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Tinder is a confidence booster

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I'm not sure if it's because i'm in medschool (sorry racists,no affirmative action on my province) but after a single month i went on multiple dates by using Tinder. I was an hermit 2 years ago,similaires to you guys.

Anyway this app helped me become more outgoing. I won't really have Time to meet women and go out while spending Most of my Time studying ,it can get depressing but this app Makes hooking Up easier

Gotta stay careful tho, medschool brahs got gold diggers after Them

Any other brah still meet Tinder girls during school?
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Used tinder for nearly a year and no matches. If anything this shit gives me the motivation to want to kill myself
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>>39632847
Dude i'm an average looking black Guy. I just mentionned what i Do for a living,nothing else

They might just be gold diggers
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Should I list my height (5'6") in my tinder profile?
I don't want to deceive women but I don't want to screw myself
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>med school
>thinking tinder is anything but a collection of thots who want a free meal and dick
>having to rely on a woman with no standards to trick you into respecting yourself and being confident enough just to talk to other women
keep dating those tinder thots brah
you'll be chad status before you know it
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>>39632879
I actually matched with girls on medschool too. Most girls on Tinder i match with are educated.
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Where are you from OP?France?
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>>39633033
I'm from west africa but i live in a french place
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I had reasonable number of matches but I couldn't get any conversation past first few bubbles. Then it always dies and I have no idea why and what to do. I am socially handicapped.
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>>39633067
Off my continent, nigger
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>>39632809
How old are you? Those women look ancient.
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>>39633128
Try to be original
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post hannah's profile
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>>39633214
I match with girls from 18 to 33. Mostly 18-25 desu

I dont like to match with girls below 20

I just got 23
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>>39633290
This, I want to see that whore. Are you black, OP?
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>>39633279
How yo delete this post on mobile? It bas m'y friend's face
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>>39632871
Show us your profile nigguh
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>>39632874
No, I'm only 5'7 and I don't put my height. I always ask how tall the girl is if they don't have it in their bio. I've been rejected but most girls are shorter so they don't really care.
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>>39633407
Showing my face on 4chan? Lol hell no. So many racist losers trying to Spread their Misery. They'll try to doxxx me and email my University or some loser shit
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>>39633290
This, listen to this guy op
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>>39633521
nah, you're only interested in her to shame her or some shit, won't participate in doxxing people to make some racist losers happy
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>>39633557
Post your conversation at least
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you're still shilling this shit?
fuck off
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>>39632874
don't put it
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>>39633589
You can tell by the way he types this is a bait thread, sage and move on.
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>>39633128
You should try to come Up with original stuff
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>>39633628
Must be miserable to spend your entire life on the internet where everything is "bait"
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>>39633454
are you really that insecure about being black that any attack on you must be because your race?
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>>39633676
yikes.....

orgrgrg
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>>39634325
?????
>>39634241
quite the idiot aren't you?
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>>39634419
he's pretending he doesn't know..
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>>39634475
sure whatever fits your boat. Maybe you'll realize that outside your basementdwelling weeb world, people can't read in other people's mind

try interacting with more humans
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>>39632809
>implying it's acceptable to use tinder for "confidence" while in a relationship
Nice try, Tyrone
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>>39634558
tyrone is a american name, i'm not american

but what are you talking about? i'm not in a relationship? or are you talking about yourself?
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>>39634539
HOLY SHIT HE DOESNT KNOW
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>>39634241
Dumb sissy white boi you want to see my black dick that much?
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>>39634589
>i'm not american
Damn right you're not, darkie.
Quit claiming tinder isn't just for getting laid.
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>>39632809
>I'm a bbc slut
wew
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Works every time

