Virgins, why are you so?

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>>24504345
Loneliness is eating me up. This is me i'm a 23 yo engineering student and i have never been in a romantic relationship before. I have a crushing need for affection and i swear it's going to kill me one of these days.
When i was younger i fell in love with the girl next door. She was beyond beautiful, we hanged around with our group of friends for years and she used to tease me a lot but no matter how many times i tried, she always rejected me. I never understood what her true feelings were, eventually we started hanging out with different people and we lost contact with eachother.
This was 6 years ago. Since then, between studies and daily matters i have not been able to go after anyone else. I want to use dating sites, i want to have fun at festivals, at parties, i want to go all out, but not before having had my first serious relationship. But i can't find it in me to go after anyone, partly because i'm very busy, but mostly because i don't want to be rejected again. I am 23 with no romantic experiences, goofy, boring, awkward, in short i'm a big turn off for most of the girls i meet, and even if some of them like me i still don't know how to take it from there because i have never done it before.
So now i'm stuck in this awful position and i don't see myself getting out of it any time soon. I'll go cry myself to sleep for tonight too i guess.

>>24504345
Not good looking and low selt esteem.

>>24504351
Hang in there bro. Put yourself out there and don't be afraid to get hurt. Step out of your comfort zone.

>>24504351
Oh and btw i think you're good looking but not that it matters. Just didn't want you to get hinged on the thought thay you are ugly

>>24504345
My standards are out of my league and I refuse to lower them

>>24504351
I love your Goku plushie! It's so cute.

Non-virgin girl here. First time I was introduced to sex I was 8 and it was grooming from my step grandfather he really slowly showed me his dick and showed me how to touch it and things like that, which went on till I was 11 and also included my female cousin at times.

I'm pretty sure but not 100% sure that this kind of fucked me up when it came to sex. When it comes to the partner number that I've had I don't think much but instead my weirdness comes out in the fetishes I have. Pretty much I consider myself a sexual 'dom' -but not sadistic at all. I just have to have full control of the situation in order to become comfortable enough to become sexual. This means it's got to be with a guy who is more crippled by social anxiety and shyness than I am (which is really rare and hard to pull off) so you can imagine how little irl sex I've had when you take into account in a 100% hermit with agoraphobia looking for someone who is probably worse off than me. They only have to be nervous sexually and romantically but commonly that means they will also be in other areas of their lives, and be a NEET just like me - which I understand completely. And yet it also means that neither one of us will have the money to see each other. But it has happened with two guys before the first one a friend took me to go see him across country with the other he got a job and got enough money to come and visit me. So pretty much I settle for being a slut on obscure message boards like this looking for a really shy guy who also at the same time I can maybe groom him myself and eventually convince to possibly do lewd things on camera. I also have a fetlife but it barely ever really comes in handy. You guys probably already know that fetlife sucks.

>>24505562
Btw my actual official diagnoses are these: I have ptsd from the molestation, general depression, ocd, social anxiety, avoidant personality disorder, agoraphobia, and since I used to cut there's a possible bod there too. I've been neet for almost 9 years.

I'm not a virgin but I'm attracted to them for reasons I already sort of explained... But also it's a turn off for someone to be TOO eager since I like to do grooming and cox him into doing things where as he starts out way to shy to ever even imagine himself doing lewd things. It's sort of like how I was molested but this time I'm in control. I've only met two people in my life who were my sexual standards. There might of been more that I've only talked to on the internet but usually we are both completely broke NEETs who have no chance of meeting up.

Basically this is a description of my main sexual fetish as far as another person's behavior and disposition goes: Another person being nervous; shivering, blushing, stammering, stuttering, looking away, not able to make eye contact, squirming, shyness, whimpering, nervousness, trembling, bashfulness, 'cuteness', etc. I consider this my main sexual interest. It is necessary for me to become aroused. I enjoy it on some primitive primal predator level but I am always careful never to be forceful about it but gentle and seductive instead. I'd want him to be so nervous that I can treat him extra super sickeningly sweet and still have him wrapped around my finger. I like GENTLE femdom I'm not a sadist or anything I just prefer the guy to be nervous and sensitive to the point where I can control him through being sweet. One of my main things is during the act telling him how cute he is, how good hes doing, how great it feels. Idk why that hits the spot so well. Also using the phrase 'good boy'. Shivering and stuttering are the best out of most of the nervous ticks.

Virginity taking is a hot part of it for me, but

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>>24505575
But just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean they are going to have this cute nervous disposition that I crave. Usually I like both things.

I'm not explicitly looking for a play partner right now (not against it either though) but thought I'd share my experiences in this thread anyway.

Other than virginity taking my other fetishes can include feminizing the guy to some small extent, maybe not as far as full cross dressing (unless he wants this) but tying him up in embarrassing positions and I am rather fascinated in a guys anus and general gender role reversal. I also have a huge kink at this time right now for religious people who abstain from sex for religious reasons particularly catholic priests. I myself am agnostic at best but I find that the thrill of the hunt is what intrigues me.

I find that calling myself a 'dom' is very limiting, that I'm more like a 'predator' since I very much enjoy sniffing out someone's weakness and I love seeing the vulnerability since it's more real. Like it means they are a real person not just some porn star. Pic slightly related I like the aesthetic of chubby pasty nerdy guy with glasses who looks a little effeminate and love the position they are in too.

Really really shy and rather ugly.

>>24505592
You can contact me here if you are interested: https://fetlife.com/users/4039243

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>>24505562
>>24505575
>>24505592
>/soc/ is full of normal women

>>24505592
I literally tick all your boxes lol. I'm ridiculously shy, to the extent I can barely look someone in the eyes. I'm a virgin and I like the idea of a girl using a strap on on me.

>>24505609
How old are you? You can write to me on fetlife or you can just drop your skype, I just dont talk to underage people.

I gave and recieved oral a few times, am I a virgin?

>>24504345
Want it to be with someone special. Had a perfect chance to lose my virginity with 2 women in an orgy tent. Decided to just finger them and leave. Kind of regret it honestly because I am probably going to find someone special.

>>24504351
Go ahead and use a dating site. I'm 21, like you busy and awkward and didn't have a romantic relationship until now. Started using a dating site and finally found someone decent, kind and lost my virginity.

You look decent, seem o be a nice dude, just use Tinder and say "no hookups" and you'll be fine if you can hold a conversation. No worries, bruh.

>>24504351

Maybe you just have a personality unappealing to women. Or you're autistic as fuck. How is your smile? Do you have fucked up teeth?

>>24505562
>>24505575
What happened with the two rare guys that you met? Sweet older virgin types usually hold on to their virginity for a loving relationship and tend to be cautious about having their heart broken. Did things not work out in the end or was it just about the fetish from the start?

