So my sister's birthday was yesterday. The day before as a surprise her boyfriend of 6 years proposed to her. Honestly he's a nice guy and a hard worker, and from what I can tell has a good head on his shoulders, but honestly I don't know how to feel about it. I've been running around all weekend to help with stuff and do congratulations and send cards to relatives, so I haven't been really able to process it.
I just left my parent's housewas visiting for labor dayand now have time to consider it. They aren't getting married for probably a year at least, but I just don't know.
How should I feel /r9k/?
Come on guys, help me out here. I know I should be happy for her but I'm having a hard time.
>>39522906
Do you not trust him? What's bothering you about them getting married compared to before? I think you should trust your sister.
>>39522906
>do congratulations and send cards to relatives
What are you some kind of bride's made bitch? Stop it, or she'll use you as a surrogate husband. What favors has she ever done for you? Exactly.
>>39523480
They're both only 22, it just feels sort of young.
He hasn't quite finished school yet and I have no idea where he got the money for the ringI know he can't afford it on his job's salary. Right now my sister is the bread winner between them.
I know I should trust her but I'm worried about their future.
>>39523518
She's my little sister? She and the rest of my family mean the world to me. She's been there for me when I have gone through severe depressive cycles. We've not always been on the same page, but for some reason she still looks up to me as her older brother.
I just don't want to let her down.
>she'll use you as a surrogate husband.
She can just use her actual husband.