Why don't you know how to treat a lady?
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>>39632874
Height on a tinder profile is like GPA on your resume. If it's below a certain threshold (6'0 in this case) don't list it.
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>>39634662
>no eye emoji
>not even a gator emoji
You sure you know what you're doing fambam?
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>>39633196
He might be in Haiti, you don't know.
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>>39634641
lol why the fuck would i want to be american haha, i always point out that i'm west african,too proud of that

meh my bro's friend got married to a dentist he met on tinder
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>Moved cities a week ago and still haven't gotten any matches

FML
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>>39634750
Yes, dont you know?
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>>39632809
I deleted my facebook a few months ago so I cannot use tinder. I want to move to Japan anyway so what's the use of having tinder if I plan on moving with the next 5-10 years?
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>>39634662
Nice,i'm never that direct

Got my friend to lend me His shisha tho
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>>39633409
wait hold on, you're black, I'm black, you're 5'7, I'm 5'7. Could it be? Could you be my long lost fairy godmother?
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>>39634827
You can sign up with Insta and phone number
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>>39634854
>Mario kart

Tell her you hope she's a fan of the banana with the emoji
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>>39633676
Dude I'm getting some red flags. Don't get attached to her. Don't get your hopes up.
Even my captcha said "warning"
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>>39633676
>I'm a bad boy *insert gif*
>I'M A BADDER GIRL *insert gif*

god normies are pathetic. all talk. laying on your ass watching netflix ooooh you're such a wild one.
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>>39634859
I deleted that too though. Damn
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>>39634981
>After expressing his rage against "normies", he went back to masturbating to drawings of little girls like any self-respecting non-pathetic person would
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>>39635061
I'm laughing at your garbage method of flirting. 100% for sure cringe my dude.
>I'll feed you food and tickle your muffin top
top jej
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>>39635098
>After mocking the cringey "normie" he went back to playing dating waifu simulator
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Normies get out OUT OUT
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>>39632809
Over 150 matches?? Nice. I have only 20 so far (after 3 days). Any tips for profile and picture?
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I tried tinder for a week and got a few matches. Most of the chicks on it are weird though.
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>>39635227
I recently removed my bio and i still get plenty of matches

I got 1 serious pic, 2 normal pics and one pic in the which i'm Laughlin
>>39635243
I liked 1 weird profile, this cat ,i Found it funny. But dont take it too seriously, about 20-30 girls deleted me cause i didnt reply to Them. It's just a number game. Plenty of girls are just on Tinder for validation. There's some huge whores on Tinder too, i can post some profiles
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>>39635243
This cat, i forgot to inclure the pic
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Should you actually start off with le epic funny one liner? It seems like something that happens on internet pictures but not irl

but then again every opening I think of sounds forced and cringy
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>>39635354
How would you rate yourself out of 10? You seem to get a lot of matches just based on fetishization but would you say you mostly get whites, blacks, or berbers?
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>>39635436
Not op. Try to work with her bio. If it's empty go for simple questions but no "how are you". And then try to work out something from the answers she gave you. Don't try to be le funny dude all the time though
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>>39635493
I went with "hey x, tell me about your tattoos" to someone with that in their bio and they didn't respond and now every time i look at it i cringe

thoughts?
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>>39635463
nah, i only had maybe 5-10 match on fetishization, the other girls are normal

i mostly get white girls i'd say 85% white girls desu. the rest is black,asian,latina and arab

matched with a single indian girl
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>>39634539
Why are you so angry at basementdwellers
Is it because you have to work? WAGEY?
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TINDER ONLY WORKS WHEN YOU'RE WHITE

Asianbot here we i get 1 match per 2 months,
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>>39635463
oh honestly i consider myself average but many people tell me that i'm attractive. i'm not exactly sure

one female friend was shocked when i told her that i considered myself a 6, she told me i was a 8 and 8.5 when i smiled

>>39635558
i'm still a student,don't work yet
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>>39632809
You're not a "brah".
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>>39635098
He has a point tho. That was pure cringe. You could have cut that into half and still come off as confident and valuable. I guess I'm too old.
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>>39635570
>don't work yet
Thats good! Never start!
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>>39635570
Nigger, you are pissing me off why little white cock is shrinking into a razor sharp diamond with anger
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>>39635588
Guess why it was cringe.
Thats what the average thot thinks is funny.
Females dont have any sense of humor
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>>39635516
Honestly I see no cringe there. Sometimes, after being matched they won't answer you either because they lost interest or have like other 100 matches lined up + the guys she is already speaking to.

