Femdom Thread tell your stories,fantasies,and/or experience,

>>24231728
what type of dom do you anons like?
vanilla dom
internet dom
finance dom
mommy dom
daught dom
sadistic dom
gentle dom
a switch or some other type of dominant women i forgot to name?

>>24231765
Preferred: switch
Acceptable: vanilla dom/gentle dom

I'm not into the roleplay thing, unless it's sexting. But ever since I started writing erotica for money I kind of... hate sexting, it just feels like work.

>>24231784
what type of stories do you write?

23/Male/Straight-ish/Georgia
I describe myself as a Switch, but I lean heavily submissive. I find I can only dom certain types of girls.

My first real domme/sub relationship was when I was 19. My girlfriend at the time was much younger, but had an extremely high sex drive.

She was a switch too, but we liked playing in our characters for a good period of time. We would switch roles every two weeks.

The first two weeks - she dommed the fuck out of me. She would tie me and tease me for hours. She never let me cum the first two weeks - but I had to eat every drop of precum. And, of course, I was responsible for making her cum multiple times every day.

When we were away from each other, she'd still dom me. She'd send me porn that I hated and made me masturbate to it.

Since our relationship has been over, I've been in a few similar relationships and I've done a ton of online play. Switch girls are probably my favorite, but I've played with mommy, daughter, sadistic, and financial dommes before.
In fact - just a month or two ago - I tried the whole "online findomme" thing out. It's too fucking expensive for me, but I liked the idea.

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>>24232941
What's the appeal of the findomme thing for you? I never figured out exactly what the guy gets out of it, except a really strict accountant.

26/m/straight/sub

I'm mostly into receiving masturbation instructions on skype. I like being talked down to and being teased. I do anal too. I love having to beg for my orgasm. I also love not being allowed to cum without explicit permission. When I'm ordered to ruin my orgasm, I will. Mistress decides whether I deserve a real orgasm. I always masturbate on cam. I prefer the other person to at least have mic. Cam depends on what she prefers. Anybody want to play on skype?

>>24231765
okay so i'm new to this so i'm spitballing

I'm into incest play. I really really want a older sister domme. I want a girl who is physically strong and isn't afraid to wrestle me to the ground and ride me. I like anal too so pegging isn't out of the question. Anything in mommy territory is too weird for me. And public humiliation is off the table. I would be a pretty bratty sub so I would need someone to be up for that or at least up for quite a bit of work if they want me to profess how much they're in control. I just really really want a girl to hold me on the neck facedown on the bed and fuck my ass for however long they want. I like choking primarily, scratches and impact, bruising isn't really my thing though. I would sub for a guy too, i'm just very picky with men, must be husky and fit and bigger than me and someone i trust. If not it doesn't sound like it would get me off. A generally attractive woman though, sounds hot. Oh and I fucking love oral. I guess some humiliation could stem from that.

Do you guys think it's possible for someone with these shared fetishes to only want a casual hookup? Online doesn't sound likely but idk

>>24231765
>choosing anything but sadistic dom
shiggy diggy doo

>>24231728
I'm a female Dom but I'm really fucking picky. As shit. Basically the main attributes I like a sub to have are nervous/shy and sweet. I'm not sadistic or whatever, I want him nervous, sensitive, and innocent enough that I can control him completely by being kind and make him extra flustered with just compliments. Most guys just want to be beaten or something which makes little sense to me. Even if I hated someone I'm more likely to ignore them then try to do something sadistic. I love groveling and nervousness though. I'm a pretty huge butch, meaning I'm just super picky. Looks don't come into play at all really though as long as he's not severely in trouble level obese or immobile. Pretty much the physical appearance of any normal cisco male all looks the same to me more or less. With guys it's all about their personality. I like fearful groveling a lot like worm tail from Harry Potter only rather than being a crule mistress id want to be super sickeningly sweet. Something hits the spot about watching him squirm when I call him cute and him becoming addicted to my attention. In turn I'd want to become spoiled rotten on his worship. There's many other aspects of s&m I can get into its all mostly on a mental level but if you don't have the baseline attitude that I like then it's never going to happen. Dicks are a dime a douzen in how common and eager desperate guys are. No offense but you all know it. It really takes someone special intellectually and emotionally for me to even take notice.

>>24234121
You sound like an amazing dom.

>>24234121
D-does tsundere work for you? I know weeabo references aren't hot but i could do tsun-tsun.

(also did you mean butch or bitch?)

>>24234121
>I'm a female Dom but I'm really fucking picky. As shit. Basically the main attributes I like a sub to have are nervous/shy and sweet. I'm not sadistic or whatever, I want him nervous, sensitive, and innocent enough that I can control him completely by being kind and make him extra flustered with just compliments. Most guys just want to be beaten or something which makes little sense to me. Even if I hated someone I'm more likely to ignore them then try to do something sadistic. I love groveling and nervousness though.

