Femdom general. Any female doms on /soc/?

If there are any cute dom girls in the DFW, hit me up because I want to try getting pegged sometime.

>>24551518
I love all sorts of femdom and definitely pegging.

But I think I might draw the line at the strapon in OP's pic.

>>24551518
ballet boots /and/ a horsecock strapon? I can't tell if I want to be her or have her fuck me.

f switch, in case it wasn't clear.

>>24551638
Well I certainly know which position I'd like you to be in.

M sub in case that wasn't clear.

Are there any women into sph here?

>>24551518
femdoms are really scarce in comparison to male subs

I have a strange urge to have some female tell me to do awful and degrading sexual acts......

Usually I'm a dom, hmm....

I would love to have a relationship in which we live together of course, and we do our own thing like school/work, but once we are both home, I am her slave. I obey her every command and please her every day. Sexually and nonsexually.

>>24552243
I wish it wasn't this way

>>24552243
What about femsubs in relation to male doms?

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She gave him the ruler

>>24551518
That pic is HOT as FUCK!

only slight downside is wish she had bigger boobs, to complete the "total package".

9/10 for sure

>11/10 with bigger boobs

very hot indeed - sadly i do not think that any femanons are into this

>>24551518
>>24553512

>>>/d/

>>24553606
Just went there all dudes talking about their fantasies. No grills

>>24553606
>real bitches of flesh and blood
>cartoons

either you've never seen a woman other then your mother, or take your permavirgin ass the FUCK back to your
/b/itchcave

British sub guy would like to chat to a dominant girl about this stuff.

kik: redgrouper

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23/m/northern va

Looking for a girl that enjoys pegging, buttstuff, or really just being dominant in general.

kik: seele23

>>24553548
There are some. They usually don't post contact because as soon as they do they get flooded with 50+ messages from the thirst brigade.

Putting a shameless ad of myself here

18/m looking for a dom
Kik: bulkpro

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This will be a bit different but..
..are there any female doms who are into financial domination? Findoms?

22/m/ky here.
I don't make big big bank, but I enjoy doing it from time to time. So I can't give you boocoos of dollars constantly, but it's free pocket change. If you're interested, respond with your kik, or a throw away email, throw away skype.
Any of those you know.

F virgin
I'm a tease and i imagine I love to slap and bite and be begged , I also like to be in charge what does that make me

mtf here, i wonder if there are any girls around here whod be into that ontop of femdom

>>24551518
I'm a switch but I lean sub, it's fun to tease though!

>>24554145
Dominant and someone who enjoys having power over guys (or girls)? It's a lot of fun, I think you'll find this out when you start having sex.

>>24554233
I love having power over everyone especially guys in daily life
It's just I'm not into these hardcore kinky shit but I still like for it to be challenging in a way that I'm forced to bring out my whole strength does that make sense

>>24551518
Sod it. 24/M/UK

Sub with a lot of kinks, love to serve and submit. Easy going. Dont care about other half so long as they are safe, discreet and respect limits

kik:SuburbanScumbag88

>>24554244
Like.. what they are allowed to masturbate to? If they are allowed? To what they wear, kind of stuff?

>>24554244
Sounds like you're into struggle cuddling. The best kind of cuddling.

>>24554244
I went through a bit of a phase of leading guys on, I'm not proud of it and it was probably down to lack of confidence and self-esteem on my part, but fuck it feels good when you get some guy doing whatever you want just for a chance of getting near your body. So I know exactly what you mean I think.

>>24554253
I don't know exactly but I'm really hard to turn on idk if my sex drive is just kill
But what does turn me on is a challenge someone who thinks can make me sub only so I can prove him wrong
Is that the question?

>>24554270
Uh huh.. so you're looking for someone to try and dom you, so you can overcome him?

>>24554277
Yes

>>24554268
It's not your problem as long as they know you're off limit

>>24554279
That's super hot, I like that

>>24554279
That's interesting, I doubt I could humor that but you're interesting. Best of luck, anon.

>>24554284
I second that

Mixed wrestling often has this in porn.

>>24554283
Yeah but I kind of let them think they might be able to get somewhere with me, just to feel good about how they would behave towards me. We're talking when I was about 16 or 17 here.

Maybe it would be more ethical to do it when the guy knows you are off limits, but he's such a sub he still wants to serve you anyway. The guys I actually let near me I am usually submissive to.

>>24554294
yoi were young don't stress over it

I think it's more satisfying when they do know and still pathetically try.

Back in college I used to mix that with my superior work in projects and have them want to be my partners both romantically and academically.

>>24554284
Thanks I guess.

>>24554289
Thanks again, not getting lucky anytime soon tho.

>>24554313
I sound like such an ass lol but I'm nonetheless honest about my lack of interest.

>>24554313
>I think it's more satisfying when they do know and still pathetically try.
>>24554315
>I sound like such an ass lol but I'm nonetheless honest about my lack of interest.

I understand. I quite like the inaccessible ice bitch thing. I'd be interested in trying it more often but I don't like to feel like I'm being cruel, or have people around me get butthurt. I was the classic 'friendzoner' as a teenager though.

Feels like I'm one of the only guys here who is only submissive sexually. I'm into being sexually dominated by a female but no way in fuck and I going to let anyone try to dominate me outside the bedroom.

>>24554516
What do you consider as dominating outside of the bedroom?

>>24554569
I'm a sub guy also, but outside of the bedroom i like when a girl gives me orders and in charge. Telling me what to do in front of people in public, being a sucker basically.

>>24554279
Do you mean in a physical way? Like they try to push you around but you're way stronger than them so you easily turn the tables.

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>tfw all i want is a cute girl to force my face into her crotch whenever shes horny
like, just give me the order and I'd do it at any time.

My wife and I started trying some light femdom / bdsm stuff after she found out I was into prostate stimulation.

Most fun I've had with sex in years. Mostly just spanking and strap on use so far, but we're trying new things all the time.

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Yeah, it's a shame that dommes are so difficult to find! If any happen to be lurking in this thread and are interested in a (very underendowed) cute white boy with a slender body to dominate, I'd promise to be very grateful!
Kik: Inchworm03

>>24551518
Why are guys into femdom rape?

>>24555988
I'm not really sure if you mean femdom in general or rape specifically. Rape is a power thing, loss of control, etc. For femdom in general, reasons are gonna be different person to person.

Personally, I'm attracted to confidence and dignity, and it generally takes more confidence to be the dominant sexual partner. I also like the feeling of being pursued as a romantic/sexual partner, rather than being the pursuer. A woman who takes an active role that aspect makes me feel more wanted than one who doesn't.

>>24553261
my experience is that there's a lot of male 'doms' but generally they are so fucking terrible at taking charge and being satisfying that realistically there's still a lot of female subs to a decent male dom

like i'm a male dom and i have 3 subs right now, they all know about each other and are fine with the arrangement, mostly because i both look (tall, slender but fit) and act (my voice doesn't crack or something when i tell them to get on their fucking knees or w/e) the part of a dom and that's pretty rare. most male doms are some incredibly broken motherfuckers who think it's an easier way to get laid, because the women do what you tell them.

obviously that's not a thing really, and if a sub of either gender isn't feeling the rush of submission then they ain't having sex with you.

so in practice it's just as hard for female subs seeking male doms, just for a different reason.

>>24556064
This is so true. I've tried to have things with guys who talked the talk about being dominant but just couldn't pull it off. It takes work being dominant, because a lot of responsibility is on you.

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>>24556064
>>24556723
Women need to know their place and that they exist solely to service their master.

>>24556818
Some of the time, yeah, I'll happily grant you that. But sometimes it's fun to turn the tables.

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>>24556819
lolno

My needs outweigh yours.

>>24556824
The dom's needs outweigh the sub's. When I'm feeling sub, which is probably most of the time, I'm happy to go along with that :)

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>>24556828
Good.

It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again.

>>24554145

an Alpha Female or Bossy Bitch - (if they don't like you). Tough week for alpha females really.

Dominance / submissiveness is learned in childhood and puppyhood. It's not just a sex thing. I'm a secret boss.

I've always been a sub but recently felt more Dom. I'm not into hardcore dominatrix shit, I like to be caring and almost motherly in a way.