I only realised how much pain in the ass that is when I got matched up wit some not that attractive women.
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>>39632809
that black chick got Curved LOL...
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If it Makes you guys feel better, here's a sick rejection

I wanted Tammy (the black Girl) but she curved me by telling me that it's the White Girl Who thought i was cute
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>>39635914
Im swiping in Montreal now
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>>39634241
>Not wanting to be doxxed = being insecure about being black

k
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I found your girl guys
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>>39635570
GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT GET OUT NORMIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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I got tinder plus for a month and have so many matches right now. I'm actually Snapchatting with one girl now. She's even sent me nudes and stuff. I think I'm gonna make it bros
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>>39635914
I've never used Tinder.

Why are there two of them?
Does tinder offer shared accounts or what is this?
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Found on some tinder slut's instagram
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>>39636245
Group Tinder, i was in a group with my friend. I only tried group Tinder for a week tho
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>>39632809
>no affirmative action on my province
>quebec
montreal is the san francisco of canada
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>>39636279
whatever lol, every single member of my direct family is a medical doctor (except parents) my eldest bro is a neuro surgeon and works in the u.s.a rn ,making close to a million a year
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Is just being yourself a good idea when it comes to tinder?

There's a girl with no bio and I'm thinking of referencing that it makes it hard for me to message her, is that a good idea or is it autistic?

my thought is that if a girl is genuinely interested in me it doesn't matter what i message as long as i am being myself
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>>39636499
Well i'm kinda being myself but remember that each girl got countless guys messaging them. Your competition is crazy, there's good looking PhDs with plenty of hobbies who travel all around the world and shit

be yourself,don't stress it but don't be weird. If you are weird then don't be yourself
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>>39632809
>province
>Canada
Ya ok. Our country is affirmative action central
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>>39636554
It's hard to know what "weird" is exactly

But I know that pretending to be something else is almost sure to be at least slightly off
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Im a 5-6/10 guy, tinder has consistently made me want to kill myself. DO NOT USE unless you are at least +7.
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>>39636706
why did it make you even more depressed?
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>>39636732
I get matched with no one, the ones i get matched with dont respond to my messages

at least im bi and i can sleep with other boys
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>>39636848
u match with guys at least?
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>>39636913
yea, i do
orginafd
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>>39636913
>>39636930
its a sad state of affairs that I had to select "show me only men" even though I find women more attractive. But swiping women is such a waste of time and a destruction of any respect I never had for myself in the first place.
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>>39636968
do you match with attractive men?
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>>39637494
I get matched with other 6s Id say???
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As someone who can't use tinder, what are some other good apps that a shut-in like myself could use to unshut myself.
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>>39637550
why cant you use tinder (not that you should)
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>>39637550
you want an app to meet new people?

>>39637520
so you never match with 8s?
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>>39637629
You need a Facebook account and I don't have facebook
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>>39632809
Hey man I'm in med school too
What country you in?
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Lol. A roastie who sent me mixed just sent me this

Betas btfo
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>>39632809
>>39637676
I'm in med school too. Didn't know there were more of us here. How suicidal are you?
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>>39637657
I dont believe anyone I got matched with were 8s, no
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I had tinder for 3 months. I swiped right until running out of likes every day, only not liking the obvious bots. That's about 9000 women. I got 3 matches, all of which were bots. I had confidence before, but I certainly don't now.
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>>39637781
there's maybe too many guys in your area? idk you might be at the bottom
>>39637676
canada, how are you doing? last year i had no social life,it's bad. I'll go to med parties more often
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>>39637820