That's just exactly me.
I love the idea of 24/7 power exchange, especially with age play and pet play. Also got a weird thing for cute feminine guys in maid dresses

>>24234621
bump

20/m/bi/sub

It's strange how this has been the go to fetish of mine. I don't think I've ever wondered or wanted to try going the other way in it. I distinctly remember being in third grade and a cute girl in my class basically pinning me to some piece of playground equipment. It made me feel strange, but good. Maybe that fueled this, I dunno. Compliments and insults both get to me, but I get super flustered when I get complimented. I'm definitely into women I think could kick my ass. I'd be into trying anything in private, pegging, feminizing, w/e. Public is a bit much for me, besides a little teasing here and there.

>>24234121
Honestly this reminds me a lot of the dynamic between my ex and I. I'd say it was a pretty heavy mix if what you described along with some like name-calling and stuff. She'd often tease me with my kinks or with just general affection. I have a petty strong foot fetish so that often put me in a rather humiliating position but she'd talk so sweetly to me most of the time. Only sometimes would she be a little rougher and mock me for being such a pervert. But even now affection makes me more flustered than ever before because of how much she mixed it into such a dominant situation.

>>24236177
I should add 20/m/bi/I think I could be switch but the only two relationships I've been in I've ended up completely sub.

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>>24234962
Liking guys in maid dresses isn't weird. We love women like you. :3

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I had two friends over, one was an ex.
My ex decided to turn on porn.
I was cool with it because we were still kinda sexually involved but her friend was uncomfortable.
Thought it was going to be a 3-some type situation.
The porn kept getting hotter and hotter.
I was visibly hard, couldn't help it.
She started rubbing my leg.
>"you know you can jack off if you want to"
>"I don't mind, I don't think [friend] minds either"
I still hesitate because friend is like acting real shifty.
Time goes on and she starts lightly rubbing my cock.
I fucking lose it and start jacking it hard.
She keeps watching just amused.
Her friend still uncomfortable.
I keep hoping that she touches it, or sucks on it, or it goes further than me just jacking off - an already humiliating situation, but she does not.
I get really close but then I put it away because I think this has gone far enough.
As soon as I put it back she starts rubbing again, teasing me, making me NEED to cum.
So I just take it out and finish the job.
Huge, gushing orgasm.
She laughs, says like "Eww haha welp that was fun"
and then leaves

ITT: A bunch of beta males desperately trying to fulfill their beta fantasies, and one or two """girls""" giving them false hope

>>24236393
that's hot, mmm keep going
kik???

M/21

My ex girlfriend was into Femdom.

She would always tie me down to the bed so tight I couldn't even move. Then she'd proceed to blindfold me and even sometimes put earplugs in my ears. She'd then do everything possible to tease me.

Sometimes she'd put a vibrator in my ass or even ice cubes and just leave me like that. One time she even poured hot candle wax all over me. I hated it at first but the more she did it the more I grew to like it. Before I knew it she had me tied to the bed sometimes before I even woke up in the morning when she'd just sit on my morning wood. Making me think she was going to put it inside her, only to sit on my face and make me eat her pussy.


God I asolutely miss it and constantly crave being submissive now but have yet to find someone serious about it. Not very many actual female doms anymore.

>im picky
>*still hits the post button*

>>24233523
I don't know if you've ever read a findomme's Fetlife profile, but it's some pretty hot stuff. That sort of stuff drew me in.

Me and my most recent girlfriend played around a little bit with financial domination. Something about it seemed really personal and humiliating, so it was fun.

Cuckolding and forced-bi started to interest me a year ago when I was talking to a girl on Kik. Since then, being cuckolded is a large fantasy of mine.

I'd especially like to drive the girl around while her and her lover made out or fucked in my backseat. And on the financial side of things - I like the idea of paying for the domme and bull's meal, but getting nothing out of it except the bull's leftover food.

Idk if I'd ever actually try any of it... But it's pretty hot for me to think about.

>>24231728
What is the respectful way to call a mistress when you do not know her? Is it Miss, her username, or what?

>>24234206
Idk I never really thought being psychotic (on me) was cute in anyway so I don't really ever use that word for me only for anime characters.

>>24234149
Ty, sweetie.

>>24234962
Yea, exactly. I do like man but and bp but it all depends on my personal whims and desires at the time.

>>24236177
>he'd talk so sweetly to me most of the time
Thats so top hot.

I like to come up with ideas to make him squirm and when he responds so fast to my perverted ideas I then call HIM a pervert even though it was all my idea. But also I like name calling with the word 'dweeb' because to me its not that humiliating, in my mind dweeb is a good thing. I often call a guy who shows any kind of sexual desire a whore or perv. But it really is all my desire to talk about that shit and him be way too nervous to initiate anything ever. I'd want him to have a lot of fear and nerves surrounding sex but still eager to do it. Not trauma fear but nervous fear. I like a guy whos nervous but still very sexual like cums 2 or 3 times a day. I actually love it when a guy cums fast gets really embarrassed about it but is instantly hard and ready to go again, or doesn't ever go soft around me...

>>24237318
How do I find a girl like you? I'm super embarrassed about my kinks and I just want someone who will toy with my emotions and swing me from embarrassment to care back and forth on a whim.