>>24505705
Well I've had other relationships besides this and they fail often because I'm clingy or insane, but the first one we lived far away and just couldn't make it work and the second one I still talk to online.

>>24505711
So then I take it you aren't really looking for a relationship?

>>24505720
Not really, no.

>>24505558
I did that too when I was young. IT will start to wear you down and before you notice it you aren't half the man you used to be.

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The good ol' fat and socially awkward combo.

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because my shitty fat body is literally the only good thing about me

hopefully after i drop another 10-15 lbs ill be attractive enough to overcome my boring and unappealing personality and average-at-best face

>>24504351
I know that feel. 24 and I've never had a girlfriend. Every date I've ever been on ended badly. I guess I'm too boring and awkward for anyone to like me.

>>24505822
If that's your body it's not at all fat.

>>24505836
love handles, half-pec half-moobs, pudgy back w/ no definition, etc

>>24505822

hopefully after i drop another 10-15 lbs ill be attractive enough to overcome my boring and unappealing personality and average-at-best face
wishful thinking, you're not gonna overcome shit unless it's a mentality change, thinking you will change once you "get there" is delusional

>>24505890
People treat me so much better now than when i was fat (dropped ~65 lbs to get here) but i guess im still a virgin so i cant really argue

>>24505901

well 65 lbs is much compared to 10-15 lbs so it's a difference, good luck

>>24504345
26 y/o
Diagnosed Asperger/ASD
Skin-over-bones thin
No idea how to talk to strangers outside of professional/work relations
Fear of rejection

>>24505901

"but i guess i'm still a virgin so i can't really argue"

i understand your situation is frustrating, but that is an incredibly unattractive mentality. we're gods

>>24505872
But you have abs, but I want to lose about 30 lbs myself and people tell me im not fat sometimes.

>>24505575
It's like you've boiled down every interaction I've ever had with girls I'm interested in, and only took out everything I do, and made it your fetish.

I am too socially inept to do anything other than studying or fitness.
Not even fucking kidding blud

>>24506110
You might want to read some of my stories I wrote on Fetlife then. Particularly the one called 'at a party'. I really wish I could have that exact same experience tonight but I'll probably be staying in. Even if I did go out no one as cute as your type ever does.

>>24505816
This plus self-esteem issues. I've accepted I'm going to become a cat/dog lady for a while now, so I'm not too bothered as I get closer to 30.

I'm only sexually attracted to intelligence and kindness. Seeing conventionally "hot" girls does nothing to me but being shown kindness and understanding makes me hard. I'm fat and ugly myself so I know girls wouldn't easily be attracted to me but I've never gotten close to a smart and kind girl either and the girls I've met who gave me the time of day treated me as a curiosity at best and a fetish at worst. I want to be with someone who will appreciate me and will want to stay with me but I don't have high hopes of meeting someone like that.

>>24506242
i'mlike the exact opposite of u (besides the ugly part)

id love to be a sex object so much

probably why i post my pics everywhere lmao

>>24505872
someone's been browsing too much /fit/
you look fine m8, defintiely more athletic than average

nice biceps too

why not just cut? The muscle is obviously there.
If losing 10 lbs is what will make you less needlessly selfconscious, then do it.

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>>24504345
Broke, not attractive, fat, social anxiety / shut in, overall just a waste of a girls time. Been single since 2007 when I graduated and the only girl I have ever developed feelings for dumped me. No it's not because of being dumped once, it's just a long time of self loathing.

>>24506275

Post pic

>>24506477
im the guy above, posting from phone so different ids

dont wanna post face but im a cross btwn a neanderthal and a fat hungarian (my eyes are pretty though)

maybe im insecure and overly critical but girls seem to be pretty secure in thinking im fat

>>24504345
Low self esteem and lack of social skills. Apparently i dont look too bad depending on who you ask, but i just dont know how to initiate anything, dont know how to talk to girls, and im afraid of rejection.

>>24506212
Yep, the self-esteem as well.

I'm trying to get healthy, it's a long way and I've done a good chunk so far but we'll see how it goes.

>>24505931
*No idea how to *initiate* conversation.
I can hold up a conversation, but I don't know how to start one properly.

Its simply because I'm shy. Which would be fine if I was a girl, but I'm not. As a guy if you don't initiate/approach or be proactive then you will always be alone. A girl will never approach or initiate unless youre a 10/10 and/or Rich. Her job is to just sit back and wait and eventually some guy will come along and put all the effort into forming relationship.

I don't really think its fair but lots of things in life aren't fair. Its just how it is. I accept my fate.

>>24505822
by the look of your nipples I think you have gyno

>>24506743
id be inclined to agree due to pessimism, but the nipples themselves are fairly shallow and follow the curve of the fat present whereas gyno pushes the nipple out

as i go down in bodyfat ill know for sure

31/m

A combination of low self esteem, lack of opportunity, and naivety.

I've been wondering if at 31 I've just missed the boat for sex and relationships. Even if someone is interested in me, once she finds out I'm a virgin at 31 who's never been in a relationship she'll either be disgusted or disappointed and she won't want anything to do with me anymore. I imagine most girls are expecting someone my age to have a certain amount of sexual experience. I don't really have any hangups about sex, but I don't know how many girls would be patient with me while I get caught up.

I don't meet a lot of people either. I don't really see anyone outside of work besides a few friends. I go to concerts on occasion but I feel weird being one of the only people there by themselves. I have a Tinder but it was difficult to find five photos of myself to put on my profile.

So in essence, I don't meet a lot of people and even if I do meet someone, I have no idea if I'll be accepted as an adult virgin.

Looks-wise, I'm 5'7", but otherwise fairly average. I've been told I'm attractive and told I'm unattractive, so eye of the beholder, I guess?

>>24505575
Sounds pedo as fuck to me

>>24504345
>fear of physical intimacy
>no real sexual urges until a year ago
>don't get out enough
>too tall
>mix of social anxiety, social incompetance, and resting bitch face means people often tell me they think I dislike them
>too picky
>most of my friends are the opposite sex, and I'm usually surrounded by them when I *do* go out

27 male here.

Virgin because I am in general a boring person. Never an out-and-about person in my life, so not too many chances to encounter woman. Also, not rich, not good looking, not interesting, working an average job probably doesn't help.

>>24504345
Because my first girlfriend died in a car crash and it has been a slow sad slide into depression ever since.

>>24506242
https://fetlife.com/users/4039243/posts/3207351 you should read this story I wrote. It's anti humiliation if that makes sense.

Like others, I'm shy and have really low self-esteem. My face is oily and acne-prone, and it makes me extremely insecure to the point where I don't like people looking at me or making eye contact.

