Ask the opposite gender thread

>>24394385
Hey guys. Whats up?

>>24394393

Not bad, lad, not bad. And you?

>>24394400
Im doing alright today. About to go get some tacos for lunch. Whats your favorite food?

>>24394402

Oh, wow. Good question.

My mother's mashed potato, probably.

>>24394385
I have a question for the men here. how often would you like to have sex when your in a committed relationship? and also would you like to still do some kind of crazy stuff, like how you would early in a relationship or would you like it if it was more vanilla after you've been together for a while?

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>>24394468
KV male here. I fap 2-3 times a day so assuming I won't get totally wiped out from sex, I'd probably wanna fuck once a day if it was available.

I'm a little confused by your second question, but I'd say I have a lot of fetishes but hopefully when it comes to actual sex, vanilla would be enough.

My question for the ladies: How would you take it if your man wanted to see you be more dominant in bed every now and then? I think it's really sexy when a girl takes charge, but it seems like nowadays every girl just wants to be choked and hatefucked by "Daddy"...

>>24394461
Fuck yeah. Good answer.

Alternative question for males: why do you come to this board? What kind of threads do you lurk here? What other boards do you go on? Do you follow any cam threads? If so, do you just lurk or do you interact and post too.

>>24394484
thanks for responding. I mentioned the vanilla thing because my sec life has gotten super boring and I wanted to know if most men get so lame at sex after they've been with a girl for a while. once a day would be great lol I'm down to like once a month if I'm lucky.

as for your question, I myself hate being dominant. don't want to call anyone daddy, but I do want to feel desired. like if im the one in control I don't feel wanted at all. more just feels like I'm forcing a guy to do stuff with me when he doesn't want to.

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>>24394502
I think you have the wrong idea about dominance, or at least don't see that there are many flavors of it.

She doesn't need to boss me around. But if she does, it's usually things I'd want to do anyway. If she says something like "eat my pussy" or "kiss my feet" she doesn't have to be man about it, she can just be like a sweet teacher telling the class of one what today's lessons are going to be. And I would eagerly do those things, because she's so sexy and I want her so bad.

I understand your take on it, and there are some female domme/male sub situations where it can be like that, but there are a million levels/ways that a woman can be dominant and still feel the want of her man. Not trying to convince you, it might just not be your thing, just elaborating.

>>24394522
see that makes sense, if it was something you'd do to her regularly without her asking. my guy would never do that stucf tho. I asked him to go down on me once but he just kind of laughed at me then said no. felt so embarrassed and stupid for asking. I'm a really submissive person in all things and kind of insecure. it was really hard for me to get the courage up to ask in the first place so being shut down that way really put me off ever asking for anything again. iv never been eaten out before and now I'm kind of worded out by the whole idea of it

>>24394468
at least 3 times a day, but usually like 4-5. Yes even after months of being together, Actually I like it freaky always but you usually have to ease the girl into it, so like vanilla in the beginning then gradually introduce her to new shit.

>>24394468

I have a high sex drive, despite the fact I practice respectably frequent bouts of abstinence and am still a virgin.

Had you ask me a couple of years ago, I'd have said multiple times a few days a week. After having my first few sexual experiences and finding them horribly disappointing, I can't honestly imagine myself having sex, so nowadays, I couldn't give you an answer.

>>24394491

I mainly lurk, occasionally post when the mood strikes me or somebody's said something so fucking stupid I feel compelled to offer a response.

Mainly, I enjoy these threads.

>>24394468
> how often would you like to have sex when your in a committed relationship?
If its a really fresh realationship i would say 4 times a week, after a month maybe 2-3 times but im ok with 1 time per week.
But i dont want to meet my gf every day, cause its fucking horrible and annoying to meet every day, so she must be ok with meeting 1 time a week or less.

>and also would you like to still do some kind of crazy stuff
Dont care really, im ok with vanilla, but if she wants get choked, fixed, punched or something like that i would do it, but its just for her, cause i havent really a fetish.

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>>24394541
>2016
>guy doesn't eat his girl out

Does he realize how lucky he is to have you??? Wtf. I'm genuinely shocked/disgusted at this. Not white knighting or anything...son. WTF. If he doesn't reciprocate head he's selfish. Most guys eould do it just because it's hot to them. And for him to laugh at you, like it's a ridiculous request? Lemme clue you in on something...

Most sexually active guys eat their girls out. An overwhelming majority. For him to be so dissmisive says a lot about him. Don't be silly and think you requested something out of the ordinary. Your sex life isn't just boring and vanilla, it's one-sided. I'm sure he's nice and sweet in other areas, but right now, your man sounds like a bitch.

>>24394468
Those are not question that can be generalized to be honest. Still, 4 times a week, 3 or 2 after a month. For the second question, depend on the girl, how "far" she want to go and how boring vanilla has become. But usually after a lot to be honest. Because i don't enjoy kinky stuff and because i have no experience and i'm afraid i'm too bad with those things.

>>24394468
>how often would you like to have sex when your in a committed relationship?
I'd be up for it every day, but with other commitments a few times a week is more realistic.

>also would you like to still do some kind of crazy stuff, like how you would early in a relationship or would you like it if it was more vanilla after you've been together for a while?
'Some kind of crazy stuff' for sure, but I would start to lose interest if the responsibility for it always fell to me.

Femanons:

How would you prefer to be approached by a guy for a date? Assuming that they're passingly attractive and not rude or catcalling. I feel weird about approachongoing women in public because it feels like such an invasion of space and intrusive. Online dating hasn't been good for me and my two closest women friends both say they prefer to be in a friendship first and let it develop into something more but that feels so coercive to me.

And follow up question. If not approached in person how would you rather meet a guy interested in dating, preferably offline.

>>24394624
> they prefer to be in a friendship first and let it develop into something more
That sounds like they need a betaorbiter just for the attention and get fucked by another guy, while you think they really want to develop into something more.

>>24394555
he's just said that's what the bitch dose, like I get that I guess. like I give him head almost every day and I'm submissive to him. it's not even really about doing that exactly it's more just the way he completely shut me down. like he never wants to have sex either just get his dick sucked. idk makes me feel really unwanted. kind of seems like he just uses my mouth as a substitute for jurking off.

>>24394632
Ever think about break up with him and get a guy who gives you what you need?

>>24394632
If this isn't bait, leave him. Why are you with him?

>>24394639
no were married and have kids so it's not as simple as just braking up. am I doing something wrong to make him act this way? he was never like this before, just the past like 2 or 3 years it's gotten worse and worse

>>24394491
>why do you come to this board?
For the unfiltered social interaction.

>What kind of threads do you lurk here?
Whatever piques my interest. Things that aren't kik or dicks.

>What other boards do you go on?
My use of other boards is waning, but I'll still occasionally visit /a/ or /fit/.

>Do you follow any cam threads?
/sbt/ and /flt/

>do you just lurk or do you interact and post too.
I interact a little, but I never engage in dirty talk, rarely make any requests and only proffer sincere compliments. I probably respond to anons just as much as to camwhores now that I think about it.

>>24394643
because we used to be happy together and its hard to just give my family life up.

>>24394701
>two, three, four, five, six, seven, b8, nine, ten
Try it harder.

>>24394711
>probably transphobic

Are you ASSUMING my phobias? Phobiaphobic scum

>>24394468
For me personally am okay with both a lot or not a lot of sex. (I prefer more but if my gf i s one with a low drive I understand.) I like vanilla sometimes and sometimes crazy. It's more communication with me.

For the ladies: is it bad to only want a fwb? I just am getting back out into dating and working some unresolved feelings so committing to serious relationship isn't something I can do at the moment. I mean I'm discrete about my dealings and don't show private photos. But is it bad?

>>24394468
so I have a pretty tight relationship here shes kinda far away from me so i cant fuck her as much as id want to but id want to fuck her every fucking day multiple times. and ye im in for crazy shit

>>24394648
Cool. Thanks for responding

>>24394740
Not its not bad to only want an fwb, but this needs to be communicated to the person(s) you're involved with. You don't want to send any mixed signals. And even then there is a chance for romantic feelings to surface. Keep communication open about your feelings and ask them to do the same.

>>24394468
Once a day is nice, although in my current relationship which has been going strong for 1.5 yrs now it can be a bit less often because we're both very busy with our engineering degrees

>>24394711
The degeneracy is strong with this one

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>>24394468
>how often would you like to have sex when your in a committed relationship?

i was having sex usually at least once a day and at max around three times. i think thats my ideal if possible

>and also would you like to still do some kind of crazy stuff, like how you would early in a relationship or would you like it if it was more vanilla after you've been together for a while?

implying im not already vanilla af

>>24394491
>why do you come to this board?

the sad hope of finding someone i connect with on a more meaningful level

>What kind of threads do you lurk here?

generally rate threads to talk shit about people without the fear of a lynch mob for speaking my mind in between spamming my kik everywhere

>What other boards do you go on? Do you follow any cam threads? If so, do you just lurk or do you interact and post too.

