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The woman I love and I had to break up. Her father went full religious psycho and threatened to cut her off from her little bro, who is a lot younger than her and she practically raised him.

Right now I am in a hate everything stage and it really fucking sucks

>>24903968
I'm in love with a best friend of 10 years, never felt that way about him but after he had his son (he's not with the mom, she's actually pregnant with another mans child), something changed... I was suddenly so attracted to him in every way, doesn't help that his Dad constantly reminds me of how perfect we'd be together and how he wishes I was his daughter in law... And also sprinkles in the fact that when my friend is drunk he goes on and on about how he wishes we were together.
It's absolute torture knowing he feels the same way, flirts with me constantly... but will never do anything about it.
I'm addicted to his attention, but it's really unfulfilling... J, you need to stop fucking with my head or I may eventually snap and give in.
Why did you have to date one of my best friends years ago? And then fall into unrequited love with my other best friend?
If I didn't feel like third on the list and your final choice, I'd have already made a move myself. I actually love you, you fucking dumbass.
JUST. FUCK. MY. SHIT. UP.
AAAAAAAGGGGGHHHHH

I'm getting pretty pissed at how a lot of women have this ingrained idea that their time is more valuable than a male's. Female privilege is the most obnoxious bullshit. I'm more than aware that there are plenty of women out there who are decent human beings and are super positive and normal to be around - but fuck - what rocks are they hiding under because I'm having trouble meeting them.

The problem isn't entirely the fault of these women. Men are to blame too. I expect that being a woman and being the recipient of attention from guys - even when you don't want it - can change your approach to a more defensive one, or one of aversion.

Just... where are the women who are genuinely interested in getting to know you while you get to know them? Where are the women who will ask you a question in return when you ask her one? Mutual respect is fucking lacking nowadays. But oh well, this shit wont stop me going on with the search.

>>24903996
Just caught this after writing my own.

This reads like he thinks you're not interested and so he's settling for what -he- considers to be second and third choice (your friends). He wants you, he's said as much to his family. His dad has heard him saying this and is trying to persuade you to get with him, knowing his son doesn't have the confidence to make a further move.

Have you considered his flirting might be his way of feeling you out to see if you're interested? Have you considered his father will be telling him how you respond to his pushes and prompts that you two should be dating? Maybe the guy hasn't had a strong enough signal from you that you're game.

This is 2017. Men no longer have to be the first one to make a move. I think you need to give him a very strong and unmistakable signal that you're interested. Make the first move. No prodding. No beating around the bush. Just lay it out on the table.

>>24904020
This.
It is amazing how often women forget just how dense guys can be, or how a guy, not trying to be a bugaboo, will pass of the low-key mild "flirting" that women do as something innocuous.

>>24904020
Ahaha I came here to vent the same argument but you said it better than I ever could

Mad that after being in a new city for a year the only woman I've found that has any interest in me is HSV2+ (and I do not want that), has minor physical and moderate mental issues, and smokes weed and cigarettes. Also, clingy.

>>24904020
I get what you're saying, but I've been so obvious with my flirting that the only thing left is for me to have to kiss him. I'm guessing that he doesn't want to ruin the friendship... but he acts like Im untouchable.
He's told me before how "cool" I am, how I'm feminine but still one of the dudes, how I am down with anime and gaming but not overly nerdy... Idk if I agree with how he builds me up, but I constantly remind him of how cool he is and think the world of him as well.
It's like I feel that all the oxygen gets sucked out of the room, and I know he feels it because he'll do something like lean his head on my leg when we're laying on his bed (we've always been super close and done shit like that since 15yo, but since I've caught feelings it's different)... I've been out of the dating game since my 8yr relationship and idk how to proceed if I am truly wrong and his Dad just wishes he would be with me instead of being upset over his baby's mother who is newly pregnant.
He's moving back to his state in a few weeks, there's no hope of a relationship, even though he constantly tells me to move back with him (I wouldn't have $ or healthcare and I'm disabled- back surgeries)
The whole situation is so overwhelming... I don't want to ruin the friendship if I am wrong, especially if it's so temporary...
Thank you so much for listening and taking the time to respond, >>24904022
>>24904028 you two as well.

