Greetings dwellers of the deep corners of /soc/, I came (on you) today to ask you a serious list of questions.
I've been lonely for pretty much forever, and I am trying to change that. I do not know where to start, and so I just thought "fuck it, let's ask 4chan".
Could you tell me where to improve my looks, my personality and overall chances to get laid/find a qt?
I'm soon-to-be 20, my personality is a little bit weird, in the sense I make lots of smooth jokes and several goofy stories that come out of my mouth, nothing too gross though. I also am a writer of sorts, and play the classical guitar.
Girls seem to not care about me after various conversations, therefore growing cold in matters of days even though I haven't done anything; this behaviour did not happen once. Others just come up with: "you're not my type".
Help pls.
>inb4 cut your hair and kys
You give off a creepy vibe.
Appear more presentable and open.
In the look department long hair is okay, but get it out of your face a bit to appear more open and approachable.
Beardwise it looks kinda messy, like you don't take good care of it. Maybe go for a more flattering trim.
>>24781598
You need to stop being lonely so you can get a gf and stop being lonely.
Women are revolted by lonely men.
>>24781617
I did trim my beard and got a little haircut to adjust them since I took this picture, I noticed that myself.
yea i would say clean up the facial hair a bit. in terms of personality at least you're "goofy" you have that going for you. get some friends who like to go out have fun seem like a person and not a 4chan dweller
You seem like a friendly fellow honestly, I'd say try to find new people with common interests. Otherwise get some kind of dog. Dog people love dog people and if it's a cute dog the ladies love a guy with a cute dog it makes you seem responsible and trustworthy and is something to start a conversation about.
I used to have long long hair I hid behind. It helped me feel safe, but it also isolated my from the world. When I cut it, I was forced to be a little more seen in the world.
Tldr; try getting a short haircut. Like 2 inches max.
>>24782546
Also good advice. If you don't want to cut your hair, trim your beard and qear your hair in a ponytail all the time. It's mysterious and alluring.
Also, get a hobby. Makes people seem interesting.
>>24781598
you're very handsome and i like your long hair. my advice is just maybe stop trying so hard, and look for a girl with similar interests. the "you're not my type" might be because you are approaching the wrong type of girl.