Tinder general
Rate and advise
I think I fucked up real bad guys
I remade my profile not too long ago, and I've been getting a ton of matches.
It got really bad, to the point where I had over 100 chicks that I'd never even messaged.
Well yesterday I decided to fix this once and for all, and I copy/pasted a message to every girl in my catalogue. A lot responded, but most didn't. Cool, that's fine. I'm talking to some girls from the ultra message right now.
But my match:swipe ratio has turned to SHIT. I used to be getting >=10 likes a day, sometimes as many as 30, but in the past 48 hours I've gotten NONE.
I think the app took looked at the number of girls that actually replied to me, and stopped showing me to girls because I fell below a certain threshhold
Any advice? Should I just remake my account?
>>24984198
Tinder thought you were a bot and shadow banned you
>>24984198
Same shit happened to me dude. I basically would swipe right on any decent girl and now I'm only getting like 1 match a day
my phone is shitty so dunno how much you can see from this
my bio is 'British in NYC, 20% more dateable than the leading brand'
>>24984198
you shouldn't have been copying and pasting
either restart it or try to get some pusy from your other matches
>>24984546
yours is pretty slick
i think you will have good sucess but a casual photo or a cute selfie might help
one where you're smiling or one with a friend
but you should be set
>>24984896
i agree, as soon as i get one i'm sober in, it's going on there lol
i mostly get guys
>>24985111
are you a guy? lol
>>24985706
yes
some girls like that believe it or not
I don't even know anymore.
I was getting matches and now I'm not
>>24986567
>>24984546
i have a hard time believing you need any advice of any sort to pick up girls on tinder
>>24985111
set your filter to women only? idk man, you sound like you're doing alright
>>24986497
>selfies
>filters
>ironic meta """humor"""
2/10 see me after class
>>24986585
>selfies
Because neither me nor any of my friends are the types to go ZOMG TIEM TO TAKE PICS OF US WHEN WE'RE OUT DOING SOMETHING GAAAIIIZZ
>>24986602
>posts in advice thread and presumably wants advice
>justifies his suboptimal choices
You're a scrub and you always will be up until the day you admit it
>>24986622
Mein parade. It has been pissed on.
>>24986585
eh, most of 'em are pretty flaky, hard to pin down
Damn I got super liked by someone, I see the notification a few minutes later and like her back and then she unmatches. Pretty hot too so I figured it was an accident.
So I used to see plenty of really hot girls on Tinder, and now it's 95% straight up uggoes. I didn't match with them but at least I could dream.
Did the level really drop or are the new algorithmes put me in the ugly-people limbo and forbid me to see hot girls ever again?
Is there any benefit to be had from resetting an account that's been active for a long time? I've had my account for months, and I have about 400 matches or something. Most of these are stale though. I remember when I first started using Tinder, I got a rush of matches at first, up to about 50 or 60 in the first couple of days. Then it reached a plateau, but I was getting quite a few every week, maybe 20. Since then it's slowed to a lot less than this. Maybe only 5 or less per week. Also it hardly takes any swipes to get to "there's nobody new around you" thing. Would it be worth resetting my account?
Tips appreciated
>>24985111
good bio actually, at least without le retard meme face
you're a qt too
so i figured something out
if you left swipe ugly girls who aren't worth your time anyway, tinder will give you more matches or move you up because you're not desperate or not a bot.
i used the same layout of photos and right swiped everyone. i got less matches
now i'm checking every profile, and it seems im constnatly getting more attractive matches, and actually matching at a higher rate. its been 2.5 days and ive got 40 so far.
It has been a while since I've used tinder actively, been having a hard time updating photos.
>>24986762
no homo but if you have trouble keeping girls interested on tinder that makes me feel a whole lot better about myself
>>24989754
you're only gonna interest highschool scenester punks and a very small percentage of punk rockers like that or goth people
consider a style change cut your hair and lose the piercings if you want more matches
>>24983500
your photo choices were better before
>>24986567
why does your main photo have you in the background, that's silly.
Get matched
I spend a few hours thinking of something witty to say
By then they unmatched
>Why?
Is it some self defense thing they do so I can't unmatched first?
Does this work for nonwhite guys?
>>24989976
Not unless you have abs
>>24983500
I'd marry you, but I'm a guy. So yeaaah...
>>24989935
smart photo puts your "best" photo, the one people swipe right on the most, first. People probably thought he's his hot friend.
>>24986568
that trash comment is really lame and you look like you wouldn't win in a fight.
>>24989893
i disagree with this. i see hot normie/twee/instagram girls with guys like this all the time.
>>24989754
>"i have a vinyl [...] can not"
this line is clumsy and confusing. i'd get rid of it. also, asking for a right swipe comes off as really desperate to me.
>>24989976
yup, but take good pictures.
>>24990171
I've gotten good feedback on that one
Also... Wouldn't win a fight with a girl? Or an argument? Or just saying I look weak in general
>>24983500
Get rid of 4 make number 5 or 6 your main picture. Get rid of that old man comment in ur bio as well never ever talk bad about yourself self deprecating humor is overdone and girls think it's sad
>>24984546
10/10 profile u got it
>>24989754
you have a cool style but it's offputting. It's a little too "much". You're only gonna be getting a small niche of girls right swiping. I like your bio too but it's quite a lot maybe try cutting it a little bit & make it more intriguing. One last tip I can give is to have a portrait of your face as your first picture
>>24988155
You look like a nice & fun guy I'd swipe right on.
>>24988146
maybe swap 3 with 1 other than that you're looking good
>>24988313
removed the lenny
also, thank you.
Talk to girls but never make plans crew
>>24983500
Switch 5 and 1
>>24984546
Solid
>>24986568
Lol my bio is just my height