I've dated guys in college but always end up getting rejected due to my shy/timid/insecure/boring personality.

>>24506657
Same here. Even though the weight loss isn't going to change much for me, it's pretty fun seeing my face starting to look better!
Good on you losing the weight and getting healthier because it's a huge step not everyone has the will to do.

>>24506209
When I go out, I'm usually in the process of getting drunk off my ass, and sometimes talking to people. I would probably act that way if a girl is being unusually forward showing their interest in me. in that case, I hope you like awkward silences, because I'd probably freeze the fuck up.

From my youth till about age 16 I really didn't know what sex was. Never went further than macking on a girl.

16 - Cancer, become really depressed.

16-22ish - Couldn't even talk to people I was so anxious.

22-27 - Kinda ruined myself, put on about 150 lbs. Not really anxious anymore but can't find the will to change myself. Have body image issues and don't want to just hook up with some girl.

no self esteem, don't put myself out there, been alone so long the idea of it being any other way is weird. my social skills are not great and ive become complacent.

21/m/aus

I am very moody person, overweight and only started dating this year. so it looks like I won't be losing it anytime soon.

>>24507429
>22-27 - Kinda ruined myself, put on about 150 lbs

How do people do this? I do nothing but eat until I'm full 3 times a day, drink 3-4 bottles of wine a day and sit in my chair/bed and my weight doesn't change.

>>24507519
wow its almost like people have different levels of metabolism

>>24504351
wow, you look like you pick up ladies every night at the bar or something. guess I shouldn't judge by looks anymore
>>24505592
kek what is this porn I've wanted to know for ages

>>24507525
Yeah that's not how metabolism works. Unless you've got something wrong with you the difference is at most + or - 400 or calories metabolised on average.

>>24507519
You probably don't eat the same kinds of foods. Chips and sugary junk don't keep you satisfied, so your body starts to crave more and more as if it's starving. You're not getting adequate nutrition while also consuming foods that are very calorie dense.
Maybe you're also a giant.

18 and in college, undeclared. Been in a few relationships, but they didn't last long. They were all years ago now. I'm slightly awkward and somewhat out of shape (not fucking huge or anything but got a bit too much pudge in the stomach). I can hold a conversation a good portion of the time. If we are talking about anything I have interest in I could talk for hours, given that it's a conversation and not one sided on my end.
My biggest problem though is that I generally don't have any romantic interest in most people. I'm not against the notion or anything, I just know what I like. A girl's appearance isn't exactly too important to me. I need to have some semblence of a sexual attraction but I'm not too picky. It's all about who they are as people. I just find most people I meet are either too shallow, dumb, or manipulative. I'm in no way asking for perfect, but I won't bother if I'm not going to enjoy it.
I've wanted to do dating sites but I am not super attractive, though I've been told I had a cute face, this was a few years back though so it could have easily changed. I'm somewhat akward and completely inexperienced (My longest relationship lasted about 2 months and the most we did was hug. Over the past fewyears I wondered if it was out of pity or someshit, she was the type who might have done that. To be fair to her it was early highschool where I was cringy as fuck.)

So essentially, I'm too picky for how little demand there is for someone like me.

>>24507556
400 calories is a lot though...
That means some people could eat an extra big mac a day or several bowls of cereal, or a big slice of pie, or a decently sized bowl of ice cream etc... without gaining weight while someone else would. 400 calories is 20% of your daily requirement. If some people can eat that much extra without gaining while others have to eat that much less not to gain, that's pretty huge.

Imagine having breakfast, lunch and dinner with someone else every day and they get to snack inbetween or have a big dessert at the end but you don't. You're saying that this could realistically happen but fail to see how some people could easily put on weight?

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>>24504345 (OP)

Yeah I'm a 23 year old kissless virgin. It's not a great feeling. The bitterness and resentment from years of isolation is starting to get to me. I don't really know why I'm this way. If I had to venture a guess I assume it's a mix of being below average looking, slightly shorter than average, and a boring/timid personality. That's just unacceptable in today's dating world I surmise. Looking back I probably did have chances but I was just too cowardly and oblivious to act on them.

Furthest I've gotten is three dates with a cute redhead just a few months ago. Got her number randomly from a friend of hers who tried to set us up. She said I didn't do anything wrong and she just wasn't ready for a relationship but that's obvious bullshit. Due to having zero experience up until then I'm certain my nervousness was readily apparent. I had no confidence left at that point and for good reason. Still have none today. I guess I can't blame her for not wanting to be with someone inept like myself.

I remember when we were on our second date watching a movie and she leaned against me on her couch. Maybe I was supposed to try to kiss her there or something. I don't know, but I do know that moment was the best I had felt in fucking years. God damn it...People were not meant to live like I do. It does things to you. It's zapped me of the little confidence and satisfaction in life I had to begin with. I don't know many people, but I'm the only one I'm aware of in a similar predicament. It's a lonely hell I live in, and I fear it's a vicious cycle I'll never be able to escape. I suppose I'll likely buy a hooker soon to escape the virginity label, but it's not about that anymore. I just want a connection with a girl that extends beyond platonic friendship, but I'm losing hope of that with every passing day. I honestly don't know if that's possible.

At this point I'm pretty sure I'm only a virgin because I don't go to functions where I'd meet girls, and because my adolescent autism led to me cockblocking myself continuously in highschool.

I'm not a narcissist by any means, but I'm confident in my looks, am a big hit among people with senses of humor, not afraid to talk to women, etc. I just haven't had an opportunity in the period of time that I've managed to unfuck my life.

>>24508031
Keep it at man. You're cute. Use a dating site. Ask for cuddles, eventually if they like you can move quickly to kissing or sex. Trust me you got this.

>>24504351
>I have a crushing need for affection and i swear it's going to kill me one of these days.
When you don't go for cock, your life is on the clock.

>Not in university or I could just approach randoms on campus.
>My above average coworkers all have boyfriends.
>Low income family so harder to maintain social life w/o job.
>Dating websites seem like a chore and girls using them are flaky.
>No young people in my neighborhood.
>No sex when you live with parent and siblings in a small apartment.
Somewhere out there - there is a sex deprived girl that's waiting for the right guy until she turns 25 and chooses to settle down with some fat fuck. That fat fuck will be one of you guys.

>>24504345
well, i dont know how i should phrase it. i had my one and only relationship about two years ago when i was 16, we understood each other really well, had similar hobbies...i felt loved once. we made out alot but it never came to sex, even though in retrospective i probably couldve had sex with her. she then broke up with me after like 6 months, what threw me back emotionwise and made me delimit myself from everything cause i didnt knew that kind of feeling of rejection before...
im 18 now and im shy, i have low self esteem, im probably ugly (im most of the time the worst rated guy in rate threads lately) and too heavy for my height (108kg i think, dont have a scale but i lost abit since i moved out, 185cm) and im not the 'lets go for a drink' type of guy, at least most of the time. i dont have a life to tell anyone about, im not really funny i assume and i feel like a burden to anyone who im doing something with.

