/fa/ tinder

ehh. as a girl I don't put any of my effay fits on tinder because they tend to be more artsy than flattering and the app encourages shallowness, conventional beauty, etc. also, I've noticed it's kind of dead compared to last year. like it's more of a procrastination thing than a "hey I'm trying to meet cool people" thing. then again, I'm at a college with like 8k students so it could be due to getting older. on the whole, it's not impossible, but you're better off finding a group of artsy people to hang out with

>>25204017
No, people use Tinder to fuck. Personality and interests are not important.

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>>25204017
if you aren't a chad don't even try

>>25204017
not sure about posting my pics (though ive posted one in a waywt lol) but i live near a bunch of /fa/ colleges and meet/fuck a decent amount of actually interesting artsy girls. feelsgood.

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I match with many qt girls but I'm too much of an aspie loser to even start conversations, much less comandier one- I have my friend write replies for me because it hurts less to have someone else take responsibility, then for me to try by myself, become humiliated and fail. What do I do?

>>25204022
post rj and mary's profiles please

>>25204023
why?

>>25204022
You already asked yesterday and got good advice you fucking retard.

>>25204025
the advice I got was to stop being an aspie, it wasn't helpful

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Rate my tinder
I get very few matches

>>25204027
too depressive and self-deprecating
mirror selfies are not a good bet. find something that was taken by another person or at least looks the part
you have a thousand yard stare
bio does not make you sound interesting

>>25204028
>taken by another person
Im not joking when I say I have no friends, m8
The last photo someone else took of me was like more than a year ago

>>25204029
yeah, me too, but you can't let girls in on that fact. at least try to make yourself seem interesting
almost anything is better than a mirror selfie

>>25204029
None of us do dumbass but like other anon said, fake it till you make it. Freshman year I had plenty of wild times in the dorm but I don't stay on campus anymore so I've turned back into a hermit. Dumb girls from tinder don't know the difference though

>stay golden, ponyboy

>>25204027
you're actually very handsome but that face with that description will prob scare off most girls, you look like a mass murderer

>>25204027
How do you avoid these kinda pics of you don't have anyone to take them of you?

How do I make myself not seem like the autistic loser I am?

>>25204033
one, stop calling yourself an autistic loser. self-deprecation is in here but not to the majority of girls on tinder.

two, do you have a webcam? Or you could even just use your timed camera on your phone. Get a beer in your hand, make a face like you're laughing and pointing or telling a story to some people. Then crop it to look like someone took a candid photo of you at a party and you cropped just you out in it.

>>25204017
I feel so bad that guys actually have to put effort in that shit.

On the other hand I also kind of feel bad that I would get the attention and all that, just because I am a female and I am breathing.

I've only met sluts and weird girls on tinder.

/fa/ girls might be in a pub or dragged along to a club with their friends. Or just in a cafe/library.

>>25204029
>>25204033
ask someone on the street to take a picture of you

>>25204037
Devilish
Will do this, thanks mate

>>25204027
10/10
Say that you drink alone often in.your bio

>>25204032
>you look like a mass murderer
i get told this a lot and i honestly don't know how
is it the bags under my eyes?

>>25204040
Embrace it
Get more fashionable, you won't find that on effay anymore desu since it's just MFA but worse now
R/malefashion is good r/Streetwear is better than people here say (just look at the front page) and get some decent inspo
Embrace the school shooter look and fuck edgy goth hoes

>>25204040
I mean the bags don't help but it's mostly just the expression your making with your face, it might feel stupid when taking a picture of yourself but just try to make a slightly friendlier face.

Do you need tinder plus to get matches?

>>25204043
No, but it helps in large cities so you can "cast your net" further.

>>25204027

What's the point of going into tinder just to give the impression that you're a depressed loser virgin?

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>>25204045
what's the point of going into tinder just to lie?

>>25204046
To get some poon you dumbass

>>25204046

Nigga don't get philosophical on me you loser, you go to tinder to get pussy, not be a tryhard edgy cringelord.

>>25204017
I used chinese tinder for a bit and matched a serious 10/10 mixed qt3.14
Ask what she studies
>fashion marketing
Ask about her favourite brands and whatnot
>oh I like UO and H&M

Seriously wanted to kill myself then

>>25204041
>R/malefashion is good r/Streetwear is better than people here say
hahaha

>>25204050
They dress better than anyone here
/fa/ is the new MFA because autists who don't care about the culture come here for advise on how to look less autistic
r/malefashion is a lot like what /fa/ used to be
A lot of Rick and obscure Avant garden stuff
r/Streetwear has a lot less Hypebeasts than it used to have and the ones that are still there have some good fits and use.
Both better than what we have here

>>25204048
okay so what should i actually do, other than get some rando on the street to take a picture of me?
what should my bio be?

>>25204052
maybe address the core problems like being a fundamentally boring person first
pick up hobbies, make friends

>>25204036
>Or just in a cafe/library.
dude this isnt an indie movie lmao, /fa/ girls are on tinder if you dont see them then either they all swipe left on you or you live in some shithole flyover state/country

>>25204053
My hobbies are powerlifting and reading
"love powerlifting and reading [crying with laughter face] looking for a cheeky shag [monkey face]"
yeah mate sick one

>>25204051
i am a regular /mf poster and your opinion sucks major ass. i think you started looking at internet fashion forums within the last 6 months.

