Do you use OkCupid? How many views do you tend to get per day?

>Do you use okc
Barely
>How many views do you get per day
4 visitors per week on average it seems
>Do women contact you
No

>>25074544
>Do you use okc
On and off
>How many views do you get per day
About 4 or so
>Do women contact you
Small amount

>>25074532
>Do you use OkCupid?
yes
How many views do you tend to get per day?
Currently my average is 9 a week but I haven't had a single visit all week so the average number is probably going to go way down soon

Do you get many women contacting you?

In the two years I've used it I've only ever had one message that was a legit person and not some bot advertising some other phishing site

>Do you use okcupid?
Yes.
>How many views do you tend to get per day?
Maybe 1 every few days.
>Do women contact you?
No, they don't. And I'm not surprised. The few times I've been contacted it was from women outside of the state.

>Do you use okc
Daily
>How many views do you get per day
4-8 visitors a week
>Do women contact you
Usually a fat girl will message me once a month then delete their profile the next day.

is there I way to show myself as straight but still be able to contact bisexual men, women and transwomen
I know I should stop being a pussy and put Bi, but I'm not using this thing 100% seriously and don't want someone I know seeing 'bisexual'

>1
check every time someone messages me
>2
at 50 per week atm fluctuates between 30~100
not sure why it fluctuates often
>3
Yes, when I first got it I used to browse but it was just easier to wait for girls interested in me to contact instead

Also the number is pretty misleading because only about 20~30% of the women who message me are in my area.

All the others are just weebs obsessed with finding a qt asian from other countries/far away states

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>>25074532
>Do you get many women contacting you?

I've never made first contact.
Around one hundred have messaged me.
Currently one unread message coz I seldom go there.

>>25074532
>Do you use OkCupid?
I did for about 3 years
>How many views do you tend to get per day?
maybe 1 or two, most of them were the official OKC bots they use to populate some of the site
>Do you get many women contacting you?
no, have never had a message back on the service, sent out 100s of messages and never got anything back. Only messages I got were the obvious bot ones

>>25076212
How do I improve my game to where I can get this many likes? Aside from becoming good looking

>>25076987
probably
>be older
>have money
>get messaged by old desperate women

women under the age of ~25 are not going to message anyone first or really like anyone who isn't attractive or rich

>Do you use okc
yup, just joined
>views?
31 views per week
>Do women contact you
No

>>25077005
So the tables turn later on huh? Good to know

Yes I use(d) it.

1-2 a day. I'm maybe a 7/10 at best, my personality probably bumps me higher though 8-9. Since I'm not model tier attractive I have to get them in person as quickly as possible, because they are going to have hotter guys approach them on the regular. DON'T USE OKC FOR SEX, GO TO TINDER.

They do contact me, but 9 out of 10 times they're fat and gross. Desirable women generally do not message you on these websites, you have to go out and message them. I've had one 9/10 hottie message me (which is not the norm) and I ended up dating her for 2.5 years. That's insanely lucky.

Want to be good at online dating?

Step 1, read their profile.

Step 2 come up with something funny and related to their profile to say. Don't make the message too long, but give them more than a 3 line message. 90% of the messages they're going to receive are bland "hey ur pretty cute, i like netflix and chill too." Don't be that guy, it's lame af.

Step 3 ask for a date/her number/whatever by the 4th mutual message exchanged (that means 8 totally messages, 4 from you, 4 from her). Don't rush it, unless you feel like she wants it.

Step 4 is give people a chance in person, and don't be afraid to go on multiple dates, even if the first one isn't great but she wants another. If you're aiming to find an actual relationship, I give girls 2 chances to impress me or show me who they are. I've only told a few women that I wasn't interested in a second date (usually false advertisers).

You have to match the mood of who you're going after, S A D G I R L S want some inside reference to some dumb psycobabble anime, fit girls want you to talk to them about running 5ks and how good runners high is, geek girls want you to be "geeky" but not sperg out about your autistic waifus.

Cater dudes. Online dating is about adaptability.

>>25077177

Forgot to mention I have maybe a 40% success rate with messages. Women are ridiculously picky on these websites. However, if I can go on 10 dates in 10 days (with decently attractive women), so can you if you put effort into making yourself seem appealing.

>>25077126

table turns only when they lost their youth and need to settle down

Can this be a profile rate/advice thread?

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/notasandvich

>>25077194
I did it, so unattractive people who can't even get a girl to respond can too!
you sound like a moron to be honest

>>Do you use OkCupid?
Yes

>>How many views do you tend to get per day?
Per day lol? 1 view per week, I live in a semi-rural area

>>Do you get many women contacting you?
Yes, ugly ones, about once every 3 months

I use it for bants... My account is clearly a joke.
I get 298 views per week.
Boys always message me first thinking they're gonna hook up. Sooo many fuckboys, it's fun.

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I got at least three views per day and get contacted by uglys regularly. I consider myself a 6 at the very least but a good talker.

Been using it for three days, i have only initiated chats with one girl and still keep contact since yesterday... we havent talked much and i am unsure wjen to ask het out... i am sirt of an autist on this things


Any adivice?

>>25079008
Where does the conversation steer to when you talk? what do you even talk about?

>>25079020

Want pics of the convo? Is cheesy af but i dont mind critique/feedback

We have been discussing marvel movies/series and our profiles

>>25079063
ofcourse, go ahead.

>>25079103
is there more? not too bad. I get more interested in messages that long, not too short, not too long.

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>>25079118

Cont

>>25079132
so far so good...

I didnt answer until the next day because it was already pretty late.

I uoloaded more photos and asked about her day in the afternoon. Five hours later she just replied

She told me i was good looking. I guess i should reply the same? Any good phrases you have heard that i can borrow ?

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>>25079145

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>>25079161

Wrong order

>>25079162
okay okay, seems she is jus being nice atm. Yes compliment her too. Maybe push it to ask what she likes to do for fun?

>>25079188
Like this?

Thanks, you are rather pretty yourself :)

I am doing well, had to pick up a friend on the airport this morning and played some gold with the guys in the afternoon.

So what do you like to do for fun? Any particular hobby?

>>25079218
yes yes, that should be fine.

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>>25079229

Thanks for the help... i suck at this lel

Sperg >>25079229
life aint easy

>>25079229
i know fellow sperghetti.