/pol/ and occasionally /b/ but its rare. i only interact if i really want to engage in a topic i enjoy or to shitpost for lulz

>>24394711
this faggot again. gtfo shill kike

my question to females (and it has to be really honest or else dont bother because i dont want sugar coated bullshit):

are my biases about women being deceptive, manipulative, lying opportunists GENERALLY true or am i really just a paranoid delusional nutjob?

pls respond

So I've told my ex bf that I'm still in love with him. We've broke up 9 months ago. His response was something like this "I'm not sure what's up in my head but I'd hug you to death." Then he disappeared completely.
Wtf

>>24394468
Once a day on the days we are together. Don't need to see each other everyday, plus a day or 2 in between makes it better.

Females. What are some of the more obvious signs to look out for while talking to a girl in person to see if she is interested?

>>24394468
It would depend on our schedule and my partner's mood. I'm really romantic so probably snuggles would suffice most of the time. As far as want it, I'd prefer something everyday and like a special let's actually plan this at least every other weekend. for the kink you need to know and learn your partner, I'm not really interested in doing stuff just I like too often, ideally though my partner and I would have some shared kinks.

>>24394491
I come here because I'm bored and out of familiarity, occasionally to find an online friend. I lurk more than I posts. I contactfag interesting people. I masturbate to the Camwhore threads, I occasionally gush over my favorites.
I make conversation in general when I want to contribute.

>>24395202
I'm big on being on the same page. I don't have an issue with being open about thing. I mean if I start to develop romantic feelings I would tell them. I would love to eventually date again I'm just not ready for that.

>>24395254
Hey /pol/lack.

Anyway, female here. As far as I have experienced? Women are complete bitches. The stereotypes about manipulative are about as true as you can get, and though even I try to not be a cunt even I seem to be far more able to manipulate if I just put my mind to it. Deceptive is pretty hand in hand with that. Liars, ehhh, some girls prefer to burst into tears, while others like to lawyer around the answer. I personally like roundabout and Socrates-style questions when I want to make a point. As far as opportunists go, there's really the distinction as far as what the opportunity is for. Different girls like different things, but if it's for something ya want, it can be difficult to not make doe-eyes and hope.

But, the girls on 4chan are probably less likely to be like this. /soc/ might be a "popular" board for edgier girls, but if you genuinely find a girl who is on /b/ or /pol/ or /v/ even, dare I wish, /k/ or /tg/... It's more likely they'll be like "one of the guys".

But then I'm a reject, maybe that's just how they act towards the outcasts.

>>24394624
Honestly, I have never really given it much thought. I guess what your girl friends are saying seems about right, but there's a pretty fine line before you would probably head into a friend-zone sort of scenario? Like, maybe wait a month, before dropping hints? And it's not really coercive, given that biologically women need to feel secure before they'll be likely to enter in a relationship. So just at least be friendly, even if you get turned down, because I can guarantee it'll be mentioned- along with your response.

I, personally, have been the one to initiate dates in the past though, so maybe I am not the best one to ask.

>>24395598
Open posture, consistent smiles, glances to see if you are looking at her, holding self "pretty" (butt back, breasts forward/ nice non-slouch posture, esp. if notices you looking), uncrossed legs, leans forward. More questionable are touching of face/hair, persistent looking. Definite nos are crossing arms, curled-in posture, crossed legs, turning away, frowns, repeatedly stops listening to do other things.

Why are so few women into submissive men? I'm having a hell of a hard time finding a girl into sph...

>>24395934
I was talking to her yesterday and we maintained eye contact most of the time, she was twirling her hair a bit, smiling a lot and talking about feelings

>>24395948
She's into u man

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>>24395902
That ever-elusive hypothetical /pol/ /k/ /tg/ qt gf that you would wife and then the two of you go /out/ with the kids.

>tries 2 get my attention via social media
>pretty much eachothers crushes
>she told me she liked me years ago
>haven't taled irl since middle school
>match on tinder
>Inittally responds
>drops me, i think(Still matched, fb friends no response tho)

Wat do? Gimmie insight. Double text? Ask to catch up?

Also im not some neckbeard. I gert rated on here 8/10 on average. I can't make sense of her actions

>>24395971
> I can't make sense of her actions
Girls...

>>24395948
She's into you man

as male is not wanting to get oral but wanting to give often a good thing? its a what I like thing but I fill like it comes off bateish. thanks much

>>24396296
Personal preference.

I don't think it's a good or bad thing.

>>24396306
thanks, got any questions I can answer back?

>>24396317
>>24395961

>>24396373
shut up bitch lmaoo

>>24394468
Sex maybe once or twice a week. I would like to enjoy some porn and masturbation daily on my own too.

>>24396373
I hate you but I agree, no one should be circumcised unless medically necessary.

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How to look better
My forehead is too big, right?

>>24395254
you're generalizing because you have no/limited experience with women.

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>>24394393
>Hey guys. Whats up?
It's 5am and I'm eating supper.
>>24394468
>how often would you like to have sex when your in a committed relationship?
I'd probably want it twice a day.
>and also would you like to still do some kind of crazy stuff,
Depends what you mean by crazy. I sometimes leave bruises during vanilla sex. I think if a relationship with me lasts long enough, someone is getting tied to the bed.
>>24394491
>why do you come to this board?
Fap fuel. Sometimes I try the hookup threads.

>>24394624
i guess just anything sincere. if there is a reason for asking me out its cool. if its literally the first time we are making eye contact and you ask me out im probably going to say no just because i have nothing to base it on. but something simple like "i liked talking to you, id like to get to know you better" or "i think youre attractive, would you like to go out sometime" blah blah
i dont do the online thing

>>24396874
it looks small 2bh

>>24395557
He was thinking it would be easy sex but then the regret from the relationship set in and he said fuck that

>>24394711
no you don't know anything, it has nothing to do with "clicking" were a married couple with kids, we definitely had to click to be together for as long as we have been. the issue is him being selfish dismissive and lazy. he still expects head every day but never wants to show me any kind of affection. he's gotten to used to me just doing what ever he wants. he takes me for granted. also there's no "dating expectations" because we are not dating.

>>24396373
haha someone had a tiny prcker and is mad lmao. don't worry kid that foreskin would have just made it dirty smelly ugly and still small

>>24394550
I would eat you out in a heartbeat. I love eating pussy as long as it is shaved. You do that and I would be there bib fork and spoon.

>>24397920
Oops that was in response to the girl never getting head lol damn scrolling

>>24396874
Your face is fine, you just need to get a better haircut and some /fa/ glasses, cause these make you look like an actual nerd

I'm asking women :

If you see a guy looking at you that you feel attracted to -- do you return the eye-contact and smile back or shy away from looking?

>>24398565
shy away, but typically i do that to everyone.

>>24396296
i would think it's odd. in my experience, guys who want to give oral but not get are usually into some sort of submission, which isn't my jam. or they say creepy shit like I CRAVE THE TASTE OF A WOMAN. for me, it's a bad thing, because i can't get off from oral, and i like giving head. other girls might disagree though.

>>24398621
Do they actually scream or caps lock it?

>>24398565
return

>>24396874
change ya haircut and glasses and probably clothes and youll become a fashionable sexy skinny boy although never my personal type

>>24396296
doesnt matter but equally being into giving and receiving remains the best variation

>>24395961
double text her but be straightforward. if no answer drop it and dont perservere

>>24394624
not online, not in public. NEVER a good choice unless its an exceptional situation. find a real social circle and talk with girls from that circle

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i just want a boyfriend

>>24398671
What do you look for in a relationship?

>>24397900

Hello. I read your questions and I will respond with my personal preferences and experience, but the honest answer for your particular situation is "your mileage may vary."

Not unlike a lot of men, I am a serial monogamist. I have had about 25 partners and I am married to my second wife. She and I have been together for 5 years and we have sex probably five days a week; I just came in her twice and we're planning on going out tonight... which I think will end in us having sex on a beach (even if it means messing up a dress and a suit).

My previous relationship/marriage ended when the sex rate fell to less than once a month. It's not all about sex, but it is about the abiliity to communicate physically. It was horrible to have that part of me (us) die, but I had to end it even though we had two children (who are adults now). Hate me if you want; I give her $4,700 in alimony a month to be a bitter, celibate husk.

In relationships, I enjoy pleasing my partner I don't ever want to be bossed around, but I want to know what would be amusing at the time. So I enjoy licking my wife from time to time, the Hitachi is always plugged in next to the bed, I always have a spare bottle of lube ready... etc. Except for "morning wood," which is usually remedied by just a simple fuck, every time I have sex involves some fantasy, so I am usually pretty engaged in the act. I regret that despite this, I feel like my relationships do become more vanilla over time, and I remember more anal, more MMF, and more risque behaviour in general. I have recently found a voice to discuss this with her in a non-threatening manner, so I think we are in agreement and working it out...

-----------------------------------

So yeah, if you stumble across an older man howling while he's ass fucking a slender young woman on the beach tonight, that's us & that's an illustration that sex can always be startlingly fun.

>>24398706
1) insightful conversation
2) partnership and collaboration that is mutually beneficial on many levels
3) awesome sex

>>24394385
Girls, why don't you love super hairy men? why isn't that a major fetish?

>>24398906

Lad, I've found this point to be completely secondary. If you don't make a big deal out of it, neither will she.

Theres this girl i've been trying to talk to for a month or so, and I still can't tell if shes into me. Any tips?

