So, this is the profile photo I am using for a dating site. in 15 weeks I have had very little response and only 7 'likes'
question coming in a moment
>>24777975
This is the profile pic of a guy I know casually. He joined 3 weeks ago and is already corresponding with 21 girls (that all wrote him first) and has 35 likes
>>24777992
My question - what can I do to get the responses he is getting?
>>24777996
What quality of women are we talking here? What site? Income?
Too many unknowns, switch to tinder if you want to get by on looks alone.
Do you seek out girls or do you expect them to come to you?
>>24778003
Have to pay to correspond, essentially like Christian Mingle, but a specific branch of Christianity, defaults to local matches, most people looking for a spouse or at least long-term
>>24778004
I very carefully write at least one girl every day. I review their profile and write a casual, conversational hello and discuss shared interests.
>>24777996
Who cares? The first guy is way cuter. No way he isnt getting tons of chicks. I feel like youre the dweeb trying to role play here
>>24778013
No, I am very serious - I only have 7 likes and one girl who has sent me 2 quick 'hi' messages while he has 35 likes and 21 girls writing back and forth.
>>24778012
If you're not getting christian pussy then either you're coming off like a psycho or you aren't who you say you are. I agree, try tinder
>>24778013
See?
I even forgot - 3 of the girls that gave me 'likes' took them back, later.
>>24778013
>The first guy is way cuter
Then why aren't girls interested in me but are in him?!
>>24778051
Maybe because you seem to really REALLY need them to affirm you.
>>24778076
How does that matter on a dating site even if it is true?
>>24778091
Maybe it's your penis. send pics op and we'll believe u
>>24778045
Get a bow tie and suit and you'll get 10x as much as him. Probably mostly single moms who want a richer guy.