There are too many young guys in almost any area. I'm just hideous apparently too which is the main problem.
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>>39637701
she's saying she feels the same in the chat, but really she thinks he's a cringy beta? do roasties have no shame??
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>>39637838
take pics outside with a good camera? don't take selfies and don't use filters
>>39637851
i don't even understand what dkm means
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>>39637781
Not meaning to be offensive but, are you fat?
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>>39637873
>i don't even understand what dkm means
nor do i, but the rest of it is pretty clear
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>>39632809
>I'm a bbc slut
Hahahahahahahaha holy shit

Anon, why are you even talking to Tiffany at this point?
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>>39635914
Speak english, or speak french ..... just one though.... FUCK quebec
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>>39632809
>all these gurls who just want BBC

this makes me even more discouraged cause i only got a 6 incher
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>>39636146
this is a redditor
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>>39637952
Because it's not real, anon.
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>>39633676
This is fucking cringe

If this is what it takes to entertain a roastie I'm out
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>>39637952
what do you mean?

>>39637970
calm down, less than 10 talked about bbc
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>>39632809
good for you normie
there are people like me who almost never get matches. tinder made me lose confidence
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>>39638014
>"I'm out" he said, he then proceed to entertain himself with waifu body pillow
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>>39637925

No. I am 6'7, about 205 lbs.

>>39637873

I did. No luck, it was seriously affecting my mood near the end so I just stopped. Plus side is that I now hate women!
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>>39638067
did you at least write "6'7" in your bio? go to the gym and get fit, you'll get more pussy than you can handle
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>>39638090

Yes, I did write that. A few years back when in school I was in the gym 5 times a week for a year and a half. I got laid as much as I did before I started: 0. But hey I could lift heavy stuff and run! So I eventually got bored and stopped.
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>>39638067
>6'7
wtf, that is extraordinarily tall
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Tinder is contributing to the downfall of civilized relationships. Anyone who is using these apps instead of bettering themselves in their own strengths and weaknesses, is at fault. You will never find true happiness in matching with someone who is also talking to other men for the sole purpose of sex.

Delete all social media, go improve yourself, and lift those weights. Tinder is only a temporary crutch, not a final solution to your problems.

4chan is the last thing I have to drop, and it's going to be tough, but I will be at full peace with my self.
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>>39637851
>>39637873
>>39637946
dkm = dont kill me

Shes laughing at him secretly but in chat shes being nice
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>>39638243
? what are you on about?

i don't even take tinder seriously it's just that during the exam period, instead of staying at home studyin 24/7. I can meet girls with it and get rid of some stress

thanks for the concern tho i guess
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>>39638322
WHY ARE YOU IN R9K YOU FUCKIN NORMIE
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>>39637657
>so you never match with 8s?
can you explain why you asked this?
what will you deduce based on this?
that I am far below 6/10?
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>>39638500
how am i a normie? i certainly wouldn't call myself a robot tho
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>>39638518
don't overthink stuff

i just assumed gay people were not picky
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>>39638523
want me to spell it out?
you have S E X with G R I L L s
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>>39638580
yeah so? what's special about that?
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>>39638598
Nothing really, but in the eyes of incels it's the be all end all.
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>tfw I slay on OkCupid and get nothing on tinder or bumble

Same basic profile, what's the deal?
Sheer demographic difference?
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>>39638139

Yes. And I still can't get women, so what does that say about me?
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>>39638730
i mean, thats like freakishly tall tier though
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>>39638827

Yes, everyone tells me how tall I am. Every single day.
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>>39639017
hmmm u sure a girl was never into you? like "woahh how tall r u" all giggling and shit
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>>39635568

Blackbot here with the same numbers pretty much 1 or 2 matches in months, and it never goes anywhere.
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>>39640114