Normally people would assume I'm incredibly strong willed and a dominant personality, but underneath it I just want to be mentally broken :-/

Anyway, since thread is dead, I'm going to entertain myself with story time.

What I'm looking for in a domme isn't too far off from what >>24237318 talks about.

It's not physical dominance, that does nothing for me. I'm looking for a girl who can get into my psyche, who can figure out what makes me tick, and use that to her advantage.

I want a girl who will take my insecurities and use them to convince me to do embarrassing things, and then use those embarrassing things to snowball into more and more things until I no longer have the will or desire to fight back.

I want her to know the secrets nobody else knows, my deepest darkest fetishes and fantasies, and I want her to encourage me while simultaneously putting me in my place.

The sad thing is, in the vanilla world I've done well in relationships, but I've been too timid/embarrassed to try to bring up kink.

In case anyone is interested in discussing further, my skype is WorldTraveller1985

So what's the best way to get into femdom if you're new to it and don't know anyone?

Just talk to people on fetlife?

I'm european if it's of any consequence.

I realize this post comes off desperate as hell, but I'm really starting to get a craving and I can't find remotely dominant women in my age and social circle. Any stories about how you got involved in a D/s relationship?

>>24237318
>I like a guy whos nervous but still very sexual like cums 2 or 3 times a day. I actually love it when a guy cums fast gets really embarrassed about it but is instantly hard and ready to go again, or doesn't ever go soft around me...
This is me but I but I was actually kinda anxious about telling you what an amazing Dom you sound like and how much I'd love to try and be good enough for you.

>>24237505
>Just talk to people on fetlife?
Yes.

I really think it sucks that more people aren't open about it or don't talk about their desires much, even on fetlife desu senpai.

>how much I'd love to try and be good enough for you.

Cute. ;-;

>>24237536
You gave me an erection when you called me cute, I'm trying to hide it even though I'm all alone. I'm just telling you in case that pleases you. I kinda wish I were yours.

>>24237546
She called your behavior cute, not you. And you know very little about her. You're not thinking this through. But she may appreciate your groveling and pathetic attitude.

>>24237546
Haha, how old are you?

>>24237569
23.

>>24237574
Are you cute?

>>24237577
If you don't mind a little chub then yes, I'm also very playful.

>>24237577
But I would lose it for you and dress however you like. Also I'd be really good at cherishing you.

>>24237577
It's getting late, I'm going to have to go to bed... I was really hoping that you'd say something hyper sexual and I'd perv out and you'd chastise me but indulge me in it if I earned the privilege.

>>24237666
Nice trips. But dude, this is painful for me to read. Just use collarme or fetlife.

>>24237594
Implying it matters how you dress.

>>24237730
I don't know exactly what does and doesn't matter to you ( yet?) I was just being congenial. I'd probably prefer to not wear anything around you, if I were your sub, but that would be up to you.

I've always had this secret fetish for being a mommy. Something about a guy suckling on my tits trying to get milk and calling me mommy really turns me on.

My Fetlife is childmonster

>>24234121
You sound like the perfect Mistress to me, I'm sure there's plenty of guys out there who'd fit that dynamic so you'll find someone if you look long enough. The problem with nervous guys is getting them to open up about their kinks though.

>>24237318
>I like to come up with ideas to make him squirm and when he responds so fast to my perverted ideas I then call HIM a pervert
> I often call a guy who shows any kind of sexual desire a whore or perv
Yes. Perfect.

>>24237758
Wow, you sure know how to draw with that razor. But damn you look good if that's actually you.

>>24237758
And that "at a party" damn... oh what I would have given to run into someone like you while I was in high school... it was all I wanted. My fantasy due to my social anxiety

>>24237758
Yes, please please please continue. If you want to that is.

>>24237758
And your artwork is actually amazing, specifically the mushroom cat and the one after. but why do you hurt yourself like that?

I'm looking for a woman that can take a very casual attitude to violence. Someone that has no qualms with grabbing me by the hair midway through a conversation, and beating me black and blue, simply because the fancy took her. I'm looking for someone that loves the look of anguish painted across my face when they leave a trail of red welts down my back. Someone that will use me as their punchbag when they come home in a bad mood, that will take me to the edges of pain and ecstasy and then back again.
So yeah, your fairly standard sadistic domme really. Of course there are other aspects such as the degradation and humiliation,but I really treasure the natural inclination for extreme violence in a woman.(probably because its so rare)
21/male/Europe, masochist if you hadnt realised already, submissive and yeah, that's all i can bother to write right now. Feel free to ask for contact as I will have the thread left open on my computer while i go about my day.

>>24237690
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>>24237790
>criticises one dude for being thirsty.
>proceeds to act like he just got out of the gobi
i hope this is satire

>>24237843
Hmm, no, I'm not thirsty. She's very interesting, good with words, and a great artist. Her stories are also literally the fantasies I had in high school.

>>24231765
I just want a vanilla as fuck dom. I have no particular kinks outside of being an emotional mess that just wants to be the little spoon and have my hair played with.

