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Kissless 19 year old male battling with what I suppose would be a confidence issue. I'm tired of being a kissless, no qt-gf virgin and have been thinking about my options. Now, what I realized was that I'd feel ridiculous going through with any of them. I was thinking about such a simple thing as getting on Tinder and just trying my luck - but I can't barely imagine doing it. The feeling I get is similar to that I'd feel if I suddenly had to unironically wear ill fitting, oddly colored clothing. It seems I'm facing some social fear rather than that of rejection. The odd thing about this fear is that I'm intellectually aware no one in my surrounding would think of it as weird, or bad. I have good people around me who'd be nothing but supportive, and I know that. The problem here is, I can't pinpoint this fear - so I can't seem to get past it.
I was wondering if anyone here has faced any similar issues, and if so - how'd you get past it?
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>>24669185
count 1,2.3 and do it.
confidence comes from practice, theres is no easy way to get it, you are already unhappy, why not do something about?
I would start with tinder, just match a few girls talk and try to set dates asap. tinder is kind low key, so it will be good for you
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>>24669185
find a hobby. I personally recommend lifting weights. Admire your own gains when you get them. You'll slowly become more confident just naturally.
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>>24669185
i was a virgin till i was 20. I know how this feels. I tried way too hard to get sex and it never worked out. It wasn't till i fucked a girl on tinder for a week that I finally got it out of my system. If i could do it, you can too
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Can a 19 year old even manage to get laid on tinder?
I've got no interesting photos at all because I have no close friends; they all moved away.
Selfies would be the only option.
Would online dating work at all?
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>>24669185
basically this >>24669278
talking to girls is a weakness, and you gotta face that weakness like you would if it were anything else: head on
i felt like such a tool at first, same boat as you OP but now I can't even keep up with the nudes, lifes good desu senpai I believe in you anon
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>>24671196
bumpn just to say imma bout to pound one of the hottest girls I've met irl, and we met on there
>>24669866
don't listen to this SCRUB
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I'm in the same boat OP. Some strange irrational fear.
I've been putting it off for months now
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