It's a turn on to be like the older woman for his first time or something (I'm 24 though so I'm not a milf if that's what you expect)

>>24557035
Gently femdom?

Taking charge, but with lots of cuddling and kissing too.

>>24557035
Dunno you, but if I had to be a sub (never tried all this role stuff) I would prefer a caring dom than one of those hardcore hurting ones. I'm also 22 so that fits me more I guess

>>24557059
Good to know. Same here I prefer a caring Dom, passionate rough fucking is much different than mindless hitting. I think some people use it as an excuse to just be abusive

>>24557083
Do you have experience through that? I would like to talk about it with you if you want, because that's new for me and all of that. I have Kik if you want to. It's true what you say about mindless hitting, at least for me it's far more exciting to feel I'm doing something we both enjoy in a deep way than just getting my dick in and out repeatedly

>>24557088
Sure kik is layladelray

>>24557035
>I like to be caring and almost motherly in a way.

What kinda stuff do you like doing in this sorta way?

>>24557103
I'm not talking mother-son roleplay I meant more affectionate and caregiving and being the one who initiates sex. I don't know if that could be considered motherly but some people have called it that.

>>24557111
Yeah I know. I mean what things do you do as an affectionate dom? Is it just taking the initiative and being the one in control or what?

>>24557116
That is what she said. Why are you pressing? What is it that you would want from a woman?

If you want a pro-Dom you go see and pay her.

Amateur doms make you do stuff you like go to the shop for her and make her tea, wash her delicates, valet her car. fun stuff

>>24557035
two of my subs prefer this about 80% of the time (the rest of the time they like rougher play) and at least from the male side it's simply described as being doting. it's pretty popular but again, half the game is if you can pull off the look. nobody is going to buy a doting, gentle, caring dom(me) if they can't stand up straight and kick off some authority. it basically mandates being in good shape, and if you're not tall (like 5'8"+ for women) naturally you'll need to wear some decent heels to get you the look you need. a casually professional look helps too. i have a blazer, button-down shirt, and decent set of jeans that help sell the basic "i'm in charge here" look to my subs and that's particularly important when it comes to being doting, since you can't assert it physically.

there definitely needs to be more dommes which is why i'm being so info-dumpy, even if it's fairly rare for me to get super involved in one it is insanely cathartic to talk through stuff with a female counterpart.

>>24554916
This. So much this. Add a little hair pulling and I'm in heaven.

21/trans woman/US
Mostly a switch looking for other kinky queer or trans people. I have a little experience with bdsm and kink stuff. I'm into pet play, impact play, uniforms, lingerie, chastity, humiliation/degradation, and a few other things.
I'm tall, chubby, and pale, and I've been on hrt for almost a year

My kik is AlexErin9

Pegging and facesitting have become my two bigger fetishes, with facesitting first and pegging second. I guess I could call myself a switch. For about three years I've had the interest in pegging---but just the 'gentle-rough' type in the bedroom, not the one where the guy is held up like a roasting chicken and fucked with a dildo the size of the one in OP's pic

I like watching amateur videos a lot but besides the facesitting, I just don't see myself bringing up the pegging thing to anyone. Maybe because I'm black and the people in my area DEFINITELY don't seem the type to allow it. It'll just stay my fetish I guess. That's okay, I think, because I do enjoy being alone and simply touching myself to pegging videos. And hey, who doesn't like facesitting for the most part? At least I do that.

>>24557035
ah ouais, like this, for the most part!

>>24558028
boy...lemme stop, lol

>>24559524
You'd be surprised. The majority of girls I know/knew who are into pegging are black, and are almost always on the lookout for black guys that would be into it too. Just keep it on the DL and you're fine.

>>24560141
wait, I misread, apparently you're a girl. Nevermind. Can I ask what area? facesitting/pegging are two of my favorites as well.

I honestly don't think I'll ever achieve the dream : being nicely fisted and dick sucked.

>>24560141
>>24560148
>The majority of girls I know/knew who are into pegging are black, and are almost always on the lookout for black guys that would be into it too.

Damn for real?? Well, well. I just doubt the guys here in my part of LA county would be into it--they're not so open-minded, in my experience. I'll find him though. Maybe not in this area but I'm in SoCal so...I'm aware it won't be too difficult haha. I guess it's just that, since I live where I do, I've accepted that it'll stay an unspoken fetish in the meantime and I'm not in a rush. Also I moved from Florida and my old neighborhood wasn't as ~liberal~ so I'm getting used to that I guess. But oh well, if anything this gives me time to figure things out about my fetish.

The 'closest' I've ever gotten was two years ago and the urge to fuck him was so great and got me so horny because I thought I'd succeed...only to be shot down strongly and left feeling sheepish even though I was already fingering him/sucking him off. It's cool though, we're cool--but I learned my lesson. I think. lol. It's gotta be psychological but I cannot for the life of me figure out where this fetish might've stemmed from...again, oh well

>facesitting/pegging are two of my favorites as well

Good man ;) but you're in VA, apparently.

>>24560881
Go find someone on fetlife. You'll have your own harem of boy butts tomorrow, I guarantee it.

If anyone is interested in an older, sub male, and closet sissy. I enjoy being used and humiliated for the amusement and pleasure of my Mistress, and/or Dom, or whoever she chooses to share me.
My kik is FordTexas.
I also have Skype but am less able to get on.

honestly all I really want is a gentle-ish domme to pull me down by my nose ring, call me a bitch, and pull my hair while I eat that pussy

>>24554516

You're not the only one


>>24554313

>I think it's more satisfying when they do know and still pathetically try.

You dont just sound like an ass, you're just a piece of shit.

>>24559524
>>24560881

Ah ouais ?
If you're into baguette-speak, there's a cutie white boy who'd love to get in touch with you
Machnek is my skype, just in case

>tfw might be having my first femdom experience sometime after new years

Damn its gonna be so fun to walk through my front door after a long hard stressful day of work and just ram my knee into his balls and spit in his face.

whats funny is he knows me from way back when i used to do femdom vocaroo's on /r9k/ but he only ever lurked. Met through 4chan on a different board.

>>24562549
You spelled ouis wrong.

>>24562595
What board?

>>24563140
Ouis is "yes", ouais is like "yeah". Less formal.

>>24557111

You're into soft femdom? I really that. I wished a lady would hug be from being and whispers things to me while affectionately nibbling my ears.

>>24557637

I'm 5'2 male, would that be a turnoff for a lady into soft femdom? Like, would it strip you from the joy of having your look with heels and everything? Doting ''forcefully'' really makes me happy.

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Haven't had a fun sub in years. Too many people don't understand the scene these days and think it's 100% about rough fucking and borderline abuse.

Despite the fact that there are way more sub guy than dommes, a lot of them are the really whimpy type, which for me personally is boring.

>>24563663
where are you from?

25/F here

i'm basically into the gentle side of femdom - tease and denial are my main squeeze, also like light bondage and just generally being in control... but in a sweet/affectionate way!

>>24563707
Being teased is my favorite.
My kik is cuteboy842

>>24563707
>SOCIALIZE
Love teasing add me falkair

>>24563241
Would rather not say because its a general and I'd rather they not see me posting here kek.

32/f. I think I'm probably demisexual, but I'm also very interested in the idea of gentle femdom.

>>24563663
>>24563707
>>24563798
Jesus, when it rains it pours, I guess.

>>24563663
I'm sure that gets annoying, but I feel like a lot of female dommes prefer the kind of shy, tiny boys that you'd call wimpy. Or at least that's been my experience, as someone who's 6'2 and likes aggressive women.

>>24563798
No reason you can't be both. By interested, you mean you haven't tried it before?

25/Male/Switch (Straight)

Average/slender body and long hair but have been lifting for the past few months working on getting more fit/toned.

I'm not the most sexually active person ever but everybody I've been with in person has wanted the aggressive dom type, including the ones who identify as "switch".

Been really wanting either a domme or a real switch to do exclusive lewd stuff with, but from my experience with meeting dommes on the internet, most of them are only interested in open stuff where they are lewd with multiple people at the same time.

Also I'm curious about pegging but at the same time I wouldn't want to ask, since I like mutually pleasurable stuff.

