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What's stopping you?

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Hey, anons, I'm curious what you think is stopping you from going out and enjoying your life while you're still young? There are plenty of fun things to do, places to go and people to fuck, I mean... well, you get it.

So what's stopping you?
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>>39534855
I used to be confident. BUt since I was rejected and realized I wasnt good at anything I got really depressed. So I end up here with no friends, no mtoviation, and no self-confidence either. And my memories to haunt me forever
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>>39534878
This could be you, anon.... Originally.
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i cant sneeze in the direction of my city without burning $20
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I have no idea how to approach a person and I have no idea how to maintain a relation with a girl. Besides that I am anxious as fuck about social situations.
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The knowledge that failure is inevitable and the fact I can't 'enjoy my life' so to say.

>fun things to do
You need money for that
>places to go
I've been to many places but feel better at home
>people to fuck
JUST HAVE SEX BRAH HAVE SUM FUN COME ON DUDE

Get this normie shit outta here. This whole 'you're still young just have sum fun' mindset is vacuous @ doesn't work on autistic depressed people
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>>39534895
I'm not even that ugly anon, and that is the sad truth
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From until 26yo I was some insecure virgin recluse. Now, with 30yo, I'm a mindless horny bastard fucking every girl around with no regrets, hell, I even fucked the mothers of some friends of mine.

I'm out of control today.
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>>39534855
>what's stopping you?
Lack of funding and a bad location.
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>>39534911
Ugly?! Beware his wrath!!
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>>39534855
Robots usually have back stories or autism that make them shy and antisocial. They also dwell on past fuck ups and don't want them to repeat.

As a person with high functioning autism, I am telling everyone here to let go of the past and focus on the present. It helped so much when I came to that realization.
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I talk like a retard, that's the main thing that deters me. A few moments after I speak they're going to come to the conclusion I'm some kind of imbecile. Then deemed unfit dating material, perhaps justifiably. What a handicap. You might have something else to offer but it doesn't matter. Picture rel8ed.
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Also
>broke
>oftentimes vile
>low IQ
>homely
>unable to drive
>fledgling alcoholic
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>>39534895
That guy only only has long hair, the rest is pretty normal. Im 19, 5'3, skinny, with a baby face that doesnt even grow beard and look underage as fuck. There is nothing i can do to improve here, i go to the gym trying to get more weight, but it is really dificult.
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>>39534855
I don't find anything fun or appealing.
>fun things to do
What? I honestly don't find stuff enjoyable anymore

>fun places to go
where? why?

>people to fuck
ok this one I agree, but I want a genuine connection - i don't need a woman to masturbate
people don't find me interseting tho, and I never meet new people

what do desu
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>>39535350
OP is just baiting. You cant simply go out a have fun alone in a party where you dont know anyone, when normies say this they expect you to always have a very large circle of
male and female friends who go out almost every day of the week. When you have no friends or a small and limited circle you dont have many options
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I have no friends. Going alone to parties and clubs or discos makes me look like a pathetic failure. These places are only good for good looking people or social butterflies. It's like a catch 22 you need friends to get into social circles.
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>>39535350
>but I want a genuine connection
AKA you're too puss to just fuck a bitch
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>>39534855
>Hey, anons, I'm curious what you think is stopping you from going out and enjoying your life while you're still young?

Mostly that I'm not young.
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>>39534878
This is what's wrong with autists
>rejected once
>WAAAHHHHH LIFE IS HARD I'LL NEVER TRY AGAIN!!!!!!
The point is to get rejected so many times that rejection no longer bothers you.
>yeah but Chad never gets rejected
Yeah but you're not a fucking Chad though. Rejection is life.
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>>39534855
Nothing at all anonsan.
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>>39534855
I'm ugly, white, 5'6", and a friendless KHV. That simple.
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>>39536553
>This is what's wrong with autists

>autism makes you bad at socialising

WOW
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I'm tired, that's all.
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>>39536553
I'm not even an autist but the rejection triggered a bunch of hidden stuff
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social anxiety. I'm basically shaking anytime im outside my home.
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>>39536617
Being bad at socializing and giving up after being rejected once aren't the same thing. I used to be bad at socializing and have been rejected plenty of times but that never stopped me.
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Don't Drink (Recovering Alcoholic)
Hate People (Sperg)
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>>39534855
because i'm no longer young. i'm fucking 35. wizard. the only women around my age interested in putting out (and even that after some dating now) are those that spent their first 30 years as a slut and got scared into settling down. i don't think i even want sex without genuine love and sure as fuck i wont get that from them.
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>>39534855
lmao normie fags will never understand
gtfo my board
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>>39534855
having 0 friends to go out with, and if you go out alone, you will think how you are alone and pathetic whole night drinking beer and being a wallflower all night
and no girl wants a depressed guy approaching them, even if they are above average looking
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>>39536757
good for you, it means you don't have avoidant personality disorder.
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>>39536946
Oh yeah. This too. Thanks for the additional feels anon.
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>>39536963
How many robots have avoidant personality disorder? How many are even autistic? The majority here just gives up too easy.
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>>39536523
if you are under 50 and not too fat or ugly woman, there are loads of guys who would fuck you, not even ugly ones
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>>39536984
Do you really need these things to be friendess and depressed? I'm a perfecty sane individual, anon. I just never feel right.Not here, not now
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>>39537007
Even if too hat honestly. I'd (and have) hooked up with fatties happily.
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I'm weird so I'm not allowed to be part of the world. If I tried I would be harassed and pushed back into my corner.
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>>39537019
No, I was friendless for a long time and I'm still kinda depressed. It's just the "rejected once and gave up forever" thing bothered me.
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>>39537041