>>24398920
I'm more interested in why there isn't a fetish for it for women like how there is for gay men. But and thanks.

>>24398565
return! how else will i know if hes looking at me too? kek. if he is very cute and is exchanging glances then ill probably get a little shy and look away

>>24399007
i personally love hairy men. i dunno about /super/ hairy....
but the reason women typically dont like it probably has something to do with how we are socialized to hate body hair and to remove our own... we are taught body hair is gross and shameful and as adolescents we begin plucking our eyebrows and shaving our legs and armpits... if body hair was more socially accepted im sure more women would like it on men

>>24394385
Ladies, why does My smoke alarm keep going off? I try to keep covering the fire but then the tarp just catches

>>24399045
take the batteries out

>>24399048
Thanks, anon

So my gf has been reading these romance novels and makes a comment today about how all the guys have huge dicks. I kinda laughed it off, but thinking about it seems kinda rude. I'm average, have some busy dysmorphia, so it's been bugging me since. Am I reading into it too much?

Seems like it'd be the equivalent of telling her how much hotter her sister is or something...

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>>24394385
Ok, I've got a wee question for the women here.

Why is it that when I finally decide to commit to a woman (as in I say to myself "fuck it, I'm gonna take a risk and try to enter into something more meaningful with a woman for once") that they always turn out to be paranoid and possessive to the point of lunacy? Every girl for the past 4 years has been reasonably ok; however when I feel an affinity for one (I'm picky about that) they inevitably turn out to have "history" and problems with jealousy.

>>24395902
>but then im a reject, maybe thats just how they act towards the outcasts.
what did you mean by this? are you saying youre different than the average narcissistic attention seeking slut because you have different interests, etcetera and got rejected? do you honestly think this is the way to go? as in your opinion. theres also the whole "'one of the guys' type of girls are sluts" bit. what doest thou maketh of this?

sorry for the late response btw. apparently i rustled the jimmies of some cunt mod on here and got a day b&. but thanks for the response. its pretty much what i expected--women are generally repulsive creatures who cant help it. its kind of sad but its still better than living a lie. good thing im on no fap/exercise/eat right so i can dominate my impulses and not be a slave to a womb.

>>24397221
>you're generalizing because you have no/limited experience with women.
>no/limited experience
three serious relationships roughly lasting one-ish years each and several qts in between + female friends
>what are bell curves
>what are polls
>what are statistics
>what are stereotypes
>what is abstract thinking
>what is literature on female psychology
you forgot to add "loloooolol virgin neckbeard XDDD"

>>24398764
this sounds so fake, like some single guys idea of how marriage is. I'm sorry but I don't believe any of this is true lol

>>24399107
Does she know that you have body dysmorphia? Does she know that you aren't confident in your penis ( if you aren't ) did she say that she liked the big dicks or the idea? Or was it just the comment that her books constantly have bigger ones in there. Because it could have actually really have been an innocuous comment kind of like if they had all had red hair or all been named something stupid like comic book characters are.

>>24399020
Thanks for the answer. The social training makes sense. There was a time after all when Bert Reynolds chest hair was lusted after.

>>24398865
Hey I can provide 2 out of 3 of those things and 2 out of 3 aint bad... wait you said insightful, not insipid, I can still do the middle one.
But seriously, finding someone to talk to and trust is so hard. Thanks for answering and hope you find someone great.

>>24399496
Hey I'm a man and this is just an observation but people ( male and female) are less likely to admit to liking something unpopular. Even for kinks / fetishes, like nobody really wants to say I love ears in a sexual way. That's just an example I'm sure if you Googled ear fetish you could find some but it isn't popular is my point.
Be proud and hairy and someone will like it.

>>24399496
i think many women still find that sexy anon! good luck

Females: My girlfriend and I have been dating really long time and have been having amazing sex for years but it feels like we've kind of hit a wall. We want to explore different things and get creative, but I'm not really sure what kinds of things that are outside of the ordinary "vanilla" that she would feel comfortable with. She's really pretty shy and I don't want to make her feel awkward by suggesting something far outside of her usual comfort zone. She mentioned recently that she had a mff threesome before we dated and that she enjoyed it. She said she'd be willing to do it again, but I'm not really sure how to bring it up again without seeming desperate.

Females:

What is on your sexual bucket list? What have you achieved on that list?

I've crossed off 2 of mine recently.
Fuck a girl under 20 (I'm 34, she was 18)
Fuck a girl who identified as lesbian

Ones I have left include
Initiate a mff 3sum (without forward planning it)
Invited into a mff 3sum (can be planned)
Fuck a virgin
Fulfill my biggest fantasy with someone who isn't my partner at the time.

I keep adding to it

>>24398671
pls be my ai gf

>>24399559
Just ask her if she would be interested in another mff threesome, allow her to choose the other girl, make no suggestions or objections. Let her control the situation.

>>24398671
Go get one.

Post a pic so we know what you're working with. There is someone for everyone regardless of looks, mental stability, social skill or sexual interest

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Females: would you?

:(

>>24399821
I've always done anything I wanted.

I have a fetish for blowjobs so I asked my boyfriend to do the facial thing, it was really fun.
I asked him for anal, it was really fun too.
I asked him to like do that thing I'm not sure what you guys call, but when the girl lays their head on the end of the bed and the guy fucks your face (?), which I really liked as well.
I asked him to finger me while he was driving, which he did and was pretty fun too.
I asked him to let me give him a blowjob while he was driving after that, which he had no problem with and was fun as well.
Had sex with him in on the beach in new years in the dunes, it was super fucking kinky I loved it.
Other than that, not related to him I took the virginity of a couple of boyfriends I had, which I had the most fun doing and I guess that's it.

As far as something I haven't accomplished yet, because I don't know if I can actually do it and not get feelings of jealousy or any negative feels is to have a threesome with him ffm. I'm not sure how I feel about mmf, because it just sounds really difficult to do and probably not something he would enjoy. I have a bigger fetish for ffm.

>>24399829
I think it would be so much hotter if she chose the girl and took complete control of the situation.

>>24399165
jealousy is merely the fear of losing something you cherish. it sucks, but it is what it is. reassure her always, talk to her about her jealousy. if it gets really bad, suggest therapy.

>>24399862
You sound like my type, you'd probably enjoy spitroasting in mmf. If not, i wish i could find a female willing to do ffm.

>>24399872
>spitroasting
I'll have to google that hahahahahah I'll reply when I figure out what the fuck this is

>>24399881
Hahah! It's when you suck a guy and another guy fucks same time. I'm always open to talk more if interested too lol

>>24399872
Now that I know what it is, I think so. But it all depends on the level of respect, because my boyfriend respects me a lot, he doesn't treat me like a ho, only if I ask, with another guy, I don't know. It all depends on the level of respect.

Hey femanons, why should a girl ask a coworker if he is hungry and share food with him?
Just kindhearted or more?
Never really talked to her before.

>>24399890
For sure i understand! Nothing wrong with that at all.

>>24399862
That's good. Obviously doing what you want with a partner is a lot easier than with someone you just met.

Do you think you would have done half of that if it was just someone you hooked up with at a club or something?

I'd love to just hook up with a chick out drinking and introduce her to a female friend I know would be up for a 3sum. None of this worry about jealousy, none if the figuring out which female friend we want to include...

>>24399901
She is hungry

for your cock

in her mouth

No really she is probably just hungry for food

>>24394646
>>24394632
>>24394541
>>24394502
>>24394468
hahaha just realized this is kitty the camwhore with an iq about 85
fucking kek

>>24399907
But why she should share or even ask?
She could just eat everything by herself.
It feels... strange for me.

>>24399904
No, I don't think I'd do anything out of the ordinary with someone I just met, because it takes a lot of mutual trust for sex to be a fun experience. I like it better when there's intimacy and you can do anything and not worry if the person thinks you do this to everyone and you have no "value". Men can do that shit comfortably, but women get shit for it and I think that's what makes me cringe at the idea of doing anything out of the ordinary with a stranger.

>>24394385
would you gals fuck (or fantasised about fucking) an underaged male?

and are you a bit down that its becoming harder to get away with this?

Ladies,

Would ANY of you be willing to rate my dick? You don't have to send nudes back, but I'm insecure about mine and would like (honest) opinions

I've only ever had sex with one girl

>>24399937
ew, literally never

>>24399939
there are threads for this already
no

>>24399939
as long as your dick is 4-8 inches and not diseased they literally do not care at all. dick details are like #1000 on the list of things women consider.

whats the thing that makes you certain to be turned off by a guy?

>>24399961
if hes a pedo kek
very obnoxious and loud, offensive body odor, unintelligent, boring and lacking hobbies or passion, etc etc

>>24399923
Maybe she is being nice, maybe she is trying to make a new friend, especially if you don't talk to her often, maybe she is interested.

Use that type of interaction as a starting point for conversation.

Example:
Girl offers you a slice of pizza
You: Thanks, I love pizza but who doesn't right? Where is it from?
Her: Tells you
You: Oh they make pretty good pizza, my favourite pizza is from <Insert pizza place>. Have you ever tried pizza from there?

