What would you do if you ended up getting the girlfriend you wanted but realized it takes up a lot of your free time that you enjoy spending alone?
hey, i still got the girlfriend. isn't that a victory?
>>39555477
stay with her for two years even though neither of us are happy and then she cheats on me with my best friend hahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahaha
Im in that exact situation right now. It's draining desu. Shes great and she adores me for whatever reason but goddamn I dont like talking about pointless things.
>>39555564
I know right. Juggling work and a girl is draining. It leaves no alone time especially if they're clingy.
>>39555477
Options
1. Keep being miserable
2. Do your own thing and make her miserable
3. Have an uncomfortable yet honest conversation about relationship limits, goals, expectations, needs.
If you end up breaking up over the latter, whether you can't agree, or can't communicate about it properly, the relationship is doomed anyway.
>>39555564
>>39555604
I'm in a situation like this as well. She's also at the stage where she just feigns ""cute"" jealousy that comes off as passive aggressive when I want to hang out with my friends, that I barely hang out with anymore. Who woulda thunk girls are different than boys???
>>39556044
>>39555564
tfw one of these posts is probably my boyfriend
She's gotta sleep sometime.