26 and kiss and hugless. I don't really know. Sometimes I feel like a big ass kid. I act adult when appropriate but most of the time I'm just fucking around and having fun.

>>24507291
Thanks, it's been pretty hard but I keep at it. Lost 50lbs from pure diet, now I'm doing cardio to lose around 15lbs more before hitting the gym. I feel so much better, people say I look much better, and it's nice to see my super fat clothes being too big for me.

Low self esteem
Low confidence
Not a fit body
Not interested in hook ups and casual sex
Everyone i know is in a relationship or isn't interested in one
Cant flirt for shit and i find flirting cringy
I live with my parents
Introverted
Don't like putting myself out there and dating sites are garbage
I live in the countryside and there's only small cities/towns around here
I'm not in uni and everyone at college is young as fuck

>>24505822
your not in that bad shape but your nipples might put people off a bit desu.

>>24504345
because dad sexually abused me as a little kid.

so i guess technically i was among the first to lose virginity?

>>24504345
>>24510033

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Hello fellow KHHV regulars.

When I left the house today I had to walk around squinting because the sun was too bright for my hikki eyes.

>>24510162
oh, its you again. saw you in alot of rate threads. what are you doing here and what the hell does khhv stand for?

also, youre really pretty, wouldnt believe if you told me that youre still a virgin

>>24510162
Thems is dicc-succ lips. You're hot, what are you doing here?

23 year old male here.

Im totally normal so I assume its only how I look. Nobody thinks im handsome or cute here either.

Is anyone home alone and lonely tonight on a Saturday night near halloween?

>>24510613

Me. 23 year old straight male lol. Only ever hugged a girl :(

>>24510089
Once again I bump my shameless blogpostig over here.
Any thoughts?

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18, hugless handholdless kissless virgin thanks to this shit https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant_personality_disorder

>>24504345
>>24504345
I'm waiting to get married, is just that after watching a lot of porn I feel like doing it with someone just because you're horny doesn't seem like something nice, specially the morning after when you wake up and you're lonely or next to a person you don't really like. I'm just guessing it must be kind of like how you feel after masturbating a lot.

20 year old virgin here

>short and skinny
>addicted to cigarettes
>spent my high school years awkward as fuck
>not that good at first impressions
>used to always look and dress like shit
>5/10 at best
>depression
>clingy

I find myself a pretty funny and an interesting person. I have several hobbies that some would consider cool or Interesting. I've been playing drums since I was about 7 years old, I'm not a prodigy or anything but I know my way around a drum set. I think one of my biggest problems is intimacy. I've never been really close with anyone, nobody knows my story, I honestly don't even know it as ridiculous as that sounds. Its hard for me to get close with people and I don't think I ever will. I envy people who can tell anyone anything and everything.

I've been real close to getting laid. Over this past year I've become really close with this one girl. We share the same exact hobbies and that's how we connected. Similar personalities too, before our friends introduced us they said she was basically me as a chick.

This past summer was one of the best of my life, at least half of it was spent with her. I've had this girl completely naked in my bed, I've fingered her and ive sucked on her titties but when I tried taking it farther she told me to stop. We spend a lot of time at each others houses and cuddle and spoon and sleep together all the time. But she still hasn't let me fuck yet, it really hurts my self esteem too.

Im trying to remain optimistic. If this doesn't work out I may just give up on woman all together

Never made the effort and no one has shown interest.
23 now, going on 24

There are 0 people in alameda who are looking for sex, that's pretty much it

I live in a small village where im pretty much the only gay guy, the nearest town is full of dickheads and i have trouble getting close to people :/

>>24505931
Pretty much this
Although I'm not that scary of rejection. Is a little easier to ignore once you get rejected a couple if times

For years, I've always been incredibly embarrassed and shy about sex, flirting with girls, or just pushing conversation towards a more sexual nature. I don't know why I'm like this, but I think I'm a little better at it now. I used to be incredibly socially nervous, and hardly spoke to anyone, but since I started working, I've managed to come out of my shell more and start conversing with people, though I can't say I really have any friends that I talk to.
I wouldn't say I was bad looking, and I think there's been a couple of girls in my life who would probably have slept with me if I could have just got over my embarrassment of sex. I'm 23 now, and honestly I wouldn't say I was desperate at this point and I'm mostly comfortable with it. I think if I lost my virginity, it would have to be with someone that I'd known for a while and was comfortable around and I felt that they were understanding of my situation, because if it was just a random hookup, I'd feel so embarrassed

>>24510944
Have you asked her why she doesn't want to sleep with you?
Tell her how it makes you feel, but don't be selfish about it like "you're hurting my self esteem because you don't wanna fuck me"

>>24512395
I don't know, maybe she doesn't want to fuck a virgin. I'm not going to ask that, seems pretty beta to me.

She is staying at my place tomorrow and the next day so hopefully I can get something going

>>24512483

You should just ask her about her opinion on sex in general. It does strike me as a bit odd that she doesn't want to have full on sex when you've done so much already.
Has she ever performer sexual activities on you? Like a handjob or oral sex?
And are you sure that the two of you are actually bonding romantically, and not just as friends? If the feeling isn't there for her it might be that she doesn't want to have penetrative sex with you, even more so if she's a virgin too.

>>24512497
Hasn't done anything to me. She is definitely not a virgin. I feel like any time there is some sort of sexual tension she shoots me down even if she is the one brought it up. Like I'll say "fuck you." She replies with "yeah you wish." I'll something back and shell just leave it at that and change the convo.

She loves to tease me about being virgin as well. It really pisses me off that she flirts with me a lot but by the end of the end she really doesnt seem that interested. Shes very hot and cold with me sometimes

>>24512509

She might just be fucking with your feelings man. I've talked to women like this. They know you are longing for them and don't really want to give you relief or commit to a relationship.

>>24512525
I've been trying to lay back a bit lately. I feel like I was coming off as too thirsty before. I've really become an asshole as of lately because of her, she really stressing me out. She always call me a jerk, asshole or a dick which I don't think is a bad thing.

You may be right I'm seeing her tomorrow so well see how it goes and maybe I'll have a decision to drop her or not.

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>>24504345
Because im beta asf,too shy to make a any move with girls,kinda socially awkward,introvert.

>>24512534
If she's messing with you like that, just drop her. Tell her that you want something more, and if she's not willing to commit, just leave it. Don't put her on a pedestal, otherwise she'll abuse you for it

18 and can't talk to women, plus there's absolutely nobody in my area who I would care to date at all. I'm super picky and most roasties don't spark my attention.