>>24231765
sadistic mommy dom

>>24237873
Did you read the other one, it's called like Sexual rescue, it's a rea fantasy I had about an outcast in high school a d most of it is real recollections other than the sex parts, that was the fantasy part. And mushroom cat? It's a girl btw.

>>24237318
>is instantly hard and ready to go again, or doesn't ever go soft around me...
Are you a virgin

>>24237318
Please teach others to dom like this. It's such an emotional and romantic domination. You've certainly made a good impression on this thread alone. I think if more people experienced this they'd fall in love with it like I did. I think the reason my ex dommed like this was because she had previously been more submissive until our relationship turned sexual and I showed my submissive nature

>>24231728
>Stories

Here's my only experience with gentle femdom.

>Be eating out my gf
>She's wet as fuck and loving it
>She goes from just holding my head to forcing it down on her pussy
>I can barely breathe
>She wraps her legs around my torso so I can't move
>She squirts in my face while pressing my face in her pussy
>I drink it all up and my dick is diamonds
>I can't contain myself anymore, so I just flip her on her knees and fuck the shit out of her doggy style

Good fucking times. I think this is as far as I'd go though.

>>24237891
I just read all you've written. Sexual rescue is beautiful. I um, don't really know how to respond because of how hard it hits home for my HS self... Thankfully I'm past who I was then but the pit it left in my psyche & the effect on my sexuality, well, idk if I'll ever get past that. Idk if you'll care or read it, but I'm just going to share my story now, just want to fully flesh out the experience in my mind and get it off my chest. I guess it was therapeutic reading your story and it has inspired me to share mine. I am so happy people like you actually exist.

There were girls who were interested in me based on how I looked, but I was so awkward, anxious, and weird that I scared them all away. I thought they didn't like me because I was so ugly, thought they wouldn't even want to talk to me. I was going to die a virgin. The daily bullying & ridicule I got from people who noticed how awkward I was (esp around girls) from the people 1 or 2 classes above me took its toll. Come 10th grade, I was physically unable to talk to any girls I was attracted to. I'd hide in the bathroom during lunch because I didn't want to face the embarrassment when the girls would sit there. I hated myself. I wanted to die.

All I fantasized about was having a girl I was attracted to take the time to know me, to break through my extreme anxiety. I'd daydream for hours about various scenarios where a girl would be that interested in me for whatever reason, pity, even. She could take advantage any way she wanted. I knew I'd do anything for her, I'd be her pet, slave, anything, she could do anything to me, I would love her to do so, just so I could please her in some way. I just wanted her to touch my face and look into my eyes, I knew she could never like how I looked, but even the illusion of affection would have made me so happy.

I'd friend on FL, but I'm too embarrassed about how much I've shared.

>>24237891
Hah I'm a little nervous writing this all out because I feel like I like you now. It's silly, I know.

Thankfully I can talk to girls now, but I can't initiate sex well and don't enjoy doing so. When a girl hits on me, I get aroused and therefore awkward again, hah, so she has to actually lead me to the bedroom part so we can have sex and I can be normal again.

Also, didn't really want to be mean with the other anon, it's just that I feel it's best to discourage that type of behavior as acting like that with most girls will not work and lead to more sadness and disappointment.

>>24231765
I like a "motherly" domme, but not really a mommy domme. One who is caring and motherly but doesn't do mommy roleplay, since incest is a huge turnoff for me. She can also have hints of cruel domme, who smirks and teases/humiliates me a little, but all of it being in good fun. Maybe also a sprinkle of "goddess" domme, who adores being adored.

>>24237758
You're very smart and interesting, and a fantastic artist. Honestly I'm still really into you on a kink/ fetish level but you have a partner and a sub and I'm more into monogamy,so I don't think we'd be a good fit. You really do seem very interesting though. Could I contact you platonically? I'm just being very honest about myself. Thanks for the thrill and your posts and I hope you find lots of people to talk to or dom.

>>24238024
I was playing into the role and fantasy and didn't want to break character, didn't know how to respond to you in character because I'm not great at acting/role playing. That's not my go to behavior, just something that I enjoyed that was pretty honest and fit with her post it was fun.

>>24237755 I don't know how to tell a partner that I want to suckle and try to milk her so I get the secret part.
I could call you mommy, especially if that's what gets you off.

>>24236350
Moar! Dunno why it hits me so much, I just love the idea of having a trappy maid cleaning my house

>>24238842
I like non sexual mommy roleplay, though i've yet to find anyone else into it. All the guys I meet are only interested in an orgasm

>>24239193
Don't get me wrong, I love cumming, but I'm into it romantically as well. My kik is FourChanThrowaway if you wanna chat.

I'm interested in all kinds of domination (I'd probably even be into findom if I wasn't flat broke) but my only real femdom love is I love to torture my cock and balls for girls. I'll often go on omegle and take orders from random girls. I'll do basically anything for them short of cutting it off. Sticking needles in the glans, fucking my peehole with a pen, and crushing my balls flat are all very popular.

Happy to do the same on kik (id: LexJC) if any ladies or guys who can lie and take convincingly feminine pics are interested...

