why can't I kill my sex drive and longing for romantic relations?

We were born to breed. If you distill it down, we're driven by just two impulses: survival and reproduction. You kill that, you kill half of what you are.

Those are two separate things.

The emotional longing goes away when you fall in love for the first time and get your heart torn to shreds by someone you wanted to be with forever.

The sex drive never goes away unless you take anti-androgens or castrate yourself.

Best solution is to just jerk off quickly in the morning so you can concentrate on your work. Otherwise wear a condom every time you have sex and never believe a word a woman says.

>>8513152
The emotional longing can eventually go away even if you don't get your heart broken. It just takes longer. It's actually one of the few real ways that men and women can become friends.

>>8513152
>>8513151

I can't this anymore senpaitachi

If I had the same invulnerability against women before puberty I would've graduated at 19

nowadays I waste precious study time wanking to porn and crying in my bed bc I don't have a gf to hold hands

>>8513165

*before hitting puberty

>>8513119
Get into a relationship with a girl.

Sex gets boring once after you've done it over and over and over and over and over and over and over again with the same female human.

>>8513165
jesus, how many times do you masturbate a day that it impedes your capacity to study ?

>>8513178

it's not about the time spent doing it, but how these thoughts are always flooding my mind, which winders my efficiency greatly

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>>8513175

>get into a relationship with a girl

>>8513156
>It's actually one of the few real ways that men and women can become friends.
You mean friends with benefits.

>>8513119
You can. Castration will kill your sex drive.
Lobotomy will kill your desire for romantic relationships

>>8513183
THANK YOU SUPREME GENTLEMAN

>>8513192

backing for those claims, will you

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>>8513198

he's watching for us

sleep tight, sweet prince

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>>8513175

>Get into a relationship with a girl.

How?

>>8513292
Just be yourself, man :^)

>>8513152
hit too close to home.
done with step one, time to take anti-androgens i guess

>>8513119
You totally can. Get a prescription for SSRIs like sertraline. Get up to 200mg a day. You will have almost zero sex drive and zero ability to orgasm.

>>8513175
>the same female human

Are you a alien or something? Who talks like that

>>8513362
ayyyy you got me

>>8513119
Procreation is deeply rooted.

>>8513190
>You mean friends with benefits.
No, not really. I don't believe that "friends with benefits" relationship are really actual friendships. In this scenario it's actually the benefits that decrease over time, hence why the relationship becomes a proper friendship.

You can. Look at Buddhist monks. You simply need to give it up. No porn, no masturbation, no sex, no THOUGHTS of sexuality. Obviously you can't completely escape it in modern society, but you can come pretty close with enough willpower. I'm (trying) to kill the drive now. Day 2 of celibacy. Yes, 2 days sounds pathetic but i only decided that i should start 2 days ago. It's pretty easy right now, but i expect the urge to approach nearly uncontrollable limits within a week.

>i was jerking off to hardcore porn 4 times a day, for hours each day up until now

>>8513390
I once made a day of it and masturbate 12 times in a row. Pretty sure that's my record, although I can't remember now. I could have had a session with more.

With 4 and beyond, it gets kinda difficult and you have to force it. But past 8, my brain would enter this like sexual frenzy, where I could just keep cumming indefinitely if I didn't need to sleep. Shooting blanks of course, but still felt fucking amazing. I will never experience that again.

>>8513390
This kind of MUST NOT FAP attitude always ends in failure.

One reason is that you cannot kill your sex drive without chemical manipulation. If you aren't having sex you're going to want to jack off sometimes.
The other problem is that you can't fill up a day with "not fapping". What you need to do is find something worthwhile to fill your time with so that you don't piss your days away jacking off out of boredom.
This is why monks succeed; it's not brute willpower, it's the fact that every inch of their days is already accounted for by religious routine.

>>8513390
I can't stop thinking about mai waifu.

>>8513405
This. Just fap whenever you feel the need to. At a certain age, it's like every couple of days or so.

CRAAAAAAAAWLING IIIIIIIN MYYYY SKIIIIIIIIIN

THESE WOOOOOOUNDS THEY WIIIIIIIIL NOT HEEAAAALLL

Don't take advice from autistic teenagers, being good at maths doesn't make them good at anything else.

>>8513431
great meme my friend

Is it really so that some of you have not had sex in all of your live? Boy, your missing on something important scientific observations right there.

But just like it was said, it gets a bit boring with the same female after awhile, but it does get hollow with random hookups after awhile.

The thing is to find the common ground with someone, someone to share your (and their) daily life with you. Not always easy, but you sure can do it if you just try.

Good luck.

>>8513436
ur mom is never boring ;^)

>>8513405
Just because i didn't mention it doesn't mean I'm not doing it. I just fill my time with productive activities, and when my brain needs a rest i do some light video gaming. It's worked so far, but i gotta tell you my balls already feel like exploding. And don't underestimate the power of human will, some people are simply better at self-control than others and I've demonstrated grest self-control since I was 12. Back then i cut out all sugary drinks and processed snacks, had a relapse when i was depressed a couple of years ago, but I'm back to where I was. It might be incredibly difficult, but as a conscious being your choices are literally as simple as making those choices and sticking to them

>>8513390

it's so hard

I live in Brazil -- everywhere I go there's smoking hot semi-naked succubbii

>>8513348
Not true. Was on it.

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>>8513462

So, umm, why do you guys choose to go through life without sex? What's there to gain?

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>>8513516

>choose

are you a woman?

Nah, do your homework and socialize. How hard can it be?

>>8513516
> no STDs
> no child support
> still have my house/car
> no emotional damage from opposite sex destroying you psychologically

>>8513529
Ever heard of condoms?

>>8513543

Doesn't guarantee the STD-free part.
Or the child thing.
Also casual sex is degenerate.

>>8513564
Condoms pretty elastic and solid after you have placed it on your dick. As long as you don't claw it everything should go pretty smoothly.

Degenerate? What are you? Amish? Why are you online?

>>8513564
>casual sex is degenerate

See, that's what I thought, too, until last night when I had sex with your mother.

>>8513434
it's true

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i hate being cucked by biology

what drugs will destroy my libido?

>>8513119
The primary goal of all lifeforms is to continue their existence.

>>8513788
Does it get better friend?

>>8513181
Stop being a pussy bitch.

jack it, then go study.

>>8513794
opiates
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Use Finasteride
Helps you keep your Hairline
Keeps sex drive in limits.