Have you tried since you left high school?
A lot of people who are dicks in high school grow up afterwards (not all, but most).
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I'm 24. Is that young?
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>>39537081
The entire world is like that. Not just a few people in high school.
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>>39537060
I didnt gave up. Im still attracted to girls, I still want to try sometimes. BUt the thinking goes "why bother". I tried to be social in high school and I ended up rejected and completely alone. Sure I tried once and I can try again, but again...why bother?
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>>39536495
If you think like that you are just a normie trapped inside a robots body. Having a gf is much better than fucking rostie hoes.
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>>39537093
>The entire world is like that.

If your behavior is so appalling that every single person in the world would harass you for trying to be part of it, then that's on you.
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i was raised as a Jeovah's Witness. it's literally the no fun allowed religion, you're not even allowed to celebrate the holidays.
my mom said i had birthdays, but i don't remember them and i didn't experience Christmas until i was like 12.

i'm literally not meant to be with other, normal people. i'm a relic, not even sure how and why i'm still alive.
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>>39534855
Why go outside when I can just play video games and watch anime? Of course I'd like to have sex but it's not like it's easy, it's really fucking hard when you're autistic manlet so there's no point even trying.
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>>39534855
>So what's stopping you?
The absence of things to do. I have no interest in drinking, partying, fucking, traveling etc.
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>>39536695
this
I can't talk to other people and I feel extremely uncomfortable when I'm around them in general
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>>39534855
I have to watch over a disabled mother basically
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>what you think is stopping you from
>going out
I live in a boring town, with my parents, and don't have a driver's license. Also I work nights.
>Having fun
I have no problem finding entertainment online, if not "fun".
>fucking
I'm boring and have no social skills or friends. I'm neither particularly ugly nor attractive. I don't make an extraordinary amount of money. The most direct reason is that I have never tried (clearly I'm not saying I think I would be successful if I did). It just seems like it would take a lot of time, effort, discomfort, failure, rejection, etc. and I'm not sure it's worth it. The opportunity to get started seems like it's passed me by.
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>>39537098
Because it may work eventually. I had no friends from age 13 to 20. I'm 21 now and I just came back from a trip with 8 other Chads and Stacies. On this trip, I had my first kiss, nearly pulled a 40-year-old milf, got to grab some thicc latina's ass and had a very large voluptuous black woman grind her phat ass meat on my dick at a bar.

For two years straight, my life revolved around sleeping and watching porn. The only thing that gave me excitement was a new video by one of my favorite pornstars coming out. I would mark my calendar for these videos.

You might not turn your life around as much as I did but goddamn f.a.m at least make an attempt.
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>>39537332
Could I even enjoy that? Could I turn around the fact that I don't know how to speak my own language without pausing ad searching for a word, all because I'm such a recluse that I speak nearly only english with you here
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>>39534855
because only the very rich can afford justice if you are falsely accuse of rape by a vagina. I value my freedom over everything and vaginas are a threath to my freedom.
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>>39537083
Well OP? If you create a shitty bait thread, you at the very least have an obligation to respond to posters in your thread. Is 24 young or not?
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>>39536553

>Chad never gets rejected

Of course Chad gets rejected. But Chad just doesn't give a shit because he knows he's worth more than the roastie who pushed him away and has an abundance mentality.
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>>39537473
Yes because I turned that around too. 17 to 20, I spoke to no one but my mother and my 3-6 year old nephew. I developed a stutter for the same reason you forgot how to speak your own language.
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>>39537761
I never had any friends, any kind of meaningful relations. I get where you're coming from honestly but put yourself in my shoes if you lived the same thing. Most people I see at my age are social and look relatively happy. I think back on times when I was way more hopeful and knew my way around with my mothr tongue, even got lauded as an orator back in the days but its over so why bother
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>>39537332
Well i will be 19 soon and everyone at my uni puts me apart. I think its pretty normal cause im 5'3, skinny, and look very underage. I look forward that in the future i will look more mature/old and try to get things around. If nothing happens i guess i will root away like the rest of here
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>>39537761
If you have the skills to just turn your life around like that I don't see why you would even bother thinking you were ever behind other normal people. I would like to hear how this turning around process unfolded.
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>>39537803
I'm physically much more of a normie than you, but being the same age and being at uni, I can asay that the alienation is just as big for me. I don't know why, maybe fear of inadequation or shyness, to be honest nothing puts me apart except the fact that I tuck shirts into my pants, but I can imagine your pain being trapped in such a body.
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>>39536553
Its not by being rejected once you dumb dumb, its multiple times, and there are several experiments with animals and humans proving that after trying many times with no sucess you will eventually stop trying.
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It's called autism, OP
Dunkirk junex
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>>39537819
It's not about skill, it was pure luck. Years and years of trying, something finally worked. This is why I say don't give up. Who knows what will happen.
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>>39534855
I like peace and tranquility and those places as much fun as they are can be chaotic
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