By a woman or a man
>>39576861
Myself
Orginabanana
>>39576861
>be me, 19 years old
>orbiting this qt classmate
>she invites me to a party
>go full flirting mode
>she is defensive as fuck
>avoids me for the remainder of the party
>ask her friend what is wrong
>"she only likes you as a friend anon"
>go home immediately and cry
I've learned my lesson, fuck roasties
>>39576861
>You're just... Well you know... It's not like people want to be around you that often. Not that that's a bad thing!
>oh.
>You'll find someone who clicks eventually. Sorry.
>>39577535
I can only imagine what disgusting behaviour would constitute flirting to you.
>Start work experience
>Ugly weeb girl works there
>Try my best to become friends with her, she's just not interested in even casual conversation
>Stalk her online, she's obsessed with some 90's teen tv show actor and has hundreds of pictures of the guy on her blog
>Say fuck it and ask her if she wants to hang out sometime
>She says no
I mean, I'm not entitled to every woman I ask out but fucking ugly weeb girls really need a reality check. She's clearly holding out for some 8/10 chad who looks like her favourite actor, which will never happen. Women are scum.
>in cafeteria
>qt walks over, hands off a note to go sit at their table
>nervously/awkwardly walk over
>girl classmate tells me my oneitis has a crush on me
>"buy her tickets to the dance anon she'll love that"
>"yeah anon, her parents will pick us all up and we'll go together!"
>heart flutters
>feel amazing and happy
>buy tickets
>get the courage to approach her at her table during lunch
>hand them off sheepishly
>table is giggling
>work my ass off
>cut grass, do stupid chores for neighbors
>get a haircut and a nice suit
>have parents drop me off at her house
>knock on door
>her parents answer
>me: hello, you're supposed to drive oneitis and I to the party right?
>they look confused
>"we... well we already drove her there with her boyfriend"
>absolutely devastated
>cry on sidewalk
>phone rings
>it's dad
>"hey son, how's the dance going?"
>>39576861
>"h-hey guys, watch me get this girls number"
>walk up to girl and her friend
>"hi, how are you?"
>they look at me in digust and walk away
Could hear my friends cringe behind me
>meet SEA girl from my area on tinder
>Basically,I think she is perfect in everyway
>She runs up to me and hugs me
>We spend the day doing bugger all,talking and what not
>Find a place to eat
>Eat
>Date is over and I walk her to her car
>I tell her I want to tell her a secret
>She says ok and leans in to listen
>Go in for a kiss,thinking I am "Chad af nigga"
>Backs away as soon as she realizes what I am doing
>"J-just kidding haha"
>Walk away and go to my car
>Drive home
>Several hours go by and I text her
>No response back
>"Nah she is busy. I will text her tomorrow."
>Months pass and still no response
And I thought being 6'0 was being easy mode. It put a bit of humility into me.
>>39577716
Chad always wins man
>>39576861
>This past year a friend from my old class in college cheated on his girlfriend and dumped her.
>She is a very sweet girl, short, cute, a bit naive...
>So she starts texting me like five months ago
>I'm being all nice because I'm not and ass, but also don't want to get to attached because insecure.
>She's flirty as fuck, texts me every day.
>Eventually we go out a few times, have a good time, find out we have some things in common.
>We keep coming up with things to do together and actually do some of them
>She tells me about her ex-boyfriend
>Turns out my friend and her had a very toxic relationship
>He didn't like her to go out with friends, he lied to her a lot, he was a self-loathing and timid piece of shit and so
>Some time later she tells me she loves me but that his cheating-piece of shit-abusive ex was being very nice to her lately and wanted to give him another chance because she loves him
>Ask her what that meant for us
>She gets angry at me and never talks about it again
I've been on a fucking rage for a while since then, better now but damn that dumb sweet girl picked a literal scumbag over me
>>39577760
There's no worse feel than being second choice. Especially if her first choice is a scumbag like that.
>>39577787
I guess they both have what they deserve if they are unable to move on...
A stagnant and toxic relationship, that is. Can't help but to feel bad about all of it though.
>>39577859
It is a women's duty to be submissive and man's duty to be dominant. Girls don't actually want to be equals. They want to be treated like princess's. And if they can't be treated like one they can and will move on. It is OP's fault . If he wasn't such a baby boy he wouldn't have lost her. Simple as that.
>>39577886
OP here.
The boyfriend was a cuck, but you are right, she wanted him to hurt her, just like her daddy.
Seriously, don't get me started.
>>39577960
I will get you started. Start. Right now.
>>39577960
I'm listening oregano mulato
>>39577989
>>39578055
What? You want me to talk about her Oedipus complex and by-the-book daddy issues?
It's kinda boring really, nothing you wouldn't expect of a normal, modern-day girl who thinks she's a special snowflake and can do whatever she wants because she's here to eat the world.
She has a +3 bonus in the cocksucking skill and that's it.
>>39576861
i push people away until they actually don't want to be with me anymore
so, all of them
all of them were the most painful