Take the conversation from there, who cares if you talk about pizza for 20 minutes, you're talking.

>>24399937
how underage? If he's like 17, I could. But if he's under the age of 17 I don't think I could. As far as fantasizing about it, no. not really. >>24399939
yeah, sure.

How do I encourage my big sister to quit being such an idiot and actually take care of herself

>>24399972
I was just wondering about the boy thing b/c you see so many threads for guys on the subject. I was wondering if women have the same kind of thing but if its secret.

I also said underaged but I was thinking more highschool, like 14-18.

>unintelligent, boring and lacking hobbies or passion
well that describes me, although I don't blame you. I wouldn't want a girl who was just gonna be lazy and boring. The sad thing is that I actually tried and went to university to study computer games design and it didnt work out, so now I am pretty aimless and unmotivated.

>>24399961
Too much hair. Like a hairy bearded guy. And not very good dental hygiene or table manners. Actually manners, overall.

>>24399994
Got a snap chat? Or would you rather me post it here? I don't want to clog,the thread with dick is m only concern

>>24400010
can you post it up on a dick thread and send me the link? I'll reply here. Then tell me the image file name.

>>24399932
That's why my bucket list doesn't include things that require trust in that level.

My bucket list is spur if the moment, one night stand things I want to do. It's basic stuff that is achievable but takes confidence to pull off

>>24400007
aw thats mean lel hairy fetish guy is gonna cry when he sees this
>dental hygiene
this one is so important, totally agree

>>24400005
eh sorry anon
do you have any other passions?

Do girls like curly hair?

>>24400014
You got it. I'll go take a fresh one

>>24400015
I thought of something that doesn't require any trust level and it is to be watched having sex. Other than that I'd also like to have sex with a girl and have my boyfriend watch it tied down or something. The girl isn't what gets me off, but the fact he can't fuck me or her, no matter how horny he is. Not even masturbate. I told him about that before hahaha He thought it was mean.

>>24400026
Yep. I do. That's not something that'd turn me off.

>>24400026
Though I prefer curly hair when it's medium to long, not short like justin timberlake's on n'sync.

>>24400038
Any chance you could describe yourself? Like tall/hair etc.?

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>>24400047
might as well send you a pic. I don't care. It's not like I'm saying anything embarrassing.

>>24400032
See, that's something. Now make it a reality.

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>>24400047
I'm like 1,70cm

>>24400038
>>24400045
It's an afro right now and while I do get compliments on it, I sometimes wonder what people really think when they see someone with hair like mine.

>>24400032
I would love to watch 2 girls and not be able to do anything but watch....I can make myself cum without touching myself if horny enough though

>>24400095
like a jewfro or like an actual afro?

>>24400098
nah, I'm just killing time. I have a boyfriend whom I love and respect very very much.

what do you femanons think of male sexuality?

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>>24400103
I guess it would be easier if I just showed you

>>24400122
I like it! Honestly. Nothing wrong with your hair at all.

>>24400112

Man here, watch the first episode of "Easy" on Netflix

>>24394541

My gf is kind of like you. She gives me relatively frequent head and I never go down on her. She has a poor diet, doesn't take care of herself, and her pussy straight up tastes bad. It's a cute pussy, too. I used to go down on her earlier in our relationship but it tasted fucking awful (she's addicted to starbucks and soda). I kept telling her that she needs to take care of herself or else the head's going to stop.

Do you eat lots of sugar/fast food and drink lots of sugar/coffee/booze? Cuz if you do you might taste bad and that may be why he doesn't eat your pussy. If that's the case and you really want him to eat it then change your diet up. Drink lots of water and pineapple juice.

>>24400140
just tried searching for the synopsis. the one with the career woman and house husband.
just tell what the 'awkward realisation' was

>>24396874
You look like you have a freezer full of human heads. Strongly consider fixing your glasses, skin and facial expression. If you approached me id walk quickly away. Maybe call the cops on a public safety complaint.

>>24400163

Touche. Women are at odds between their social pressures to be "equal" and also natural biology to be caregivers. Women want men they can show off to their friends (bad boy, nice guy, SJW, whatever the case) but they all want to be women, the "fuck-ee" in bed. Males are most sexually appealing to women when they act the most in their nature. Being dominant shows up in different ways, but being "the man" sexually is a turn-on and a biological and hormonal necessity

>>24396874
You have very nice eyes. Yes, the forehead is big, but if you grow your hair out, and style it forward, kind of like that youtuber who has a big forehead too, idubbbz or some shit, it's gonna give the impression it is not that big. If the glasses bother you, you can always get eye surgery. My boyfriend had that done, but before he used to wear glasses. Didn't really like contacts all that much, so he got surgery. But you are not ugly. You just don't have a very good sense of style.

>>24400227
Also I'd trim the eyebrows a little. 'Cause they are a bit bushy. Other than that, I think you look good man.

Why does my girlfriend give me the silent treatment every time I try to hang out with new people so I can make friends?

>>24400244
Because she is abusive and controlling. She wants undivided attention. Either tell her to work on it or dump her, otherwise she's just gonna alienate you and that's not healthy.

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This is probably a minor thing, but can a woman here explain if this was a negative or positive response? I think I accidentally came off as a creep by remembering something so specific. Am I reading things wrong here?

I dig her a bit, but I'm still in the process of feeling her out. She messages me at weird times, like 1:30 am usually, pretty atypical.

>>24400250
It's a normal response. I wouldn't read too much into it.

>>24400250

Man here - the more relaxed you are the more relaxed they'll be. If you dont set boundaries though (for example, answering every text) then it decreases your status and therefore your value

>>24400250
im sure she didnt mind. its sometimes flattering when someone remembers things you said. it can be creepy but her response doesnt really indicate that

>weird times
do you know if she drinks a lot? maybe shes been out with friends or whatever and is tipsy
or maybe she has a serving job and gets off work late?
otherwise yeah its pretty sketchy, but might mean shes dtf

>>24400258
That's bullshit. In my perspective, if a guy is not himself and plays out to get, I'm out the door before he knows it.

>>24400258
you are dumb, go back to redpill

>>24400244
She's controlling and intrusive. Do you know if she had really controlling parents like weird religion or had to do a lot of shit like violin lessons, ballet or shit like that? Does she have eating issues?

>>24400265
*hard to get

>>24400249
Everything is perfect between us except for that. I don't understand it. I feel like I'll sound really clingy if I call her out for doing it. We were having a normal conversation and once I told her I was going to be a little bit busy for 2 hours, she stopped talking to me. That was 6 hours ago. She's probably busy or something, right? I don't know how to approach this.

>>24400268

Not responding to a text at 1:30 in the morning isn't playing "hard to get".

>>24400272
Do your thing. If she wants to control you, show her you're no pussy whip. If that's what she wants, you are not that guy and you deserve to have your own life and not have it revolve around her.

>>24400266

No idea what this means

>>24400262
I'll ask her next time.

>>24400276
I meant it, if he's awake and sees the message, wants to reply, he should. None of that value alpha male bullshit is mature, sincere or real.

>>24400267
She doesn't come off as a controlling person though, ever. Her parents seem really laid back. Mine were the controlling ones, and I try my best to not be like them.

>>24400291
DUDE, she gives you the silent treatment for making friends and going out. She's obviously controlling and abusive. Some borderline personality disorder shit, that is.

>>24400277
Thanks man

>>24400286

Let's say you're 100% right - every time he wants to text her, he does right away because he digs her, for now. She might then make an assumption that it's OK for her to text whenever she wants and she can expect a response. It has nothing to do with being an "alpha male" it has to do with setting expectations. If her expectations are that this guy is going to answer whenever she texts, (for example) then there are going to be consequences when he doesn't. And if he wants to deal with those consequences as they come, that's fine.

>>24400314
intentionally not talking to a girl you like, because you want to "set her expectations" that you also won't talk to her later, is the height of stupidity. stop acting like you're 12, stop reading MRA shit. grow up.

>>24400314
Do you even worry about that when it comes to friendship? Right now they are friends. I think he should do what he feels like doing and not police himself not to be himself over some paranoia.

>>24400321
>>24400323
I think you guys care much more about what this guy says than I do. He's not entirely wrong, you got to play it aloof sometimes, but I don't really care about that at this stage, I like a late night convo anyways.

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>>24398671
>posts that they want a boyfriend
>will ignore anyone who tries
everytime

Over the summer I had an unusual streak of hook ups. All six girls, when I asked what they like in bed, said they like having their pussy licked and that's the only way they can get off. That's fine and everything but is this just a coincidence or do nearly all girls only cu from oral sex?

>>24400336
hahahaha
yeah, I just like it when people are honest to each other, no playing "aloof", or anything. That sort of manipulation turns me off and makes me drop the guy like a hat.

>>24400349
most women can't come just from vaginal penetration. learn to love the clit.

>>24400349
maybe they are really young, inexperienced or both. Oral sex is all they know.

>>24400336

Good outlook.

>>24400361
>What do you like in bed?
>Oral sex.
I'd probably name a list of things along with oral sex.

>>24400361
The girl I fuck ed last weekend came from vaginally penetration. Made me feel good

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So I'm trying to ease my girlfriend into being shared with another guy, not sure how to go about it because she's pretty shy and anxious... any suggestions?