Yes. They don't talk to me unless it's some sort of commerce required exchange or for work. I normally just get one word answers and shit otherwise.
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you in QC OP ?
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felicitations, amuse-toi bien.
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>>39635568
Did you read the thread? Op isnt even fucking white you brainlet
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>>39638014
look at it as a game. here is a roastie who likes norm things. You are not a roastie and don't like normal things. The challenge is to pretend well enough that she is enamoured. Go and have some fun
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tinder only motivated me to socially isolate myself and swallow the black pill and conscript into the upcoming race war
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>>39640470
>>39635568
Maybe it's your location fucking you up
In my shithole of a country I did just like you, 1 match every few months but then I tried tinder with fakegps and got an average of 2 matches per day in Japan and Korea, matches with beautiful young girls no less than 7/10
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>>39641499

Blackbot here, I'm in NYC.
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>>39641516
get fakegps and put it anywhere in the world to how you perform

and don't listem to the 1488 fags saying you shouldn't bother with asians because you're black, I'm black too and did much better in asia than in Brazil which is full of blacks
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>>39641602

Androidfag here and "fakegps" search brings up dozens of results. Which one should I go for?
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>>39641613
I used this one:
https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.lexa.fakegps&hl=pt-BR
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>>39641359
I pretty much treat tinder as a game, desu. I don't think I would want to date a girl through tinder and most of the time I don't know what to say, but I often ask my friends if they want to "play tinder" and pass them my phone. It can provide amusing results.
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Fuck off you normies, Tinder is only good if you were blessed to be above average looking. If you're a 6/10 or lower then you're fucked
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post more, i want to see these bbc sluts, and unmatch those who matched you

t. montrealer
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>>39632871
>They might just be gold diggers
while it is true this happens, it is not purely they are planning to trap you for your future income.

having education and prestige is important, women want someone "equal" or better than them. Some random dude on tinder is a NEET for all they know, why would a girl with a meme college education want to date a NEET, she thinks she deserves better company.
Class system exists, no one wants to go lower class besides the occasional virtue signal slumming it.

Also if this is real and not a LARP, for a black guy who is only average looking, because of social stigma you might be held to a higher standard of social class requirement for a normie-nonblack to date you. There are chads of every race where women don't give a fuck and slut it up quickly, but for a normal looking guy with additional barriers, medschool def helps break those barriers. Less dads will be angry their daughter brought home a doctor.
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>>39632874
No way. Just wear workboots and lifts on your date and don't take the shoes off when you fug. It will add about 5" to your height. Add 5" to your current height and put that on the profile.
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>>39641602
>don't listem to the 1488 fags saying you shouldn't bother with asians
why would a 1488 care about blacks and asians?
its only larping asians and angry hapas that would care
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>>39642248

If a NEET looks like a Greek god, they don't mind. It's all about how you look.
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>>39642291
I'm a NEET and a virgin and I get a decent amount of matches and messages on Tinder. I get about 5-10 per day in my country, and when I change my location to Asia/Latin America/Africa, I get a match with almost every swipe.
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>>39642287

White nerds get super triggered by BM/AF, you must be new here.
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>>39632809
>Get like 5 matches in a month
>At most get like two one-word replies before they stop replying altogether
Wow I'm so confident now.
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>>39634724

I'm 6'3" should I put that on my resume/tinder BIO?
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>>39642760
I'm also 6'3"
I put it in my tinder bio and I am unfortunately not swimming in pussy.
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>>39632809
>I was an hermit
>med school
wew lad more like an hero
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>>39642291
>If a NEET looks like a Greek god, they don't mind. It's all about how you look.
Op described himself as average and is talking about the difference showing he is a med student makes. I don't think this is only due to direct gold digging although it is a real thing.
If he looked like a Greek God he would not notice a difference saying he was med student (in matches and girls being slutty)
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>>39634948
Its tinder, not marryme.com.
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>>39642472
i just don't get it.
being protective of your "own" women i can understand.
nerds think asians are their women?
i thought they all wanted 2d anyway
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>>39642922

Yep, it's pretty crazy right. It's true though.
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I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


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