>TFW you sometimes just want your partner to pin you down and grind against you while biting your neck and telling you not to struggle
>TFW the only girls you're ever with just want to lay in bed like a dead fish until they cum a few times then sit there on their phone looking at social media

If there are any cutie dommes in the pacific northwest that are interested, you should let me know, I wouldn't mind dropping a contact or something if anybody was interested.

>>24563938

Where do you get your info that women domme like shy guys? I'm introverted myself, and, honestly, I have seen even less women into introverted men than those into domination.

>>24563999

Can only speak for myself but i like em shy shy shy

>>24563999
By talking to women, duh. They appreciate some nervousness, it's flattering, but at a certain point you've gotta meet them halfway. If you're "introverted" in the sense that you barely speak to women in person, then of course you're not going to find any. I've spoken to lots, and the majority prefer nebbish types, but they won't do ALL the work. We're not living in the opposite dimension.

>>24564017
I should clarify, by "the majority" I mean "the majority of dominant women", which is itself a very small minority.

>>24564014
This is pretty rare, to be quite honest.

Most of my experience comes from writing smut for commission, but even the dominant women I've met through taking commissions have only been interested in dominating "masculine guys". Very few of them were actually interested in shy guys, or guys that weren't muscular.

That's just my experience though. Everybody's into their own thing.

>>24551518
I WISH i had a girl (or even better GUY) use something like that on me.

Or really just find anyone online who's into large insertions and dom/sub stuff, and not just utterly wrecked assholes and prolapses.

>>24564027
>Tried to find a girl that's into large vaginal insertions, fisting, etc for a while on fetish sites
>Got a lot of comments from women saying "That's so hot but I could never do that I want to stay tight for my future husband!"
>Never found any women to play that kink out with or even talk about it

>>24564014

Thanks, had you said this in real life, I might have blushed.

>>24564017
Well, I'm introverted in the sense that I barely speak to anyone, men or women, unless I'm approached first, in which case I'll speak a bit, but I'm usually quite reserved even so. I only speak freely once I know the person a bit. Perhaps my concept of ''halfway'' isn't quite ''halfway''. What do you mean by that?

>>24564042
You have to approach them first.

>>24564021

Yeah, I understand that (sad) reality. :c

>>24564022

Can only speak for myself, but being muscular for me is not quite nice look-wise since I'm short (5'3) and it would look immensely bizarre. I just try to keep in shape with cardio.

>>24564048

Eternal sadness. I'll try again once I can muster up the ability to talk to people and initiate conversation I guess, which is something I never do, and have immense difficulty doing. Thanks for the heads up though.

>>24564039
>>24564027

Uhhhh
i was not talking about insertions into her.......

>>24564069
I'm aware. There aren't many people into large insertions in general, is what I'm getting at. Most of the ones you'll find online are guys who want it done to them. Good luck though, buddy.

>>24564060

Don't listen to him anon, I prefer to pick up guys.

Speaking of which, contact?

>>24564075
Well apparently men are more willing to wreck their bodies.

>>24564078
aren't you engaged or something?

>>24564104

Little weird anon, but yeah, i am. However a) my fiancé and i have very loose relationship boundaries and b) i was only trying to talk to someone

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>>24563938
>when it rains it pours, I guess.
I am the stormbringer.

>I feel like a lot of female dommes prefer the kind of shy, tiny boys that you'd call wimpy. Or at least that's been my experience,

I guess I can understand their tastes to a degree, but I just find it really boring. I don't like just telling someone "do this" and having them get to it straight away, embellishing it with words of worship. I like a sub who isn't disobedient per se, but actually adds a little bit more to the game.

I feel there's more thrill and sensuality in using body language and other non-verbal signals to sort of tease and threaten a bratty sub. It's more intimate, too, because there's that special sort of connection in being able to read someone without words. I like the back and forth witty sass occasionally, too.

>>24564132
Agreed. It's never fun to have someone take 100% of the initiative, gotta be some give and take, even in D/s. Also, thanks for reminding me to reread Sunstone.

Any chance you're on the east coast?

>>24564132
You named the kind of sub you're interested in yourself, "brat" is an actual kink term for a sub that argues/fights back playfully, that kind of thing.

I prefer that kind of sub as well, honestly, over the dead fish type. I probably fit that role as well when I'm not dominant.

High five.

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>>24564143
>Also, thanks for reminding me to reread Sunstone.
The last chapter just got finished at the very end of October, closing the main story arc.

>Any chance you're on the east coast?
Not anymore, lol.

>>24564148
Haha yeah, I know; it's why I used the word "bratty".

>High five.
Gif related.

>>24564078

Flower13 Anon on Skype.

And if you have a fiance, I'd rather just talk if that doesn't bother you.

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>>24564222
>High five gif
Welp.

>>24563418
Well to be clear again, I am male so I'm not really able to talk from the perspective you're wanting, but in my experience being short isn't really a problem for being a sub. If the domme's taller than you it can be easier for her to believe that she's in charge so it can be simpler for her. If she's a lot taller than you, there might be other issues you run into, but those are problems with size differences in general.

Also hell yeah at the ladies showing up to talk about their top tastes, the world needs more folks like you all.

>>24552243
females in general are really scarce

>>24564376
But they're over 50% of the world population, that's objectively false.

no dom girls live in texas

18,m,oregon
Pretty much a virgin to this stuff, wanna try new things..
Snapchat: yes like the creek
Im bicurious but a dom girl would be amazing

>>24554129
Kik: rosexbabygirl

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Reading this thread just makes me more and more depressed. I'm average height and quite athletic, and I feel like that's the opposite of a doms fantasy.

Especially since I'm not really into any of the hardcore stuff of femdom like pegging. Most doms I've talked to were into stuff like water play and pegging.

>>24565032
Bullshit. If I'm going to be dominant with a guy I want to be attracted to him, so I would look for the same physical features I would look for in any guy

>>24565038
Yeah, but looking like a chad hasn't exactly helped me attract the right crowd

>>24565032
>implying this thread is a reliable marker of what dommes want.
Three quarters of this thread is male subs and -for some peculiar reason- male doms talking about what they think female doms want..
Guess what? its the same as anything else there isnt a set body type or whatever that dommes are looking for.
(Disclaimer: i am a "chad" so your mileage may vary)

>>24565058
Chads are hot. There, I said it.

>>24565061
I know this isn't the best place to take as an example but it's accurate at least to some extent. That being that there is barely any female doms out there to begin with. I've had bunch of experiences online with people but irl it's nearly impossible. It's a sausage fest in femdom communities.

>>24565062
Thanks, you give me hope.

>>24564014
I'm extremely shy in real life but less so online. I can talk to girls and people fine but i can't maintain eye contact and i blush and get embarrased easily and i can't flirt so a lot of times i have no idea what to say to someone when they say something.
I remember when me and my friends went to some club and there was a stripper there and my friends invited her over to give us each a dance. When it came to me i remember i was so nervous and tense, i couldn't even get hard. She even told me that i'm really tense and told me try to relax in a teasing voice, then she said i have nice hair. I remember my hands were shaking afterwards.

I've never approached anyone in real life before, even when i'm drunk i'm still shy and can't approach anyone.
I just pray that some girl will approach me from out of nowhere and take the initiative but so far that hasn't happened.

>>24565115
>I just pray that some girl will approach me from out of nowhere and take the initiative but so far that hasn't happened.
Please don't take the Elliot Rodger approach to forming romantic relationships, it will not work.

>>24565115
I feel ya. Although I don't think I get as nervous as you, I also get quite anxious. I can interact with people perfectly until some hint of sexual intent comes up. I immediately spill my spaghetti and just generally get super shy when someone is potentially interested in me.

>>24565130
This is true. Being shy and all is fine, but you have to be proactive in some way. If you hope to find a partner while not putting any effort into it, chances are you'll be disappointed.

>>24565143
>>24565115
this is where being wonderfully self absorbed during conversation comes in handy, they just end up kissing you to shut you up and from there its easy enough.
>>24565099
i guess but I've encountered a lot of dommes in my time you just have to be proactive about it. in the last year I've chatted,made friends, etc with 6 or 7 dommes so they're definitely out there. And i wouldnt go anywhere near the "community" the whole idea makes me feel physically ill

>>24565159

>this is where being wonderfully self absorbed during conversation comes in handy, they just end up kissing you to shut you up and from there its easy enough.
Man I wish this would happen. Just to save me from embarrassing myself any further.