Crippling depression isn't too great to have when you're trying to get laid, too. I have that and social anxiety.

I'm extremely shy and asocial with huge inferiority complex.

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Every woman I've been interested in was either taken or a self-absorbed whore. It's hard to find someone who's in this entire city, let alone try to start a discussion with one.

I'm also awkward as fuck and have crippling social anxiety. Women tend to hate that shit, so I doubt I'd get very far with a woman if she was single.

>>24504345
Being ugly, stupid and weak in certain ways, and peoples' ideas of you hyperbolizing these negative traits.

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Guys, help me

I'm a 24 year old virgin who just convinced a girl to meet me. She came to my house and we kept talking for some hours, watched a movie and slept (without kissing)

When we woke up I went for the kisses. I suceed but she was not being very complacent. She kept saying we were friends and that she wasnt in the mood for sex. She was laying in my bedroom so I kept pushing until I was able to remove her bra and suck her tities. I also licked her pussy (I need health advices on this btw) but I wasn't able to keep erection and didn't fucked her.

This was my second date with a girl. At the beggining of this year I decided to definitly lose my virginity and I called a hooker to my house too. Again, I could not mantain an real erection to fuck her.

I tried to lose my virginity twice and failed, this is pathetic. Worse then that, after having sex with these girls I tend to get in a bad mood, ie: like I will get some disease from those chicks (this really worrys me).

After what happened yesterday I wont ever do it again (calling random chicks to fuck). It is pointless, I wont fix my personality or my lack of social skills just by kissing or fucking random girls.

>>24512822

Guys, if you ever think of going out with random girl to just lose your virginity I say you should be careful. It may not go as you plan. It's very different from watching porn and jerking off at home. Even the image I pictured for years of a girl laying naked in my bed was not sufficient to give me a bone...

For the experienced guys out there, how do you deal with the fear of having diseases? (besides using candom)

The biggest mistake I made was to put my self, my body and my life in danger by having sexual relationship without protection.

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Not a virgin, but I'm guess I'm pretty lonely I guess. Never had that connection with someone.

>>24510906
Are you taking any meds?

Just lost my V last night :) It was amazing for a first time. She sucked me off, deepthroated me, let me fuck her size GG tits and we did 69 and I fucked her doggystyle all in one go!!! i fingered and thumbed her alot while she was in doggystle position too and then she sucked my thumb it was amazing omg. if only i'd done anal too and it would have felt complete haha

>>24512922

Nice man! How old are you, who was the girl and is she hot?

I just started talking with a girl last night who knows I'm a virgin and she wants to have sex. The only negative is we won't be able to meet up for a few weeks to a month so there are a lot of ways this could not happen. Like you I wanna do everything sexual at once and she said she's down for anal. Might as well check off most of the sexual boxes since I have no idea if this will happen again anytime soon.

>>24512922

Congrats bro. I'm happy everything went well for your first time.

>>24512911
I feel this.

Engaging with someone is so painfull and draining. Mantaining a long term relationship is far worse for me (even with just regular friends)

>>24512936
Use candom

>>24512948
I have friends and all that. Not many friends who are girls, I just feel really lonely. It's hard seeing people have that connection, when you just don't.

I just feel lost.

>>24512953

I've given some thought about this. I think we first need to find a connection with ourselfs before being able to maintain a sustantable/durable relationship with anyone.

If we aren't happy with our own lives, how our future partner will feel happy for us?

I tought I could achieve this by removing my Virgin label, or atleast a path to a better life, but what I found was my true self.

Fat, poor, low social skills, low motivation, small dick, low self esteem. I'm already 27 and there is no saving at this point, no women will take a 27 year old small dick social retard who sucks at bed.

>tfw pretty much everyone in this thread looks alot better then me but didnt get laid
it doesnt even make sense to try if you people failed...

>>24513146

I guarantee I'm uglier than you.

>>24513169
dont take a bet you cant win.

>>24513095
Yeah you are right, I just don't how to connect. I've done a lot of things to fill a void. I don't like this feeling, it's horrible.

>>24513169
>>24513170
pics or stfu

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>>24513220
the angle is everything but perfect but editing doesnt make me more pretty irl so there you go

>>24513213

Have you tried sports/gym? I found exercising as a very good way to relieve stress and calm the mind. Plus you gain muscles and more resilience

>>24513525

>those empty eyes

Put a smile on that face and you'd be another person

>>24513547
yeah, alot of people tell me that my eyes are kinda dead, do they tell you anything? always wabted to know that...
dunno, smiling really doesnt fit me. i feel suuuper uncomfortable to force myself to a smile as it also looks weird.
>tfw i cant grow a beard cause im too young and my hair is shit because of bad genes

>>24513572

They reminded myself. Months ago in a moment of stress crisis I shut down myself to everyone and I took a similar photo of me.

I'd say you need to force yourself to socialize more. Depriving yourself from people wont help you with anything. We can see that you don't know how to smile, that's why you need to practice it by socializing.

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You are the company you keep. Being around bad people creates a lot of mental issues. It snowballs from there.

I don't care about virginity. I used to when I was younger and more sexually frustrated. I'm still young, but it wasn't an issue once I became mature and rational. I used to be infatuated for months with someone just because they looked at me once. It was bad. I care about having a relationship. Someone that I love and is my other half as they say.

It's slowly getting better and I'm slowly feeling better about myself. In some situations I'm still bad because I've been put down my whole life. Especially by my family. You think that wouldn't mess with your mind, but it does. I like to believe they didn't intend for it to be malicious and genuinely did it to try and help me, but that's not the way I took it. It sure didn't help.

For example... I drive perfectly fine alone. Actually, I don't have any issues at all. However, when I'm with my family I panic and can't drive properly at all. You know what I mean? Due to this I've had issues in most things and I've had to retrain myself. So, whenever I try to talk to someone my mind panics. It happens whenever I do anything in front of people. I can't even open a bottle without panicking because I begin to remember always being put down and my mind keeps repeating oh you can't do this you're going to fail stop and all that which messes up my flow.

You get the idea. That's why. I would like therapy, but my family has a field day fucking with me now and if I admit that I need therapy I'll never hear the end of it. I'm sure they have their own issues too, but I'd rather die than to admit something like that to my family.

>>24513525
At least you don't have acne
22 years and I still have to deal with this shit of people looking me weird

>>24504345
Below average to average appearance (as rated by /soc/), habitual inability to express romantic or sexual interest, didn't get out enough to have a solid group of friends male and female.