>>24400361
I'm the exact opposite.

Clitoral stimulation is painful for me.

>>24400387
oh yeah it's great when it happens. just can't go in assuming that all or even most girls will be able to get it.

>>24400389
stop being a pathetic cuck
alternately, send her my way and i'll fuck her brains out the way you never could

>>24400407
interesting, have you always been like that or is it a recent thing?

>>24400144
well he's never done it before so I don't see how me tasting bad could be his issue. also I do not drink soda or alcohol and I eat pretty well. I shower every day. also a lot of times he will stop when we are having sex and let me swallow his cum. I can taste me on him its not bad. it tastes better than his lol. it doesn't matter I don't even want to try it anymore. his reaction to me asking was enough for me to know that actually trying to do it would just be embarrassing and awful

Guy here interested in finally being able to eat a chick out.

Is there anything I can put on a vagina that is safe that will make it taste amazing? Like coolwhip or something? Something that isn't going to mess with the vagina's PH or whatever (obviously clueless)>

I'd eat her out without anything, I'm just wondering if there was a way to make it taste so good that I devour it.

>>24400443
if you just put it on the outside it will all be gone way before she's ready to come
to really make it work you need to squirt some of the flavor up inside her. chocolate syrup works really well

>>24400443
Whatever you put on there will be gone long before you should stop. I'd really try to get used to it and even learn to love it's smell and taste.

Eating snatch can be hot.

>>24400443
I buy this amarula lube that goes hot when you apply some friction to it to blow my boyfriend, I fucking love it. You can probably find it at an online sex shop.

>>24400443
use flavored lube

>>24400443
amarula flavored lube. I live in brazil, so I could only find it in a brazilian website http://www.amordeluxo.com.br/cosmeticos/lubrificantes/gel-lubrificante-aromatizante-hot-amarula-beijavel-30ml/

Amarula is a south african cream liqueur, tastes really good

>>24399821
what is your biggest fantasy that you want to fulfill? (im female)

>>24399165
i dont think you can generalize "every girl". i think that it could be bad luck. I am a girl and every guy I find ends up being very possessive as well. I think that's a sign of distrust, so let them know you are trustworthy, and from the beginning show her that she has no reason to not trust you.

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girls, would you let a guy pee in you?

>>24400477
do you know if it is oil or water based? oil based breaks down latex, and water based also helps to prevent yeast infections, from what the lady at a sex shop informed me

>>24400543
he's supposed to put it on her clit, because it gets hot and it tastes good, not inside her vag. by the time he's done, there won't be any lube there to tear the condom. It's oil based and I've never had any yeast infections or condoms breaking over it hahaha

>>24400525
absolutely not. actually maybe ahahah although it might feel good. i am open to trying anything and everything and discover what feels the best and what is most fun. however i love when guys cum all over my body and rub it all over my tits

>>24394385
Question for males:
Are you turned off by tattoos?

>>24400410
It has been like this for 5 or so years.
I don't know how it started, or how to stop it.

>>24400571
I don't mind them, though it would depend on what the tattoo is of and where it is. I dislike foot tattoos for some reason.

>>24400559
oohhh thats good to know. have you tried coconut oil/ if so do you like it better? otherwise i wanna try this amarula stuff

>>24400562
>cum all over my body and rub it all over my tits
This is so incredibly hot for some reason

>>24400571
Yes, I think you're just following a hacky trend and it looks trashy. It also makes me assume you're a "no regrets" hedonist.

>>24400579
i have one on my rib area and sort of curves around my boob and its of gladiola flowers. am i allowed to post a pic of it?

>>24400574
maybe try lightly touching your clit while you do whatever else you usually do to get off. get your body to start associating clit stimulation with pleasure.

>>24400571
i think some look great, some look stupid. but as a whole no i'm not turned off by them at all. most of the time they're attractive.
i might have some concerns about wifing a girl who was covered in tats, from a strictly social/professional standpoint (not common in my social and work circles) but otherwise you should be fine. just don't get a big and stupid one.

>>24400592
Go for it. Based on the description it actually sounds really cool.

>>24400594
I've tried, it just...hurts.

It seems similar to how guys have explained their head feels after cumming.
It's like that, but all the time.

>>24400584
Yes I have. I'm not a very big fan of coconut, though. Out of all the flavored lubes I tasted at the shop, Amarula is definitely the one that tastes the best. It's not overly sweet and it has an exotic taste. It's unlike anything I've ever tried before. I can't really describe it haha It comes from a south african fruit I think, so it's really difficult to describe what it tastes like. But trust me, it's really good. I'm gonna look for mine here, just a second and tell you the exact brand. The one I linked the guy is not the same brand I use.

>>24400571
I don't mind tattoos, as long as it's not something literally everybody and their mother has. Like the doves or bible quotes under the ribs, or butterflies on top of the foot or something. Tattoos are fun when they're original, not memed garbage

>>24400584
here it is http://www.inttcosmeticos.com.br/?4,2680,oleo-termico-beijavel-fruit-sexy-amarula.html And it's actually water based, the one I use, apparently. That's what it says on the site. Find a friend who speaks spanish to do the purchase for you (they can somewhat understand portuguese, it's pretty similar)

>>24400571
Love tattoos on a girl except chest ones, they are horrible

Does a 3/10 manlet have any chance?

>>24400407
I was the same way until I started using my vibe over my panties.

>>24398638
One guy actually capslocked "CRAVE," so yeah. Direct quote.

>>24399821
I had a mmf threesome, that was probably my big one. I'd like to do a gangbang one day, or a kidnapping scenario with my current partner.

>>>24400449
Guy here.

Biggest fantasy?

To fuck a short womanl . (I"m 6'2" tall, I'm talking her be like, 5'1" and shorter.)

Short and chubbb. Yes.

>>24400592
I'd like to see it.

>>24400571
For the most part no. If it is like a Nazi tattoo I'm not okay with it and some are just aestheticly unpleasant to me but it'snot my body.

>>24400646
Gang baby would be hot, I'd want to be first and last in her

>>24400646
It's any sort of stimulation or touching to it at all.
Over panties and through pants doesn't help much.

>>24400671
This is the first time I've ever been consider too tall for anything.

>>24400682
Any reason why specifically?

>>24400571
Hell no!

More of all the women I've been with have ink. And I'm not even drawn into them, like, I don't go searching for only girls with tatoos. I just think they're nice and should be cherished.

Women, are you alright with a man who is submissive sexually? I have somewhat of a mommy fetish similar to women who call their man ''daddy''.

Girls, how important is confidence in a man?

See, personally my confidence is down the drain. I already have a difficult time establishing contact (with anyone desu, not just girls) and honestly I'm in a position where I don't feel I'm deserving of love, at least not while I'm feeling so unstable emotionally.

Besides I've never been a very confident person, at all.

>>24400571
No. Makes me think you like pain. Which I cannot bring myself to elicit.

>>24400689
Degradation thing, I want to start the degradation, and end it reminding her she is a slut full of cum

>>24400605
okay awesome thank you so mcuh!! cant wait to try it

>>24400618
awesome! im actually venezolana so i speak spanish so this works perf :)

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>>24400598
>Anonymous

>>24400703
It's okay to be submissive, but I'd cringe if the guy called me mommy.

>>24400743
It's everything. But I just have to remind you confidence is not arrogance.

>>24400878
You're welcome ;)

>>24394468
Every day at least.

Twice a day or more.

>>24400902
>It's everything.
Yeah can't help but feel that I'm fucked.

>But I just have to remind you confidence is not arrogance.
I am well aware. And it's the same matter.

>>24394624
Invade their space dude. That's your job. You a man. Take notice of a girl and just wait for her to look in your direction and smile. I do this all the fucking time.

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Ladies:

In my experience, femanons are into just as kinky stuff as males are (sometimes they're waaaaay kinkier). When it comes to kinks/fetishes, I've always found it fun to discuss current likes/dislikes. I've found that quite a few of the women I've talked to already have at least one >>>/d/ style fetish, if not many, and most of the ones who didn't instantly became fascinated with one or more of the things I introduced them to. If I had to break it down into a percentage, I'd estimate it something like this, out of 100 women:

50% already had some sort of fetish (1 or more) that would be considered /d/
40-45% were instantly fascinated (some of which even came up with their own things on the spot!)
5-10% just didn't care or had their mind blown / couldn't process it.

Thoughts? Pic is one such fetish that's one of the most popular with femanons (in my experience, of course).

>>24400743
i like confidence. not cockiness. confidence is important in a relationship, or else the inecurities of either person start to negatively affect the other. also, dont feel unconfident. you have no reason to. focus on your strengths or the parts you like about yourself. everyone has weaknesses and flaws, but everyone should be confident for their own unique good qualities. everyone deserves love ok?

>>24400571
>Are you turned off by tattoos?
Yeah. They may look cool, but they just ruin attractiveness for me. Not entirely sure why. Guess it just reminds of big bad biker dudes with tons of tattoos, and it bothers me.

For Girls and all Grill-kin.