>>24239193

K where do you live?

I'll be over in 30 minutes

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last bump

A short story

> get in touch with old friend from school through social network
> we chat sometimes
> one time the subject of sm comes up, turns out she's a domme
> i'm kind of a switch, honestly i can swing both ways
> this one time i'm feeling really down, tell her i feel like doormat
> she suggests i should stop masturbating because "doormats dont deserve pleasure"
> ask her to control my pleasure, she accepts
> we play a little, online only
> in the end we break it off because "it felt weird" with an old friend

Bumping for posterity

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just one more bump

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I'm a 21-year-old male sub (another 20something sub dude, surprising right??) I guess my experience with femdom is really odd. I've always been extremely submissive. All the other guys i've talked to who were into the same sort of thing were "fine with being on top if she wanted", but i really have to be submissive 100% of the time, which sucks because it's gonna be hard as hell to find a qt3.14 gf ok with that, i also look really masculine and most girls think i'd be a power dom if anything. in reality i just want to cuddle and watch animu with a qt dom after she punishes me

>life is lame sometimes

being a male sub is like being in hell. being a male sub who actually manages to get dommed is like somehow tunneling out of hell through sheer force of will, and then looking back down at all your fellow male subs still languishing on the lake of fire, and being unable to help them.

i hate this fetish. it has a thick, thick veneer of normalcy and "We're all having fun :P!! Yayyy kinky fetishes ;) :D LOL XD" but underneath that veneer is nothing but sickliness.

the skewed gender ratio can't be fixed. you just can't do anything about it. you might think that the rising trend of polyamory might fix it, but women are extremely selective even in their polyamory, for obvious reasons. you might think that being "selective" is a good thing, and it is, but when faced with virtually limitless abundance, women are so selective that 95% of male subs realistically have no chance of getting dommed, short of investing like a thousand man hours into it.

as a fairly generic dipshit, you seriously have to be willing to devote like half your life to getting dommed. you have to become a "presence" in the "community" (kill me), then get in with some domme, and then - let me be honest - it'll be a fat chick with three other partners and she'll be fucking intolerable and insane.

on top of this, male subs are being pushed by a phony, secretly hypergamous sex culture into associating their sexual kinks with their personal identity, so tons of them are now convinced that they couldn't find happiness without a girl who primarily identifies as their femdom fetish caricature (as a mommy, e.g.). femdom has gotten weirder and weirder over the past 20 years, so that findom and cuckolding are now practically the principal activities.

>>24245211
the BDSM community is a disgusting farce. there is no community. it's essentially three groups of people:

1) ageing swingers. pathetic creepy fucks whose lives are so boring that they revolve around following sex-positive tumblrs, reviewing novelty dildos on amazon, and attending many, many "kink events" (really, re-branded swingers parties). are you the kind of person who wouldn't have liked "swinging" in the 80s? then you are the kind of person who should not like the BDSM community, because that's about 90% of its core vibe.

2) moron young women, tumblr hags who likewise have no personality or hobbies so their entire lives revolve around "sex positivity" (READ: GETTING ATTENTION FROM MEN BECAUSE THEY'RE YOUNG AND ATTRACTIVE AND CONSTANTLY TALK ABOUT SEX), who are only part of the "community" because they're young women looking for casual sex with attractive partners, i.e., they are indistinguishable from sluts on tinder. they're on fetlife because it's just a colour-inverted tinder.

men outnumber women on fetlife more than 5:1. most of the women are inactive, partnered, or professionals. most of the women who don't fit into those categories are looking only for extremely specific men, as they would be on tinder. the small, small remainder of actual women looking for half-decent guys and fun relationships is probably less than 5%, and surprise, they tend to be relatively inactive and to have profiles buried on page 2501. why? because they sense that the community is a swingers' tinder, and they aren't interested. good luck finding them.

3) pathetic horny men. half are broken lunatics, like divorcees and cheaters who can barely write in english and simply spam every girl with U R 2 BEUTIFUL GODDESS OMG PLS SHIT ON MY FACE, and the other half are clueless, subpar losers who think going "Hey :) You seem really cool! Haha Do you like Radiohead? :)" is going to get them anywhere, when they are buried in a sea of identical men and lunatics.

>>24245221
>>24245211

yeah man, i feel you. it's real shitty, especially when i hate the sex positivity meme, i honestly would love to have a loving, caring gf who just so happens to be dominant. i've been in relationships before where the girl has agreed to dom me, but the fact i can't be dominant creates a lot of issues. i can't ever think of being in any sort of """community""" for it, nor can i ever consider orbiting a woman who makes being a domme the central part of her ethos.