Because I'm not likable

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>>24504345
No girl has ever wanted to with me, and that's pretty much the only explanation. I'm outgoing and have a pretty large circle of friends including friends who are girls but every time I try a dating site or hitting on someone when I go out I get rejected in varying ways. I'll still keep trying but I'm a few months away from taking a break from it all and just focusing on academics and lifting

>Tfw you're 6'5" tall and still can't get laid. Height is a meme.

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autism

I'm in my late 20's, I suppose some of the reasons why I'm still a virgin is that I had very very little social interaction in my teenage days.
I was very shy and retracted.
Afterwards I had very secluded interactions with people mostly men.
I never made very many female friends mostly due to the fact that I never knew very many women at all.

I will say I have a job that most women find very intriguing when I tell them about it, but I can almost never seem to harness a romantic allure about it in my favor.

I've been on a few dates off of internet sites here and there, but it never leads anywhere.
I've been in a long-distance relationship to a very loving and beautiful person, but you can probably imagine how that turns out.

I do find myself getting very lonely from time to time.
I'm not to worried about just having sex for the sake of itself.
I'm interested in having a serious and long-lasting relationship.
I don't just want a wife, I want a partner in life.
I want someone to build and raise a family with.
I want to have a couple of kids and teach them how to hunt and fish, taking them camping and hiking.
I want to teach them how to play ball and maybe coach their team.
I want to impart what little wisdom I have of the world on to them and tell them not to become jaded in life.
I want to see them grow up to be a fine young man or woman, to find happiness and joy in life.

And many times I fear none of those things will happen, for my ability to allure and make Impressions on women is very lacking.

>>24514155
Do you go to many house parties? Assuming you do, if you find yourself having a good chat with a new girl, break away and move on to other people. If you find she follows you at all you're pretty much in. After the second or third time you're talking again just lean and kiss her. Hook up for a bit, suggest going upstairs, fuck.

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I'm 19, turning 20 in about a month. To be honest, I just don't care about getting laid. Sex isn't really important to me. I just wish I could find someone to love. I've never really dated anyone before. I've talked to and hung out with plenty of girls before, but it's never progressed into anything romantic. I've been fucked over and lied to multiple times and it's lead me to have a hard time trusting people. I've tried different dating sites multiples times over the past couple of years and haven't had any success. Almost zero girls talk to me on dating sites, even when I try to message them first. At this point in my life, I don't even have friends. I've even given up on dating a few times to focus solely on friendships and I haven't had any luck with that either. Any time I get close to someone, they die or disappear on me for whatever reason. I feel like life just hates me and doesn't want me to be happy. I don't care about sex. I just want love and friendship. Or at least just someone to fucking talk to for once but I guess that's asking for too much.

... Yeast infection

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because im an ugly fuck and mainly uninterested in todays millenial women who only likes to drink, party and being a total degenerate.

>>24516342
But drinking isn't degenerate. Alcoholism has been a proud tradition of the English upper class for centuries. So stop your moaning and have a glass of port.

It's a combination of things. I'm very shy and not very social in the first place. Working retail + going to Uni sucks out time so when random opportunities for parties crop up I tend to not be able to go. So then I dedicate free time to playing video games.
Add in being 25 and fat and it's a perfect storm of self loathing and never getting anywhere. Even if I am loosing weight that doesn't really help any other issues with myself.

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Happy Halloween everyone! Pls reblog my art if you have a tumblr: http://opalcocoon.tumblr.com/post/152390281156/this-piece-is-on-sale-for-20000-us-private

>>24516577

Oh can you just fuck off already?

>>24506841
Are you from Greece by a chance?

Virgin cause, I don't know, never been in the right place or right time. Thought it'd be easy to lose at college but it's been far from easy. Probably because air don't drink, smoke, or go to parties where the above is present.

>zero romantic experience
>don't know how to meet homos without using a dating app in e.europe
>afraid of going limp/not enjoying it
>don't want sex without emotions

>>24516789
being a turboqueer in Slav country sounds scary

like just trying to get some tender warm bp could get you beaten or murdered couldn't it

>>24516800
>like just trying to get some tender warm bp could get you beaten or murdered couldn't it

No, not really lel (I don't live in Russia or Ukraine) there are loads of people using gay dating apps looking for a quick fuck but I don't want that.

I'm not really afraid of anything, it's just the fact that I literally don't know where to find other gay dudes.

There are a few gay clubs but I don't think I'd feel comfortable there.

I think I'm pretty ugly. And I have an off putting face. Big nose, thick eyebrows, dark sunken eyes. I'm constantly told I look older then I am (19, but look much older). I can't smile properly in photos and such. I've been on a bulk so I'm getting rather fat but that isn't a big deal. However, younger I was obese and it kinda fucked me up. My hair is also thinning a bit in the front

Personality wise I'm rather shy around strangers. I'm actually pretty friendly but in an awkward way. Also told I'm funny but that's only if I'm comfortable. I like nerdy shit like comics and video games and it's kinda hard to talk to girls about that shit so I come off as rather boring with zero passions. It's kinda why I'm somewhat hesitant to use online dating cause idk what I'd put as intests.

In terms of experience I was an idiot and had a oneotis for 5 years. I kept thinking it would work out and believe it or not it seemed to be turning around earlier this year. Then she decided we'd better not. She was my first kiss I waited so long, did manage to kiss some chick at a club but I didn't pursue that.

I've been feeling pretty down recently so that doesn't help matters...

>>24517125
Oh and also appearance wise my forehead kinda goes over my nose a bit making me look like a caveman if that makes sense. I think it's the excess weight from my childhood or something...

>>24504345
I've never really been one to chase after girls. I guess I've just hoped they'd come to me but that clearly hasnt worked.

>>24513525
???
you look completely average, now just fix your hair

>>24504345
Because I'm black, gay, ugly, fat, and a social failure. I can't drive and won't any time soon. I have awful social anxiety and self-esteem. The only people ever attracted to me are gay black guys online and I don't find them attractive at all.

>>24516769

Murica.

Dodgy teeth = 0 confidence. Go figure.

>>24508031
Iktf. 21 btw.

Because I am socially retarded. I need your guys advise though. My friend is trying to hook up me with a girl that he met on tinder and use to sleep with. He said they are just friends now.

This seems like a really weird situation for me. What do you guys think?

>>24521371
Go for it, least u got somethin in common xD

>>24504345
because if i never become a man i will never have to accept responsabilities

>>24504345
If I only fucking knew man. It seems to have just... never happened. Never went out with any girl in high school and didn't go far with any of the girls I went out with in college. Closest I ever got to sex was the time I drunkenly fingered and made out with a friend's girlfriend (they broke up (It wasn't just me there were other guys), we stayed mostly friends). I sort of try to meet new girls whenever I go out but I somehow screw up whenever they show any interest in me. I'm 23 years old.