Is being manipulated attractive? Like I've got a girlfriend and anytime I show any kind of psychopathic behavior or I convince her into allowing or disallowing something it gets her off a whole bunch. I convinced her to cuck for me, as in she is the submissive that watches. Despite her being a jealous chaste girl when we first met I've kind of molded her into what I want and need and she REALLY gets off on that. Then when I tell other girls about it and some gay dudes that I've been around they also start acting differently.

The biggest example was kind of recent, I went to a friends and her best friend really digged me and didn't want to come off as easy so she hid it. My friend T told me this and I went to the girl B is what we'll call her. I went to B and seduced her and fucked her. Later after the fourth time I finished that night she was super exhausted and happy about the whole thing and I told her about my girlfriend and she just really started digging it and became super subservient. Similar for the other chicks and dudes. It's not a bad thing, haha I love it. Just seeing if anyone here shares that quality of wanting to serve I guess?

>>24400571
Eyyy just got here. I love tattoos on chicks. Fat, skinny, inbetween as long as your skin is clean (which is usually is when tattoos are there) they look great. Used to bang this asian chick with tatoos up her midriff and left arm. She was fuckin' smokin.

>>24400920
scroll up and look at the pic of mine. i just wanted outside opinions from a male persprective

>>24400909
It's just that people who are not confident tend to be clingy, insecure, jealous and controlling.
The lack of confidence bring these things about. It's kind of difficult to deal with people who are always looking for reassurance. At least for me.
But I think it's cute if the guy is a little shy, that doesn't mean he is not confident. I'm more often than not turned on by the quiet, shy type, but that still exhibits confidence. Aloof when they should be and loving when they should be, sorta. Idk if it makes any sense.

>>24400917
Es difícil cuando te han minado tu confianza. Cuando te tratan de poco hombre porque te afectan los problemas aunque salgas adelante igual. O cuando te obligan a que seas diferente de tu forma de ser más gentil, y peor, cuando luego te dicen que tal o cual forma de ser es más bien femenina y luego ya no te queda confianza para intentar nada.

>>24400429
I used to have a sort of FWB whose cock I would suck, but he would never eat my pussy. But this was a kind of submission/humiliation thing we both got off on - it sounds like your guy may be into something similar, especially if he has to cum in your mouth when you're having PIV sex.

>>24400001

Tough love. Drop her; it'll force her to adapt.

>>24400389

Cuck.

>>24400571

Yes, more or less entirely. Honestly, I wish women would just outright stop getting them.

>>24400931
Yeah it does. I do need a ton of reassurance but otherwise I'm super permissive up to a fault, a bit of a yes man. Which has led me to be stomped over more than once in my life, except that my intentions were to make them happy.

>>24400923
>Just seeing if anyone here shares that quality of wanting to serve I guess?
YES. Not into the whole psychopathic behaviour thing, but a lot of what you posted there sounded very hot, I think I'd have gone subservient too.

>>24400928
>scroll up and look at the pic of mine. i just wanted outside opinions from a male persprective
The long flower one? Yeah, I saw it. Looks really cool! Dunno why (I was only guessing earlier), but tattoos kill attractiveness for me. Maybe I just haven't seen the right tattoo...

>>24400743
>which i cannot bring myself to elicit
so are you turned on or off by pain?

>>24398865
I can provide those three things.

Can you because unfortunately I see many relationships becoming one sided and I like an even give and take so no one get too frustrated.

Also girls please speak up and talk about what you need instead of thinking I can read your mind. I can be insightful just not psychic.

>>24400952
Off. I cannot bring myself to give pain. And someone having a tattoo makes me think there's a bit of enjoyment from pain.

>>24400923
In my honest opinion, you're gonna end up alone if you keep this up. I mean like when you get older, you'll never have really experienced love and will most likely end up alone.
Those kinds of relationships always damage the person who gets manipulated and does more harm than good. You know that.

>>24399107
omg stop. do not read into it. she was probably just trying to irk you. i have had sex with a multitude of dick sizes. dick size doesnt matter. as long as you know how to work what ya got youre solid.

>>24399923
She likes you. Maybe as a friend but maybe more. Depends. Some people are just very kind.

Do you just sit there eating her food or do you give her good company?

>>24400265
>>24400266
This.

Just work with what you have. You need to be genuine with people or she is going to get the hint your not up to snuff.

Just stop playing games ant there won't be one and we can all just take it easy. Its not that hard.
>>24400286
See?

If she gets mad at you for not texting at 3 in the morning punt her.

>>24399107

Your missus sounds like a bit of a bitch, lad.

>>24400958
>i cannot bring myself to give pain
so you wouldnt choke me or be a little rough in bed for example?

>>24400946
That's pretty nice to hear hun, thank you. I'm not surprised about the psycho thing that's probably just the gf being weird as all hell.

>>24400960
I think that's kind of a bold statement. Are you referring to the cuck thing? If so I could see that, I'll probably grow out of it as I'm still young enough to. You might be right, I don't know anything for certain but I hope you're wrong haha.

>>24400389
Its not going to be good for her or any future relationship because your going to end up being a little bitch about it in the end.

>>24400979
No, I can't. That's one of the things that I kinda meant here >>24400934 - which seriously undermines my self confidence because I know for a fact that women like what I can't give.

>>24400980
Oh well, weird girls are best girls right?

>>24400989
>no, I can't
May i ask why? does it make you feel bad or absusive or something? just out of curiosity so I dont offend a guy in the future if i try to initiate roughness

>>24400995
Just saying I like it rough. I still like to ease into it. Just up the anti.

I have a question here. What do you men think of women who enjoy having sex?
For example, I want to do everything I can when I have sex, no limits, go with the flow, suck a dick and love doing it, do anal and love every minute of it, if I want to get slapped ask for it, if I want my hair pulled and to be pounded hard, ask for it, if I want cum all over my face, fucking ask for it, but I feel like most men mistake that for being a character flaw, when it's not it at all. It's not because I like a bunch of stuff that I'm unfaithful, would sleep around, etc. I feel like men get it twisted and make women uptight when it comes to having sex, because of these unreal misconceptions about their sexual behavior.

>>24400995
A bit abusive but then if they like that then it's not abuse really.

However I just get turned off by pain. I don't know why, but it's just a massive turnoff. I don't get turned on by it at all.

>>24400980
I'm talking about the manipulation and game playing. Nothing good comes from it. Trust me when I say this: you lose nothing being vulnerable and yourself. Don't try to put this front that you're a mastermind asshole, because if you do feed this, you're not gonna live a happy life.

>>24399835
>There is someone for everyone
There wouldn't be so many sexually frustrated people if this were true

>>24401012
Even if there was someone for everyone, they might not meet them.

>>24399453
You're right. It was too cold to go to the beach so we're having an X-Files marathon instead. Everything else is true.

Carry on.

>>24400991
Personally, from my experience? Hell yeah sure they've fucked me up some over the years. But you know what? They fuck good, and if their problems are manageable they are a treat to live with.

>>24401004
I don't really get what you're throwing down dear, this literally comes naturally. If this was a front it'd be exhausting. I'm not afraid to show a submissive side or lay on my back, yeah I know I'm not the best, I'm no God. I'd like to be that'd be fucking sweet. But I just roll with what I've got love.

>>24400571
Tattoos can be really hot, but they can be overdone to where they are a bit too freaky. One thing to think about on them though, as you age, the colors start fading, and they don't look as good a they did when they were new.

Tattoo removal is expensive as all get out too.

>>24401025
hahaha Okay then. But if it ever comes a time you realize you are hurting more people and ending up alone over it, try toning it down so you don't become bitter later on in life. I hope you really take the advice and don't just accept this is what I am, who I am, if it does you and everyone else harm in the long haul.

>>24400897
That look pretty good, you have beautiful skin too anon.

>>24401025
Yeah, I always hear guys say "never stick your dick in crazy", but a lot of the time they tend to gravitate to girls with 'issues' anyway. I have scars from where I used to cut myself, and getting naked with a new guy always makes me a bit apprehensive about how he'll react, but I've had at least a couple react as if it means I'm going to be a great fuck lol

>>24401036
Oh nah no that sounds fuckin' lame. I do things if they sound/look fun. Sure being a dominant male with a grasp on the chains of someone is great and all. But if no one is having fun then I'm not having fun. I'm not a rapist or anything. That shit sounds lame, I'll do my best to avoid that nonsense.

>>24401044
Haha yeah I've reacted both ways. I'd love to see yours some time, sounds like a trip. I always stick my dick in crazy. Been plowing girls since I was 12 and the crazy ones only teach me more and more. When I was younger I saw scars and was like, oh geeze hope her cunt is tight. But now a days I'm like, Oh shit, she's gonna wrap her legs around me and scream fill me up because she's got issues. Good thing I'm into that.
It's all fun. Crazy is best, normal is second best. Stupid is what you avoid. NEVER STICK YOUR DICK IN STUPID.

>>24399901
Could also be that she brought more food with her than she could eat, and she didn't want to deal with leftovers.

Another possibility is she thinks you look underfed, and is concerned you can't afford enough to eat, so is being kind.

I've seen women do both of those things.

>>24401053
>But now a days I'm like, Oh shit, she's gonna wrap her legs around me and scream fill me up because she's got issues. Good thing I'm into that.
Fuck yeah that's me alright

>>24401020
It just sucks not being able to fulfill your sexual needs because of perceived flaws, like introvertedness.

