Hey soc, I just got dumped completely out of the blue. He said

First though you were a fagot dude so was gonna help but since you mention tits post them

also general break up/feels thread I guess. let's keep each other company.

>>24385767
To be as much as less of shit posting as this thread will get.
Time and just find a healthy way to process your feelings. Don't force yourself to get out more or get with someone. It'll just tangle them up. But be around friends or family and do your hobbies. Be busy to an extent but not so much you are just burying yourself to just keep distracted. Plus if he doesn't see a future then you dodged a bullet and be stuck with someone who doesn't tell you early on.
>inb4 go out and enjoy life.

>>24385782
yeah, I'm trying my hardest to view it from the "dodged a bullet" angle. at least he didn't drag it out too long, but it still hurts a lot. I feel like an idiot. I'm going to engage in more hobbies and friendships and stay optimistic, even though right now I want to die desu

>>24385767
examine the situation before you decide how to feel about it. does what he said hold -that- much value? after 9 months? what about the opinion held by your actual family? close friends of 5+ years? do they still think highly of you?

I assume they do ... so again, examine what his opinion of you being "perfect" actually means. in the big picture i'd assume it doesn't mean much comparatively to the people you still hold near & dear in your life.

coming from a 32 year old single anon. 6 years running. figure out what you want in a partner as well as what you have to offer to your ideal partner, once you do that you can begin a real search to quench your heart.

>>24385767
>He said I was perfect in every way but he didn't see a future with me
Such a cop out.

>>24385791
I understand I literally went through the same thing. Yes it feels humiliation but it will pass. Just relax and you'll be fine