ADVICE THREAD:
Pls help I feel so stupid for asking this but I literally have no one better to ask
Before my story I will mention I do have a girlfriend (which is why I haven't made any moves on the girl in this story)
> Sooo,
> to set the seen, I met this girl recently (we'll call her Hannah)
> we've become pretty close friends
> (I wouldnt say she has any attraction to me further than a friend however I definitely find her attractive and have a lil crush on her)
> Throwback to when me and my friend "Liam" first saw her he was all like "aw fuck the things I'd do to her"
> Liam's a bit of a tool/cunt and I know when he drinks he's very handsy with people he shouldn't be
> Liam and Hannah have both been talking a lot lately and have started goin on dates with each other
> I can't help but feel kinda shitty about it
Am I right to feel jealous and uneasy about the whole thing?
Like she just got out of a bad relationship and it wouldn't bother me if she was seeing someone else (not as much at least)
Am I just jealous or am I stupid for even bothering
I'm guessing here that hannah is 18+, therefore she's a big girl, she can handle the shit she brings on herself.
That being said, maybe you should reconsider your current relationship? If you just met a girl and think that you have a crush on her then maybe things are not as good with your girlfriend.
>>25305155
Nah I literally love my gf to bits we have 0 issues in our relationship
It's just a crush nothing major, everyone gets crushes on people at any time, dating or not
>>25305178
If you can muster the courage, you should tell your gf about it. You could explain that sometimes you feel like you want to hump everyone and everything, which is pretty natural but we don't talk about that sort of thing b/c we humans not animals, right? I bet she'd like to have an open discussion about objective sexuality from time to time. It's called, "sharing your feelings," and it can be a lot of fun.
But no, you're not likely to get a FFM 3way out of it (but who knows?)
>>25305178
Mm if you say so. But imo you shouldn't do anything about hannah + liam thing, you don't know for sure if it will be a bad thing after all.
>>25305189
lmfao thank you
>>25305189
Definitely doubt a 3way would happen
Have you ever been in a similar situation and felt the same way?