Girls-would you be willing to cheat on your boyfriend? Please

>>25360638
I would not. That's lame as fuck. Cheating is for losers.

my gf cucks me and i met her on here.

sorry cant offer any help, girls are going to cheat on you.

>>25360659
This
All women are cheating sluts
Fact

No. We had an open relationship for awhile where I dated another girl at the same time as my bf, and he dated other girls. But we are back to full monogamy. Cheating and sneaking around behind your SO's back is probably the worst thing you can do to someone you love

>>25360638
In 20 years the only girl I've been with that didn't cheat on me was physically abusive instead (came from same background, mums side, no shock there).

Wtf never had a girl cheat on me
Feelsgoodman

>>25360638
Yes.

My boyfriend and I have an open relationship. The terms of it are that if anything happens- we are to tell each other. He never tells me. I've caught him in a million lies. I love when I have just talked to the other person calmly to collect information (i.e was it safe, is this an ongoing thing, etc) and he'll still lie to my face lmao. I've never once enacted upon that agreement haha. Cheating kind of goes both genders, my guy. You do not have to rebuild your faith in women, rather just find a good one.

I've cheated on all my past boyfriends. Granted, two of them were highly abusive (and one of them was a heroin addict). The other was a summer fling I had right after highschool. I ended up meeting my current boyfriend in college, and now I literally *can't* cheat. Idk. Guess my moral switch turned on, or maybe it's just true, gut-wrenching love. I can't even stomach the idea of betraying him, it hurts to think about (which never really happened before). I think it's just a matter of finding the right person.

>>25360776
If your relationship is so open why does your bf still lie???
Sorry but he's an idiot

>>25360638
I think cheating is disgusting, though every partner I've ever had has cheated on me.

SO, I'm staying away from relationships for a while.

After the third time in a row, I'm just kind of like ಠ_ಠ

I always ask them why, and their response is always: "You treated me too well, so I took you for granted because I always thought you were gonna be there. Yada, yada, yada."

And they go for people who are more... I guess, challenging and unattainable.

Though, I don't really have the energy to play mind-manipulation games to keep someone interested.

>>25360793
That sucks anon.

>>25360638
>please say no
Quit being a cuck and they won't cheat. Be assertive, fucking "please"

>>25360659
Are you into it? If not, hook me up.

I am considering cheating on my current bf because he is aloof, does not make himself abailable to me intellectually, and is a very laxy, vanilla lover. We used to have a spark, now it's ashes.

>>25360638
Girls are all selfish opportunistic whores who love starting drama. Those who claim they would never cheat just haven't yet.

>>25360659
>meets girl on degenerate board filled with hookup threads, dick rate threads, nude threads
>somehow surprised she is a slut
Really makes you think.

>>25360919
So...break up? I don't get it

>>25360793
It's the worst when people tries to pass of their wrong doings as your fault, kinda like "Eh you were the wrong person for believing someone and being lied to", fucking stupid.

Some people are really irresponsible and I hope it doesn't get on you too much. I'm sure you will eventually find someone serious and mature, and I believe you will see it right away when that happens.

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>>25360919
Me neither, just break up if you're not happy instead of betraying someone while still enjoying them because it's better than nothing, that's really hypocritical.

You could also try to wake him up and talk with him about it, I mean, you would never know without trying right?

>>25360814
n-no im into it unfortunately
>>25360959
i didnt think it would be like this. we knew we liked femdom but she turned me into a cuck :/

>>25361098
Where are you located anon? I'll show that slut who's boss!

>>25360776
Has an open relationship but is that insecure about her relationship. Makes you wonder why idiots think open relationships work further than just helping us satiate our selfish tendencies.

>>25360638
>ex said she cheated on me.
>decided to cheat on her, she almost made it seem like a dare.
>later found out through reliable sources she never cheated on me
>she admits she never cheated on me, she just wanted to start some drama
>she ended up being insanely jealous and she never expected me to go find some chick to hook up with so quickly
>broke up with her and started dating the new gril
>play stupid games, win stupid prizes

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>>25360638
I'd only cheat under the following circumstances

>He knowingly violated boundaries I've set for the relationship, so I will to
>He isn't giving me as much love and attention as he could
>He cheated first
>I just don't find him attractive. Either from a personality standpoint or a physical standpoint

>>25360782
>justifies cheating
>acts as if it's not your fault for fucking shit tier guys
>is a massive whore

I hope your boyfriend cheats on you, you don't deserve loyalty you selfish roastie bitch.