>>24904060
Pull him somewhere private, take his hands in your own, and tell him what you've told us. Empty your heart out to him, look him in the eyes, tell him what you want most.
Then fuck his brains out. He'll get it or you'll throttle him where he lie.
>>24904032
Tough luck, player, I don't even know what to say.

>>24904068
Hahahahhaa oh lord, I mean, that would be an unmistakable sign right?! I never thought I would be here typing this, but he's been the only person I've thought about sexually since he came out to my state. Can't lie and say I haven't been looking up porn and going crazy to girls getting pounded by guys that look like him... and specifically searching for those pornstars to get off on the thought. That's a bit insane, right? I literally cringed rereading what I wrote, I'm such a creep...
It must be incredibly difficult to date as a male, I feel like I've been dealing like this as if I were one, without the actual responsibilities of being one... Sorry to any guys who have to go through this, it absolutely SUCKS.
I'm just so far from being the type of person to sleep with someone if there's no hope of a future, his ticket is booked and it's final- he's leaving.
Thank you anon, I'll try to muster the courage without arguing the thought away... Ugh, can't promise I can be strong enough today, but before he leaves hopefully I can be.

>>24904060
What a female thinks is obvious and what a male thinks is obvious are two completely different things. You'll just have to take our word on this, since the three who responded seem to agree on this.

As for not wanting to damage the friendship; that's a legit thing to worry about. Right now you're in some sort of twilight safety zone where you lose and gain nothing from making no move at all. The upside is you keep the friendship and continue on as if nothing is off. The downside is, well - something IS off. People don't tend to last long tricking themselves into thinking a friendship is sustainable with those types of thoughts and feelings festering under the surface.

>>24904086
Unexpected sexual turn o_o

>>24904089
I definitely agree with that, our brains are wired differently.
It's amost like we're playing a game of "I'm not touching you!" and going back and forth with constant flirting and holding each others gaze too long to be considered friends at this point.
I like how you worded your response- twilight safety zone is a perfect representation of my situation, and festering feelings eating me alive is exactly how I feel.
I don't want to stay in limbo, I want to give in but I have no clue why I have this mental block. Whether it's because we're friends, he's dated my friends or if I feel deep down it's not right- I have no clue and would love to get to the root of my own issue with it.

>>24904094
Fuck, so I am a creep?! Ugh, fuck my life I'm disgusting :/
It always flattered me if guys yanked it to pictures of me, I had a feeling it's stranger when a female is doing it...

>>24904102
>Fuck, so I am a creep
Maybe to someone who hates porn, but in the real world, people have their fantasies.

>>24904102
The sooner you realise that every single person on this planet is a rainbow shade of crazy, the better! haha.

We're all creepy. Having sexual thoughts isn't creepy or disgusting. It's natural. What I meant with "Unexpected sexual turn" is just that. It was super unexpected. This guy gets you wet. All the power to you haha.

Husband wants divorce after reveal he has cheat...

I've been very unmotivated lately, my energy level is also at 0. All we have to eat in our house is ramen, mac n cheese, peanut butter, jelly and some instant rice. The past month has been bad with my boyfriend being laid off work, having trouble finding a place that will pay him the same amount or more, and I've also had trouble with finding a job since I get sick a lot and I barely have any experience.
I'm not eating properly, not healthy, I'm starving my body of nutrients with being poor and now I don't even want to eat since I feel as if I've gained weight. (I mean honestly I'm probably losing weight with how little I'm eating.)
I don't enjoy things I used this which can be normal but I'm really just tired of doing things. I don't want to play video games, I don't want to post videos on my youtube, I don't like sleeping because my body is sore afterwards.


tl:dr I'm poor, starving my body of nutrients and just giving up being happy.