I'm in love with my best friends wife/exwife. They're done, no going back for them. I've loved her since we first met (we met her at the same time), she told me she chose him because she thought I was with the girl I was with at the time. Now they're divorcing. I think she's open to it, but he's my best friend....wtf do I do?
>>24544715
Bros before hoes, nigger
1) Consider why he left her/she left him. If that seems like a red flag just don't do it. Don't set yourself up for failure.
2) Talk with him first and see if this would strain your relationship with him. If there really is no going back for them then he shouldn't mind her moving on with someone else, even if it is good best friend. That said, consider how much bad blood they have and whether they can be civil in the same room; you don't want to start a war.
3) If all else is good, check her end out. See if she is fine with her ex still being a part of her life.
If everyone is in agreement then there shouldn't be any problems. It's a touchy subject, but if you don't step on any toes and they don't hate each other, then it aside least has a chance of working out.