DID I FUCK IT UP

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>>39660632
part two, in which she realizes im a sperg and never talks to me again

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Sure yeah whatever buddy. You're wigging out over some small shit

>>39660632
She probably realizes how lonely of a person you are and pities you. She gave you a chance to get out a little to meet people and you spat it back at her. Next time she asks you - if there is a next time - GO.

"Alright, we should do something soon though. "
then text her tuesday and say what's up

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>>39660721
What does that mean ?????? Are you saying i didn't have a shot im the first place?????
>>39660765
I didn't spit i thought my excuse was decent,,, she replied but i am afraid to check

>??????????
Yeah, you fucked up but not for the reason you have in mind

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>>39660811
>>39660811
tell me why, nice dubs btw

>>39660720
Fucking loser just go

>>39660720
So much unnecessary shit. You could have just left it at "Can't, I've got plans tomorrow morning." and you would have been fine. Way too much extra detail there bro.

>>39660632
>[phone number]~
>???????
are u a girl, op?
if not quit acting like a pussy toward girls.
Go to their parties and speak to them in person or they lose interest

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>>39661022
no fuck off
>>39661075
fuck fuck fuck this worries me.... you're porbably right but i hope that it wasn't too transparent ..... i can imagine her making fun of me to her friends over this
>>39661091
i had and have a reputation for being eccentric in high school/college do i dont think she cares if im masculine ....

also update. is this response positive or ?

>>39660720
>part two, in which she realizes im a sperg and never talks to me again
go find a comfy railroad track to lie down on, op.
you suck. holy shit. HOLY SHIT!!!
you got invited by a girl to a party and you fucked it all up. fuck you.
this was served up on a silver platter for you. you could have just shown up and hung out in the kitchen or outside or whatever. at least you'd have been there.

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>>39661314
Holy shit you dun fucked up.

>>39661314
>also update. is this response positive or ?
girl you barely know asks you to a party and you blow her off. she knows that going to that fin aid meeting and going to the party are not mutually exclusive. just could show up and skip out after an hour. god damn, son. i am disappoint.

>>39661314
Eh.. not too positive
She basically said "yeah, sure, whatever"
I'd give it a rest before trying to engage her in any more conversation for a while, before you get on her nerves.
Don't make up any stupid bullshit next time she tries to invite you to do something
And if it's something you truly can't make it to, just say >>39661075

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>>39661382
It's too late now bruh, if he tries to backpedal too quickly she'll know for a fact he's desperate and is willing to change his mind on a pin drop to gain acceptance from others. Fucked either way bruh.

>>39660796
You shouldn't have had an excuse in the first place. You should've gone, gotten drunk and been the life of the party. I was you at one point. Now people take me on out-of-state trips because it wouldn't be "lit" without me.

next time, just tell her that you have a threesome with supermodels scheduled at the same time. she'll understand that you are out of her league and leave you alone.

>>39660632
You fucking retard, OP. Who cares if you're autistic or not? If you don't go, you're doomed regardless. You blew off a girl that went out of her way to invite you to a party where you could've made friends.

>>39661314
If you don't even have the balls to go to a simple party then there's no way you're going to get this girl. Showing up at the party would literally have been the easiest part of this interaction, after which you would have had to charm her and show her friends that you're fun to be around, and MAYBE then you would have got laid. But the fact that you can't even show up at the party means that you're a fucking loser and probably don't deserve to procreate. Yes you fucked up. Your parents fucked up for having you. Your entire existence is a fuck up.

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>>39661492
OP needs to realize there's a thin line between 'eccentric' and 'that weird fuck who still stares at me after blowing me off'. Doesn't take much to ruin a first impression.

anon you better hang out with her the next time she asks you to. you've made it this far and she hasn't ghosted you yet, don't fuck it up for real

>>39660720
you give way too much information way too easily. makes you seem desperate for attention.

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>>39661347
>>39661411
>>39661382
>>39661418
please be wrong
>>39661385
ok thanks decent advice i am not responding to her latest message
>>39661423
don't.provoke.me
>>39661517
ItS NoT a Mattet of balls i know the people she.mentioned in her first message and i dont care for them i would rather have a one on one interaction... btw i was able to maintain a good conversation for like/30 minutes and i have good banter
>>39661561
Thanks i will

guys i think that dhe will ubderstand, especially because i didnt get the message until like right now,,, even if its bad that i made up an excuse i think that she wont care

op, you should have been on /r9k/ long enough to realize that you are retarded and can't be trusted to handle these situations properly and also that we have daily threads here where the wisdom of the crowd is able to help robot spergs navigate difficult situations. instead, you tried to go it alone and set yourself on fire. i was invited in 9th grade to a girl's bday party who was a stacy with a heart of gold, like in a movie like lucas or something. i went and did spergy shit, but i went-- and she was glad i did and i don't regret it.