>And i wouldnt go anywhere near the "community" the whole idea makes me feel physically ill
That's my problem though. I don't have any other place for interacting with doms besides those shitty communities. As much as they make me cringe, they're my only option.

>>24565132
I don't think i've had a girl talk about anything sexual related with me before.
>>24565130
What makes you think i do that lol
>>24565159
I agree
Fetlife is garbage, and the rest of the bdsm sites are full of findommes and other "professional dominatrixes"

I have yet to find a dominant girl who is under 23, single, and wants a proper relationship and a connection with someone. All of them just wanted something casual or were already taken. I literally can't imagine myself going to some kink meetup alone, no fucking way. If i had someone to go with, then maybe.

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>>24565176
>I don't think i've had a girl talk about anything sexual related with me before.
When I was 15 or so there was a girl that was quite into me. She seemed to enjoy making me uncomfortable and would always come real close to me and say some frisky stuff. It would trip me up like nothing else.

I also remember a girl that would always slap my ass in public and call me a slut. That shit was embarrassing as fuck.

>>24565176
brah, don't restrict yourself like that, there is no "proper relationship"

>>24560881
What sort of guys are you into? I'm a thin white guy in the area who enjoys getting pegged.

>>24565221
Eh i just want to share my life with someone and to love someone and for them to do the same with me. Not interested in casual sex and hook ups.

>>24560881
What part of LA are you in that you're not finding men interested in that? AFAIK in the local kink scene here, pegging is pretty popular for malesubs. You don't see a ton of it at the femdom parties, LICK/WICK/the one at threshold/the one on Hiatus at Sanctuary, but you see some. I think most women tend to keep it out of public.

My partner has had no lack of men, for lack of a better term, throwing themselves at 'em for play including that type of thing.

How involved are you in the local kink scene?

>all these dominant women
W-Wew, this is lewd, please bully me.
http://www.strawpoll.me/11643185

>>24565159
Where'd you find those 6 or 7 if you aren't involved in the community

>>24565206
>slap my ass in public and call me a slut.
WEW
E
W

the dream

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>all the girls i know that are into pegging aren't looking for a relationship
>all the girls I know that are looking for a relationship aren't into pegging
Life shouldn't be this much suffering

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>>24564240
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>>24565032
Eh, personally I'm into pegging but know its not for everybody so its not the bread and butter of what I do. By waterplay did you mean waterports (piss stuff) or actual water play?

For me its not about sexualizing aggression, it's about mind games.

Buuuut I also know I'm in the minority.

>>24565176
>>24565243
>Fetlife is garbage, and the rest of the bdsm sites are full of findommes and other "professional dominatrixes"
Fetlife is totally garbage. BDSM hit the mainstream over the past few years and 50 Shades of Garbage didn't help matters, so the scene's kinda gone to shit. There are smaller communities out there with veteran members who understand the importance of building a relationship (albeit non-monogamous), but they don't really have many 23-year-olds.

Fucking findommes. I feel like 90% of findommes these days think it's just aggressive sugaring.

>Not interested in casual sex and hook ups.
Good D/s relationships involve mental connection: Being able to openly talk about what works and doesn't, being able to read your partner, and managing proper aftercare are important, but you usually don't get those with hook-ups on Fetlife and Tinder n' shit.

>>24565206
I used to text partners while at work/school with pics and lewd stuff just to mess with them. Huehue.

Any female doms in or near Michigan that would want to introduce a guy to pegging?
Kik is Superduder88

>>24566013
Not even gonna lie. You sound pretty great haha

>>24566013
Non-monogamous relationships realllllly aren't for everybody though. The jealousy struggles and trials that come from your partners having other partners can be intense. I only have one partner, but one of my metas has treated me really badly for a long while. Stuff has changed though, I don't generally have to interact with him anymore, luckily.

Fetlife is a terrible meet up place, but it's good for friends and treating it like a fetish Facebook.

I agree with you on D/s too. It's hard to be comfortable with it. It requires a lot of trust and some commitment to bring up, and if people can't communicate to have a healthy dating relationship, they have no business trying D/s.

22 male who has been lurking and decided to jump in. Not sure what to expect. I'm new to this fetish and not sure what all I like. We can all agree a woman in charge is hot. Any femdoms lurking that wants to help Kik is Mcnasty9476.

>>24566013
Are you currently taking applications?

I am, but i'm more of a gentle mommy dom than beating/pegging/dominatrix

>>24566420
thats a rather short post, tell us more about yourself?

>>24566420
I'm good with that. It's kinda more my preference anyway.

>>24563707
>>24563798
>>24563663
kik doomguy5557

I've pretty much given up looking at this point. I've been in a few long term reationships but so far none of the girls ive been with has really been into it. They'd try but I new they were only doing it for my benefit.

I'm just scared I'm going to meet the girl I want to be with for the rest of my lie and she won't be into it so I'll be stuck vanilla forever.

>>24566426
hmm lets see, im tall from a tall family with the patience of a saint (comes from my job). I'm 24 and fully independant.
I like the idea of having a little, but im not looking to meet anyone from this thread, i always want to bail out the moment everyone starts posting their kiks. If I was after anyone anyway it'd be a little girl but they're hard to come by.

I like to set rules and have funishments and generally am non-sexual. Never really had a preference on little age, just someones whos into a bit of it all, diapers/colouring/loving stuffed animals.

>>24566461
sounds nice, what do your "funishments" consist of? and yes unsolicited kikposting is a cancer

>>24566475
you're on /soc/, you fucking moron. She's not going to fuck you if you just keep agreeing with her.

>>24566461
I've been curious about getting back into the abdl scene with another partner. My current partner is uninterested in abdl type things; I'm fine with it but I kinda wanna find a top to do that sort of stuff again.

Still, finding abdl mommy Dom types is super uncommon, even in LA.

>>24566486
i wasn't looking to fuck her breh, my kinks consist of horrible beatings and general torture. just trying to stimulate some conversation in the thread beyond "here's my kik, I'd love a domme like you"

Any femdoms please add my kik mgsendone one 22/London m

>>24566475
Playful spanking, lines, homework when we're apart, time in the corner (possibly kneeling on rice, i read that once years ago and always wanted to try it), confiscating games
I suppose not all funishments if I had to deal with a bit of a brat

>>24566488
I want to say finding a mommy dom in general is super uncommon, but theres a surprising amount of them near me.
Don't cheat on your current partner though, that's shitty

>>24566509
There tend to be some, but it's been rare to see any who are open.

It wouldn't be cheating at all, because I wouldn't get involved with a second person without letting my partner know anyway. I'm in a poly relationship and free to date multiple people if I so choose.

>>24566523
Ah right, I rarely come across people in poly relationships so I never assume it, my bad.
Yeah all the mommy doms i know are all taken, though given how swamped we get it's no surprise.

>>24566542
Yeah. There's a ton of malesubs looking for you guys. I feel bad about that too, and how often you must get hit up.

I prefer to try to get involved with local folks. I havent really looked for a mommy Dom type in a while though. It's a recent desire bubbling up, what with all the cute new abdl diapers that have come out.

>>24566461
How tall are you?

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>>24566553
I get some funny messages on fetlife though I don't go on too often anymore.
>what with all the cute new abdl diapers that have come out.
Oh i know right? Sometimes I see them and want them for myself but it's been years since I've felt little. A lot of the little things I have now I just have waiting in my cupboard for my future little to enjoy.

>>24566569
5ft 10/11

>>24551518
All you guys into pegging.
Just a heads up. If a girl peggs you, she will have another opinion of you and will lose respect.
She will want to get that submissive/safe feeling she can't get with you, from another guy. If you can deal with that, there's no problem.

>>24566701
when will this meme end

>>24566706
What meme? I never heard about it.
Just a personal opinion from an experienced person.
But it's an opinion, so who knows, maybe I'm wrong. Have fun.

>>24566701
i pegged my ex a few times, i didnt think any differently of him afterwards

>>24566701
I feel that's not true. Let's see if I can disprove it.
http://www.strawpoll.me/11646426

>>24566717
>ex

>>24566725
Please. Stop. Posting.

>>24566723
what is it with you and strawpolls.
>>24566713
its almost like its anecdotal evidence...

