Baggage Thread 2.0
(Modified)
You list your good qualities as they relate to a relationship then your perceived or acknowledged negative qualities as small, medium and large. Then people can comment on what's a deal killer or not.
>age/gender/sexuality
>good stuff
>small
>medium
>large
>age/gender/sexuality
23/F/mostly straight
>good stuff
I'm into music, vidya, films a lottt, also think I'm fairly knowledgeable and mature for my age. When I care for someone I'll do anything in my power to make them feel loved and cared for. Think I'm nice looking sometimes, kinda curvy. Can be hella funny
>small
My self esteem is not great at times so I need pampering
>large
I've been sexually abused by a former bestfriend.
>>25083786
>large
Cont. Which has resulted in social anxiety and even more depression.
>>25083786
Sure, let's chat, why not? That is to say, it doesn't sound like a deal killer. Depression is FUCKING HORRID SHITTING HELL but I know it and I beat it and now I own it.
You sound nice let's do it.
>age/gender/sexuality
33/M/straight ( but a fem boy is fine too)
>good stuff
Empathetic, Loving, loves Vidya, horror cinema, trying to lose weight and staying focused at the gym ( be my cardio bunny? ) , great cook, going above and beyond to put someones happiness in front of mine. nice beard!
I'm social! very friendly.
>large
i get attached pretty easy
Empathetic
because of years of horrible breakups my self esteem is pretty bad, i gained a ton of weight due to depression eating
i have slight anxiety so i need the reassurance if i'm having a bad day
i'm prone to depressive fits of just crying for no reason silently
i'm fat, and short.
bump?
>age/gender/sexuality
22/M/Straight
>good stuff
Very kind, affectionate and honest
Calm and understanding
Passionate about my hobbies/interests (cooking, vidya, anime, animals, travelling)
>small
Bad sleep habits
Usually very shy when talking with someone for the first time, specially irl
Slightly above the average weight (chubby)
>medium
Clingy
Phases of lack of motivation
>large
I never really loved myself but I've been trying to work in it.