>>25361349
>Only conditionsI would cheat
>Literally any reason I can find
Good luck with life honey, there's a world of shit waiting for you!

>>25361349
All four of those, you break up with the guy or girl regardless if its a guy dating a girl or a girl dating a guy.

Nope. I've got a pretty strong opinion on cheating because I think that if you have commitment issues you should either not get involved in LTRs or only go with people who are accepting of "open" relationships or poly, and if the cheating is brought on by relationship issues and not just lack of ability to commit, you need to actually make attempts to work out and address those problems like adults. It's a shame people have no relationship ethics and selfishly use cheating to fill an emotional void when their relationship is failing because they don't know how to properly communicate with their partner. Cheating hurts everyone involved to varying degrees.

But, I guarantee you OP, this is not exclusively a women's problem. I have known just as many cheating men as cheating women (including guys who influence girls to cheat on their SO with them), just as I have known just as many abusive women and abused men. People need to stop acting like shitty qualities are 100% exclusive to a gender instead of accepting that it's a much broader societal issue rooted in self-centered worldviews.

>>25360638
Every girl will say she wont cheat and is against it. But if the opportunity presented itself they would cheat. Women are extremely weak to temptation, and nowadays with birth control, abortions, women's rights and many other things promoting a sex culture its more likely than ever that the opportunity will come up.

As a male you should be aware of the situation a female is in when she's out and about among all the thirsties. Unless she's with you she will constantly be tempted by being flirted with and hit on. This becomes even more common in the workplace or some sort of social event like a party. Its always on the male to initiate and approach, so Its not like they have to put a conscious effort into creating a tempting situation, it simply just comes to them.

Having a GF or Wife now is basically asking to get cucked.

>>25360668
Same, wehave an "open relationship" for lack of a better term. The deal is we can fuck someone only if it's purely sexual and we have to talk about it first and both agree. We want to do a 3way with another girl (bf is super straight and doesn't want to see another penis in a sexual way kek). But yeah, cheating is disgusting.

>>25361183
Best story

>>25361550
Who hurt you anon?

>>25361103
how big are you?

>>25361633
Girlfriend in high school. We dated for 3 years, she was my first GF and my last. She cheated on my numerous times but I stayed because I really loved her. In the end it mind-fucked me and I started to jerk off to the gut wrenching feeling of hurt and betrayal. I suppose I turned it into a humiliation sort of fetish. I got off on the fact that I was inadequate both socially and physically.

That was 5 years ago. Today the spiral still continues. I spend a lot of time browsing porn sites for amateur porn of girls cheating. I dont like the stuff where the guy knows its happening and is recording it. I have to know that she's doing it behind his back. I've got about 400 videos from a lot of different tube sites.

Finding all of the content I have helped me come to the conclusion in my previous post. The stuff I've seen and read was a black pill of sorts, I can never go back. I will never trust a female again.

>>25361899
Now read all you wrote.
Do you get it? You're holding a grudge, that you turned into fetish, that you now seek. So ofc you'll never trust a female, you don't WANT to. Hiding in your shell is only gonna make things worse, you were in a one relationahip, in high school. You were still a kid. Put things in prespective. You'll get there I have faith in you :)

>>25361908
I'm not so sure its simply a grudge that is making me think this way. I dont think you understand. I have spent so much time browsing things like relationship advice forums, I've read the entirely of /r/relationships and /r/gonewild. I feel like I know the horrifying truth.

Also the fetish isnt really that simple anymore. Its really gotten out of control its a bit sadistic at this point. Like I will find videos of guys fucking their friend's Mom and imagine what it must feel like to have your friend using your Mom as a fuck toy. Same with the cheating porn. What gets me off is thinking about how it must feel that someone you love so much and care about is being used as a fuck toy.