>>24566725
well me pegging him didnt make me feel any differently, but him cheating on me did

>>24566586
Back, on my home computer. And absolutely! The ABU space especially, they're fantastic. Snuggies came out with some good stuff too, just as my interest faded and I started doing a lot of heavier kink stuff with my current partner.

I should look around on Fetlife and see if there's any single mommy dom types in my area. Maybe they'd be up for some nice scenes. It's just rough for both sides to try to proposition the other.

>>24566731
I don't know. It's fun to make 'em, in a way. I'd have to chalk it up to autism.
>>24566733
Oh, yikes.
>>24566725
Corrolation doesn't equal causation, see?

>>24566731
>>24566730
>>24566731
>>24566733
>>24566741
Why do you people feel attacked?
The best way to deny an opinion is not give a shit about it.
And yea, it's anecdotal evidence, it was my opinion and an opinion I was giving, just like the rest of the people in the thread. The strawpoll person is hilarious tho. And I'm sorry he cheated on you, that sucks. I just hope I'm talking about the exception and not the rule. Either way, I'll stop posting,

So, not really sure how to start this off. I've been interested in femdom. But I'm in that weird "mid-zone" Of being curious about pegging but not like into the whole cliche "submitting to every whim" type deal. I like someone who wants to put up some fight. Not just "do this" "okay". Like it's not about the whole physical domination type thing, it's the state of mind, challenge me, play games, toy around with each other. so i guess if any of that interests anyway i'd be more than happy to talk further.

>>24566748
Eh, I only said 'Please. Stop. Posting.' because I remembered this little gem: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3socOQxUL68&feature=youtu.be&t=29s

>>24566756
I'll talk to you, if you'd like. Have experience being both dom and sub, although it's a lot rarer for me to get a chance to sub. I'm in the same boat as you, I kinda find the whole "do this do that" thing to be a bit too try-hardish. I'd rather just have an aggressive girl to wrestle around with in bed while trying to psyche eachother out. And eventually getting pegged, pretty much my favorite activity, as well. Idk if you wanted to chat here, or on kik. Either works for me, i'm seele23.

>>24566756

If you have questions or want to talk through some stuff with a dominant girl, i have a decent amount of experience with all of that. Would be happy to chat :)

Man I can definitely get down with hating on fetlife, since there's a seriously overwhelming level of people there that have rapidly attenuating grasps on reality and apparently want to shatter what little sanity they have left with some shit they read about in a fanfic.

But I still end up unable to hate on it too loudly because jesus what's the alternative at this point?

>>24566788
boy oh boy do I know that feel.

Please ive started becoming interested and exicited by being pegged by a femdom Andy would love to talk to an experieced one if anyone could help please add my kik : mgsendone

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>>24566336
Thanks fampai.

>>24566368
I know what you mean about the non-monogamy thing. It seems to be the majority in BDSM though, or maybe it's just skewed in that direction because the monogamous people tend to be a lot more private about it.

I was never too active on Fetlife because the messages were super desperate. When I was on the east coast I had no need for it since I did everything through real-life groups. Now that I moved I'd like to check it out again, even if just for laughs, buuuuut it now requires SMS verification.

>>24566400
I'm not really taking anyone new right now, no.

>>24566586
>5ft 10/11
S-same...

>>24566713
I don't think your experiences have been about them "thinking differently of you", I think it has to do with poor communication between the two partners on what each of them wants.

>>24566756
>I like someone who wants to put up some fight. Not just "do this" "okay"
Lol, that's my kinda sub too. You sound exactly like me.

The type you like is typically referred to as a "brat"- a sub who challenges their domme either in the beginning just to test the domme's abilities, or all throughout the relationship as an added level of fun.

>>24566806
>>5ft 10/11
>S-same...
Love meeting other tall girls, everyone always asks how tall I am.
I have a female cousin who's over 6ft and only seems to wear heels, kinda jealous of her confidence

>>24566784
(On phone now)

I'd definitely love to

>>24566806
I was talking to you earlier about mono/non-mono, but it looks like my ID changed.

There are a lot of very desperate malesubs on fetlife. It's kind of shitty, because the malesubs who aren't, either don't send messages, or get lost in the data.

It's not women's fault for that though. Men are kind of shitty.

As for real world stuff, I can only really speak to the clubs in LA. There's a lot, Threshold, Sanctuary, Lair De Sade, Iron Gate, Studio X, etc. A lot of them only post stuff via fetlife unfortunately.

There's a good club in Seattle, the Center For Sex Positivity I think?

Other than that I couldn't say; I don't know west coast beyond LA.

I'm non-monogamous because the wonderful gq partner I fell in love with is poly. I've not tried dating multiple partners yet, but I'm open to it. It's been a struggle, but we're in a really good place now; we live together and are pretty happy.

As for BDSM types being into poly, I'd guess it's because we're already secure and confident in our sexualities and alternate lifestyles, that we feel that we can take on more, explore more, try having multiple relationships. It doesn't work out for everyone, but I feel that poly =/= kink, however, often you find them together.

The only stuff I'm unsatisfied on, I'm working now on trying to figure out for myself.

>>24566818
>over 6ft and only seems to wear heels

Holy shit

>>24566818
Tall girls are great.
Interestingly, your ID can be pronounced as a word.

>>24566836
>>24566842
She's the only girl I know taller than me. I tower above all my coworkers on nights out too with my (short) heels since i probably hit over 6ft when i wear them

>>24566854
>i probably hit over 6ft when i wear them
Yeah, that's the kind of size difference I like to see. A girl that could throw me around and bully me easily...
What shoes do you usually like to wear?

>>24566854
I remember seeing a girl at uni who must have been well over 6ft. I'm 5'9 and I wasn't even eye-level with her shoulder.

>>24566854
My partner wants me to pick up some heels, both to go with stockings and to practice for when I eventually get some ponyplay boots.

I'm 6'0". I'm gonna end up monstrously tall, haha.

>>24566866
Size doesn't mean strength! Flats/boots, i don't really like knowing im tall unless im drunk or in dom mode

>>24566869
I think most of my coworkers come up to boob level on me or lower, which im all for, but shame they're all straight

>>24566890
Ever 'accidentally' bumped into one of them with your chest?

>>24566890
>Size doesn't mean strength!
I guess so, but that's why I also like fit girls. Of course, tall can still be intimidating.

>>24566888
>ponyplay
The only submissive thing I still want to try. I always get jealous of people who live on farms and have all the harnesses and boots/hooves.

>>24566896
I don't even need to, they just throw themselves at me anyway! Tackle hugged and one of them loves playing with my boobs

>>24566918
I know basic leatherworking, and I'm going to be educating myself further and picking up more tools for making my own tack. I'll probably be making my partner tack too, since they switch.

The boots I'm gonna have to buy. So expensive.

19/f/usa

Looking for guys into pegging

Hit me up at Dontdreamitbeit14

>>24567083
Kik btw

Well if you're near the 803 and want to break in a first timer hit me up
Kik: thebiz177

>>24567083
Depends where you're at honestly, or what you would want to talk about.

I also don't have kik though. No cell phone.

>>24566823

well, what's your contact!

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860 kik me

alexandria.1995

Bored asf right now so...

>>24567237
>kik me
I promise to provide, at the very least, entertainment.

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that feel when no gentle doms in australia who also want a relationship

that feel when you're 6'5" and no girl will want to dom that

really makes you sad

>>24567245

i'm in america and not looking for a relationship but do you want to chat anyway because you sound great

>>24567245
>gentle doms in australia
I've always thought that there would be, for some reason. I don't know, they just seem smug enough there should be some dominant females. Yeah, it's the smugness that makes me think that. Such charming and hilarious personalities. They're a great people, the Australians.

>>24567245
What I don't get is why so many sub/switch men seem like absolute fucking beta males.

>>24567245
It fucking depends how you act. Like height does not matter. desu I'd like that cus it would give me a sense I am more powerful and in control of something which I really should not be.

Why the hell you think that way tho? But yea relationship wise I personally never would date a submissive guy long term. idek why I'm here. Like short term yea.

>>24567323
> idek why I'm here. Like short term yea.


I think you answered it. Just looking for short term probably, or a lot of the time people like to just talk about it with likeminded people and not feel judged.