>>24521440
Seriously though is that weird or is it just me? He still hangs out with her.

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1. I'm bredy autistic

2. I'm not attractive. More specifically my hairline is fucked up.

3. I've realized what I ultimately desire doesn't exist so I can't be bothered

I think I'm a virgin cause I've got great friends actually (21 yo). The last 5 years I've basically spent almost every single day in the company of friends, online, at the gym or just hanging out, and I've honestly never felt like I needed anything else. Now a few of my friends are moving away to study and I've been starting to feel like I want someone. Could this actually be like the legit reason or am I just close to asexual?

>>24522189
>'ve realized what I ultimately desire doesn't exist so I can't be bothered
is it a luger

>>24523523
I meant ultimately desired as in something I'd fug (ie a biological female who also likes lugers/my other autistic interests)

Still working towards getting a Luger ofcourse friend :^)

>>24516577
sucking in your gut doesn't fool anyone

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-I like asian girls
-I don't try (being sheltered throughout all of middle and highschool, I have no idea how to move anything past friends)
-I want to move out first

>>24507225
A lot of guys are into girls with your personality type. Myself included. Most people aren't really boring. There's a lot that can be done to improve your skin.

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Huge courseload this semester, also work to pay the bills.

Doesn't help that I have no motivation to do anything else and get nervous in large group settings. I'm going through group therapy now which is good but I've realized at this point after 4 years of uni that I really don't care if I'm a virgin or not anymore.

>>24520421
You sounded a bit like someone I might know from a vidya I used to play. Was trying to get close to that guy because we are kinda same age. But I quit playing for my own sanity and lost contact with him

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Well, I've posted in these threads a bunch now. I'm not really sure why I still do it, but
>can't talk to people
>people can't seem to decide whether or not I'm ugly

>>24524427
upper half of your face = ugly
lower half of your face = average

hope i helped, sorry for being a dick

>>24504345
It's more fun teasing yourself with delusions of finding your perfect soulmate than being just another boring normalfag.

>>24524427
Above average. Shorter hair would suit you better.

>>24514207
I feel you man

>>24507225
How did you get passed your shy/timid/insecure boring personality in the first place to date people?

I'm not a girl but that is basically how I am as well.

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I totally can't figure out why.

>>24520421
Where in Murica?
I've always wanted to take a 30+ v-card. Like a fine wine ;)

>>24504345
>Virgins, why are you so?

i kind of dropped out of society when i was 20. i'm 29 now...

i dont want to be a wizard but it seems like i will be gaining wizard powers soon

21-year-old male virgin reporting in

I've made out with a couple of different girls but it never went anywhere sexual. I'm 6'1, attractive, hygienic, and well-dressed. I guess I'm just lazy- I never actually try with girls. In high school I kept to myself, and from 18-20 I was into hard drugs, so that probably didn't help things.

I did meet this cute girl on tinder last weekend. she straight up told me she wanted to fool around. we ended up meeting at a local park and making out for a while. she said we should save the sex stuff for when we're in private (makes sense, it was a public park and tons of people were jogging, walking their dogs, etc).
so on the bright side I might end up loosing it very soon. fingers crossed

>>24525387
Any chance you could post your tinder conversation or at least how you started it? I'm really interested in how people actually meet up with people from tinder.

>>24525234
>Average/pol/user.jpg

>>24525405
I started it out by complimenting on one of her pictures. We also knew a lot of the same people so we talked about that for a little bit- just average small talk. then she mentioned ho she thought I was cute, we kept talking, so I added her on facebook. she told me right away that she was looking for someone to fool around with. I said I was game, got her number, and we met up. It was really, really simple.

most girls aren't that direct, I just got kind of lucky. I've had dozens of tinder convos start out the same way but never go anywhere. there's no set way to meet someone- you kind of just have to get lucky. she's the only person I've ever actually met up with from there.

I'd imagine it works better if you're on a college campus or in a metropolitan area. I live in a pretty quiet suburb.

>>24525420
Damn. I live in the country outside a town. I tried it once before but I only had one selfie and no profile. I had a few matches and tried to talk with some but I had no idea what to say especially since none of them want to initiate a conversation. Most didn't reply and the ones that did, beyond a hi how are you, and compliment a picture of them, I am lost as to what to say and it just died out.

>>24525368
Same for me. Dropped completely around 24-25 and got into heavy depression. Now 29, I just don't know what to do with my life. Don't care about virginity (desu I never really did) there are bigger problems in life that I need to settle first.
I can't even think of having a relationship with anyone because I'm so ashamed of how much a loser I am. Can't believe anyone can love me because I don't either

I have too much work, sports and other shit to worry about it. Does it effect my attitude? Yes I does, I just feel incredibly lonely and like the first poster am desperate for someone who loves me, someone I can count on. That and my childhood was kinda rough and make s it difficult for me to warm up to people. I will post a pic if so requested.

>>24525416
what is that i don't play video games

>>24525537

Your on 4Chan and you don't know what /pol/ is? In short its the National Socialist board on this website.

>>24525234
Well for starters if u keep on wearing that hat, you'll scare off a lot of girls. College girls tend to be pretty liberal.

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Because I'm gay and I've never had a relationship with another human being. I've been alone for so long I've practically given up. Being gay also means I'm not going to just run into another gay dude who happens to like me and I'm way too boring to keep a conversation going through text or tinder or any of that social shit.
So the result is that I'm a 24 year old kissless virgin with zero intimate experiences under my belt which only makes me more reluctant to put myself out there due to fear that I'll embarrass myself.
Should I just end it all senpai?

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>>24525560
oh yeah, that sounds pretty lit

>>24525598
You're Hella cute.

>>24525598
Diamond in the rough.

>>24525703
>>24525723
Thank guys.
I know I'm not hideous or anything. I've just developed a fear of intimacy at this point and it's sucks.
I'm also not interested in hook ups due to that fear. I just want an attractive dude to cuddle and be close to. To watch shows or movies with. To play games with. To do anything with really... ;-;

>>24525769
Have kik?

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>>24525589
I got this hat today from a hot blonde college girl in a bra.

>>24525782
Yeah I made one a long time ago. My kik is sulysow

>>24525820
Lose the Trump hat and the Larger chain, both make you look like a douche bag.

>>24525598
Ahh stop being a pussy and making excuses. You know you're not bad looking (and I am a straight guy), just get on Tinder and go on some dates, get drunk and fuck a cute guy.

because i'm ugly as shit
my childhood fucked me in the head and the army service did even more damage
and with all of the meds the government put me on while I was in ruined my mind. it's impossible to talk to people and not want to kill myself without loading myself up with large amounts of benzos, hydro, or pregabalin.

back when I was stationed in texas in '11, I thought I would get laid around that time. it's been 5 years. I'm pretty certain that I will never get laid unless I pay for it, and I'm 100% certain that if I pay for sex, I will kill myself.