TL;DR: i'm hoping on a miracle essentially, and i'll probably never get it. but fuck it, i'm a masochist right

>>24245221
80% of the men on fetlife will never get anywhere. 10% are men who would be equally successful on tinder, on the basis of their pictures alone and five minutes of being assertive about meeting. the other 10% are the duds who DO get laid, but almost entirely with fat boring retards who claim to be switches despite being awful, awful dommes and making you jump through thirty bizarre hoops of
>you have to talk to my boyfriend, MasterDarkmoonNightfyre first!!
of course, all while nodding and saying "Haha I love the BDSM community :) I'm so sex positive. Of course I'll talk to your creepy retard friend!"

every woman who takes BDSM seriously is a mental retard. it's a precondition to taking it seriously, along with gargantuan ego problems. any sub with a dozen functional neurons knows what it's like to read profile after profile of cringe-inducing
>I am fierce. I am an enigma. I am the darkness that claws at your... [etc., etc., etc.]
self-aggrandising by some boring worthless nothing whore who thinks she's interesting because she passively engages in mild kink with an endless cavalcade of douches who only use her for sex.

there are essentially no normal, functional dommes on fetlife or in the BDSM community. all of them are either soulless pros, psychotic narcissists who confuse men wanting to fuck them for being interesting, jobless sluts who want money and think being a "sex worker" is a viable career because they saw their roommate get paid $200 by a creepy divorcee for blowing smoke in his face once, or 50 year old blobs.

you will not get dommed using fetlife using the normal channels. you basically have to treat it like tinder, with mild roleplaying elements. do you get laid on tinder? then you're fucked on fetlife too.

the domme you want doesn't exist. they don't exist. roleplaying, dithering skanks and gay trannies on 4chan are getting your hopes up that "mommydom" is a real thing. broads don't give a FUCK about your fetishes.

>>24231728
looking mommy dom, i have been really curious about this all and I really would like someone to give me advice..

Oh and mommy doesnt mind dickpics
Kik would be fun: heidirene

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>>24245249
I'm going to find a motherly gf and it's gonna be amazing, you son of a bitch

>>24245243
you're not in that bad a position because you aren't one of the lost causes who absolutely need a femdom caricature for a girlfriend. if you can get by with training/coaxing a vanilla girl to dominate you, you should just date normal chicks and be communicative.

aside from being terrible, women are pretty great. if they love you, they can totally enjoy domming you even when it isn't your fetish. they're really accommodating, generally.

you should learn to dom though. i can't do it worth shit either, so i have to completely fake it. but you can at least go through the motions, and pretend to like it it (even just small aspects of it) so that she can get off.

i hate this fetish! i can't wait for some pontificating whore to say i'm a bad sub because i'm not roleplaying some BDSM community norm she thinks is a real thing because she's a fucking idiot!

>>24245278
i have zero idea why, but I'm 100% naturally submissive, i can pull off being vanilla (i still can, i fortunately got the jackpot with the genetic lottery when it came to sex) but most women willing to dom me are cold, distant switch chicks. Worst thing is, I attract a lot of sub girls too because outside of the bedroom I'm very masculine and decently confident. I fortunately have been staying pretty damn true to myself when it comes to being selective.

>>24245270
Not her

>>24245249

Genuinely love it when male subs lose their fucking mind over being sexually unfulfilled. It's pretty much a meme at this point, but it's still funny.

I've only had one orgasm with a guy. Otherwise, I have to do it myself. Men don't even know how to eat pussy. We're all bitter, okay?

>>24245307
just don't narrativise your sexuality, man. i'm 100% submissive too, to what are probably pathological levels, but i don't lock myself into anything because of that. best dommes i've ever had were subs.

>>24245466
i'm not sexually unfulfilled. i'm a womanising sex addict and i hate women for the exact reason that i've had to fucking associate with them so much. all those retards and pseudo-switches i mentioned are the girls i have to pretend are interesting every day so that they will continue sitting on my face.

i just feel bad for other male subs who are all headed for lifelong celibacy.

men suck, everyone sucks, but at least men are trying. even all the creepy dudes and one-dimensional AY BB LETS FUK 2NITE ;) guys are just doing that because they have doggedly researched, on stupid fucking websites, that that is somehow the secret to getting laid (and it kinda is, if you do it right). they're doing research and shit. that's some form of trying, and where there's a will, there's a way to shape them into good partners.

women don't even fucking try. you just show up. also, please sit on my face and let me lick your shoes clean.

>>24245525

>barely literate men are trying, actually, because it works! Research says so!

No, what actually works is being physically attractive.

>i just feel bad for other male subs who are all headed for lifelong celibacy.

This is you, distancing yourself from your earlier comments that clearly show you are in a lot of emotional pain. And I suppose you're pushing it off on other men because misery loves company.

>i'm not sexually unfulfilled. i'm a womanising sex addict
>addict
>not perpetually unfulfilled

Wow, is that a disingenuous statement or what.

>also, please sit on my face and let me lick your shoes clean

Doesn't sound like there's anything in this for me, since these are your specific fetishes, not mine.

>I hate women

Okay. Go be a homosexual.

>>24245623
am i to understand by your post that you will NOT be sitting on my face

i'm pretty upset about this

>>24245623
Along with leaving men unfulfilled, what other things are your fetishes for dominating men?

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I am into crossdressing and want to be dominated

pic related :)

>>24231765

Mommy dom and gentle dom are my dream type dom.