Personally, if I was going to date somebody long term they would probably need to be a switch, or at least not 100% submissive. That's coming from a switch guy. I'm not sure I could date a full domme long term, but casually short term or even just casual hookups long term (As long as it was exclusive) I could do.

>>24563938
No, I haven't, it is strongly linked to sex and I don't want to lead anyone on.

>>24567226
Kik is stonecoldconnor

>>24567226
Sorry for being so slow. I went out lol

>>24567264
yeah, because alpha people = submissive
are you retarded
I am a virgin and I knew this
>>24567257
I mean, if you want
thanks btw
>>24567259
well afaik I haven't seen anything like that
>>24567323
I just assume they like domming smaller man? idk dude I'm not very experienced, or experienced at all for that matter
just seen porn and that seems to be the general theme

>>24567957
>I just assume they like domming smaller man?
On average, that's probably true. But there's plenty of dommes that like taller guys too.

>>24566835
> There's a good club in Seattle, the Center For Sex Positivity I think?
Center for Sex Positive Culture, they're in the process of relocating atm!

>>24566918
ponyplay is so much fun, but i'm a pretty big fan of high protocol/dressing up, so.

are there any guys into ponyplay?
>tfw all male ponyplay porn/erotica is either gay or super hardcore full-body latex
>ywn have a strong well-trained steed to ride and gently feed apple slices after scenes

>>24567971
smaller men* wtf autocorrect

and that's good to hear, I guess I thought part of the power was the fact that the woman is taller than the man but I get the other angle that you're coming from

>>24568040
i personally love domming taller/heavier dudes (in part because i'm a tiny girl) - it's such a rush to be given submission from a guy who could easily overpower you, but chooses to put his trust in your hands. have faith, anon!

>>24568057
>tfw tall and heavy

o-ok thanks

>tfw 90% of the girls i meet are subs
>tfw will never have a gentle domme controlling gf again
;_;

>25
>Male
>916

Hey I'm a slightly chubby guy who loves the idea of femdom. Want more info hit up my kik penpusher7

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That feel when you're sadistic as fuck but you're only 5ft tall so people think you're sub and adorable.

>>24568739
Short domme taller sub is the best dynamic, though.

>>24568739
>imyplying there's anything wrong with being adorable
the last domme i was with was scary and sadistic but also adorable

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>>24568739
>Tfw you have broad shoulders and are fit
>Tfw you want a small qt to dom you

Life isn't always fair

>>24568039
>>24568057
Pony play isn't a major kink in general. It's expensive and full of protocol. People tend to be hardcore about it, but there's some lower end stuff.

I'm interested in it because I basically have a gear fetish. Partner also used to do dressage with real horses, so it's appealing to them. We're working on figuring out ponyplay in our dynamic.

Our pairing is like that; I'm at least six inches taller and I've got 100lbs on my partner, but they're very much the top in the relationship.

>>24568057
>tfw 6'3 and 230 lbs
Believe it or not, I got dommed by a 4'11, like 90 pound girl once. She was like a crazy little pixie, it was rad.

>>24568039
>tfw all male ponyplay porn/erotica is either gay or super hardcore full-body latex
Yeah not that im shaming anyone, but all the male ponyplay stuff i come across is big hairy guys in harnesses and full latex which isn't so much for me, though i'd be lying if i said i didn't want to try it.
Whenever I see a bridle i always wanna try it on

>>24568923
>expensive
only downside to ponyplay :(
Might get some less expensive one size fits all gear for my future sub then i can play with it myself


I've been wanting to go to an play event for years now to see people all dressed up, and there'd be a perfect one which is hosted on a private farm and the owners got all the gear etc, but the whole thing seems very....select? private? i dunno what word to use. The whole thing isn't to common so all the people seem to stick together

Any femdoms in the UK?
18/m/Devon
Kik: hehe_spaget_yum

>>24568962
I'm a big somewhat hairy guy, but I'm not going to do super gay heavy latex stuff with it. I want to do more dressage type stuff. I'm pretty sure partner wants to get me more feminine looking for it anyway though.

I'm gonna make my own ponyplay gear. I have some of the technical skill and tools, and I'm interested in saving a ton of money.

I'd just go to it. Private events can be a great way to get your beak wet as it were.

>>24568986
Good luck on making them, doesn't look easy. I suppose then you can get the look you want as well
I've never been to an event as a single dom before, i always had someone to come with me so i wouldnt be too confident haha
i wonder if itll be anything like here
HEY ADD ME ON FACEBOOK, RATE MY DICK, WHATS UR SNAPCHAT

>>24568997
Most of its not too bad from what I've seen. Bridles minus the bit are pretty simple looking, as are blinders. Body harnesses aren't too bad either.

It's the boots that are the nightmare that I'm ultimately going to buy.

Irl kink stuff is pretty different than 4chan. I've been in the scene a while, and behavior irl tends to be a lot more respectful.

>>24562549
Hey this is totally unlretated to femdom or anything, but I've been starting to learn french and would love a speaking partner. I was just browsing this thread, but if you're fluent, would you mind if I add you?

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Still looking for a mistress into trans/trap and CBT
20 y/o mtf here, on hormones 2 yrs

Kik is vxanon

>>24566854
>I tower above all my coworkers on nights out too with my (short) heels since i probably hit over 6ft when i wear them

So probably 5'10, 5'11". I mean that's the same height as my wife. She occasionally will wear +3" heels which puts her a couple inches taller than me, which like you she's not a fan of. She has a few friends who are over 6', but I will say I like the more Amazonian look (and my wife has a larger build) - her tallest friend at 6'4" is lanky, notably she's with a guy that's a little bit bigger than lanky but he's 6'6"....

They make me realize what short guys must feel like..

>>24569061
Willing to accept guy Doms too, but I kinda prefer *very very* aggressive doms (psychological stuff is my thing, so soft play is fine so long as it has controlling undertones or something yknow?)

>>24569019
Oh bridles look super easy so long as you have the leather. I wouldn't have a clue how to put it together but y'know... it looks easy.
Yeah the boots were what i was thinking about. Last I checked they were going for £150-200~
Speaking of the boots, I found these super adorable pink fluffy pony boots that are amazing, but I've gone through 3k pictures now and can't find a picture. They're the only pink leather piece I'd want to own :(
Know if you'd make the tail yourself?

Yeah I know, was just joking lol everyone i've met at my local scene has been lovely and welcoming but i don't really have anything in common with the younger people too much and tend to stick to the middle aged folk.

>>24569062
I'd love to know other tall women, my cousin probably hits about 6ft4 when she wears heels but i hate standing out in that kind of way

>>24569069
It's easy enough, but I also have a strap cutter, which makes the whole thing trivial. The hard part is going to be sizing and then doing the hand tooling I want to do. I haven't done tooling before, so it'll be a work in progress.

Boots are insane, but I'll manage. I'm sure the local pony play group has a good resource.

For the tail, dunno. That's probably a buy, but you can buy horsehair from tack stores, so we might fo that.

These days I mostly don't talk too much to people outside of friends and partner at kink things because reasons.

Ugh. I have to get to work doing the part time reception bit. I find it somewhat amusing that I ended up with a job where I'm a receptionist four hours a day. They didn't advertise it that way but c'est LA vie. Catch ya on the flip side.

>>24569091
Well if anything it'll be a fun project the next couple of months. Are you making it to your partners size?

Same, I'd like to have more kinky friends, all of mine now are vanilla and tease me a bit "anons a sexual deviant shes got a dungeon".
Would be nice to talk to people about kinks and show off my toys with
1) them not judging me
2) not trying to get with me

>>24569108
Nope, I'm making it for my size first. I'm the sub/bottom in our dynamic, so first run stuff will be for me. I'll probably do stuff for them eventually though.

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what level are you?

>>24569268
Probably 5, mostly for subbing to a sub.

>>24569268
hmm 1+2 with a bit of 3

>>24569268
In my current committed relationship, I've done something from every level on there, with plans to do more from most of the levels.

thread still alive?
22/m/spain (from germany tho)
i really like to serve arrogant girls. she knows she is perfect and i am happy to fullfill all of her needs, while she is mean to me. so hard to ask for? :(
kik: thumptravel

Well, I posted some ads that I'm looking for a domme for an abdl dynamic. Here's hoping I hear back, though I don't have high expectations.