I guess all of the good news about this self-hatred is that it's been driving me to start working out again. I was pretty toned in the military. 5 years of being a self-hating fat shit will do things to you.

>>24508031
Dude chill, I can tell you why she probably didn't want to hang out anymore. I used to be a nice guy myself, but it seems that's not what most girls in out society today want. You would think they would want to date first, then have sex, but it's the opposite. I'm sure that girl was waiting for you to make a move, girls don't want to start dating you then find out you suck in bed or have a little wang lol. Either way, I suggest maybe going out for drinks with a girl next time, that will loosen you and the girl up. Then ask her if she wants to go back to your place and hang out (don't say netflix and chill, too strongk). Even better if you have your own place, invite her over to your place to hang out and have drinks, and watch a movie. If she rubs up on you like the other girl did, I don't suggest moving straight in for a kiss...kind of awkward...I would go for a rub on her leg or something (not super close to crotch at first), if she's ok with the rub on like the knee the move further up. Once she is cool with your hand on her leg within 2 inches of her crotch, then I would say its cool to try to make out. Once you are making out start rubbing on her crotch area on the outside, if she is cool with that dude then try to slide your hand in and start fingering her. At this point you either get stink finger and she will tell you she doesn't want to go further, or she will be really into it in which case you could go for the score. If you need someone to talk to I guess I could drop kik, I got you bro.

>>24525918
Btw that whole scenario is if you both have had a couple drinks, If you are completely sober, making a move like that on the first date may end in awkward failure. Unless you can tell she is really into you.

>>24510906
Well, I'm a girl and I'd love to meet you being completely honest

>>24516342
shut the fuck up. hahahahahahahahhahahahah "millenial women" your full shit. fuck face. your a virgin because your a pussy not because you dislike "millenial women"

>>24524137
It doesn't feel like there are, but I'll take your word and keep hope. What would you recommend? Mine is hormonal in nature and gets bad during a certain time of month.

>>24525229
A friend of mine worked with a guy who apparently thought I was cute and she tried to play matchmaker. We went on 4 dates but I think he was turned off by my shyness and inexperience. I met two others through dating apps.

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I'm mentally ill and I spend all day playing dark souls 3 pvp

Just kill me

>>24526038
but u are so cute!

>>24525598
wtf
you're insanely attractive

hit up some bars, download grindr/tinder, force yourself to get out there. It'll probably be awkward and a little uncomfortable at first, but you shouldn't have any problem at all. you're a solid 8-9.

>>24526089
I'm also mentally ill, unable to talk to people irl, and not gay.

Life is real despair.

>>24504345
because im an idiot that cant read signs

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>>24526038
oh sh*t it's the dude from push the button!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJDGcxAf9D8

>>24525598
texas?

pls be in tx

>>24526351
I could look like that guy probably. Have in the past, but generally gave up. No one around me even acts like a human being, and if I ever get in the elevator, I only get weird stares and insults if I try talking wew

>>24504345
5inch pencildick

>>24526362
elevators probably aren't the best place to start random conversation, unless you're naturally good at it.

t. learned the hard way

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Also might as well post. 20yo, aus.

Only really started dating 6 months ago, and thanks to that I'm no longer kissless. However, it still feels like I'm way off getting a gf and eventually having sex. Idk man, I mean I am tall and shit but at the end of the day it doesn't matter too much when you're always nervous and scared to initiate conversation.

In terms of looks, I used to think I was horrible, but I guess I'm average and I'll just have to work with it

/endblogpost

>>24504351
Stop being such a sad sap. I've learned to revel in rejecting everyone I encounter in public. You're not that awesome either, but you're not that bad too. So maybe a girl will tap you on the shoulder. Just stick to yourself and don't come across as needy.

>>24506242
>I want to be with someone who will appreciate me and will want to stay with me but I don't have high hopes of meeting someone like that.
I find this funny because I have absolutely 0 hopes of meeting someone like that. Every girl is secretly in it for the money, security and the superficial looks. Other than that it's just entertainment, comfort and competition.

It's hopeless, I've gotten too jaded and all the money in the world will just make me meaner.
Goddamn it, I'm going to be a professional time killer.

Thanks a lot therapist, I really accomplished a lot here. That's a joke.

Blah.

>>24526861
And now I'm filled with so much angst that I don't even want to be proven wrong.

The special access program sucks.

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>>24504345
24, m. Had very christian mother and dad who was out to lunch homeschooling me all the way up through high school. Everything I learned about sex was attained through my own means. Never had the talk. Never had any advice about women other than not having sex with them until marriage. Obviously, since I was homeschooled the dating pool was slim outside of hobbies and activities I did growing up. Never really developed that particular social skill at all. Every person I meet and befriend never guesses that I grew up homeschooled in the environment that I did, unless they see me try to flirt. Now, I am basically inept in that area, I tell myself I'm too busy finishing my degree and looking for a good job to start a relationship. I also think I have way too many issues due to my upbringing and family life that I haven't worked through yet. I wouldn't want to subject someone to that. It's mostly just fear though, and the longer I refuse begin fixing it the worse it will get.

22 male

never kissed

>>24526026
Is it something that runs in your family (genetic), or do you have an unhealthy lifestyle? Bad diet, not enough water, not enough sleep, no exercise, etc? Some people just need to flat out see a dermatologist.

Feel free to post a pic, or I can drop my kik or something if you were too shy.

Girls probably just dont like me/approach me even though I've been told im good looking. Really negative even though I try to be positive and things tend to not work out for me. More so, despite not minding most types of girls, my preferred type of girl is harder to date compared to other types of girls.

Never been in a proper relationship, only have had numerous failures and heartbreaks. Shy, though im trying to be more confident. Also kissless too. I can only hope one day the right girl falls into my life who ticks all my boxes.

Is seeing a prostitute a good way to lose virginity?
I wanted to follow the "no sex until after marriage" meme all the way, but I can't see that happening.

>>24527533
I honestly don't see why people don't think of this more often.

Honestly, your first time will probably be a disaster and full of nerves. This is a great way to get that first experience out of the way without feeling embarrassed. Just be safe about it, if you were to choose to do so.

Thinking about all the potential reasons makes me real depressed, I just want to know what it's like to be in love and lust with someone and have them reciprocate.

>>24526853
i love you man, thanks for telling it like it is. In my defense i was very sleep deprived when i wrote that

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20/m

To be honest I'm just a boring loser, I have no hobbies or interests, just waiting until I muster the courage to kill myself. No point in trying to fix something you have no control over :/

I despise myself

>>24504345
Autism