>>25360638
No. Chris Pine could walk up to me and offer to pay for a one night stand yet I wouldn't because I infinitely care more about my husbands feelings than getting lucky with a hot celebrity.

>>25361920
Forums or 4chan?
Also, real life experience dude, not virtual advice and stories and shit.

>>25361098
If you're not happy and excited about being a cuck then being a cuck isn't for you. Your dick isn't the only one who has a say in whether you're into something or not. You could get raped by the most horrible uggo and still get a fear boner because the boner is not from sexual arousal but fear side effects.

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>>25361934
Rarely take anything on 4chan seriously. Other forums for legit dating advice and stuff.

>>25361948
And now my dick is hard...

>>25361349
these all seem like reasons just to breakup. unless you're hoping the cheating will hurt him then break up

>>25361948
don't be friends with a black, got it!

>>25361962
It's pretty idiotic to cheat and then break up. That's like your partner intentionally shitting into his own pants, and as revenge you shit into your own pants before you leave him. Cheating to hurt a cheater just makes you look as bad and horrible as them.

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>>25361958
I have many other similar finds. I use them for fap fuel.

>>25361977
The guy wasnt actually black. That picture was just some random picture from the net he used as an example. He's white and wasnt really that hung but he was well above average apparently.

>>25361981
That one mostly made me lol at how messed up some people's lives are. Obviously horrible for the dude.

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Heres most of my collection so far. Just over 8 gigs. Ive been through just about every major tube site.

>>25361981
That dad is a terrible person

Anyway, you can't just look through one side of a spectrum, ofc there are people who cheat, and they're usually the entitled ones, have everything they need and more, but are miserable inside. But there are also many who don't, it's how things are ying and yang, bad and good, all that jazz. Every action has it's equal and opposite reaction. I'm repeating, you had ONE relationship, in highschool.

>>25362003
gib
>friends fiancee blows me while he unknowingly plays video games porn

>>25362015
Maybe youre right. You probably are but I'm too far gone. I've accepted that I'll never have another one.

>>25362023
I've gotta go now. But you can add my kik if you want and I'll share some later.

grimshape

>>25362034
How old are you?

>>25361935
yeah but she fucks with my head and forces me to like it.

thats kind of her thing she likes forcing me to do things i dont like. which is bad if i dont keep her under control. shes kind of abusive :/

>>25360645
This. Why does it feel like these days I tell someone I have a boyfriend and it actually encourages them more. God I wish cockshots were still socially acceptable.

>>25362138
>forcing me to do things I don't like
>forces me to like it
>keep her in check
Face it bruh, you a cuck faggot and will always be. Just deal with it already

>>25362157
They're more acceptable now than ever ;)

>>25362157
People like a challenge, that's why. And they want the ego boost of you choosing them over your boyfriend.

>>25362170
Last time I kicked a dude in the nuts I almost got arrested.
>>25362173
Then fucking play a video game. Fucking douchenozzles ruin my night every time.

>>25362138
..Am I understanding this correctly? The cuckolding is not consensual, and she's abusive?? Please, please, please dump her and get a restraining order.

>>25362175
That's hilarious actually
Most of us anons would let you do whatever you want to us down there lol

>>25362188
>Most of us anons would let you do whatever you want to us down there lol
Including being kicked in the nuts?

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>>25362188
>Most of us anons would let you do whatever you want to us down there lol
That's disgusting, you don't even know who I am.

i physically couldnt cheat on my boyfriend (currently single). I have only ever committed to people i was truly into, that i liked so much i couldnt think about anyone else if i tried. the second i felt unhappy in the relationship i'd start distancing myself. well, unhappy in the sense that i or they were losing interest. i would NEVER cheat because i dont see the point. breaking up with someone isnt easy but its certainly not the hardest thing ever. i feel like hiding a second relationship would so much harder.
the ONLY time i could ever imagine someone cheating and it not being disgusting is if the partner was ill or in a coma and have previously given permission. but i guess thats not really cheating. so there is no legit case i would ever think it was acceptable.

i truly dont understand how people ever could.