>>24401053
Crazy is all fine and dandy when they are only into fucking and that's it. I think the shitty part about crazy is when they fall in love and you don't hahah I've seen most my guy friends deeply regret having stuck their dick in crazy more often than not hahahahhah

>>24401057
I sympathise anon-kun :(

>>24401044
Do you find that you attract guys who know about the cutting, and want to try to fix you so to speak? Or do they normally not know about it until you are getting ready to have sex?

Hope that isn't too intrusive of a question. Also, where did you cut yourself at?

>>24401062
That's fine, but it's cold comfort. Someday but probably never

>>24401044
I gravitate towards girls with issues. But actually sometimes I don't even want to fuck them because they all assume that guys just want to fuck them. There was a girl who showed me her scares. She was so cute and vulnerable. I kissed her and her scars.

>>24401066
On my thighs.

These days I think I come across pretty well adjusted so it probably takes them by surprise. Never really discussed it though. I think when I was younger and in my edgy teenage emo phase I came across a lot more like a girl with issues, and I tended to attract guys who wanted to in some way take advantage of that, like they could see I had low self-esteem. I think those guys got off on fucking a girl who was very eager to please them.

>>24401003
Oh I want to add, in case you're still reading.

It makes me deeply sad when I know I'm being rough and harsh. It's just not me and something in my chest clenches tightly.

>>24401077
You kissed her scars? That's really sweet and intimate. I've never had that done to me. In general I don't tend to draw attention to them, although anyone getting naked with me coudln't fail to notice.

>>24401056
Damn sugar, that's my fetish right there. Where are you at? I'm stuck at school in KS

>>24401059
Yeah I've seen a few guys mistep. It's about choosing the right type of crazy. You gotta have an eye for it hun. Have you helped some guy friends avoid the wrong type of crazy?

>>24401083
Hey there, no context for this conversation but I saw the kissing scars thing. I love that shit, it's awesome. Makes the girl all giddy and it makes me happy to see a human side to them before I sex them till the sunrise.

>>24401093
I'm in England, I don't know where KS is lol

>>24401093
That's fine. I kinda just jumped in too. That's great. I like to make girls feel good.

>>24401083 I mean yeah I like sex like this >>24401056 but you can't beat the genuine intimacy of something like that. I would love to kiss away your pain and make you feel good about yourself. You sound very sweet.

>>24401095
Kansas is kinda in the middle of America.

>>24401103
So do you! :)

>>24401107
I know where Kansas is thanks, just didn't pick up on the abbreviation

>>24401095
Fuck my life dude, I love that shit so much. USA, oh well you're still fun to talk to, it's just a shame I can't share with you what those other lucky girls got.

>>24401103
Same, like yeah I'll tie you up and slap you. But I still wanna cum inside you and hear you say I love you. Though that's cause I got issues, but it's also because I think a lot of guys just want to be loved and want to make their partners feel loved. It's hard living now a days, we should enjoy it and each other. Awh I just finished reading that last bit of your comment. Yeah that sex is my favorite too, wish it happened more often. I hope you get it soon my dude.

>>24401107
Which would be great if I had more money and wasn't stuck in Uni.

>>24401116
>lucky girls
I like the confidence. I do think they probably were pretty lucky, you sound like you'd be good fun lol

>>24401125
I've found that confidence is good if you can back it up. Sadly I can't for you but maybe someone else could vouch for me in the future. You've heard a bit about me, why not tell me about yourself now sugar.

>>24401140
What do you want to know?

>>24401116
Hope you get lewd too my dude.

>>24401125
>>24401109
Calling me sweet in whatever lovely accent you have is a good way to get hours of passionate fucking and tender loving in an exquisite mix that satisfies like none other. Then I'd probably take you on a cute proper date.

>>24400998

As long as you're monogamous, I have no issue with it.

>>24401143
I'm a tad curious about what you look like. If you don't want to posts a picture you can use words.

>>24401144
>Calling me sweet in whatever lovely accent you have
Haha Yorkshire accent, it's not top of most people's list of turn ons!

>>24401151
5'3", long dark hair, green eyes, wear glasses, slightly chubby with most of my weight in my arse and thighs. You?

>>24401143
Tell me about your personality, you got any little quirks or something like that? And of course since I can't strip you down and check myself body stats would be nice since I'm such a deviant.

>>24400998
saw another anon answer this so I'm putting my two cents in. I don't think we'd sync up perfectly but we might be close since I like sex in all forms too, I prefer monogamous behavior from my women but don't object to threesomes, groups, and sharing if the people are right. Sex is amazing and we should all like it as much as you do.

>>24401158
I come across as fairly shy when you first meet me. I think I'm quite intelligent. I have all kinds of bad habits though like getting up late and generally making a mess of my life.

>>24401156
>>24401163
Oh well holy shit, you sound literally perfect for me sugar. If only I were born with a silver spoon I'd fly out to you, you've got the qualities in body of what I've been craving for a while. Can I get a name? I'm Garrett.

>>24401167
Not going to give my real name on 4chan but call me Emma if you like, I always wish I was called that.

>>24401174
Emma, that's a beautiful name for a marvelous girl. I just wish we could see each other. Though this website isn't really the best for that huh? Oh well, I'm really liking talking with you. What's your favorite thing about yourself?

>>24401179
Not sure how much about myself I really like lol. I think I'm a compassionate person, how's that maybe?

>>24401153
>Yorkshire
I bet it sounds adorable. I'm from Texas don't sound like it much though
>>24401156
You sound adorable. I have rosy brown skin, I'm 5'8ish I haven't weighed in a while but I'm fat. 240 pounds maybe? But I'm kinda bear mode builtish fat. Long dark brown hair big smile. Happy face.

Big here ask...

>>24401182
Passion is super important
>>24401174
Emma is a gorgeous name.
>>24401163
>Intelligent
Your bad habits are actually signs of intelligence. My bad habit is getting crushes on girls I'll never meet well that and making the bed fuck that .

>>24401202
>Your bad habits are actually signs of intelligence.
I'll keep telling myself that lol

>>24400998
A lot of guys do and a lot assume that you'll get bored of them or be disappointed when you want something that they don't want.
But personally I encourage women to be sex positive. If we were in a serious relationship I'm monogamous so we'd probably not do anything that involed other people often if you wanted I'd try it for you but it doesn't appeal to me.

Feel like I somehow killed the thread. Well it was fun talking to you guys, I might check back later.

>>24401203
It's true. My desk is messy.

>>24401217
It's late in the middle of the night in America most of 4chan is American. It's not you. I'm supposed to be working myself.

should I text a girl that is ignoring me asking her why she is ignoring me?

>>24401219
I have other gross ones like not washing sometimes, but I live alone so could be worse.

>>24401223
No. Ignore her.

>>24401226
but i like her and she said she likes me

>>24401223
What do you want to get out of her? Because you might not get an answer? Are you sure that she's ignoring you? Is there something interesting that you could send her and see if she reacts to it instead?

>>24401224
Meh I wouldn't mind especially if you really are as cute as you sound.

>>24401230
Ha. I'm lazing around in bed all morning after a sweaty night out and I stink, it's far from cute.

>>24401223
She's probably not interested. If she is, she's a bitch for trying to play games. I'd let it go.

>>24401325
I don't have the patience for this sort of thing. I'm a girl by the way. If I ignore a guy, I'm 100% not interested and don't care about him. When I'm interested, I don't ignore. I like to keep things simple.

>>24400349
i dont cum from oral

>>24400525
never

>>24400590
>for some reason
because youre on 4chin you fuck

>>24400633
obviously
chances are pretty fucking slim if youre aiming for a 9/10 chick with long legs

>>24400703
ive never experienced it so i dont know. if i liked the guy enough i would try it out. if he was always submissive it would probably get really old

>>24400743
its pretty important.
fake it til you make it?

>>24400912
so, i regularly view hentai and have no idea what youre trying to ask here. do girls have a fetish about growing a dick?

>>24400923
uh, no. sorry.
>implying any of this actually happened

I can't seem to be able to accept people in real life. It's not easy for me to connect with them, and many people think I shouldn't pursue long distance relationships with someone that I connect with and feel good but will rarely if ever see rather than just enjoy sex and what the best person I can find here can offer me.
Is it wrong for me to get away from relationships or abandon them in real life because I can't seem to be as satisfied as with the people that are distant from me? I know I haven't seen them yet and they might just not be of my liking, but to me it seems like I'm more satisfied with those far away that make me feel connected with, rather than those that surround me here but still make me feel lonely in a crowd.

>>24401082
chill... there are plenty of girls just like you. you will find your special delicate snowflake princess who would never want you to be dominant or rough with her. there is hope for you yet anon, just stay true to yourself

>>24401116
>>24401113
kek mfw these two desperate fucks are literally trying to hook up with this chick because she said she used to cut herself.
stay golden /soc/

>>24401144
this guy whoops
topkek

>>24400953
where do you live

>>24400935
yah it's a big submission thing, he saws he's not really that into it, but he totally is. he's very dominant in regular life. like he doesn't even realize it but he tells me what to do all the time. in fact that's really the only time he talks to me for the most part is to tell me to get him something or do something for him.