>>39661607
you are so stupid. everyone here is telling you EXACTLY how you fucked up and you refuse to listen. why the fuck are you even here, then?

>>39661314
actual girl here. she's busy but taking the time to reply! she's at least a little interested. you havent fucked anything up, but definitely try to ask her to hang out sometime soon before she thinks you're not into her and moves on.

>>39661607
>guys i think that she will understand
>even if its bad that i made up an excuse
>i think that she wont care
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

>>39660632
>>39660720
>>39661314
Say this
>I'd love to see you some other time. Maybe dinner this Friday?

>>39661756
You forgot to add "*tips fedora*"

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>>39661756
>asking her out while she's at a party already trolling for DICK
Wew lad

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>>39660632
>opportunity to get a social life is laid right at your feet
>reject it

I would kill for a chance like that to be presented to me. Holy fuck I wish I could hate you to death.

>>39661607
Sorry m8, but you're lying to yourself. You're a pussy who's afraid of people, and that's why you didn't go to the party. This harsh truth is for your own good. Go read up on seduction and find a way to improve your self confidence and you will be much more successful with women, because you seem pretty fucking hopeless at this point.

>>39661666
>>39661687
>>39661728
>>39661850
i forgot to mention tjat it's true i have to wake early tomorrow... the real reason is just not as urhent as i made it sound ... I feel like because i established that something as important as my shekels are at stake she won't feel like.i blrw her off???
>>39661724
thank you thank you thank you, do you agree with what i have written about thr urgrncy???
>>39661756
sorry but i will NOt be doing this
>>39661823
i dont want a social life,, i just want to have a qt gf.... i already have a small (4 people) group of friends who share my.interests (and i have r9k )

>>39661889
You're fucking retarded mate. To meet girls you have to meet people. To meet people you have to go to parties. A qt isn't going to fall into your fucking lap you dense sack of shit. Kill yourself.

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>>39661889

>i dont want a social life,, i just want to have a qt gf
CHOO CHOO THE CODEPENDENCY TRAIN IS IN THE STATION TO RUIN ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

>and i have r9k
That's not really a net positive.

why in the fuck would you ask how the get together went the night it was taking place? the fuck?

>>39661889
yes i do. if you dont have a good excuse, a lot of times girls will overthink and assume you're just not interested. please dont listen to anyone here telling you to ask her out rn over text, its awful timing. wait until you guys have another conversation. don't be afraid to take the initiative! you don't have to wait for her to send the first message. good luck anon. :)

>>39661967
we're trying to get him laid, not fix his deep-seated psychological issues that only a therapist can start to handle

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>>39661951
i already met hr and she is already intrested in me
>>39661967
what do you mean by codependency?? also r9k is my best friend except my siblings and dog . . .
>>39662012
i thought it was over i don't go to parties obviously
>>39662015
you are sincerely very very wise thank you i have no intention of asking her out now lmao
>>39662071
ive been to an education psychologist and they wanted to give me ritalin because of my low impulse control and attention span but they didn't know that i didnt sleep the night before because i was nervous

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>>39661314
>oof

This bitch is autistic memer. How did you fuk up

>>39662152
>what do you mean by codependency?
You describe wanting a relationship that demands constant validation by each partner, leading to a deep seeded paranoia of one another leaving each other to the point where you both can't function properly without one another.

>attractive enough for girls to approach you
>has facebook
Why do normalfags even bother pretending?

>>39662152
Listen mate, this is gonna be my last post because you are very frustrating. The first step to improving yourself is realising that you have problems. It seems like you're making excuses for yourself at every turn. YOU ARE A FUCKUP. Once you understand this, then you can start working to sort yourself out. R9k is no replacement for a social life. You're not going to find a qt gf who's going to replace your mummy, and even if you do, you'll still be miserable. Start being accountable for your own failures and you will slowly begin to change your behaviour and see some success. Good luck to you, I'm out.

>>39662152
nooo you should still ask her to hang. something casual. "hey wanna get coffee tomorrow before [class]" would work. if you're on the same campus, she'll be totally down for looking for ways to pass time between classes. just don't ask her right now bc she's busy. wait a while.

>>39662238
this guy said it better than the rest of us could
OP didn't really come here for help. otherwise, he would not turn a deaf ear to us.