>>25362214
It doesn't matter who you are or what you look like. Hell personality doesn't mean a thing.
A common theme I've picked up on, not just here but everywhere is...
People crave emotion.
End of story.
Someone got you so worked up that you kicked them in the nuts. Funny shit but he loved it.
I probably would've also.

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>>25362251
I really have to hope that you're a small niche group of fucking weird ass masochistic mother fuckers.

>>25362309
There is a fetish for everything, and there are people out there who are into ballbusting. It seems some are here.

>>25362309
>>25362314
I'm not even into that nor am I part of any groups. Niche or otherwise.
I have came to a female kicking me in the nuts due to the fact that I pissed her off. Oh yeah and she touched my nuts even if with her foot!
I remind her of that fact regularly lol

I have weird fantasies where I'd make my boyfriend watch me get fucked and enjoy it. But realistically I know I could never respect a guy who would be into that enough to be in a relationship with him in the first place.

>>25361517
yes exactly how I feel lasting relationships are alot of work and some compromise if it's not worth it to you to put in the effort then the both of you are probably better off in a different relationship.

>>25362395
That's not weird at all anymore.
I don't share well but that's what dildos and strapons are for when couples use them imo

>>25362414
I know they're pretty commonplace here I just meant off-putting to me personally.
Can you elaborate what you mean by using dildos and strap-ons in my situation? I don't understand

>>25362432
Couples will use a dildo to simulate another "mans" penis without the hassle of adding someone else to the mix.
I have a friend that uses a strapon with his wife because he fantasizesabout another man taking his wife but would never actually let someone else fuck his wife.
Couples use the toys a lot for dp so that they don't need another person also.

>>25362166
how do i accept it?

>>25362672
You're her bitch. You'll do whatever she says for as long as she's willing to let you.
Just be happy that you're not alone and keep telling yourself that you do like these things until it's truth.
Basically fake it until you make it.

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>>25362331
What the wippety wop shoo wop do doo dur dee WHAT the fuck is wrong with you m80?
>>25362314
I mean I get ballbusting, I would never be into it but I get it's a thing for some people, but making a woman so mad that she'll kick you in the crotch is not the same thing.

>>25360776
>open relationship with completely fair agreement to tell each other
>boyfriend repeatedly fucks other people without adhering to the agreement
>you claim to have never enacted upon it

So why the fuck are you still in this relationship then?

And here I am an almost 30 year old virgin. How the fuck do people even get in these situations(either side of it)? Fucking hell man.

>>25360638
No I wouldn't cheat on my husband. We're just on hard rocks right now because he's refusing to lose weight even though I've always maintained my figure and weight-even through 3 pregnancies.

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>>25361349
Wow you sound terrible

>>25362799
Post proof of figure or gtfo

>>25362840
I'm pregnant right now I'll get back to you in like 3 months when I pop this kid out.

>>25362687
youre right. but the other guys hurt so much

>>25360638
I try not to and it hasn't happened yet. But I'm not going to say it'll never happen. Don't bother rebuilding, we're mostly a bunch of cunts.

I would never cheat on someone.

And I've been cheated on by all 3 guys I've ever been with so guess I'm a fool.

>>25362188
Don't try to speak for me, you pussy faggot.

Anyone shoots at my boys is getting a swift punch to the face, girl or not

Ladies i have a question. Would you have an emotional affair? At what point would you consider it cheating.

>>25363365
Emotional affair?

>>25363383
A relationship where you are sharing more intimate moments with another person. Like a affair of the heart. Where your hiding text or emails. Like having a emotional bond on a more than friends.
In a geberal sense.

>>25363396
I guess, as opposed to "just sex"?

>>25363429
Of course

>>25363431
Both cheating IMO.

>>25363365
I feel like if there are two scenarios for this...
1) You're incapable of monogamy and should tell your current SO ASAP.
2) You're no longer connected with your SO and should break things off.

Ultimately, a person who begins a relationship through cheating will probably end it through cheating too. Of any sort.

>>25360659
Are you me?