>>24234121
>>24234962

I'm literally an anxiety riddled man with extreme introversion and with a thing for mommy dom and ageplay. Welp. Why can you internet people exist in real life.

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>>24245824
We should post pics that relate to that until a wild mommy domme appears.

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>>24245856

These pictures are all pretty great. Always a pleasure to see them ; especially the second and fourth one. I really enjoy the feeling of being protected by a woman and giving myself to her. But, sadly, it's all never going to happen. Realistically, the vast majority of women aren't in domming, or think they do, but aren't. It's also literally impossible to try and get a normal vanilla woman into mommy dom, since most associate it with mental health issues.

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>>24234121
You know, I wish you the best. With my luck in women so far, people like you are a fairy tale. Your artwork is good stuff. I can never work with pinks properly.

>>24245887
Well I personally am not into "mommy" dommes, per se. I am disgusted by incest and incest rp (no offense), but I LOVE motherly women. And there are a lot of those. I want her to be doting and caring, and help me become a better man. I'll be her protecter, her knight, and she would be my princess. I feel like this dynamic is a lot more plausible than a typical femdom relationship with cruelty. Over time I'd feel like the cruel domination and insulting would turn into true resentment and a lack of attraction.

I think the key is to appreciate any of her caring nature, even if it's a small gesture. And if sometimes she wants you to take charge, do so and make her proud.

>>24245891
Source?

>>24245898

I'd settle for any type of motherly woman. I understand I have fantasies, and that they are not in any form a good ground on which to base a relationship, in the real world, since they are just that, fantasies. I don't want to find a woman that would conforms to my ideal, I want an actual, real woman, who happens, among other interests, to be into domming. It's fine if she isn't a mommy dom per se, or isn't into exactly what I am, just that she's somewhat maternal and domming. I don't mind either doing stuff I don't care for for her, if she likes it ; even being a dom myself, although I'm 100% submissive. But, the problem is, even with that, it's difficult to find a decent woman who would be open enough to dom me.

>>24245905

Forgot the source, it was in one of my folders. If I remember correctly, I ripped it off a tumblr on role reversal.

>>24245946
How often do you come across possible women to date in general?

>>24245249
>the domme you want doesn't exist.
She does exist. I've met one who was indeed a fiery fierce enigma. Or something.

But yes you certainly won't find anyone like that on Fetlife or Collarspace. It's extremely difficult to find someone interesting in general, but I do think your chances are slightly even smaller on those sites than in general.

Anyway, good posts, you are right about everything you're saying of course. Just agreeing and confirming.

>>24245952

Not a lot. I mostly only talk to women I know from friends or women at my university and in my classes. I don't do online dating (it has never worked for me, even less than IRL). I understand it's not a lot, and that it reduces my chances of having a gf, but I don't know any other way. I'm a very anxious person and it's hard for me to go outside to places I don't know and just talk to people, so I stay with what I know usually.

>>24245211
It's not too hard to find partners when you're intelligent, funny, and very attractive.

Same as in real life, if you don't put in effort to find a good relationship, you likely won't unless you're a mix of those things I just said.

>>24245211
>>24245221
welp, i guess i must be very attractive and have great social status then

>>24234121
This reminds me of my last relationship. It had been a while since I was with anyone and every time we got sexual I was so nervous because she was so beautiful and more experienced than I. I loved pleasing her and got emotionally attached pretty quickly. She was always kind, telling me how different I was from other guys, found me more attractive than I am, and was fascinated by my intelligence.

It was not to last though, and she broke me hard. I doubt I'd be the same with anyone else again

>>24246845
This is what worries me. Girls like this always act super sweet and assertive BECAUSE it's their fetish, not because they really care about you. They can make you feel like you're special and loved and you'll stay together forever but then they just ditch you on a whim and find someone else.

>>24234121
This is literally what I want! Grovelling and feeding a girl's ego with compliments

>>24246854
With hindsight I can see that she was doing it for her pleasure but I also know she genuinely had feelings, I think this is why she treated me so badly towards the end (though when things went south I did not help the situation) She always hinted at it, I was too naive at the time to put the pieces together though.

Luckily I can be more vigilant and I hope I'm the wiser when it comes to sussing out these types of relationships before I become too attached and occupied with the wrong girl.

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>>24234121
Not even joking, you described me.

>>24247987
Info pls?

>>24248006
29m Belgium, so too far away :p.

>>24248006
32 m NJ wants to give you all his attention

Kik- goblue46200

>>24248006
He meant she described a sub like him

>>24248033
And you're mistaking him for a girl

Top kek

>>24248087
So I've been married for 4 years and just recently my wife has approached me about becoming a sub. Anybody else in this type of relationship?

We've spoken pretty extensively about rules and what happens if they're broken. I almost feel as though she's testing me and if I can't give her what she wants she's going to look elsewhere.

It's mostly pretty vanilla stuff at this stage. Like last night I gave her instructions to shower, dress up in her favourite dress and high heals without panites and had her forcibly deep throat my cock until I was good and wet then fucked her against a wall until I was finished.

Would love to hear from anyone else in this same situation.