>>39662200
my facebook is under a fake name( i dont post only use messenger and to subscribe to my clubs' pages) , i literally have no idea how shw got it
also im really not that attractobe, like im really weak and skinnyfat
>>39662188
interesting but i disagree. i never said that i want to be inextricably attacjed to her,, i just want affection from the opposite gender. . . .
>>39662238
here's a (You) rot in hell. you have no idea about self improvemeny
>>39662257
no i will ask her eventually just.not now, and probably in person. Also (assuming ur femanon from earlier) can i get a throwaway emale from you so i can ask you questions as this progrsses????
>>39662286
im not turning a deaf ear, i am listening to what you have to say but being selective with what i decide is right.... i did come for help but not for someone else to make decisions for me ...,

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>>39662354
>being selective with what i decide is right
Son you're fucking wrong and piss poor at deciding 'what is right' if you're coming to /r9k/ for advice.

>>39662354
>i am listening to what you have to say
>but being selective with what i decide is right
so you are not truly listening, you are admitting to selective listening.
You're hearing what you want to hear, not the truth. You are hopeless!
Just go to bed, see this girl in your dreams, cause with the way you're gonna let things lead, that's the only way you're gonna be with her

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>>39662479
>>39662410
sorry but you're dead wrong.... obviously there is a lot of context I'm withholding for privacy's sake so only i can determine what applies and what doesn't, im like a boss of a company choosing only the best responses that seem thoughtful and bot trolling. im fairlt unbiased in my approach to this trust me. btw i don't see dreams on wekdays and if i did it wouldn't be of a girlni have met irl itbwould be something cool and abstract ... i hope you find love and appreciate your post even though you're mean to me....

>>39662354
>Hey guys I don't know what to do. What should I do??
Response of someone telling you you're ok and you shouldn't do anything or that she's completely head over heels for you
>Haha you're completely right guy!
Response telling you you fucked up and what you should do to improve or what you should do next time
>No you fucking moron you're so stupid, I'm so much better than you, shes absolutely fallen in love with me!

This is you

>>39662606
You need therapy friendly, you're way too fucking stupid even for robot standards

>>39662634
therapy can't makr me any less stupid as far as i know...
>>39662610
i don't disagree with u, except i mever said that she jas fallen on love with me or rhat i rhink im better tjan anyone here,,, i love r9k...,

Anon she's just looking for bodies to fill her stupid whore parties, stop pretending like she's interested in you.

>>39662606
...I....
that's it. I give up.
Good luck, OP. You DESPERATELY need it

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>>39662706
FI
UCK YOU rot InHell

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>>39662606
I'm not being mean to you, this is someone trying to give you some real world advice from someone who is nearly thirty and has been in multiple relationships/currently in one of over three years atm. I may have vitriol in the way I post, but that's only to send you a message that you'll actually listen to. I don't want you end up alone in your late 20s or early 30s like a lot of the guys around here. If you want to be alone that's your business, nothing wrong with it, though I doubt you do.

Normie here. You've done nothing wrong at all, all you need to do is message back tomorrow asking if the party was good and say that you wish you could have gone, tell her how your meeting (imaginary or not) went and then say that you would still like to hang out sometime and then suggest an idea

This will work 100%, I'm a 30 odd year old normie, who doesn't know why he comes here.

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>>39662791
>I'm a 30 odd year old normie, who doesn't know why he comes here
Are you me?

>>39662807
I don't know Brian, am I?

>>39662786
thanks you have a good heart my advice to u is to stop posting anine elves ....
>>39662791
i cant ask if the party was food again, note tha i already asked it in an autistic way so i can't do that again , also no offense but you're not a normie automatically if you post here...even if you're 10/10 chad king alpha.....

>>39662888
You're beyond help mate, you over think everything

Just stop talking to her forever. You've already decided you're going to make excuses on how to avoid her no matter what. Save yourself the enduring pain and just realize you're retarded, and in exchange, never bitch about how you're a lonely "robot" here ever again.

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>stop posting anine elves
Bruh why even live? I'm in the middle of a hurricane and anime grills will save me from Irma.

>>39663087
stay safe sorry i told you to stop if you like it be safe
>>39662916
it's called analysis
>>39662981
die.die die i never said i wanted to avoid her, ill see her tomorrow and talk to her then

>>39663160
>sorry i told you to stop if you like it
....spineless......
stand by what you say... damn...
>>39663087
be safe anon. you guys are heavy on my mind tonight.

I can see so much of myself in you OP.

Just suck it up and reset yourself for college, and dont be autistic.

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Holy shit OP stop using question marks please??????????

>>39660632
No you did the right thing. People only get in the way of things, keep focused and worry about studying. You'll never ever meet these people again in a few years. Why spend these years trying to fit in, when none of it matters anyway.

>>39664306
I bet that guy's head tastes like a Reese's Peanut buttercup

>>39665546
He uses smooth peanut butter as gel.