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I'd like to think myself as a switch, where I can shift to either extreme of the spectrum depending on where my own partner's tastes. That being said, I enjoy an odd mixture of gentle femdom but with a good sense of roughness thrown in. For example I'm really fond of being affectionately called someone's dog, their toy, being a "good boy" and things along those lines while having to service them. Not going to lie either, some of my biggest fetishes involve drinking my Mistress's pee, getting a golden shower, or even rimming her (clean) asshole while she sits on my face. The biggest part though is that I just prefer for things to be loving above all else.

Yet ironically enough I can totally flip the script and get into a very sadistic and dominant mood, and enjoy that just as much. It's kind of like an odd sort of existence in a sense.

Picture somewhat related

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OP is back, but different ID because I'm no longer banned on home internet.

Anyway, anyone interested in joining me and my domme in a kik group? Looking for a fucking hung stud with a fat cock for her to worship and use to humiliate me. Pic related, is me

>>24569963
you should probably go to a male dom/big cock thread for that

>>24569972
Trying my luck in a few different spots

>>24569963
Where'd you get your bed frame from? I really want a solid dark oak like that for when I move house

>>24570040
Ah fuck idk, it's as old as the house at least. Tried to find a manufacturer mark but couldn't

>>24570053
Darn, thanks for looking anyway.
A lot of them in shops around me are stupid expensive

>>24570063
We were talking about abdl stuff yesterday right? I know you said you didn't want to meet anyone from this thread, but would you be interested in chatting more off this thread sometime?

>>24570114
which posts were yours?

>>24570192
Dang my id changed. These ones:

>>24569649
>>24569325
>>24569181
>>24569091
>>24569019
>>24568986
>>24568923
>>24566926
>>24566888
>>24566835
>>24566740
>>24566553
>>24566523
>>24566488
>>24566368
>>24565395

We also talked about pony stuff today.

>>24569268
I have something in each level.
I guess 5?

>>24570209
Yeah sure can do, i only have a kik but i'd rather not post mine in this thread of all places if you're okay posting yours.
Also just so you know I don't really keep up with it too often

>>24566553

>mfw I haven't even got the chance to wear diapers, even less to get a mommy :c

>>24570217
I don't mind posting mine. I think you're good to chat with and I think it would be nice to have your contact even for infrequent chats.

Theta_sigma

>>24570250
I don't currently own any diapers and I haven't ever had a mommy domme. I have a partner with an abdl hard limit, who's very satisfying. I'm just looking to scratch this itch.

If you want a mommy domme, put yourself out there, get involved in your local scene, talk to people everywhere, and don't get defeatist. Be polite, kind, and well mannered. That's how you get people to talk back. Be yourself and be polite and people start wanting to talk to you want be around you.

>>24570271

I'd like a mommy domme, but realistically, I don't believe I'll find a woman who's into that where I live (Montreal). I'd settle for just some gentle femdom, and I'd be alright. I'd still want to try diapers though, but I live with my parents so it's a clear no-no at the moment.

I think I'm pretty polite and kind, but I'm not just the kind of guy most people find enjoyable to be around with since I'm usually pretty silencious and can't hold a decent conservation, unless I nerd out on what I like. I don't have much confidence in that department, or in any, to be honest.

Also, how do you get involved in your local scene? Like, what is the ''local scene'' exactly? I'm pretty new to wanting to get into a relationship, sorry.

>>24570286
There are people who like everything. I'm sure there are domme and abdls on montreal; it's a major city after all.

Getting involved means finding and going to kink events. Parties, munches, hangouts, etc. You want to meet people? Go to places where people meet.

As for getting into a relationship that's the wrong thing to focus on. Especially if you want kinky. Focus on getting to know people, becoming friends with people, getting known, etc. My partner, we started as friends, starting doing kink, and then started dating. We didn't even think we were gonna do that for six months, but then we kind of fell for each other on a really special day ten months ago, and realized we were a match.

Shit is hard. Prepare to get out there and get shot down constantly. Dating is like dark souls, you fail hundreds of times before you succeed.

As for diapers, I wore diapers living in my parents house for six or seven years. You can do it if you try.

>>24570253
I'll add you in a bit

>>24570286
Check out your local area on fetlife and see if theres any munches going on, its like a vanilla meet up someone public with likeminded people

>>24570306
Sounds great.

>>24570305

I mean the chances are so slim, it's hard to simply bet on it. I'd prefer to hedge my bets.

I meant, how do you know where people meet.

I understand how getting shot down is hard, it's pretty much what happened all my life ; I don't really have much friends. That's why I said I wasn't really confident in trying to find a relationship.

Is it common to just happen into a relationship like you did? I always thought you had to ask people out directly.

As for diapers, I wouldn't be able to hide them since my parents see most of what I do. That's why I can't really wear them safely. I'd love too though, especially those with cute details on them.

>>24570306
I don't really know anyone, is it bizarre to show up unaccompanied? I haven't used fetlife before, I read it was horrible.

>>24570339
>I read it was horrible.
It is if you're female or take anything on it seriously. It's full of egotistical wankers, but also useful to meet others
It's fine to show up alone, you can contact the event organisers before hand to see if they can introduce you to the group.

>>24570339
Fetlife is a great tool for friendship and finding events. It's a terrible dating website.

As for relationships, kind of. If you hang out with someone constantly, and you both start making more and more time for each other, stuff can turn into dating if there's the right chemistry. Sometimes there isnt. But it's also OK to ask, and it's OK to do things by asking out on dates.

Partner and I were casually seeing each other for a while, and it got to spending two days a week together all the time before we realized we were basically dating.

24/m Italian male. Please take the control of mylife kik: piffmast

>>24570375
ok give me your credit card number and a signed note saying i can control your finances from now on. Then give me your address and send me the key to your chastity cage that you'll be getting.

>>24570344

Thanks. I'm very anxious about going out, especially to meet some people on the internet. Wouldn't want to be the creepy alone guy. However, if the website is horrible for women, isn't it also correlatively horrible for men, since there's less women? Also, wouldn't the wankers show up at events too? Not the kind of people I'd like to meet desu...

>>24570368
Thanks, and good luck with your partner.

>>24570398
Usually the creepy people on fet are too chickenshit to go to irl events. The website sucks for guys differently. It's fine as a Facebook site, terrible as dating.

Thanks. Stuff with partner is good, we have up days and down days, but we're at ten months now.

>>24570398
well theres always gonna be some wanker at an event, but you're allowed to tell them to fuck off.
People at events are generally friendly and welcoming, and i know it's easier said than done but you've gotta make the effort to get to know people if you go there.
They aren't gonna like you if they have to interrogate you for your name and hobbies

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It really kinda sucks being kinky but being too private to go to events. I just have no interest in being a room full of people that know intimate details about myself and each other.

I guess I just have to keep hoping for the holy grail of meeting someone in a normal setting, getting along well, and then also having compatible sexual interests.

>>24570404
I hope so. Though in some ways some people might think I'm a creeper, but oh well.
Good luck with your relationship, you seem to be doing nicely^^

>>24570406
It's much easier said than done, at least for me ; but I'll try to look up if there's things going on near where I live. Might muster up the courage to go one day where I'm free.
Might be a bizarre question, but how do you not have them interrogate your name and hobby? Usually, I don't talk to anyone, unless I'm talked to. I have trouble maintaining decent conversations, so it usually ends up with me either answer questions, or asking multiple questions in a row, but with little to no back and forth.

>>24569963

hung stud here. should be home in half an hour. add me on kick: leyendecker1

Is anyone here into femdom without sexual contact? Like putting yourself below women in general, when women talk to you like they're better and when they pass you over for other men.

>>24570669
why would people want this, I don't understand

>>24570790
I don't even know but it drives me crazy

19 m Melbourne
looking for femdom

>>24570813

I dommed a guy for a while who was completely 100% sex repulsed asexual, and he was still super super into a bunch of stuff, as into it as any sexual guy i've ever dommed, so you're not alone

>>24570816
population of 4 million people anon, what makes you different from everyone else wanting a femdom.
What are your kinks, hell if you want someone to cut you and stand on your balls until they pop ive got a curiosity to try it

>>24570830
It turns me on when women treat me like that but don't do sexual things with me. Literally would be amazing if I could find done one like that.

