Baggage Thread 2.0
(Modified)
You list your good qualities as they relate to a relationship then your perceived or acknowledged negative qualities as small, medium and large. Then people can comment on what's a deal killer or not.
>age/gender/sexuality
>good stuff
>small
>medium
>large
This looks fun, why didn't it take off?
>age/gender/sexuality
22 female straight
>good stuff
I'm a good listener and mediator. I like to cook and I'm good at taking care of a house and garden. I have a job and a car, and I'm in the process of buying my first house. Peoples' parents like me.
>small
I'm inexperienced.
>medium
I coddle people.
>large
I have a mental illness.
I always like these threads, OP.
>age/gender/sexuality
23, Female, Straight
>good stuff
Domestic - I enjoy cooking, my house is always clean, I buy fresh flowers just because.
Kind.
Loyal - I rarely like people, but if I do I'm basically going to be by their side whatever happens.
Curious - full of interests/hobbies, speak two languages fluently and two not so fluently, can enjoy reading about basically anything.
Adult-ish - I make my bed, I own my house and my car, I was the dishes right after every meal, have no major debt, manage my finances well, do good at whatever I decide to be good at
Rational.
Kinda cute.
>small
Introverted
Too upfront - I cannot bring myself to sugarcoat my opinions.
Bad with my phone.
I also curse a lot.
>medium
Controlling - not in a jealous way, more in a "fold your t-shirts like this and order them according to their colour" way.
Stubborn as fuck.
Cannot just listen without give a solution to problems.
I detest drama. Deeply and passionately.
>large
Had a burnout 4 years ago, didn't recover from it 100%.
Genetic disease.