>>25204017
man lots of rejected nerds in this thread. ive met plenty of cool and fashionable girls on tinder. "tinder is just to fuck" says everyone who has never fucked someone from tinder. some girls i meet on tinder i only want to bone, others i want to get to know better. Its all about the interaction you have with them, i dont get why so many dudes here struggle with being normal people.

Only weird girls are on tinder, because they can't get shit IRL

>>25204057
>wanting to fuck (or even get to know) disgusting used up sluts

You do you, anon, but don't tell us we aren't normal.

>>25204059
What this anon said, if I don't get my peeny handled like a bar of soap after meeting some stranger online then I better not meet them a second time or they're getting raped.

>>25204058
only weird guys are on tinder, because they can't get shit IRL

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Mine

I get a decent amount of matches 1-4 a day. I do swipe right on everyone then go back and weed through it. I'm rather successful in hook ups but every relationship has ended in flames

>>25204027
Honestly?
Delete everything except ''6'2''.
Trust me.

>1 match a week
>she generally unmatches me immediately after I send a message

>>25204062
the "rare deepwater jew" part gets me every time

>used tinder for a year
>get a couple of matches a week
>too much of a pussy to ever message them
>get drunk and message a qt a dumb name pun last week
>now have a date this weekend
this is getting too real hlep

what's the score on bumble? my friend told me it was a tinder with higher quality women. haven't gotten any matches yet, but it's not like i did on tinder either.

>>25204066
Lol calm down and just go to town

>on dat pussy

>>25204058
Nah man. If they're only looking for one thing and good looking they're hyper sluts using tinder to fill up their days while going out clubbing to fill their nights.

Met a girl a few times, benis in vagoo every time and later saw her go to the same clubs I did. Turns out she a club fiend and a tinder junkie. But i was too, still was awkward seeing them in their natural habitat when their attention isn't on you anymore.


I don't mind sluts but when I see them slutting it up for other people my caveman brain gets fired up. Doesn't help if there's alcohol.

>>25204068
Anybody tips on translating a date into something more/ another date?
(not that dude)

prefer going to clubs at 1am and banging a slut by 3 am

I've been dating my girlfriend I met on tinder for nearly a year and a half and it's still fantastic

I don't remember much about my profile other than the fact that I said I was 5' 2" and 600 lb
Most girls I swiped matched with me. Every day started with a huge confidence boost back then

>>25204027
are you living in the uk?

>>25204073
yep, why?

>>25204074
are you a britbong or are you originally from elsewhere?

>>25204075
brit

>>25204018
95% of artsy people are pretentious cunts.

>>25204052
>other than get some rando on the street
Do you actually not have any friends? Has no one recently taken a picture that you were in?

I'm an idiot how do I set up a tinder profile that doesn't suck

>>25204078
>Do you actually not have any friends?
yeah, i've genuinely got no friends. I think I was in like 2 pictures at freshers (the start of the uni year) but i am barely in shot and look bad.

>>25204062
>rare Deepwater Jew
Kek

>>25204079
not too many selfies
no more than one group picture
pictures and bio that shows you life is'nt boring

>>25204017
What is the point of using Tinder anymore? It attracts only autistic girls.

>>25205072
I think it depends on where you're located. Also the algorithm modifies your matches a bit to give you the people it deems in your league.


Maybe you match with autists because you are one anon.

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Which pictures of these should I use for tinder?

>>25205200
Sorry for the image size :/

>>25205200
I'd say 1st, 2nd and 6th. Personally I use to use more serious looking photos but it depends on what kind of girl/guy you're trying to attract.

>>25205209
i was going to say 1236
dude is cheesing too hard in 4 and 5
sometimes a nice smile pic is good tho

>>25205200
you look like steve buscemi had a child with mackelmore lmaoo

>>25206974
lol that hurts me
but I can't deny it

>>25204022
Post your profile

How to attract nerdy azn girls on Tinder? I'm trying to fill the void left by this girl I like that has a boyfriend. I'm pretty /fa/ myself, which should hopefully help, right?

>>25205200

Upper middle, Upper right and lower right (best)

The rest make you look like an product of incest.

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>>25207664
I photoshopped it does this look better?
I've been told a smiling pic is good especially since I'm not that attractive

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>>25207713
edit: slightly more dishonest

>>25207713
No homo but youre pretty good looking man

>>25207713
the hair just looks bad, like a pre-comb over for MPB.

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never been in one of these threads. what you guys think?

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>>25210028
bio

I am 17yo is it hard to use timder for a person my age?

>>25210028
whats a thicc boye?

>>25210068
it's a trendy way to say "fat". obviously, I'm not fat. it's funny, i think.

>>25210100
can i steal your bio (obviously change a few things). i live in aus so there will never be double
s

>>25210109
steal away, dawg. you have my blessing

>>25210143
cheers

>>25210143
i changed the first paragraph to "i need a date to do UV painting and car things. so romantic, am i right?" referring to my picture.

also instead of the thic boye bit, i said "i identify as a helicopter. please do not refer to me as a he or a she.

>>25210029
Hitting too many angles with the bio, make it more concise