>>24401021
really? like you guys really keep lube and toys around all the time and all that other stuff. just seems unreal to me that people have that much of their lives focused towards sex. that's cool tho you seem happy with that set up

How do women feel about funny guys?

I get a lot of laughs in classes I take, I'm also starting out doing standup and I love writing jokes. However I'm quite lonely a lot of the time, I don't relate well to a lot of people, especially females. Is it good or bad?

>>24401534
>fake it til you make it?
Except that it's going to feel exactly like that: like a huge fake. Hell let's suppose some girl likes me for my "confidence". They'd be falling for a fake, not for me.

>>24401549
>you will find your special delicate snowflake princess who would never want you to be dominant
Assuming this isn't sarcasm, I've noticed that this is pretty much the rule among females and that what you're saying is extremely difficult to find, if not impossible.

>>24401198
how big?

>>24401198
Who would win in a light saber fight to the death Tom Hanks or Robert Logia?

>>24401893
ok? you asked for answers and i gave you one.
most women prefer a man who is confident. confidence doesnt mean thinking youre right or the best always, but being calm and collected and in control of situations, able to rectify problems, etc etc... having confidence is something everyone should strive for. maybe you should seek professional help... otherwise, sure, you would be able to find someone who likes you for exactly who you are right now.
i think youre taking what i said too far, as the "falling for a fake" is not really what im saying.

>sarcasm
no. most of my female friends, as well as myself, enjoy being roughed up a bit during sex. being called dirty things, slapped around, whatever.
if youre not into that I'm saying you can still find a girl who matches your preferences.... nothing is impossible.

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to guys: i got a pretty big booty just like pic related and the skin between the cheeks got darker with time because of rubbing and it looks just like in the pic (not me btw).
so far no one has complained about it but it makes me really insecure. what's your opinion on this? would it bother you?

>>24402627
It doesn't matter to me.

>>24402600
>confidence doesnt mean thinking youre right or the best always, but being calm and collected and in control of situations, able to rectify problems, etc etc
I'm aware that there are a lot of people who mistake arrogance with cockiness, but I'm not one of those. This confidence, however, also forces me to not show my true colors. Oh, so I'm having a huge issue right now? Nah I can't freak out because I gotta be confident and calm the fuck down. Which means none of my emotions get acknowledged at any moment and it makes me feel neglected. What's the point, then?

Yes, I know that I eventually have to calm down and take control of situations. But having to pent my emotions up really hurts.

>maybe you should seek professional help
Been thinking about it.

>otherwise, sure, you would be able to find someone who likes you for exactly who you are right now
Eh, ya think so?

>i think youre taking what i said too far, as the "falling for a fake" is not really what im saying.
What would that be, then?

>if youre not into that I'm saying you can still find a girl who matches your preferences.... nothing is impossible.
I've seen a really big amount of females who are into that. I bet that even my ex liked it rougher than what I could give.

>>24402627
I think you should Kik me, mine is ultratusk

I'll give you an honest opinion on how it looks.

>>24402647
dude, a huge part of confidence and just being an adult is being able to express emotions without thinking that it somehow threatens your masculinity.

>>24402795
I don't think it threatens my masculinity. If possible I just want to express my emotions without being judged for them. But then somehow I feel threatened ("I", not my masculinity) when I do express them. Case in point, my ex didn't like that I expressed my emotions that much and she even told me she wanted a guy who wouldn't feel as much if at all when having issues.

So yes, I have actually had issues for expressing what I feel. Which just leads me to think I'm better staying silent, which is already a huge burden for me.

I'm a straight bouncer at a gay bar and I get hit on a lot by women why is that? I've never been hit on so much before when i used to go to clubs and bars when i was in my early 20s in the military and in awesome shape, I'm not complaining I'm just wondering. And no they're not trannies its fucking easy to tell in real life what was/is a dude. Any guy that said he didn't know it was a guy is either a liar or a liar.

>>24403217
youre asking why women are attracted to you? im assuming your male? maybe theyre just being flirtatious because they are gay and not into men and feel comfortable being sexual since they are out at a fucking club ???? idfk this is a dumb question bro

>>24403229
No dipshit I'm not asking why they're attracted to me I'm wondering why they would go to a gay bar and trying to pick guys up. The only straight guys in their are me or one of the other bouncers and we get hit on by women a lot. Again not complaining just wondering.

>>24403229
Also the lesbians are usually the biggest douchebags in the club and don't flirt with any of the dudes. So you're wrong there.

will girls like me even though im fucked up when it comes to relationships? i like it when girls abuse me.

>>24402627


Yes it bothers us guys. It makes you look like a slut.

Sorry if it sounds harsh but you wanted a truthful answer, right?

>>24400964
We talked a lot about her, about me, so we get to know each other, until we have get back to work.
Today we talked little bit at the end of the day and that we meet tomorrow again, she smiled a lot and her eyes were sparkling, may just imagination.
I saw she added me on facebook after work today, dont know how to act, i will accept her tomorrow, dont want that she knows that i lurk the whole night.

>>24403322
How does it make her look like a slut?

HEY LAYDEEZ
specifically the dominant ones, what kind of dominant stuff do you like? me and my gf been together like almost 20 months and she's been really into it for a while.
She likes sitting on my face, jacking me off even after i cum so it drives me crazy, and tying me up.
lately she's been fantasizing about dressing up as a cop, handcuffing me and sitting on my face. I always tell her she can do anything to me, and Im wondering what else i could let her try out

I was on this other thread and I thought of a question for males. How do you feel about a girl squirting? I'm very shy about it and sometimes I have to stop penetration so I don't do it, because I feel like the guy might think it's gross. I only squirt after a long time of being in a relationship with someone and I keep it a secret, because I'm ashamed of it.

>>24404100
Gonna respond with an inverse question: how would you feel about a guy cumming?

Yes, it's exactly the same. I would get a massive boner from that. So do it.

>>24404106
It's just that I squirt a lot. I make a huge mess. It's not like cum, it's like a tap with running water and I feel very embarrassed to "bathe" the guy in it. I'm only able to squirt from anal though while I simultaneously finger myself. I can't squirt from vaginal penetration alone, which is a good thing, because it would suck if I squirted every time I have ordinary sex.

>>24404114
I'm aware and yes my thoughts are still the same. It's hot as fuck and it'd encourage me to keep going even more.

>>24404114
>fell for the squirt-meme
>wet oneself
Nice.

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>>24401534
>so, i regularly view hentai and have no idea what youre trying to ask here.
I was mainly just asking how common it really is for a femanon to have "weird" fetishes. In my experience, it's pretty common, but I wanted to know if other femanons agreed with my assessment.

>do girls have a fetish about growing a dick?
Yep, that's one of the most popular fetishes with the femanons I've spoken to.

>>24403728
I like to make the guy watch me masturbate. I had my bf sit on the bed once, tied both his hands to the headboard of the bed, sat right in front of him with my legs spread open and made him watch myself masturbate until I came several times and reached orgasm. I ass played on all 4s in front of his face. Then I untied him and he fucked the living shit out of me.
I'm more of the submissive type, but I like to use this sort of dominance so he makes me submissive and means it with all his might.

I do variations of that to him all the time, because I really like to make him watch me fuck myself and not even be able to masturbate while doing it.

I love tying him down to give him extra long blowjobs too. I tend to grind him and whisper the things I'm gonna do to him, like "I'm gonna suck you off until my throat hurts and you are not allowed to cum before then", etc. Before I start I say something along the lines of "Would you like to see your dick disappear in my mouth until you feel my nose touch your pelvis" etc And I literally just put my lips around it, breathe on it, sometimes I lick but I don't suck, until I see he's going crazy. Then I give him about twenty minutes to half an hour of blowjobs and stop several times during it when I feel like he's about to cum and just order him not to do it, very seriously. I kind of tightly grip on the base of his penis, but not in a way it hurts him, just helps him hold back. I like doing that because I get really turned on by the precum kind of "stringing" from his dick to my lips. He tells me he's not a machine, but he's getting better at holding himself back. This one time, I thought I had it all under control when I stopped before he came, but he ended up not being able to hold himself back because I made the mistake of sucking on his balls immediately after I stopped sucking his dick and gripped on the base. I didn't think that could make him cum alone, but I learned that it's actually possible.

>>24403728
But the most important part is that I like to untie him, so he gains control and means it. Like I do these long as blowjobs, but in reality I just get him crazy enough to either untie himself or let me untie him, so he can take control and fuck my face the way he wants to.
It's a manipulative dominance to be properly dominated.

>>24404205
I will never understand this tie-thing.
I would rather watch TV than a girl masturbates in front of me.
blowjobs are the same, it dont give me anything, most of the time it gets soft and/or after 30 min of sucking i tell the girl she should stop, cause its fucking boring and i wanna sleep now.

>>24404100
I would love it. Never been with a girl who squirted though. I would actually worry about how gross a girl would think I am because I'd probably lap it up or ask her to do it in my mouth.


>>24403217
Bouncers are actually kind of a "respectable" job, it might be a bit of prestige thing. You're a big, bad ass guy who gets paid to dominate people.