I fucking hate myself.
it could be worse
>>5607700
hey, you got dubs
>>5607696
This is an issue with no easy answers in real life or in VNs. Having a stance means swallowing a bitter pill, either accepting "Monogamy is the only right answer" or "Polygamy is the only right answer", or admitting that you're a hypocrite, which I can at least respect the honesty of.
I never look forward the part after you enter a route and have to go around and crush the other girls' dreams one by one. It's even worse after you declare your love for a girl and promise to be with her forever and then you have to immediately go back in time and break her heart. And then do it another three times.
I think that harems should be limited to stories that are thematically centered around them and willing to discuss the issues, or to stories that are light-hearted enough that the issues can be swept under the rug with all the other evil of the real world, or to porn.