>>24570865

Well, that's even more common. Just sounds like chastity to me. you will most certainly find someone who likes that

>>24570887
I hope so, haven't really been looking.

If any dommes are interested and want to chat my kik is jrn336. I'm in London but don't mind where you are.

30/m/straight 303/720 denver

dom, looking for sub
[email protected]

>>24570841

You have savage replies. I like reading them. I'll give you a thumbs up through the interweb, for what it's worth.

>>24570841
>stand on your balls until they pop ive got a curiosity to try it
Th-Thank you, you too...
>>24571080
>he calls it the interweb
It doesn't upset me very much, but the feeling is there.

>>24571116

It was all intentional, anon. It's just the intraweebs, don't you worry.

>>24571150
It's spelt 'Introwub' you silly person!

>>24571153

I'm glad someone though I was silly. First time in a long time :3

>>24554129
[email protected]

19/m/europe
Looking for a dominant f into pegging and butt stuff. Or just chat.
Kik: Luxdan97

>>24570305
>>24570271
Was it hard giving up on the diaper fetish with your current gf having it as a limit?

>>24570430
>Though in some ways some people might think I'm a creeper,
I doubt it to be honest.
From my experience people are kinda used to new shy people at kink events.
It's obviously gonna be a bit harder to socialize if you are shy like that, but imo if you work a bit on your conversational ability and just randomly mingle with people on a somewhat regular basis you can easily find yourself a part of the local social circle after a few weeks of event attendance.

>>24572763
Nope. It's not even been a slight issue because we have a very satisfying relationship, domestically, sexually, and in kink. I only looking for another person because a) I'm poly and able to engage in multiple relationships and b) I'm craving it.

I don't need to engage in my diaper fetish to be satisfied. I'm looking to engage in a dynamic that includes it because I'm greedy and want more. And you know what? It's OK to be greedy.

loving femdom is the cancer of femdom. you're not into femdom if thats what youre looking for, you're just an easily embarassed, lazy asshole who wants the chick to do all the work.


that is all

>>24572959
what if I like both? I don't mind a girl tying me up and fucking the shit out of me while pulling my hair back, but I also wouldn't mind cuddling afterwards.

>>24572962
Cuddling is not gentle femdom.

That's called aftercare, a REQUIRED PART of bdsm.

>>24572967
Fine, before the sex then, you fucking autist

>>24572971
You can have a loving relationship with your domme, sperglord. Not all femdom is 100 percent abuse all the time. But that "i want my domme to stroke my cock lovingly and tell me I'm a good boy while I lay there and drool like a brain dead lump" is overpopulating the femdom community like cockroaches.

>>24572978
/gfd/ is a personality issue, not a fetish one. They're weak, ineffectual betas who can't handle their own lives and want someone else to do it for them. On that we agree.

However "i want my domme to stroke my cock lovingly and tell me I'm a good boy" sounds pretty freaking nice. There's no reason you can't enjoy shit like that as well without being an /r9k/ faggot.

>>24572984
Having given a few handjobs in my time, I can tell you pretty effectually that they are boring, annoying, and a waste of time. There's tons of dommes like me who are waiting for someone who can actually take some fucking abuse because we have to wade through this fucking sea of stupidly shy, awkward, lazy dudes.

>>24572992
>wade through this fucking sea of stupidly shy, awkward, lazy dudes.
Is it that prevalent tho?
I thought it was mostly a local 4chan meme.

>>24573004
YES. It's so normalised in the actual BDSM community there's subs who approach me going "no haha i'm really fucked up and disgusting but just humor me". And I'm always like.... boy you have noooo clue who you're talking to.

>>24573009
It just kinda sounds like you're judging people who don't have as much experience as you. Everyone has trouble finding what they're looking for. Trust me it's hard enough to find a girl that can actually domme and doesn't just turn into a sub at the first whiff of dick.

Anyways, wanna fuck? Willing to bet I can take whatever you wanna dish out, barring cutting/shit. Anything else is fair game.

>>24573021
I'm definitely talking about gfd, not about inexperienced guys. I want a depraved, pathetic dog that I can make bleed.

I didn't come in here looking for anything. just to bitch. Thanks for the offer though.

>>24573039
Eh, fair enough. I still think it's more of a personality issue. I don't judge people based on what gets them off. But I will judge them based on their willingness to peg their self worth/confidence to other people's interaction/opinion of them.

You might be in the minority then. I know more middling, "likes to be in control" dommes than brutal sadist dommes. Anyways, good luck.

>>24573009
>>24573039
You're on the far end of the scale and that's OK, but it's a bit narrow minded to just hate "lower levels" of kink than you want.

Your kink is not my kink and that's OK. I do play hard but I draw the line at degradation. I've been a crying ball of endorphins plenty of times before and it's great; degradation is not part of it.

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Question: how do I meet dommes that's arent fucking retarded? Just had to break it off with a girl I'd been talking to because she said all of Hollywood and "everything else" is racist. I asked for Ann example and she said the casting of Tom Cruise in The Last Samurai. I then explained to her that role was based on William Adams, an English sailor who was marooned on Japan, and she said "what does that have to do with anything?"

It really kind of sucks that the demographics of my primary fetish and my philosophical ideation are diametrically opposed to each other.

>>24573085
Where can I meet a girl who calls me a pathetic shitlord and shoves my head between her legs whenever she's had enough of my mansplaining?

>>24573089
Go into any major cities, they're probably having hudreds of them protesting at city hall right now

>>24573085
>to her that role was based on William Adams, an English sailor who was marooned on Japan
I thought it was based on a French officer.

>>24573021
>can't take cutting
>tfw the most alpaca sub in this thread.
>tfw still in this thread.
i only have myself to blame
>>24573085
the last samurai is a crap example but you can still see "racism" in hollywood pictures; the continual remakes of tarzan being a prime example of regurgitating an idea straight out of the colonial era (put a white man in the jungle and he will rise to the top, even higher than the natives). but to answer the question, its probably a problem with the type of girls you seek out since i've found no such issues.

>>24573184
Bit of both

>>24573261
Not being into cutting isn't a bad thing. Seriously, cutting is super uncommon. I go to play parties biweekly and you don't see it often even at those.

Seeking Domme in the Sacramento area
24/m/916
kik = shmeduardo
Let's talk life philosophies, limits, kinks

>>24573274
how empty is your life that you find the time to go to play parties biweekly? and the majority of the partners i've been with have been into/ willing to use knives and scalpels for cutting, it just depends on who you're with

>>24573283
It's not really. Those tend to be part of date nights with my partner, so we go fairly often. Parties also tend to be Fridays and I'm on a 4/10 work schedule, so my Fridays are always open.

I do knife play with them, but neither of us likes actual cutting.

Into gentle to a little rough femdom play, love the psychological aspect to this fetish. feel free to hit me up on kik Francis606

I need a femanon to tell me what they'd do to me

>>24573818
Give me your credit card you naughty boy and I'll empty your bank accounts and leave you in financial ruin then laugh at you when you're on the verge of suicide
thats what id do to you

>>24573836
Meh, on the verge of suicide already, can't you just laugh at me now?

>>24573839
i'll laugh at you for £100 an hour

>>24569963
cowboyrebel43, I'd love to join yall, 21 m

>>24573836
Not even dom, more like a gold digging whore.

>>24574227
kek, IMAGINE being so retarded you can't tell when someone is taking the piss

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>>24574284
>beta cuck replies to me

>>24574301
>le buzzword man

When I was a young lad, my neighbor (girl) who was a lot shorter/smaller than me grabbed me from behind by the hair and dragged me to the ground. I laid helpless in her lap as I struggled with no means of escape and she made me beg her to let me go then made me agree to be her slave before she did.

I've never been able to experience this since then but it was ecstasy. How will I ever find a girl to Dom me again? ;_;

M/18/US
Gekim4
Looking for a girl that's into pegging

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Kik me I want to be used @gekim4

>>24551518
I'm glad this popped up, I'm a female switch with very minimal domme experience. I'm very curious about domming, I'm just nervous and shy. My kik is Brontyr if anybody wants to talk

>>24575500
Where are you from?

>>24574398
things that never happened for 20 bob

Looking for a fem Dom to boss my ass around on snapchat

Jakewinston7

>>24551518
21/m/italy
looking for a dom