>>24250044
i think you're looking for the kink thread rather than the femdom thread bud

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>>24250044

im a guy but as someone with strong submissive sexual feelings, you should dress her up as submissively as possible. I'm talking French maid or extremely juvenile outfits and then fuck the mess out of her. Make her feel like she can't even remember feeling normal sexual thoughts.

>>24231765
Sadistic, but perverted as fuck as well. The fact that barely anyone here is interested in desecration is troubling. It's like a certain group of people are spreading.

>>24245211
Dude, to a point you have the right idea, especially about the lake of fire, but you're also bitter to the point of being delusional in some other areas. The whole of the problem is in how the sexes are culturally indoctrinated through gender, women are taught to enjoy being submissive. I think that's the thesis of Venus in Furs.

>>24250484
Do you mean degradation? I enjoy that and humiliation as well.

>>24231765
I'm a very demanding and somewhat rough Daddy dom, if anybody needs one.

>>24250565
Nope, not at all. I mean desecration. They're different.

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>>24251041
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this thread got a bit disheartening- i'm assuming there's even less femdoms that would consider a female sub?

>>24252235
Well considering there are less gay people than straight people, probably.

But I think percentage-wise you might have a better chance. People expect girls to be submissive. Most women find submissive men a turn-off :/

>>24252235
depends really, quite alot of the dom girls i've known were bi or lesbian so you have that in your favor. Plus, as you can see from this thread, the majority of the people you're competing with are human detritus.

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>>24239193
Well then what room should I start in?

btw if you have kik I'm nemotrap on there.

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This was taken by an excellent domme after a spanking. Also collared and locked.

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>>24252565

A better closeup.

>>24245835
no offence but you need to ease off on the insecurities. I want someone I can play with not be a mental health counselor for.
You're not gonan meet anyone if you shove that on them right from the beginning

>>24252372
umphhh you're so cute. My kitchen is a pig sty if you wanna start there!

>>24252235
>>24252259
I'm bi, leaning towards females/feminine guys to be dominant towards. There's plenty of us out there!

>>24252711
i know man, t that's the point i was trying to make, whilst taking a sideways swipe at the rest of the thread.

>>24252565
>>24252610
Shit domme to allow you to let yourself go like that. Unless it's a paid domme you went to, in which case, lol

>>24252896
He did say collared and locked. In which case the fatass is probably owned. Probably by some girl equally as repulsive, or one who receives satisfaction elsewhere

>>24250601
Wrong thread for that, dummy

Male Dom here Out of interest

>>24237758
First chapo for that Body
Second your artworks are really really cool. You drawing of Eyes is impressive they Look Natural and that is a skill i envy ppl for.

>>24245221
Basically i would say that you Can Order 70% of The men at least in These groups. Ankther Big groups are There as a Form of Facebook
>>24250044
What is your Problem exactly. I mean i guess you dont like beeing a Dome? Or what?

>>24252896
>>24252902
Whoa, take a chill pill!
Vicious little things, arent you? How bout we leave the belittling to the Dommes?

b um p

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>>24252711
Hehe thank you! I would gladly serve you.

>>24231765
Maybe princess dom.

I feel like I'm a gentle dom, but there's a huge aspect of having my sub do things to please me that's part of it. Treat me like a princess, give me everything I ask no matter how absurd, and I'll adore you and please you and take care of your needs. There's also an element of switching in there, I guess. Perform the silly tasks I set, and you can fuck my ass until it bleeds (but not really, because no one likes that)

It's hard to actually fit into a single type. I also love to punish my subs for the sheer joy of making their skin red, to hear their pain sounds, to hear the sound of of them being struck, to restrain and torture them with pain or with pleasure denial...

Being a dom is far too complex to fit into a single type, I think. I also like treating my subs like puppies, but not pet play. Just like an object to receive my affection passively and obediently.

>>24234121
>Dicks are a dime a douzen in how common and eager desperate guys are. No offense but you all know it. It really takes someone special intellectually and emotionally for me to even take notice.
Word.

>>24254534
If you don't mind me asking, what do you like about crossdressing? Do you like pegging and all that kinda stuff as well?

also without trying to sound like a pervy old man, more heels pls!

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>>24255168
I like how sexy it makes me feel, that I can become this object of sexual desire. I'm submissive, so I very much enjoy pegging. There's some taboo and humiliation aspects to it as well.

And, as you can see, there's no limit to how slutty my heels can get. I just wish they weren't so expensive so I could buy a whole closet full of them!

>>24231765
For someone who is new to the idea of femdom, is gentledom what it sounds like? In charge but not smacking you around?

>>24255608
>is gentledom what it sounds like? In charge but not smacking you around?
yes, but where's the fun when there's no violence?

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I've always wanted to try sissification and being pegged--you know, the standards.

>>24255695
Nice ass baby. And thank you to anyone who commented on my art and profile.

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Fetlife is pretty disappointing in Iowa >_>

>>24255895
Iowa is pretty disappointing to the rest of the US

>>24245810
kik?

>>24256110
This.

thread dead ?