are immature to me, but I don't mind them

>#1 turnoff you've seen "in the wild"
I don't know. Maybe an extremely insecure guy wearing a fedora and a black long coat? I don't know

>top 3 ways to tell femanon wants to hang out with you more or less
If she replies to you quickly through text messages and the conversation isn't too hard to maintain, like it just flows naturally; if she doesn't make excuses when you ask her to hang out, and in case she can't, she comes up with another day she's available; and generally effortless friendliness on her part

>ford, bmw, chevy, audi, toyota, or any pickup truck?
I wouldn't care if I like the guy. If he has money, that's really cool, but it's not a deal-breaker if he's not a millionare
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call me for q&a
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Girls what should i do with a very curved penis of 5.5 inch size?
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>>25650906
thanks.

>I don't mind being approached by a guy anywhere if I like the way he looks
I understand what you're saying but isn't this mostly true across the board? What if avg looks, regular height (under 6', I know the <i>horror</i>), and friendly?
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for women:

>how do you feel about being provided a lunchable the morning after?
>sluttiest situation you've been involved in?
>having an android cell phone is: (a) an excellent choice (b) depends on which one, no blu phones (c) don't care but "are they poor?" (d) deal breaker
>shaved? strip? shape? let it go?
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>>25653643
>>how do you feel about being provided a lunchable the morning after?
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>>25653643
...These threads always have the stupidest questions, I swear to god.
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>>25653809
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>>25653259
I probably would be friendly and talk to you, but if we don't click, I might not contact you again
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To girls with small/flat breasts...
How sensitive your breasts?
All of my ex were women with average breast size, my current gf however is nearly flat chested, and whenever we make out she push my hands away, and tells me its so sensitive it hurts.
Is there certain way to grope small breasts?
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For the women:

Why is it so taboo for a man to refuse to date single mothers? In my area (a shithole) there are fuckton of them. Even women who are NOT single mothers get agitated over this. Why?!?!
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>>25654515
I have very small breasts, and they are indeed kind of sensitive. Maybe focus a bit more on the nipple play and grope them gently. Every girl is different, so the best thing would be to ask your girlfriend how she likes it
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>>25654715
>>25654715
>Maybe focus a bit more on the nipple play and grope them gently
Do women with small breasts really get no pleasure from their breasts? because it very sensitive.
> so the best thing would be to ask your girlfriend how she likes it
I did, and she doesn't like it at all.
I can massage it over clothes, but that's about it, and when her period is near getting any where near her chest is a big no.
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>>25654893
As that anon said, dude, it's individual variance. I would say I've found women with small breasts to be on AVERAGE more sensitive, but I've also found quite a few smaller breasted women that had no sensitivity at all, and a few larger breasted women that were able to outright orgasm purely from nipple play.

All you can do is ask how SHE likes it, and if she doesn't like her breasts being stimulated, there's not a whole lot that you can do there. Be gentle, focus on soft / slight movements, don't man handle them hard or anything like that. Focus more on having your hand glide over them and cupping them than actually roughly handling them. But if she can't handle that, well, she can't handle that.
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>>25641972
Yes, absolutely. And it's actually a natural thing to do.
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>>25641972
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>>25651991
Whatever you'd do with any other kind of penis.
>>25649457
Depends on how he'd approach it, obviously you can't just go from a normal relationship to TPE. That said most girls would freak the fuck out either way.
>>25645355
Some do, some don't.
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